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| 5 | Being friendly/nice to low SMV people always backfiresAre you giving to get something in return? The nice-guy covert contract is the contract you believe to be real but hasn’t been made. You can’t help people who don’t wanna be helped. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Inviting myself over a girls place for first date?hello brother. ive gone for such phrases like. hey have you had any company over lately? Do you need help moving furniture? (once moved a mattress and you can imagine how that goes) | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | How to practice inner gameYou know how your parents say use your inside voice? Or don’t use your outside voice? Actions speak louder than words. Like another member said, clean your room. Take showers. Hit the gym. Challenge yourself and talk to people everywhere you go. A lot of miracle can happen around people. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How to actually have an interesting and exciting conversation and not make it look like a job interview?That happens to everyone, just say whatever you're thinking. Blurt it out. See where it goes. Don't try and re hearse a human interaction. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to get feedback on looks/style/photos?go out in public and test. Are people warm to you or do they seem insecure? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why you SHOULD get married?If shes a really great women - by all means get married. IF shes you're one and only. I mean what am i missing here? Its not like some apocalyptical end to your suffering. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Tinder is not good for my mental health.my man dropping free knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Where should I game during pandemic as an 36M guy?I did my last cold approach to a girl at pizza hut while i was waiting on my order. Im 28. She was a server behind the counter folding silverware and she looked about 23-25 so i said did you graduate college yet? found out she lives nearby. I got her number of course and thanked her for her time and left.... bad da boom. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 08:30 PM |
| 11 | Where should I game during pandemic as an 36M guy?let me just be frank here... Girls "shy" away from guys doing this if they are with their family, at work, with a personal friend. You can really increase your odds if shes alone and appears to be acting feminine. She might accept your invitation. Just play the game. Dont worry about getting better at it. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Starting a career search at 27, any ideas?Get a license to trade some skill. It will allow you to work anywhere in your state or maybe even others depending on where you're from, do your research. In my case i received my insurance adjuster licensees online during the pandemic. 40 hours of online studying and i was making 10k a month thanks to the latest hurricanes. But my brother does HVAC and my other is a roofer. Im 28. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What's with super jacked guys and their below average gfs?Yes the song is really funny. I think the lyrics were a pretty women does all the things that make you feel small, pretty soon it will cause your downfall. The thing is your right, it’s all about attitude. I’m not saying she can’t be attractive I mean the type of girl who makes you wait when you came over to pick her up because she isn’t finished getting ready is the type of pretty women better left with dread. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys fight emotional investment?You don’t. Abundance gives you options. That’s the mentality you have when a women is acting negative towards you, it’s a positive mental attitude | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Extremely paranoid of getting a woman pregnantMeh, I embraced this. Three kids at 28 sounds crazy till you realize most women just want an alpha to father their kids. I only pay child support for the first child. When I tell women I have kids they don’t think about it they either want to have my kids or they don’t and sometimes I ask them if their trying to have my babies? Women will give you an honest answer. -I’m poor, can’t afford it -I’ve been told I’m going have have a boy -she doesn’t care it’s up god | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Where to start as a fighting sport beginner?You have to get through me first | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Why are women in the US so fat?You practice with ugly women, right? You’re not suppose to wait until the hot girls show up before practicing your game. Beta mistake. Alphas would be nailing fat chicks who call him for a booty call because he would rather be smashing the pussy than sitting at home grinding World of Warcraft | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have been lifting (and not skipping legs) for 5+ years only - What jeans do you wear?I really like PacSun Jeans, always have since I was a teenager. They aren’t too expensive. They look better then the generic stuff you find at department stores | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | On remembering past lays, reoccurring thoughts, or infatuations. Is it oneitis?It’s a ruminating brain as described by Dr. Glover. I highly recommend you connect with him and his work. What gets you out of this pain-shame-blame cycle is taking action. The gym. Your friend. Your bedroom. Calling your mom. Etc | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How to become more fluent is responding to shit tests?The first thing that comes to mind is always the answer. I don’t mean you should tell a women she’s being mean or hurtful and you were just being nice. For instance, a girl I was clearly hitting on asked ME if I was married. This is the classic do you have a “wife/ girlfriend” shit test. She’s basically asking if you do this to all women. My answer was tongue in cheek. I don’t see a ring on your finger so you must be hitting on me. I flipped the script. She laughed. Her friend laughed. I closed … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | What would be a perfect wife for you ?Wrong sub. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Hobbies to develop to increase SMV which start showing results in atleast 6 months? Want to give myself a good 18th year birthday gift.Gym. Lift. Diet. Work on your social skills. Talk to everyone you meet Offer your gift to the world | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | My emotions are ruining my lifeEmotions are healthy forms of communication with our selves. When I feel sad or heart broken I’m not going to try get drunk. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | How to keep texting to logistics only?It works into that but you have to work with someone. Rome wasn’t built in a day. If you start out sending emojis of memes or whatever just do it to please yourself simply because someone else told you not too. Do the opposite of what you been doing. When all is going well it will take natural turn to correct itself and you will be texting for logistics, only. But it’s so final. You don’t really want that to be a destination. Keep Doing what you’re doing. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Female rape allegations, to believe or not?It’s an obvious power move to cripple your self esteem. Fuck all these stories don’t get so caught up in the drama. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I lost my true identity, cause all I do is browse TRP and similar websites and just consume all that information.Knowing thyself is half the battle. You have to fight!!! | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | I'm angry towards women close to the wallIndeed a foolish dog barks at a flying bird. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Almost every girl rejects meGetting a girl to “reject” you is just an excuse for you to keep doing the same old thing that will keep giving you what don’t want. Give yourself a pat on the back. Most men don’t make it this far. You need to open up to the possibility of success. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with IOIs at the gym?My man knows his way around. Girls can spot your insecurities. Feel the fear and do it anyway! | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Women makes her life seem so miserable what’s her deal?I’m not disagreeing with you I just wish I had the opportunity to meet more stable women. I’ve met them at work and sprinkled through my life they seem great but I’m just too scared | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Women makes her life seem so miserable what’s her deal?Ok so I can continue seeing her just leave my codependent save a hoe mentality off the table. My only compromise is like all crazy chicks she has a juicy pussy. Lmao so it’s hard to walk away from that. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are the hot ones crazy?Women are just dysfunctional creatures looking for security. Your job is to show up as the man so she can stop being crazy. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | How to get dudes details without coming across as gayAsking guys advice like you’re doing now and talking about what works and what doesn’t is what separates us as boys from the men. Or whatever. You’re already doing it. As long as he isn’t trying to grab your cock and fuck your ass just believe it’s all your head. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Being bold works, but going straight to hook up is gross to me. Anybody else?As long as you are facing your fears and practicing becoming the man you know you can be, that’s all that counts | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 0 | She said "not looking for sex today"I always escalate from raw dog to a condom when I’m ready to hit it from behind | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Feeling ashamed because people I know achieved more than meIf the people around you are successful that’s good for them and you isn’t it? Some of that good nutrients will pass onto you in spirit. Just embrace it. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Why average men in their 30s are "better" ?I always thought a mentor was good for young men, especially being with one myself from a young age it’s been vital to my manhood. Go out with men like you always do and see if you can’t learn something. If not don’t worry. The teacher will come when the student is ready | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | So how do i approach to girl if she already saw me as betaWell fuck me then, | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | She seemed interested but now getting LJBF?How do guys go through so much trouble to miscommunication the obvious signs? One of life’s mysteries. This happened to me before. She drove from Houston to Dallas to come see me after only been on one or two dates together and she said “I’ll come but I won’t have sex with you” I said K and sent her the address. She comes in no underwear and a tank top and pizza. Yeah I fukt her all weekend bro and she liked it. Don’t get stuck in a relationship with these women unless they are vetted. And don’t… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Whats your favorite song?I’m offering her plausible deniability. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Whats your favorite song?I’m not asking for consent. I’m taking suggestions | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 01:36 PM |
| 5 | What's one of the most fucked up things you've said to a girl and still pulled?Does your sisters pussy look identical to yours? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | This girl keeps asking me " why do you talk to me" What the fuck do I even do with that? I cant say "cause maybe we'll fuck one day LMAO"She doesn’t follow you. What does that mean? You need to man up and lead her. Ask her out. Get off the phone and have sex. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Who are the most redpilled celebrities ?Mike Tyson comes to mind as does Rush Limbaugh | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How does one get better at story telling?Have a story to tell and not some buddy, buddy shit | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 09:58 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally?Yeah that what you call a Greyhound divorce because you’re too much of a nice guy to break up with her you wait for her to get hit by a bus | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?The only person who has to like you... is you. If you see it from their eyes that you’re people pleasing just stop and say oh, I’m doing that silly thing again. But don’t be judgmental. On the other side if you’re going to be hateful and vicious do it consciously without hiding it. I’ve been going to this men’s group for a couple months and one of the members were mentioning how every spiritual leader or coach tells you to be kind, be gentle, be god fearing, etc etc. he said ever since he starte… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 08:49 PM |
| 38 | What is the strongest frame a man can have?Here’s a mind trick my dad taught me when I was feeling anxious. Am I doing something wrong or illegal? No? Then what are you worrying about? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Can u guys tell I’m covering up a Norwood 2.5 hairline?Men always recede I to maturity like a lion... obviously some more than others but it’s nothing worse stressing about that will just make it worse | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out and she asks what she has done to earn the privilege?I went this route, her exact words were what do you mean? And I said come out to eat with me at this place. She said what have I done to deserve this?... I said well we both like to eat good food so I said ok I’ll invite her along | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out and she asks what she has done to earn the privilege?Lmao | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Subtle but strange signs that girl is down to fuck?I never liked that vibe. Test girls for interest. If they respond well, escalate. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How to Develop a Better Sense of HumorYeah there’s a fine line to tread here and if you don’t know what it is don’t say anything. My best jokes were never meant to be funny they are just relatable. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Group of friends says I make other females feel uneasy and uncomfortable.Yeah, same thing happened to me. People at work claimed I was a dick and told my friend and my friends told me about it. They asked what I did and I said you know when you see the same shit every day and your kinda edgy? I wasn’t having a bad day. The guys I work with are just dicks. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 8 | If a girl likes you will she beta bux aka simp for you.It takes a split second before you forget and it seems like you're right there with her doing the same shit as last year. No goals, no friends, no money. Take it one day at a time. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 05:37 AM |
| 14 | If a girl likes you will she beta bux aka simp for you.sounds like a keeper | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 97 | Why do men test you/ your frame?Its not just in Brazil, its in your job, at home, your relationships. Thats what Shakespeare was telling everyone about. All the worlds a stage and all the men and women are merely players. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?Hahaha. Just tell her to come over and see. Keep it simple. DO NOT try and establish a relationship over text. This is why they say only text for logistics. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | I really feel angry when guys try to push their weight around at work. It’s so overt and yet I can’t prove they did anything wrong...Law 12 is more up my alley as a brother in arms kinda attitude where we all work together and prosper. Law 22 is bullshit, nobody wants sympathy. Law 44 is just going nuclear. It’s just my perspective to nip these things in bud. With that being said I feel responsible. Telling him to chill out as he was standing too close to me getting hot on some subject i have no interest or participation in. But that’s an advanced technique someone might misconstrue as offensive as opposed to rejection. I sim… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | I really feel angry when guys try to push their weight around at work. It’s so overt and yet I can’t prove they did anything wrong...It’s so difficult for me to stand up for myself - I’m not trying to kill the guy. I just wanna be ok. I’m scared if I push someone away I won’t get back to normal. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:25 PM |
| 0 | I really feel angry when guys try to push their weight around at work. It’s so overt and yet I can’t prove they did anything wrong...That’s not what I need to do. If he keeps coming over to my office cussing “F” this and “F” that guy when I know damn well it’s personal I’m going to scream. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situationOh yeah the women are winning the battle but men are winning the war. That’s a harsh words for guys still going through anger phase. But the truth always comes back, that’s karma for you. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Social media deleters under 25 years old, what was the main reason you deleted?My girlfriend told me her orbiter was trying to get at her and she basically stopped giving him attention and he explained that if she wasn’t going to talk to him anymore he was going to delete his profile so he did... | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | I know what my boundaries are I just don't know how to defend themAppreciate it man, its nice to know people out there are kind, at least sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 8 | I know what my boundaries are I just don't know how to defend themI really appreciate that. Confidence has never been something I lack. Your intuition is correct I am afraid of confrontation. physically dominated, exactly. My step father would abuse me and my brothers. I finally stood up to him and "stood my ground" and basically told him to stop harassing me. The fight ensued he hit me a good three or four times in the face before I started fighting back, when I realized my life very well have been threatened. I hit him once, a lucky shot maybe but it knocked… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 01:14 PM |
| 3 | I know what my boundaries are I just don't know how to defend themhit me with your best shot! | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 01:07 PM |
| -1 | Anyones daily routine becoming completely shit because they haven't been to the gym?Not at all, I've been going to social media and use it setup dates. The only thing that's changed is I haven't been to the gym. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | She invited me to come see her at her work.Of course , I would be playing into her frame. thanks | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Post-facetime "date" advice?I don’t blame you, don’t let these other guys take your game | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What are some things that an idiot would do during this quarantine?Lol saving your virginity?. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Does someone with a brain wanna translate this message?I’m trying to have sex with her now. But back then i was just trying to establish some common ground | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | What role does sex play in your life when it no longer provides validation?Less stress, more love | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you text your plates during quarantineAll push and no pull | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 02:24 AM |
| 6 | How to stay cool when receiving nudes?Give her ratings as if to say she could send more later. Like 10/10 or 7.5 and make it a game for them to send them in general | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else just stop giving a fuck and they started getting laid?My experience was the same as yours. It wasn’t until girls stopped responding to my advances altogether that I realized something is very wrong and I started checking myself out of the dating scene to see what I was doing that was driving them away. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What're you guys doing to stay in-shape during this "lockdown"?My apartment has a gym. It’s pretty bare bones , they don’t have a bench or squat rack but they have a lat machine and some dumbbells so I’m making the best of it. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 08:52 AM |
| 2 | How are you guys dealing with the virus Financially?financially i work in security so even if people go out of work they still want security watching their assets. The main problem for me every store ive been too is out of stock of almost every food. No vegetables, meats, milks, toilet paper, etc. The only thing i could find were boxed snacks and junk food. its really scary to think this could be prolonged. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Been seeing a girl for a year. She acts like my gf, but has never asked me for commitment. Red flag?And they say romance is dead | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel more lonely in their redpill journey than they did being bluepilled?Keep doing what you’re doing. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 03:41 AM |
| 17 | Does anyone feel more lonely in their redpill journey than they did being bluepilled?Can I just add something to this ? Please? For the love of GOD, if you want a relationship don’t be a stoic, stock on the shelf, save my love for later type of dude. Save that for church. If you want a real relationship, step out of your comfort zone. And keep doing it Until being stagnant no longer feels normal. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How real is this statement?because of the group identity. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I be more interesting to women? I am boring with womenThis is so important. When guys talk about faking it till you make it this is what they mean. Go out and make some mistakes and get dirty ! | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:56 AM |
| 3 | How do I be more interesting to women? I am boring with womenShow some eMotion. Don’t be a stoic mentally retarded red pill robot like most people would have you be. Worry about you and yours. And you win. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:54 AM |
