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| 2 | What do you think about Roosh's criticism of TheRedPill ?I appreciate the response. Make money. Change the message. They're not mutually exclusive. I was happy and more than willing to do so within circles who understand the greater point. The issue is I was dragged too far outside of those circles. Once Jezebel/HuffPo/Salon/VICE/etc. get involved any room for nuance is gone. They need to fit you into a bucket for mass consumption and, as of today, that bucket is your standard fare misogyny/PUA stereotype. When you're one of the first results on googl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 12:22 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about Roosh's criticism of TheRedPill ?Wow, I don't often join the discussion when reddit gives me a username alert. I'm not sure if everyone understands just how poignant and spot on your comments are. Seduction as a concept is such a great thing. The idea that people can learn how to enrich their lives and the lives of others just means we're increasing the number of happy men and women in the world. It's an amazing thing to consider at a high level. The issue is, like many things, deep-seated character flaws, psychological issues … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 11:35 PM |
| 0 | 20 Things Boys Can Do to Become Men By Kareem Abdul-JabbarHis point is to not fall in love with the first woman who'll touch your penis. Have standards and take your time. And did you really call Kareem Abdul Jabbar an "internet guru"? lol | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 12:53 AM |
| 13 | 20 Things Boys Can Do to Become Men By Kareem Abdul-JabbarSo ignore it. Jeet kun do this shit, man. | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 05:15 AM |
| 10 | 20 Things Boys Can Do to Become Men By Kareem Abdul-Jabbarhttp://i.imgur.com/jkqYVDi.jpg | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 02:44 AM |
| 124 | 20 Things Boys Can Do to Become Men By Kareem Abdul-JabbarI meant to post "I just met a girl on the schoolbus, what do I text her?" but posted this link by accident. | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 02:40 AM |
| 7 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameCool, you seem to get it. It's the same issues with pickup in general... It's easy to give in to the circlejerk and start seeing everything as a shit test. You can lose your humanity and come out more unattractive than when you started, incapable of making strong human connections. The whole Manosphere tends to take advantage of guys who feel some sort of bitterness towards women, either for being cheated on, or spurning them, what have you... It's important to keep your humanity intact. I know … | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameYou can bottom skim in any culture and get laid, just sayin'... | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameI think it's much too fluid to even begin to quantify. | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameJust a note on the redpill/manosphere. I understand why theredpill is growing, but I have trouble fully accepting it. Here is where I differ from the typical redpiller: I don't think it's productive to spend any amount of time worrying about your girl leaving you. Be awesome, be passionate, be loving, and don't lose track of why you are who you are. She'll be there for you. I don't think it's a good use of mental energy to bitch about the typical men's rights topics. It seems to breed negativity… | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameYou're talking about the 10% exceptions. This whole subreddit is about becoming the exception to the rule. | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameTry dressing like and telling women you're broke and watch what happens. Starving artists get laid with surprising regularity. It's not the wealth they are automatically attracted to, it's the fact he's working on becoming something great. Try acting like you're the lowest ranking/servant in the room and see what happens. Yeah, pool boys never get laid. Try being shy/wooden personality and see what happens. Now you're onto something here :) Don't be so analytical and so cynical. Life is too shor… | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameIs it an advantage with some girls in some circumstances? Sure, maybe. Do I have control over that? No, so I shouldn't worry about it. If do, it'll ruin my state, leaving me in a shitty mood, with shit energy and that's the real problem, not any other external factors. I think you could even take it a step further and use it as motivation to get that much better. The high of having a woman choose you over someone who is more conventionally attractive is a total rush. It's addictive. And believe … | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 08:18 PM |
| 25 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gamepeoples shit attitudes are starting to hurt the sub, in my opinion. Its got to come back to a more positive, supportive light. Amen to that. I'm working on it. I get shit on every time I mention Japan in a post because, "Oh Japan is easy mode for white guys. Why should I take anything you say seriously?" Completely ignoring the point that the last 2.5 years of content I've posted came while I was living in the US... People with negative, loser mentalities constantly look for reasons to dismiss g… | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 08:06 PM |
| 121 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameA lot of the times when a guy does an easy pick up and posts a FR about it somebody will comment how his looks probably helped alot. Please stop that. The guy excecuted good game and took a girl home with him. Please give him the credit he deserves. You are only making excuses for yourself that you aren't good looking enough to pick up girls. Hah. Thank you! I HATE that. People project their limiting beliefs onto others, which does no good at all. A good friend of mine, /u/ImKumarYo, put it like… | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 07:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me Laidbut really isn't this subreddit about knowing the right things to say at the right time? Honestly, conversation isn't nearly as important as people make it out to be. It's the attitudes, body language, eye contact, touch, and knowing when & how to make a move that are really doing the work. So for this particular FR it wasn't all that important nor notable. So as opposed to thinking, "If I say this line at this time..." think more in terms of, "If I emanate desire towards this girl and be comfor… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 05:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidNo one speaks to strangers during the day? How do people meet? | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 05:01 AM |
| 5 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidNever even said a word to him. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 03:08 AM |
| 4 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidFemale Pick Up Artist | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 02:53 AM |
| 3 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidWhere do you live? I keep the readers of the Above The Game newsletter up to date on when I'l be visiting certain cities, so maybe we can make that a reality! | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 02:34 AM |
| 9 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidWhat I would probably do and what I would recommend to do if you want to "win" the girl are two different things. I hate petty squabbling or jockeying for position over a random girl, so I'd probably get her phone number, continue enjoying myself, and let the cards fall where they may. But if an attractive guy is making a pass at a girl you're really interested in, the best thing you can do is isolate her away from him. Staying there to fight for her attention turns the interaction into a zero-s… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 01:34 AM |
| 5 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidNot all bars welcome foreign customers. Could be old fashioned racism or that they think they are rowdy. Japan doesn't have the same anti-discrimination laws that we have in the US. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 01:06 AM |
| 7 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me Laidhttp://i.imgur.com/scBEI95.jpg | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 12:19 AM |
| 3 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidGotcha. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 12:16 AM |
| 11 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidHonestly, the club/bar scene here isn't all that different from the club/bar scene in the US. People are there to mingle, drink, and meet people. Some Japanese girls can be a bit shy/standoffish when approached by foreign guys, due to steretypes, or previous experience, or just lack of confidence in their English ability or what have you. But some girls will be very open and interested in speaking with you, particularly if you speak Japanese well and can make relevant cultural references. Most J… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 12:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidI'm not following... | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 11:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidYour comment piqued my curiosity. Is there something unique about pickup in Denmark? I've never been. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 11:33 PM |
| 5 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me Laidhaha, it sounds harsh when you say it like that (about Japanese being bad at this type of game) but it's kind of true! | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 11:27 PM |
| 4 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidHurts you in the sense of it makes it tougher to pick up? I'd say yes, because it takes more effort to get fired up and you'll lack the safety net of being with friends to fall back on when your sets get blown. Also you'll have to recruit guys to wing for you in the field, if you're going after larger groups, so you never know what you're getting :) That being said, the upside is that it gives you focus. You'll have to approach or not approach - and that decision is 100% up to you. You won't hav… | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 11:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidFirst of all, I'm a girl, and second, I'm married, dude. That doesn't change anything about what I said, but cool story bro :) Your little visit and "report" doesn't change the facts or reality of the situation. "Little visit"? Wow, not even sure where to begin... If you have some time, read my post history. You might find it fascinating. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 10:46 PM |
| 17 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidActually, I could be a lone male in a women's correctional facility and it wouldn't change the fact that good game is universal. Here's a tip, stop looking for reasons for why this stuff doesn't work. Cynicism is extremely unattractive and not doing you any favors. Sorry for the harsh words, but sometimes you need a virtual smack in the face to see things more clearly. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 10:31 PM |
| 23 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidBuying girls unsolicited drinks in a bar in the hopes that she gets drunk enough to sleep with you is absolutely "beta" behavior. Having a fucking blast in a karaoke booth where you both pay your own way is not. If you can't see the difference between those two, then you've got a long road ahead of you, my friend. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 09:17 PM |
| 7 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidI'll be around! PM me when you're coming. BTW I'm doing a free seminar in Tokyo on September 22nd. Sign up here: http://abovethegame.info/seminars | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 09:15 PM |
| 12 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidMaintaining strong eye contact, keeping my cool, and having a marginally interesting conversation revolving around penguins. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 08:52 PM |
| 11 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidYes! Writing FRs is such an important part of self development... It forces you to analyze your actions and take in feedback from others. Anyone who is serious about this who isn't consistently writing FRs is cheating themselves. There's a reason professional athletes watch game film. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 07:52 PM |
| 4 | I'm starting to think strong eye contact is the fastest way to improve your game. Seddit - what are your tips, tricks, and advice with eye contact?Eye contact is the closest thing to a magic pill in all of pickup. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 07:49 PM |
| 62 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidSomething like, "Let's go back to my home." It was as blatant as it gets. (And this is why I love sexually liberated French women.) | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 07:47 PM |
| 11 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me Laidnow that I think about it, back when I was in HS, before I was aware of pickup, I had pretty decent game. I just didn't have the balls to use it 90% of the time because of social anxiety. That's awesome! You had the tools all along, you were just afraid of using them. Experience gives you confidence to overcome your fears :) when you're out adventuring, how much are actual pickup techniques on your mind? I don't actively think about "What I need to do" but I have enough experience that I'm able … | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 07:37 PM |
| 12 | [FR] How Being Non-reactive Got Me LaidSure. Facing the girl, not sure what to do, trying to be entertaining, being overly pushy to buy her drinks, getting visibly frustrated as he could see her becoming more attracted to me by the minute... Basically "hitting on her" but without much clue what he was doing. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 06:59 PM |
| 8 | I lost my virginity last night! How I did it, plus a thank you to the mods and mentors of sedditI'm proud of you, man. | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 02:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A lovely young lass went down on me in an elevatorI taught it in the seminars I've been running. I'll be putting videos up soon, sign up here to get updates: http://abovethegame.info/above-the-game-newsletter | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 10:20 AM |
| 9 | [FR] A lovely young lass went down on me in an elevator<3 Told you guys that line is money. Congrats on the elevator BJ! That's a level IV maneuver! | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 02:35 AM |
| 0 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Do you just throw caution to the wind and just outright hardcore flirt with her? Yep. But be respectful of her boundaries as well. Make a great first impression, make sure she KNOWS you want her, and invite her out discreetly. If the timing is right, she'll happily see you. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.That's for everyone to decide on their own. I personally find my life is much grander and more fun when beautiful women are a part of it. It's definitely worth the effort (plus framed correctly the self-improvement process is a lot of fun on its own.) | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Asian American guy seeking mostly Asian females who are down for casual relationships. Not often discussed topic. Tips from those who have dated Asians?When I read about TofuTofu's exploits, it feels like as good as he is, the cards are stacked in his favor. These girls are open to be seduced for casual flings. There is something to be said for this. I lived in Upper West Side Manhattan and slept with plenty of Jewish girls because they had it in their mind that they were going to date/marry a Jewish man, so they felt more freed to be casual with Gentiles like me. Honestly, it just comes down to one thing: Understanding what YOU want and screen… | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.The goal is to research and flesh out material, anecdotes, and quotes for my upcoming book. I just thought some of these observations were interesting, hence the post. It shouldn't discourage people, it should let people know to try harder! | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:39 PM |
| 2 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.You can preorder a copy here: http://abovethegame.info/shop | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.I'm not sure what you mean (I was kidding about the protesters btw :P) | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.My theory is they were actually there in support of those lines from the book :) | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:09 PM |
| 2 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.I agree entirely about the sample size issue. I definitely plan to do more of these but I wanted to report the trends I've seen so far. Thanks for this comment. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 08:55 PM |
| 6 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Thanks dude. I defined it as being approached. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 10:10 AM |
| 8 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Not quite. Most girls didn't know me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 10:06 AM |
| 6 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Haha we recorded the theme song two nights ago! 34 takes. It's gonna be nuts! | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 02:35 AM |
| 10 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.I can tell you that some aspects of that survey are inaccurate. I'm just reporting what was said in this particular focus group, it's not "accurate" or "inaccurate," it is what it is. I'd love to hear which things in particular you find go against your experience. Feel free to write them out publicly, here, in detail. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 02:34 AM |
| 6 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Thanks! Planning to do more! My only regret was I wish I had more diversity in the focus group. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 02:23 AM |
| 8 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Can you expand on that? | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 02:23 AM |
| 32 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Thanks, dakru. Well said! My intention was to have them speak candidly and record the resulting conversations and then analyze it later - not to ask them specifically for advice. I thought it went quite well! (Thanks to all the lovely women who attended.) | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 02:09 AM |
| 5 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Glad you enjoyed it! It was a great event. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 01:55 AM |
| 13 | Taking the false rape allegation trend to a new level: Feminist receives rape threat online; stages large protest of rape culture; police trace the ip address of sexual threat to the feminist's own laptop.Wait police investigate those types of threats? I got a few hundred or so of those between my kickstarter and Facebook accounts alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 07:10 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readculture has evolved to make the 99% of men who are not "alpha" feel like worthless pieces of shit I assure you that's not the case. Most people don't go through life feeling like worthless pieces of shit. You might want to consider talking to a therapist about those feelings of resentment and inferiority. They are not normal. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 08:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readPlease do so just to stop the conspiracy theorists throwing accusations my way :P | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 08:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readThat would be hilarious. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 08:28 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readHaha, I'd never do such a thing. That would be grounds for getting my account banned. When I want to promote something, I will be very upfront about it, trust me. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 08:26 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readWhy? Good looks is only one of many factors that qualify as "value giving." If you're not great looking, come up with other ways to make up for it. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 04:37 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readThe "Brad Pitt" variable can be replicated by any number of factors (social proof being the simplest to manufacture). It's really not relevant. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 03:17 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readAwesome, thank you! | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 02:26 PM |
| 51 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readThis post is great. He ran solid game, was confident without being arrogant and he led without being needlessly pushy or creepy. This is basically a snapshot of the type of game I wrote about in Above The Game. OP, if you wouldn't mind me potentially using this anecdote in the future, please let me know! | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Introducing: Project Social Success!OP is an awesome guy. You'll learn a ridiculous amount from him by going out. I highly recommend any noobs in the NYC area to consider taking his offer. | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 07:20 AM |
| -5 | Above The Game Part 3: Body Language & How to ApproachNot to my knowledge. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 04:08 AM |
| -5 | Above The Game Part 3: Body Language & How to ApproachTry to pick one and stick with it. | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while?Yes, it can work. But actively putting yourself out there and approaching more women will raise your chances of success. It's a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 11:44 PM |
| -1 | I am doing an AMA over in /r/IAmA right now!Picnic in the park! Picnics are so awesome. Be playful and make out with her under the sun :) | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 12:39 AM |
| 0 | I am doing an AMA over in /r/IAmA right now!Plan your logistics better so you don't have that problem next time! | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I am doing an AMA over in /r/IAmA right now!Haha it'll come in due time. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I am doing an AMA over in /r/IAmA right now!I'm actually giving a PDF copy to seddit for free! | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 11:32 PM |
| 32 | I am the prize.Nice! The road to self improvement starts with yourself. Don't let these words be meaningless platitudes. Also, check out /r/TokyoSeddit if you haven't yet! It could always use new members :) | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:46 PM |
| 1 | The greatest trick I know for beating Approach AnxietyWhat if she never notices you? | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:01 PM |
| 6 | The greatest trick I know for beating Approach AnxietyNope, don't even worry about that stuff! | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Lets get TofuTofu's kickstarter to $10,000 so the community always has a free PDF of the book!This is absolutely true. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 03:19 PM |
| 4 | I thought some might be interested. Video plus ebookPaul Janka gets a lot of shit for being rich and good-looking... But the bottom line is that his day game methods work if you want to get a LOT of numbers and set up a lot of first dates. It's basically calibrated for big cities like Manhattan. I would recommend anyone looking to get a lot of experience in a short amount of time to check out his stuff. It's pretty basic but it's easy to apply (as opposed to more complex stuff/theory). | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 01:00 PM |
| -1 | Lets get TofuTofu's kickstarter to $10,000 so the community always has a free PDF of the book!What will this have that other books haven't already covered? I think most guys here know their material and just fail to act. Hey, great question! You're right, there is TOO MUCH material and people suffer from too much reading and not enough action. One of the main focuses of the whole guide are action steps and inspirational advice to get people out practicing on a regular basis. Most books do a poor job getting people out and about. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Lets get TofuTofu's kickstarter to $10,000 so the community always has a free PDF of the book!I'll PM you and sort it out. I recall you saying that you didn't care about getting refunded but I could be wrong. My apologies if that's the case. EDIT: Paypal sent. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 10:41 AM |
| 7 | Lets get TofuTofu's kickstarter to $10,000 so the community always has a free PDF of the book!I'm literally giving away the content for free, so please don't feel you have to back me to get it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 10:40 AM |
| 30 | Lets get TofuTofu's kickstarter to $10,000 so the community always has a free PDF of the book!OMG did not expect this! Thanks guys, I hope you love the book. Regarding the "incident," I will copy & paste from my original post when I announced the Above The Game book kickstarter: Hey man. I'm actually glad you brought this up. That whole episode was regrettable and I learned a lot from it. We tried to raise $1500 for a practical joke on C&H and fell over $500 short. It briefly turned into a stereotypical reddit witch hunt while the facts were being sorted out. In the end, I refunded every… | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 03:54 AM |
| 16 | Communicating like a boss. Part 2: Non-Verbal, basics.Great stuff, man! | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 06:51 PM |
| 5 | TofuTofu here. I'm doing an AMA on /r/okcupid if you want to learn more about online dating!sigh I try to help... It's like banging my head against the wall. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 05:17 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!It'll give advice and inspiration to get you moving in that direction, but it's not gonna hold a gun to your head and force you to get outside of your comfort zone... So just keep that in mind! This takes real effort to work. But the short answer is: yes. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 03:51 PM |
| 0 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!That would be amazing. It's useful for so many reasons. Thanks so much! | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 03:35 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Dude, that is absolutely amazing! I never really thought through all the ways this could benefit people in their professional lives. Like I assume the obvious ones, but never thought about it benefiting a teacher! Would you mind if I shared your story with others? | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 03:13 PM |
| -1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!My fair share. (Since doxxing myself I'm not going to publicly comment on certain things, I'm sure you understand :P) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:39 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I am basically 100% night game while being opportunistic with day game. I can't bring myself to stand on a street corner or in a mall and hit on girls anymore. I certainly paid my dues, but night game is just way more fun for me :) Of course I'm in a different situation than a lot of guys. If you're really looking to gain quality dating experience, day game is a hugely valuable resource. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:17 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!The material in The Blueprint isn't the issue... It's the presentation. A lot of guys just can't get into a 20 hour seminar that, admittedly, isn't all that professionally produced. It's the world we live in. It's the same reason image links get upvoted much higher than much more valuable text posts on reddit. People like their easily digestible content. Models suffers, to a lesser extent, from the same problem. It's got its fair share of fluff in it. Also, like the Blueprint, it suffers from a … | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 12:21 PM |
| -1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Someday I would love to :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:52 AM |
| 0 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Day Game is clearly the more effective style of game if you're going for quick dates with high quality women. Their shields are lowered and a lot of great women don't go to bars but all of them have to go to the grocery store sometime :) But I think night game is much more enjoyable and offers a higher chance of getting into crazy Earnest Hemmingway stories... Throw the script out the window... Night game is all about making a positive impression as a fun person to get to know, while getting to … | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:47 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I read a lot of self-help books, especially sales training books. I have a lot of respect for Tom Hopkins. That's a man who knows what he is doing. Some of the material he put out in the late 80s/early 90s is absolute gold. But mostly I really enjoy great biographies of great people... I sometimes go to Barnes & Noble and just grab a biography of an Andrew Carnegie, or an FDR, and just start reading... I find so much inspiration learning about others whom I admire from afar. Likewise, books abou… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:41 AM |
| 0 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Haha yup! Settled in here for a while :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:38 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Haha last summer I was staying with my parents and had nowhere to go... I took her to a field behind my old elementary school and we had sex underneath the stars. It would probably have been some kind of felony if I got caught. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:38 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I hope you enjoy the book! I think this article on relationships probably has all the advice you need. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:37 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!No, the messaging thing was totally fine. Girls who are really into a guy LOVE getting messages like that. That being said... It sounds like you didn't do much to get her attracted to you! Why no kino escalation? You need to start getting out of your comfort zone and really turning girls on if you expect them to want to see you on a regular basis. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:36 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Absolutely! That's one of the most important parts of the book. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:35 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Thanks, man! Hope you love it :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:35 AM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Sex, sex, sex, and more sex. Make her have many orgasms. Make her crave your dick to the point where she's calling you for late night booty calls. THEN, don't fall into a routine when you are spending every weekend together... Basically, speak with your actions, not your words. If it comes up, you have to address it... "I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now but I love what we have going..." But none of that has any chance of success if you aren't giving her great sex on a regular basis. Tha… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:35 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Big cities tend to be a little crazier... It's not like people in the suburbs aren't having one night stands, but the "I'll never see this person again so fuck it!" mentality is much more prevalent in the big cities. So you have to be a little more subtle in the smaller towns, but not as much as you'd think. Good game is good game. I don't really change my style much in the smaller towns here in CT than I do in a massive city like Tokyo or NYC. Would you ever be interested in assisting in puttin… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:33 AM |
| 0 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Not to be blunt, but do you have an Indian accent or are you 2nd-gen/3rd-gen? Just trying to better understand your situation. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:30 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Haha yeah it can get pretty muggy here in the summertime :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:29 AM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Thanks for this! Glad you're finding value in it :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 11:08 AM |
| 0 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Like, how do you deal with the question "who are you here with?" This doesn't come up as often as you'd think. But a simple answer is, "I'm waiting for my friends but they're chronically flaky. Anyway..." | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 07:35 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!You don't need to be SUPER high energy, but if you think you can stand around silently and meet people you've got another thing coming. There is no simple answer... You have to force yourself to talk to people. Try opening 3 sets (any sets)... That seems to be the magic number to get people going. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 07:19 PM |
| 4 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!It's a little game we would play in SF sometimes for the lulz... Try to open using the words "human centipede" somewhere in the opener. I'm like 0 for 30. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:02 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!That's tricky. Sometimes logistics (like this dude) will get in the way of a same night lay. It happens all the time. It sounds like you handled it pretty well... Escalated as far as you could, made your intentions known, and set up a plan for another meeting. Sometimes if you can make things really uncomfortable for him he will leave on his own volition. This can be helped if you have a wingman to chat with him while you sneak off and really seduce the girl. He'll get the message (or get drunk … | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:02 PM |
