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LIES MEN TELLHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:30 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:07 PM
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FDS MEMESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:11 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:49 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:14 PM
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PICKME CULTUREHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:16 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:00 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:54 PM
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RANTHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:15 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:02 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:25 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:10 PM
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SCROTES MADHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:06 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:16 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:18 PM
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#JustLVMThingsHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:15 PM
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#JustLVMThingsHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:15 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:02 PM
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LVM LOGICHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:13 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:22 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:19 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:09 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:31 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:09 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:08 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:20 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:02 PM
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DISCUSSIONHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:15 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:09 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:06 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:21 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHaveNoIdeaWhatToPick/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:51 PM
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They regularly shit on motherhood and caring for others as being unworthy of respect in spite of demanding it This! They are so illogical with this one. Like... Are they really trying to convince women they should be into it while openly shitting on women who actually do this too? I've seen way too many conservative men who were laughing at women for not choosing STEM jobs but rather the ones in health care or teaching, suggesting women overall are inferior because of it, but they also accussed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:06 AM
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I've noticed that too. I always like to joke that nobody in this world is as d*ck obssesed as straight men are lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:19 PM
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And the proof of that is the fact that they get sooo mad over not being able to comment here. They can't stand being ignored by the same sub they hate so much lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 12:28 AM
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This. Sadly the truth hurts most of the time, but it also helps us protect ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:09 PM
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they apparently had been talking about my lack of love life This is so ironic that an MGTOW is mocking you for the lack of love life. I swear, these are absolute hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:10 AM
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I actually had one that once he told me that I just shrugged my shoulders and started to walk away who grabbed my arm trying to make me stay so he could momlogue at me and make me argue with him wow this is so pathetic, I just pictured it in my head. Was it some random guy or an acquaintance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:36 AM
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I mainly had on my mind guys with smaller crimes on their account, like theft for example. But you are right, If a rapist got raped at this point it would be pure karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:27 PM
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We have too much empathy to do this compared to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:58 PM
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As a woman in my 20's, I'm sad how many women my age are preassured by lib fems to tolerate more and more shit from men to be the "cool girl". I was at the birthday party of my friend yesterday and she said casually how her male "friends" keep saying her mom is hot, they want to fuck her and will try to get into her pants. She was completely okay with that and I was shocked. That's just the most fresh example, but I have waaay too many to give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:49 PM
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Or she would get a major "make over" and then he would suddenly change his mind and fall in love with her xd I've seen it happen in many movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 07:41 PM
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. I felt great anxiety and distress when wearing a swimsuit in front of him from the age of 13 and I thought I was weird for it I had the same problem but with my grandfather. I felt extremely uncomfortable showing up in a swimsuit while being 12 years old in front of him. He always made sexist and sexual comments/jokes about women around me and when I became 20 years old, he openly started to make jokes about flirting with friends my age. Now I know that me not trusting him as a child was a goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:16 PM
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It’s almost like they throw a temper tantrum because they can’t fuck us. The whole "friendzone" revolves around it. Somehow young men and teenage boys, frustrated they can't just fuck any woman they are friendly with, managed to convince so many people they are such a victim of this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:40 PM
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I wish it worked for me, but they usually say something along the lines: "every woman says that and then she sleeps with me anyways". Just ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:18 PM
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Honestly, he totally can get all of it, but of course he would have to sleep with some gay sugar daddy and he does not want to do the work, he only wants the benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:58 AM
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Also women having Standards and being happy in life is a hate crime They do treat it like a hate crime when we dare to be happy on our own. Some of them want to be needed so badly, that they hate us for simply being able to function without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:51 PM
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There is an article about that jealousy : https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/16/parenting/jealous-of-baby.html "The shifting dynamics in my relationship with my wife are key to these pangs of envy. Before we had kids, I was the one my wife needed to look after. I’d always operated under the notion that my brand of helplessness was endearing, adorable even." Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:25 AM
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I'm also in my 20's and look underaged lol It's very annoying and brings mostly the bad kind of attention or people just don't take me seriously. No matter how old I am, when people can see my face I'm suddenly eternally "too young" to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:26 PM
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One of the biggest lies I've heard from lib fems is that men and women benefit from sex exactly the same. They tend to ignore all the additional risks women face too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:32 AM
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And they shame any man who wants to be a good partner by calling him "simp" and "beta". I see young men overusing the term "simp" a lot lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:38 PM
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Same and it changed with my beliefs everytime too. My friend also joked about suicide a lot when she was depressed and suddenly stopped when she healed. That is why I hate when guys say something offensive but always try to cover themselves with "It's just a joke! Don't be so sensitive". I want to see the same energy from them when we make jokes about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:13 PM
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Absolutely. I honestly wouldn't be surprised If the guy commenting there was an abuser himself. They like to cover each other's backs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:15 AM
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Yep, another guy in these comments was even more disgusting. He claimed If women were submissive they wouldn't get this fate and called Gabby "human waste" while the "pick me" woman was fully agreeing with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:16 AM
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. This fiction that all 13/14 year olds, even ones that dress like "stacies" in fashionable outfits, are living extremely sexual lives is so gross and pedophilic. It's basically a major projection of their own sexual fantasies on these girls. Lolita is a perfect example of it as a book, where a pedophile thinks a girl is trying to seduce him, but it's all in his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:14 PM
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I hate how anytime a topic of financial abuse is brought up as a warning for women to always make their own money, there will be plenty of people saying "but not all men are abusive!" These same people think it's easy to spot an abuser right away. Plenty of psychologists who actually worked with abusers or victims of abuse claim that in most cases it's not easy to spot an abuser, because they tend to act nice at first, before trapping their victim. It's not all men, but women still need to be ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:10 PM
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Most of the time they are not even aware how much work women put in those situations. I've heard plenty of stories when husbands were super eager to "organize" a party and invite tons of people while later dumping everything on their wife and being shocked that she is angry because of the whole idea. "But it is going to be so relaxing!" - they say without considering that only they sit on their ass, while their wife is preparing food and taking care of guests. This work is invisible for them. Ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:55 AM
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I wonder what he told the police. That you rejected him or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:20 PM
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That is a really good advice! I will do that the next time it happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:32 PM
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This topic reminds me of 7 rings by Ariana Grande. The whole song is basically about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:58 PM
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generally most women have enough empathy to have concern about people they interact with one-on-one, even if they’re not in a relationship with that person. Yes! This! When I started dating women I was so surprised how caring they were and very careful with consent and boundaries. I rarely experienced the same from guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:12 PM
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Yes and they are often very loud too. Just sitting next to them can be a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:10 PM
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places that have armies of single men in them are perceived as “low class” and deter female customers It's fascinating, I thought I was the only one who saw those kind of places as "low class" and off-putting. I guess it's just our intuition to avoid big groups of single men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:09 PM
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It's ironic how their way of "solving" problems they mention is just to shoot random people. Shows what kind of sadists they are. They never cared about the good of society, they do all of that because they believe we all exist for their pleasure. They feel entitled to our whole existence and service
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:40 PM
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I really wish I could warn these women an ugly, delusional scrote their way walks. Please, give it a try (even just after he talks to them). I used to believe it will be awkward but then I said to myself "fuck it!" and actually told them what I've heard from these type of guys about them (I did that in a polite manner). It worked and they avoided these misogynists later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:06 PM
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I've heard it depends on a day. There is some day when uploading images is not allowed (but I don't remember which one was that)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:55 PM
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The good thing is that I know how deep the depravity of men can go, the bad thing is that it's honestly a little depressing, but at the same time it reinforces the fact that no, I wasn't a contrary little brat growing up It's better to be positively surprised (when you finally meet that hvm, even If it takes some time) than being constantly disappointed when you put too much faith in lvm ;>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:20 PM
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And for the lurkers who are wondering which misandrist witch wrote this book, keep in mind that Lundy Bancroft is a man, and interacted with far more men re: their relationships than you have. I already saw some angry articles about this amazing man written by *shocker* some other men who completely took out of context what he described in his book. It is very clear that Lundy Bancroft is writing about manipulative men, not actual male victims but some people see what they want to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:31 PM
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In USA maybe (I'm not sure about the law there), but no way in Europe. There are too many laws protecting personal info in EU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:36 AM
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Men view others as objects. Exactly and it happens in all areas of life, workforce, politics and relationships. It's all about their benefit and exploitation of others. People are just utilities for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:28 PM
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she will be posting on relationship advice later something like "guys my bf tells me he doesn't value me, what does that even mean?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:06 PM
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"Oh, your partner must be really 'petite'" I already love her haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:43 PM
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At worst, of course, it’s painful and traumatic Sadly that second option is not as rare as these dudes usually assume it is :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:59 PM
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hey just say “b-but sex. SEX. Women get sex. If only sex was as pleasurable for women 90% of the time like it is for men heh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:45 PM
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Last time I saw such desperate men on facebook lol I rarely check my "other" folder, so usually I don't see their messages. When I checked this lately, imagine my surprise when I realized the same guy wrote to me "hey" over and over again but different months, even years. This happened to me at least with 3 different guys, usually acquaintances of my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:32 PM
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This is exactly what happens when you have no self-esteem. You start to feel worthless on your own and try to find worth in other people. My friend used to be like this too. When she was at her lowest she always desperately tried to get into a relationship with every male that came her way. When she finally found a bf, she tried to steal his whole life and identity, even his friends because she hated herself and her own life so much. When she got better mentally, that's when she learnt how to fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:03 PM
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I honestly think dating women would be a safer bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:29 AM
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Wow, definitely saving it for later. That is a very disturbing but useful information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:33 PM
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after being rejected once in 12th grade Omg I wish it was a joke, but they actually do that. I've been through it too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:30 PM
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Exactly. Women are attacked there for the most ridiculous things. But those male beasts with absolute lack of self-control will keep putting the blame on the victim, because it's easier for them instead of working on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:40 PM
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It's literally about a woman simply existing in public spaces and doing anything instead of just walking fast with her head low, because those dangerous animals otherwise will feel "provoked" just by her staring at them. If a man did a video or tiktok there, nobody would care. It's not even about an action anymore but just being a woman in those spaces. Some men are stupid enough to write shit like: "what did she expect going there" (when a woman is assaulted) as If even showing up in certain pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:34 PM
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Wow... he had a wife and still did shit like this. "don't let those genes go to waste" - I hope he wasn't talking about his genes, because they should "waste" for sure lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:05 AM
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So many evangelical guys preach against prostitution online but have a ton of child porn on their computers Even though they want Madonna for a wife they would never allow prostitution to fully disappear. Men hate prostitutes, but they still want to exploit them. This is why the argument "men are treating prostitutes like trash, so obviously they are against prostitution" (it was on sexworkers sub) doesn't make sense. There are so many men who disprespect pornstars and all kinds of sex workers b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:11 PM
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wow they are truly depraved, aren't they? is there even such a thing as a "normal" male anymore? seriously, almost all the "good" ones I've known turned out to secretly see women as inferior or subhuman. I have no hope anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:45 PM
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thank you, I hate when we get lumped with them while they are responsible for 90% of those bad decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:39 PM
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I just wanted to write that! :D A true guardian angel, she was very lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:28 PM
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If my family member started an affair at my funeral I would come back from the dead just to smack them and die again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:45 PM
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"comfort women" I still can't get over their stories, they are absolutely heartbreaking :( It haunts me constantly how many "average" men turned into brutal rapists because of war.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:43 PM
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Psychologists claimed that no matter what the woman does, an abuser won't change, because his way of thinking is the problem, not her behaviour. I think it applies here too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:47 PM
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They don't see women as people, but expect empathy from us. I'm so tired of people who try to sympathize with incels. It's like trying to empathize with a psychopath who lacks empathy himself... oh the irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:40 PM
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I saw a sad study earlier about kids living with abusive parents, where girls most of the time turned out masochistic and more likely to pick abusive partners, while boys turned into abusers themselves in the future. It's weird how the same environment literally turns women into victims and men into predators, right? I remember there was also this weird case of a serial rapist, who became a criminal because of past trauma related to... witnessing his sister getting raped ( that was his excuse). …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:12 PM
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It's only "judgemental" when you point out something that benefits men. I'm sure If it was about a woman enjoying humiliating men, he wouldn't have the same reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:25 AM
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it does not matter what his wife/gf/fiancé is studying or has any hobbies because “she is going to be a stay at home mom soon anyway” Wow this is disgusting. I have nothing against stay at home moms but do these guys truly believe a woman's only purpose is to breed and take care of children? Even stay at home moms have plenty of hobbies and interests, children are not a woman's whole identity. With their mentality I can already tell these guys would make shitty fathers and husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:28 PM
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Libfems are trying to cope by ignoring the reality or rebranding it while we drop hard pills to swallow but at least we remain honest with ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:02 PM
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Is there a form of sending her a PM warning her of the dangers? Yes, but the OP needs to send us the link to the original post :( I have no clue where it is, I tried to find it on relationships sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:45 PM
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by avoiding or killing. Exactly lol. If we were supposed to treat them like actual predatory animals, then we would shoot rapists on the spot for hurting a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:40 AM
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I'm worried she might be in danger honestly. You never know what someone with such sick fantasies about hurting others might do. If I was her I would secretly collect my stuff and nope out of his house with the speed of light without telling him where I'm moving in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:08 PM
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nerdy/virgin/ shy After so many real life stories I start to get more convinced that the "shy, nerdy virgin" type breeds the worst kinds of creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:06 PM
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Exactly. Conservatives usually care about purity and that's why they are against sleeping around, while we care only about benefit and the best interest of a woman, not her purity (because this concept in itself is bullshit and only benefits men).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:26 AM
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"gfs are great cause you can touch boobs anytime" It sounds very objectifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:40 PM
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Yess it's incredible! Lundy made so many important points in this book, it's useful even If we are not in a relationship with an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:20 PM
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Can confess to having had weird fantasies about being eaten alive (vore, though this started in a non sexual way as a child) and murdered or kidnapped and isolated and bound up - all of which are easily developed into sexual fetishes - when i was still suffering from a lot of self hatred. As my mental health improved, these thoughts vanished I had exactly the same experience. When I hated myself I started to have weird vore fantasies about being eaten alive by some demonic woman (who I later lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:37 PM
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their hearts are in their dicks for sure lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:34 PM
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I don’t fuck with Conservatives Thank you, exactly. It's not even just about views and opinions anymore, it's literally about the lives of women and minorities. While conservatives treat it like some silly debate from their priviliged perspective, the lives of millions of people are going to shit because of their decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:17 PM
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Exatly. Men who don't want to control women have no business in trying to convice us we would be so much "happier" as housewives with no rights. It's always controlling/abusive men or men who grew up in such household who push the agenda that feminism "ruined" everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:51 PM
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Men know they’ll never get face a consequence. Yes and it literally impacts the amount of rapes that happen. There was an article I've read somewhere that put together different cases of rape and in each one of them rapists believed they won't get caught. They were actually pretty shocked that they had to face any consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:15 PM
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Even my damn dentist tried to ship me with some "nice guy" who was "too shyy" to find a gf himself. I got so irritated. I just wanted her to fix my tooth, not to treat me like a waifu material for her favourite male client. We can't escape people treating us like accesories for sad men to make their day better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:53 PM
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IT's JuSt a FaNtAsY Everything starts with just a thought. Certain fantasies should not be ignored, because one day they might be put into action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 11:30 AM
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There is no discrimination in dating because it’s the private / intimate sphere so the ruling concept here is consent. You consent / decide who you have sex with. Would a straight short guy be called out discriminating for turning down a gay guy on the basis that he shouldn’t discriminate against the LGBT community? Speaking of that, some trans women accuse lesbians of being transphobic for not wanting to have sex with their d*ck. It's kinda fucked up. Isn't accusing someone of being discriminat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:16 AM
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I can imagine how creepy it would look lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:55 AM
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Ummmmm I guess it’s about ummmm the nudes on Snapchat 🤡I have nowhere to gooOoooo He honestly sounds like a kid explaining himself to a mom after being caught red-handed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:38 AM
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"But unfortunately there is wide acceptance in our society of the unhealthy notion that passion and aggression are interwoven and that cruel verbal exchanges and bomblike explosions are the price you pay for a relationship that is exciting, deep, and sexy. Popular romantic movies and soap operas sometimes reinforce this image " - Lundy Bancroft, "Why does he do that?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:15 AM
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I just realized they truly rarely talk about love while the topic of relationships comes up. I know only one guy who from a young age was very serious about relationships and wanted to be a good husband and a father in the future. The rest only cared about sex. I remember everytime when a guy in our friends group found a gf the only question that came up was "did you have sex with her already"? Nothing about what kind of person she is and If he's happy with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:22 PM
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ew don't these guys have any shame? It seems they actually don't care what a woman thinks of them, they really just came to use her body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:19 PM
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It's kind of funny, because there is absolutely no logic in love and relationships. They always just happen (assuming it's not treated like a business deal but rather a legit connection). So trying forcefully to apply logic to something that is strictly related to emotions is ironically... illogical lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:16 PM
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I want to know too. This sounds extremely creepy. I hope that the OP wasn't filmed secretly too (she would propably find it eventually on his laptop). My paranoid ass would think about it for months If it happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:01 PM
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I hate when they gaslight us into thinking it's okay because these are just small jokes. The kind of jokes or comments someone constantly makes is always a reflection of the state of their mind. And it applies to all people, not just men, but they expect us to give them a pass on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:41 AM
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Exactly. By that logic these men should also be slaves of millionaires and all kinds of inventors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:12 AM
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true, it's kinda like with the police too, when women protest they tend to intervene more (at least in Poland) than when aggressive men do, because police is genuinely afraid of them. There were videos of them running away lol I can imagine teachers would be even more afraid to deal with violent teenage boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:25 PM
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Wow.. you must be one of those feminists Ah they use it everytime :( We are always those "evil feminists" for simply calling them out on their bad behaviour. They can do no wrong and we are supposed to stay silent and take their disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:37 PM
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I didn't know France had such a big issue with harassment :0 Although the only time I've been there (when I was 13) some dude in his 30's gave me a message with his number when I was getting off the train. Back then I was naive enough to take it as a compliment but now it creeps me out that he wanted to go on a date with 13 years old girl and I for sure looked my age. He also knew I was a foreigner because he wrote it in english.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:45 PM
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Exactly! I remember how during my early teens boy bullies were very violent and straight up stalking girls outside the school, while girl bullies just acted mean. Guess who got the most shit from teachers... it was the girl bullies. Nobody cared about the boys who beat innocent targets and stalked other kids but girls being "bratty" is such a big deal suddenly. Sadly it's not that different among adults. A woman says one stupid thing and she's trashed by everyone. A man is accused of harassment …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:52 PM
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Yesss I honestly can't wait to look older! :D My mother always sees it as bizzare (she's terrified of aging) , but I love the idea of being way older. Sadly, in my family all the women from my mother's side have baby faces and I have one too :'<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:41 PM
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One day I kept count and was harassed 12 times in 4 hours Omg this is awful. I can't imagine being harassed that often. Can I ask what country is that? You don't need to answer If you don't want to of course. I know that some people decide to hide their country for privacy and safety reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:39 PM
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I will! I just started reading it and it's very interesting, I will try to write some main points from it in a post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:22 PM
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They are absolutely disgusting. They still demand respect after acting like this, it's ridiculous. Btw teenage boys are the worst when it comes to attitude. I'm glad I don't have to see them as often as I did in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:20 PM
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It's in polish: Natalia De Barbaro "Czuła przewodniczka" (translation: "The loving guide")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:52 PM
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Oh I didn't notice haha. They get deleted so fast that I didn't even get any notification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:46 PM
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Yep, but they will gaslight us to death instead of taking responsibility for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:43 PM
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And then she will hear: "What about these young men's future?" like it was in case of Brock Turner. There is no justice in this sick world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:39 PM
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I never understand why they are so disrespectful towards women they sleep with? And even women who they feel attracted to. I witnessed one of my male "friends" speaking the most disgusting shit about a woman he "fell in love with" and I couldn't stand it, because she was like an angel to everybody. I stopped being friends with this dick and told other women how he truly was, because he loves to play a "nice guy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:34 PM
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Yes, they do for sure. I had a lecturer who made nasty jokes about women especially when they were present in a class (there were only 4 of us) just to make them feel uncomfortable. I usually look very peaceful, so he asked me If I was mad since he wasn't sure lol He was craving attention in the most pathetic way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:26 PM
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Some dude at the end said "even just laughing at this shit we are going to-" I assume he knows this is horrible but still takes part in it, which makes it even more evil. They are like a bunch of sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:23 PM
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And I'm sure 99% these same guys will scream "not all men!". It's always these assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:20 PM
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You are literally in your 20's, it's fucking sick that the world is treating women like you as If you were old . Soon we will hear that 18 years old are "post prime" too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:28 PM
9