| 0 | Girl cancels today's plan, says the doctor took a lot of timeNah, you can see her tomorrow. Don’t be needy. If she’s not interested in doing it today that’s fine. Why beat yourself up? Take the loss | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Finally going to start working on myself for good. Please critique my monk mode schedule, also welcoming advice.This. I find when I plan too much I never get anything done. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Putting up a status to attract multiple women?Girls do this because it fits there feminine gender role. It’s not a good look for us guys to be trying to dominate multiple women at once. I can smell the outcome dependence on you. Lol | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | I find it difficult to reject women.I do too. Ending a relationship is really hard because it’s so final. It’s like the nail in a coffin. You know if you do it you can’t come back to her within your own frame with integrity. It’s a risk with little reward but you gotta do it. You can’t be a quitter. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Good answer to I looking for a man not a boyI would just man up and lead the relationship. A little push/ pull. Watch her response and tune yourself accordingly. It sounds like she wants you to play by her rules, first. Don’t take it personally. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Chicks who stay with violent boyfriendsAt least she knows he’s going to be angry and upset. Where a wimp tends to lash out at boiling points when it’s least expected | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Texting for logistics with young girls, doesn't really work?This is good advice to lead by example. What most people don’t get is by faking it and coming across as fake. The women don’t get the message and it’s frustrating. Keeep doing what you’re doing | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How to stop people being rude to me?People are like Wolfe’s, they run in packs and attack weak, targets. And you will notice if you let one person walk over you it will seem like hundreds of people are doing it until you realize something is wrong and you ask for help. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I improve socially; why do I fuck up everytimeTry doing the opposite. If you know what you’re doing isn’t working, that’s good. That means there’s a part of you that is working. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble.Hit the gym, bro. Stop with all this analyzing | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | textingIt sounds like you weren’t reading the situation and tried to throw the book at her. Classic example of people who Game too much. It’s no different than sitting at home and playing video games. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | FWB texted "I really do love talking with you" - best way to respond? Just a simple "I know?"Oof | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | What's the point of cold approaching if you have to do 100 approaches...just to get 8-10 numbers...just to get 1 date? This is the reality for most guys.This is not the reality for most guys it’s just a single story told of a man who approached 100 women and didn’t get any pussy so they wrote a story about him. Before I came to this sub and indeed for most of my life I never thought about flexing on how many women I sleep with, because I was focused on doing what I had to do to sleep with more women. This sub is like purgatory for guys because you can’t get laid reading and posting comments. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl that is always with the herd?It’s in women’s nature to be passed around... I’ve pursued a girl who I thought was just perfect. Obviously I wasn’t into day dreaming and I walked up to her and her sister at a party and just made a comment about them and her sister was more reciprocal, and engaged me with a smile. I ended up walking away and sleeping with her that night. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:21 AM |
| 66 | What's with the zoomers saying "simp" all the time lately?He mainstreamed red pill through YouTube if you ask me. Just not in the way this sub is writing it. I think Pewds takes a more acceptable approach to what everyone is already thinking. It’s brilliant really because he kinda sneaks it in your drink without you knowing it. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel like getting rejected is a waste of time?Getting rejected and being an arse is like doing the same thing over and over and hoping for something , different. Now that is insane. But really putting your foot in an open door and saying to the effect that you want this person to know you're intentions in a relationship is normal. I think if you feel desensitized it has more to do with you and not the other person. Ive slept with around 20 women and I still feel last minute resistance before I pull the trigger and really pursue her, pursu… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Instantly losing interest.If she does call you bro, dude or homie just hit and quit it. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 11:54 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with older guy at work who is a know-it-all micro-managing c#@t?Im in a simular situation. Old heads like to think they are still 25 and every guy "that" age is a hot head and they can get you to say something stupid and laugh about it with their friends. What i learned to do is tell him the truth. You must be willing to set boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Bosses are thinking of giving me the bootA lot of times when you think the world is spinning into a black hole, how many times were you wrong? How many times have you thought FOR SURE and it just wasn't true? All im saying is dont leave your job because its not spiritual enough. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Why does nexting/ignoring girls work?Hey, I’ve read those books and I don’t get it. Without saying things like “FUCK YES” how else can I read a girls interest? When I’m testing for interest. I’m looking for her to be receptive and follow my lead. If I get a girl to at least acknowledge me and open herself up to me is that a fuck yes? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | I don’t get it...I’m pretty muscular and lean but girls aren’t looking at me/giving me IOI’s. What am I doing wrong?If it’s too complicated just leave it alone. Don’t fight yourself, that just makes it worse. When a women you fancy is nearby make her feel the presence in the room that you felt. Does she seem happy that you noticed her? Do you feel anxious? These are all the signs that you are pushing the rock up the mountain like sysiphous , that Greek god who was condemned to push a boulder up a mountain again and again. In regular speaking terms it means you are alive and challenging yourself. Don’t stop do… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What's a new habit for you that you wished you started sooner?Exactly, you didn’t know how anxious you were because if you did know you were anxiously doing chores, going to work or whatever then you would never leave your bed. The whole denial of death is what keeps us moving! | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Conservative guys, are you having as much trouble dating as me?As a conservative, I don’t talk about it. Neither do you hear me having political conversations with plates or girlfriends. Moreover, don’t expect me to believe you have as hard time with women as some of these social justice retards. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Whenever my sleeping pattern goes to shit, I start losing grip of being on my missionthe paradox of this story is eating well, going to the gym and getting good sleep are going to be required. You have to get good sleep otherwise your motor skills will be so off balance you cant lift properly or you're too tired, unmotivated, anxious, or whatever you think is bothering you, just be gentle with yourself. Yes, it is a choice to go to the gym today or stay at home watching the baseball game. However, if you get frustrated, anxious, depressed then you know its coming from the ego. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Daygaming in stores.. Normal or not?Police officer in Galveston, TX | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Daygaming in stores.. Normal or not?Yeah, I could tell you about how I exchanged numbers with a girl from work and invited her over to my house where we had sex but I don’t think the red pill wants people To do that. You know? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Daygaming in stores.. Normal or not?Read the writing on the wall. (sidebar) | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Picking up a date tonight - how do I get into her place when I drop her off?I once told a girl I wanted to go all the way tonight. That’s usually meant she could say oh my friends are home or my dog is sick. Whatever excuse she could use. Don’t be hell bent on getting it in that moment just be open to the opportunity when it comes. Most guys think they are suppose to do something to make a women want them but really it’s going to be her giving the rules if you want to play. Your job is merely to walk through the open doors. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | First date everJust show her your intentions. Lead. And see if she follows | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Daygaming in stores.. Normal or not?“Hey cutie, I’m talking to you. Gimme your number” It’s bold and chicks usually just go with the flow. If she says anything like she has a boyfriend or whatever just say take it as a compliment and move on. But I met one of my first lays at Walmart. Lmao. She was looking good and I wrote down my number on a sheet of paper and handed it to her and she did the same for me. This was probably over 10 years ago though. We didn’t have cell phones. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | first dates - how do you decide whether to go out or chill at your place?SAve the dating for plates. Women you're actively trying to fuck should come straight to your house. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | sign of interest?it is a red flag!! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching in gyms really frowned upon?Im wondering about this topic too. Where as i am approaching women who seem to be showing me interest, standing really close to me and in my atmosphere if you will without seeming uncomfortable i usually say hi mind if i grab these weights, etc. But every once in a while i get something from a women that is begging me to fuck her now! you guys know what i mean? So i walk over and say something BOLD that if we haven't met before maybe its time i introduce myself. The last time i tried something l… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Is approaching in gyms really frowned upon?My man! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitYou know how when you get really hungry and eating is the only cure? to get surplus of calories you basically have to eat before that hunger/ starvation kicks in. It will seem like you're eating before you're really hungry and it feels like you're putting in work. Thats because you're.. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys stare at me?When i really want to just start some drama like what you might be doing it would be wise just to tell someone to fuck off. Earlier when a guy was giving me eye contact i said i suppose i know you? and he just smirked. Nothing is serious! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:08 AM |
| 8 | Where do I find good women? Going insane, about to hard next all my plates and go into monk modeOP is a hypocrite | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 05:43 AM |
| 0 | I haven’t asked a girl out in a while to fuck but I know I came off kinda sloppyThx | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I haven’t asked a girl out in a while to fuck but I know I came off kinda sloppyThat’s what I was planning on doing. Just telling her my exact address?? Is that the move with a perfectly good stranger?? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on no contact time between dates?Lol | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you incorporate Muay Thai, BJJ, or boxing into your lifting schedule without overtraining?I do both BJJ and lift regularly and the two don’t mix. My friends at the gym won’t do BJJ and my BJJ friends mostly think it’s silly to train regularly besides like 1 rep max Anyways I train at the gym in the morning before work, and train BJJ when I get off. It works for me. Can’t say I do both every day, 5 days a week as I do get off days typically two or three days where I do nothing but I make the most of em by eating and sleeping. Do what works for you. The main thing is just to socialize … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 10 | Never feel like I have anything to sayDon’t try to fix anything. That’s just going to create another symptom. And it never ends. Just Keep doing what you’re doing. Make yourself happy. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Just giving this community an excellent book recommendation to start the year rightI’ve been doing it for years and I know I can do it for you. !!!!! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Allow me to understand my fallacyYes i work with over 4500 peopple on site. LMAO. SO my situation is really safe compared to others working with small groups. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Allow me to understand my fallacyI said this to my boss recently as I was speaking metaphorically he said I’m allowed one shot with a girl and if she’s not interested I have to back off.... | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 08:19 AM |
| 1 | People with experience. What countries are easy to get laid in as a tall white person?Literally anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | From 'meh' to 'yes!!' in female mind.Hahahaha | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | From 'meh' to 'yes!!' in female mind.Ahh, this can be summed up in our culture as such... Her not saying anything or no is consent. I’m not saying it’s wrong. But it does leave the door open for her to say yes ! | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 08:16 AM |
| 7 | For men who work 9 to 5 jobs, what do you do in the evenings after work?BJJ and like the top post said, contemplate ways to get out. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 08:03 AM |
| 7 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)Spoken with experience. Men who bust on each other are way better off than guys who see each other every day but dont communicate. Theres a certain "energY" men take away from each other, especially when chasing a mutal, common interest such as money or working out in the gym. There simply seems to be a joining with the infinite. I wont go off track too much needless to say there is value in being around valuable men. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | You meet a girl on tinder and she’s fatter in person. You’re horny tonight, do you go through with it anyway?Ive slept with a few women i wasn't atrracted too. Its just part of the game, you dont have to marry them. But the whole dance is just good practice. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 01:09 PM |
| -2 | FR: Confrontations with othersIve had this happen on two seperate occasions that i can recall. While i was at the groscery store about two weeks ago, a man walked by my car while i was loading my stuff. He said "thats not a parking spot" and i flipped him off. i dont know why i did it, i was alone. But i thought wtf? He set his stuff done in the car walked back to me and started going awol.. " You FLIPPED ME off?" i knew if he got hot i was going to have to fight, so i extended my reach to tell him to stop right there and go… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | What is your daily routine?Wake up, Coffee made? If not make some Pee Wash face and brush teeth Contemplate if I’m feeling ok to go to the gym Work my day and errands around eating enough calories so I’m not losing muscle mass. Check phone for prior scheduled events. See how my hoes are doing on social media or whatever. Keep it moving | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | What is a very important skill a person should learn in order to be successful in the world today?Talking to strangers | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Can’t stop the angerAnyone who has their boundaries crossed repeatedly would feel that way. I’m sick of people at work not showing me respect, especially women. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 07:54 AM |
| 4 | DGAF attitude towards girls you don't wanna fuck but the opposite towards the ones you're attracted to?abundance mentality. Realizing that each women isn’t special but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t respectfully engage with them. Sleep with them. Or get to know these creatures. Theres much more to women than vagina and titties but you won’t hear much about that here | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Initiating contact after 2 datesDude... are you still wondering if she likes you? As a man it’s your job to go forth and conquer. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Don't worry , there is nothing between usHahahahah | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Advice to help with posture and slouching tendencies?It happens naturally as you are inclined to break. Some men are so stiff they don’t bend! All I’m saying is if want a straight and wide posture like the anatomical correct version, you’re going to want to shrug your shoulders and let come down but don’t retract your shoulder blades. It should feel like a slight pinch on your rear delts and lower traps around the shoulders. This is what holds them back and when it feels stable just let it go. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Most girls on Tinder only use it to boost their insta followers right ?This right here, lots of good comms within the app but anytime I schedule a meeting I get ghosted. Facebook however has never let me down. Don’t be afraid to use that match maker! | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being intimidated when hanging out with higher value groupsNothing. Guys use money to their advantage as women grade us, not in our self worth but within the boundaries of our success. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for a young man who isn’t feeling good mentally / not happy?Yes do it in a journal and not on your bio in Facebook and Twitter like I did for weeks and everyone thought I was crazy. Be normal and do what everybody else is doing | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell when it's okay to go for the kiss?I’ve gotten the cheek, once. It was awkward. But it was a girl I had only known for a few days and I was trying to be alpha while not knowing her boyfriend was in ear shot and I’m lucky he didn’t see it. Good times | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Do y’all send good morning textsNo one does that. Not one successful man has ever encouraged guys to send these messages. Read the moment, as always. Does it call for this? If not work on developing a love language instead of doing what doesn’t work. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you prevent friends from mogging you?On the flip side I think guys can naturally bond by nagging each other, especially for their looks. Guys at my gym might say something completely offensive but because of the mutual give and take its called pleasantries. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:50 AM |
| -2 | How do you respond to a girl roasting her ex boyfriend?She broke up with him so what does that tell you? I believe she only broke up with him when I came in her life to branch swing. I could be putting a little too much on but she’s been trying to get out of that guys life for a while. It’s not like with us guys we can drop a girl for another. She’s a good girl. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do most people avoid taking action?I feel this. Sheep follow the sheep herder and these guys are our coaches, bosses and team leaders. Women follow, men lead. But more than this all the worlds a stage. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:20 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to a girl roasting her ex boyfriend?Nah.. I agree with her. We’ve been pretty close to having a baby where she will ask me where did I cum like if I did cum inside of her it’s just anecdotal | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:18 AM |
| 0 | The higher HER smv, the more shit tests YOU can expect.While this sounds like a cute story. It doesn’t do anything to motivate guys. You sat at a table did nothing but judge women for being friendly. It’s like telling someone’s dog who came to the table for scraps that it’s worthless, or whatever. Some of the most interesting men I know would be up and dancing with them because fuck it- I’m a positive guy and I’m having fun on my own terms. Not trying to prove to yourself you can take the fun out of a situation because someone wanted you to get up a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 05:58 AM |
| 6 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?Social anxiety won’t kill you and neither will what people think of you. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a girl roasting her ex boyfriend?I asked her if she wanted to have babies as she had a good sense of humor. She said Hell no she barely can take care of herself but she likes that part of herself | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:46 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to a girl roasting her ex boyfriend?It’s true I’m just not sure what I’m doing anymore. I literally don’t give a fuck | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | I was getting along with a girl, made a joke about her doing my laundry and she leftGo fuck yourself | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I was getting along with a girl, made a joke about her doing my laundry and she leftYep | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 3 | How do I improve this mindset?It’s just a daily practice. By not letting things get swept under the rug. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:24 AM |
| 2 | How to game a HB8+like a 6.And the more loads you dump in her mouth the better. Also don’t be such a pussy you can’t talk to guys who have fucked her before, they might know something you don’t | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:23 AM |