| 5 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I used to really love The Blueprint Decoded. It changed my life. I still like it a lot, but being around as much as I have been I can tell that it doesn't resonate with most guys. It's way too long and Tyler can be off-putting. How long did it take you to go from AFC to an intermediate level, which I will just arbitrarily define as surpassing the "indifference threshold" that Tyler talked about; and then from there, to the level you are at right now, which to me seems pretty close, if not identi… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:59 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Too bad about the free seminar, but I wouldn't advise flying across the world for it! I will not write any of the bonus chapters that we don't hit the goal until well after the book is done and shipped. I have to budget my time to pull this project off. But they are all topics I will try to revisit in the future! Of course if the stretch goals all hit then it becomes a moot point :) | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:55 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I'm actually in the US now, but I'm pretty tapped into the recruiting scene in Tokyo. PM away! | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:52 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I be that pretty motherfucka, BAS is what I'm reppin... Tell them to quit their bitchin', gonna open in a second... Has the human centipede opener worked yet? (In my experience its still a no) Not even once. It's the ultimate pickup challenge. What do you do when you lose the game and find yourself in a committed relationship with a girl you actually care about? I'm going through this now and it just feels weird to me having someone after being by myself for so long. That's dope! Enjoy the ride.… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:50 PM |
| 4 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!What would you say is the best place to go for a first date? Since we (normally) can't get into a bar/club. Is taking her out for coffee (or something similar) good? How about a quick "get to know you" coffee, followed by ice cream desert someplace else, and then a nice post-desert walk? It'll give you lots of opportunities to touch her and get to know each other! Is it a good tactic to meet her somewhere in downtown and then just wander around for some time until you find something intresting? … | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Sorry to hear you had a bad experience. I met a guy in Tokyo who also had a LoveSystems bootcamp... I was helping him when we were out and pushed him into sets/winged for him. He said the help I was giving was better than his bootcamp! Honestly, if you're flush with cash it's not like it'll hurt your game... But $3000 buys you a LOT of nights out at the bars & clubs... It's a much better use of your money to focus on good material and meet other like-minded guys who can push each other. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:42 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I highly encourage you to post field reports here on seddit too! Sometimes that extra feedback and encouragement can be all the difference in the world. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:40 PM |
| 4 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Negatives = Women are less likely to give you the time of day. This can be overcome with good game but you will have to work harder than someone who is in fantastic shape. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:39 PM |
| 3 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!What is your favorite date to take girls on? Favorite dates fall in one of two options... Either something awesome and unique (I took a girl to a massive high-brow fundraiser once, she loved it) or a shitty dive bar near my house (logistically friendly). What is your favorite alcoholic drink? Gin martini with olives. Or a really good mezcal (chichicapa!) How do you feel about people pirating your book? I'm literally giving the content away for free. I figure it's gonna happen, so might as well s… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 05:18 PM |
| 6 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!That's such a huge topic... For starters you gotta build a network as quickly as possible. This means going out and meeting people everywhere and anywhere. Look for online meetup groups, hit the bar scene, approach strangers everywhere... In the beginning, don't be super picky about the friends you make. Get everyone's number, follow up with them, and invite them out to do things! You can get more selective as you go, but try to be as inclusive as possible. Here is a field report of mine after I… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I am an Executive Recruiter full-time. Previously I've also done some entrepreneurial ventures (worked as a VP of two startups and a CEO of my own company) and worked in sales. All of it is pretty fitting for my personality. E.g. if you're good at pickup, consider a job in sales or recruiting where you have to "seduce" customers. And absolutely! I have 2 or 3 book ideas not related to seduction at all. I hope to write more in the future. I'm loving the Kickstarter experience, too. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 04:08 PM |
| 10 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Thanks for your questions! What is the online dating chapter going to include? Are you consulting others on it, or are you an expert at that as well? I've been consulting others on it for years now! I have dabbled quite extensively with various forms of online dating for years now, so I'm pretty solid with it. The chapter will cover all the basics of traditional online dating (OK Cupid) with maybe a sliver on newer types (Tinder, etc.) When will the book be ready - for people who went for the ad… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 04:01 PM |
| 4 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Thanks! The Action Items are something I think is missing from most seduction advice! What good is theory if you can't implement it? Pretty much every chapter in the book will have well-defined goals and challenges. I want this book to ACTUALLY change lives, not just be another masturbatory self-help book. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 03:55 PM |
| 6 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Well, I've been in a long-term relationships for years now, so I'd say it hasn't been a problem! (Though she does wish I lost about 50 lbs haha) I found myself in a situation where I have a loving and caring partner who is also happy with an open relationship. It's what matches my lifestyle and needs, so I'm glad to say I've already accomplished that. As for knowing when the time is right... I imagine I'll slow down a lot once we have kids. It is something we have planned for sure :) As for bein… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 03:55 PM |
| 6 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Man... I'm not even sure if I can think that far ahead! This has been such a whirlwind. I've been approached by a few traditional publishers who are interested in releasing a version for the mainstream public... It is something I will have to consider! Also I'm thinking about other "mini-guides" that aren't appropriate for a book like this... Guides to "Pickup in Tokyo," "Pickup in New York," "Pickup in San Francisco." Or topics like "Long Distance Relationships" and "Open Relationships." I'm pr… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 03:51 PM |
| 5 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Great questions. What will make your book different from other pickup material out there? The pickup world has shifted a lot over the past few years. Seduction companies have really mastered the art of content marketing. In other words, they've gotten really, really good at releasing massive quantities of seduction advice, almost all of it rehashed. Why do they do this? Because they can keep you in their customer sales funnel. The more times you are exposed to their brand (via blog posts, newsle… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 03:22 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I'll gladly sign for free! Just email me your kickstarter name at [email protected] | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!Yeah, that's a good point. I guess I just took it without saying not to post inane shit. But a lot of people don't realize that and treat Facebook like LiveJournal haha. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!Just see it as kind of a lifestyle augmentation. It takes literally zero effort to add all those random women you meet (assuming you're going out with any regularity) but you might see them some time in the future because of it. I have nights where I'll get close to 10 numbers. It's just impossible to manage without social media. Over months and years those random additions add up. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 02:53 AM |
| 11 | Don't ignore Facebook!The harm is that you have to keep your profile clean and only have high quality posts on it. If you're living an authentic and interesting life, that should just be default mode. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Don't ignore Facebook!As soon as a girl is your facebook friend and is able to sort through 900 pictures of you and see updates from you every few days, there is no more mystery and no more attraction. In my experience, that's not actually the case. If you live an interesting life, and don't use Facebook like it's LiveJournal 2.0, it's possible to actually increase attraction via Facebook. It's especially effective for those girls who you may not see again for months. It keeps numbers from going stale. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!It's certainly a fair question. I wrote a bit about my back story here: http://redd.it/11ng7n If you're new to seddit, I've been a member of the moderation team for about 2.5 years. I recently stepped down to focus on my writing. I wrote about that here: http://redd.it/1egw79 | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Don't ignore Facebook!My SO and I agreed right from the start to not be Facebook friends. It's MUCH easier that way :) | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!That's true and pretty easily solved... Don't treat Facebook like LiveJournal and you'll be fine :) | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Don't ignore Facebook!I had the same thought when I read his comment... We should ultimately be striving to live lives of authenticity. Don't be ashamed of who you are! | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Don't ignore Facebook!I could see this advice being used for girls you KNOW are long-shots and will most likely never see again so it's a fine roll of the dice since you lose nothing, Yup. That's actually what I was trying to say. The girls who are long-shots, or logistically messy (example: you meet someone while on vacation) should be added right away. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Don't ignore Facebook!Well, you shouldn't be liking everything. I probably like 3-4 posts a day and that makes up less than 1% of all my Facebook news feed. So I guess that's what I meant. You shouldn't like everything a hot girl puts on her FB, but maybe throwing her a like once every few months doesn't hurt. That's what I meant by generous. Hope that clears it up! | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Don't ignore Facebook!And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You understand the trade-off and accept it. That's what it's all about! | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!That's a very valid point. I wouldn't say to use it exclusively, but using Instagram as your main social media and then cross-posting to Facebook is a good way to stay in front of everyone. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Don't ignore Facebook!I find it super lame when people are out at a social event checking their feed though. I couldn't agree more. That was one of the most annoying parts of living in San Francisco :) | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!I would say... If you have something truly relevant, then it's fine. Otherwise I would do it very, very rarely. Like: "When you coming back to NY?" is a type of message you should probably send once a year or less. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Don't ignore Facebook!Thank you! Any idea if that is a clinical term? I'm hoping to do more reading up on this topic for a section in the book. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 5'2" male. How important is height? What can I do about it?Don't stress over things that are out of your control. All of the advice here is still applicable to you. Check out the sidebar ---> | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:34 PM |
| 6 | I've met women in every way except cold approaching.I would say start with /r/100sets and use the material in the sidebar. I am biased but check out the Above The Game posts as a good place to start. Then it's just a matter of DOING. Learning cold approach pickup is fantastic because it gives you freedom to meet women all across the globe in places where you don't have a social circle. That's what got me into this in the first place. The sex is just a nice side-benefit! | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Don't ignore Facebook!Sure, I outline some of the data in this post on Entourage Game. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Don't ignore Facebook!Haha yes! Be careful with "liking" pages. Liking someone's post is ephemeral and carries little long-term risk. Liking pages will stick with you forever (especially in the form of advertisements). | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:04 PM |
| 30 | Don't ignore Facebook!You're missing the point. Of COURSE if you got her number and have a real chance at meeting up, don't add her right that night. But what about the fun girls who you'll probably never see again but you would be down to party with at a later date? Go ahead and add them! The alternative is never seeing them again. I assure you, at least 10-20% of these "missed connections" convert to IRL meetups at a later date. I've actually run tests before to test this out. It's a nearly zero-effort way of keepi… | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 04:57 PM |
| 11 | Don't ignore Facebook!I want them interested in ME, not my facebook. I guess my point is that, you risk losing contact with people who are interested in you, but logistically can't hang out with you right then and now. Not having a Facebook means you will miss out on certain connections. This is especially true for people who travel/move around a lot. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 04:53 PM |
| 46 | Don't ignore Facebook!That's a good point. If time-management is a problem for you, then Facebook is dangerous. That being said, you can't really blame the tool for the faults of its bearer. Speaking from experience, 1 hour a month is about all you need to stay in touch with 500+ connections. Log in, wish people happy birthday, post something once a week or so. That's it! | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 04:50 PM |
| 21 | Don't ignore Facebook!May I ask your reasons? I'm not saying this is you, but I know a lot of people end up deleting Facebook because they are bad at time-management and end up losing a lot of time in the Facebook void. That's obviously a bigger problem. I can just speak from experience, but I went through about a 4 year span where I ignored Facebook. My social life (and life in general) took a big turn for the better when I began using it as a tool like this. As I travel the world and meet cool people, it's amazing … | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneMostly 20-35. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneJust curious, what was different in Ukraine? I really find Ukranian women attractive :) | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneGreat! If you set up a subreddit and ask them to start posting field reports, introduction, and meetup posts and it gets some traction it can be added to the sidebar. Check out some of the existing lairs for examples. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 09:51 PM |
| 9 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneHonestly, it's a legacy thing. They have been called lairs since back in the 90s. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 09:50 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Free. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 04:09 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I know! I am shocked! I will be putting up a new list of stretch goals now. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I really do hope this inspires others to follow their passions. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thank you for your support! | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Yes except for Canada which is $10. :/ | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:26 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thank you! | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I am very glad to have helped you out! | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Absolutely! There will be very clear cut action items to follow and implement. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I get your point. That being said, I don't know what to tell you. As I have stated multiple times, I am giving the content away on Seddit for free so please don't feel you have to support the kickstarter to get the content. Thanks for your opinion though. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 03:21 PM |
| 3 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.That's not how stretch goals work. Just think of them as bonus rewards for reaching different funding tiers. I'm going to announce some new rewards and goals today. I've been humbled by the experience so far. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 01:51 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thank you so much! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:23 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.That's okay! Thanks for your kind thoughts :-) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:22 PM |
| 6 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Haha loving it! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:22 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I will set up a pinterest page for my pubes just for you :-) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:21 PM |
| 3 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Sure. If you back two copies I will sign them. But if you just want to do one just remind me with a note when the survey gets sent out to backers and I'll make it happen. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 09:11 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.It's all over Facebook! But I'll keep it off LinkedIn for now :) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 09:10 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thanks! I'm glad it has helped you! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thank you! I'm amazed! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 09:01 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thanks man! I'm working with a few designers so it might be totally different. I'll keep everyone updated! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Would you settle for highlighted in yellow marker? Haha. Thanks for backing me! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 08:11 PM |
| 3 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.I'm glad it helped you out over the years! I'll look into the AMA! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 07:52 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thanks! The project runs till June 19th so you have time! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Kickstarter doesn't accept paypal, huh? I'll send you a PM to try and sort it out. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 05:32 PM |
| 3 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Yeah, seriously! It's nuts that Kickstarter lumps ALL international shipping together. I have to charge one price to cover shipping costs to Canada and Zimbabwe. But thanks for your support! We have a lot of sedditors north of the border :) | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 05:31 PM |
| 2 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Absolutely! It is a common theme throughout the book but there will be an entire chapter dedicated to it. I think it's the more important tenet of all! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 04:53 PM |
| 11 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Thanks, bro! If you could tape a ball of your pubes in the copy you're gonna send me, that'd be awesome, dude. I'll start harvesting them right away! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 04:43 PM |
| 3 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Yeah, moving to a new city can be rough. I hope you enjoy the book! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 04:38 PM |
| 3 | The Above The Game Book Kickstarter Project is now Live! Details inside.Yep, absolutely! The Kickstarter runs through June 19th. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Anger and Self ImprovementWhere I am from it is considered that you are less of a man if you can't tough out something. So if anyone found out I went to therapy would be embarassing. Where are you from? | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Anger and Self ImprovementFurthermore, I hate all the social pleasantries like saying, "how are you?". Like anyone gives a fuck about how you are doing. If a person is fat, I call them fat. If they are stupid, I call them stupid. If they are ugly, I call them ugly. Yeah, I'd say it's pretty serious judging from comments like that. Thinking that therapy is bullshit is absolutely a limiting belief. You should at least give it a try for a few sessions. No one has to know and maybe you'll learn something. If not, then it's n… | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Anger and Self ImprovementFirst off. It is HUGE that you recognize that this is a problem. I am proud of you for taking steps to fix it. You need to develop a sense of empathy, dude. I highly recommend seeking out a counselor/therapist to focus on this. Your college likely has free or inexpensive services. Please seek them out. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 02:58 PM |
| 10 | Tip Tuesday: The Power of TouchHaha. I cover it a bit in these two posts: Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & Conversation Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & Sex | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 02:56 PM |
| 25 | Tip Tuesday: The Power of TouchFirst off, thanks for posting this. This is the type of original content seddit needs. I gotta be honest, I don't like the DiCarlo Kino Ladder. It overcomplicates what should be a pretty simple progression. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 12:39 PM |
| 21 | More club advice, and how a group of guys completely failed with my female friends.The answer is you don't... Club game is all about good looks, social proof, good body language, and being bold. Keep a leading frame and motion for a girl (or say "HEY LET'S TALK AT THE BAR") to get out of the noise ASAP. Otherwise, stick to grinding and dirty make-outs on the dance floor. Talking beyond "HEY WHAT'S YOUR NAME?" is difficult! | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 8: RelationshipsExcellent point about the "little bit of jealousy expressed in an appropriate manner every so often." It's all about maintaining abundance while showing your desire. It can be a tricky balance, but it's really the key to long-term happiness in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 08:16 PM |
| 61 | More club advice, and how a group of guys completely failed with my female friends.Awesome post. This is a realistic description of club game. OP knows what's up. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Method Monday: How the Pros Learned the GameThe best thing you can do as a beginner is choose, from one of the 10-20 respected coaches/authors, the one that you feel you can trust and relate to, and just apply his technique for at least a couple of months. Once you have AT LEAST 15 f-close under your belt, you start to be able to understand where coaches are coming from, and you can start to pick and choose more from different methods. That's a really good point. It can be way too easy to suffer from information overload/paralysis by anal… | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Method Monday: How the Pros Learned the GameTo tack on to what frogma said... It's also important to go out and get your reference experiences for material you are reading in small, digestible chunks. Don't try to listen to the Blueprint from start to finish and then go out and be a god. It is much, much more effective to break it down into 30-minute slices and spread it out over 40 nights. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 03:31 PM |
| 19 | Method Monday: How the Pros Learned the GameThe Jeet Kun Do approach. I am a firm believer in it. Hell somewhere in my post history you'll find a field report from when I experimented with the Gunwitch method! Until you get enough experience and knowledge to really grasp what style of game resonates with you, keep learning from as many sources as humanly possible. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Strategy is AmoralI am very biased but I've never seen actionable advice from the Manosphere (Red Pill included) that is better than what can be found on more neutral seduction forums (like seddit). They put a lot of energy into talking about men's rights issues and pointing out "beta" and "cock carousel" behavior. Also there is slut shaming abound, which I really take offense with. I love sluts! They make the world a better place :) | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 09:34 PM |
| 18 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Hey man. I'm actually glad you brought this up. That whole episode was regrettable and I learned a lot from it. We tried to raise $1500 for a practical joke on C&H and fell over $500 short. It briefly turned into a stereotypical reddit witch hunt while the facts were being sorted out. In the end, I refunded everyone who wanted their money back, and ate the substantial Paypal fees out of pocket. Some people elected to have their money donated to the Red Cross instead. It was actually the inspirat… | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Help! Picked up a ten on thursday now what ?Congrats on taking action and speaking to her. I think it's important you stop thinking of her as a "ten" and just think of her as a regular woman. Really get to know her and learn to appreciate what makes her tick. I think my post on qualification will be helpful for you. Check it out. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:56 PM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Haha deal! Please do write more! I'm hoping this whole project inspires others to keep building. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Not physical goods. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 01:44 PM |
| 2 | She broke up. How soon is too soon?Please repost this to /r/AskSeddit. That subreddit is dedicated to questions about specific people and situations. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Cant get over my oneitis, HELP!Please repost this to /r/AskSeddit. That subreddit is dedicated to questions about specific people and situations. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on next stepsPlease repost this to /r/AskSeddit. That subreddit is dedicated to questions about specific people and situations. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What could I have said instead?Please repost this to /r/AskSeddit. That subreddit is dedicated to questions about specific people and situations. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:28 PM |
| 2 | First DatePlease repost this to /r/AskSeddit. That subreddit is dedicated to questions about specific people and situations. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:27 PM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Unfortunately it will be paperback. I will look into hardcover options but the first print run will be paperback. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 06:26 AM |
| 4 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Absolutely! All of it will be posted right here on Seddit. I'm glad you're enjoying it! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 05:42 AM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Please sign up for email updates at http://abovethegame.launchrock.com and you will be notified exactly when the campaign goes live. Thanks for your support! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 05:06 AM |
| 7 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I understand where you're coming from. I really do. The amount of content available today is overwhelming. My goal is to provide the most thorough and concise guide possible. I want to be able to point people to ONE source and say, "This is all you need to get started." I want to give it out in all the formats one could ask for. I want to encourage people to take action, not spend time digging through all the material like I did. Plus I'm going to give it all away for free to sedditors. You migh… | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 05:04 AM |
| 4 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Hey I appreciate your comment. It will be more obvious when the kickstarter goes live but it mostly has to do with the way it allows to "unlock" stretch goals. There are a bunch of things I want to give away and do for free for the seddit community but cannot financially justify. The security afforded with the way Kickstarter works will allow me to do them. I hope that answers your question. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Fort Lauderdale/Miami LairYes! I would love it if you could get a lair going. Miami is such a fun city and the social dynamics are tough to crack. I visit Florida relatively often and would be happy to help you guys out. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:19 AM |
| 6 | Question: Why do you guys even bother with shit-tests?I'll generalize but basically... Social dynamics are fun, "chasing" a woman is fun, and passing shit tests is one of the quickest ways to build attraction and congruence. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm interested in starting up a Vancouver BC lair - who's interested?Please message the moderators if you think you have something going! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:14 AM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Obviously there will be some overlap because we are covering the same topic. However it was be a very different book covering many topics I've not seen well documented before. I wouldn't be writing it if I didn't think it would be an improvement over what's available, but I'll let you guys be the judge! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:12 AM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Haha I'll always have time for seddit! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:09 AM |
| 5 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I'm glad I've helped you out. That's what it's all about! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:08 AM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Thanks, that means a lot! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:08 AM |
| 2 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.What a great comment! The ASF/mASF archives were a huge inspiration for me when I started on this journey. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I may throw in a field report or two, but that's not the focus of this book. It is possible I will do something like that in the future if there's demand though. I do love the idea of having memoirs :) | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:07 AM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Tentatively aiming for the end of next week at the earliest. Sign up for the mailing list for updates on all that stuff! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:46 AM |
| 6 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I will announce as soon as the kickstarter goes live. Please sign up for the mailing list to receive the updates. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 01:46 AM |
| 5 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.http://i.imgur.com/zokwG.gif | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 10:49 PM |
| 42 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Heh. I knew someone would say that. Have an upvote. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 10:25 PM |
| 5 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I won't even talk about that in the book. Everyone needs to meditate on their own values and draw their own boundaries. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 10:22 PM |
| 7 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I hope so! Models is a great book but it's not perfect. I believe this will be a significant improvement. My big focus is on actionable, concise advice. It covers all aspects of game without drifting too far into mental masturbation territory. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 10:11 PM |
| 10 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.The only content I am using is content I created. I would never publish anyone else's work. Hope that clarifies things. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 09:55 PM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Thanks! I'm glad you take value from my writing! | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 08:13 PM |
| 14 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Absolutely! Please subscribe to the mailing list for updates for international sedditors. I'll manually ship you a copy if I have to! I'm also going to be releasing content for free here on seddit. My goal is to get the best material in everyone's hands. I want to further the community's development, not set up a pay wall! | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 08:09 PM |
| 20 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.I will accept human centipedes if you wanna organize one next time I'm back in SF :) | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 08:06 PM |
| 45 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.:) | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 07:57 PM |
| 22 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.You said in another thread that we could expect content this week, will this still be happening? Yep! Working on two posts right now. They will go up tomorrow. And thanks for your kind words! | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 07:57 PM |
| 11 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Thanks! I appreciate that a ton. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there PUA for Girls?Check out /r/fpua. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 06:16 PM |
