I have a female friend, and yes it is possible to have a female friend, especially if you're the one that friendzoned them.

Anyway we were talking about a sticky boy situation she was having, and what his intentions are, and she said:

"But isn't that the rule though? Don't assume. If a guy wants something he'll ask for it."

Girls expect this. They expect us to ask for stuff. If we want to go to the zoo with them, they expect us to ask for it, and not do some weird indirect plant a leaflet to the zoo underneath their pillow bullshit.

If we want sex? They expect us to ask. If we want their number? They expect us to ask.

Chances are, if you're alive today, one of your ancestors at some point had to go to war, and survived to have children. He had to be ballsy enough to enter a battle screaming with a sword and face his enemy face to face. Fortunately we don't need to go to war, we just need to be ballsy enough to ask a girl out.