| 1 | I was getting along with a girl, made a joke about her doing my laundry and she leftMeh. It wasn’t shitting but if I deny I was shitting where I ate I lose all credibility. My point is this girl has been begging me for attention. When I finally gave it to her she seemed like you said, appalled. How dare I say that to a girl? It was clearly sexist and I wish I could apologize but that would take things too far. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:19 AM |
| 1 | I was getting along with a girl, made a joke about her doing my laundry and she leftWell, she was sending me lots of IOIs like hanging on my arm and shit. Making dirty comments. If she can’t take it why does she dish it out.? Anyways thanks man. It’s a load off to hear someone say that. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Field Report:Reminds me when I would go out and see dudes busting on their girls for not shaving when in reality she’s an 8 or 9 and one of the hottest girls. He would tell me don’t tell anyone but I fucked her in the ass. I always thought I was passed the point of talking about girls like that | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | How do i go about being Flirty?That’s the game in a nutshell. Act like a clown while simultaneously recognizing game in other women. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Strange texting behaviour, I don't get itGirls usually go recluse, when they wanna be taken. It’s not our job to be there to tell you when this happens. Read the moment. I find girls to be rarely initiating anything when they want you to fuck them. That’s the vibe. Lol | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 08:07 AM |
| 3 | How do you act like everything is normal after soft next period?It’s what Dr Glover used to describe Nice guys. It’s an acronym, right? Defend. Excuse. Explain. Rationalize. “A DEER in the headlights look” The opposite side of the spectrum is DARE which is not found in the book but is brought up here. D stands for something A stands for agree and amplify R stands for something E stands for exit If there was ever a single post in the red pill to take with you in your back pocket this was it. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Acceptable to break things off over text/callThe last girl I called over the phone to break up was crying giving me any excuse she could to see me and change my mind. The last girl I texted I was breaking up with said who gave me the audacity to waste her time in the first place. How dare I. I’m not making any of this up. Girls will create stories during the good, bad and the ugly. Be respectful of that if you even know what I’m talking about | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Is game (in a way) bullshit? - SERIOUSGame is essential but it’s still part of the Game. Whatever you call that. The world. Religious leaders would call it Christianity. The president would call it politics. In the dating world it’s called Game, right? It’s merely what you use to avoid anxiety. If you’re not taking action. If you’re not challenging yourself, approaching women, talking to them and actively pursuing a relationship you can be sure you are in the game, in the matrix or whatever and you have forgot its a game. But if you… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with days where it’s just failure after failure?I didn’t have to look at the most upvoted to tell you it’s rest days. No theory. No reading. No anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you act like everything is normal after soft next period?Read: No More Mr Nice Guy I dint know if it’s in the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Disagreeableness and absent fathers. Correlation?It means her mom coached her to say and do certain things. To date certain guys, etc. but since there is no father to set a limit to this behavior she has only “ women’s intuition” to choose for herself | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:18 AM |
| 2 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?Ah, the grass is always greener approach. Don’t worry. Any women worth having won’t initiate and you can believe she isn’t initiating with any other guy. You gotta take the good with the bad and the ugly. Sorry bud. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm the nice guy. Where did I fuck up?The answer here is two fold. Don’t talk to her about her ex more than once when it naturally occurs to her that you might replace him and then don’t compare yourself to anyone. It’s pointless. It’s a rabbit hole that goes nowhere, fast. Maybe she thinks if you find her available it will be easier for you to invite her in your life. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | A girl from the gym added me on Facebook, here’s what she saidSure | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 06:21 AM |
| -34 | A girl from the gym added me on Facebook, here’s what she saidBut the weekends are when everyone has date nights. That’s like sending a girl flowers isn’t it? I was thinking of asking her for dinner at a later time. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I notice I’ve had these irrational fears about talking to womenI mean that’s basically what this girl said minus the part about later in the week. I see her five days a week at the gym. Lmao so I don’t think we talk like that anymore. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 05:32 AM |
| 3 | A girl from the gym added me on Facebook, here’s what she saidAllow me to add something. She first added we should go out to eat and mentioned some Chinese food to which I said ok but not this specific place and the conversation naturally took another direction. That’s why I’m here. I don’t know how bad I fucked up not closing in a date then and there | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | I notice I’ve had these irrational fears about talking to womenOk. I asked a girl out to lunch. Her exact words “Sorry, OfficerWade. I’m a teacher and have to have lunch at school” I didn’t say anything. But I felt like she left the door open. I was thinking about trying her for dinner after leaving on “read” for a few days? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How does an introvert find abundance?It sounds like you’re reading too much theory. If interacting with a women is suppose to be the destination you won’t really act on her when that moment happens. Imagine if you were good with women, social interactions but imagine that someone else is out there doing exactly what you want to be doing and you’re the observer. If you get to analyzing the “if, ands or buts” just remind yourself that you’re not observing the confident, sexy guy anymore because you think you are that guy. Trust me. I… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | For the ones who had a porn addiction: How long did it take to rewire your brain and finally enjoy sex?It’s one of those things you have to stop cold turkey. The grass is greener | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I went on a date with my friends cousin. It went pretty well all things considered.Please allow me to continue. As the Wolves in this thread have come out and said im barking up the wrong tree. I came to the gym that day with having a prior conversation where my buddy and mentor asked if I had any hairy clam lately. Enter his cousin. I mean, when life reaches out at a moment like this it would be a sin if I didn't reach back. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being the workplace bitch?"B e all that you can, in the army" oh , please Its just a ploy to get vulnerable men with no direction. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Not talking enoughHey, I’ve done this. DEER Defend Excuse Explain Rationalize The opposite side is DARE D Agree and amplify R Exit The last conversation I hade with a women I wasn’t enjoyjng( among some mutual friends) I simply left the room. They were boasting about a concert and I felt no connection. When I walked into the next room, the girl I thought I was pursuing followed me and kissed me on the cheek. Crazy how girls chase you if you just have some integrity and self respect. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Is she interested?I could write a trilogy about women looking at me and how I interpret the signal. It could mean anything or nothing. She will write the story and say it what this that or some other thing when it’s all said and done. Don’t wait! When a women gives you indicators of interest by all means approach her! Take out your phone and say gimme your number girl you look fine as a summer day. :-) | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How to find buddies to go out withPretty much this, it’s precisely how you interact with women you are attracted too. By showing them you’re a high value man who is taking care of himself and willing to help others. Sometimes women need THAT kinda friendship with a guy. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Girls trying to scare me after sex?Don’t pretend to understand what women are talking about. They speak a different language. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Girl I cold approached, been texting, and had an amazing day 2 with still want to see me but she just got engaged.Ok, break it up you two. Here’s the rub. You don’t text to keep attraction, that’s scarcity mentality. I know you’re not exactly swimming in pussy and if you let her get away it could be a direct hit to your ego. Self preservation and all that. All you have to do is setup a meeting, and when y’all agree to a time and place stop talking to her. P.s. rather or not guys here will admit it. You have to play by the rules. She might not be available. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | What books can you recommend?The only two you need as far as this community is concerned are No More mr nice guy. And dating essentials for men. Both written by dr Robert Glover and ive read and re-read all those PUA books. I got nothing back. It takes hard work. You won’t get anything out of those books sitting at home reading them, studying the metaphysics that’s makeup the tapestry. Get out of the house and start testing women for interest. If begin to notice the open doors, (available women, looking for you) walk throug… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are Guys Nervous about Approaching Girls ? (How to Overcome?)getting rejected by women doesn’t scare me anymore. I’m not saying I figured out a secret code nobody knows it just took practice. I eventually feel that a women who won’t date you or have sex with you is just not interested. Don’t complicate these details. However, I would hardly be a wise teacher if I said i wasn’t anxious around attractive women. They know this and I know this. The line I use is “feel the fear and do it anyway” it’s actually the title of a great book. Just last night I was mi… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Girls dying their hair blue/ purple?Her friend tagged in the photo also has neon colored hair. She’s one of those really fit yoga moms so I was gonna give her a shout out to come dinner one of these nights but I’m second guessing myself seeing her social media account. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?The only role models we have are those who display the lifestyle we crave, a mans man doesn’t stick around on reddit after hours telling young men how to dress. He shows them. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Are girls who have more guy friends than girl friends more insecure?Trash girls with nothing to offer but scarcity | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 10:26 AM |
| 1 | AssIdk. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Approaching after IOI / Making eye contact?I always pull my phone out like I’m showing her a magic trick where I smile and look At her and if she doesn’t know what to do at this point I will say in friendly tone just gimme your number so we can talk later. Not so much because I need to have her number but it’s a good sign of interest. If she gives you her number it typically means something special happened between y’all and it can continue to escalate say with a kiss on the cheek. I’ve actually had a girl tell me so I was hoping you wou… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Approaching after IOI / Making eye contact?By that are you saying you have no interest except to talk to the girl or just have sexual romance? Because this “outcome” will be cause for your actions. Once decide what you want you can’t be wishy-washy. Women can’t follow where you don’t lead. So test her. Test her to see if she follows your lead and see where it goes. Don’t be hung up on a single women. Test all the women. Be normal. And do what everybody else is doing. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 08:35 AM |
| 1 | You guys ever hit a girl in a car?What the even fuck is this ? You know we ain’t gonna be there when this happens. Do your thing | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you shit test a woman to see if they are a ’good girl’ worth LTR?what Even? I don’t test women like this, it just happens. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Approaching after IOI / Making eye contact?I tell this story a lot of my friends. While at the bar a women working the register was on the other side. I know you’re anxiety is probably going into “on” vs off mode but I proceed to say hi and remind myself that even if she rejects me or says no to a date I get to walk out of here a free man. The funny thing is it’s a really embarrassing story I hear from other people who were there. The women who worked there with her who has seen me there before said it was really cute when I asked her ou… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Embarrased orbiterGood question. And I won’t be the first person to answer this as you will see most of these questions are all the same. When the voice in this case, your chatterbox, shitty committee or whatever that part of your psyche is telling you just talk back and say things like yeah I might have made some mistakes but I’m perfectly imperfect. Moreover don’t let a single rejection speak for all of women. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Always DARE, becoming quickerExcellent. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m getting my frame tested?This. In my consciousness of the situation it seems I lost my mojo and she knew that I knew... you can imagine how it felt when I gave her a ride home. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | How bad is smoking twice/ thrice a day if you are going to the gym?I’ve gone to the gym last week, during the afternoon after getting a joint that morning. It felt great to be honest. I hold a full time job and didn’t feel myself losing control mentally or physically. Probably not a long term habit I want to pick up but it was fun | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Found the RedPill 2 years ago, in cold approaching I'm a beast however when it comes to talking to girls online I just cant hack texting, usually leave me on read. How to get better?Don’t be needy. That kinda validation comes after you’re successful. Work on being yourself, whatever that means to you and start doing the things that will make you happy. Then when a women doesn’t seem to comply with your effort, which I’m sure doesn’t happen too often, you won’t be left a cripple, emotional mess. I’m sorry if that’s not the answer you wanted hear. Keep doing what you’re doing | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Books to get past victim mentalityDon’t take yourself so seriously. And don’t believe everything you read online, that doesn’t make it true just because you think you can fix this. The world was made so there wouldn’t be meaningful change. But the mind can change. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Recurring oneitis. Why and how to resolve?I’ve been there man. When I catch myself having those thought I have to remind myself where they take me and steer the bus somewhere else. I’m talking from experience. Don’t let children drive the bus with the fairy tale ending we were all promised. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you give up on the need for external validation?Ok so that’s helpful. You know that there’s a passion in you it’s just not in your current job and if you remind yourself of that Which contrasts with the joy you felt at a previous place it could change | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Need some help ASAPHonestly just say bye. Don’t waste two breathes on explaining to her why that’s not on your agenda. She might eventually come back | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:30 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on weighing 160lbs at 6’2”?I’ve been there dude. Focus on your diet. Eating and getting your body accustomed to the amount regular food intake your body needs is going to take some adjustment. But as always LIFT It took my eating, and lifting about 18 months to go from 160 to 195 and I feel full. But i fell in love with the lifestyle and I’ll probably see myself going up to 205 next year to be just full fat | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl has BF and clearly wants it, do I pursue?No-balls | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | What are some small activities if done regularly that help in building confidence ?Getting Pussy - just like having credit history helps your credit history. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:19 AM |
| 2 | I have her number and shes expecting me to text her, how do I open?Hol up | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | About to go clubbing with these 2 chicks..This. And assume the lay | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | best success u had with dating app bios?I would say something like I’m talking to a lot of chicks on this website but I think your next | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Tinder shit testTone it down a notch ... lead her on | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Too mean?I always like to call to confirm our appointments after texting before the appointment. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | LTR found book on depression in my room. Is this bad?Friend zoned | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:10 AM |
| 1 | instagram pussy?I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or jealous | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Do I attempt to make plans again?Crash and burn lmao why even? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Tips to keep a convo going with fellow dudes?Be yourself.... I know that’s not the answer you wanna hear. So I’m going to say just see them as a friend and act like a friend and fake it. Eventually you will have some rapport and the car will be rolling | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Best way to handle her shit test?Also I’m in the same situation with a girl I would really like some advice on this subject. I’ve been gaming her for few weeks and I’ve gone no contact the last two because our last conversation ended with I don’t act like I miss her. So I figured I could act like I miss her but I don’t know how much? I thought I would ask her out to dinner and got no reply so I’m really confused on this subject | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Best way to handle her shit test?You might be screwing the pooch by decreasing contact, man. I think some of the advice in this sub is really bipolar. Chase, don’t chase, blah blah. I would say she wants you to chase her because it fits into her gender role. She wants to be feminine. You must take the lead. You must be a man. Just do it | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Best way to handle her shit test?Example? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 08:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you reply to Instagram story reactions?You give women way to much credit to know more about dating than any of us guys. Right off the bat I sense that you believe this. Women are security seeking creatures. You don’t have to sink their battleships on the first turn, you know? Be playful | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you give up on the need for external validation?So I like to call this perfecting your practice. You get good at something by taking a couple whacks, bumps or bruises and somewhere along the way you get to an intuitive sense of how the process works where you only need to consult a roadmap once every blue moon. Needless to say there’s nothing wrong with asking for help. Getting external validation. Just don’t lie to yourself and say it’s not serious business. Adult life’s are very serious business. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 08:48 AM |
| 2 | One of my better plates admitted to cheating on her exK. Thx. Bye | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 08:44 AM |
| 7 | Why do I get way more emotional about females disrespecting me at work than menI’m in the same situation. One time I threatened her with disciplinary actions and she was almost immediately called HR when I walked out of the room. And they grilled my ass on poor conduct because she was so distraught. A couple weeks later other employees were beginning to complain about her, karma is a bitch and I sent her home. I was then given the green light by my boss that It was the right thing to do because he said at that point he was ready to do something drastic. So keep it real. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Girl I’m trying to plate says I’m similar to her boyfriend... what is she implying?It seems like you already know the answer. Branch swing is in your future. Don’t settle down with her as she might just dancing on a pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 5 | I'm Not Ready for a Relationship TestThis is just good texting advice in general | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?Why do you think wedding rings are a perfect circle? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 06:25 AM |