| 12 | Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant]Anyway I'm rambling, but OP is right, having somewhere where one can present this kind of more focused material (i.e. actual lines, routines, gambits, detailed FR's, discussions of law of averages over a large sample size by people who actually go out, etc) would be appropriate. You have a place for that type of "more focused material." It's called /r/seduction. Start posting that stuff if you want to see more of that stuff. We're only as good as our contributions as a community. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I win someone who plays guys?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is the designated place for questions about specific people & situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 03:32 PM |
| 1 | My buddy failed, my turnPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is the designated place for questions about specific people & situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Need SERIOUS help with (text) game after going Beta over the weekend. I am on thin ice right now and need to salvage.Hi. Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is designated for questions on specific girls & situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 01:26 AM |
| 1 | First Date soon! 23, virgin, first real date! tips please!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is designated for questions about specific girls & situations go. Good luck! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I need help chatting to this girl on facebook!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is designated for questions about specific girls & situations go. Good luck! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Met a Girl, Need AdvicePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is designated for questions about specific girls & situations go. Good luck! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:12 PM |
| 1 | help with facebookPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit or in one of those biweekly Simple Questions threads. Those are for questions about specific girls & situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 03:22 PM |
| 7 | life after seduction: what problems have you encountered?For seduction reasons: No. For historical reasons: Yes. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 02:39 PM |
| 10 | Any advice/guides for going from hooking up to a relationship?I'm putting a post up on this this week (Above The Game Part 8: Relationships). Keep an eye out for it. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 02:26 PM |
| 1 | HB 9 from class texts me a week after school ends. Thought things were going well... Called her to confirm a date, left a voicemail. No response so far. Do I pursue? or let it be?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit or in one of the Simple Questions Threads. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 02:24 PM |
| 6 | The Friendzone Doesn't Existtl;dr: The Friendzone does indeed exist, but she's not the one putting you in there, you are. It took a lot of words to express that point. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 02:23 PM |
| 1 | 21 - left in a position of knowing zero females.Please check out the links in the sidebar --- All you asked is covered in there. It's a good place to start. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 02:21 PM |
| 2 | From a woman's perspectiveWe have outside guys come in all the time and post. There's nothing inherently wrong with that. We generally don't allow responses designed solely to put down OP. In fact we remove comments like that daily. What we do allow are posts that critique what's specifically wrong with their advice, which you didn't do. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 02:12 PM |
| 4 | finding a down to earth, real pua in ConnecticutWhere in CT? There are a few sedditors in CT that I know of. I would love to get a lair going. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 03:07 AM |
| 1 | M17 Questions and problems about the first datePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is for questions about specific girls and situations. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Help me win my dream girl back, seddit?I think you should start "practicing" on tons of different women. Ones you have already been seeing, new ones you meet, hot girls, fat girls, whoever. You're under no obligation to hook up with them, but I really do think it's important to get experience with lots of different people in different situations. If you can learn to develop a real love for studying social dynamics, to the point where "getting rejected" becomes hilarious and fun, then it will make your self-improvement journey a hell … | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Help me win my dream girl back, seddit?Good luck out there! Let me know if you ever need any help. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 07:08 PM |
| 5 | After reading tons of r/seduction and r/manformation... I feel like being the "alpha male" is equivalent of "dick" - am I missing something here?It doesn't mean you're the most aggressive male, like biologists might talk about the Alpha dog in a pack. It means you have more value than other people in the group. I love the concise wording on that. Well stated! | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 06:10 PM |
| 1 | My problem with the pickup community and why i'm reluctant to join (please argue against me)As far as the addiction aspect of it... Going out, having fun, and meeting people is addictive! I'm not sure why that's a bad thing. If the obsession with sex becomes all-consuming, that is a problem (and likely requires therapy beyond what an Internet support group can offer). But going out and meeting people should never be a problem in itself. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 04:25 PM |
| 2 | My problem with the pickup community and why i'm reluctant to join (please argue against me)I am biased, but my Above The Game guide has a pretty different approach from The Game. If you're looking for a book, check out Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 04:07 PM |
| 5 | My problem with the pickup community and why i'm reluctant to join (please argue against me)I can see how you might get that feeling. Certainly a lot of words are written and effort expended in the pursuit of women. Paul Janka is kind of a bad example. He's a "shotgun approach, quantity over quality" type of PUA. He goes out, gets ten phone numbers, sets up 2-3 dates, and sleeps with attractive women. It seems to work for him and he's built a business by doing that. He seems to like shallow relationships, either because he enjoys casual sex with lots of women OR that it's good for his … | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 03:55 PM |
| 13 | Seddit, let's construct a checklist/summary of all the pointers you want to keep in mind before going out.Large fuzzy hat. Goggles. Assorted magic tricks. A rubik's cube (that's what they mean by The Cube, right?) | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Extreme shaking when nervousThis sounds like something you need to talk to doctors/therapists about. Sounds like anxiety disorder. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 03:32 PM |
| 12 | After reading tons of r/seduction and r/manformation... I feel like being the "alpha male" is equivalent of "dick" - am I missing something here?I wrote this Primer on Being a Modern Alpha Male. Give that a read and tell me if you still think alpha = dick. Do not be the one to initiate contact: So if you want this girl you're going to ignore her? You read that on seddit? | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 03:30 PM |
| 10 | Help me win my dream girl back, seddit?Normally I would ask you to repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That subreddit is dedicated for questions about specific girls & situations. But because it's Sunday and this is a good post for others to learn from, I'll allow it in /r/seduction. That being said, all the advice for how to "win her" is in the sidebar --> Seddit is about learning to be better with all women. Do that and you will give yourself the best chance at winning any woman you fancy. This will probably be more clear once you spend m… | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 03:23 PM |
| 15 | From a woman's perspectiveWhat was the point of this comment, Whisper? If you have nothing constructive to add, other than trying to put OP down, please just keep your words to yourself. We get posts every day from men whose advice is "not original" and I don't see you pointing that out to them, so clearly you're capable of that. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:34 AM |
| 1 | My friend with benefits just became a long-distance friend with benefits. Need advice.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:23 AM |
| 1 | I know she's interested, but I hardly ever see her. Help please!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl from high school I liked on POF.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 06:45 PM |
| 3 | how to answer compliments correctly?Smile and say "Thank you." Then talk about whatever you were gonna talk about. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if girls have a boyfriend at a clubJust assume they don't. If the boyfriend is really there, just say "Oh, didn't know" and excuse yourself. Punches are very rarely thrown. It's not even worth worrying about. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Kino Escalation ... can it "transfer"? / Semi-FRYes, this is a concept called Buying Temperature. As a girl's buying temperature rises (In layman's terms, how "hot" she is for guys around her), she will generally be more receptive to sexual advances. This effect is amplified tremendously in high-energy venues with lots of stimulation (nightclubs, concerts, loud bars, festivals, etc.) It's a pretty well known phenomenon. If you search around for Buying Temperature you will learn more about it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 04:19 PM |
| 14 | Sedditors of Nashville! It's time to open up a lair!Set it up and I will add to the sidebar. Let me know! | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 07:27 PM |
| 1 | redhead tenant does hard drugs, but I'm totally infatuatedPlease repost this in /r/askseddit. | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 05:06 PM |
| 53 | This is one of my favorite pickups I've ever seen. I'm no expert in PUA, so what did he do right? wrong?He did everything right, more or less. Paul Janka is a master of high-volume day game. His classic good looks certainly help but I know lots of guys who run similar game. Be direct, confident and spontaneous. That's all it boils down to. | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 05:00 PM |
| -25 | Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & SexThanks a ton for your input. I appreciate it. The purpose of this guide is to get guys who have not had great success with women to take action to correct that. It is much better to over-correct and then calibrate after the fact than to not touch enough and never get anywhere. So do keep that in mind. Most readers have never been accused of being "too touchy" in their lives. Also this is the 7th post in the series.It is primarily aimed for when a man already has built attraction and ccomfort wit… | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 01:54 PM |
| -22 | Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & SexPeople trying to dominate other people is the source of most of the world's problems. You're missing the key phrase against their will. Nothing in my post is about forcing your way on another person who doesn't wholeheartedly enjoy it. If a woman isn't into your advances you should stop, make sure she's comfortable, and move on to someone else. Women overwhelmingly prefer men who take charge. That's just the way it is. That being said, a hugely important part of seduction is meditating on one's … | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & SexPUT THAT COFFEE DOWN | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad game to not be a aloof and to not observe things like texting rules? How much damage is this doing to my game?Are you happy with your results? That's all that matters. Success is measured by your over all happiness. If you're not happy then you need to switch something up. If you keep doing the same thing you will get the same results. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 10:07 PM |
| -17 | Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & SexNice write-up on DMS! I'm recommending 50 Shades of Grey (or the equivalent) as an introduction to the concept of dominance in the bedroom. Most guys are way too timid as is. Just the idea of things like choke-fucking is beyond their reality, yet tons of women go nuts for it. Hopefully reading something smutty like that, and realizing average women all across the world went nuts for it, opens their eyes to what dominance is all about. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & SexThis is very true. I'll add a quick edit :) | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:46 PM |
| 9 | [Logistics] I've read a lot about trying to pick a date location near your place so there's an easy transition to bring her home with you. Don't women see right through this?You need to understand that women are complicit in their seduction (A Zan Perrion quote). They WANT to be swept off their feet by an attractive man. It's not about tricking them, it's about giving them the logistically friendly option to bang when you do your job as the MAN and get her hot and heavy. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)make sure you have a real conversation with her before getting her number. Very true. Also staying around AFTER you get the number is great at mitigating her fear of you being a playboy. Can you just post this over and over? Hah I try! | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)House parties are amazing. Arrive early, be friendly, introduce yourself to others (and your new friends to one another). Social proof goes a long way at a house party. I'm also a fan of organizing the parties. Become the social hub that everyone rotates around. It's an incredibly powerful place to be. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)Understand something about RSD... Their entire marketing message is "Bang hot girls tonight!!" so they need to constantly run game to do that. Their instructors move from city to city and don't have time, during a bootcamp, to demonstrate a different style of game. It's a function of how their business works, not what style of game is best. I'm all for the same night lay, but just as often I prefer to build a connection, exchange numbers, and then continue to party with my friends. Life is too s… | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)I think you need to get your logistics in order, or take your time (multiple dates) and broach the idea that you two need to find a place to hook up. Unless you live in a culture where "love hotels" are common (like in Tokyo) then you will have to work harder. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)Just be honest with her. "Can we go back to your place? I live an hour away." I don't see any reason to not be direct with it. Get her hot & heavy and if the logistics work, you'll be fine. It's a crap shoot when you rely on others for logistics, so increase your chances by meeting more women. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)Well, be shameless as you ask for phone numbers from people you meet. It will always be a little bit awkward, but that's normal. You will need to be the aggressor early on (inviting people out to do cool things). If you vibe with someone, run with it! This post I wrote on giving value is very relevant. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:17 PM |
| 10 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)/r/firstworldproblems | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 03:44 AM |
| 7 | Add Billy's Guides to the Guides Sidebar section?I'll add a few of them tomorrow. Great idea! | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)I'm just saying this because I'm really proud I pulled it off... About six months after that FR I went back and fucked the club manager. All the seeds were planted that first night :) | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)Yeah, I was thinking it was good, it's just the opposite of the advice in this post. That's because you can only play the "I'm new in town" card for so long. After a few months you'd better know your city like the back of your hand! Anyway, a new life in a new city is an exciting time. You'll have a blast! | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Cougars, sugar daddies more myth than realityYeah... maybe the "cougars marrying younger men" statistic hasn't changed much but the current climate makes it more acceptable for cougars to seek casual sex. Awful article. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 09:44 PM |
| 1 | A quick guide to clubbingCheck the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 09:32 PM |
| 19 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)"I'm new in town. Know any cool places?" is the easiest ice-breaker in the world. My suggestion is to go out, build a network of friends and cool people as soon as humanly possible. Even if the first people you meet are lame, you'll have a safety net and can continue to build your social network. Don't just go for hot women, either. Try to build up a healthy network of friends. Here is a field report from when I was new in Tokyo. I went out solo and met a ton of cool people. Some of my best frie… | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 08:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Convention Field ReportPlease add in line breaks and formatting. This is difficult to read as is. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationRemember, this is typically in the "getting to know each other" part of either the first encounter (after you've isolated) or first date. You are expected to force some questions to learn about each other. There are thousands of different ways to bring it up. The point is to experiment and try different things out on your own. That's how you learn and how you develop your own style. This guide is about taking action and learning. It's not about following routines someone else created. | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 06:31 PM |
| -3 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationIt actually works really well in Japan. I've used it dozens of times. | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Not sure where I stand with this girlPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit or one of our Simple Questions threads. Thanks so much. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 10:34 PM |
| 2 | What are the main characteristics of a successful date?Plan your logistics ahead of time. How are you going to move her from the date venue to your house? Those are the things you need to consider. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 08:22 PM |
| 55 | [FR] A Tale of Two Dates. Two Sides of A Coin.Great FR, well formatted, and the "what I learned" sections are money. Guys, take note. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Let's discuss threesome F/R's and see if we can't discern some common patterns and key elements.This is definitely one of puaCurveBall's areas of expertise. Definitely take what he says to heart, he knows his stuff very well. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 07:08 PM |
| 38 | Let's discuss threesome F/R's and see if we can't discern some common patterns and key elements.You should write a guide on your method. 70 in 18 months is extraordinary and I've known plenty of guys who pickup with their hot bisexual girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationIt's just an example. I'll edit it to make my point more clear. Thanks for the feedback. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationCan you explain what you mean? | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationIt's not that talking about a thesis is boring. It's about recognizing when a conversation isn't going anywhere (stereotypical interview questions tend to do that, especially very early in your interaction. This is because, without trying to polarize, you are no different from the last ten guys to hit on her.) Having the social awareness to recognize that, and the confidence to call it out, is very attractive and demonstrates value. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationI am gonna touch on that on the section on physical escalation. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 12:00 PM |
| 36 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationI chose that example because, until you try to push boundaries, you'll never realize how far you can take things with girls. I'm not trying to turn you into a clone of me. I am trying to get you out of your comfort zone so you can experience breakthroughs. Everyone needs to develop their own style but it's important to piss off a few girls in the process. You'll never escape "nice guy" syndrome if you don't. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 11:57 AM |
| 12 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationAnd thanks for your comments too, I really appreciate active discussions about this stuff. A member of the /r/BayAreaSeddit GroupMe chat explained it well: "The best part of ATG has been the distilling of concepts into a single sentence. You can't absorb a ton of shit about qualification, but you can remember "I wonder what she's like" in any conversation. I think that sums up the goal of Above The Game really well. Game advice distilled to its purest form coupled with actionable advice to get p… | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 10:42 PM |
| 11 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationNP. That was more of a warning for everyone else, not directed at you specifically! It's less than $10, just buy it :P | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 10:16 PM |
| 19 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationWe don't allow pirated materials on seddit out of respect for the professionals who come on here to do AMAs, so don't even post the links. You will be banned. Does this link not work for you? That is the ebook version. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 10:07 PM |
| 52 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationWell, it's a heck of a lot more concise than Models, for starters :) My main influences are (in this order): personal experience, other sedditors, Zan Perrion, Mark Manson, RSD, Prometheus Rising (awful book, but I loved his use of "Exercizes"). Everything that can be deciphered and written about seduction has already been written. That's why you are seeing a lot of similarities. The problem is that the business model of seduction companies has evolved into a bombardment of content marketing in … | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Is a bootcamp necessary to really jump your game to the next level?No the best way to get better is find someone who had an idea what their doing and go out... A lot. 100% true. Follow this advice, OP. That $3000 the bootcamp costs will fund your bar tabs for months. There are "pickup artists" who are just as talented as the gurus out every night of the week. You can go observe them for free. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 09:48 PM |
| 10 | Is a bootcamp necessary to really jump your game to the next level?Follow my Above The Game guide in the sidebar. It will be a better use of your time and money (unless you're filthy rich). | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Some bullet points for your MondayGotcha. That does clear it up. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Some bullet points for your Monday*her. And ooh, kinky :P | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Some bullet points for your MondayHeh what have you been doing if you're not working? | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Some bullet points for your MondayThat's a really good point. BTW how's Japan treating you? | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Some bullet points for your MondayI don't really understand what a "pretend friend" is. I consider anyone who I enjoy hanging around with a friend. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Some bullet points for your MondaySure, read this first (including the comments) and then read this post. I will write a more organized/detailed guide in the near future but that should give you the gist of it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:23 PM |
| -1 | Above The Game Part 3: Body Language & How to ApproachHaha, fixed! I think it has levels, even if they don't call them that. Go get first place in Rainbow Road :P | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 3: Body Language & How to ApproachAs with everything, calibration is key. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:24 AM |
| 14 | Some bullet points for your MondayI love the post, but I respectfully disagree with this: That said, DO NOT TRY TO BE "FRIENDS" WITH A GIRL YOU FIND SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE. "Sexually attractive" here means a girl who you'd go out of your way to have sex with. Not simply a woman whom you'd shag given the opportunity (free sex!). You'd be lying to yourself every day you see a girl who you'd like to ask out but don't. I am a HUGE believer in friend-zoning smoking hot chicks (models, etc). It is way easier than trying to seduce them ou… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 10:31 PM |
| 2 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.A tried and true method. I love dropping the F-bomb on girls. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 11:36 PM |
| 2 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.My point is that it's possible to have your cake and eat it too. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 11:31 PM |
| 3 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonI didn't like that book. It was full of material that will horribly backfire for the miscalibrated. And fundraising is a high stakes game. I think he was a bit irresponsible with the way he presented it. There was definitely a better way to teach. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 10:24 PM |
| 16 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonHe actually did two AMAs. Check the sidebar for links. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 10:23 PM |
| 6 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.I throw side-arm all the time even though it's uncomfortable for me. I'd rather not go to bars, but that's what works best, so I go to the bars and have some drinks with the girl. Dude, you shouldn't let the pursuit of pussy lead you to do things you don't enjoy. That's just sad. It's the opposite of good game. Just because something works "best" (which is almost always subjective and debatable anyway) doesn't mean you have to do it. There is plenty of wiggle room in game to only do things you t… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 10:11 PM |
| 44 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.First off, you're not being downvoted. Your comment has plenty of upvotes. Secondly, it's because you are jumping on OP for giving advice after he gets a phone number by saying it's retarded to get phone numbers. That's fine, but that is basically invalidating his entire point, which is a good point. (Push for real life encounters instead of texting all day.) Third, sure, bars might be better than coffee dates, but not everyone is 21 or even likes going to bars. You're speaking like it's a "one … | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 06:30 PM |
| 13 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonOut of respect for the men and women who come on and do AMAs, we do not allow pirated links on seddit. Seriously, go buy Models. It's worth every penny and it's under $20. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 02:43 PM |
| 23 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonOut of respect for the men and women who come on and do AMAs, we do not allow pirated links on seddit. Seriously, go buy Models. It's worth every penny and it's under $20. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 02:42 PM |
| 1 | I was told to post this here from EMSKPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more answers. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 07:32 PM |
| 1 | "The FAQ" is a dead link in the side barThanks for pointing this out, that is a remnant of when reddit converted to the new wiki system. We will address it. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 07:10 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Pull at a popular Monday bar in SFNice! Check our /r/BayAreaSeddit if you haven't yet. | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 01:02 PM |
| 1 | i'm a guy from india who gets friend zoned by every other girl I interact with. please help...Everything you need is located in the sidebar. I'm removing your post, if you feel the need for more responses, please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Just an observation here, guys...Just do it. It's not complicated. But there is no way to verify it's really "women's only" so good luck with that. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 01:11 PM |
| 11 | The Obsession with Getting Laid...I agree with the spirit of this post, but if you aren't getting laid you will not be successful in pickup. That's just the truth of it. The ability to sexually seduce a woman gives you access to more long-term relationship prospects, so if you want to "fall in love" learning how to get laid is part and parcel to "finding the one and keeping her." This whole thing reads like a justification for a man who is sexually frustrated. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Simple primer on winging - Lots of beginners ignore it, but it's so freaking importantIs this performance art, Cajun? :P | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 12:54 PM |
| 2 | my skills are soo great this happens regularlyWe don't allow meme images on seddit. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 09:29 PM |
| 3 | FR: The universe is your wingmanJust curious, what club did you hit up? | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 06:16 PM |
| 16 | Top 10 tips for a foreign fling?Some really basic advice to make any trip more enjoyable... Be fun, spontaneous, outgoing, and adventurous. Sleep as little as possible and try to be out on the town as much as humanly possible. You'll have time to sit around when you get home. Be shameless and talk to everyone. Ask for recommendations for places to go and things to see. Try to get the booze flowing and meet as many people as humanly possible. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)I'm not the best AMOG in the world (way too friendly), but my go-to is just to call a guy creepy in earshot of the girls. Or to mention to the girls how creepy he is, etc. It is almost impossible to come back from being called creepy. There is something primal with that word. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Maintaining/Escalating Attraction in a LDR - One Caveat, She Lives In A Different Country.OK, here is my advice. Keep in mind I have moved around the globe and have plenty of experience with long distance relationships. Don't jump in head over heels and try to be exclusive while you are in different countries. That's silly. Make sure she knows she is special to you and speak to her regularly on skype. Send her nice notes and pictures on email. When you're out and see something cool, take a photo and send it to her. She will appreciate these gestures. Keep things warm and have a great… | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Maintaining/Escalating Attraction in a LDR - One Caveat, She Lives In A Different Country.Let me flip this on you. What are your plans for cutting the physical distance between you? | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 12:07 PM |
| 56 | Are monogamous people more satisfied?According to a new study published in the Journal of Counseling Psychology, the association between monogamy and relationship outcomes depends upon the partners’ level of attachment anxiety tl;dr: inner game dictates happiness, not whether you are monogamous or not | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 12:06 PM |
| 3 | When do you find the time to study/administer seduction?Talk to girls on your campus, dude. Colleges are a day game paradise. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 11:54 AM |
| 1 | When do you find the time to study/administer seduction?It can be a great placebo effect to force guys to take action that they normally won't. Just ignore all the pseudo-science/bro science nonsense. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 11:53 AM |
| 0 | What is a good comeback to a guy saying something like "I've had sex with your girl, enjoy the sloppy seconds!" or "Your girl is a slut" ?"Cool story bro." | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Do you think that AMOGing other guys is a bad thing to do every once in a while? When is it appropriate? I think it's important to try it from time to time to learn how it's done, so you will be better prepared when it happens to you or when you might need to do it. That being said, the underlying concept should always be "be a value giver" so it's not often that AMOGing is congruent with that. But in the cases that it is, there's nothing wrong with it. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Another step is to then get her to "hit on you" (role playing) as if she was this guy, then tease her more for being rubbish at picking up girls. Excellent results with this one and sets a powerful sexual frame! Hah I love that one. Gonna try it out. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 11:40 AM |
| 13 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Nothing I post is ever "just for clicks." I try to teach by example. I understand that the opener doesn't match everyone's style, but if you don't understand why it's a good opener then that should be a sign you need to spend more time in field practicing and mastering pickup. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 09:41 AM |
| 12 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Exactly. People seem to think "backfiring" as a bad thing when it's just the opposite. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 11:10 PM |
| 23 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)So? | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 10:01 PM |