This! I had exactly the same experience and it always confused me, but it could be related to higher confidence in nice clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:08 PM
95

Literal man-child. He doesn't get what he wants and he is ready to throw a punch because of it. If only overgrown children like this weren't dangerous...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:03 PM
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We need to start calling these men "attention whores" since they love to overuse this on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:59 PM
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On one hand I'm sad women reproduce with such men but on the other If we had kids only with a good father material, human population would drop drastically lol The majority of men don't make good parents and plenty of statistics prove it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:04 PM
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What I don't get is why these insecure people stay so insecure even when they found a partner? I remember meeting a woman, who was sad that men didn't flirt with her and she felt ugly, but she also had a bf and I was like wtf. Why would they feel the need to impress others anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:05 PM
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Even feminist subreddits are banning us lol. Recently one of top comments on Ask Feminists sub was deleted by mod, because it was written by a woman active on fds (she didn't even mention this sub in her comment though). You know what the mod wrote to her? That they don't allow people from "hate subs" like fds to have top comment there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:55 AM
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It's all about men's likes and perspectives. They think everything revolves around them. If someone dares to have different likes and hobbies, they start to argue with this person as If they couldn't just accept not everyone is like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:51 AM
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It would be funny If you pulled uno reverse card on them and said: "Well now you hurt me so I will have an excuse for my future bf why I treated him like shit. Thankfully I won't do it, because I'm not like you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:27 PM
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It's freaking disgusting to see adult pick-me's and their perverted partners teaching young people that this shit is okay. I can't count how many times I've seen on sex ed forums and groups people like this telling teenagers that violent sex and porn is totally okay If it's consensual. Let's ignore all the cases of women ending in a hospital or dying because of sex like this. And these are not even adult women, but teenage girls. The moment you speak against those sexual acts you get trashed and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:26 PM
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He's "ashamed" but he won't seek therapy. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:20 PM
47

yeah, you feel like you are literally against the whole world sometimes..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:50 PM
48

It's all about their ego. It's very narcissistic too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:51 PM
85

Exactly. And you know they care when they are generous. I'm spoiling even my close friends, I can't even imagine not doing the same towards my romantic partner. It feels almost like he didn't really care about his gf that much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:45 AM
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Wait, so he INVITED her and still expected her to cover 50% of it? Idk how it's in US, but in my country when someone invites others (doesn't need to be a romantic partner), they need to be prepared to pay for the person they invited. It would be a shitty move here to do something like he did even towards a friend. This dude simply has no manners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:42 AM
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Pop culture is all about teaching young girls how to be The CoOl GiRL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:16 PM
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They want the government to give them wives on demand xD I'm sure these dudes are incels and incels without irony believe they are owed a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:16 PM
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Lmao and what do they expect to get out of it? To gaslight us into dating them? Because the only goal of our sub is to make women set decent standards, boundaries and level up themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:12 PM
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So these guys don't love their wives. Otherwise they wouldn't dream about "upgrading" them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:59 PM
10

Here it is: https://www.instagram.com/p/CQJomvNBmTI/ Happy roasting :'D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:04 PM
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Turning a man on is not an achievement, in fact it almost makes me feel gross like eww…you just wanked that thing to a 12 year old anime waifu and now you want to say it likes me too? THIS. I recently saw a woman on quora claiming a man's orgasm is the biggest compliment for a woman, because it means she is super hot and it was so cringy to read. Men jack off to almost anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:01 PM
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They propably don't, but it's just a story contest of who can take more from their f*cked up bf :') After all, it truly became some sick fashion lately. I even see teenagers bragging about violent sex on the internet and irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:44 PM
10

Here's the original post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CQJomvNBmTI/ It's the fifth picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:24 PM
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super permissive of choking Let me guess... They only meant choking the woman right? To "show her where is her place"? It's irritating and sad how fast they forget about literally all Jesus' teachings. Jesus was all about love, never tolerated violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:21 PM
39

