Being repeatedly ignored sounds sooo fun! Let's get hitched ASAP! 🤡 Why is this normalized?

throw--away23456 · 2021-04-29T12:12:15+00:00

I also find the whole idea of hating your wife / husband after marriage and the idea your life is ruined and goes downhill afterwards (e.g. sex life goes etc) is soo weird

Platipus6 · 2021-04-29T12:25:16+00:00

haha listening to women is optional

she divorced me out of NOWHERE

akiikaaki · 2021-04-29T12:12:21+00:00

Pick mes desperately want to believe that all marriages are shit to cope with the fact that their husband hates them.

geologykitty · 2021-04-29T12:22:47+00:00

Ah, the Clueless Husband trope. Wish that would die a slow death.

Papaverinum · 2021-04-29T12:45:01+00:00

Oh yeah, gaslighting. Marriage really has lots to offer!

W1nniethebish · 2021-04-29T13:28:35+00:00

This is called gaslighting, and I divorced that scrote.

Solid-Liquid · 2021-04-29T15:58:12+00:00

My ex said he was “blindsided” by me ending the relationship…except the fact I brought it up 30 days before I ended it that the relationship wasn’t working and I was unhappy.

Internally, I gave him 30 days. I told myself if, after this conversation nothing changes, I have to end this relationship. I gave him the benefit of the doubt (🤡) and thought “well he just doesn’t KNOW he’s treating me like shit”. After I had that conversation, and it kept happening (I asked him to take me out, he called me on a day off to come over to fuck), I had to just say “fuck it” and walk away.

But he said he “wAnTeD tO sTaRt A fAmIlY WiTh Me!!”. Had that happened, I’d probably be a regular poster on breaking moms…

fiery_woman · 2021-04-29T12:12:38+00:00

Can confirm. It’s a thing and I don’t fucking understand why. It sucks.

thowawaywookie · 2021-04-29T14:55:17+00:00

So true. They've got it down to a science on how to get a woman to do anything they don't want to do.

I've a relative who is so far gone to the scrote she married, I'm not thinking she'll be alive in 10 years if she doesn't leave that is if he doesn't leave once the youngest is of age next year.

So, I'm going to do a rescue mission. Have her visit my house to work on her health, have fun, and hopefully gain enough esteem that she'll not want to go back.

vee_aye_aye_aye · 2021-04-29T12:31:10+00:00

Why is this normalized?

Because listening to women isn't considered important. If a man doesn't read/listen to what I'm actually saying (or anyone for that matter) I'm gone quick. For women I usually find if you repeat yourself it does go in eventually, but I limit interactions with those women in the future.

The only time I waive this is if the person has a learning disorder like dyslexia or ADHD.

Ashitaga · 2021-04-29T14:08:49+00:00

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Confused_One_ · 2021-04-29T12:51:18+00:00

Even worse, conditioning yourself to accept that you’ll always have to repeat yourself instead of expecting the man to be an adult 🤦🏻‍♀️

Throw the whole man away and save your breath.

radsera99 · 2021-04-29T16:00:54+00:00

I can just remember the sheer frustration and tiredness that comes from repeatedly saying the same thing over and over. Begging someone to change. Begging someone to view u as a fucking human.

AcademicMobile1 · 2021-04-29T12:57:20+00:00

My new rule for all interpersonal relationships is I will NEVER tell someone something more than twice.

Twohagsover30 · 2021-04-29T12:24:55+00:00

He either doesn't listen or he doesn't care.

lanzamealaire · 2021-04-29T12:13:06+00:00

Like it has been said many times in here: pick me’s love feeling like martyrs in relationships.

bleda_princezna · 2021-04-29T12:08:06+00:00

Can't wait to get married!

JesusisKingisLord · 2021-04-29T18:57:26+00:00

Against my better judgement I clicked on a Reddit livestream of a 12 yo girl playing piano. Scrotes asking her how far she can squirt. This is normal bc of men. And we're supposed to be thirsty to be with men.

queenagave · 2021-04-29T13:04:50+00:00

"I was hearing but I wasn't listening"

🤡🤡🤡🤡

zagreus8me · 2021-04-30T13:18:23+00:00

My Nex really started to refer to me as the "ball and chain" despite not having the balls to marry me. He really loved the whole men aren't supposed to listen and are supposed to hate their wives and women are supised to do everything and nag all the time. But he would always maintain he was a modern man who didn't believe in gender roles. I'm mortified it took me so long to see the light.

Title	Being repeatedly ignored sounds sooo fun! Let's get hitched ASAP! 🤡 Why is this normalized?
Author	FDS_newbie
Upvotes	1627
Comments	61
Date	April 29, 2021 11:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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