| 26 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Yup. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything out there similar to RSD's Hotseat? Aka What's the best infield footage programs/videos available?I ahvent bought any of their materials yet, but if the free shit is good, the paid stuff must be mind blowing Not really, though. They put most of their best stuff out on the web because they are content marketers. Their business is getting you to sign up for bootcamps, they don't make money on the content so it's best for them to give it away for free. Yes, the hot seat material is good, but it's not "mind blowing." It's basically more of the same. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything out there similar to RSD's Hotseat? Aka What's the best infield footage programs/videos available?Going out regularly and observing people in action will always be superior to videos. If you can link up with a group of likeminded men in your area (like the seddit lairs in the sidebar), you will learn more than any program could teach you. To more directly answer your question, not to my knowledge. Simple Pickup have a paid service but I don't think it's of the same quality of instruction as RSD's. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill/Seduction knowledge implementedNot sure what that has to do with red pill, but I love the abundance mentality attitude! | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 04:41 PM |
| 7 | Rant: Every professional PUA claims how awful he was before achieving greatnesscommercial gimmick That's what it boils down to. I admit that I was lucky to have sexual experience early on. Understanding what you are good at naturally and what you have to work on is hugely helpful for proper developing game. It's part of that whole "introspection" thing that you all should be doing. But the idea that all gurus were 100% chumps when it came to women is just statistically improbable. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 03:47 PM |
| 13 | The community has turned me into this cocky, asshole-ish guy. I love people. Is this common in pick up?Somewhere along the way you forgot the central tenet of "Always be a value giver." If you're always contributing positive value to others than you will never be perceived as an asshole. Are you being selfish with your value and hoarding it all to yourself? People are drawn to value givers. I would suggest spending some time working on your inner game and getting to the core of your issues. Start with this sidebar link here. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 12:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First SNL from Semi-Cold ApproachFortune favors the bold. If you never make your intentions known, you will have trouble escalating. It's much better to test the water first, like how OP did, than to spend 5 hours following a dead-end lead that won't go anywhere. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 09:19 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First SNL from Semi-Cold ApproachAfter about an hour I started planting seeds for the pull, i.e. I told her that her and I were going to ditch the group and go to a bar ourselves, then later on I told her we were going to go back to her place later. That was really smart of you to do. Congrats on the sex! | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 06:59 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Day 2 ObstaclesSounds to me like she's conflicted. Your options are to 1) continue full throttle and possibly scare her off, 2) next her, or 3) take a more passive and long-term approach. I'd personally take #3 but I'm lazy. By it I mean to friend her on Facebook, comment on her posts from time to time, and invite her out to fun things that you would otherwise be doing anyway. If the situation changes and her feelings for you become less conflicted it will probably become more apparent. Anyway, she clearly fee… | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Just lost my fatherReally sorry for your loss. I cannot show sadness as my little brother, mother and grandparents now depend on me. That's not true at all, man. Don't bottle up your emotions. No one will think less of you for it. I am not sure if I am allowed to laugh, talk to girls anymore, or have fun because it feels like it will be blasphemy to his memory. Re-read that slowly. I think you'll see that it doesn't make any sense. Your dad would want you to live your life and be social. Will everything I have don… | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateYou have to slowly desensitize yourself to it. Try following the Action Items in my Above the Game #2 post. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 02:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateJust point to it. It was a pretty overt gesture. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 02:10 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateI handle this by changing the location. Yep, do that if you can. Sometimes you cannot win a prolonged confrontation, like you said. The strongest move you have against an AMOG like you described is to call them creepy in front of the girls. "No offense but your friend is really creepy. Listen, why don't you give me your number and we can talk later." When you plant the "creepy" seed into a girl's head, she will start to see her interaction with him differently. It's a cheapshot but it definitely… | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 02:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateGo for it! | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 02:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateShe's definitely interested, but you are totally right about the flaking thing. That's why you really should be going out regularly and meetings lots of women if you want to increase your chances of forming a successful relationship (as defined however you want). | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 04:49 AM |
| 20 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateCool. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 10:27 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateImagine the scene... A crowded area by the bar where people are jammed on top of each other. It wasn't like we were alone in a field. Also, what's wrong with sexual? I was overtly flirting with her - I wanted it to be sexual. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 10:20 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateCould you explain the approach that you would have used? | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 09:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a Dateabout 35-40 minutes by car | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 09:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateNah, not from Hartford. I actually don't know the city very well. To me it's an extremely boring city. New Haven is vastly superior. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:50 PM |
| 35 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateAfterwards we hit up a strip club. All the strippers ignored me for my suited up friend haha. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:12 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateHe got the number and was texting with her today. Looks like they might be getting together next time she is in NYC! | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:12 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateHeh, I hear ya. I'll have a big update about ATG this upcoming week. (I mean it this time) | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:11 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DatePM me your #! | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Handling GF's friends, if I don't speak their language.Smile, have fun, ooze confidence, don't even let it faze you. | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Seddit just hit 100,000 subscribers a few seconds ago. What has been your favourite post ever made here?Could you PM me or the mods about this? I would like to learn more about the MFA system. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 02:35 PM |
| 124 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".How much money do you spend on average per visit? If you're not providing any value to the establishment they were within reason to give you the boot. Also, what you described is rare but not at all unheard of. A lot of guys have preconceptions about approaching women and there is nothing you can do about it. It's possible he is jealous or just white knighting. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction?Coming to /r/seduction[1] is like this addiction that I can't stop. I come here and it's like looking in the window of an exclusive club you desperately want to be a member of, but are barred from at the door. That is 100% inside your head. What is stopping you from going out and talking to people? | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong?Hi, please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions threads, held on Monday and Friday. Those are designated for questions on specific situations/girls like yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Seddit masters, I need some advice on getting out of the friend zone. Complicated story.Hi, please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions threads, held on Monday and Friday. Those are designated for questions on specific situations/girls like yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 01:20 PM |
| 1 | She thought I was gay...how do I pull a bad ass move and come out on top of this?Hi, please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions threads, held on Monday and Friday. Those are designated for questions on specific situations/girls like yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I need some advice.Hi, please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions threads, held on Monday and Friday. Those are designated for questions on specific situations/girls like yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?Hi, please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions threads, held on Monday and Friday. Those are designated for questions on specific situations/girls like yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 01:17 PM |
| 13 | Have you ever been to a bootcamp?IMO take the money you spend on a bootcamp (say, $1500) and go have 30 $50 bar nights practicing and observing. Or go on a couple vacations and sarge like you've never sarged before ("you'll never see these people again, etc.") That being said, for those who have extraneous income, a bootcamp can be a very powerful tool. But do your research and be ready to put in hundreds of hours of work immediately following the bootcamp if you expect the improvements to last beyond the honeymoon period. Feel… | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 05:23 PM |
| 18 | The Truth about Pick-up [Video]Hah, I saw it was by "OGFurious" and was like "Oh well, need to remove another joke video," but then I watched a bit of it and saw it was actually a serious video and had some decent content in it. Upvote from me. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 05:21 PM |
| 28 | Where is the rest of TofuTofu's Above the game?Sorry guys, it's coming soon. I'll put a post up about it next week. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 05:08 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked me to come out to a bar but I can't tonight how to handle this?Please repost this on /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Threads. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific girls/situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl randomly changes relationship statusPlease repost this on /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Threads. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific girls/situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Seddit just hit 100,000 subscribers a few seconds ago. What has been your favourite post ever made here?We're designing something like that, actually. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 12:53 AM |
| 28 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/4/2013 (please upvote - zero karma)It's proof that you don't need to master every single quality ever mentioned to reach a high level. | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 01:01 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/4/2013 (please upvote - zero karma)there would still quite a few hours of free time that I would have no idea what to do with. Why not use that time to go out and socialize and put some of the lessons from this subreddit to use? | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 11:59 PM |
| 16 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/4/2013 (please upvote - zero karma)You're overthinking things and being a pedantic. His point is... sitting alone in your room playing games will make you good at... sitting in your room playing games. Do you want to do more with it? Do you want to work in the industry? Start a gaming vendor or company? Start a website? A youtube channel? Be a celebrity at conventions? There is a shit ton of stuff you can do with videogames, but you need to decide what your passion truly is. If sitting alone playing games is more important to you… | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 10:38 PM |
| 2 | what if the girl keeps texting you?It's up already. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 09:03 PM |
| 1 | A little help; confused by a lady's actions (or lack thereof)Hi. Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Monday and Friday. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific women/situations such as yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Need advice after a possible flake or maybe just non-committalHi. Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Monday and Friday. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific women/situations such as yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How to turn an f-close after a first date into a relationship?Hi. Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Monday and Friday. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific women/situations such as yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | The Disney ComplexHi. Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Monday and Friday. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific women/situations such as yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | what if the girl keeps texting you?Hi. Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Monday and Friday. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific women/situations such as yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Confused as to what happened.Hi. Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Monday and Friday. Those are the designated locations for questions about specific women/situations such as yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeThat's actually not what I mean at all. You need to take inventory of your life and decide what is important to you and your goals. If you don't see your ideal self having certain hobbies or friends, you need to make some hard decisions. No one person's goals and values are the same as anyone else's. It's up to you to meditate deeply on your values and come to those conclusions yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] RESEDDIT IS BACK, with a FR on why you can't be an asshole to women who you don't succeed with.I hear you, man. But this is where you are mistaken... I don't really like girls being attracted to me out of jealousy either They aren't attracted to you out of jealousy. They are attracted to you because you've been validated as a viable mate. That's pre-selection and it's different from "I want what I can't have" even if that's how popular media portrays it. There is nothing wrong with it and it's nothing to get annoyed at. In fact, you should see it as nothing but flattering! Feeling "annoye… | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 02:23 PM |
| 4 | [FR] RESEDDIT IS BACK, with a FR on why you can't be an asshole to women who you don't succeed with.I always get annoyed (not to their face) with girls who've rejected me who only wana talk when I'm hitting on someone else No offense, but that's a really shallow/immature mindset to have. In that scenario you have proven that you are a desirable person to be with so she becomes more attracted to you. That's just human nature, and it's nothing that should annoy you. I know your mom told you that you were "special" and "a catch" since you were a child, but in the real world things don't work out … | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 01:18 PM |
| 17 | [FR] RESEDDIT IS BACK, with a FR on why you can't be an asshole to women who you don't succeed with.Aww yeah! reseddit is OG seddit and my main wingman from our times on Tokyo. Listen to everything he says, guys. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Friend Zone Advice from Top Seddit Post Nearly a Year AgoThat's a complicated situation. My advice is to write up a much more detailed post about her on /r/AskSeddit and then link me to it. I'll try and take a look then. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 05:10 PM |
| -30 | On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of.I give everyone that posts here the benefit of the doubt. "Oh, hey, me too, I need some green tea. [this is actually true] I'll walk with you." He said he was and that's all we have to base this on. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 01:57 AM |
| -41 | On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of.So he should have bailed on his decision to go to Starbucks because the girl he started speaking to was also going there? That's not how you should live your life. I think it's very likely he did something to creep her out (that he is oblivious to) but there is nothing wrong with walking and talking with a stranger. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 12:56 AM |
| 1 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysYou're reading too much into it haha. But that is pretty good! | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Is being outright with your intentions the best way to achieve a FWB relationship?Hey, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads posted on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated spots for questions on specific situations/girls. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How to raise Attraction between Initial Meet and Actual Date?Hey, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads posted on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated spots for questions on specific situations/girls. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Step ?: What to talk aboutHey, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads posted on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated spots for questions on specific situations/girls. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What do I do about a girl that never initiates conversations?Hey, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads posted on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated spots for questions on specific situations/girls. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What to reply to a girl who's bailed on your date?Hey, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads posted on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated spots for questions on specific situations/girls. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis Development Stages..I think. Advice needed!Hey, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads posted on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated spots for questions on specific situations/girls. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:41 PM |
| -88 | On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of.You literally had 5 seconds of conversation with her and follow her to Starbucks, what the fuck? There's really nothing wrong with that. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 07:34 AM |
| 6 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysIf she hadn't been clearly interested from the start, how would you have proceeded? Would you still go so direct? It would have been quite different for sure! But no, I wouldn't have been so direct. I guess that's what calibration is for :) | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 12:43 AM |
| 6 | Time for a reality check. Read this if you consider yourself at least moderately successfulFrom what I seen, the only guys who routinely get hit up by lots of girls are ones who contribute a well-above-average amount of value. Like guys who live in mansions, have millions of dollars, or have celebrity status in certain circles. I wouldn't stress it too much. It's almost never just simple and easy like asking one of my bros to hang. Hot girls have more options than you could imagine. Also they are much more likely to flake for "silly" reasons, like cramps or a bad hair day. Get used to… | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 11:41 PM |
| 42 | On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of.Only in America That's not true. Lots of countries have similar (or worse) stigmas. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 11:37 PM |
| 10 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysI guess you have to ask yourself if you want to date someone who doesn't let you bring up sex as a conversation topic. If you're not okay with that, then bringing up sex makes for a pretty good screening method. In that case I would probably flip it on her: "Do you not like sex?" and segue into a good conversation about it. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 11:33 PM |
| 16 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysNowadays, do you ever fuck up (with regard to seduction)? Haha, absolutely. All the time. Just last night I completely fucked up a day-2. Also I don't put nearly enough effort into getting in shape which would do tons of good for my game. My problem is I generally don't have trouble getting laid so I'm not super motivated to diet properly. If you're not blowing sets and having girls flake on you, you're not gaming nearly enough. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 11:32 PM |
| 13 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysIt all boils back to calibration. You need to be able to read the situation. Sometimes it's better for rapid fire delivery, sometimes it's better to space it out. The only way to improve your calibration is by getting lots of experience. So get out there and blow some sets! | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 11:04 PM |
| 85 | On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of.The worst that can happen is you get an awesome story. Hah. I love the twist at the end. For real though, maybe ask a wingman or friend if you ever do anything to come off creepy. It could be something subtle, like your body language. It can't hurt to get some outside opinions. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 10:59 PM |
| 1 | So the Girl is just out of Relationship, Hesitant to meeting new ppl, how to handle this?Please repost this either on /r/askseddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. Those are designated for questions about specific girls/situations like yours. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 09:34 PM |
| 5 | how does seddit feel about sandwich_witch comment that made the front post?He's pretty much the archetype of the average frustrated chump. Frustrated and bitter and he doesn't know what he's doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 06:36 PM |
| 27 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysSomething like this. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 05:32 PM |
| 95 | [Text transcript] A lesson in calibration - I'll break down my thought process for you guysBitches love smiley faces. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 05:12 PM |
| 21 | how does seddit feel about sandwich_witch comment that made the front post?It's accurate. It explains the origins of the bitch shield. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Going to a little kick back tomarrow night. There will be some attractive women. Theres one girl i have in mind. Shes hosting. I have her attention. How can I possibly score tomarrow? If not, how do i remain of interest.Please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held Mondays and Fridays. Those are the designated areas for questions about specific girls and/or situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What does KINO mean?There is a glossary of terms in the sidebar ---> | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I was led onto sex tonight but it never happenedPlease repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held Mondays and Fridays. Those are the designated areas for questions about specific girls and/or situations. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?I approve of this :) | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 03:51 PM |
| 1 | 7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (and how to avoid them) | Dating TicketSolid advice in the article. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 34 | Friend Zone Advice from Top Seddit Post Nearly a Year AgoI will verify that this works. Calling a girl "friend" or "bro" or similar will make almost any girl (except tom boys who run with almost exclusively male crews) qualify to you. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 2 | What Makes the Perfect Pickup Artist?Agreed. Time to put the finishing touches on. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 03:28 PM |
| 1 | What Makes the Perfect Pickup Artist?Hahaha, far from perfect. But thanks for the sentiment! | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 03:28 PM |
| 4 | What Makes the Perfect Pickup Artist?Nick gets it, as usual :) Here are my thoughts on indirect versus direct game: A lot of traditional pickup theory advocates opening indirectly and masking one's intentions. FUCK THAT NOISE. The battle of "direct versus indirect" has been fought and direct has won. Indirect opening and masking one's intentions is the primordial ooze that the Friend Zone crawled out of. You desire her, don't you? FUCKING TELL HER. Source | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Should it go this fast?Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Language barriers and game?Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:50 PM |
| 1 | RE: where guys go wrong (related, but a bit OT from that too).Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Haven't Texted This Girl In A While. Help?Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:47 PM |
| 1 | My liquid courage is up right now.Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Chasing girls playing hard to get...worth it?Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How to remain alpha without a big social life?Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls and situations belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Challenging my limiting belief. I am a 23 year old man with a facial deformity. Confident I can still be as good as the naturals, though.This is not helpful advice. Please be more mindful of your fellow sedditors or you will be banned. | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Met this AWESOME girl in a club last night. I have her number. Whats the first text I should send to her?Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | The First Text™Please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. That is where questions about specific girls belong. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 5 | What if you're not interested in a lot of women?Adding to what ThrowawayPUA said... But you better have your game up to speed when you meet The One. And there's no better way to get your game up to speed than by practicing game! Which is why going out and meeting a lot of women is pretty critical. Just think of it as dress rehearsal for the big show. You don't need to sleep with or mislead any of the women you meet, but there's nothing wrong with developing your standards and using them to screen away women until you find the one that really … | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:41 PM |
| 43 | Where Guys Go Wrong when They Meet a Girl They Really LikeThanks for giving me a post I can link guys who are afraid to escalate to! | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I Need Help, Keep Getting StuckHi, please repost this in /r/AskSeddit or one of our Simple Questions Threads (held Mondays and Fridays). Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 03:02 PM |
| 3 | When I hit on girls, I feel guilt and shame. I have my life together. I enjoy interacting with them. They enjoy interacting with me. I always try to make the situation win-win. This is a huge sticking point for me. It just kicks in, and pummels me out of state. I'm 28 and single. Please help :(.I agree that therapy would help. But dude, your frame is completely wrong! You're an awesome guy who has his shit together... Why would you feel guilty that you're sharing all that with a woman?! If anything you should feel guilty that you're being a selfish prick and withholding your awesomeness from the world! | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Hard time accepting casual sexit's not mathematically possible for the males to have an average of 6-8 female sexual partners and for women to have an average of 4 male sexual partners. It absolutely is. If 1 guy is sleeping with 100 women, and those 100 women are only sleeping with that 1 guy, on average those women have 1 partner and that man has 100 partners. It's not "number of sexual experiences" it's "number of partners." | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Hard time accepting casual sexThank you. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Hard time accepting casual sexAttitudes towards sex vary from person to person. I encourage everyone to figure out where they want to be and to pursue it. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Hard time accepting casual sexConflicting scientific data over long term, same with testosterone. Like I said, it can fit in as one small part of a much larger holistic process of self-improvement. It just doesn't deserve special recognition over countless other things. "Everything in moderation, including moderation." | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 03:50 PM |
| 19 | Hard time accepting casual sexDo you have any source for that data? I suspect your numbers are high, but I'd be really curious to learn more. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Hard time accepting casual sexAll a "distinguished" post means is that it's the subreddit's official stance. We've discussed this in detail before. EDIT: To clarify. Taken from one of my Above The Game posts: 1) Go someplace relaxing where you can be all alone. Bring a pen and a notebook. Ponder deeply and visualize the man you want to be 90 days from now. Catalog your life and remove anything and everything that doesn't fit this new image you have for yourself. Write this all down. Examples: Stop wasting time playing pointl… | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Literal life changing stuff for me. I can't stop listening to this showCan you fix the link? It doesn't work (unless you plug it into an RSS feeder). | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 02:02 PM |
| 25 | Hard time accepting casual sexThe reason we don't endorse "no fap" on seddit is because masurbation is literally one of millions of possible wasteful activities and/or limiting beliefs. We believe in treating the disease, not the symptoms. It would be unmanageable to index every possible wasteful activity. Also "fapstronauts" are like cult members, I swear. You guys put more effort into evangelizing your cause than any other subreddit, bar none. :) | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:57 PM |
| 14 | Hard time accepting casual sexEasy. Sex is often the starting point of fulfilling relationships. It is the moment when it goes from casual fling to "Holy shit I might really like this guy." Putting yourself out there and having good sex will give you more opportunities to have that moment. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:49 PM |
| 52 | Hard time accepting casual sexI just want to clarify something for the readers out there. There is nothing wrong with masturbation. All (literally ALL) of the best pickup artists I have ever met masturbate whenever the fuck they feel like and still get laid like rockstars and live fulfilling lives. "No Fap" is absolutely a placebo. That being said, if you are using masturbation as a crutch to keep from improving yourself and approaching women, then yes, limiting masturbation is probably the right move. But it's no different … | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Out of curiosity, why does most of reddit have a negative stigma towards seddit?Nuking a thread from orbit is often out only option as moderators to deal with mass invasions from outside sources like this one. It's unfortunate. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Going after girls in relationships / with current BFsHi, could you please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly "Simple Questions Threads" hosted every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific situations like yours belong. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Question on contact while away for the holidaysHi, could you please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly "Simple Questions Threads" hosted every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific situations like yours belong. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a girl's friends "borrowing" herHi, could you please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly "Simple Questions Threads" hosted every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific situations like yours belong. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with a girl who is difficult to text?Hi, could you please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly "Simple Questions Threads" hosted every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific situations like yours belong. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:10 PM |
| 1 | He will not put his tongue down my mouthHi, could you please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly "Simple Questions Threads" hosted every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific situations like yours belong. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator EDIT: Also have you tried just asking him to make out with you? Some guys are terribly afraid of physically escalating and need a big old green GO signal. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Confession: I like Asian Girls, but seems like the standard rules of engagement don't work. Or maybe I'm doing something wrong.Final warning. If I catch you trolling on this subreddit again you will be banned on site. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:07 PM |