Reminds me how Kanye desperately tried to sexualize her, it was very creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:18 PM
44

conservatives in the US oppose bans on child marriage Holy shit, that's really sick. Only pedophiles would oppose that ban :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:56 PM
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Yes exactly, why we view younger men as babies but men openly brag about wanting to have s#x with younger women?? It makes 0 sense to me They objectify these women, don't see them as fully human. They compare them to "fresh, new, sealed (their words) product". It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:46 PM
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Yep, but libfems on youtube are commenting how proud they are, "she's so liberated, she's finally doing whatever she wants!" xd Imagine being so clueless and not understanding how music industry is trying to sell everything with sex. It's weird how Billie suddenly switched 180 degrees from dressing asexually to becoming overly sexual. There is nothing wrong with being sexual, but my point is, that change was very sudden, out of character and a little suspicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:27 PM
38

As a fellow Pole, I have no hope for this country. Germany is easily available, I'm planning on leaving Poland behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:18 PM
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I heard from a few men that this convention only help women with false accusations These men don't even care about false accusations, they just try to silence women. False accusations around the world statistically vary from 3-10% (depending on a country), which is still a small number, while the majority of rapists haven't been in jail even for a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:16 PM
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In Poland the conservatives tried to pull out the convention too and their only argument was: "It's against tradition to mess with someone's family interest" (by "interest" they meant domestic abuse)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:08 PM
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My friend also almost got choked to death by her military ex, because he got jealous..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:28 PM
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Honestly, I've been thinking about this lately and what you wrote might be the only rational option out there. We truly are alone with this. The "protection" from police is just an illusion. They only make it worse by arresting women who tried to protect themselves, while they ignore complaints about their abusive partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:26 PM
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Don't you know? We are supposed to be inferior and also enjoy it. A woman dares to have good self esteem? How awful! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:40 PM
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yesss, because otherwise she's a "gold digger". These broke boys truly don't know what they want. Working, liberated woman - evil, traditional woman who wants a provider - also evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:38 PM
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Yep, but they will lie that sex is their "love language" lol I've seen so many articles writing about how men express their love through sex, but they will literally fuck with anybody, so how can we know he is doing it "out of love" this time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:46 PM
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Why aren’t they changing the world they created to be more safe for each other? They’re the ones that launch wars, and propose economic systems that cause this level of cruelty in the first place. Such egg heads. Exactly. But they love to put women into the same cathegory as men who cause the majority of violence. When men commit crimes during war we constantly hear "it's just human nature" as If women did the same. They complain to women that men make up the majority of victims of violent crime…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:30 PM
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When women help each other they get upset and chant 'what about men', because we are taking 'mommy resources' away from them to focus on the 'inferior sex'. It even happens to lesbians. Some men truly believe we exist only to please them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:27 PM
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and how the women really control everything This always gets me. I've heard this argument so many times, but this "power" the sub has is just an illusion. If dom decides for whatever reason to not listen to sub when they are tied, then they really have no choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:53 AM
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But that goes to show that we absolutely have no problem getting dick And let's be honest, If something is so commonly available, then it loses it's value lol There is a reason why women don't pay for sex like men do ;>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:38 PM
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Yep and they choose when to call it "just natural" and when to deny it based on what is more advantageous for them at the moment lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:45 AM
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The "VeteranWomen" subreddit had a lot of stories of sexual assault and discrimination when I was reading it several weeks ago. I noticed that from time to time there's another story like that popping among regular posts there. It's sad how common it is :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:52 PM
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What types of searches did you do? That might be an easier way to ask because then I can search for that stuff myself. I've had trouble coming across some information at times! And thank you for sharing! 🤗 I joined out of curiosity military forums, subreddits and I've read many articles about this issue. I also know two sickos personally who joined military and one of my friends got almost killed (through choking) by her abusive ex who also worked at military.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:31 PM
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Oh my goodness, do you mind if I ask what you've read? Oh it's hard to even get it all in one piece lol It was basically experiences of many men & women who worked as military. But it was filled with deep homophobia, sexism, bullying of all kinds and of course traumatizing women (and some men) sexually for "funzies". The story you described about a woman working at a shop reminded me of another woman who was forced while working at the military by other men to watch some hardcore, degrading porn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:49 AM
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I remember reading about what various women in the military went through and one woman talked about how she thought she was accepted by the guys in her shop. Military always gets the worst out of men. I've read some of the filthiest shit from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:07 AM
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suicide bait Recently my friend got raped by her male "friend" and not only he was aware that what he did was rape but also threatened her with suicide If she won't be with him. Why would anyone care about his life at this point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:00 PM
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The author of this shitty blog should be in jail. From what I've read on his page, he is literally dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:06 AM
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So when are we buying a mansion in a woman only compound and moving in with our dogs and kids? I'll help babysit both. All I ask is that we have a pool. Omg I love this idea so much! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:40 PM
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.we literally can’t win And that's why we should stop caring. I know that it's easier said than done, but it's the only way. We need to stop caring about men's (and some women's too) opinions and focus 100% on our own goals. The right kind of people will eventually appear in our lives on their own, while all the toxic ones will be left behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:16 PM
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Exactly. Better safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:10 PM
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true, way too many are like that and even the ones who are not, rarely stand for other people. They let other guys shit all over women so f*ck them too :>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:48 PM
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It feels like there's no way out of this because we're going to be fought at every turn by men and women alike. How do we handle these things? The only advice I have is to avoid these people at all costs. I live in a country that is filled with such victim-blaming conservatives and after so many calm conversations with them I can tell you, there is no hope. They are already lost and they won't change If they are not willing to reflect on themselves (which probably won't happen anyways). Most of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:14 AM
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Only it is from those shitty pickup artists or redpilled forums on how to get a wife as a maid and how to keep her under control. The sub-dom dynamics became popular among married red-pill men lately. They don't even hide anymore their desire to turn their wife into a slave, but they excuse it with a "kink" now. I swear, these men are a bunch of sociopaths and narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:58 AM
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They take it personally, because on the subconscious level, they know it's about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:47 AM
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Oh the scrotes are mad😂. My inbox tells me I've ticked off some incels😱😱 That's a good sign sis, you are doing an amazing work If they are so pressed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:34 AM
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Wow I was not aware of the hatred for a single moms. What is their beef with us? Every single mother I know who is a single mother myself included is a single mother because we needed to get the heck away from abusive exes or someone walked out on us. The kind of men who hate single mothers tend to blame victims of abuse for what happened to them too, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:27 AM
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But then hear them bitchhing about lack of families This this, so much this! I lately wondered why men bitch about family "values" being lost in modern world (of course they blamed feminists) If they don't do ANYTHING to make it better? They still expect women to do all the work and they don't see a problem with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:24 AM
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They are so oppressed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:19 PM
163

I love you for the "don't kink-shame me" xD <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:17 PM
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It's true though. In my experience they get even more nervous when I quietly ignore them instead of telling them openly to fuck off. I think it's because of uncertainty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:32 PM
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Sometimes there is no logical reason behind behaviour like this, these dumbasses just feel like it would be "fun" to do it. I can't count how many times some dude did something hurtful for "funzies", because he thought it's going to be such a brilliant idea, while ignoring my lack of consent to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:05 AM
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Later they will complain why women don't want to sleep with them. They love to ignore all the risks we have to deal with. That's why I also get pissed when they dare to speak against abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:01 AM
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This is what happens when one person gets a ridiculous amount of resources compared to the rest of society. Naturally, resources = more power and in modern world, money = resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:05 PM
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I still remember that story of a police officer who told a 16yo girl to fuck off, she tried to escape an abusive situation and had nowhere to go. wow police is actually useless for regular citizens...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:58 PM
13

What boils my blood is all the "frumpy" and "you're probably ugly" comments like, what are we, 10? "If you don't agree with my views, you must be ugly!" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:54 PM
9

they experience wall their whole life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:33 PM
66

Yes and the government.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:52 PM
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Cops and military personnel is synonymous with LV abusive men. Yep, it's everywhere. Even in different countries. I guess police truly attracts psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:47 PM
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This is stalking. He is commiting an actual crime and he's dangerous for 100%. He might seriously hurt another woman in the future. Dudes like this at best turn out to be an abuser, at worst a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:44 PM
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Plenty of men still believe the world owes them a partner. Nobody is entitled to a partner, you get along with someone luckily or you don't, that's just how life is. Whining about it is childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:04 AM
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The only thing they are going to win in real life is a fist in their face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:05 AM
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They really do. For 2000+ years they made sure every other group stays inferior to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:03 AM
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Yesss this! I know a dude who dates only women who are 18-19 (he is in his late 20's) and every woman his age knows he is a total mess but these younger girls get so impressed by him, because he is so "mature" (only for them though) lol It's really sad to see them cling to him knowing what an ass he is. Everytime he brings his "new girlfriend" around the group he is working with, literally everybody gives him these silent, awkward, judgemental glances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:51 PM
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Logic and Facts ™ lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:46 PM
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A demon, that's what. Unfortunately, I think most men are just useless and never grow up. They just want a momma to take care of them from cradle to grave..no love for anyone but themselves. Wait till they run at you with arguments: "But men created everythinggg! You should be thankful you stupid womyn!" It's funny, beause it usually comes from dudes who don't do anything themselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:25 PM
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From what I've seen on the internet it turns out true "masculinity" is for most guys standing only for yourself, seeking power over others, being dominant and of course having a lot of "feeemales" to fuck, because relationships are for "betas" and soft boys xd Seriously what is there to like for a woman? Nothing, but these idiots truly believe they are going to have plenty of women following them If they start to treat them like shit and everybody else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:01 PM
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Exactly. If women are considered "dirty" after having sex, what does that says about men they have sex with? I've seen it so many times how creepy conservative parents didn't want their daughters to be touched by any men, because it will "corrupt" them. I think they see men as dirty by default lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:43 PM
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And the fact that the article also stated that over 70% of divorces are initiated by women in China, it's like the government are thinking the women aren't being rational to seek divorce, they're being hysterical Yep, that's what always gets me. If it was another way around nobody would say men are irrational or hysterical, but would automatically assume their wives must have been awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:19 PM
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"we shouldn't be soooo mean to them" - but it's totally fine to take all the bullying from them just so we won't be seen as those "evil" feminists since conformism is way easier right? I hate how even when we just try to protect ourselves we are accused of being a "feminazi" (as If feminism was bad) by both scrotes and pick-me's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:24 PM
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Whom do you think they might blame? Feminists as always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:33 PM
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Today, 12 years later she even hangs out with his friends. They still propably fantasize secretly about having sex with her. They never fail to disgust me. They know no borders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:01 PM
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you can't make a spouse out of an immoral and disrespectful prick This, but I wonder If there is even such a thing as "respect towards women" in their eyes. I don't remember last time I saw a man genuinely respecting a woman, which is sad because I've met many incredible, smart women, even they weren't treated seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:58 AM
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The legendary Logical Sex ™
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:55 AM
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OMG you just brought back such an infuriating memory. The vast majority want a prepubescent looking waif but then try to rough house with those women - pulling/yanking arms, pushing too hard, using their bodies to block doors as a ,"joke". I had a guy grab me and pull me into him while I had a healing ankle fracture. I exclaimed in pain and he got angry with me for that. I said, you're the one who grabbed me. "Fine I'll never fucking touch you again, god". A well ajsuting not sociopathic person …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:41 PM
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They even get uncomfortable when women do it xD Suddenly it's "gross". It really makes you wonder why they are only comfortable talking about dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:13 PM
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I don't get why moms are doing shit like this honestly. I have a similar experience, but instead of a comedian I wanted to become a writer. Every other woman was supportive of me but not my own mother. She tried her best to make me give up on everything I loved to do... And she eventually succeeded. The funny thing is once she realized I truly did give up on all my hobbies that's when her narration suddenly has changed and she got worried about me. I don't care anymore, I guess she achieved what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:07 PM
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Yep, it's really scary to think about it. I remember watching this documentary about human trafficking and how the majority of men who buy these girls are just regular men you meet in your daily life. We like to imagine they are some pathology but it's not always the case. Many of them were fathers... Imagine how disgusting it is when a man who has a daughter "buys" an underaged girl. Makes me feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:05 PM
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Yess and many women tend to describe their relationship infront of other people as way better than it truly is . Sometimes they even feel obligated to cover for their husbands shitty behaviour infront of their friends. They are afraid that they will be judged for all their relationship problems, so they don't share them that often with people who are not close with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:48 AM
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Yes, it's a difficult situation. Sadly, it seems there is no clear solution for now. Politicians are trying all kinds of things to make people have more children, but nothing brings the expected outcome. There was this debate currently going on intensly in Europe about filling the gaps in population with migrants. That's what Germany is trying to do but it's heavily criticized. Of course I don't mean only refugees but also educated people from well-developed countries who migrate too. Basically …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:35 PM
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I think it would be better If the wages were higher. Giving away money from taxes for birthing kids doesn't really work in Europe :/ Pathology stops working and breeds while the educated people are working their asses off to pay even higher taxes so this pathology could get their money for even more kids to breed and exploit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:58 PM
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Is it that surprising though? I've heard that even feminism subreddit was taken over by a male mod. Good that at least FDS is free from that bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:51 PM
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I would not be surprised If they used " punching women with no consequences" law to punch them everytime they reject them "because it hurts muh feelings, it's totally the same!". I mean, people are already expected to feel sorry for incels who are shooting women just because they had a bad day and can't get laid as If it made them the victim in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:30 AM
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Not to mention the :"I am a woman/female and I....". And then they proceed to say how they loooove KInk/BdsM etc Like okay 🤡🤡🤡 THIS. Like... they don't represent all women? Can't they just leave us alone? lol It's all preaching what we are supposed to think and do as women, these people are the reason why this subreddit exist in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:22 PM
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Exactly. Btw it's way easier to be banned on Feminism subreddit than this one XD Idk why they ban everyone for the smallest things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:19 PM
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"mods ban me" Is that their new kink or something? lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:17 PM
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" It gives me immense joy at the thought of these guys being forced to read what women really think, but are unable to troll us and shout us down. Which they consider a grave injustice, of course 😂 " Love it! Thank you mods <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:16 PM
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And they say women are the more manipulative sex. I think we just tend to ignore the manipulation from men. They love when we think they don't know how to manipulate, because it's easier to fool us thanks to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:02 AM
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I just can't really imagine how can you think about another human being like they are an inanimate objec After listening how men talk about women we both know personally, it really does not surprise me, it's just disappointing. You would think it only happens to women they don't know but sadly it doesn't change even If you are "friends" with them. It's crazy how they can objectify even those people, who are close to them. I have major trust issues because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:47 PM
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And smells like socks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:27 PM
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and there's a daily ritual of celebrating when "daddy comes home". it reminds me of these vintage pictures from 50's where the housewife and kids run towards the man who just came back from work in his perfectly tailored suit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:39 PM
41