| 2 | In your experience how often do women like being humiliated during sex(whore, bitch, slut etc)?Literally ever girl I’ve had sex with has said harder, it’s ok you won’t hurt me in some form or another. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Self Inviting myself out in a group. Is this bad/needy/weak?You need to look at the source and not the sysptoms. You need to get your needs met so going out with people sounds good in theory but maybe you need some alone time, ya know? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How many of your lays would you attribute to your Height ?They talk about height like it’s doing the work for me but I assure it’s just topical. I’m 6’3 and I never feel like any fuck was just given to me, I’m actively encouraging it with women. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad to reject a girl if you want to have herAgreed. Less is more with women. In other words save that wish washy talk with your guy friends. Women want consistency | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | is “i fw all races” useful in tinder bio?That’s like saying I work hard and have a heart beat. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Plate I've been spending more time with recently is getting to comfortable jokingly calling me a bitch.There’s no disrespect. If I saw you on the street with her and called you a bitch, yes that’s disrespecting your women but not you. Get it? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Gf rages out on things of the past and acts all drama queen while everything is fine all this long.Jesus if I’m just reading the title she’s bipolar, run like hell | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Living RP successfully but still a loser in my headInteresting comment, it seems like you (OP) are ashamed of your own sexual drive, your sexual nature and need to be sexual with women. I would say if she’s not a good catch don’t try to turn her into a wife but that’s hardly the advice you were looking for. Sorry. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How to stop getting into arguments?Realize anger is just a misdirected source of energy | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Holy fuck TRP got me laidPro tip: especially for young guys just starting out trying to figure what guys mean when they say have you read the sidebar, blah. This stuff does work if you work it. You don’t have to know WHY it works or analyze every thing a girl does just keep a mental picture of what you’re doing and if something goes “Wrong” remember what you were doing is just practice.... | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Am I bitch for choosing calisthenics over weights?Hmm are you just making an excuse to get us to agree with you- so you won’t feel guilty? That’s a shame | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to hate to live with a woman 24/24 in the same appartment ?Live separate life’s. But you don’t have to leave the relationship. Just do your thang | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | How does a man keep/find backup options while in a relationship?I would add to this something here I read that frequently retort. When guys get in relationships they sometimes stop doing what made their partner attracted to them. They might stop using the GYM, working farther away from home to “support them” and just being co-dependent. Don’t stop doing what you’re doing just because you get in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I Bring someone on a date to a location that I’ve never been to?Yes, it brings commonality. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | What do you do with girls other than have sex.This guy sex | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you do with girls other than have sex.Well, since I joined jui jitsu I naturally watch a lot of UFC and Houston has a show coming up. I was thinking of bringing a date with me by telling her to come with me. I never plan on asking a girl out, I think that gives a women(not any in particular) the power to choose. I’m simply going to tell her I got ya ticket to see Derrick Lewis in February. And that’s all you do. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Relationship is good but she rarely initiates, thinking of ending it but need adviceagreed, dont leave your relationship because its not spiritual, romantic, or sexual enough. Dont do all the little things people do. Its certainly not what you want others doing to you but whats the point? Just watch yourself interacting with people. Eventually you will notice when you're upset its just a tiny problem. Not the big one you're experiencing now. Emotions are just ENERGY IN MOTION. Have you tried lifting? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 02:07 AM |
| 5 | What do you do with girls other than have sex.Thats really between you and the other person, her nature and the chemistry... i mean if you dont feel like doing anything with her, dont do anything with her. Keep it THAT simple. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I noticed that talking to myself is my biggest problemI wouldn’t go to therapy but talking to other people about problems is simply the best course of action. Talking to yourself anymore than getting directions or reminding yourself that your off course is seen as kinda insane. So don’t hold believe everything your mind tells you. More often then not it’s telling you lies. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Friend sliding into plate’s DMsI would drop both of these like it’s hot. My brother once dated and had sex with girl I had a one night stand with and it made me cringe every time I seen either of them. Obviously the code is bro’s before hoes so if he can’t respect this one simple rule is he really your friend? Also your plate isn’t a plate anymore. She’s bread crumbs under the table. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:43 AM |
| -1 | How to respond to bad genes shit-testShe’s saying she doesn’t want to procreate with you. It’s literally the worst thing she could say after millions of years of evolution. Excommunicate her from the church. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Is references to a boyfriend always an indicator of disinterest? How do you tell the difference?I think you really know what’s going on here. But if you actually were told the truth it might harm you or the relationship. If I were you I would be discreet. Test the waters. (Escalate) and keep doing what you’re doing , sonny boy. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Told plate to come at a certain timeShe’s shit testing you. Watch yourself react. I see a lot of guys here playing the smallest violin and going nuclear. If you see yourself inviting her over and she’s like “fuck yes” with her attitude but is “late” just take it with her character. Don’t do anything else. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 10 | If a girl agrees to come over is it a slam dunk everytime?Assume the sale. Always. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:41 AM |
| 5 | What’s your interesting hobby?Jui Jitsu Attending art camps(they happen all the time, everywhere) Making good coffee | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:40 AM |
| 17 | Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?Be careful what you wish for, young man | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 09:47 AM |
| 2 | How to meet one girl to have sex with? Without getting STDs?Ask if she has any STDS so she knows your insecure then fuck her in the but hole to let her know how afraid you are of pussy because you are one | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you eat enough?I eat whenever I’m hungry which is every three to four hours. If you’re on a mission I would eat more than that, two to three hours. The trick is to eat more calories than your burning | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are shit testing me- or just being a bitch. I can’t tell.its cracking my frame by what degree? I've shown a girl I was interested to have the chance to be with me. Im a good looking guy, intelligent even but the basic fundamentals of Game go over my head. Is that what you're saying? Im just trying new things. to see what works, albeit the hard way. trial by fire. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Plate is Pregnant - Need AdviceRun like hell. Don’t sign any papers and stop all communication. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | I Don't Know What To Make of This. Some Beta Male Shitbecause to a insane person the truth could literally kill them. Sometimes the most loving thing you could do is allow them to make lifes worst mistakes. Im not talking about watching two people fist fight on thanksgiving. Its just relationship advice is so subjective. Most of us want to learn these lessons otherwise we wouldn't be in relationships, dating, or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why is there no daily ask thread for minor questions unworthy of own posts?Which is kinda why we have a small sub. If their not busy reading the sidebar they're either asking dumb questions or being redirected the side bar. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry herDude if she fits in your life, when you were nothing with nobody it would be a sin if you didn’t reach out to her with your job and career. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you ask a girl out, whom my friend and roommate orbited to?I wouldn't. Its going to make anxiety for everybody. If you gotta fuck her once, but dont go on "dates" | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Girls have it easy? Since when does ANYONE have it easy. Look, man. A women who is virtuous is virtuous. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How many hours a week do you work?12hrs 4-6 days a week depending on much I want. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Where can I set a date if we both live far away?Haha, love it. Straight to the sex! | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you recommend texting to verify meeting up?You can text her this. It opens the door for her but don’t try and convince her to come. And you can even text her when you’re at a place saying you made it safely. It just opens the door, do not try and convince her of anything. Ever. Lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Are these signals shes interested?I’m hoping you come back with a field report | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Girls love it when they sense that a guy doesn't need to fuck them, and that its not his main objective and that he can fuck whoever he wants. How do you give off that vibe?You don't think you can fuck other girls. You *KNOW* you can fuck other girls. How do I know this? I tried the worst pick up lines imaginable. I let other people walk over me. I got cheated on. I allowed myself to make mistakes until I could fuck other girls. Girls who have been blunt with me have said, they just wanna know if ill have sex with them tonight. In order to get this icing on your great cake of a life you need to do just a few things such as talking to people everywhere you go. Clean… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to always initiate?A women can’t go where a man doesn’t lead.... | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 06:03 PM |
| 0 | I wanna talk to a girl at the pet store without everyone knowing I’m hitting on her. LolI know, I’m just horny. I haven’t been masturbating for like two weeks and I’m about to rape a hoe. But seriously I’m interested in getting to know her first. Fuck this is anxiety mixed with hormones. I wish I didn’t feel so lost. I have no problem talking to women who I would never take home or sleep with but if the right girl comes along it’s like I’m going crazy. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:04 PM |
| 4 | It would never happen to me. She's special. And I'm wrong.Chad thunder cock is a fantasy. It’s a man being in the right place, right time. Square peg- square hole Go drink some beer with your buddies this weekend. Hit the gym. And work on a strategy that will get you on your feet, again. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What excuse to leave after sex?I gotta go- If she asks why Say I don’t know baby I’ll call you later | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I have found abundance but now I have no motivation to get girls.No fat pussy | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do I subtly constantly reject women I interact with?I’ve always been able to do this with women, naturally. Of course I was always anxious and thought it was just me but it isn’t!!! Everyone feels anxiety when they are alive and challenging themselves. It’s a positive vibe ! | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 03:12 PM |
| 2 | If frame is so important then why do I succeedKeep doing what you’re doing man. I’m out here trying to go for a special chick at my gym and she’s being reciprocal. I don’t wanna fuck it up by getting rejected and I’ve gotten stuck. I need to just ask her out. And get it over with but I’m too much in my head about how I ask her out and I end up doing nothing. Advice ? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | "I need to talk to you about something" What's the name of this tactic?It’s true. They pour the shame over our heads. If they ever ask you a question like this just say “ I don’t think I wanna be shamed by you today if that’s alright” and women are very familiar with the tactics they use and she will say with dumbfounded attitude “I would never shame you, dear” No of course not. The good news is the warriors in you are awakened, alive and well. It would do good to listen to them. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:18 AM |
| 12 | Why do I subtly constantly reject women I interact with?I mean self preservation right? That’s just anxiety. If you approach a women high on anxiety just to see what happens, do it. But don’t lie to yourself and think you have to wait for the fear to go away. Everyone feels fear when they have to challenge themselves, sometimes. I learned that from “feel the fear and do it anyway” by Susan Jeffers | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | If frame is so important then why do I succeedI think you played the game to your own best interests, by going for a familiar approach with what works. Social media is a great tool, if not the best tool guys could use to meet women but this community is full of bald headed, bitter, neck beards who don’t wanna see you succeed because they can’t themselves. I for one, at least am proud guys like you out there come here to share because we fucking need it. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Should I go completely beaver-free during monk mode?Then the work comes in. Keep talking to women but without outcome dependence. If you see yourself getting upset about a single women then you know you lost the Game, if you will. Let her go. Keep moving. Talk to everyone you meet. But don’t stop doing what you’re doing. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | I have a full head of hair, and just had my first few days of hair loss. Advice?It’s normal. Most men have a receding hairline but it doesn’t mean you’re going bald!! I went to a specialist and he literally smiled and said there’s nothing wrong. And I’ve seen some people lose their hair from stress alone, in a couple months it grows right back. My advice? LIFT | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 10:35 AM |
| 2 | How to pick up on women’s subtle communication?Agreed. When a girl reaches out to you like this it would be a sin to not reach back. You will be saying she got away.... | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl coming over to do yogaWeird flex but ok. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 10:31 AM |
| 1 | The women in my office found my TRP-inspired private journal ramblings. How do I recover my dignity?Lol my mom found out about mine too. She asked, why did you leave this “woe is me” story out where I could find it? I told her I was trying some online writing prompt and I threw it away... Everyone said keeping a journal would be good. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Do you ever wear tight pants to flex on women?All these downvoted but at least you have confidence and you can’t teach that. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever wear tight pants to flex on women?Flexing on women won’t get you laid but if boosts your sense of self, confidence and MOJO then it all for it!! But don’t expect a new car, a new house, or new booty to be that one special trick everyone is selling. Do you, | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Newbie here - How many cold approaches should i be doing a day and for how many days in order to become confident/skilled with cold approaching?Whatever it takes for you. For some guys they need o my approach one women for some of us we need constant validation. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t you just “be yourself” instead of trying to learn “game” to pickup women?Exactly, yeah. We have to be surrounding ourselves with people who are going through changes so we can help each other along the way. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | When do shit tests start?If she doesn’t shit test you, don’t worry it means you’re skipping ahead and she has allowed it to happen. If she tests you it means slow down and try again. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What happened when you first got cheated on?Nothing. I said ok can we still fuck? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I Slide into DmsTell her it’s just a cat call and you’re testing her interest. Anything overt like this gets your straight to rejection as fast as possible. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Started spending less and less time with my girlfriend.Anything you can do with guys, besides going to work is the best thing you can do for your women, un-ironically . | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Started spending less and less time with my girlfriend.I think it’s called boundaries | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | The best advice was to let her go and see if she came back, well here we arePosting lies? That’s a serious accusation. Why don’t you offer some explanation and I’ll tell you what I mean. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 01:00 PM |
| 2 | "I can do better than you but hey ho" response?;-) | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Simple, healthy, and fairly cheap meals to make?Breakfast- egg whites, Ezekiel bread and turkey bacon with coffee. This might cost $2 total for the meal. It takes 15 minutes to make and it’s actually prettt good | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | If an interaction is boring is it your fault?Yee yee. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women love rich guys?Women are security seeking creatures. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How much truth is there in a silver lining?Genius | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 01:00 AM |
| 6 | What is a step-by-step guide to cold approach that is actually good?Everything you need to know has been given you. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 12:45 AM |
| 5 | What is a step-by-step guide to cold approach that is actually good?Literally it’s just a conversation though, like the one you had with yourself before you posted thus geeky post to get some technique you can use to blame others when it inevitably fails and you return here. Get out of the house. And talk to everyone you meet. Test for interest. And walk through open doors. It’s so easy, your ancestors did it. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Anyone have success with women doing gig work like Uber?Sounds creepy man, don’t | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you get out of your own head?OkAy, so you dont like your thoughts. But all you have to do is watch them. But don’t stop doing what you’re doing. If you think about a women, your mom, whomever just interact with them. If you notice that you’re upset by what’s going on take a step back, when you realize something is all wrong just say to yourself you’re doing that silly thing again and laugh or smile at your self. It’s when you take yourself seriously that you, pardon the pun, get into serious trouble. I’m not saying don’t ta… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I am turning 30 next month and have no mission in life. How did you find yours?Chop wood, carry water! “My daily activities are not unusual, I’m just naturally in harmony with them. Grasping nothing, discarding nothing. In every place there’s no hindrance, no conflict. My supernatural power and marvelous activity: Drawing water and chopping wood.” _zen master -this is in reference to people who ask what to do once enlightened, chop wood and carry water! | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Ok. I’m 53 divorced with 2 teenagers living at home. I am new to RP. I am seeing mostly posts from very young people. I am curious to know how many people on asktrp are close to my age and predicament?I’m 27- came here after the mother of my only child start d dating guys behind my back while working out of town. (Hint: families fall apart if you’re not there to hold it together) So I came here looking for one simple trick to make me remember who I was before locking it down in a 7 year relationship, the guy I was who was funny, humorous and had lots of guy friends. That wouldn’t turn down a drink with his buddies. That one single trick was what I was looking for and I found out there’s many … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What are your guys Diet/nutrition like?Fish and rice makes me feel best. My stomache just accepts these. I use chicken and beef but not a lot of chicken it kinda makes me feel unclean, I don’t know how to explain it. Egg whites and pancakes with all the dressings for breakfast. Trust me we could use the calories in the morning. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than everDon’t forget your roots. Call your mom. Invite that brother you hate to lunch. Tell your dad you appreciate him. Go listen to that band or song you obsessed about in high school. As always, lifting helps create space. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 08:04 AM |
| 4 | What are the little things that let you know your lens has changed?Tool tip for guys just opening their eyes: If you spot it, you got it. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with bully at work?The gist of the book is see things from another person ms point of view and as this is a catch all for any misunderstanding it’s about being kind. Don’t take yourself so seriously you never ask for help or worse you refuse to help others. Remember, people are only themselves because of other people giving them what they need. This is scarcity mindset at its finest, bitterness and anger will turn people away from you just as opening you’re heart will invite others in a holy relationship | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | I have been Falsely accused of Rape and kicked out of UniversityHmm. I’m not going to go in to the gory details and steal your post, needless to say I went through thus at my school. Girl tells parents, parents tell school, boy gets kicked out of school. It sucks. Make new friends.... | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 03:21 PM |