| 21 | Hard time accepting casual sexI'm not sure I follow... Are you feeling insignificant because girls seem to only be interested in casual sex with you? | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Douchebag keeps cock blocking me and my friends, help?He's not your friend if he continues to do this after you talk to him about it. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 12:07 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Announcing the newest Seddit lairs: Chicago and Washington, DC! (please upvote - no karma)Legacy reasons. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 01:53 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "Are you coming to pay tribute too?" - Why preselection kicks ass & how you can create it from scratch.Probably 5'2" or so. Not freakishly tiny, but small nonetheless :) | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 11:45 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Announcing the newest Seddit lairs: Chicago and Washington, DC! (please upvote - no karma)We had a lair in London /r/LondonSeddit and it was delisted due to inactivity. If you (and others) want to revive it, go right ahead! I'll talk to the admins about taking over moderatorship. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 11:27 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/21/2012Give her the gift of multiple orgasms. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/21/2012Just to add one caveat to this, there are some shy/socially awkward girls who are bad at giving physical signals. So just be careful. As with all situations, just assume attraction and escalate appropriately. It will save a lot of headaches. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Christmas present: Need adviceHi, could you please repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or the Simple Question Thread going on? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Seddit we need a guide to the lingo we use for the sidebarYou mean like the big links in the sidebar that say "GLOSSARY OF TERMS"? ;) | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 10:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately...26 isn't really that crazy. If you practice safe sex, you can have sex with hundreds of women without contracting STDs. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately...Yup. Just get on the GroupMe (msg sleiveen). Guys are going out for drinks and whatever most nights of the week. There are occasional meetups, but most nights out are more casual. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 05:16 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] REMINDER: Always check if your post is in the 'new' list and if not, message the mods. Your post was picked up by the spam filter.Every day us mods pour through dozens of posts in the spam filter. The filter is aggressive (which is why you don't see tons of spam on here), but at the time same, it false flags many posts, as seen in the attached screenshot. We can't actively monitor the spam filter 24/7, so please always check if your post went through. If you click "sorted by new" and don't see your post, immediately use the "message the moderators" link in the sidebar to alert us. We will review and approve as quickly as w… | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I need your advice on a situationHey, could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately...You should link up with the /r/GothamSeddit crew. It's a good group of guys in NYC. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceBeing mis-calibrated will certainly hinder your game, but being downright afraid to escalate (as most AFCs are) will completely destroy your game. Couldn't have said it better myself. Well stated, sir. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceYup, calibration is key. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:44 PM |
| 9 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceCheck out how Tyler & Jeffy explain it. The vast, vast majority of guys fail because they don't escalate nearly enough. If they escalated much more and got out of their comfort zone, then they would be much more successful with women. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:29 PM |
| 19 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceShe was flattered and not threatened. You didn't waste any time pursuing an engaged woman and you might have befriended a hot chick who has a lot of respect for your balls. Everyone wins. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceTofuTofu - Ever pull it off with a look ? I've heard that I 'look at them different'. Absolutely! Lock eyes and go. It happens a lot more in club/rowdy bar type environments when alcohol is flowing and everyone's buying temperature is up. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceLike I said, they are intertwined. Mastering calibration means mastering pickup. You always calibrate for the situation and the people around you. You talk to someone differently at a funeral than you do at a party, do you not? Escalation + calibration = very solid game The two are literally impossible to separate. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:05 PM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Community Poll: What should our BestOf2012 contest be?My suggestion: Best well-written & concise guide to kino. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceOP is referring to physical escalation. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 04:50 PM |
| 26 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceYou're confusing escalation and calibration. Two very intertwined concepts. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceThat's a horrible story, but incidents like that are exceedingly rare. I've been out for hundreds or maybe even thousands of nights and I can count the times punches flew or police got involved on one hand. Just be socially aware and head home if you're too drunk. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 04:03 PM |
| 143 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceIt's important to polarize the woman as quickly as possible. Make your intentions known. Make her decide as early as possible if you go into the friend bucket or the fuck bucket. The easiest (and smoothest) way to do this is with your body language and touch. Make moves. Be bold. She'll make it clear if she's into it or not. If she isn't ready or isn't into it, respect that and pull away. Continue to be awesome and she just might change her mind. I agree. That thread made me sad for a lot of tho… | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 01:19 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/17/2012A shit test just means that she is testing to see if you are the real deal. In other words, are you really congruent with your sexy, alpha self? So when she says, "Haha I bet you're a player. Are you a player?" she wants to see how you handle that accusation. Do you handle it like a boss or like an AFC? This is a very, very important part of building attraction. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 03:49 AM |
| 9 | Would you be interested in a weekly video Q&A regarding seduction?My advice is just to do it. If people like it, it will be obvious. If they don't, it will be obvious too :) | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 04:23 PM |
| 16 | How to disqualify a male acquaintance in front of your girlI'm confused. Are they trying to hook up with your girl? If no, then just have fun and let it be. Don't try to "out alpha" them. The best thing you can do is be as amazing as you can. Read this and this. Lastly, if all else fails, call them creepy to your girl. It's hard to come back from being called creepy. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What's my best last ditch play here?Please repost your question in /r/AskSeddit. That is where questions about specific women/situations go. Thanks kindly! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Any techniques for self checking?Posting detailed field reports and taking in community feedback is definitely a very important step for improvement. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 07:36 PM |
| 50 | Ever dreamed of seducing Italian women? Be my guests.Hey, could you please remove your Facebook name? Reddit has a strict no personal information rule. People can still PM you for details. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How Do I deal with "That girl" that you know from school?You don't have to delete it. It's up to you. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 02:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm quiet when caught off guard...HI. Could you please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our Monday & Friday Simple Questions Threads? Those are designated for questions about specific girls or situations, such as yours. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I'm friend-zoned on this one, think it's possible to get out of?HI. Could you please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our Monday & Friday Simple Questions Threads? Those are designated for questions about specific girls or situations, such as yours. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Date planned, but now what?HI. Could you please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our Monday & Friday Simple Questions Threads? Those are designated for questions about specific girls or situations, such as yours. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Getting out of the Friendzone by Friendzoning her back? Is this counterintuitive?HI. Could you please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our Monday & Friday Simple Questions Threads? Those are designated for questions about specific girls or situations, such as yours. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How Do I deal with "That girl" that you know from school?HI. Could you please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our Monday & Friday Simple Questions Threads? Those are designated for questions about specific girls or situations, such as yours. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Seddit London Lair?There was a London lair: http://reddit.com/r/londonseddit It was removed for inactivity. Get it going again and I will gladly add it to the sidebar. Just message me. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Results gather scorn: A look at /r/seduction comments to a successful FRSince your domain name and your username are practically identical, the spam filter is going to be extra aggressive. It's just something you'll have to deal with. :\ | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/12 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Results gather scorn: A look at /r/seduction comments to a successful FROkay. Please use the mod mail if it happens again. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/12 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachThe reality is that there WILL be people in the coffee shop watching you do your approaches. Regardless of what gets posted on seddit, guys will have to learn to deal with that reality. A lot of guys get intimidated by posts from more advanced PUAs who talk about bathroom pulls and other craziness, but it doesn't mean we should remove those posts. Anyway, I agree, this wasn't a very good post. It's just not so terrible that it needs to be removed. If it was upvoted dramatically and was gonna hit… | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachI don't think he was bad mouthing him. He was just pointing out the flaw's in his particular approach. Nothing wrong with that if it helps give guys a little extra perspective. | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachMaybe that approach was not very smooth, but for all you know he is doing seddit's /r/100sets challenge and trying to improve. So don't fault the guy. It's like another interpretation of "don't hate the player, hate the game" except in this case the game kinda sucked :) | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Results gather scorn: A look at /r/seduction comments to a successful FRYeah... I got blocked again today for posting something today, this time no reason as to why even though it was clearly related to seduction... You did? I don't see anything marked as spam or removed in your seddit post history. Could you link me to it so I can check it out? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/12 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I keep in contact over winter break?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 01:18 PM |
| 1 | My boss shit tests meHi. Please repost your question in /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. Those are where questions about specific girls should be posted. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I've been lurking for months, and I finally have a good opportunity for pickup. Some input neededHi. Please repost your question in /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. Those are where questions about specific girls should be posted. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate in high school?Hi. Please repost your question in /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. Those are where questions about specific girls should be posted. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What should I do when planning a first date?Hi. Please repost your question in /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. Those are where questions about specific girls should be posted. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Help with potential high school relationshipHi. Please repost your question in /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads held on Mondays and Fridays. Those are where questions about specific girls should be posted. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:28 PM |
| 1 | [Case Study] Let's dissect this text conversation I had a couple nights ago and see how it could have been better.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. That is where questions about specific girls go. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:20 PM |
| 11 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/7/2012Early next week! | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Giving my boyfriend a B-Day BJ for the first time. Any tips?This is more appropriate for /r/sex | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:21 PM |
| 1 | When bantering with a girl inches from her face and you get great flirtatious vibes from her, do you just kiss her?Please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions thread (held Mondays and Fridays). That is where questions about specific girls/situations belong. Thank you kindly! -your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What if I'm depressed?Please post this later today in our Simple Questions thread. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:19 PM |
| 1 | half field report, half i need advice!Please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions thread (held Mondays and Fridays). That is where questions about specific girls/situations belong. Thank you kindly! -your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Poll: What does a girl in a Leather Jacket mean?Please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions thread (held Mondays and Fridays). That is where questions about specific girls/situations belong. Thank you kindly! -your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What to do with a neutral girl?Please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions thread (held Mondays and Fridays). That is where questions about specific girls/situations belong. Thank you kindly! -your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:18 PM |
| 2 | I wish new people in this sub would read the sidebar/top posts. These posts are giving me cancer.I suppose we could stand to reword it a bit. I'll look into it. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 07:26 PM |
| 3 | I wish new people in this sub would read the sidebar/top posts. These posts are giving me cancer.Can you elaborate about how they enforced it? | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I wish new people in this sub would read the sidebar/top posts. These posts are giving me cancer.Please hit the report button when you see such threads. That is the only way we are alerted to them (other than scanning through all the posts by hand). | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I wish new people in this sub would read the sidebar/top posts. These posts are giving me cancer.The thread you linked has 6 total votes. The community did not vote it up. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here not drink?Hi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Question Threads, held every Monday and Friday? Thank you. -Your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop being monotone?Hi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Question Threads, held every Monday and Friday? Thank you. -Your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 03:13 PM |
| 2 | My professor is eye fucking me during American Lit, how can I subtly indicate that I'm on board?Hi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Question Threads, held every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific girls/situations belong. -Your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Help with one girlHi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or in one of our biweekly Simple Question Threads, held every Monday and Friday? That is where questions about specific girls/situations belong. -Your friendly Seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 03:13 PM |
| 2 | I wish new people in this sub would read the sidebar/top posts. These posts are giving me cancer.There is reference to them all over the sidebar and in giant red text when you submit. They belong in /r/AskSeddit or in the biweekly Simple Questions Threads. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 01:13 PM |
| 1 | I wish new people in this sub would read the sidebar/top posts. These posts are giving me cancer.Those are heavy accusations about "real content being blocked." I assure you we're not actively removing quality posts at all. Also we've gone to great lengths to mitigate the newbie post issue but it will always be an uphill battle. Ping us anytime you have questions, we always appreciate your contributions. BTW keep in mind that guys like you are in the super minority when it comes to pickup. Most of our readers are more casual about it. There needs to be a balance. If you have better ideas fo… | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 01:11 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012They are held every Monday and Friday. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 06:05 AM |
| 23 | How to avoid getting pity-sex while having Cancer?So... Don't have sex, then? Or don't bring up the cancer thing. I'm not sure I understand the question. | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Old fling from gradeschool found me on FB. How do I proceed?Hi, your post is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (Mondays & Fridays). This is because it's asking about a SPECIFIC situation with a girl and not a general question about all girls. Could you repost? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you do with a girl that has turned you down that you have to interact with everyday?Hi, your post is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (Mondays & Fridays). This is because it's asking about a SPECIFIC situation with a girl and not a general question about all girls. Could you repost? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 03:42 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012I think you have your answer then. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 04:22 AM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012A better question for you... What are you afraid of exactly? | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 03:13 AM |
| 9 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012Make cougar jokes. They never fail. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 12:34 AM |
| 6 | I had a dream.I feel like the underlying thing in pick up is something beyond the routines/structures/etc. It was something in the attitude. You experienced a very important breakthrough. That's awesome. Check out some of the links in the sidebar in the "Inner Game" section, they are all about what you dreamed about. Excellent post! | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Has there ever been an established pick up "guru" that was truly introverted?I think Roissy is an introvert. He's also probably a sociopath. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 05:56 AM |
| 6 | Hey guys. Read this AskReddit thread. Study it. Right now. This is how you get women to worship you.Just ignore everything but the top level comments. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 04:58 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/23/2012Check out the glossaries linked in the sidebar---> | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Are women welcome to ask questions here too? I have a question about my dating life, specifically about my dating standards and how to attract the type of men that I enjoy datingThe balance is skewed. The 0.1% guy is probably seeing ten 0.1% girls. It's the old adage... 20% of the guys are having 80% of the sex. Does that make sense? Anyway, just work on screening/qualifying earlier on (I already gave you tips on how to do that) and try to diversify your dating pool a bit. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Meetup in NYC this Friday, November 23th at 8:00 PM...Anywhere from 2 to 17~. Usually around 4-6. Guys go out 7 nights a week, pretty similar to Gotham Seddit. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Are women welcome to ask questions here too? I have a question about my dating life, specifically about my dating standards and how to attract the type of men that I enjoy datingIt's just that it all compounds. Most guys are not charismatic. Most people get shy in social situations. Most people are selfish more than selfless. Most people are not in great shape. Most people are downright mediocre. It's hard to get that combo all in one person. Especially if you add other factors on top of it (They need to be intelligent. They need to have eclectic interests. They need to be good in bed. They need to be well groomed, well dressed, maybe you are not attracted to certain ra… | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Meetup in NYC this Friday, November 23th at 8:00 PM...We used to call that the "ratio destroyer" when we would have "BAS Team Assemble!" nights in Bay Area Seddit. It's pretty fun to be able to walk in and wreak havoc anywhere you go. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 07:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR/Storytime] - Some dude I originally thought might be homeless just handed me a girl on a silver platterAhaha, I love it. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Are women welcome to ask questions here too? I have a question about my dating life, specifically about my dating standards and how to attract the type of men that I enjoy datingThe mean age for marriage in the USA is 26.9 for women, 28.9 for men. Source | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Are women welcome to ask questions here too? I have a question about my dating life, specifically about my dating standards and how to attract the type of men that I enjoy datingTrust me, if you want all 4 of these genuine traits, "charismatic, extroverted, nice, and fit," then you are looking for the top 1%. If you're willing to have 3 of the 4, maybe it drops to 5%. 2 of the 4 gets you to that 15% range. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 06:52 PM |
| 12 | Are women welcome to ask questions here too? I have a question about my dating life, specifically about my dating standards and how to attract the type of men that I enjoy datingHi, welcome to seddit. I like men who are charismatic, extroverted, nice, and fit. Are those unreasonable standards? No, not at all. The men you are describing are the top echelon of men. Just like you, they have their pick of the litter. This means they tend to be socially conditioned (or learned, if they got into pickup) to be hard to pin down to one woman and they also tend to be a bit abrasive - because they can get away with it. Think George Clooney (who has stated multiple times he has no … | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 11:54 AM |
| 1 | sunn_ is a clownKeep the attacks/drama out of seddit. Final warning to all of you. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 01:02 AM |
| 4 | RANT: A brief history of PUATeacher needs to re-evaluate the syllabus: condense the 'required' reading into one evening's worth, and move the excess down into a 'recommended' sidebar section. That's what Above The Game will ultimately become. Still finalizing the next two parts. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 08:14 PM |
| 14 | What if you're not interested in casual sex?Meditate on your own values and enforce them. Nothing wrong with flirting with girls but not having sex with them. Above all, be a value giver and enrich the lives of those around you. Become the greatest wingman of all time, throw parties filled with sexy girls who love you because you aren't trying to fuck them. However, heed this warning... 1) One of the best ways to begin a relationship with a woman is to have sex with her. 2) You will not be as good at escalation sex as you could have been … | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Cool, how long are you going for? I'll probably be back in the spring. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:37 PM |
| 2 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Cool, good on you for figuring out what you like and what you don't :) You should write up a post about what it's like when a guy who is not your type tries to hit on you. A lot of guys get perplexed by mysterious rejections, so maybe you can shed some light on it. Love ya too, dear. When do you move to Tokyo? | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong?Hi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads, held on Mondays and Fridays. Also check out the content in the sidebar links ---> Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach?Hi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or one of our biweekly Simple Questions Threads, held on Mondays and Fridays. Also check out the content in the sidebar links ---> A lot of what you are asking has been answered before in there. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:20 PM |
| 3 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?I'm a white woman who almost exclusively dates Asian guys. Just curious... Why? | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How does seddit feel about ex's?Hi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly "Simple Questions Thread" posted on Mondays and Fridays. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:17 PM |
| 1 | F close on the 4th date but now she wants to be friends.Hi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly "Simple Questions Thread" posted on Mondays and Fridays. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:16 PM |
| 2 | A girl asked me to going to see Skyfall and I dont wanna fuck up!!!Hi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly "Simple Questions Thread" posted on Mondays and Fridays. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding the fallbackHi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly "Simple Questions Thread" posted on Mondays and Fridays. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else get over these issues?Could you please reformat your post into proper paragraphs? It's way too 'wall of text' right now to read. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What should I do now?Hi, please repost this question in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly "Simple Questions Thread" posted on Mondays and Fridays. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:11 PM |
| 41 | I have a permanent "hall pass". With this in mind, I've been having difficulty approaching women because of it. What do you guys think?I'm in a very similar open relationship. Why do you even bring up the fact that you're married if it bothers you? Just make it clear you're not looking for anything beyond fun and sex and leave it at that. I often tell women about my situation. I'd say it turns off about 40% of women, turns on 30% and 30% don't really give a shit. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Approached a lot. Still no result at all.http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/15-things-that-make-men-suck-at-pickup/ ^ Does any of that resonate with you? Would it be possible for you to record some of your sets and post the audio here? And post some pics for critique? | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 10:04 PM |
| 17 | 20 Qualities of Men Who Are Great With WomenGreat post by Nick. They value their time. They don’t endlessly chase and invest energy in those who don’t appreciate them. 19 is the one that took me the longest to fully understand. It makes a huge difference as to the quality of your life. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Owen (Tyler Durden) or Jeffy?I've witnessed both of them running bootcamps. I would go with Tyler Durden, personally. But Jeffy is good if you want to really go nuts. Tyler will likely do more to change your life. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Hey im having trouble with approaching durring day gameWhat's the issue? Are you too nervous and afraid of rejection? Or are you approaching and the conversation fails to hook? Typically, "Hi, how's it going?" is plenty to get a conversation going. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Guide to fingering a girl?Hi. You should search/repost this in /r/sex | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Where can good video material of the game being played be found? r/Seddit seems to be lacking videoWhy not just go out and witness real people in action? Also experiment a bit. Try stuff out, develop your own style. The best PUAs I've met all have developed their own unique styles by tons of field experience. Videos are cool, but nothing will beat facing your fears and actually going out. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Avoid Any “Awkward Silence” With This 1 Bizarre Tricklol @ Fuck, Marry, Kill Are there people who hadn't heard of it before? | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What are your hail mary texts or plays?In another thread Jewlger suggested the following gem which I absolutely love: "Take a chance .... I have a 12 inch penis! (for lulz)". This is my new hail mary. hahaha I came up with that when we were on shrooms one night. It did NOT work but many lulz were had | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 04:15 AM |
| 2 | seduction books/media that is -actually- worth the timeThe Blueprint Decoded is probably their best work. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 10:40 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Reminder: Read the top Seddit posts of all time!!!search FR and then sort by 'top' = http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=fr&sort=top&restrict_sr=on | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I have NO gameRead the links in the sidebar and start going out and practicing a few days a week --> | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Night game helpJust go out more often and approach. Start with 2-3 times a week and go from there. Post FRs and get community feedback. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Forgive me if i'm being dumb/making excuses, but..It's only weird and embarassing if you make it that way. Trust me, guys and girls will have a lot of respect for you if you start living honestly and actually approaching women you find attractive. It's time to man up and to stop letting a perceived feeling of others' opinions dictate your happiness. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:52 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012It's a joke, dude. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:36 PM |
| 13 | [Routine] International Student PickupsThis is great, but seems pretty try-hard. A simple "Hello, you guys look fun. Where are you from?" will work just as well. Try it out sometime :) | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Poll: How many hours do you spend learning about talking to women compared to going out and talking to women?10 hours out for every hour online. Anything less is cheating yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | [FR] [X-post /DCSeddit] Traveling, Online Game, and Religion. HB9/r/DCSeddit added to sidebar :) Welcome, guys. Let me know if you ever need lair building advice. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Being 'dopey', 'spaced out', 'daydreamy'too bad tofutofu hates me and would never sidebar anything i wrote. Couldn't be further from the truth. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:07 PM |
| 2 | seduction books/media that is -actually- worth the timeFinal warning. Don't post any more pirated links on seddit. If people want to google search and find the links on their own, that's up to them. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 04:58 PM |
| 2 | seduction books/media that is -actually- worth the timePlease start giving a fuck or else you will find yourself banned. One of the reasons we can get AMA interviews with big name industry people is that we don't allow seddit to turn into a den of piracy. Please respect that. -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 04:18 PM |
| 9 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/12/2012I'd say by the end of the week. I was stranded for a while without computer access due to Sandy and sadly got delayed a bit! | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleIf one of your values is that it is inappropriate to hit on coworkers, then being authentic means you don't hit on your coworkers. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleHonestly, this might not be what you wanted to hear but... Opener: "Hi." Close: "Let's get out of here." In the middle, be alpha and touch the girl a lot. It's really no more complicated than that. Experience, practice, and a willingness to go way out of your comfort zone until you get this stuff down pat is what's needed to pull it off. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleSure! What's wrong with, "You're cute. We should hang out sometime." That's as direct as it gets and I don't see what's wrong about it in a college setting. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI wouldn't change the thing. Just know that you are qualifying women to see who might fit your LTR criteria as you talk to women. Also, if you're open to sex outside of an LTR, I do find it is the quickest way to begin one. Women tend to become more attracted/attached to a man who sleeps with them. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Help! Any tips on how to handle dating / sleeping with multiple women?Actually we routinely curate away non-productive posts and comments (memes, etc.) We get millions of visits a month. Without active moderation there would be chaos. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Help! Any tips on how to handle dating / sleeping with multiple women?Your comment was removed because it's not productive (and a little spiteful). Managing multiple LTRs is a real thing that a lot of guys have to deal with. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:29 PM |