I wonder how would he react If a gay man didn't want to save his life just because he rejected his sexual advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:05 AM
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Anything that does not revolve around their pee-pee deserves to die :< /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:03 AM
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especially older women This reminds me of one situation when an older lady fell off the bike with her groceries and the two men who were sitting nearby just kept staring at her, doing absolutely nothing. Me and my late grandmother runned to help her, my grandma later told me in anger that these two men were ex-soldiers and they still did nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:37 PM
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Yess and I even saw conservative women shitting on her for this. They don't like it when we are pro-abortion, they don't like when we stop having sex either. They could just admit already that they want us to be forced into having children like breeding cows. Their fav argument has always been "If you don't want kids then don't have sex" and when we do, they suddenly have issue with that too! Could it be it was all about forced reproduction from the start? Who would have known lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:55 PM
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This actually happened several times. It's officially called a "sex strike". Wish it was used more often. Here is an article about it: https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/1fc04f3e-3128-4be7-a78a-28ea31db4101
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:59 PM
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Is he still working at that school? I'm worried about other kids. Pedophiles rarely just stop on one victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:55 PM
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u mean bad decisions as in sleeping with males when most males are extremely likely to abandon their kids? Interesting way to twist things so males hold no responsibility. Agreed though, women should shut males out. I sometimes wish women from around the world refused to be with men, since we always take responsibility, even when the dude leaves. The only way for us to be safe using the conservative logic (or rather lack of it) is to literally never have sex with men or interact with them. If a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:56 PM
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My fav is when a woman is called "a bitch" for not sleeping with him lol But it's all logic and no emotion! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:35 PM
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Cause they're already in there I don't get it. Why are they bothered If it's already in the trash? There is so much other gross stuff in the trash, but they seem to be bothered only by it specifically?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:33 PM
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Yep. Don't marry rich, become rich yourself ✨ The one who has money has all the power. The sugar babies are completely dependant on their sugar daddies, they have no power at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:33 PM
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What I particularly hate about this fake "sexual empowerment" is that it's still centered around men's sexuality. Women try to be cool and copy everything that pleases MEN and is revolving around men's sexuality while pretending like it's nice for them too. We have never seen true sexual empowerment of women. It's still about men's sexuality but they lied to us it's something that we are supposed to want too. Everytime when women share their actual fantasies and needs they still get shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:30 PM
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I knew a guy who kept dating girls who were 17 (he was 24 at the time) and he basically toyed with them for a couple of months, later broke up with them and his excuse was always "they are too childish for me" BUT it didn't stop him from dating another 17 year old. He literally hangs out with teens while complaining how childish they are. Imagine having no self-awarness like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:51 PM
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Yep and they still try to make up excuses for it. "But she is acting like a slut" "But she is being sexual, she dresses like an adult" I'm convinced that If we made it legal all these creeps would start chasing minors right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:27 PM
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Holy shit, you sound like me. We had the same experience! I also was "one of the guys" and realize the ugly truth then. I switched from being the "cool girl" into being interested only in women's company and friendships because of the kind of behaviour from men you described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:55 PM
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This is also why FDS is hated. Literally any place for women made by women is hated (as long as it's not about cooking, cleaning or pleasing your man).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:52 PM
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aww thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:06 AM
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It's awful how these predatory dudes immediately sense people who are starved for affection and before you notice they already are all over that person. My very close friend had that problem, she came from abusive household and all the wrong guys were going crazy over her. I had to scare them myself out of worry for her. One of them was so tired of my murderous gaze that he never sat next to us again lol Let's not even mention the narcissist she was with for... 2 weeks, because that's how long s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:27 PM
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That's actually very rude of him. You are a guest there, he should prepair something as the host.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:56 AM
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Yes, we are only strong as a group. That's why those in power always try to divide society. It's easier to control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:08 PM
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They would go crazy over this. They always get pissed when women talk about their dick preference, that would be even more extreme for them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:16 PM
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This is genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:14 PM
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yep. And men on the internet are the real version of them. The way they present themselves in real life is fake. Internet is like a new way of gossiping. They smile to your face, talk shit when you are not around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:38 PM
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20s are a hell of a ride. We are just figuring out our lives, no experience, no money, totally chaotic. I've never seen the appeal of it, but I've always cared about stability the most, so maybe that's the reason why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:13 PM
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I wish more ladies would know what these guys truly think of them, but dare to tell other people what's the average guy's view on women and they call you crazy. Weeks later the same women come back in tears, because you were right. There are some good guys out there, but they are rare and women need to be aware of that. The sad majority of dudes just want a bang maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:19 PM
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It's interesting how almost always the dudes who are so against #metoo tend to be rapey themselves. I experienced it myself. The ones who had such a problem with it usually already were known for their sexual harassment and sexist behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:13 PM
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When dudes say women don't bring anything to the table they are projecting. There are stats proving that women still do the majority of housework, caring for the family while still working outside of the house. I see guys complaining all the time that "women don't bring anything to the table" while they can't even cook for themselves and take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:59 PM
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Shh don't tell them. Let them taste the reality on their own skin lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:46 PM
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Ah yes, thank you for reminding me how shitty my country is :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:45 PM
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And that's an argument of many red-pillers. They believe that women's "hypergamy" is out of control thus women should be controlled completely like in the past. Some of them openly admit that they want us to return to the status of a man's "property".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:43 PM
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And that's why so many women know victims of rape or sexual assault, but not many men know a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:48 PM
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The Purplepill is run mainly by redpill and MGTOW dudes lately and considering the name of the sub it's ironic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:01 AM
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She should have asked: "What exactly? 👁️ 👄 👁️"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:47 PM
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It’s just horrifying how good they are at faking empathy and kindness. Just like psychopaths c: Maybe they get inspired lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:44 PM
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Maybe she attracts drama herself without realizing it lol There is this saying: "when you constantly smell farts, it's propably you" xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:24 PM
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Yes, there are facts on our side, but society loves to gaslight women all the time that their experiences and all that data isn't real. There was even an interesting article about it from BBC: https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20201123-what-is-racial-gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:24 AM
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Meanwhile men can’t even be arsed to get their wives a drink of wate This reminds me so much of my father. Yesterday he bought flowers in the last minute for my mom for Women's Day and she was in pain, because of her back problems and couldn't move. She asked him If he could put these flowers in a pot and he was standing there awkwardly for 10 minutes, while empty flower pots were literally standing right next to him. I rolled my eyes and told him that they are there and he put flowers there and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:12 PM
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Yes, they are fake, but somehow it's a woman's fault that she can't see through their lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:37 PM
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One unicorn hunter has messaged me and she wrote to me that she wants a threesome but she's only doing it for her bf. I asked her why is she doing it for him, not for herself? She responded that it's because he's paying the rent. 🙃 So I ended it with "Sorry, I'm not interested in pleasing your bf"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:35 PM
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Society thinks you are selfish, because you won't give it another gen of wage slaves to profit from. :3 But of course they will do all kinds of mental gymnastics to pretend like it's somehow about non-existent children's good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:16 PM
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That's why when "traditional" men demand wife with children I ask them "for what? you won't even be at home around them too often, you won't help taking care of them, barely spending time with them. Remind me again sweety, why exactly do you want kids"? It makes them shut up for longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:13 PM
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It's sad that these women see other, younger women as baby-making machines. They don't care about the son's wife, they just want grandkids and let's not even mention how they later treat these kids like toys, instead of full human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:03 AM
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They already treat women like enemy, especially religious nofappers. They think women are trying to lure them on purpose towards sin by their sexual appearance. Some even treat us like some kind of devils not humans lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:32 PM
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Plenty of men won't support us no matter how we support them. I've been there, done that. Gave my all to make them feel better, while they took the side of a person, who was throwing sexist jokes at me and other women about how we are stupid, gold diggers etc. with no god damn reason. Later they pretented like nothing happened and expected us to keep supporting them at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:28 PM
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It's always women's fault 🙄 Men's pervertions are our fault. Men's addiction to porn is our fault. Even rape and assault is our fault. As long as we breathe and exist it's always going to be our fault eh. Sometimes we don't even need to breathe, because I've seen dead women being blamed for their fate too. We can never be left at peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:21 PM
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while seeing no contradiction between the implication that they have no compass and the idea that they are better leaders ? This is so true and also there is no evidence that they are better leaders overall. Their only argument is: "well, men have been leaders since like forever, so it was propably that way, because they are better" while ignoring how women had no power in the past. Just because men were stronger, thus could exploit everyone around, it does not mean they were better leaders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:17 PM
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Way too many. Look at PUA, they really do see us like some strange other species to tame lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:49 PM
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It makes sense, the unattractive ones are insecure and that's why they keep attacking out of jealousy. The attractive ones have no reason to prove themselves. It kinda reminds me of how dogs behave. Usually the big ones are way calmer than the small ones lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:42 PM
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Likewise we don't want fucking rape jokes anymore I can't even trust people who make rape jokes. As someone who saw people being traumatized by rape I can't consider it funny no matter how a "comedian" phrase it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:12 PM
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The sad thing is that the majority of what we stereotypically consider "masculine" is defined by exploiting others. It's all domination, competition, violence, fight for power etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:48 PM
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Because they are insecure and hope that by putting these women down, they will drop their standards and go for them. PUA's literally teach tactics like this. They try to make you feel like you have no worth, because only then you would consider dating them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:41 PM
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This! And they have the guts to complain that they don't understand women. Maybe, just maybe If they listened FOR ONCE what we have to say, then they would have no problem understanding us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:40 PM
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Yep, but it's still not enough for them to have any self-reflection lol Or maybe they realize that what they are doing is wrong, but pretend to be stupid on purpose to get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:47 AM
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When we get away, talk amongst ourselves, and get to breathe and think straight for more than one minute, the answer is pretty obvious And that is why so many men dislike best friends of their partners lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:27 PM
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Sometimes I wonder If it would be easier If just all women were lesbian and men gay and they would only reproduce with each other for kids, while being in a relationship with the same sex. The longer I live, the more I see how men and women are not even compatible lol There are so many conflicts coming from sex differences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:24 PM
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he was a military cop Why it does not surprise me. I swear I start to see a disturbing pattern with abusive men working as regular cops or at military.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:46 PM
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They literally see their emotional responses as facts. After so many arguments with men I am convinced the sad majority believe any conclusion they make is a fact (even If they can't prove it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:05 PM
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Because women are for men and not the other way around, duh. Women shouldn't have preferences, because it's them that should please, but also it's their fault that there are so many bad men, because they keep reproducing with badboy Chads /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:03 PM
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I had the same situation! We were also watching a movie in HS and a girl got brutally raped, later wanted to commit suicide because of it and all the guys were laughing at it and even making threatening "jokes" towards our female classmate that it's going to happen to her too. All of it infront of a teacher! I thought it's just them being fucked up, but now I think I don't trust any men at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:03 PM
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fantasies about 14-17 year old girls I remember how one 17 year old girl in a dress was promoting some product in the cinema I used to work at. She had a very childish face, so it was visible that she was a minor. One group of men who looked like they were at least in their 40's started to comment on her legs from afar and taking photos of her with their phones "secretly". One even had the guts to whisper to another "hey did you catch her legs on the photo?". I was so disgusted that I openly ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:31 PM
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The truth is, choosing not to date this kind is not shallow at all, because the way he's taking care of his body (or rather don't) says a lot about his personality. People think it's only about looks, but they forget that our brains love to guess personality traits based on a style of this person and how well they groom themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:29 AM
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YES and the church also loves to blame women for any sexual sin commited by a man. Because you know, her body is sinful for simply existing, a man just can't control himself. That's one of many reasons why I left the church. I wanted to punch a priest in the face when he gave an aggressive speech how it's always ONLY woman's fault when she gets pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:45 PM
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I think only pimps should be illegal. That's how it is in my country from what I know. Prostitutes are not chased by police, only people who profit from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:21 AM
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I will never understand women who send nudes with their faces visible to absolute strangers. Once one woman sent me such photo (without being asked to) expecting to be praised but all she got was a long rant how it's unsafe etc. They might think I'm a prude but I don't care. You can never trust people on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:11 AM
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And the same men like to complain how feminists started a war on men and before it both sexes were perfectly living at peace lmao. It's men who started this war. If they didn't control the shit out of women in the first place, there would be no reason for feminism to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:24 PM
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Feels good to know that many of these men die alone and are only found by the smell the neighbors sense weeks or so later. That's like the story of my friend's father who dumped his kids from two different women to create a family with another one. While he was at the hospital almost dying from a serious illess, none of his kids cared to see him. He was so angry, but my friend didn't give a fuck. She even met the rest of her siblings from other moms and they are very close, while the dad is stil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:59 PM
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Yes, it would be amazing! Honestly seeing how little fathers do around kids makes me believe that it would be so much easier with other women (even in a non-romantic way). Usually the father behaves more like a roommate than a parent lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:40 PM
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I want my kids to have TWO moms. I always wondered If a project of uniting single moms living in one area to help each other raising kids could be successful. Something like a small community of women treating each other like family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:23 PM
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My father's example taught me that If someone doesn't want to change, then you will never manage to change them. It's sad, because those who are totally hopeless will never see that they need to change, they refuse to look at themselves from other people's point of view. It feels almost as If they were afraid of any self-reflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:51 PM
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It's funny because women having high standards is also biology, but they can't accept this part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:30 PM
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Here is an insteresting study: https://www.dw.com/en/why-do-men-send-women-dick-pics-without-consent/a-52462603 Espiecially this quote: " Results also showed that men who admitted they had sent a picture without being asked showed a greater degree of narcissism and sexism"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:24 PM
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No, they will scream: "Stupid women! They think flirting is a sexual harassment now!" instead ;<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:20 PM
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That's why I have a problem with whole narration of "men are the head of the family". They are not the ones who take care of the family and decide about everything for kids, so why the hell would they be "the head" of the family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:10 PM
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yup, it reminds me of MGTOW's getting angry when women also go their own way lol. "bUt WomEn CaN'T, TheY hAvE nOtHinG To run AwAy From! We kNow ThE rEaL StruGgLe"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:01 AM
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I like how "eating dessert" is on top of the hand, just to highlight it's importance haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:58 PM
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The sad thing is that the majority of these guys see nothing wrong with it. They will deny that objectification of women is normalized while being a living proof of it themselves. Self-awarness is like farts, most of the time you don't feel yours until someone metions it lol But then some people out of shame get defensive and put a blame onto other people. It's the same with life mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:32 PM
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It would be great. I'm tired of people from outside of this sub crying over how "bad" we are. They think we care. By making this sub private they wouldn't have to shed tears over our posts lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:12 PM
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It's kinda funny how their response to women accusing them of being shitheads is... Acting even more like a shithead to prove her point lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:09 PM
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who probably can’t even make his own appointments at the doctor Wait, that part is so real. I wish it was just a joke lol. But all these times men in both my family and outside of it didn't know how to make an appointment is just crazy. One time my grandpa even broke his ribs but preferred to pretend like nothing happened rather than see a doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:08 PM
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Female incels lol. We are literally the polar opposite, but the fact that dudes as always think it's all about their dick does not surprise me anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:40 PM
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I've found FDS by accident, but I'm so thankful for it. I've tried to find the perfect group that would discuss all the dating/relationship problems women face and there is no other like this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:25 PM
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" I hope she breaks up with him. I'm worried for her because she's more vulnerable, both of her parents passed away so she doesn't really have anyone besides her sisters. " I expected to see a reason why she drops her standards and here we go. Could it be that she's a little desperate for affection after loosing her parents? I've seen women in difficult situations running into the arms of first weird dude they've met just to get a little bit of warmth and appreciation and it's honestly sad. Mayb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:16 PM
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Some people started to use "Gamer" as an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:02 PM
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that's actually sad. they get surgery just to please others and look "happier". It's like putting a mask on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:59 AM
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That's so real. I smile all the time, because otherwise people think I'm hostile or bored with them. I don't even have a typical "resting b face" just a neutral one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:45 AM
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It reminds me of PUA tactics. They tend to think that all they need to get a girl is to show her how "successful" they are in life and throw some insults into the mix too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:27 AM
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At this point I believe telling the worse kind of them to behave is like telling a shark to have good manners and stop eating people lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:48 PM
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I've seen men and even some women claiming it's natural to shame women for having sex. Their argumentation was basically: Men want a lot of sex, women don't want a lot of sex. Men don't get sex easily, women do. The conclusion: Women must be shamed for having a lot of sex xdd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:28 PM
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It's funny, because it's too true. I feel attacked 😂 I even joined a group with sex advice for couples and half of the answers were "dump him" under every post made by a woman about how her bf is shitty in bed lol Then one dude asked us to give some actual advice besides constanly telling women to dump their partners lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:25 PM
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Oo thanks for the recommendation, I'm gonna check this out ^^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:18 PM
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This! I've realized recently that people never truly cared about women's pleasure. It was all about cathering to men. The modern "sexual liberation" for women is a freaking joke. FDS gives plenty of examples what many women actually want and expect and people from outside FDS despise it. Both conservatives and liberals shit all over us. The conservatives criticize us for not being submissive while the liberals accuse us of kink-shaming and being hateful lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:58 PM
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Omg the cat is so beautiful <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:39 PM
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Oh God, I feel really sorry that something like this happened to you too :( I wish I could make you feel better, but it's true that way too many people are still insensitive about this topic, which makes me extremely mad. I hope that in the future it's going to be better for victims of rape and sexual assault, there's already a positive change happening. Not that long ago people didn't even consider rape a serious crime, now it's more recognized as very harmful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:00 PM
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I actually have seen males on fb attacking a woman that was a victim of rape only because she dared to write a post about not wanting to date men anymore because of her experience that made it hard for her to trust anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:42 PM
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I wonder what these guys expect from women? I don't get how we are supposed to be against our own rights and well-being in their eyes just to be the "good, submissive" wife. Like, why would a woman or just anybody sacrifice their whole happiness for them? They barely know you and already expect you to dump every passion and world-view you have just to make your whole life revolve around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:16 PM
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The first video about self-defence for women I accidently saw on tv was all about kicking balls from different angles lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:56 AM
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Many men like to respond to that "but it's natural, It's out of their control" but they never mention how their bigger physical strengh is also not automatically a result of a personal choice. Suddenly something that is natural for a man is praised, but If something is natural for a woman then it doesn't matter, because it's not like she controls it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:54 AM
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they will accuse you of "kink-shaming" and make you look like the asshole while getting away with their harmful perversions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:52 PM
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Divorce and child support are pretty much the only safeguards women get in society (because men almost never want to be the ones with equal/more custody of their own children or are unfit to be). That's exactly why men complain about divorce and child-support so much lol. But of course they are the victiiim. Suddenly they all turn into loving dads who feel hurt over a woman taking the child with her, but they are also somehow offended by child-support. The mental gymnastics they make to portrait…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:59 PM
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What tires me is how differently they talk about dating infront of other men. When women are around they always lie and pretend they care about more than sex, when the woman leaves they start to talk to their buds about wanting only to fuck, but If you point that out you are suddenly the asshole, not them. When their mask slips out of anger, they usually say that pussy is the only worth of a woman. Later they will again deny caring only about sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:01 PM
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They should be paying for you being their emotional support and a personal therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:39 PM
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I feel like it's okay to talk a lot as long as you react to what the other person is saying lol. I personally enjoy listening to other people about their life stories, but If they ignore me, as If they talked to a wall then it gets really akward lol. It's like they are giving a speech instead of having a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:36 PM
80