| 8 | Hung out with a girl, she ghosted me for a week and I deleted her on Snapchat. She just messaged me, was this the right way to respond?I think you handled it right. I think she might just be checking to see if you are still down. Girls do this are interested and will fuck. Think of these out of the blue messages as a proposition. She’s not saying no. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Hung out with a girl, she ghosted me for a week and I deleted her on Snapchat. She just messaged me, was this the right way to respond?Yeah but it worked | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 01:34 AM |
| 2 | IOI or Anxiety?M’lady | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Does any of you value martial arts more than lifting?I started lifting because the red pill for the last two years and found my way in a BJJ facility a month ago. It’s been the best thing to ever happen to me since I started working out. The men, the fighting, it’s everything You need | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 08:07 AM |
| 10 | She paid for everything on the first datefor reference it didn't stop your ancestors... | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | I keep hearing girls say I have a boyfriendOkay, Thanks. I setup plans to see her tomorrow for something slightly official that she agreed to. I didn’t get her number. I’m just taking a risk that she shows up anyways and I’ll make sure to get it if she doesn’t flake. Haha. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 08:45 AM |
| 1 | I keep hearing girls say I have a boyfriendI was trying to get to know this girl before asking her out. But I see your point. I’m just taking it slow | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 08:18 AM |
| 1 | I get out of the gym a new man, but lasts only a lil bitIt’s called an ego. Ever heard the phrase use it or lose it? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on letting an old plate know how much you enjoyed your time with her?Don’t.buy. Flowers. It doesn’t turn girls on or send them any signals about how you feel. They don’t say oh it’s flowers it must be my turn to fuck him tonight unless of course you’ve been seeing her for months and you both made a conscious decision to be reciprocal.if you enjoyed you’re time with her, tell her | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the stress of wanting to be successfulI tell myself no matter what happens, if I’m success or a failure it’s not the cause of my discomfort, that I’m not upset for the reason I think. Always in my back pocket. It’s my ace of spade. Because when you understand what this means, I mean you don’t need me to tell you nothing in the world works. So when you find yourself looking at the 1’s and 0’s trying to find your self worth, it’s not there. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m trying to setup a date, any guidance?Thx | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | What is your current "mission"?Make money, have kids, work on my craft as a home builder. Technology is always changing and bringing new fun and exciting ways to do this, such as Tesla solar roofs, double layered dry wall for noise isolation, actually hiring artist and not a blue collar painter to do the inside walls. I really love my son. I want more kids. The girl who I want to be with says she’s not interested and she’s usually busy with her thing. So, I’m just trying to consciously date women who are available so when I d… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:41 PM |
| -5 | How do u respond to a girl when she says you like another girl?You: what other girl? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:37 PM |
| 4 | What are the top ways to increase smvAsk women what your best attribute. They are best talent scouts and will tell you the truth. It’s your voice. Your tone. The way you smoke a cigarette. Blah blah blah, For us men it’s going to the gym and hanging out with guys, getting out of the house and talking to people everywhere you go. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | If a shit test is personally catered to you there’s no answer anyone can give but I have to find it inside myself. Why?The second part is a reference to Oneitus. Or falling in love with a sex object. Where we cannot be loved by women the way we need to love yourself | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 03:01 PM |
| -3 | How big a role does BF% play in SMV?He’s a pig. With a piggly wiggly sense of humor :) | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I feel like TRP is not like it used toExactly.Normal People aren’t posting as often | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | What about having passions is attractive?because if you make any women the object of your life, it tends to steer you away from anything that mde her attracted to you in the firs tplace | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Do women lose attraction on men who lose fights?I doubt it. I go to BJJ practice 3-5 days a week and i tapout almost every night to guys more skillful than me. Its humbling. Be humble and she wont resent you. If you lose your shit she wont be attracted to you being that guy. unless of course she is attracted to those guys but thats not the point. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl I haven't fucked yet invited me to her place to smoke with her roommateseh, i've been ther ebefore. Hanging out with "ez" chicks who dont do nothing iwth their life. They most likely aren't going to fuck you but they will give you a chance to relax and practice your game. Which is GOLD for guys like you who need to connect with girls without outcome dependence. I dont recommend you stay the night or get too stoned. Its not really good to be spending time with people you cant smash. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Denied?Did I say feelings? I mean outcome dependence | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Denied?You're acting way to cool to talk to her. If you got her number and are trying to get her back in the gym with you for a "its not a date-datE" you need to just own the fact that you might have some feelings for her. Shes know it too. Just be honest. Have no reservations. Have no outcome dependence. Be BOLD | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.As a fellow construction site worker this is so true. Every guy will hit on your girl. It goes back to not shitting where you eat. You HAVE to HAVE IDGAF attitude or else you lose your cool every day she goes back to work. Most guys i know who are married wont even bring their girlfriend to the gym for the exact same reason. Pro tip: talk to guys who are married. And get to know them. Its not all black and blue. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take for you guys to get over oneitis ?It depends if you want her to come back? If a girl is attractive who I only have been introduced to she could become my oneitus that day, week, or month. This is why it’s so important to be getting out of the house and talking to people everywhere you go. The worst thing you could do is wind up making one women your sexual object and giving up your masculinity. All the things that made her attracted to you in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Do women like it when you stand up for them?Its not that they dont like you standing up for them. Its HOW you see the situation you think, you think is the problem. Would you stand when a women enters or leaves the room? Yeah, no brainer. Would you stand when you're singing the national anthem? Yeah. But if its a confrontation you're looking for, dont expect a women to stick up for you. Unwanted advice and that kinda beta cuckholding only makes women think you're small. Ever seen that video of the short guy in the bakery getting hot about… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Girl from work, showing high interestFrankly I’ve done before, lots of times. Just before taking the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Girl teasingGirls will say anything to sleep with guys. They don’t care if it’s been months or hours since they last fucked. But when they say we ain’t doing it because my pussy is sore you better rise to the occasion. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | question for guys who cold approach a-lotStick to a routine that fits tour schedule. Get to know everybody on your route and always be widening your path or whatever. Take a different route. Talk to those people too and eventually when the women is attractive that seems to show you lots of interest you can invite her to join YOUR GREAT life as opposed to making her your life | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | question for guys who cold approach a-lotIm going to add to this even though i already commented. most of the women i talk to hav never rejected me. Its not until you start trying to get women to be something their not, that you want them to be your girlfriend or your mother that they show anger and you feel depressed and before you know it you're back in your childhood where mommy and daddy are the figures of God. Dont go there. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | question for guys who cold approach a-lotThats all you do. Feel the fear and do it anyway. You already did IT. Congrats. i like to say keep it simple. If you want a journal to track the Risks you took, do it each and every day. But dont get analytical of women about why the do things or what they mean when they say, blah blah blah. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:19 PM |
| 17 | How much does lifting improve SMV?your mood, your health, your hormone balance, your anxiety, your confidence, your LIFE | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Plate keeps mentioning how pretty her friends are, comfort test? How do I respond?She done it multiple times. Multiple people. She seems genuine. It’s just like, I get it. You and your friends are pretty why do you think I’m talking to you? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Shit Test - I'm very busy lately.She’s not yours, it’s just your turn | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test - I'm very busy lately.She’s not yours, it’s just your turn | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Do all girls follow the hierarchy?If the rules ain’t bent don’t bend them. They are frame for society. It doesn’t mean you can’t break an egg for omelet every once in a while | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What is it like being an attractive dude?It doesn't feel like anything at all. You just be yourself and women will notice you. They wont notice you if you're not you, does that make sense? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I never have the balls to go for the kiss and it's tearing me apartThat’s similar how I did it except that I went straight for open mouth makeout. You can imagine my mouth around her face. But after that it got much better | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:36 AM |
| 0 | I never have the balls to go for the kiss and it's tearing me apartI’ve been there bro. I would be thinking if it’s this hard maybe she’s not into me, blah blah blah. Just do it. When you have a spark to do your thing don’t think about it longer than three seconds. The worst case scenario she turns her cheek and says sorry or something to separate herself from the awkward rejection. But this has only happened to me once. Girls love to be touched, more so than you can imagine while you are scared | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Kiss CloseUhh. “Dear reader” I stopped reading soon as I saw that. You kiss girls with that mouth? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/19 11:07 AM |
| 3 | How do you realise your purpose and goals in life?Passion finds you | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Movies with examples of positive masculinity ?The Matrix trilogy | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests over textThis guy gets it, folks. Keep it simple. Don’t take what say seriously. Agreeing and amplifying is why I got a 19 year olds phone number yesterday. I’m still just 27 But I seen her alone in the food court. I sat close to her because I felt awkward sitting st the same table, trying to approach people sitting down is itself really uncomfortable. Anyways i said hello and she responded. After about five minutes she got up to leave and I stood up( gentlemen always stand with your women) I handed her … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | [Amog] How do you handle other men talking to your woman?You don’t do anything. Just watch yourself interact with people. With the people you work with and if you live with anyone. What matters is your perspective while you do it either one is going to be the ego who only sees black or white- all or nothing or the loving way that Jesus offered that reminds us there’s another way of looking. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:41 AM |
| 0 | What went wrong? How can I improve my texting game, and how can I show interest?I’m not laughing with you I’m laughing st you. I can’t believe how many guys actually think it’s better to be cold and distant from the women they want to be with. There’s a good chance you just haven’t spoken to her and gotten to know her if you’re still looking for techniques. Why do you think this girl in particular likes you? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Signs that a girl wants you to escalate?Girls don’t make the first move. You two aren’t playing chess and there are no winners. What you need to focus on is setting the tone. When a girl wants you to escalate is when you’ve set the tone for her to feel safe and secure with you. She doesn’t have to worry about strangers stealing her purse when you’re with her. Show her what a great man you are and see how it feels to naturally act on your sexually impulse or hers for that matter. Don’t worry about the signs. They don’t mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do female love cats and they've multiple?Science doesn’t have answers | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Long eye contacts, but she has a BFMy man. I came to this sub this morning because I’m in a similar situation. But it sounds like you have t spoken to her to build on the attraction and get her number. Do you ever feel like” the ease of Sunday morning” around her? Where it really feels there’s only two people in a room? In my low profile job site we have board meetings with investors. I naturally shy away from all the women there because most of them do have boyfriends and frankly I don’t care to tangle the wires at a job I don’t… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How to switch from aloof and quiet to outgoing and charismatic?Indeed confidence doesn’t come from our relationship or job but our collective life experience. In the words of Dr. Glover it’s saying I can handle it. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Getting mixed signals, what do I do?A girl saying we can’t fuck tho? Guys, how many times were they telling the truth? Rule of thumb is don’t believe anything a women says | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl came back months after F-closeThanks doc | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Well no shitFrame is a note in a symphony. It doesn’t mean anything. Unless you’re out of frame and girl do this by acting weird, which might tell you you need to take a step back | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/19 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Well no shitsigh //Upvote | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Where to take girl if you're living at homeTaking her home is fun and FREE. That is if you still live with parents just respectively tell them you’re dating and she will/ won’t be staying the night. It’s funny I brought my first girl home in tinder and around that evening I was like hey mom I’m bringing a girl home she’s like ok honey I’ll get an extra plate out for supper. Be sure to tell your dad. Blah. Blah. Rinse and repeat. I underestimated my parents by and by. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 06:18 PM |
| 7 | How should I respond to this girl that rejected me on POF?“Deep topics” aka my girlfriend with penis | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Freezing her out is effective. How can I maximize this strategy?As I sit here multitasking getting my dick sucked I can’t help but think your strategy isn’t a strategy at all. It’s just resistance. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | How long would it take me to get 170lb?I was 160 when I started 18 months ago. I’m about 185lbs-190 and if my nutrition was on point every day it would have happened a lot sooner. I’m pushing to get to 190 but these last five pounds of lean muscle are taking on slowly. Water weight will easily get me passed this but I’m trying to keep a six pack. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | "text me later" - failed frame setting up dateWeekend first dates suck but the stereotypical night out sounds so cliche. I would stick coffee dates to weekdays and save the weekend for yourself | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Game Theory and How Men Dress?Dress like the guys who are fucking the girls you want to fuck. Don’t decide to shop at the GAP by saying IDGAF. You know, fake it till you make it. But be honest with yourself. This will speed you along the path | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | How to non-chalantly display IDGAF via text, display mystery, and leave her wanting more with zero investment?If you feel you need to text her, you need to take a step back and look at hour investment in her. No more than 8-10 minutes just to breathe and say to yourself “all the worlds a stage and all the men and women are merely players” like shakespeares play. The point is you don’t take the people seriously. Their just actors and actresses and they all have their entrances and exits. Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:39 PM |
| 4 | I see this all the time, why do some successful, disciplined women get with bottom the barrel men, looks and habits alike?Ah, the blue pill guy they tell you not to worry about | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I see this all the time, why do some successful, disciplined women get with bottom the barrel men, looks and habits alike?I’ll go one step further. If you read no more mr nice guy and you say to yourself” holy fuck” or “oh, shit that’s me” you need to sign up for Dr. Glover’s dating essentials bundle. It gives you lots of goodies and a monthly coaching live video call where he will answer your questions. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Can I still be the nice person I am at heart while on TRP?A lack of passion will destroy a relationship rather you’re alpha or not. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:30 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do I stop overthinking?Well, there was only one thing on your mind. And it wasn’t her shoes | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | To what extent does “Don’t shit where you eat” apply?This. It’s always a risk to pursue a girl but if you stay back and act cool you won’t get laid. You sure as hell won’t be interesting to any girls on your radar. I’ve always talked about taking calculated risks. Much of what people do isn’t observed. They don’t get caught. You know what they say, you gotta know when to hold em and know when to fold em. But you gotta know the rules if you want women to play. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | This shit is so embarrassingI know why. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | This shit is so embarrassingWhat do you even say to that? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Should I cut family out my life?No don’t cut off your family | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | When I say no, i feel guiltyI just feel so unlovable around people like this and I begin to isolate | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Wrong text to girl?She has low interest in dating you. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do women lie about not liking a fit man?Men aren’t going straight either. Although we would like to say we only like women’s body’s, we workout and admire the work of other men. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I’ve asked a girl out and she said “lol, I’ll try”I said “just do it” | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | I’ve asked a girl out and she said “lol, I’ll try”Great. She’s a fat ass and I’m def. trying smash. I think she was trying to get me to go to the movies with her friends and I Matrix dodged those conversations because I know they lead straight to the friend zone. I was like I got a OLED TV at home just come and see it. That’s when I asked her for coffee and I got the reply. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.You can have as many plates as you need, if you get someone to replace her so, fine. It don’t matter. What matters is you are pursuing a replacement. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 05:16 PM |
| 2 | When a girl wants you to chase...Do you have social anxiety? Set up a date and or get rejected but get it over with | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.I have sexual relationships with women I’m not attracted too. It doesn’t mean I’m going to settle down and meet her family but who am I to judge girl for wanting to give me a blow job? Don’t make this stuff your life by trying to do what everybody else wants you to do. Just be normal. If you find yourself alone with a girl just fucking get it over with. If a women chooses you who are you to judge? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | I went from stage 0 meaning no sexual contact to stage 1- fatties approaching me for sex.I’m curious if all this short term gratification sex is good for my health. Like I’m not doing enough work to get the hotties. I mean if all they want is sex I don’t have a problem with it | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | "You seem like you only talk to girls for the sake of it"Yes I feel u. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Are there any failproof methods to force yourself to approach?Robert Glover sets guys up with a game to go on 12 dates in 12 weeks and it doesn’t matter if she’s fat, skinny old or your cousin. Just get out of the house and socialize with women. Test for interest. The goal is to go out and get rejected by at least five women. If you are approaching women, I find they rarely reject you if ever. Guys reject themselves | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Would it be weird if I fucked my cousin? (srs)Isolate and escalate. Tell her to meet you on a certain day. If she shows interest u will have no problem. And if you’re in this sub asking these questions I would say you probably made her feel sexual around you as well. So if you want to make it a serious relationship slow down and take her on a couple dates. In all seriousness she’s your cousin but she’s just a women, I’ll even throw you a bone. I have many female cousins. We flirt platonically when we’re together but one cousin I’m sexually … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:37 PM |