| 289 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Any time I go out regularly I see results. When I don't, I don't. It's funny how that works. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Unique case. Please help. Details inside.Hi, your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (held on Mondays and Fridays). Could you repost in one of those? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleFirst off, why do you feel that you are "non-alpha"? Secondly, you have to realize that authenticity/honesty is at the core of confidence. They are one in the same. Truly confident, truly "alpha" people are in touch with their values and don't waver on them. Hypothetically, let's say that someone is a doormat who everyone walks all over. Do you really think that person's true values involve him being a doormat? No! He is not being honest to himself, hence why he lacks confidence. Authenticity an… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI'm not at all and I'm removing your comment because it's misleading. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:06 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012Do whatever you enjoy the most. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:15 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012A girl you don't know added you on facebook? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Should i ask if i can come along?Hi, your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (held on Mondays and Fridays). Could you repost in one of those? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Is giggling a good sign?Hi, your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (held on Mondays and Fridays). Could you repost in one of those if you feel you need more answers? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice on how to move forwardHi, your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (held on Mondays and Fridays). Could you repost in one of those? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleThe onus is on you, as the man, to coordinate your next meeting. There has been tons written on how to do that (the sidebar has a great link on this). I will also be writing an updated guide as part of this series. Don't wait for IOIs from her. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleSeek therapy. Surround yourself with positivity. Take every step you possibly can to cut all negative emotions out of your life. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Female opinions on guys who shave their bodies?You should ask this on a larger subreddit (/r/AskReddit) etc. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:12 AM |
| 24 | Is there a /r/seduction for girls???/r/fpua exists but is pretty sparse. Honestly, most of the advice here applies almost equally to women with a bit more focus on outward appearance and learning how to appear welcoming (pro-tip: smile and put the cell phone down). | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleYou don't even have to vocalize it much, if you're not super comfortable with it. Kino/touch and proper body language is a very powerful tool as well. Check out this post for some info on body language and tonality. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleYes. But there are billions of ways to approach. The point is to actually let your honest intentions be known, as opposed to trying to mask them. You can open with something entirely innocuous, but make sure she is forced to make a decision quickly as to whether or not she wants to pursue something more with you. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:14 AM |
| 1 | My ProgressHey we don't really endorse piracy on here out of respect for the professionals who come on to do interviews. Feel free to google around on your own. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI'm working on it now, but it's still a bit early. Ideally I want it in people's hands before Christmas. :) | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleIt's actually quite simple. It's all rooted in the concept of "always be a value giver." If you feel you are contributing negative emotions to a situation (being too reactive, too confrontational when it's not needed, being rude, being out of line) then you are taking value, not giving value. More often than not in social situations, loosening up and not taking everything so seriously is the proper "value giving" behavior. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestylePlow through, good sir! Start small, like I put in the Action Items. Get some reference experiences where you let your intentions known and build from there. Also, don't be afraid to say things like, "I literally never do this, but I just had to stop and tell you how beautiful you are. I'm nycprowl, nice to meet you." or "I'm so nervous, but I just had to stop and introduce myself. I'm nycprowl, what's your name?" Don't overcomplicate it. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleThere are some subreddits focused on this. /r/Buddhism /r/meditation /r/zen And of course, yoga. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 11:47 PM |
| 9 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleAnd that's a big part of going out regularly! Luck is preparation meeting opportunity. By going out regularly, you're increasing your preparation AND opportunities. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 11:06 PM |
| 9 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleGreat question. First, I want you to realize that you only think your areas of passion are more boring than clubs or sports. That's a serious limiting belief that you have. Women don't line up to hear men tell tales about the gridiron. They are, however, attracted to the passion that a football player shows when he speaks about his game. Never shy away from what you are pursuing and do not be ashamed. Speak passionately from the heart about what you're seeking out of life. Women are addicted to … | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 08:38 PM |
| 37 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleThat's a great question, curve. I believe the answer lies within the Action Items. If people genuinely follow this guide, they're going to end up gradually approaching and escalating with dozens of women. That experience is going to help tremendously with the neediness and insecurity. Developing the core confidence of knowing one is able to approach confidently, and knowing that one is working to improve oneself inside and outside will do great things for one's self-esteem. That's going to help … | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 08:31 PM |
| 7 | How to get rid of subconscious approval seeking?Actively scan for them and stop yourself whenever they happen. Like pause and mentally say "NO! BAD BRAIN!" to yourself when they creep up. You won't get them all at first, but keep this up for a few months and you'll be a very different person. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 08:04 PM |
| 15 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI'll touch on it more in a later post, but for now this explanation is adequate: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w His rapport breaking tonality is a bit much, though. He nails the rapport-seeking tonality though. Glad you're taking value from the action items! | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I am in a bit of a situation, please help me outHi, this post is really more appropriate for /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread. Can you repost in either of those? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator Also to answer your question: Threesome :P | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected after a two week "hookup chain" if you will. Can't just pretend I'm not bummed. Encouraging words?Take some time off and do you for a bit. Do things that make you happy, find your passion. Go out and party for the sake of partying, not for meeting women. read a book, watch some good films. Go skydive or something. You need to rekindle your core confidence and happiness and stop worrying about all this "game" nonsense. The negativity in your brain stemming from all that is going to hurt your game. When you feel more grounded, go out with some friends and start hitting on girls. Rekindle your … | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected after a two week "hookup chain" if you will. Can't just pretend I'm not bummed. Encouraging words?Take some time off and do you for a bit. Do things that make you happy, find your passion. Go out and party for the sake of partying, not for meeting women. read a book, watch some good films. Go skydive or something. You need to rekindle your core confidence and happiness and stop worrying about all this "game" nonsense. The negativity in your brain stemming from all that is going to hurt your game. When you feel more grounded, go out with some friends and start hitting on girls. Rekindle your … | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:16 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012If you have no AA and are naturally fully confident, then PUA probably isn't for you. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:12 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012I think I got this from Brad Branson... "What are you up to tonight?" Text it to all the girls. The ones who seem free and eager to meet, invite out. The ones that respond, "Who is this?" Just text them back "Slut." She'll probably text back "????? WTF" or something. Call her back - she'll definitely pick up the phone. Then go "I was just kidding. Anyway, what are you doing tonight?" | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:11 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012Have you tried asking him to wing for you? Starting there might be a good help. But really, don't try to out-alpha him. Just be a value giver and work on your own game and girls will see you as very attractive. And try to work on more than one girl at a time so you're not stepping on top of each other. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:09 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012There is nothing wrong with having a genuine love of ALL beautiful women. If she brings joy into your life, you should definitely appreciate all she offers. The "abundance mentality" stems from the confidence in your abilities to find another beautiful woman if you ever need to. It keeps you grounded but you don't need to mask your passions. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:07 PM |
| 11 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI know it's meant as a joke, but if you honestly feel that way then let the world know :) Developing a pattern of internal and external authenticity is the name of the game. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:04 PM |
| 1 | You make plans with a girl a few days in advance. What's communication like leading up to that point?Hi, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit or in our biweekly Simple Questions Threads? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:02 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Upcoming AMA with David Wygant on October 30th at 9pm ET!David Wygant is great. His stuff caters to the average Joe, not guys who want to bang 1000 hot slutz today!!@!11one Definitely check him out. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Whenever I start to get close to a girl, I over think almost everything. How can I stop?Hi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (Monday & Fridays)? This is really more appropriate for either of those places. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl playing games with me?Hi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (Monday & Fridays)? This is really more appropriate for either of those places. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like guys with highlights??Hi, could you repost this in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread (Monday & Fridays)? This is really more appropriate for either of those places. Thanks! -your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Send another text to maintain attraction or wait until next meeting?Hi, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit or in our biweekly Simple Questions Thread? It's really more appropriate for those places. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 10:13 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012If we're generalizing here, I would say laid back... But I feel like you're putting a LOT of thought into "not giving a fuck" which means you are actually giving a big fuck :) Just keep going out, talking to people... You have the right mindset, now it's time to get the proper reference experiences to reach a level of congruency. You'll get there! | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:58 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Own it. If it bothers you in any way (and clearly it does, or you wouldn't be posting here), she will pick up on that. What you are subcommunicating is "I am insecure about my vision" which equals a lack of confidence. And a lack of confidence can kill attraction. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:56 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012I think you're overthinking this a lot. Just tell her she's cute and ask her out. It won't make you come across desperate. Honest intent is attractive. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:55 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012If you're talking about college party game... they are basically the same thing. If you mean day game, it's the same as day game anywhere. But if you mean social circle game, that's a horse of a different color. You'll need to really understand what it means to give value and have social proof. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:54 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Bring them out, be fun around them, and ask them to approach girls for you. It's really pretty simple - women have less AA than men in my experience. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:53 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012I find weed destroys my game, so I'm not sure what advice I have for you. It can be a good excuse to bounce a girl back to your house, I guess! | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:52 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Mark Manson, Zan Perrion, Tyler Durden would be my top three. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Over-analysingHey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What is a good direct opening line?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Party scene game.Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Approach a girl on facebookHey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:49 PM |
| 3 | DESPERATE TIMES CALL FOR DESPERATE MEASURESHey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I seem to attract ladies, but when they make obvious moves I get lost. What to do?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Just got rejected after a two week "hookup chain" if you will. Can't just pretend I'm not bummed. Encouraging words?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:48 PM |
| 1 | New to this, got a date but now she's flaking. What do i do?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Help with boyfriend? Guy turnons?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with it?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I stop tolerating everything?Hey, thanks for reaching out. Your question is really more appropriate for either /r/AskSeddit or our Simple Questions Threads that we run every Monday and Friday. Please repost in either of those places. Also check out all the content in the sidebar ---> There is 4 years of solid advice, much of which pertains directly to you. Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Shit tested while #-closing?Hi, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks so much! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl I want to hook up with coming to hang out tomorrow. Am I covering all my bases?Hi, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks so much! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Party game weak. What am I doing wrong?Hi, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks so much! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 03:37 PM |
| 9 | Misunderstood alphaAre you being you or are you playing a "pickup" character? The reason people stress Inner Game so much is because it takes a deep identify-level change to fully internalize the emotions and meaning behind the "alpha lines" that you mention. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 03:35 PM |
| 2 | For beginners like me, Read the Damn Sidebar!! Knowledge is power. also guys i didn't know how to put the indicator to show thats this would be a motivational quote so sorry.You're welcome, OP! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 10:44 PM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Just remember this: Nothing you do in high school really matters. Just make sure you graduate and don't get arrested :) You should try and develop your flirting/touching/smiling/body language skills with everyone. If you're just "that fun, flirty guy" then it won't be out of the norm for you to be charming a girl or two or fifty. Then look for opportunities to isolate (at parties it's as simple as, "Hey, come with me for a second... You gotta see this!") and start escalating physically. Keep a s… | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 09:59 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Youthful looks are great! Take confidence knowing that you'll likely look better than most men your age as you get older :) That being said... A fashion makeover is probably the fastest way to achieve this. Do you know any friends (female, gay, or otherwise :P) who know fashion well? Or you can go to a higher end retail place (Barney's, Saks, Bloomingdales) and explain your dilemma to the sales associates. Let them guide you (don't be pressured into buying things you can't afford, of course!) An… | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 09:56 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Yeah, in general a club makes for a terrible date spot. It's great to invite out friends for social proof, but not good for getting to know a girl. Date 2... Another bar is actually a fine idea (find a place where you can get your own corner, really work on getting to know her as a person, and kino escalate like a boss). Pick one that is logistically friendly and have an excuse in mind to get her back home with you. My go-to is to pick the closest bar to your place, then just say "Hey, I have a … | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice regarding how to deal with a shy girl who lives far from campus/downtownHi, could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks a ton! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Not your average sedditor. Help?Hi, please repost your question in either /r/AskSeddit or our biweekly Simple Questions Thread. Thanks and welcome to Seddit! -Your friendly moderator | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Things have probably changed quite a bit... mixi used to be the dominant social network, and there was a thriving NY scene. I used that as a springboard for organizing events and meeting people. I'm pretty sure it's not the same anymore. If you want to meet Japanese girls, just hang around FIT and MoMA :) NYC Japanese ex-pat culture is pretty cool because it attracted a ton of FOBs, mostly from Kansai area. They're pretty outgoing and wild. Compared to a place like California which has a lot of … | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)So what's your opinion about the "don't shit where you eat" stuff? You say you had sex with co-workers...did this ever become really bad for you? I'd say it depends... If you establish guidelines and trust the other person understands the difference between casual sex & a relationship, fucking your coworkers can be awesome. I worked in a commission-based industry with lots of "alpha" men and women, so it wasn't hard to find successful, self-assured women who just liked a good dicking every now a… | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Good idea! Done. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:45 PM |
| 1 | "Are you going to pay for me?"Hey, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Did I text myself out of a second date?Hey, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Coffee Date and Speaking Issues Questions?Hey, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:35 PM |
| 1 | In Need of advice, Going on vacation. How and What to change about my game? I'm so lost.Hey, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:34 PM |
| 1 | She forgot she gave me her number...Hey, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:34 PM |
| 1 | There is this girl in class who I think is really pretty and i want to approach her. Thing is, how can I make it not that awkward? (Details inside)Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more responses. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeHey, that's a really good point. You are totally right, constant self-evaluation and soul searching is definitely critical. Meditating upon one's values is a critical part of growth. Perhaps I can stand to rewrite that section a bit... What I mean is that you should never feel the need to apologize for who you are. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:07 AM |
| 8 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeGlad you took value from this! You should expect 1-2 new posts a week. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:31 PM |
| 8 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeThanks, man! I've been seriously contemplating writing a proper book for about 4-5 months now. Now I can tell the publisher I can guarantee at least one sale (lol) | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Look, if I was capable of teaching people how to perfectly mask all subcommunication and pretend they feel differently than they actually do, I would be working as a trainer for the CIA, not posting seduction advice on the internet :) In my experience it's a hell of a lot easier and rewarding to fix the root cause of a problem than trying to mask it. Anyway, I wish you luck! Let me know if you ever need help. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Weed in relation to game in a college environmentHi, could you repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeOh, that's an excellent question. What I really mean there is... Don't ever feel you have to justify your behavior to anyone. If you live a life of authenticity and honest intent, then you should never have to back down from your decisions. Of course if you ever accidentally harm someone or something, apologies are in order! Don't ever forget to be a value giver, not a taker, after all! I edited the wording a little bit. Thanks for your feedback! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Hey man, that's great. It sounds like you are taking a lot of steps to become a better person. You should be proud! My advice to you is to work on minimizing the amount of negativity in your life. No one likes a negative person and no one wants to be around a negative person. This might be harming your chances with the opposite sex. Do this exercise... Try to actively notice whenever you have a negative thought, (example: "Lol this TofuTofu guy is full of shit"). Then, immediately stop yourself … | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:09 PM |
| 46 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeThis section was inspired heavily by the teachings of Zan Perrion. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Well clearly you don't, based on your comments towards me. Let's change focus though. What steps are you taking to improve? How often do you go out and try to meet people? What material are you reading/watching? Do you keep a journal of your activities? Do you work on your appearance? Fashion? Grooming? Fitness? | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Why are you so negative? I was looking through your post history and it seems you dismiss people here, on /r/AskWomen, /r/AskMen, /r/sex... If you accept the concept that some people are actually trying to help you, even if they cannot relate to 100% of your experience, you'll start doing yourself some favors. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Great question. I don't talk about it a ton because I respect her privacy, but I've been in a great open relationship for the past 5 years. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)I am extremely fortunate to have had sexual experience when I was young. It gave me an advantage when it comes to things like kino escalation. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. I'm sure you are good at certain things, even if you don't realize it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Yup! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Stephan A. talks about confidence. Thought this sub might find his words interesting.Non-mobile link | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What a wingman supposed to do?Please check out the search box and other sidebar material ---> | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl you just met and hit off with great, but find out she already has a boyfriend?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. I would say, friend-zone her, use her for social proof/preselection, and bang her hot friends. But that's how I roll. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Magic TricksI find things like palm reading/cold reads/small mini games a lot better than magic tricks in most situations. I couldn't agree more. Stick to the "chick crack" rapport building routines if that's your style. They are tried and true. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:33 PM |
| 11 | Magic TricksI think Mystery was so into using magic because his style of game involved winning over large mixed sets in high-end nightclubs. It was a gimmick to buy him time to "neg his target" and run all his usual Mystery Method stuff. I can't help but feel that a guy using it is try-hard. That being said, if you really are trying to seduce the HB9.9 Hollywood starlet while she's with a group of 8 alpha males, it's probably the best thing you can do. For the rest of us who just want to have normal interac… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)If I told you I would be the man I am today about 4 years ago I would say I was being delusional. I've made a complete 180 degree turn in the positive direction because of this subreddit. But not only this subreddit, but you and the other moderators who were at the forefront of the evolution of this thing we call "game" from soley about running gimmicks to internalizing the game and becoming of sound mind, body, and soul to create real attraction. Dude. That is an incredible story and I am so gl… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Will do, thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)I always try to pay it forward. I might try to write this up into a proper book if there is demand at some point, but I <3 seddit too much to withhold. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Haha, best quote ever. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Thanks for that, fixed! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Great question. A couple things... I had good wingmen, for starters. Likeminded, dear friends who also love to hit the town and pick up girls. That was a huge motivating factor. Another was I got in very deep into the Japanese ex-pat subculture in NYC. This afforded me a lot of social proof and opportunities that are closed off to most men. I organized a lot of events/parties and used the social proof from that to meet women. Also at work I was highly successful and making very good money. I wor… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)I am 30 years old. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)tokyo7's links are pretty solid. Basically, after the first few minutes, when she is locked in, you should let her do most of the talking... Block out the outside world and spend time really getting to know her. Find out what she's all about. Get her to share a fear of hers and a dream of hers. Maybe even get her to open up about her family. These are those critical rapport building steps that can lead to a solid hookup and not a flaky phone number. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)I think they are young and still inexperienced. They do a fantastic job demonstrating that you can open with pretty much anything, and how to be shameless and do it for the lulz, but that's where it ends... I actually observed them in action one night. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)Sorry about that. Fixed! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on a Day 2Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:44 PM |
| 2 | True players, how do I fix my awful inner game issues?I'll take a stab at a cold read... It sounds to me like your ego has almost completely taken over your mind. You really need to try and strip that away and get at your real core values. Have you ever read any eastern philosophy (Zen Buddhism) or Eckhart Tolle? Or done any mind-altering drugs? This version of you, that is not you, is working so hard to protect you from your fears. Look at it this way... If you don't start meeting lots of girls now, you won't have the experience and knowledge to a… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:43 PM |
| 1 | because of you, I met a girl last year, It's over now. I feel like shit. the pain is inside It hurts bad. I give up.You did it once, so you know you have the skills to do it. If that doesn't give you confidence, I don't know what to say, dude... Give it some time, go party with your friends. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:38 PM |
| 11 | Women's little cock block palsOK, first off... Understand that most of the time, you won't be able to pull the same night. Friends cockblock (like you've noticed), she gets cold feet, or logistically it's not gonna work. First off: Always try to either befriend her friends, isolate her from the group, or ideally - both. Next, what you need to do is start screening for logistics and finding out if she is DTF as early in the night as possible. Ask her where she is staying, how she's getting home... Start the kino heavy and ear… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:38 PM |
| 35 | Race and SeductionCalibration, dude. If I say "Damn you got a fat ass" to some hood black chick, it's a compliment. If I say the same to a white chick in Iowa I'm a creep who just insulted her. It's about how you dress, speak and present yourself. Just like with the workplace. Some percentage of the population will always not be attracted to certain races, so that will never go away. But with calibration you can curtail your approach in ways to be more attractive to the girl's energy level, upbringing, expectatio… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?Well, sounds like you know what you need to do. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?I think bars are fun and a great place to meet people, which is why I go to them. Lots of mPUAs go to bars and just don't drink. Is that an option? | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?6'1" / 245~ | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?Cheers: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/r2a50/fr_absolutely_epic_night_fourway_with_porn_star/ | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 09:13 PM |
| 10 | An idea for alpha body language study - Presidential DebateYou'd love this post then: http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/11/21/bill-clinton-reality-distortion-field/ | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?You should do both concurrently. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here in the New Orleans area want to go sarging?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f7q1q/seddit_15k_milestone_introducing_two_major_new/c1dx6mp Reach out when you're ready! We always want more lairs. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Learn from Drunk You to improve Sober You (crosspost)I miss you too, man. I'll pop on BAS today. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:55 AM |
| 37 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?I'm fat. I get laid a lot - like, way more than the average guy. I've fucked a porn star and had threesomes. I've turned down girls that lots of guys would kill for. You know how I do it? By dedicating the time and energy to getting good at seduction. Read and listen to all the good material you can (start with the sidebar links --->), go out 5-6 nights a week, meet cool people, become shameless in your approaches, journal your progress with field reports, take in the community feedback, meditat… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Can't pull the triggerHey, welcome! Could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? That is where we answer questions about specific situations like yours. Also check out the content in the sidebar ---> Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How to ask out a girl I haven't spoke to?Hey, welcome! Could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? That is where we answer questions about specific situations like yours. Also check out the content in the sidebar ---> Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:11 AM |
| 1 | R/Trees sent me. I come seeking advice, my situation is inside. Any help will be appreciated :)Hey, welcome! Could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? That is where we answer questions about specific situations like yours. Also check out the content in the sidebar ---> Thanks! -Your friendly seddit moderator | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Over the past year I've gotten into a new hobby. It's making experimental electronic music. I'm only ok. Should I tell girls about my hobby?Yes. Be proud of your passions! Tell everyone. Own it! | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.The trick is copious amounts of in field experiences while listening to it. Build your own reference experiences. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 08:48 PM |
| 16 | Learn from Drunk You to improve Sober You (crosspost)Because some communities have proven over time that their userbases colliding is almost always a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 08:17 PM |