I've learnt that this kind of men don't deserve our attention at all. I swear, they get off to the idea of a woman reading their bs on it's own. Doesn't matter to them If you like it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:33 PM
23

I wish I could give you an award for this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:13 PM
59

" But that guy isn’t pornsick, he only jerks his dick every night before going to bed because it helps him sleep! " Omg this reminds me of one guy that literally said he knows that in some of these videos women are abused or even raped, but he needs to watch porn, because it helps him focus on studying. And he said it in a way as If we were supposed to feel sorry for him, because of his addiction. Literally made himself the victim at the end of his argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:12 PM
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"it's just how men are" is the worst. No fucking responsibility. But when you name them accordingly to their actions they suddenly get offended and it's not so natural anymore in their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:34 AM
16

Then they will scream "What about men!?" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:03 AM
34

Of course they know. What pisses me off is even when you have that conversation with a father they will still deny openly how other men are problematic with their behaviour. They would still rather lock up in a house their own daughter from the rest of the world instead of attacking other men for their attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:39 AM
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They should marry their friends, because most of the time they care about their opinions way more than their partners safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:33 AM
48

It's funny how "not all men" is used by them only in cases when a woman is the victim, but when it comes to gay men they suddenly assume everyone of them will try to sexually abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:26 AM
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I hate how some of them know that what they do is hurtful (in case of rape even traumatizing) and wrong but they still keep on doing it. Are they sadistic, sociopathic or both?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:46 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/aug/18/mens-fixation-on-young-women-is-another-sign-of-masculinity-in-crisis Okay, I'm even more disgusted now. Another article, but this time about how men mainly seek women below the age of 18 on dating apps. "Researchers looked at nearly 200,000 heterosexual users and found that while men’s sexual desirability peaks at age 50, women hit their prime at 18. And then it’s all downhill from there apparently. Can I just remind you that 18-year-olds are teenag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:01 PM
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Exactly or even just taking care of themselves. They are only visual when it comes to making up excuses to fuck a young, naive woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:56 PM
95

I've heard many times that I'm a "prude" because I don't want to be sexually abused. The insanity and the normalization of it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:40 PM
30

THIS! It freaks me out how violent and porn-like sex became so popular, especially among young people. Now it's "weird" when a girl does not want to give oral or try anal. It makes me feel sick. Our culture truly, slowly imitates porn. It's everywhere. Music, articles with dating/sex "advice", movies, internet and then peers who copy everything and push it on other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:38 PM
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The fact that some women tolerate that approach from men is beyond me.. I would rather die alone than serve a man that does not even love me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:41 PM
76

I wonder what would happened If women refused to date altogether because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:55 PM
158

And how women get trashed for hating on those fuck-boys. We are just supposed to take it and accept that we will be forever walking tits for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:52 PM
4

Same sis 🙌 Not only I decided to get some healing before the next relationship, but also have been treated like a therapist myself my whole life from my love interests and friends too. After all of that I started to see why it's so important to separate the therapist role from a personal relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:35 PM
5

Well said! When it comes to the last part, I think he confuses two different scenarios: when a man is cought being vulnerable while he does not want to show this side of him and a man that on purpose shows his vulnerable side. The only aggressive ones I've had to deal with were like that because they were seen having their vulnerable, weaker moments when they desperately tried to hide it, but couldn't anymore, so they jumped into self-defence mode and got aggresive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:23 PM
9

Exactly. For this dude it's: "hey let me fuck you without caring about your pleasure and well-being at all and maybe, MAYBE then I will start to love you :>" I've seen way too many women falling for it. They tried all kinds of sexy stuff to get their hubby's love back but it was never enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:15 PM
18