| 1 | It is her choice and she owes you nothingDon’t make women your life. But do let them be the icing on the cake. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.This. You know they say you need happy dreams before you wake up from nightmares | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:13 PM |
| 11 | What is your mission?Be attractive. Be healthy. Continue to find passion and compassion in all things. Make babies with someone who shares this perspective in life | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Guys who workout?It’s just not kind but yeah I experience myself hating on people who watch tv all day drinking beer, who have no friends, same shit As yesterday | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl Has Agreed To “Hang Out” At My Apartment In a One-On-One Setting. Tips Please?The fact you wrote about this says you hesitate to make a move on her for some self limiting belief, just remember misery likes company. Lead her and attack | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | 25M/22F I found out the girl I'm meeting soon is in a seemingly loving and public relationship. What is going on here?If she says she just wants to be friends, you have another chance to end the game. Telling her thanks anyways or just saying do you have any girlfriends that would be more interested? Leave the door open for her to come back in case she just got nervous or anxious. Remember true love is about letting her go and seeing if she comes back. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:01 PM |
| 4 | 25M/22F I found out the girl I'm meeting soon is in a seemingly loving and public relationship. What is going on here?I know exactly where you’re coming from. I met a girl with a boyfriend. She was very receptive and gave me her number. But the first night I asked her out I said something along the lines, your boyfriend would hate if I did this. She said, what boyfriend? I knew she was daring me to be bold. So just get out there and see what works | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:22 PM |
| 5 | 25M/22F I found out the girl I'm meeting soon is in a seemingly loving and public relationship. What is going on here?I think her Game, is just to offer you sex and see where it goes. Take the lead. Show her what a great life you have | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:06 PM |
| 19 | 25M/22F I found out the girl I'm meeting soon is in a seemingly loving and public relationship. What is going on here?The boyfriend excuse is and always be an excuse for you to leverage. Brother, I’ve had lots of sex with girls who I knew had boyfriends. If not you, it would be someone else. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Attractive 5'10-6' guys who lift, how heavy were you before young women started giving IOS about your size?6’2 - 190LBS and I started working out at 165LBS I don’t know when women started paying attention to me, I’ve always been confident but I think it made more attractive women bring something more at the table | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Not getting Iron JohnIt’s really, really a placebo of sorts for men. It talks of knights and kings and boys and women as if they were living a fairy tale. If you want a modern day Iron John, look no further than Robert Glover- No More Mr Nice Guy | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | ClosingTell her you want to talk to her again. If she seems shy or not interested you can tell her to have a nice day. But you have to test her interest, first. If you’re dependent on her getting together your ship has sailed and it ain’t coming to port. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:20 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you see an ex?I guess it depends on your sexual chemistry. If she’s still attractive you might want to get her attention briefly but you don’t wanna carry on with her as to inflate your own ego that “I can fuck her still if I wanted too, shit eating grin” so be a gentlemen | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if she’s interested?Damn there’s no silver lining | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Whats your gym fuel?A meal before I go in like 39 minutes to an hour and BCAA and protein shake right after. Nothing fancy. I usually try and get another meal in after I work out | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 02:18 PM |
| 3 | I bought Donald Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men. I won’t be reviewing the whole product but it’s really, good. Especially if you found NMMNG helpfulYeah he really doesn’t believe in the PUA community whatsoever | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Point blank asked a girl out and she said idkFuck it. The concert is tomorrow. I’ll shoot her another text a couple hours before it starts. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Point blank asked a girl out and she said idkIf anything my natural instincts were impaired because I thought I had to do it a certain way... | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Point blank asked a girl out and she said idkOh. Well I don’t actually feel anxiety when I’m talking to her plain Jane. That’s how I got her to talk to me and call my phone in the first place. But when I was gonna ask for the date I thought it was too easy. And I built up some resentment and anxiety and like you said kinda uhhhh, you wanna go on a date? Can I recover this? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:04 PM |
| -1 | Point blank asked a girl out and she said idkWell I mean if there’s no anxiety what’s the point ? I thought guys were suppose to feel approach anxiety to ask girls out | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Probably found my main issue with womenWalk through open doors | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | LTR pullback, about to go nuclearBruh this isn’t nuclear it’s just toxic | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 12:35 AM |
| 3 | what do I do now? Do I just leave it?You texted her for two days. You opened the door to the friend zone. In other words, you made your bed now sleep in it. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | any salesman here? if so what are your tips for a wanna be salesman?Like any trade, you need to work with successful “salesman” in this case you need an apprentice ship. A weekend away with people who can rub off some trade secrets. I sell roofs door to door. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Going to a date, should you take your shitty car or good one?I know girls who reject guys that get really cringe about their BMW and Mercedes because he seems more interested in jerking himself off. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How to politely reject girls hitting on me in my new workplace?Hashtag: walk through open doors | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 06:37 PM |
| 19 | How to politely reject girls hitting on me in my new workplace?Hmmm | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Gaming girls in shared workspaces?You can run game on them during the day. In fact, I believe you already are, that’s why your frustrated. If you don’t feel a sense of power that you are just being yourself attracting to you women whom you think are attractive will respond, but if you get upset about the way they are treating you, can be sure it’s egoism. In no more mr nice guy, Robert Glover recommends you BLURT out whatever it is you wanna say and just let the conversation unfold. I’ve been doing it for weeks and I know it can… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel like the settle-down/BB guy despite being 22y/o with no money. Obviously all I can do is improve SMV and age; what advice do older guys have for this early-20s transition?You are who you hang out with the most... | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Gaming girls in shared workspaces?Your problem isn’t what guys are saying, don’t shit whee you eat. This is a good rule of thumb when you don’t know what to do because if it’s your day-job you don’t fuck your job security. I often here this in the Mano-sphere and I just don’t get it. I’ve dated many women from my workplace. Sometimes people find out. Sometimes they don’t. But it’s best that if you have to do it you do it with respect to your mission and treat her like you would any other girl. Where I think you are screwing up i… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel weird making eye contact with random girls??? Even when I notice a hottie staring at me something tells me to look away. How can I get over this? If they’re someone I know it’s different for some reasonIn response to your fears, is the fear of doing it wrong. Saying the wrong thing could... Freeze, flight, fight So, by not responding to the call of the wild, your instincts.. is giving in to the fear of doing it wrong. I often remind myself that you can’t mess up this business in your life. I’m not saying you don’t show up to work and leave your family. I’m just simply saying watch your self interact with people. Robert Glover talks about neutrally monitoring your thoughts, when fear creeps in … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Finally got my first rejectionYes | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 10:48 AM |
| 2 | What's the number one benefit from taking the red pill?That at the bottom of it all is a fear of doing it wrong Lifting Approaching Sex The red pill helped shape me to just say fuck it It’s like seeing the Matrix. You know the rules of the game. It just takes practice | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on introducing/being seen publicly with plateIt’s good if you are seen together. I always tell guys this because I’ve gotten a lot of girls second hand by reference to the other girls I was dating. It’s been said to me verbatim to girls I didn’t know exist. They might say something like hey “I know Suzan was good gal so you might not be a stranger for me” and from there the ball is in your court. This depends well enough on the quality girl you are being seen with. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 10:19 PM |
| -1 | Stupid Question: How did you know your game was working?Hit or miss? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I no longer have any desire to be friends with any female [im attracted to]. I want to fuck/be more. I want to fuck a lot of girls who probably think I’m their “friend” and honestly a lot of girls who I AM friends with. What am I experiencing? Is this a problem?It’s when girls try to stick their metaphysical hose up to you and suck your emotions dry that a red pill man will recognize this and say No, I mean you don’t want to tell your co-workers to go fuck theme selves but sometimes practicing this with people outside your social circle will help you formalize the belief in your awareness that women are not the bad guys. It’s up to us as men to set the boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Abandon the idea of lifting in exchange of time?I don’t lift weights to fill my T-shirt’s and I don’t think you should lie to yourself about why you don’t wanna go. It takes discipline and practice. If you give up now what would this say to your future self? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 07:59 PM |
| -6 | Plate went psycho, cut herself and is now talking about suicide after I fucked her friend.Damn, you led her on. You need to ghost both these bitches | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 07:14 PM |
| 104 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?You’ve done this before | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Debating entering a LTRWhat else do you want? She fills your belly and empty’s your ball sack | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Oh fuck, haha | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Aka hypergamy | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardWell, I think you answered your own question with the phrase, it’s a double standard. I think people get used to the image they see and call it truth but there’s two sides to the Game. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | The worse I treat my ltr the more attracted she is to me, made a huge realization.Indeed. It’s only when you recognize abundance, and your power to walk away, do women say hey wait let me get YOUR number. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Did I play this break up right?Most guys expect this shit to be smooth, Robert Glover says nice guys are like Teflon man slipping passed everything. But you showed up to that conversation with your balls intact. Good job | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Why "Taking The Red Pill" WorksYeah, the first time I watched the Matrix I was obsessed with “Metaphysic” and it grew into the 200- plus movie library I have now | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/19 11:10 AM |
| 2 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?It’s the definition of confidence, in other words you’re not a wimp | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl says “I should’ve made a move” when we were laying alone in her bed?But what should I do? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Bro, you really played this by the book. Even though it got you laid. It cost a lot of time and effort. I would say if you can see the Matrix you can skip a couple steps and come back to them later, a blind date doesn’t need to be laid out so everyone gets to know each other’s dark secrets. Just be present enough to know that at any stage in this girls life, it’s always about YOU | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 02:11 PM |
| 52 | Fuck this hurts so badYou know when it becomes positive? Acceptance. When you stop trying to fix things in the world. When you follow your mission. When you love and are silent. That’s positivity for negative people who are screaming for change. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Picking up womenMan up | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:34 PM |
| 5 | First plate ever, why does she keep coming back despite numerous fuckups?Weird flex but ok | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: The Power of Sexual CompetitionFemales are talent hunters. That’s why if you keep yourself from burning all bridges and remain steady in a relationship, that is with integrity. Women will pay attention. They will line up for you when you and your significant other, break-up. They will ask you if you are lonely. They will ask you if they can make it better. Indeed, build it and they will come... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/19 01:14 PM |
| 8 | We're Right and You're WrongYou live and learn. The red pill isn’t meant for guys who are still virgins. They need to experience the cold for themselves. They need to feel that natural urge to take what god doesn’t give them, in the case of relationships indeed all is fair in love and war. But nobody is born a Mozart or Beethoven. It takes practice and dedication. The piano notes won’t make the sonata come to life. The notes don’t mean anything. They are but symbols of symbols , twice removed from reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Would not texting enough lose a girl?Ew. Stop. Damage control. You do not text a girl like her buddy about her agenda. Some girls just need a ONS. Be open to the concept that girls Game | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Ex gf caught me lying, going to blast mePrivate thoughts are a thing if the past! | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:20 AM |
| 7 | Just realized i was an orbiter.Works every time | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:20 AM |
| 6 | Is it better to game 5's than none?They are really good pre-game until you realize hot girls require the same attitude. The knots in your stomach, anxiety and paranoia are all symptoms of you believing something that is not true. Call it cognitive dissonance. When you step out of your comfort zone, the ego screams STOP it or you will die. If you believe everything the ego tells you you will think you are shameful, unlovable and not good enough to be just who you are. But if you do, don’t beat yourself up for it. The shame begets … | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?My best two cents for conversation skills. If you have a thought, BLURT it out. Don’t think about it. If you have an impulse, such as to take her hand and lead her somewhere. Just do it. Don’t think about it. Let her fill the blanks for what just happened | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or what is this ?Tits or gtfo | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you work with girls who are inviting you to come hangout?Okay. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Apart from lifting, what else can someone do or eat to improve testosterone levels?Approach women Tell your boss you want a raise Linger in public areas to be seen and talk to strangers | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 07:14 PM |
| 51 | Man Sues Wife After Doctors Reveal He’s Not the Father of His 3 Sons Because He’s InfertileMy grandma went through this cheating on my grandfather with their youngest child, born blind. My family knew a guy close-by who was blind and out two and two together but he raised her like his own. We didn’t know until my grandfather was on his death bed. He damn near took it to his grave | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to be socially dominant?A real book that I need was Feel the fear and do it anyway. I could open it and read two pages and get my shit into gear,I highly recommend anyone struggling to follow through on their mission check this out. It gives you that extra nudge that you can handle it. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | If you have 1 child. Should you settle for a woman with kids?I’m currently tryna get with hotter wife #2 respectively and she has a kid. She’s an ex hooters girl. 9/10- obviously she wants the provisions a man offers so she be mommy. And it’s cheaper for me to have someone sit inside my home and eat my food then drop my kid off with a stranger. Plus I need head every night. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Would you cheat STHm. In all my years on the red pill. In the man sphere. I thought I had seen it all. Then you come in my life with a friends reference and I get it. ;-) | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | 26 y/o male here married to my wife 27 y/o. We’ve been married 1 year and together for 3. We have kids. She said she wants a divorce. Please help me save my marriage.Fuck the books, just go out there and find out how many times you can get rejected. Then come back and we will send you back out there. Also if you love your wife . Don’t give up. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you fart in front of your plates / GF’s?I have. We laugh about it | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Ltrs smv is inflatedYou sound like me three or four years ago. You sound like a nice guy. Have you read the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Pursued and closed oneitis, she doesn't want us to get serious, need help with exit strategy to get my sanity back.Autism speaks | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Guys, i'm broken, would love to hear from you...I learned to say this in therapy... I know how you feel I felt the same way What I found is , you just have to be happy with what you got. Never regret a day in your life because you never when it’s over | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I start this lifestyle?Don’t look for people. Look for yourself. Follow the guidance of your intuition. Women will come. Trust me | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Saw the most beautiful girl Ive ever seen todayI’m gay | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth still pursuing?You need to be guided. But you need the women, right? So why don’t you just ask for the ok’ Netflix n chill P.s. abundance of these women needs to be in your perception. Seeing the forest for the trees so you don’t developed tree hugging Oneitus | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 02:11 PM |
| 5 | I have a problem when I try to pick up girls at the club. Usually I’ll dance with them then w’ell start making out, but I’ve never started dating one after that.Roasted | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Develop Friendship Oneitis for Old BuddiesMost of my buddies I inherited from my two or three close friends who I could call to fix a flat at 3aM. and they’re usually initiated into the group via text or beers. I once missed one of these side friends because he was built like me and in the same sorta field of work. It was like looking in the mirror.... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:34 PM |
| 0 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itAww, I’m sorry. What exactly is your question? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 3 | How do i handle being provoked in social circleThis seems very insecure. I would just be pleased to have someone pick on me. It sounds like old school recess but it makes me think they really care. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Does curing depression improve your game?This is not my area of expertise. I like to think happy people don’t get distracted, from being happy all the time but the truth is everyone is going to hurt you. You just have to find the ones worth your shit. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:20 PM |