| 21 | Are there any decent alternatives besides bars/clubs to meet people on a Friday/Saturday night?Meetup.com, coffee houses, downtown areas (greens, boardwalks, etc), bowling alleys, the mall, the movie theater, sporting events, galleries, house parties, the gym... Pretty much anywhere with people. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 07:53 PM |
| 1 | My affirmation list re: inner game / Alpha / moneyI just mean add some more linebreaks, bullet points... Whatever makes it more readable. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Learn from Drunk You to improve Sober You (crosspost)This is taken from a comment on 2XC | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Help finding post about a girl who thinks all you want is sex?Being a moderator has its perks :P | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:53 PM |
| 1 | My affirmation list re: inner game / Alpha / moneyCan you reformat this? It's really sloppy to read right now. The content is great, however. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)My thought is... If you're 18-22 or whatever and don't know what you want out of life, start taking college classes. If your family can afford it, go to a good school and live on campus. Your opportunities to get a degree will only decrease with time, so might as well get it out of the way when you can. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me how the friendzone works?Yeah... To me it sounds like she's using you for validation that her boyfriend isn't giving her. You can try and force the issue (make a move on her) and she'll be forced to decide if she's interested in you sexually or not. That obviously has a big chance of backfiring. This is not what you are going to want to hear... But my advice is to work on improving yourself & becoming a more attractive man. Go meet ten new women, play the game a little bit, and learn about what you really want out of li… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:40 PM |
| 23 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.This is very solid stuff to use during comfort/rapport building. As with any seduction advice, calibration is key. Don't start talking about your love of antique transistor radios on the dance floor at XS in Vegas, for example :) | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Help finding post about a girl who thinks all you want is sex?The post was removed but here is a copy of the text: Hey gang, I just wanted to make a quick stop and share a text conversation I recently had with a women I'm seeing that I thought the rest of you might find interesting/useful. Her: I want to see you Me: For a quickie? :-) Lol Her: is that what you want? Me: I always want you. You know that. Her: :-( Me: Why the frown? Her: Because that's the only reason you ever want to come over! No ass, I don't see you! Me: Umn... remember a few days ago I s… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me how the friendzone works?Sure, or just post it here if you want more input. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Question about gambler's style gameForget about the concept of IOIs. They're irrelevant. Learn the art of cold approach pickup - assume they're all your girls and run with it. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 05:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about guys with an overly dominant handshakes?Smile and brush it off :) Basic fundamentals are great in this situation... Good posture, eye contact, vocal tonality and volume. But this questions really belongs more in /r/AskSeddit. Could you please repost there? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 05:10 PM |
| 3 | There used to exist a really good list of affirmations. I can't find them anywhere.Hmm that does sound familiar... The problem was the "guides" list was run by a former moderator who sabotaged all the links after he left. We're waiting for reddit to roll out the new wiki system to re-do everything. I'll see what I can find. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)What especially bothers me is that there is no good explanation on how to apply any of these tips. Dude, it would take an entire bookshelf worth of pages to do that. This is meant as a summary. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:34 PM |
| 5 | I just want to have sex with as many pretty faces as possible within this lifetime without resorting to rape. Any specific advice?I really hope the rape comment was a joke :P Anyway, it's pretty simple. Hang out here, explore all the sidebar content, test lots of stuff out and find what resonates with you. Start going out 5-6 times a week, find like-minded individuals to help you and journal your progress with field reports - taking in what the community has to give for feedback. Ask questions, and do all you can to become a better human being. If you do this and don't see dramatic improvements in your sex life in six mont… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:30 PM |
| 3 | There used to exist a really good list of affirmations. I can't find them anywhere.Was it one of these? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fue04/some_quotes/ http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c1xwy/as_per_a_sedditors_request_the_21_epiphanies_that/ http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/h8wax/buddhism_and_inner_game/ (Pulled from here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gjqim/the_definitive_seddit_inner_game_collection/) | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:22 PM |
| 47 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Tyler (Owen Cook) is a man who genuinely went from noobie to master via hard work. He breaks down exactly what it takes to do that in this video. Definitely worth the watch. Let me know if you have follow-up questions. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?^^ | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?Yeah, don't say that. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:12 PM |
| 10 | RSD Julian '' Stop mental masturbation ''All he is saying is to not over-think every minor detail. Focus on making a connection with the girl and your sets will go much better. You are independent from outcome because you know you are going to have a great life regardless if that one set works out or not. That's why you don't sweat it. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:11 PM |
| 1 | "How's it going with the ladies?" - What should I say?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I dance with a guy who dances very lively?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:07 PM |
| 2 | I have been fighting the system for a while...Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me how the friendzone works?Sometimes she'll flirt, kiss, touch, etc, just to give herself validation. If you feel like she is using you to feel better for yourself, you're probably in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Going on a cruise. Any tips and info I should know that can help me out?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Thanks! But all you need to understand is that you will literally never see these people again. Be outgoing, take chances, have fun, get drunk, be the life of the party... Be that guy you always wanted to be. No excuses! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:03 PM |
| 1 | So beta my wingman got with the girl I've been crushing on for 2 months.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:00 PM |
| 1 | First two minutes: IN FIELD FOOTAGE from RSD Alexander, one of the greatest PUAs in the world.Great example of direct game. Guys, don't be afraid to be sexual and aggressive. Believe it or not, women are incredibly turned on by it. To get good at this type of game, spend time mastering the art of passing shit tests. Be direct, sexual, pass her tests and escalate like a boss. That's all there is to it. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 02:53 PM |
| 4 | 8 Honest (and Somewhat Harsh) Criticisms from a Dude who Gives Dating AdviceGreat summary post! Rob, great to see you again. I thought you retired :) | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 02:43 PM |
| 43 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)Ignore the investing advice - the rest is pretty darn solid. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 07:18 PM |
| 11 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)Here you go. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 07:11 PM |
| 13 | I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game.You misread what I said. We're not advocating doing it or not doing it. We advocate that everyone learns to get in touch with their own values and make their own decisions. White knights and slut shamers are equally as wrong as those on the opposite end of the spectrum. Seddit is a judgement free zone (and the times it is not, us mods will intervene). | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Do you ever feel bad for what you do?You're incredibly wrong. Direct game is all about being upfront. Don't knock it till you try it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 01:37 PM |
| 23 | Getting out of the vicious cycle of thinking women are superior / more complicated beings?Hey man. We've all been there. Sometimes it feels like beautiful women are on a different level from us. Until you get experience interacting with them, you won't get to see up close that they are just people like us with the same insecurities and flaws we all have. Read this post about approach anxiety. Think about that. Normal guys are boring and awkward around hot women. So even if you crash and burn and are boring and awkward, YOU'RE NORMAL, CONGRATULATIONS. That's the WORST case scenario! W… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 01:15 PM |
| 3 | In-field footage of being outcome independent. Favorite Keys to the VIP Episode.What "seduction techniques taught here"? We're an 85,000 strong community with dozens of posts a day. There is no one style taught here. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:23 PM |
| 8 | I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game.I don't think there's enough info from OP to really say that (but you're probably right). The lesson here is OP at least was able to do something in that situation. Treating it like a shit-test is an important realization to make. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:21 PM |
| 14 | I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game.Because every woman who says she has a boyfriend is telling the truth... ಠ_ಠ It is THE most common line women use to screen out men. If you spend any time actually studying seduction, you're going to have to learn how to deal with it. No one's advocating hooking up with girls with boyfriends (or the opposite). We all must meditate on our own values and decide how to proceed. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Following up on a girl in uniPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Saw a girl I wanted to get to know today but absolutely no idea how to initiate anything. Advice?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a Asian guy studying in Spain!!!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. You should definitely focus on learning Spanish. Every day, take what you learn and GO OUT THAT NIGHT and apply it. Do this every day for as long as you can, you'll be fluent in no time. At this stage, learning spanish will do more for your game than anything. Also the more social you are, the better your language skills get and the more success you'll have socially. It's one giant self-reinforcing spiral. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | need some advice about last nightPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First decent party in a whilePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:08 PM |
| 1 | should I pursue?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Any material without "gamey/routine" sounding points?Check out the links in the sidebar ---> | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Is the Blueprint Decoded something i can just listen to without watching?Yes. Use the audio version. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 03:03 AM |
| 3 | JeffyI am not the biggest Jeffy fan, but he is 100% correct here. If you are not willing to put in the real effort to improve your life, you don't belong here. It sounds harsh to say, but it's true. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Just finished reading the game, and Tyler Durden kinda seems like a dick..He was designated the "villain" in the book, so understandably he came across as as a dick. Tyler (Owen) admits that he's grown up a ton since then. I've seen him in person and he is actually an impressive PUA/man/businessman/etc. I wouldn't worry about the book's portrayal of him. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Getting both numbers a mistake?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. You're overthinking it... There is nothing wrong with getting multiple numbers. Instead, work on conveying sexual intent with the girls you find attractive. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Adapting Pick-up strategy to situations where One is with the same people for a long time (Job/Study Abroad/Internship)I believe that in this situation it is much more of a factor of just projecting your inner-game of Alpha male, fun to be around, comfortable around everyone, and you'll naturally attract women. One slight correct, that's the correct strategy in ALL situations. :) | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:26 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE GAME HELP NEEDEDPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies?Any hobby that you are genuinely passionate about. Ideally one that involves women as well (i.e. not sitting in your room playing Starcraft). | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:16 PM |
| 6 | im seen as a beta, why?read the section in the sidebar about Inner Game. Particular the articles on the "modern alpha male" and on value giving. You'll see that being alpha doesn't mean being an "asshole who think they are gods gift to everything." In fact it's quite the opposite. If you want to improve yourself, start by digesting the material here and applying it 4-5 nights a week for a couple months. You'll definitely see a shift. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Question to Seddit: How do you feel about introducing AMA's to Seddit?Field reports are important because they help you journal your progress. Years later you might want to revisit them and pull out some insights. I think AMAs in addition to FRs is a fine idea, but no need to replace FRs with them. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Problem When Ignoring the TargetPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | # close, but she didn't seem too into it, any tips?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Problem Breaking the IcePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | First party in new town, leaving in one hour. Already met 4 hb [7-8] Need advice.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Is leaving her door slightly open when it was closed before an invitation?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Help!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Movie dates?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Bailed on visiting mePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Library and study gamePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Texting back and forth goes well, but when I try and set up plans she won't respond. What am I doing wrong?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Going to a girls play/production. Ideas needed.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to text game on a girl who gave you her number for a different reason?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Looks in a frat environmentThe irony of what you said is that improving your outward appearance is a critical part of Inner Game. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Looks in a frat environmentLook, do everything you can to look as good as you possibly can (diet, exercise, fashion, grooming). Beyond that, do everything you can to become more confident, value giving, fun and outgoing. That is how you overcome a (perceived or not) lack of looks. Ignoring your inner game is just as stupid as ignoring your appearance. Or you can keep letting your frat bros steal all the women. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 03:50 PM |
| 229 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"Ladies and gentlemen, THIS is an example of a great FR. Lots of applicable advice throughout. An upvote for you, sir. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Need Advice/Openers: renaissance fair."Holy shit I love your cleavage." Just say whatever you feel like saying. Don't over think it :) Then post what you learned here for us all to benefit. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | (x-post from askseddit) I want to be a surprise.No offense but you've already received all the advice you need. Time to start applying it, my friend! | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number without me asking, what doPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Im in highschool where do I go to meet girls?Everywhere there are girls your age :) What's wrong with school itself? Check out /r/highseddit btw | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Should there be a section for dancing and dance moves also?Try the search box. This topic has been covered many times. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Questioning myselfJust tell them: "Guys, I don't sarge. I'm out tonight to have a fun time. Don't worry about pickup, just have a good time and approach when opportunities present themselves." Lulz first, pussy second. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Looks in a frat environmentYou need to work on your inner game. Find your passions and run with them. Develop some true confidence and stop thinking it's your looks that are messing you up. It's actually your attitude towards your looks that is messing you up. Check the sidebar links. --> | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Outcome Independence Leads To FailureYawn more rooshv link bait. Poor guy. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 10:50 PM |
| 0 | Really bothers me to not say anythingWelcome. You have approach anxiety. This is incredibly common (99.99999% of men have it to some degree) First off: Google the three second rule. That shit works. Second: try this next time. "I just had to come say hi. You're stunning. I'm rogrogrickroll, what's your name?" Third: sidebar. Read it :). | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 10:47 PM |
| 1 | (x-post from askseddit) I want to be a surprise.Read the links in the sidebar, particularly the inner game posts. Take what resonates with you and apply it on a daily basis. Journal your progress on here with field reports until you have a new and improved self. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Can't figure out how to approach this situation.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit and check out the sidebar --> Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 07:02 PM |
| 89 | Bars Have Become Venues for Friends to Hang out vs. Singles to Hook UpWhy do you assume that girls/guys in a large group aren't open to meeting new people? Get out of your head and just start talking to people already. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do I not like her, or am I just pussying out?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Buying her Movie Ticket?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Girls in my classPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is my approach wrong?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl giving me mixed signals, don't know what to do from herePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Need some good advice and hindsight.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Horrible at opening.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! Also, check out the links in the sidebar if you haven't already ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Flirting help?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Not a Typical LocationPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Also, read the sidebar links ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:33 PM |
| 1 | So.. girl goes hot for a week or two, then she goes cold. More inside.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Also, read the sidebar links ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Understanding your value (worth)...Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Also, read the sidebar links ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Crash course? Help.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more advice. Also, read the sidebar links ---> | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Next step advice(Messaging online -> Texting)Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 03:12 PM |
| 18 | Pretty sure I've become somewhat of a misogynist (Why ignorance was bliss for me).I get where you are coming from, I really do. However I think it's coming from a place of immaturity (not hating on you, you're still young and should be a bit immature). What you need to realize is that we've spend a lot of time trying to improve our neuroses and self-worth. Just by virtue of being here, we are outliers. We learn to cope with rejection, with insults, with situations with women that JUST DON'T MAKE SENSE. Women, for the most part, do not. When you are interacting with a woman, y… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 01:40 PM |
| 11 | Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll startI guess winning the friends over is whole nother discussion and logistical nightmare. That's your answer. Win the friends over. If the friends like you, it's not a problem. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 01:33 PM |
| 26 | Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll startAny same-night-lay tactics Always be screening for logistics. If she's with friends, understand how you are going to get her away from her friends and if not, get the digits and get out. Try just asking her, "Would your friends be mad if I stole you away from them and fucked your brains out?" Dealing with cockblocks without a wing Use your body positioning. Spin the girl around so he can't even look at you two in the eye. If it looks like it might get ugly, use it as an excuse to bounce to anoth… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Discerning (major) sticking points?Deep introspection combined with LOTS of time in the field. Are you journaling your nights out with field reports? If not, start doing so and posting them here. People will give you insights you might be missing. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, my boyfriend used to be a PUA, and I'm not sure how to feel about it.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! BTW, you should feel honored that he put in all the hard work to become the awesome guy that you fell for. He cared enough about you to make sure he was ready when the time came. Would you rather he be a socially inept idiot with bad fashion? (stereotypical pre-PUA guy) | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to title this. I'm messed up. Would appreciate Input.Take an improv class. Push your boundaries and learn how to talk. Use non-sequitors, stop giving such a fuck about what others think of you. Draw, pursue your passions, become a man of action. BTW might wanna pop over to /r/malefashionadvice for some tips on style. I think you could look even better than you do now. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Gaming with a girlPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Always assume attraction?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more answers. And it means to approach and escalate. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:02 PM |
| 1 | [Advice needed] Preparing For Possible F-CloseThanks! Link me to your askseddit post when it's up and I'll give you my take on it. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:24 AM |
| 12 | How and when do you put on music if you have a girl on your couch "watching a movie" with you?You're the man - she is waiting for you to lead her. Start making out with her and go, "Hold on, let me put some music on." Don't overcomplicate it :) Speaking of transitions, when is it best to move to the bedroom? Should you go down on a girl while you are still on the couch or should you generally wait until you move into the bedroom? Girls LOVE IT when you're hot and heavy and you just pick her up and carry her to your bedroom. Throw her down on the bed and go to town. That being said, going… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Question about "Friend Game"Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Is there any special rules for picking up feminists?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | [Advice needed] Preparing For Possible F-ClosePlease repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl when they are already talking to a friend?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | So I guess this is the first step. Finally truly realized my oneitis.Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact, proximity, body contact but nothing too outright flirty - far-fetched to draw IOIs from this? How would you have played it?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How can I tell if she likes me back?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:17 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] AMA Tonight with Todd Van DeHey from RSD!I just wanted to say I'm very glad that Jeffy cut that mullet. I saw him at McTeagues back in the early springtime and it was getting ratty as hell. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Shit test from 20-yo girl: How would you respond?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl coming to dinner with my parents that I want to pick up, tips?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:10 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] REMINDER: All Beginner Questions and Questions about specific situations belong in /r/AskSedditYou wanna take care of running it? It would be a huge help. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if FWB or more?Please repost on /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 09:47 PM |
| 95 | Seddit, I have a confession. I keep a set of higher-end liquor bottles that I refill with with $10-a-handle liquor. No one has ever realized the difference. What techniques do you use in the course of seduction that you aren't exactly proud of?Me and Jewigger from Bay Area Seddit once picked up two tourists and told them we were taking them to a famous tourist location, but we just went back to his apartment and plowed. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 09:43 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] REMINDER: All Beginner Questions and Questions about specific situations belong in /r/AskSedditWe were trying a weekly theme thread, but I think we had to pull it for some reason. frogma would know best. It might be worth trying it again. I'll discuss internally with the other mods. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?We're aware of some of the dead links. We're waiting on the new reddit wiki system to roll out a brand new sidebar. It's been delayed due to some bugs in the code. Bug the reddit admins for us :X | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?We're actually working on that. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 06:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.But a word of cautionary advice... Don't start telling everyone and anyone to stop masturbating like it's a magical cure. For every guy it works for, there are plenty it does nothing for. The top pickup guys all masturbate whenever they want and get fantastic results. We get a lot of young guys who come in thinking they came across the holy grail trying to evangelize the masses and it never ceases being annoying. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.Like I said, don't sell yourself short. But if it works for you, no reason to stop! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?We're going to have to agree to disagree about that, then. If seddit is entirely flooded with redundant noob questions every day, we'll have a hard time pushing the collective body of knowledge forward. I hope that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for online game?An OK Cupid guide I wrote a while back. It's a bit dated, but should get you started. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...I'm back! Expect big things soon. I had to leave dodge for a while and take care of some life issues. I'm trying to get a new start for a while. I relocated from California to outside NYC now. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Quiet librariesPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Major sticking point I can't get through right now: fear of confrontationhttp://www.rsdnation.com/jlaix/blog | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Being the 'Other Woman'Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! And my advice is to block her number/facebook/whatever. No good will come from this. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me, but should I tell her I like her?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. And for the record, there's no need to say you like her... Show her you like her. Grab her and kiss her, or hold her hand, or... do something dude. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Moving from online interaction to face to face?"You seem cool, we should hang out. Here's my number - shoot me a text." | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:41 PM |
| 90 | "You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it?There is nothing wrong with being outgoing and friendly/flirty with everyone. But pay close attention to your calibration. If no one in the room is touching anyone and you're going around smacking asses, you're doing it wrong. It sounds like you are coming along just fine, you just need to work on your calibration a bit. Pay close attention to people's reactions and give it time... It usually auto-corrects. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?I would post in the appropriate community as per the rules. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:39 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.It's one of those awesome placebo effects that work for some people. Good on you for giving it a shot, but don't let it become a crutch or limiting belief! I'd wager to say the volunteer work and alcohol loosening you up and getting you in state, and most importantly all the hard work you've been putting in up to this point did 100% of the work. Don't sell yourself short thinking a cheap gimmick caused it. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:37 PM |
| 13 | I meet hundreds of women a day, I need new flirtatious yet harmless lines.DUDE! You are sitting on a golden chance to field test whatever you want! IMO nothing will beat strong eye contact, a smile, and a slow "Hi. How are you?" Segue with anything you want after that. But the strong eye contact is what is going to seal it. This is one of those rare situations where I would say waiting for an overt IOI before trying to escalate anything is warranted. After all, it's your job we're talking about. If you get a reputation as a creep you won't last long. I have friends wh… | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 01:14 PM |
| 15 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?Yes. All beginner questions or questions about specific girls/situations belong in /r/AskSeddit and will be removed. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Major sticking point I can't get through right now: fear of confrontationGoogle for AMOG destroyers, if you feel you need some routines/lines. Honestly, just ignore them. I go out all the time and hit on lots of girls... Fights almost never happen (maybe 1 in a 100 nights out). Not even worth letting it register on your radar. The more successful you get with women, the more you will be AMOG'd. If you really feel you want to confront these guys as oppose to ignore them, check out some of Jeffy from RSD'd stuff. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:53 PM |
| 1 | number closed the hottest girl in my life, fumbling on text game.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Going to call a girl next day///Need some help!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:51 PM |
| 1 | well seddit I failedPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you really need advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:51 PM |
| 1 | I think I've been FR'd.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you really need advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Is she seducing me or just very touchy personPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to bone her?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you really need advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to difuse a douchebag interuptionPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Getting IOI'd, how to proceed?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Got no help from r/mmfb or r/dating - can seduction throw me a bone?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:31 PM |
| 1 | need advice - girl w/ bf, i really likePlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Request, help with endgame, reading signals. (first post)Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Shit test? How to respond.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:30 PM |
| 1 | A question about application in a high school environment.Might want to try reposting this in /r/AskSeddit and /r/highseddit. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice: Breaking out of a drought after a tough breakupPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Is she leading me on? Or does she like me now?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:30 PM |
| 3 | I've seen the Power of Now mentioned here numerously - struggling to get through it but don't see whats so amazing about itYes, it's written in a lot of new age psycho-babble. But if you can get past that and grasp the concept of "there is no future or past, only the present" then the concept of being outcome dependent melts away. That is a HUGE source of issues surrounding self-validation/neediness/approach anxiety/etc. That's why it's so popular. If you want a more pickup-friendly version of it, check out The Blueprint Decoded by RSD. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:25 PM |
| 15 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?If you see a thread that belongs in /r/AskSeddit instead of here, please use the report button to alert the mods. We filter posts daily but we can't be online 24/7. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Hey fellow older guys (I'm 35). What did you do to improve your life in this area?Yep, Asian AMOGs are the worst. They like to attack in packs :) | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:20 PM |