I though I was the only one who kept wondering why war turn so many men into rapists. I would understand murder, theft but rape? They even raped children and older women. Women in crisis don't do shit like this. It really makes you wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:43 PM
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These types tend to have no social skills and understanding. Then they turn into incels and cry about women not wanting them lol But of course emotional intelligence does not exist! It's just stoopid women being emotional babies! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:28 PM
80

THIS. I will forever treat them like creeps for it and they can die mad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:24 PM
24

I wonder when will men understand (and some feminists too) that the majority of women simply don't feel the need to sleep around (but If some do, it's still fine), they don't get much from it anyway. Wasted time on sex without orgasm with a man that does not even respect you or care about you. Men view such sex from a very primal view, just getting off and leaving. For them sex is like shitting or eating. For women it's more about connection and they simply won't get it from pathetic men on tind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:08 PM
26

Fuck all these people who wanted her to be sentenced for self-defence. This pedo deserved his fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:14 AM
19

Bless these women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:08 AM
23

feeling entitled to take advantage of us This. It freaks me out so much, how many cases of drunk rape happened where the dudes didn't see anything wrong with what they did, because "she shouldn't have just laid there like that" (their literal words). Imagine treating someone so fucking inhumanly that you think it's okay to do with this person whatever you want, because they are "just laying there". If it's not treating people like objects to use, then I don't know what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:26 AM
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wow 60 bucks, do they think we are that cheap? lol After hearing so many stories about men expecting sex after the first date for such a bullshit I start to think, do they do that just so they won't have to pay decently for an actual prostitute? They pretend that they don't want to exchange money for sex, but then do shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:47 AM
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Exactly. I never understand what men try to achieve by repeating "not all men" when they know women will still avoid them, because how the fuck do we know which one is the "bad" and the "good" one? We always have to be extra careful. But they don't care about our fear or safety, but only about their ego, when they repeat "not all men" instead of trying to go against the bad ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:51 PM
12

The sad thing is... They will still not understand anything from it or even pretend like they don't. They never change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:42 AM
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They are not visual, they are just shallow. But "visual" is a nicer way of calling their lack of care for personality and the focus on ass and boobs instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:14 PM
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for Mgtow's and incels we are already sluts for simply existing. It feels like fighting a bunch of sharks. You try to convince them not to eat you alive, but deep down you know they will anyway, because that's in their nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:47 PM
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Honestly, even though I have a very high libido I still feel like punching someone in the face, when they sexualize literally everything women do, even fucking hairstyles. But of course it's never them being absolute creeps, It's always somehow women's fault. Nothing makes me loose interest in sex faster than pornsick men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:40 PM
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I love it! haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:17 AM
10

I don't know much about books on the specific topic of conflicts and emotional abuse within the family, but I really like the content of Psychology Today (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us) and Youtube Channel Psych2Go (https://www.youtube.com/user/Psych2GoTv). Obviously it would be better to purchase a book that goes into details of such issues in a family or meet a therapist, but these sources kinda help to figure out what could possibly be the reason behind that problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:12 AM
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Honestly, most of the time such individuals have some deeper issues with themselves. I wouldn't try to play the therapist, it rarely results in anything good in intimate relationship. I would recommend taking him to an actual therapist though, but considering most men don't even like therapists, I assume it's best to tell him to sort his shit out first and then come back (If ever).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:05 PM
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It makes me feel sick that so many men secretly enjoy watching women getting hurt and depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:41 PM
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The Queen of her times <3 Didn't put up with men's bullshit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:39 PM
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It's not fact and logic if it doesn't help him with his lie. THIS. The only time I've got a "proof" for his "facts" it was an article that contradicted in many points what he just said. It looked like he didn't even read it himself fully or just picked parts that matched his narration on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:50 AM
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I saw a picture of two arab men checking out in a disgusting way a woman in burqa. I swear perverts will remain perverts no matter what. Some men don't even need to see us to say and do disgusting things, all they need is the idea itself that they are writing to a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:46 AM
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Later when he has a daughter (If he ever has one) he will feel stupid about the bullshit he said in the past. Oh I see how men are expecting their child to just "back themselves enough" fucking ignorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:34 AM
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I remember having one "friend" who was an older man (when I was 18), he was super invested and pretended to care about me, but the moment I rejected his sexual advances he immediately forgot about me and cut any contact lol. I swear they could lead you on for months pretending you are the most important person for them only to get into your pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:04 PM
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Ha this! There are way too many creeps out there and seeing them preying over young teenage girls makes me turn into a grizzly mama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:00 PM
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And that's why men complain about women's good memory for things that happened in the past lol. It's always the woman that is evil. let's ignore all their lies. They hate when we bring up their past actions to see the pattern going, so they will scream that it's "nonsense" and "it doesn't matter, because it was so long ago". It does If he repeats the same crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:12 AM
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Perfectly said <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:25 PM
15

The sad thing is the fact that society is harsher on women makes it barely possible to get ahead and achieve something while being soft and kind. The only women that get everything they want from life are the ruthless ones that are ready to ride right through anybody standing on their way. This world loves and cherishes psycho's in practice while bashing them in theory. Dating is becoming similar to it, which is honestly scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:16 PM
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Ahh the hurtful truth has been spoken👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:04 PM
6

This! People scream "kink-shaming" at you for being disgusted with someone's rape fetish. Like... No matter how people try to sugarcoat it, it's still fucked up to dream about raping someone in a sadistic manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:59 PM
17

And cum on demand the moment a guy is sticking his dick in us lol. But of course only his dick, not any other man's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:27 AM
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I hate it so much. This and the extreme objectification of women and girls. I think that society is so used to it, it truly doesn't see how big this problem is. It's ironic that plenty of people who deny the existence of objectification expect women to prove constantly that they are more than their bodies, because "they bring only sex to the table" lie. I'm so tired of this sickness but I still hold hope it will change for better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:13 AM
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" reposting because a triggered scrote took the time to go through every post I’ve ever made on this account ;) " If a scrote is so angry that he takes his time to do that it means you are doing an excellent job lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:42 AM
21

It's like the worst possible insult they can come up with for a woman is: "You are ugly/fat!", "Nobody will want you!". It's truly amusing and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:28 PM
12

THAT is so true! Letting yourself be who you want to be without caring about people's judgement is the ultimate self-respect. But of course bullies will tell you that what THEY consider best for you (most advantageous for them) is the "self-respect" you lack. A woman dresses nicely and a dude will tell her she's not respecting herself just because he got horny. Sometimes I truly feel like for most people self-respect = whatever they expect from you. Notice, how most of the time people who firmly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:21 PM
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This same shit happens to ukrainian women, they get fetishized by polish men so hard, it's disgusting. I hate how they believe foreign women (especially from east) are more likely to put up with their bullshit. Why would these wonderful, hardworking ladies even look at them? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:27 AM
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I've never seen people more united in my country than on these protests. It was honestly beautiful. Edit: I just saw "the protectors of catholic church" dragging an older woman down the stairs (she was protesting too) and police didn't even react. I'm done with this country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:57 AM
24

Honestly, men even stole from each other a lot, so I assume nothing would stop them from stealing from their wives or female relatives that they already see as inferior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:41 AM
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One guy shaved his legs "accidentally" (he said that only because people thought it was gay) and he looked so much better than his hairy friends, but the "friends" of course shoved their monkey legs proudly and laughed at the poor dude for "being gay" and not mascuiline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:07 PM
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Wow what an asshole, absolutely zero empathy. If he was so unhappy he could just leave.. Oh I forgot that men are incapable of controlling their urges so it's always woman's fault lol. Anyways, he should have been honest about the whole situation and also try to understand your struggle. There is no excuse for him to lie like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:33 PM
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This literally happened to me. There was a group that was using me constantly and the moment I stopped letting them doing it they all started telling me that "I've changed" with a tone as If it was something bad. I guess bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:39 PM
5

50 shades of Grey and now also 365 days eh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:55 AM
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The fact that he at least apologized is already a lot lol. I barely get even that. It's always turning the whole situation against me. No matter what he does it's always everybody else's fault but not his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:46 PM
27

That sounds freaking sociopathic. First he throws shoes at your pets, then before you notice you end up with a shoe on your forehead too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:36 AM
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It's weird to me that they only take care of their own hygiene for others and not for themselves. When I wait too long during the day for taking a shower I start to feel really uncomfortable. I wouldn't be able to last for too long with such poor hygiene as these guys have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:10 PM
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It's good that the son is so kind, but I'm worried about his teenage years and how other boys will react to him. I hate how the good, empathetic guys are getting bullied for being "pussies" by other men and they most of the time end up bitter because of this. That's how generations of violent assholes never end. It's going to be him against the world, or him gaining approval by having the same state of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:25 AM
20

I thought I've seen enough weird things, but men never fail to surprise me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:39 AM
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"it's not fun and it's not all about me" - this reminded me of several posts made by men, complaining how their wife focuses on the baby more than on them. Then I've seen some weird article about how men can get jelaous of the attention their own child is getting from their wife. Like wtf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:53 AM
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These responses are pure perfection haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:49 AM
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Can relate. Almost everytime when I hear a sexist/misogynistic joke it's coming from an actual asshole that is known by everyone for using women. But of course "iT'S JuSt A CoiNcIdEnCe". I also noticed that suicidal people tend to joke a lot about suicide. I start to believe jokes are telling a lot about the author's mental state. After all the whole idea had to come from somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:15 PM
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Ugh this. And they always think that a joke is funny as long as they are laughing, but If women laugh then it doesn't matter lol. They literally treat themselves as the default for everything without fully realizing it. There are so many things women enjoy that are considered universally stupid just because males don't approve of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:47 PM
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That was my mother's response when he started to worry about a gay dentist hitting up on him lol. She said something along the lines: "Why would he be even interested in you huh? What's so good about you that you are so sure he would flirt with you?" That must have hurt coming from his wife haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:44 PM
24

I saw exactly the same comment under the photo of a little girl that helped her father hunt a deer. It was sick on so many levels. The dude that commented it was in his 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:56 AM
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Same with tattoos. My dad can't shut up when he sees random women with tattoos, he always feels the need to say out loud how they are not attractive anymore. I always tell him that nobody gives a fuck and all that matters is that these women love it. Nope. He will still judge lol But he's also the type that assumes a gay man is going to flirt with him just because of being gay. Like... Gay dudes have standards too. It's interesting how many straight men assume only they can have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:46 AM
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Couldn't describe it better. The MGTOW's are a perfect example of it, in their case it's so extreme that we just see it quicker. They are annoying but I'm also glad that at least they show their true face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:27 PM
22

I always hear from them that women would die without the attention of men, while most women I know try to run away from it. I think it's pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:17 PM
23

Exactly. I guess he came there to just "use" some woman and dump her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:07 PM
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You know, it's just "boys being boys" hehe... But when you point this shit out they will pretend it's not true or scream that it's an attack on their masculinity and you are a "feminatzi". They can hurt women with their fucked-up sexual fantasies BUT a woman expressing her anger about it? NOPE, it's an attack on them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:56 AM
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Usually with this type of people you feel like there's something wrong but you can't tell right away what exactly. Then after some time their true face comes out and you have that "aha!" moment. Sadly, we don't do much about it until something bad happens and then we can be 100% sure we were right. Otherwise people think we are overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:08 AM
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I will never understand women who marry the dude that cheated on his wife with them. Like.. Do they really believe he won't cheat on them too? Cheaters rarely change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:06 AM
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For me most of them are like overgrown kids. They rarely (If ever) say sorry for what they did wrong, constantly pointing fingers at others for their own wrongdoings ("she made me do it!", "she provoked me" bs) and also almost everytime when a woman is trying to have a peaceful discussion with them they instantly turn it into a superiority show and competition. It's honestly exhausting. My whole life I've been the calm, reserved one that gave them a chance over and over again and listened to the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:47 AM
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"raising girl was hard" I've always seen how the teachers and parents had the biggest difficulty with raising boys, because they tend to be loud, energetic, troublemakers. It's completely new to me that someone thinks it's harder to raise girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:56 AM
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Yea and his conservatism just happened to make him despise the idea of having a daughter instead of a son but of course it's just a coincidence. Gosh I hate these backwards idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:48 AM
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This. It was even mentioned in "Why Does He Do That" Lundy's Bancroft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:52 PM
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I always laugh at the posts from men like: "It's not worth marrying women, they don't bring anything to the table". In my country statistically in 2/3 married couples the wife is both working and taking care of the kids & house chores while the husband is only working. In most cases both of them work the same amount of hours outside the home, so my question is: What men bring to the table additionally? (btw I'm from Europe, so it might be different than in USA)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:42 PM
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Yes, and they will still try to convince you that they know better what you want than you yourself. It's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:36 PM
10