| 2 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itYes. Go outside. Lift. Get off the computer. Do your thing. Your mission (career, family, relationships) If you don’t think something is simple. Stupid simple. Read the writing on the wall. It’s right there. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting "Matrix red/blue pill" doubt about having children as the end game?There’s nothing new under the sun. We live by fear and love. We look for the balance. If you really look at it objectively nothing here means anything. I mean, everyone dies. So what’s the point? The point is you look at the world through love or fear and you just watch yourself do it, watch yourself do your thing everyday...It’s the only thang that will bring meaning and purpose to your life. For me, I have a son. It’s a gift. I would never trade this for a life of having no children. I want mo… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence PeopleCovert contracts was really a good lesson. I picked up on the fact I was doing these things with my plates when they come over, I expect them to do things for me. To please me. Etc. before I even finished reading the book I began see change | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 07:46 PM |
| 16 | Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence PeopleI’ve always liked the theory of the book. But it didn’t really do it for me .... so. I will recommend two books that have been important in my life. No more mr nice guy. Think and grow rich. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Got a number without asking?Good one. Lol 😆 | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m talking to wants me to get rid of her orbiter..Fair point. I like to fight. Haha | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m talking to wants me to get rid of her orbiter..I don’t know that. I’m just guessing. I don’t care because I know they don’t anymore | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m talking to wants me to get rid of her orbiter..I’ve given her hints. Seen my first comment. “He tried putting his arm around her while I was there- she literally peeled it off like a stinky diaper” How do I tell him to back off without being so... crazy? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m talking to wants me to get rid of her orbiter..I can if I want too. When we’re alone we can escalate. But it doesn’t seem right with this guy hanging on us 24/7 | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m talking to wants me to get rid of her orbiter..He tried putting his arm around her while I was there- she literally peeled it off like a stinky diaper | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Where do you find plates?If this wasn’t the fucking truth I wouldn’t subscribed to this sub. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.Authenticity. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | What did you do to escape the pleasure palace?I read no more mr. nice guy. He talks about this as an escape from reality and enforcing nice guys sanctum of denial and repression. But you don’t get to escape from pleasure- pain is the opposite side of that coin. So be careful what you wish for. Just pay attention to how you interact with people. Do you avoid contacting that person because it would feel uncomfortable? How long have you been putting it off? Every time you do this write down how you would feel if the other person did reject you… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How would you react?Beg. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:47 PM |
| 6 | Should I continue pursuing if girls are quiet/not talkative?This seems like the type of girl to resent you for not making a move. Just do it, or don’t but get it over with. Always be escalating No regrets | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | sex is not enoughIt’s not enough. But it keeps the people going | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Dont shit where you eat - but how close to it?It’s just that, the damage control won’t kill you. If there’s anything I learned from coming to the red pill and reading the sidebar it’s to feel your fear and do it anyway. No matter what happens you can handle it | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 02:16 PM |
| 17 | "He Doesn't Deserve You"Right in the feels man. Be gentle. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How to converse?It’s called a bromance for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Been lifting over 4 months and I am asked to stop.Where is your source? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How to make bros?The one big thing I remember about this book is understanding that you can see what other people see. You can feel what other people feel, within the limits of acceptable influence. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid possible date with coworker?Bruh, I’ve been where you’re before. I know how you feel. I felt the same way. What I found out is there are no happily ever afters. It is what it is. Just get it over with | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:07 PM |
| 14 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterFair weather friends. They were with you until the end | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Mother died leaving me with tens of thousands and a house. Intend to travel the world solo for a year because I have no idea what to do with myself. Any advice?I hear this a lot from older men, they usually bring the women home with them and get married. But for a young guy like you you must be thinking you’re rich | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Real talk, I haven’t been approached by girls (only two come to mind but that’s years ago). Should I accept that maybe I’m not attractive or should I take more of the initiative?Pro tip: if you ever get that “stinkin’ thinking” you won’t be interesting enough or not good enough to talk to strangers just remember to BLURT out whatever comes to mind. Even if you think doesn’t make sense. It doesn’t have too. The point is to get the energy moving until it reaches its climax and the both of you go your separate ways but I think it’s those crucial moments we come together to honor our deepest desires. Even if our dreams don’t come true. We’re not afraid to take risks. (Rejec… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Tooth knocked out, how to stay handsome?You go to the dentist. Check your self worth- I’m sure you still have a dick so what’s the problem? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 01:15 PM |
| 2 | My forearm tendons and biceps tendons feel sore after bicep workoutI’m just a noob. But I’ve started to see gains and I want to keep going. Years ago when I started working out I had to stop because I didn’t know what I was doing. Now, it’s still challenging but I work through it. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | She wants to date again?Yeah, and this is a second chance. The question is how far will you go? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | What things can I start doing now to develop a more positive masculine character? Also, how do "artistic" types fit into the SMV heirarchy/get laid - pure game?Ok so you want to be an alpha. But you don’t think beta get pussy? If you are an alpha it won’t just happen for you. So keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t stop doing incel- beta hobbies just because they aren’t alpha enough. Don’t stop going to work because it’s not alpha enough. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about a girl branch swinging your way?My thoughts exactly | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 02:10 AM |
| -1 | "Creep" Phenomenon on University CampusPlausible deniability is “we both attend the same college, one in a millions odds” I think the problem some men are having is not closing, they aren’t actually trying to get to know the person before they sleep together. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 11:13 AM |
| 3 | 23m, game non existent, virgin, angry, parent pressure, not masculine, averageFor real. It’s suppose to be fun. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Are women always attracted to the alpha male of the group they are in?Thus the cycle continues of life and death | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Women parading in front of you at the gym...?Women see you guys as thirsty all the same way. Go up and talk to her and say hey whatcha working on? Lots of times they are warm and welcoming of the attention. Social muscles are just like physical muscles. Remember that post earlier in the sub about being ready? You won’t ever be ready, waiting for your turn. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do most girls nowadays claim to have 'anxiety'? What's up with that?I’m guessing this is the same breed of women who claim to be introverts to excuse themselves for never leaving the house or as a default in case they need an alibi | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Plate left me for her ex I feel weirdly sadI’ll add on to this that you take it slow. So you don’t try and replace her, as a rebound. But I’m not talking months or years. Just a couple weeks to go do some guy stuff. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with uncommitted/flaky girls that flirt with you?Huh? You said it yourself- she’s not leading you on sexually. Why not just be friends with her instead of putting up a non-needy front when in fact you come to the red pill for advice because you’re needs aren’t met. I have the best sex with girls who I actually have a relationship with. Call me old school but this just seems like a cry for help. Also for Amsterdam if you put all your eggs in that basket she’s going to use it like yarn for a barn cat and you will only end up resentful. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Please explain to me what it means when they say if she comes back it’s meant to be?True | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How to raise kids?Read Hillary Clinton’s it takes a village | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How to keep motivated/stop slipping?Surround yourself with people who you want to be like. They will show you when you are out of integrity. You’ve probably heard someone say you are the five people you surround yourself with. It doesn’t mean you steal a car and go to the party in a Land Rover. It means you act in a way that says no matter what happens, I can handle it. (Frame) | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Should I fuck her ex best friend?Pro tips for day or night game at concert venue. Be cool but don’t be too coool for school. You want to establish a frame by not giving a fuck if you go home with anyone that night while not being so naive you don’t strike up a conversation with the girl who’s been waiting for you to talk to her except now she’s got her head in her phone because she wants to go home. Approach girls- (especially ugly girls until you get acclimated) blurt out whatever comes to mind- and ask questions later. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 05:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys contribute to the lives of those around you?Well, if you wanna talk about egos you answered your own question. I get the most out of helping others. Are you asking if I’m doing anything for you lately? The answer is absolutely not. I’m on my mission | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What are signs she views you as her Alpha?Submission. She’s willing to relinquish control of her self to a dominant male. This isn’t patriarchy. I’m talking about giving in a way that isn’t covert, it’s overt and like the other user mentioned she’s eager to serve you JOYFULLY This might sound obvious but she’s texting you a lot of really non-thought provoking messages off and on. And maybe she probably mentions that you’re bringing emotional tension in her life- which might not seem like a good thing but it will bring intimacy to the re… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 05:34 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a failure..I was pretending to be naive so he wouldn’t suspect I was his enemy, I guess it was beta. But in a room full of people I didn’t wanna push it | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a failure..I asked what his background is. He’s been sleeping out of his car traveling the country. (Montana to Texas) My instincts were telling me to stand up right away and tell him to get lost but I was scared to say the wrong thing, expose my true feelings for this girl at a table full of my closest friends. I said nothing. Maybe she would have rejected me. Maybe not. But I don’t like not knowing | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep banging these 5 and 6s whom I’m not attracted to?And if you still feel guilty or ashamed because you only use these women for their body just remember, they are using you for the same thang man. You got a dick and she’s got a pussy so what’s the problem? What got me over this was No more nice guy. Nice guys have a hard time accepting that people or women in general just get pleasure from pleasuring a man. Who are you to take that away from me? | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Help me get the fuck off this subreddit and not post again. Sick of it.It’s a victim puke! XD | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 08:38 AM |
| 13 | How does a young, inexperienced guy effectively absorb and utilize information on this sub without getting overwhelmed and overly analytical about every little thing.Agreed. You can’t do this stuff right. If you focus on every step while you were interacting with a girl it would never make a scenario for you to take her home. That fairy tale- dream/ is what we’re trying to be aware of but too many of us try to re-create those dynamics we learned in childhood | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:03 AM |
| 2 | How long before you can stop using plausible deniability?Then I fucked her right in the pussy | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | should I pick a girl up on the first date or ask her to meet me at the venue?I would pick her up if it’s fixed in your mission. No she might not have a ride but you always have a choice. Be you in charge. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls choose other guys over me?I’m gonna tag on this. Approaching women is the fastest and easiest way to get through this phase. My advice is to just blurt our whatever comes to mind. It might seem silly and pointless at first but see where it takes you. Take out your phone and hand it to a girl and say gimme your number and I’ll call you later for a date to carry on this conversation or whatever. Just say whatever it is that comes to your mind. Don’t pay attention to that inner critic telling you you’re aren’t doing it righ… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:13 PM |
| 3 | As my awareness of TRP increases, paired with my physique bordering on ripped, it feels like life is entering easy mode. Is this all it takes to be in that top percent?Embrace change. In the real world you won’t be challenged, but in this world we train in vain. It doesn’t mean you don’t pursue a relationship or a career and take care of yourself. It means while you’re doing all of that you watch yourself do it. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:06 PM |
| 1 | what is game? in the most simple way to explain itGame is what takes place within your mind. It’s not what you know that gets the girl, it’s what you don’t know. Furthermore, if you think reading the sidebar and become the red pill machine most people here would tell you to be, you would remain a slave to machine. You wouldn’t improve. You won’t ever get laid. Game is simply you’re current mental health in action. You’re aware there is room for improvement so you challenge that theory by approaching more women and taking rejection on the chin o… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | I got all the way from her number to a few good text messages and she stopped cold TurkeyNope, I added in after the fact because it seemed like an important detail. Her exact words were when I asked if she remembers me is I’m with “boyfriends_name” out to eat. You? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | I got all the way from her number to a few good text messages and she stopped cold TurkeyOkay, so you think I should be more aloof to the whole dating game itself. I thought if I closed, it would help her understand where I was coming from? Am I missing something? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | I got all the way from her number to a few good text messages and she stopped cold TurkeyDammit | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 03:49 AM |
| 14 | LTR break up shit testAn ultimatum like this is going nuclear. I would just tell her if she doesn’t like me for who I am, there’s the fucking door... | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to hold frame when someone steals my shit in the gym?Sometimes you just gotta fake it till you make it. If it’s his turn with the equipment, find out more about his routine but don’t act like you are entitled to it any more than he was I doubt he got up that morning and said to himself “I’m gonna steal his equipment because he’s a pussy.” But if he did then you are just gonna be a pussy that day. Sorry that’s not the answer you wanna hear. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 10:53 AM |
| 10 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?Yes, gaming women is supposed to be fun! | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | I’m afraid, I finally met someone who passed all my vetting. Am I missing something?No? Meeting her family and friends and just taking things slow isn’t vetting? She’s asked me to fuck before when I was in a LTR and I passed. We’re both single now minus the fact I’m spinning plates none of whom are LTR worthy | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:13 AM |
| 1 | I’m afraid, I finally met someone who passed all my vetting. Am I missing something?No, you’re absolutely right. I don’t believe she is a unicorn. Were just a good fit. If that makes sense. But I need to keep this in my awareness consciously is what you’re saying. So I don’t fall into my own trap. I just hope I haven’t waited to long to ask her out. We never had sex. I always tried to be there for her as an older brother would but that was a long time ago. I’ve grown up and she’s grown up and it’s kinda a man and women thing now... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | I’m afraid, I finally met someone who passed all my vetting. Am I missing something?I’ve mentioned we had ups and downs. I’ve seen her turn into a self righteous bitch right before my eyes. But I’m still here | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I still don’t understand “friendships” between men and womenSame | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she will refuse sex for various reasons but offer a blowjob?Haha, I get blowjobs and now I’ve gotten so complacent with my goodnight blowjobs that she’s been asking me for sex because it turns her on to pleasure me.... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Ex getting marriedMaybe you weren’t ready to get married. Did you ask her? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 01:33 AM |
| 6 | Who here on TRP has NOT been cheated on in a relationship and how did you find TRP?I was cheated on in my first relationship. I thought it didn’t count because she was drunk and said no worries business as usual. But she continued to do it until I was out of self respect What brought me to the red pill was my imagination wanting to digest everything in the Matrix. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Why are women so afraid of being called a slut? Like seriously who the fuck cares?The real women who call other girls bitches aren’t your typical queen b* they are tryna throw hands. Slut shaming is a sign of weakness | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Passive aggressive response from a girl who has a crush on meThat’s not a mixed signal. If you want respect, give it out. Don’t expect her to banter with you while you are just trying to get your dick wet. If she’s DTF then what the problem? Bring a condom to the date and Give her that sweet salty penis | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What are signs a woman views you as beta vs alpha?It doesn’t hurt to cater to women in the beginning of a relationship. Just don’t get stuck on the shelf. You gotta keep that emotional tension, always. So you can open the door for her, close the door. You can pay for dinner You can kiss her on the cheek and hold her hand on the way back to the car You do NOT send her flowers after the FIRST date... | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or does the friendzone not actually exist?If you ain’t laying down pipe it’s the friend zone. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Meetups.com singles groups?Yes but I wouldn’t put all your eggs into that basket. The girls who come to those meetups are accompanied by other women and or orbiters which is a thick wall for any one looking to cross. But if you are friendly and share a common interest you can get phone numbers and continue to strengthen your social muscles. Simply put, I attended an Harry Potter club, and artists club near me because I had the training to back up my credentials. I read the books and enjoyed drawing so I was able to offer … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Where are some unlikely places you've met women?Starbucks. I was bummed out after a magic the gathering tournament my friends and I decided to stop in for a coffee on the way home and I noticed the most beautiful girl in line at the counter. We shared eye contact and I told my friends we would be asking th girl for her name and where she was from because we were from outta town. Turned out she was heading towards my own neck of the woods and we dated off and on for years. I went to her prom. That kinda confrontation with strangers is always g… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Guy trying to start fight with meAgreed. Officer here. Defend yourself at all times. By all means do not hesitate to use force if you feel your life is in danger. When the adrenaline hits you to run, fight or flight you need to do the right thing while the iron is hot. Don’t try and defuse a dangerous situation if it means putting yourself or others in danger | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Asking women to do favors for youIn no more mr nice guy, Robert Glover encourages men to ask women to do something for him that he could do himself. It’s meant to highlight our character, albeit a proper form of peacocking. But it works. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys best exploit social media? Do you think it's a wise investment of time?I’ve been to many girls beds thanks to Facebook. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 08:50 AM |