| 2 | To Anyone Who Says They "Can't" Due To Looks... Just Fucking Read This (x-post from HTNGAF)That's the point. Social proof can be generated. That's why looks don't matter in the big scheme of things. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Hey fellow older guys (I'm 35). What did you do to improve your life in this area?Nope, white. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 10:18 PM |
| 15 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...Just own it. "Yep :) So [insert question here]." | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 08:26 PM |
| 20 | Hey fellow older guys (I'm 35). What did you do to improve your life in this area?I had a late start because I went to an all boys high school and was very shy as a kid, so I've always felt that I've lagged behind in terms of dating. I did too, dude. It's great you were able to analyze what may have caused your late start but from now on, forget all those excuses. There is only action going forth now. I'm white, but the whole "opposites attract" thing seems to apply to me, and I've been highly attracted to Asian women my whole life, which causes me some shame for some reason.… | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Out of options. How do I rebuild?Honestly, I wouldn't be comfortable with giving advice to someone with such a unique medical condition. Have you talked to experienced doctors/therapists about this? Are there treatments to mitigate the issues? | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis for physical reasons...Please repost in /r/AskSeddit if you desire more responses. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How does one go about getting in touch with someone from a former school?Yes, please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Review: LoveSystems Inner Game Seminar by Braddock and Mr. MI agree with you on the term "alpha male." People over-use it. I tried to coin the phrase "Modern Alpha Male" to differentiate, because people don't understand what it's actually all about. Great review! Please keep contributing. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Specific situation, need any suggestions sedditPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 12:50 PM |
| 1 | is it unheard of for a 30 years old guy to be with a 22 years old girl?No, it happens a lot actually. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 10:57 PM |
| 5 | My life has gone downhill. I'm 24 and seriously considering suicide. Help?Whatever, it's all just semantics. Your life sucks today so take steps to improve it. This thread is full of good advice. Follow it. Or don't, but don't expect a pity party. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 08:50 PM |
| 12 | The best advice I've got for beginner's with AA...Reframe your night when you go out. Make it all about the lulz and less about getting laid. It will lead to all sorts of benefits. Rejections should be hilarious, not soul-crushing. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 08:43 PM |
| 24 | I don't want as many women as I can handle. I just want one. Someone I can love and treasure until I die. How many other sedditors are looking for monogamy?Look at it this way... The guys who sit down at a poker table thinking "Well, I have no experience playing poker but if I'm just dealt a royal flush I'll clean up!" end up losing their shirt rather quickly. Not all of seduction is practicing meeting & banging girls. There are HUGELY important pieces surrounding becoming a more interesting person, learning how to hold a good conversation, building an attractive lifestyle, learning how to eat properly, exercise and dress well... Your future "Mrs. … | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How can i get everyone away from thinking I´m a nerd?I play guitar and want to start a band Do that. :) | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Newly single. Tips?The sidebar is your friend ----> :) | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:16 PM |
| 1 | To the noobies, don't believe the hypeI get what your point is (beware the keyboard jockeys!) but you could have picked a nicer way of explaining it :) A lot of guys weren't brought up with great social skills. "Make her laugh" is actually not as simple advice as it might appear to you. We're a community of 80,000+ so try and keep everyone's perspective in mind. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:13 PM |
| 7 | My life has gone downhill. I'm 24 and seriously considering suicide. Help?I have lived in some of the biggest cities in the world (NYC, Tokyo), San Francisco, and in the suburbs in Florida and Connecticut. And that's just in the last 2.5 years. Sometimes during that span I was broke too. It doesn't matter! Go out and make a friend or two or three. Ask them to give you a ride. Be shameless about meeting people. Get numbers (of men, women, everyone!) and start socializing/networking. Getting out of the house is your first step to recovery. Tell EVERYONE you meet about y… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | alright we all know what to do first dates when we meet a girl for a first time .. Now what do you do if you go on a first date with a girl who you already know for a while ?It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Just have fun, be spontaneous and pick something exciting to do. It's your adventure and you're letting her come along for the ride! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do we care about their appearance?Relic lingo. Those terms were decided upon over a decade ago. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:58 PM |
| 4 | My life has gone downhill. I'm 24 and seriously considering suicide. Help?I know there is "meetup" and I'm considering joining a couple clubs. What's stopping you? But one is based on an interest I have (learning a marketable skill) and I have to do some learning on my own first before going. No you don't. Just show up. Today (or whenever the first meeting is). People aren't as open out here. Maybe, but not everyone is indoors all day refusing to meet people. No one is out during the day time. You don't have a mall in Charlotte? Or coffee shops? What about sports bars… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:27 PM |
| 1 | alright we all know what to do first dates when we meet a girl for a first time .. Now what do you do if you go on a first date with a girl who you already know for a while ?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Why do we care about their appearance?The HB scale is not a measure of looks, it's a measure of her perceived social value. A woman who is approached every day of her life by multiple "alpha" men will require a different method than a woman who has never been hit on in her life. The HB-scale gives us some context. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:20 PM |
| 1 | In and out of friend zone.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:17 PM |
| 2 | New to r seduction, help with the acronyms please!Check the glossary links in the sidebar ---> While you're at it, read some of the links in there. They're gold :) | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:16 PM |
| 90 | I don't want as many women as I can handle. I just want one. Someone I can love and treasure until I die. How many other sedditors are looking for monogamy?You have to learn how to be attractive to women in order to maximize your chances when you meet the woman of your dreams. Meeting and attracting lots of women is one of the most effective ways to do that. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:14 PM |
| 19 | My life has gone downhill. I'm 24 and seriously considering suicide. Help?Hey man... Everyone goes through down times. You're 24, most of your peers are struggling to find work. Don't let all these superficial, circumstantial, and external factors define who you are. They are emotionally abusive to me and have been since forever. Yeah, you definitely need to work to get out of that situation. Even if you have to live in a shoebox shit-hole and work temp gigs to pay the rent... Try and work on a plan to get away from the emotional abuse. It is not helping your situatio… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:12 PM |
| 1 | went away to schoolPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl is drifting towards another guy?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I've had two dates with a girl, then suddenly she says I'm wasting my time with her. Help?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I need help getting back to my original targetPlease repost in /r/AskSeddit if you need more answers. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Curious as to what other sedditors are looking for when meeting women.For me personally, I just enjoy lulz. Girls who can contribute to the amount of lulz in my life... I want to get to know them :) | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth my time to go back?Hi, please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:37 PM |
| 2 | If looks don't matter then why does /r/ladyboners exist???Dude. Of course looks matter. But they aren't NEARLY as important as they are for men. Also a "lack of looks" can be easily overcome with some focus on appearance (fashion, exercise, diet) and an effort to improve one's body language, status, inner game, and conversation skills, etc. The point is, don't worry about what you can't change. Work hard to change what you can and any lack of looks can be overcome. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I think this milf is into me. What do you think?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you need more answers. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:32 PM |
| 1 | 1 Year in the Review: How I completely transformed my life and mind, and became successful with women and friends. [x-post faimprovement] SUPER LONGIt's okay! It's just a common courtesy thing when doing a cross-post to another subreddit. Also the notion that seddit has only begun focusing on Inner Game in the last few months is just wrong. Hell I wrote this post (and added it to the sidebar) a year and a half ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gjqim/the_definitive_seddit_inner_game_collection/ | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:29 PM |
| 1 | 1 Year in the Review: How I completely transformed my life and mind, and became successful with women and friends. [x-post faimprovement] SUPER LONGRemoved because of all the seddit bashing. But it really is a great story. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 01:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Cross-Dressed, Got Bitcheslol It's a euphemism/meme. You can put the pitchfork away :) | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Internal Conflict between inner game and actively approaching womenWhat you are experiencing is incongruence. You have worked hard to develop the right mental attitude but your lifestyle doesn't match it yet. You need more life experience. What worked for me was a combo of daily doses of GOOD inner game material (for me it was RSD The Blueprint Decoded) and going out 5-6 nights a week for a couple months. Be bold, make friends, meet women, become a regular at a few places... Post FRs here and inspire and be inspired by your fellow men. Put in the work and good … | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 01:13 PM |
| 14 | Got banned from a subreddit for defending /r/seduction. But do they have a point?Don't try to argue with SRS. Some people just want the world to circlejerk. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Is She into me? Advice neededPlease repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Can't see this girl before the 27th...Please repost in /r/AskSeddit, Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Certain Girl?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit, Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 07:20 PM |
| 2 | When you're hosting a party...Just dance and have fun. It's YOUR party - you make the rules :) | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Is it ever too late to say something about the appearance of a girl or something that she is wearing or should it be something that is said initially?Feel free to give the compliment at any time, it really doesn't change much. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:54 PM |
| 1 | When you're hosting a party...Nice logistics, sir! You should be in good shape with that plan. I think you're overthinking the multiple girls thing... Just be in party mode and be flirty/kino ALL the girls. I have seen guys throw parties with 5-6 girls they were actively sleeping with (who didn't know this) and it went fine. There is nothing better than social proof/preselection, dude. Search seddit for some of my Entourage Game posts for proof of this. It's a party! Just have a good time on your home turf and be friendly wi… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:52 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.How's ImKumarYo doing these days? I owe him a call. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:04 PM |
| 5 | When you're hosting a party...IMO invite em all. Nothing beats preselection and social proof. Just be light and flirty with EVERYONE. Have a good time, party with everyone and don't play favorites. Be discreet at the end of the night when you sneak off with one who is down to plow ;) Also plan your logistics in advance. How are you going to get her alone? | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Online conversation. What did I do right, wrong? Next steps? [xpost r/dating_advice]Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How can I gauge how attractive I am physically?Relax, bro. I never get told I look good either (unless I dress up all sexy, and then it's usually "Wow you look good today" implying that I usually don't lol). Generating attraction is all about your attitude, confidence, and presentation. Would you want false confidence that is based on something superficial, like looks (which can fade)? Or would you prefer real core confidence that stems from knowing you are an awesome human being with lots to offer the world? Work on YOU, and work on game (r… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm really into leaves the country for a year in 2 days and we're having dinner tomorrow. How should I play this out?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:33 PM |
| 1 | how to put girls in the "friend zone"?Use the F-word (friend) egregiously in conversation. BTW congrats on improving yourself! Keep at it and post some FRs :) | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Help/AdvicePlease repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Got another shot: Need help not fucking things up this time with girl I previously blew offPlease repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I have a really cute neighbor.Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:30 PM |
| 1 | When to call it a day?Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I need advice on how to handle this one...Please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:29 PM |
| 2 | First date ever. Met online. Help?If you need more advice, please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble reconciling "coming off as attractive through expressing disinterest" and "expressing interest honestly"Honestly, this is two different type of game: indirect and direct. Direct has more or less proven to be more effective, and since you don't seem to like games, it's probably more your style. Check out Mark Manson for a great resource on direct game. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Grabbed her ass and kind of regret it.If you need more answers, please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do I see her again?Please repost this on /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:28 PM |
| 1 | I want to get to know one of my friends friends better (both girls). How do I do this?Please repost this on /r/AskSeddit and provide more details. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Blacked out and don't remember how it went with girl...what to do?Please repost this on /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:24 PM |
| 2 | I been out of seducing girls for so long, I'm not sure what to do please help?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl I rarely see, for her number over Facebook?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Chatting up a guy at the gym. Help!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:47 PM |
| 3 | College Daygame in quiet classrooms? [First post]Talk to them after class. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Trying to make up for beta behavior.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:33 PM |
| 1 | San Diego Wingmen. Show yourselves!There is an Orange County lair linked in the sidebar ---> Maybe reach out to those guys too? | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:31 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Can we add filters, similar to the [m] and [f] tabs from GW?I think this would be more troublesome than it's worth. 90%+ of the posts are by men. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I want to turn a long time friendship into a more intimate relationship.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Getting a girl's number while she's at work.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so negative about the "picking up women" school of thought?Eh, I'm a moderator on a pretty large PUA community and helping guys get girlfriends is something we do daily. It's my personal view that "getting laid" is the first step towards getting a girlfriend, which is why I often give that out as advice. But not always (some people don't like to rush into having sex). | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: the guys doing all the talking about how to pick up aren't the ones doing it.That's fine and sounds like you're having fun :) But I mean... If you're sitting around discussing whether or not to body rock or which gambit to open with... instead of actually, you know, talking to women... then you're doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 09:21 PM |
| 9 | Why are women so negative about the "picking up women" school of thought?Or that the good PUAs are men and the women are women. It's just reintroducing a bit of masculinity into the world. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: the guys doing all the talking about how to pick up aren't the ones doing it.Agreed. Discussing game when out in the field is lame. Just go out to have a good time with likeminded people and wait until you're back online to dissect it all. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | girfriend subreddit?Work on becoming more attractive to all women, not just using techniques to pick up one woman. That's the secret to keeping a girl. It's all here in seddit. I encourage you to seek it out (and post field reports documenting your journey). | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What direction should I go in next to ensure I don't come on too strong?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Why are women so negative about the "picking up women" school of thought?The main goal is to get laid. The goal is not a long term relationship. I'd be more careful with your generalizations. We're a community of 80,000 subscribers... There are lots of different goals. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Wondering why a girl flaked? Here are Six Reasons Women Flake on Dates.I always abide by the three strikes rule. It works in baseball :) | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Think outside the box. Be shameless to get the girllol the "disable her phone" part is a bit extreme, but this is solid advice. Fortune favors the bold. A lot of my successful f-closes came from me or a wingman making a very bold move like this. Good video! This is also gold... I'm going to use this next time: text message PUA: What are you doing tonight? HB: Who is this? PUA: Todd. HB: Todd who?? PUA: Such a slut. HB: ?????? then call and she'll pick up "I was just kidding. What are you doing tonight?" | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 02:16 PM |
| 1 | seddit, do you keep pushing if the girl is giving you bad signs over texting?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 02:10 PM |
| 6 | What is your reply to "Aww you're so young!"Just make cougar jokes/negs. They almost always work. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Fclose Date with Japanese woman with an unexpected ending.Nothing... Just always be careful you're not crossing a line when you're dealing with LMR. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:28 PM |
| 8 | I'm dating a guy and I'm very aware of specific seduction techniques he is using. Is it something that can't be turned off once learnt?OK... this is actually a bit of a dilemma. If he's the kind of person who has built a "pickup persona" that he identifies with, then you calling him out on it might pull the rug out from underneath his self-esteem. It's the foundation of a lot of what he's accomplished. However if he truly has (what RSD would call) core confidence, then it wouldn't really be an issue... So you have to tread lightly here. My hunch is that over time his reliance on any routines/methods he learned will dissipate an… | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:12 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Fclose Date with Japanese woman with an unexpected ending.I'm curious about how your situation with the Japanese girl develops... Be careful with the "says 'No' and then starts again" girl. Make sure she's entirely comfortable before sex, for sure. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:44 PM |
| 2 | R/AskSeddit Player or Moderater or anyone Else could post the Links in order for beginners ??This is a super broad request... Can you ask a more specific question and maybe we can help? The most important thing you need to know is you must GET OUT AND MEET PEOPLE. For every hour you spend online, spend 10 out meeting and interacting. It will be uncomfortable at first but you'll get used to it. Most of your problems will auto-correct if you put in the proper level of effort. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:43 PM |
| 1 | I don't understandPlease repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I try for this girl?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Trying to keep sex open with a girl that's currently taken, advice?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:41 PM |
| 5 | I'm dating a guy and I'm very aware of specific seduction techniques he is using. Is it something that can't be turned off once learnt?This is interesting... Can you expand on what the techniques are a bit? That might make this easier to answer. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Ok seddit, mould me. I need direction.The sidebar is your friend ---> | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:40 PM |
| 1 | When do you tell them you dont want anything serious?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit if you desire more answers. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:39 PM |
| 3 | girfriend subreddit?Sex is one step on the way towards a loving strong relationship. And a very important one. The best way to solidify a girl's attraction towards you is to give her multiple orgasms too :) | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Feeling mutual attraction/connection with a girl in a relationshipHi, could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Alpha response for when a girl tells you about hooking up with other people?Hi, could you please repost this in /r/AskSeddit? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach women that are slightly taller?Approach like any other girl. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:12 AM |
| 16 | girfriend subreddit?You misunderstood... This is the subreddit for getting and keeping the girl. Look closely at the inner game concepts taught here and also look at the outer game posts to help get you out meeting people. If you become a confident, self-validated, attractive man and you meet a wonderful girl and sleep with her, she very well may become your girlfriend. /r/relationships is great for issues that pop up after that point. We focus more on how to build and maintain attraction. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:38 AM |
| 22 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'We appreciate everyone helping each other out, but please don't post links to PDFs/torrents/etc. We try to run a relatively piracy-free zone out of respect for the professionals who come and do AMAs here. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:12 AM |
| 7 | Shit tests: what are common shit test HB8+'s have given you and how did you failed/overcame them?Try searching for shit tests in the search box over there ---> | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I cut through the BS and try to hook up with this girl through FB?Please repost this in /r/askSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 12:52 PM |
| 1 | I have a plan to try to overcome my AA and approach an HB9 for the first time in class (college). Does Seddit think it's a sound plan?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a guy I barely know out?Just FYI this thread is really more appropriate for /r/AskSeddit and as such, it has been removed. Please feel free to repost there if you want more answers. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 12:49 PM |
| 1 | friendship vs flirty behavior. Deals with 1/2 girls... but also kind of general.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Mix signals are killing me, advice?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 12:27 AM |
| 9 | Why Umbrellas are a useful seduction tool.I will vouch for this... I've used an umbrella on a couple occasions as an impromptu prop to massive success. | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 09:14 PM |
| 5 | The transition from humor to seductionOh, come on, dude. Get creative. "I bet you watch a lot of porn trollface" "I just got out of rehab for being a masturbation addict trollface" "Ever notice how the girls in Japanese porn sound like F1 racecars? trollface" You can say almost anything. Just say it with a smirk on your face. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 08:14 PM |
| 17 | Where can I find A LOT of PUA video content? I learn best from watching, not reading.Go out. A lot. Observe, mingle, observe, have fun... Chances are your town has some of the best "in field footage" you'll find anywhere. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 05:27 PM |
| 1 | "You know........"Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Get The Girl to Talk More?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Australian game vs American gameI've always found Aussie girls to be bigger teases than US girls... They will drink and party with the best of them, but they are more hesitant to let you physically escalate. As with anything, fortune favors the bold, so don't be afraid to get shot down. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Picking up a girl for a threesomeLet her do most of the work. Give her time to bond with the girl, make yourself scarce when appropriate. Just be well groomed, well dressed, friendly and charming without really saying too much. Your girl is the key to making this happen. Likewise, after she invites her back home with you for something fun, make yourself scarce again... Let the two of them get flirty... Only if the target seems hesitant should you move in and make the first move. If you really need a routine to run, google for t… | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 02:50 PM |
| 4 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateI use this text a lot. I'll vouch for OP, it's one of the best methods. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seddit Guru's, what just happened?You can try asking her out again... Or throw her a hail mary text (My go-to is "You were in my dream last night...") Honestly, it's probably not worth your time. Go meet a bunch of new girls. Consider it a learning experience. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 01:35 PM |
| 1 | I've read the FAQ's and understand the game more, but I'm still a little lost.Nailed it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 01:35 PM |
| 9 | A Hong Kong tycoon is offering £40 million to the man who turns his lesbian daughter... Seddit, what's your best lesbian story?!I knew a guy who got a reputation at his local lesbian bar as the "safe guy to sleep with." He ended up fucking a couple dozen lesbians on the regular. I guess even some lesbians crave the dick sometimes! | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 01:34 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Seddit Guru's, what just happened?My guess is you overdid the cocky/funny and she had buyer's remorse when she realized she didn't really know much about you. After a certain point, you need to really focus on building some meaningful rapport or else you'll end up exactly like you did. We shared a couple kisses and then I pulled away saying I had to run but she should give me her number and if she was lucky, we'd continue where we left off some other time. Just things like that... In the moment it's cocky and attractive, but you… | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:45 PM |
| 2 | My friend and I met two 10's last night and they want to meet up again, but I feel they might be using us as protection when going out. We're not 10's. What can I avoid/do to get in long term.Sounds like you're overthinking it... Likely they are new in town and you were the first two cool guys they came across. Continue providing value without supplicating and they could be really cool girls to know. I think you'll be fine - if you want to hook up with them, kino escalation & logistics, dude. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:42 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Updated Seddit Rules / Posting GuidelinesThat question you posted could have belonged in /r/seduction actually. AskSeddit is mostly for questions about specific people. Maybe repost it here? It should spark a good conversation. As a rule, if you're asking about concepts such as validation and state, that's most squarely in the intermediate-advanced area. If you're asking, "How do I talk to the girl in my school cafeteria?" you're in the noob/AskSeddit area. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:37 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Updated Seddit Rules / Posting GuidelinesI think the message is just make sure you know your technique is repeatable before writing about it. 20 is an arbitrary number for sure. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Why I hate RSD. My experience.RSD has some good advice, but it's packaged with some really bad stuff alongside it. Confident guys can separate out the good from the bad, but vulnerable/suggestible guys often can't. That is interesting and something I've thought about before. For a long time my go-to advice for people really looking to improve was to "listen to The Blueprint Decoded in pieces while you go out looking for breakthroughs until it's all internalized." It certainly worked for everyone I know who actually did that,… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 08:28 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Updated Seddit Rules / Posting GuidelinesHonestly the best thing you can do when you see that is to message the mods. We have some tools we can use to help mitigate the negative exposure. (My personal favorite is nuking a thread from orbit.) | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 08:00 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Updated Seddit Rules / Posting GuidelinesI'm pretty sure reddit's sorting/voting algorithm takes care of this problem for us. Things that are downvoted quickly are taken off the front page for most folks (very few people sort by "new"). As far as outsiders misunderstanding what we do... Sadly that problem will never go away. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 07:55 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Updated Seddit Rules / Posting GuidelinesAskSeddit is designed to be welcoming of almost all questions, no matter how noobish or foolish they may seem to you. Everyone was a beginner at one point or another. We don't want to exclude honest-minded folks, we just don't want their questions to clog /r/seduction. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice Seddit.Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl in Class? Yes or no?Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Some help about conversation starting would be appreciated!Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for Japanese women?Justification is anything that can be "plausible deniability." She needs to feel that she went home with you (even under the thinnest of pretenses) so that sex "just happened." She doesn't want to just go home with you for sex - that makes her feel like a slut. So literally just come up with the simplest thing you can think of... "Hey I want to show you this youtube video." "Hey I want to show you this [random thing I mentioned earlier in the night.]" "I have a nice bottle of wine at my place, l… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for Japanese women?Logistics meaning... How are you going to bounce her from place to place? How are you going to get her to come home with you for sexy time? Will your place (or wherever) be clean and prepared for maximum enjoyment on both sides? AFCs worry about game, PUAs worry about logistics :) | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 02:38 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when you catch a gaze?Those are called limiting beliefs aka excuses. Strangle that little guy in his sleep. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for Japanese women?My advice is to not over think it... you're doing fine. Just plan your logistics out and continue to escalate. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:51 PM |
| 6 | What do you do when you catch a gaze?Seriously though, if you are not working on overcoming your AA, you're doing yourself a huge disservice. College is the best time in your life to accomplish it... Lots of cute girls and social interaction is encouraged. Don't waste your time with excuses. I know plenty of guys (me included, even) who wish they made an effort to be more outgoing in college. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 02:00 PM |
| 6 | What do you do when you catch a gaze?Walk up and say hi. Hell, do that even if she doesn't gaze at you. Grow some balls, OP. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 01:46 PM |
| 15 | Get a Life: A How-to GuideThis is how to properly advertise your services on reddit. Excellent post, Eric. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 12:57 PM |
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