They never cared about satisfying their wife. It's extra hard for them to comprehend that a woman can and will leave them only because... She's unhappy with them. They always think we are obligated to stay and serve them no matter how shitty they become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:31 PM
10

People are shitty no matter of times lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:12 PM
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Right? That's so boring. Give me a submissive man any day. He would focus on your pleasure and treat you like a Queen. Imagine how the blood would boil of so many of those "kinky" men. I even mentioned once, that we can have rough sex but only If he's going to be the bottom lol. The kinky dude got immidiately offended ;< They are tolerant of kinks as long as they get all the pleasure from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:08 PM
10

I can't stop rolling my eyes when I hear about the straight male that is "into BDSM but ONLY the dominant side of it of course". Couldn't be more obvious honestly..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:04 PM
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I honestly don't know in what kind of dark place you have to be mentally to turn into such a pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:16 PM
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No, I will not fucking build you up, Kyle. Get on my level. I've said that to their faces too. What was their reaction?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:21 PM
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I'm tired of the fact, that women always have to be extra careful with their words and polite, even on the internet. Men can literally shit all over us, make rape threats, write shit like "women are useless" etc. and everyone is okay with that. But when a woman slightly criticize a dude she's an evil, dangerous "feminatzi". Let's ignore the fact that there were at least several cases when a man identifying as an incel came out and shoot people but you don't hear the same about feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:15 PM
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I think it is indeed something very primal. Maybe it's because their survival relied mainly on competition/fight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:15 PM
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Yess and it's exhausting. Even psychologists tried to explain marriage issues by claiming that when women want to discuss an issue with their male partner, the man almost always reads it as a start of an argument (even If it's in a peaceful manner). They basically take every discussion like some sort of fight, so the more a woman is trying to solve issues through discussion, the more fighty the dudes get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:15 PM
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This! The perfect solution! I've noticed personally that the most loved type of approach (in both sexes surprisingly) is when you are both kind but also straight-forward. There is this difficult to pull off, magical mix of assertiveness and openness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:11 PM
14

Oh no, the overly confident stupid question are the worst. Not many things piss me off so much in life as the extremely confident idiot lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:59 PM
17

Happy cake day! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:52 PM
24

All it takes for me to like this song is the fact that it pisses off so many conservative men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:10 PM
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I’ve learned that when men truly love you they’re your biggest cheerleader Wow that's so true, but so rare too. I wanna cry over how cute it is, although it should be a norm, not something so unique as it is. We always expect women to support and cheer men on everything, but when a woman is trying to achieve something, suddenly she is not "feminine" enough ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:00 PM
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Exactly, never argue with people over all how they should treat you. If they don't care that much, just walk away. They are not worthy of your time. I've wasted too much of my life on people who never cared. The moment you start to value yourself is the moment when all the toxic people walk away automatically and only the ones that truly care stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:58 PM
18

This reminds me of one dude that was arguing with me about men never being insecure and jealous towards women. Basically he believed only women can put down other women because of their beauty, since men would always cherish a beautiful woman. What a load of bullshit. I can't count just on one hand how many times an insecure man tried really hard to ruin my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:27 PM
16

This! I've heard so many of them demanding more and more, but when I asked them what they have to offer... All I've got was even more demands lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:46 PM
11

I also have noticed how dudes can trash us in stupid, repetitive sexist "jokes" all the time, but God forbid a woman says a joke about them. I swear, one woman says something mildly mean about them and they literally complain about this for weeks (taken from actual experience) and we have to deal with their bs all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:04 PM
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A man of any real value would understand THIS. I've met HVM and they all understood that struggle. The dudes that don't get it are usually one of these two options: lacks empathy or is a hidden predator themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:01 PM
4

Exactly. I gave up already on trying to please others. We have only one life. Fuck what others want for us. Our life our script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:49 PM
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It's hard to trust any of them in this era, when all that crap comes to the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:04 PM
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omg I've heard this "joke" so many times and it literally ALWAYS came out of the mouth of a narcissist or a sexist. What a shocker. Their jokes also say a lot about their nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:03 PM
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She forgot: Expect absolutely nothing in return. Somehow the sole fact that we exist is seen as a reason to treat us like some kind of tool to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:01 PM
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Exactly! These religions were used to control women (especially sexually). That's why I'm extremely sceptical of religious cyrcles now, although I used to be religious myself in the past. I'm still spiritual, just not following man-made "holly" books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:59 PM
7

Omg that's so weird, I'm glad he's your ex now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:26 PM
9

When the dude hates your female friends for no logical reason, it's always a huge red flag for me..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:19 PM
46

This! I had to argue about this with my own father, because he couldn't grasp the idea that teenage boys don't always have to enjoy sexual advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:29 PM
77

But remember, somehow it's always our fault lol. There were so many cases when women were actually supportive towards male victims and it was the men who laughed at them, but somehow women were still blamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:26 PM
84

I've known one incel in real life and he literally didn't change his blouse for months. Everyone was talking about it behind his back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:09 PM
1

This ! I hear men complaining about their wives all the time, claiming that marriage is useless. If it's that bad, why won't they divorce? I've read an article about this topic and it turns out it's just comfortable for them to stay that way. The wife is still cleaning, cooking and taking care of the kids for him, while he can have his side-chick for more exciting sex ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:35 AM
2

Wow I'm doing more for my hamster's health than he does for his gf's, no joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:32 AM
105

Exactly, I've even read somewhere that psychologists working in jail claim that the only criminals that usually have a chance of changing are the very young ones. The older ones have very slim chances. Overall I'm not a fan of treating a relationship like some kind of therapy. It's dangerous and very difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:04 PM
185

That's why I hate when they make rape jokes. You must have a specific mentality to find those jokes funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:01 PM
1

It's weird that the badges with full names are still a thing in many countries. Some changed it fully into badges with a name only, because of a current law that is very strict about protecting personal data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:53 PM
14

True! I wonder where else they are going to use the "better" hand eye coordination If they spend most of their lives on gaming anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:20 PM
39

They treat the lack of sex from women as If it was abuse. They are so entitled that it makes me feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:31 PM
20

This is so on point! Couldn't say it better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:48 PM
44

Yes, the well-known "she probably deserved it" line. And then the whole paragraph about how modern women are "bitchy" and poor men just go insane because of them and commit crimes lol Edit: Did I mention that even when a man has shot at the university a bunch of women for simply being women, there were comments from men that it was probably feminists fault and this poor shooter was provoked by them to do that? There is no proof that the murdered women were feminists, but still...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:20 PM
28

Oh God the "you are not a real woman" gaslighting is ridiculous. The amount of times I've heard it. I always just laugh and walk away. It makes them even more mad knowing they can't easily manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:59 PM
41

I like how everytime when women bring equality during a conversation most men keep on repeating the same mantra about sex differences, but when you point out that their sex is responsible for around 90% of violence and crimes around the world they will start blabbering about differences not being so serious (out of nowhere the difference stops being important for them), that women can be violent too and other symmetrist bullcrap. Their narrative changes depending on what's the most advantageous …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:53 PM
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Usually when you ask them for reasons they will send you copied texts from MGTOW's pages about divorce. And the dudes that send it are usually too young to even experience marriage, let's not mention divorce lol Edit: Oh, I forgot about false rape accusations, which are very rare, but somehow enough of a reason for these dudes to hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:18 PM
28

I'm gonna note it for later haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:09 PM
6

true, I can't imagine having sex with someone who does not fully want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:59 PM
21

Exactly! But trying to discuss this with them is impossible, because they deny everything. Every time I bring this to dudes who try to protect MGTOW (that like you mentioned 99% of their content is about trashing women) they pretend like these posts are in minority. I honestly wish they would just truly go their own way and fuck off. I'm sure that If women started to arm themselves with a gun to make these men leave them alone they would also turn this shit around and say that women are the craz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:35 PM
51

THIS. And also I hate how they feel the constant need to destroy/dominate our spheres. Men have their own exclusive groups and it was always fine, but when women God forbid create their own group they can't get over it. Everything that is done by women for other women is demonized by men. I hate it. And I hate how they try to brainwash women around them into thinking that those woman's groups are bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:22 PM
16

Yes, I saw it on fb, it's awful. So she wanted to just be hugged and apparently it's the same in his eyes as throwing away good sandwich. Like, a woman can't even have some affection without the male constantly demanding sex? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:03 PM
6

It's funny how almost always the laziest men are the ones that complain about women and feminism the most lol. The ones in my group that are very responsible and hard-working never complained and always attracted a lot of women (not only as love interests but also friends). They weren't particulary good looking but their kind, responsible nature was their charm. On the other hand all the lazy-asses no matter how handsome always had difficulty finding a partner and they complained about "feminist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:01 PM
60

THIS. They complain about being discriminated at university, but they don't do anything at all, barely showing during lectures (yes, the exact ones that complain about feminism). They expect to get all the pros that hardworking women do without moving their finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:26 PM
1

This is so true. The worst sexist creep I've met had Napoleon complex. He was generally good looking but his pretty face couldn't save him with this attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:24 PM
2

Ugh I hate it so much. If I had a wife I would make sure she feels good about her body after cancer, but as always they put their own wishes before how the woman feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:39 PM
3

misery loves companionship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:24 PM
23

Same girl. It's sad that even as a lesbian you have to deal with their bs. It's exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:21 PM
34

I ask the same question. Even lesbians are not safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:16 PM
12

true :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:54 PM
31

I would have an additional number for private purposes and the one that is published only for work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:52 PM
16

Wow I melted while reading the " I'm married to a lady now " part. Wish you both luck! ^w^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:48 PM
27

It's weird how they feel the need to act even in their relationships. I've always believed that a relationship without vulnerability is not based on a true connection. I can only imagine how exhausting and sad it must be to always wear a mask, even around your loved ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:29 PM
8

I always thought it's weird that this became fashionable so fast. It used to be something extreme, now it's treated like a norm. I wonder what will be next after this? Kind of scary to imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:26 PM
23

Omg I can only imagine how his male ego would be bruised after hearing this :'D He would stop taking shit, because it's gay :DD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:33 PM
23

God, not only they are uneducated, but they spread lies with such confidence as If it was true. They will even argue with you! The audacity they have...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:13 PM
12

Yes! They should give us more orgasms If they want it to smoothly go back ;3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:49 PM
19

They would probably use it as an excuse to fuck with a sex worker, but later they would also shame sex workers for doing their work... And the cycle goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:48 PM
16

relationships are business for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:46 PM
37

The truth hurts too much for them to swallow, ignorance is bliss. They will eventually change their mind... When everything is already ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:36 PM
36

Yes. The funny thing is that they hate women no matter what they do with their sex lives. You sleep around? You are bad. You don't want to sleep with them, because you're saving for a better man? You are also bad. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:34 PM
23

this dude has a wife and a daughter... I'm worried about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:03 PM
19

She looks like a Queen and he looks like a peasant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:01 PM
66

In my country we have Men's International Day and women always try super hard to find the best gift for them, while during our day they most of the time give us a half-dead flower. At some point my female friends got pissed and they together bought the guys kid's board games suggestively. The dudes just started playing it without realizing it was meant to mock them.. And they had a lot of fun with stuff that was literally made for 6 years olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:56 PM
3

I've heard many times from some dudes that they want a woman that basically will be like a dog in human's skin. And they saw absolutely nothing wrong in saying that. Btw I'm sorry that it happened to your family member. I hope she's doing better now :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:04 PM
10

I'm going to add my two cents. Most of my life I've been friends with guys and treated like "one of the dudes" and the bullshit they say about other women/men was even worse than the worst things my female bullies ever said about me. I started to become friends with women more since then and they are way more supportive. Of curse we are not perfect, but guys are still most of the time way more disgusting behind the back. They just hide it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:10 PM
30

Oh God I hate it. The literal definition of sociopathy describes them as basically awful people to be around, yet we somehow hurt their "feelings" by stating facts. Literal definition: " Sociopathy refers to a pattern of antisocial behaviors and attitudes, including manipulation, deceit, aggression, and a lack of empathy for others " Oh poor sociopaths lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:04 AM
7

Both of you are incredibly strong that you managed to put up with all that and then start everything over. It needs a lot of work and courage. It's amazing that from such fucked-up families such true gems came out <3 I wish you both finding the right people in life and I hope that no more parasites will try to prey on you. It's awful how many bad individuals try to use good, hard-working people for their own advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:13 AM
18

The good thing about it is that at least now they are the ones living a miserable life, while you know how to take care of yourself. It still sickens me thought that they literally put the blame for their own laziness onto you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:53 PM
24

THIS. But none of them will have the courage to say out loud that they basically expect women take a role of a slave. They will try to sugar-coat it, put some pretty meaning on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:47 PM
35

Yess Queen <3 Old fashion - sacrificing your personal happiness for a man New fashion - putting yourself first <3 Plenty of men hate the modern woman, because she finally started to love herself enough not to waste her time on their bullshit. Now they try along with pick me's to push this "new" trend of being the trad wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:43 PM
10

Visual only when it comes to jerking off to women lol But they are not visual enough to take basic care of themselves or their homes, so they won't hurt visitors eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:36 PM
6

I hate when they use this argument, because when they actually look up the statistics they will realize it's the men you know that are the most likely to attack you. We literally can't trust anybody at this point. There were so many stories of women having their "perfect, protective" bf turn 180 degrees and do something awful to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:06 PM
18

YES, they say whatever fits them at the moment. If being "the logical one" is advantageous they claim to be it, when being the dumb one at the moment is better, they change their mind. I like turning things around during a conversation with them, so the "most advantageous" option changes constantly and then I watch them getting lost in their own lies. It's almost as If everything was about strategy not honesty and genuine connection. If they were honest they would stick to one claim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:15 PM
30

Because they do, but they will say "Oh no, we love women, they are so sexy and we want to fuck them so this must be love"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:04 PM
22

Yes and also he will call his opinions "facts" and no matter what you do, you will be the "emotional" one lol. Recently I've read a post from this one guy who mentioned how he noticed that women use personal experiences instead of facts. He was stupid enough not to notice that he himself at that moment based his claims on personal experiences instead of solid data. Just like you said they will ignore the reality for the sake of ego boosting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:03 PM
22

Yes, he's a disgusting old creep and that's how he should be treated. It's weird that there are people out there who take him seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:56 PM
52

Yes it's disgusting. There was this one MGTOW that didn't want to leave one 20 years old girl alone. He kept pushing her into having a husband since "men invented everything" and how is she going to deal on her own without the menz. It made me so sick I started to attack him for manipulating her into a relationship she does not want and he finally shut up. It's important that older women protect the younger ones from the influence of those disgusting creeps. It's also funny how the dude who is a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:55 PM
25

He has a daughter... And it's disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:51 PM
16

Stefan Molyneux has mental issues and I'm honestly shocked he has a wife and a daughter. It makes me so so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:49 PM
16

At some point I thought about the idea of creating neighbourhoods for single women and single-mothers where they help each other and basically create one big family like in those old tribes where men went to the forest to hunt and women were left alone. They wouldn't have to deal with men's bullshit and also single-motherhood would be way easier in those settings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:45 PM
17

They should buy a prostitute, but of course they won't, because it's cheaper to demand sex for a burger. They pretend like they care, but only want sex and then they have the audacity to judge us for not letting them use us for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:41 PM
18

They generally don't care what we feel, so even If they somehow understood that it makes us feel uncomfortable, they would still continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:30 PM
7

My mother's friend has an ex that was fully ignoring her when she still cried over their break-up, but the moment she got over it and started to enjoy her life he wanted to go back. It's so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:21 PM
5

I've been always afraid of raising a son because of it. I've been thinking about what If I ever wanted a baby and what If this baby turned out to be a son. Would I manage to raise him outside of this misogynistic influence from society? I highly doubt it. It honestly scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:04 PM
19

I don’t think it’s a radical idea to look at the massive amount of bullshit in the world and think a reasonable response would be medically lowering men’s testosterone levels until the rest of civilization is in reasonable safety from their destruction. This! I've been saying it for long but people always think it's radical or a "man-hate" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:58 PM
22

Many men who join military are already fucked up, and even If some aren't, then the military will make them insane anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:04 PM
29

Exactly. Why joining their dirty games anyway? It's their war, so they will be the ones dying for it. Women clean up way too much men's shit already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:03 PM
5

Yes I agree will all that. The funny thing is that as you mentioned plenty of those men who want to create their "perfect" families still have a desire to fuck other women. It disgusts me how many of them also endlessly desire the young ones, even If they themselves are old enough to be their dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:44 PM
5

I know it might sound controversial, but I believe it's an evolutionary trait that makes it barely possible for men and women to live in a happy, stable relationship. Men are programmed to want to mate with as many women as possible, while women on the other hand are programmed into wanting a long-term partner that will eventually help them with raising their children. Both sexes have total opposite reproductive goals, but people are ignoring it, since living in the comfort bubble is easier than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:28 PM
40

Pick me's are the traitors of our sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:57 PM
34

It always makes me suspicious when I see all these guys searching for a female partner "for their girlfriend" to have sex with. I'm like.. Dude If she's the one that wants it, why won't she write to me herself? It happens so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:23 PM
28

Oh God yes, I can relate so hard. The creepiest ones I saw were couples with their KIDS on their profile picture on dating apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:09 PM
51

Women: likes something Men: Why are you taking OUR hobby? Stop with this feminism. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:41 PM
3

That's interesting. I remember writing an essay for my male friend and when he got the grade lower than the one I usually get, it surprised me. The difference wasn't crazy but still made a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:56 AM
7

Beautifully written <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:33 AM
25

He confuses being treated like a necessary breeding cow with being loved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:59 PM
17

It reminds me of all the guys who tried to make themselves look like super logical, but never provided any evidence for their claims when asked for it, I did provide mine. They somehow managed to still scream at me that they are using FACTS and I'm just being EMOTIONAL. lol I'm always calm, that's just the way I am, but literally no matter what you do, they will still claim that you are just being emotional. That's their number 1 argument, when a woman does not agree with them. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:56 PM
1

I know it's an old post, but maybe this advice will still work. I think you should have an honest conversation with her about it. Express your concern about the future and how this all could possibly end, but also If you care about her, it's good to let her know too. I know from experience that there is nothing better for such problems than an honest conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:42 PM
11

Yes, they even call a ho women who don't want to sleep with them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:10 PM
5

Not far away ^w^ I'm from Poland, closer to the border of Germany
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:16 PM
7

Yess! What country are you from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:02 PM
12

" no idea so many people viewed it negatively " many men don't want us to love ourselves, because that means setting some healthy boundaries and not letting them abuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:17 PM
50

I hate it so much. Their own hypocrisy. They want women to have dignity on the streets, but treat them like shit behind the closed doors. They pretend like they value them, but later they treat them like breeding cows. Traditional men and women are the worst kind of liars I've met in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:44 PM
111

Not only that, they most of the time blame the pornstars for their own addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:40 PM
6

This! What is wrong with this world. I'm slowly loosing hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:45 PM
10

It pisses me off that they literally always win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:42 PM
4

Yes! I'm ready to cooperate ^^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:42 PM
11

I was raised by a grown up kid so I see how they act. Oh Gosh, can relate. It's awful when you are way more mature mentally than your own father. But you are still expected to respect him of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:57 AM
11

Oh God, This. It literally is like spending time around grown-up kids. It's exhausting. They would rather drag you down to their own level, instead of leveling up themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:14 AM
9

Everything. Absolutely everything. It's easy to hate them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:11 AM
52

We can. We need to keep recommending it around. I did the same with "The lolita effect".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:55 PM
21

Yess, like a new Bible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:46 PM
11

I saved this post for later <3 Thank you for sharing it, it's very useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:45 PM
29

" He would tell me I’m not hot (You don’t have to believe me but I am actually hot and plenty other males tell me so very often, and I was 19 when he said that to me) and point out other girls who were “hot”. " Telling to a woman during flirting that she lacks in something is one of the main strategies of pickup artists. I'm just leaving this info here, so more women would take it as a red flag next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:42 PM
7

If someone need a female friend, you can dm me ^3^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:38 PM
15

Oh God, can relate. I used to have a friend that constantly talked only about her bf. She was also copying every single hobby he had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:35 PM
26

They are bad at social interactions lol. I've read that it's connected to lower empathy, since people with higher levels of it tend to understand the perspective of other's better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:31 PM
30

I love reading their bullshit about what's supposed to be "natural" for women. Everytime I'm like: "Well If you have to force something upon women, maybe.. just maybe it's not natural then? If it was natural, they would do it on their own. " But then he will keep pushing that he knows better what women want than women themselves. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:27 PM
10

Wow she looks so young :0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:23 PM
8

Imagine a gay dude saying the same towards his male friends... The outrage lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:51 PM
3

Gosh and they say that "toxic masculinity" does not exist, how should we explain men who don't want to seek help in fixing a problem, because they feel "less MaScUlInE", so let's just ruin the whole house lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:27 PM
8

Ew! What a creep! I hope it's not what I'm thinking it is. This woman needs to take her child to a psychologist to find the truth ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:32 PM
14

Yess! There was even research done, in which it came out that men say "I love you" way earlier during the relationship than women. Women usually prefer to wait until they make sure they truly mean it. The funny thing is that men like to turn this data around and say it means they start to love faster lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:28 PM
18

We already are brainwashed enough into believing that in order to be happy we need a husband and children. We don't need more of this bullshit as a "new" trend. It's not only toxic for women but even more for kids. The amount of times I've seen parents getting mad at their children for not being their tokens of happiness like it was promised they would be is crazy. So many people believe children will make them happy and it's all roses. Then they are disappointed when they realize that child rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:22 PM
7

Omg my mother has the exact same issue with my father. Their house is literally falling apart but he won't allow her to hire someone to do this, since he wants it on his own terms. Then he doesn't do anything with it for years. He could live in a ruin, but out of laziness wouldn't do shit to change it. She's constantly stressed because of him and he still blames her for everything... Later he started somehow to blame even me, while I don't have anything to do with it. Our entire family despise h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:04 PM
55

Yess and I hate how they barely see the difference between "love" and "lust". They just want to have sex, they don't care about those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:55 AM
7

Oh God, I couldn't word it better! And they still will say that they bring all that hate for women only because of feminism... They even compare situations when a man literally shoots women for simply being women to what feminists are doing. It's ridiculous. They will always point fingers at us and tell us everything is our fault when they fuck this whole planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:53 PM
33

And then they will be like "I'm not racist... So you are black, have you ever been with white dude before?" Why are some people so obsessed with race
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:55 PM
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" If the girl starts to open up about her life, DO ACTIVE LISTENING: Active Listening was developed by FBI negotiator Chris Voss in order to get complete psychopaths to open up about their life in high stakes hostage situations. It's field tested, it works. You can get anyone to open up if you do it correctly:" - Did he just compare approaching women to approaching psychopaths? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:22 PM
42

Generally they think that women shouldn't have standards at all, since they were made to serve men only. They view us like some kind of robots. They get pissed everytime you mention the actual needs and wants of women. They just expect that they will buy you like a toy for cash and that's all they need to find a wife. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:23 PM
27

Gay men generally prove that men are capable of understanding and genuienly caring for women. It's almost If the sexual attraction part was the only thing that makes some men unable to function with us like with normal people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:16 PM
26

Exactly. The sad majority is still in their late teens or early twenties and usually they are jobless or have part-time jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:12 PM
1

What is that objective data? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 06:44 PM
6

" I have seen real life examples of what he's talking about, women talking about their own experiences instead of using objective data " It's kind of ironic that you claimed women most of the time just use their own experiences while in the exact same sentence using... Your own experience. We see what we want to see most of the time ;) Our brain is good at cherry-picking.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 04:13 PM
28

Yes, but when you dare to mention it, you are normally called an "evil/crazy feminist" lol. We can't even share actual data, because it somehow makes us crazy/evil. It's so pathetic it almost feels like talking to a toddler everytime they throw such names at us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:20 PM
40

"Behind every crazy woman there is a man that made her that way" - have no clue who originally invented that saying, but it's floating around the internet lately lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:17 PM
4

I've noticed that too! I thought I was the only one, because everyone obsess over him all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:25 PM
2

Oh God, I'm sorry it happened to you :( What made her think you only "play with them"?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 11:55 AM
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" Sorry but do you guys truly think that masculinity is lack of empathy " Masculinity and femininity are described differently from one person to the other, these concepts are highly subjective, so I wouldn't take them so seriously ;)
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 10:46 AM
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I wonder how can we as a society battle all this toxicity on the internet, since it has so much negative impact on people, especially young ones.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 10:20 AM
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" men all over YouTube seem to see women who aren’t virgins as less valuable " sweetheart, these "men" are mostly teenagers, not adult men. I wouldn't take comments on youtube seriously. Virginity shouldn't matter when it comes to self-worth. It's a very toxic approach. I recommend working on you self-esteem because it seems that even If your fiance tells you that he values you, you would still deep down feel like you are not enough.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 10:07 AM
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