| 20 | When asking a chick out do I explicitly use the word "date" or do I just tell her to hang out with me 1 on 1Tell her you want to show her your socks and underwear dressers(or something ridiculous)... it doesn’t matter what you ask because if she’s DTF she will make due with the little willingness you’ve offered. And if you get caught up with the specific steps, over analyzing every step you won’t even make it down the stairs. So be a man. Be normal. Do what everybody else would do. Just watch yourself do it. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:57 AM |
| 0 | How to approach girl at bus stopJust be normal do what everybody else is doing | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Alpha with girls I'd never date, beta with girls I wouldI smell a lack of abundance. Are you afraid there’s not pussy for everyone? Life is to be spent. Not saved. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 11:20 AM |
| 0 | How can I get straight to the point with a girl that wants me?Step 2: shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Any good upper-body focused lifting programs?As a beginner I think you need to focus primarily on form if you haven’t already and this stage usually takes 6 months at least just to get acclimated to how weights feel on your joints and the stretch you need to activate the muscles and so on. You need to ask for help inside the gym. Get under the bench and ask for a spot. If nothing it will give you confidence to go forth and conquer the damn iron. But for gods sake don’t lift more than you carry. Have fun! | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 11:05 AM |
| 0 | How to approach girl at bus stopHesitations means death... if you say hi she will pickup where you left off but if you are not even sure of yourself as to what will happen next she will leave you for someone else to figure it out. Especially when she’s down to fuck. You’re a man and you must do the heavy lifting at this stage of the interaction, although saying hello should hardly make you feel uncomfortable. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Shit test fail?You passed. The objective now is you’ve been caught in a shit test so to go talk to her in whatever is acceptable . -hey, what’s up? Begin flirting overtly within the realms of normal people | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?There’s a book Robert Glover mentions in his book no more mr nice guy titled, feel your fear and do it anyway. It’s all about taking your frustration, anxiousness and depression and reminding yourself that you can handle it. And underneath it all is the belief that you can’t handle other people’s anger or frustration with you but these are things you have to stop trying to fix. When you are in charge of your self there’s no need to worry. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up? I feel so ashamedCheck out the book- “Feel the fear and do it anyway” by Susan Jeffers | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 09:21 AM |
| 2 | How impersonal are you with choosing women to approach?Go to sleep | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Discussing politics with plate/LTR?Are you in a setting where everyone is talking about politics or on a date? if you don’t know what to do, do what everybody else is doing . | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up? I feel so ashamedNah, shaming him for it isn’t helping | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up? I feel so ashamedI sense insecurities and neediness. A huge turnoff to women is a man not knowing what he wants. Do you want her? Yes, so act like it. Be a man. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itPiece of cake.... | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 12:53 AM |
| 13 | Before TRP I could feel myself falling in love and be attracted. Now I'm just not interestedAnd remember, AWALT. No two people are the same but they are all like that. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else balding?I’m not balding but after I turned 25 I noticed a “mature hairline” where it looks like it’s receding back. I went to see a doctor to find out if it’s time to shave it off and he said I was overreacting and actually kinda smiled because it was normal. Some guys don’t recede at all some more than others. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Hung out twice. Did not escalate. Girl is frustrated/losing interest. Is it fucked?Nah, if she gets mad it’s not fucked. You can practice your escalating by meeting strangers and asking out the hottest girls you meet. Expecting to get rejected should allow you the freedom to be bold. When it’s all said and done you might feel more acclimated to the girl you’re interested in, hereby slowing down and getting her interest. You gotta get physical in like five second or less. Think of the creepiest thing you could do and just see what happens. it might seem weird at first to try so… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 04:38 AM |
| 2 | [Field Report] From nothing to something in 1 yearPush pull legs routine is what I’m doing too. Mixed with usually my traps on my pull days but that’s just my preference. On a regular day I was doing legs on a single day and it was just not enough | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 12:05 AM |
| 6 | [Field Report] From nothing to something in 1 yearWe are all guilty of this as well. The circle jerk in this community is like any other. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] From nothing to something in 1 yearAnd his mindset is really back on track. He’s thinking instead of just mindlessly indulging in things like video games and porn. Indeed his gains at the gym are products of this as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Texting for logistics - Hard & Fast rule or nah?If you are trying to come up with things to say to sound cool then stick to the rule but as all rules they are meant to be broken when you two have some rapport going AFTER meeting in person you can start to let go of the ego and hold the conversations in a very natural way through text messages but it has to be a cotrolled and monitored way. Don’t make her the center of your emotions, meaning don’t stop and worry if she’s okay every second because AWALT | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 10:59 AM |
| 1 | What to do with a humiliatingly small dick?Dude your good to go. If a women tells you it’s too small she’s got mental problems. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Loneliness causes social skills to negatively spiralThe system, the game, the world is a perfect circle. The dragon within that is devouring us doesn’t need to be conquered. If you fight yourself it will only grow stronger or change it’s form but the content of shame, blame and self abuse will remain constant. I recall the famous line from A Course in Miracles. Seek not to change the world but choose to change your mind about the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Can’t seem to bring girls back to my place after I pull them in the club?Tell her you have some candy in your van and if she doesn’t call the cops your good to go. Otherwise build more rapport or comfort. You can’t take a wild horse out for a ride without breaking them in with a few whispers or walks around the pen. You show them what it’s like first by letting them eat out of your hands and whatever is acceptable for your social setting. Usually this is called Kino. Be a man. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Core shakes while working out lolUnless you trying to catch a hernia you better start working out your core to stabilize your self, fool. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being so bitter?Watching yourself grow bitter is an important step to stopping the abuse. If you say, if I continue hanging out with these people or going to these events or whatever I’ll just be miserable or depressed. The gift is you begin watching yourself. What matters is you don’t judge yourself for doing those silly things. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Nexted a girl in my social group, how do i hold frame?Indeed. One must adopt a females strategy for mating to mate with a female. I’ve gotten as far as reading a couple biographies written by women and find they speak bluntly about these dynamics. They complain about normal things like men’s failure to have any decent shoes for different occasions but most importantly that if you are going to stare at a girl across the room and she “receives” you it’s time to answer the call. Otherwise you just look like a creep. You will be remembered for NOT appr… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Why do so many girls lie and say "I literally never do anything/I have no friends"?I get this from girls too. It means she’s really not doing anything. Have you noticed when they say they are just laying in bed, so you show up at her house spontaneously and fuck her she was really there waiting for you to write the narrative. Be a man | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How to forget about womenWhat’s your mission? Has it changed at all lately? Have you spoken to women about this? | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to get over an ex who dumped me?Crack a cold one with the boys | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 09:21 AM |
| 1 | What are you reading this week?I loved No More Mr Nice Guy. A man who has a plan for recovery is really attractive, you know practical steps to becoming the man you want to become is what makes me so attractive. We’re constantly dumping old habits for new rules, breaking into new more wide open spaces and I don’t know how these moments add up but it’s just really important for me be there when guys are asking for help. I’ve gotten A LOT out of Think And Grow Rich. My mentor paid me $100 if I read it not know what I was years … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What are you reading this week?Thanks for sharing. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 05:41 AM |
| 2 | How to have the ability to give fast witty responses?Use lines you hear in your social groups, movies, work, friends and family and begin adopting them as your own lines. I once had a girl tell me I would like the book “stealing like an artist” but this is another topic. I believe it’s in reference to ecclesiastes “there’s nothing new under the sun” Edit: the book is written by Austin Klein for those wondering and it’s a very cute lil book filled with “10 things nobody told you about being creative” | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when a girl rejects a guy, she's called "strong woman" and "independent" but when a guy rejects a girl, he's called "gay", "incel", "creepy", "misogynist", etc.?I don’t know, but I guess it falls somewhere with why female teachers seduce so many male students and get a slap on the wrist. You tell me. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Good first thing to send to a girl over snapchat?If she contacts you first you’re basically given a green light so approach her and close the deal IRL- guys fuck this up by becoming pen pals. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | TLDR didn't approachI know exactly what you don’t wanna hear is that we all think your a pussy. But nah. I wanna share with you there is person who watches you perched up somewhere monitoring your activity and it’s not the you who is engaged in the world. What would he think if you didn’t seize the opportunity again? You would say there I go doing that silly thing again, I’ll only feel depressed, hopeless or whatever because I think in terms of outcome dependence. Becoming independent of outcomes doesn’t mean you d… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Getting hostility since dropping weight and gaining muscle.Mike Tyson was on Joe Rogans podcast- the REAL mike Tyson with a lisp- and be said he had to stop working out because it made him combative. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Initiating on dates“Fuck it.” Write this down on a piece of paper and keep it in your pocket. So as your nervous, sweaty hands are going in your pocket instead of her pussy you will keep that attitude- fuck it. TLDR; IDGAF attitude is kinda vague for guys so just think if you were a dude who had all his shit together and didn’t seize the opportunity, what would The you in the future think? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:41 AM |
| 31 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?They call me the better looking one. But I’ve heard from women it makes them less likely to approach me because I’m probably doing pretty well for myself without their help. Go figure. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Which RedPill books helped you out the most and are a must read for noobies?No more mr nice guy for how readily it breaks you down like a therapist and says hey, you need boundaries and you have no balls. Your balls are under your mothers pillow. I learned that from Iron John. The good news is you don’t need her to get them back, but you will have to take a risk with women that mommy might not like! | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Lifting and it’s lesser known benefits “ my observation”Early bird gets the worm: | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Lifting and it’s lesser known benefits “ my observation”... and the gains will come. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 06:34 AM |
| -2 | Do women expect men to set boundaries insofar as to how much time spent together?Tell her to get lost. If she comes back you know it’s meant to be, if not then you know it was nothing | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Best habits to create abundance within the next 5-10 yearsBe a man. Act like you have answers. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is a slut from her Facebook page?Ugg boots, tattoos that scream for validation- (feathers, anchors, dialogue) and she has no other pictures besides her in cleavage | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Tips to get whiter teeth?Hit the dentist every 3-6 months for a routine checkup. They can catch a bad tooth before it looks like your aunt and uncle with type 2 diabetes who have been smoking their whole life. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I work at grocery store and this girl I’ve been flirty and friendly with came up and said that everyone thinks we’re sleeping together. What should I do?Whatever you do don’t get her pregnant. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is being in the party scene the best way to consistently smash HB9s and above?It’s the best way to work on approaching women and Game unless you waste it getting drunk. You might go and say get some of your needs met but you have to choose and let life unfold. Don’t be just stuck on a shelf | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Best habits to create abundance within the next 5-10 yearsYou need to always be approaching. In sales you always need to be closing. So what this means is get in to get out. Take the red pill- develop a sexual strategy and spit it out. Don’t make this stuff your life. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Is there something like "lifting weights" for your soul?This is going to be a discussion about Form vs Content. Where are we going and who is going with us. Think back to when you were lifting weights, doesn't it feel good? If thats the case you must be following the right path or whatever it is you subscribe to as NOT insane. So if you're feeling bad, unworthy, judging yourself then you know its your ego and you're listening to the wrong teacher. I think this is why we are so aware of EGO lifting in the gym. Assuming you haven't been working out t… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 11:56 AM |
| 1 | I developed this fear of sex...By facing your fear. It’s no different then when you took your first step on a bike after taking the training wheels off. Everything on the red pill is about learning to take all the necessary steps so when you are in your feelings you can remind yourself, no matter what happens. “I can handle it” | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with disrespectful female coworkers?Yep, I just wanna add something to this for those who misinterpret their frame with their Ego. If you don’t know who’s frame you’re operating in, it’s probably hers. Be in charge | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Tired of Sex Denials with LTRWa wa wa bitch I’m a baby | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:10 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with nihilistic feelings?Are you Woke or just another slave? There’s two sides to the game. A man who plays by the rules living his life the way it’s meant to be- albeit blue pill and he’s never really grown up. Playing with children’s toys. Or you decide to take Jesus hand and go a different way. One that says you have to leave this games behind for a while and step out of the sandbox. These are the only choices we have. Just be careful who you get your game from | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | So love is fake?FBI OPEN UP | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | The key to relationship happiness is reasonable expectationsThis is part of giving you power away. To the fairy tale myth that we will live happily ever after. It’s important to realize this won’t happen in our lifetime. Sometimes when we elect the wrong person to play the princess we can be hurt, emotionally or psychologically and the shame just begets more shame until we start drinking or jump in the bed with another girl to repeat the process. By self-soothing you can alleviate some of this pain by reminding yourself that what is upsetting you is fals… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The male-shaming is real in the bluepill hell.First rule of fight club states that you do not talk about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I get abs?Abs are an excersise you have to workout 5-6 days a week every week, no matter if you’re just lifting weights, running a cardio routine or whatever. Just do it!!! I use Jeff Cavilers 6 pack promise app from the App Store and it’s given me a meal plan and routine for like three bucks. I highly recommend this for beginners who don’t know what they are doing because it includes moving gifs for each segment. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 06:01 AM |
| 1 | what's YOUR higher purpose?My calling has always been in the community with people working to get better... this happens at the gas pump, the comic book store, church, you name it. I’ve found out if you can help people reach for their goals it will benefit everyone in the long run. This is my best guess at a higher calling but don’t quote me. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 05:55 AM |
| 2 | How to socialize with men?Be realistic with your expectations on what socializing means, how do you define socializing with men what does this picture look like to you? If you aren’t getting your needs met chances are it’s not just you but the other person as well. However by blaming them would hardly help the situation. Just be kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Battling addiction..what worked for you?First of all I know how you feel. I played league and smoked weed for years, I’m not shamed to admit it was a waste of time. Was it easy to do? Yes. What I found out is you need to just get as far away from your computer as possible. Start dabbling in other hobbies such as lifting weights. I won’t be the last guy to tell you, when you’re having sex with a girl and you can hold yourself while going balls deep without feeling weakness in your arms or core is a proud moment. It was for me. I love p… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Tried to approach a women - I almost diedReverse psychology, haha | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else becoming numb?grab her right by the pussy. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm 17 and suck with girls what should I do?Accept yourself for where you are at. You only compare yourself to who you were yesterday. And you’re just 17, experience comes with a lot of mistakes. Sorry that’s not the answer you wanted to hear. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Confront LTR or what to do??Agreed. If you are having sex be sure to just remind her that you are only having sex with one gal and mention that she should respect this or you will leave the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:20 AM |
| 4 | How to stay in the mindset?You write your goals down. You journal your thoughts and activities: Nothing too analytical but say you went and saw aqua man and ordered popcorn and on the way home stopped by your favorite spot and meditated. Get your ass to the gym. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:16 AM |
| 2 | How to stay in the mindset?Aye. One day at a time. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:12 AM |
| 11 | Texts that make her hamster spinThis isn’t genuine and it doesn’t work. You need to cultivate an integrated relationship with yourself to share with someone else before you start trying to take something from a girl who doesn’t owe you shit | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How many nights a week is too many for a roommate gf?You set these boundaries before he moved. Assuming he has agreed to this “covert contract” is your problem, not his. Now you need to have a confrontation with him to find out when he is moving out. Just watch yourself do it. If you’re angry and malicious then you can be sure it’s your ego. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Dude commenting on my girlClassy | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:47 AM |
| 1 | for those of you who had( or have) a close female friend, how have they handled you seeing and dating other girls?So in essence female friends are priceless | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What was the hardest thing about going red pill for you?That I developed counter productive behaviors. I noticed when I stopped standing up for myself rationalizing nothing matters anymore, bliss ninny, etc and yeah it’s pretty nasty stuff but as many of you said it’s better to be aware it’s happening askmyself for forgiveness and forget... | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Guys I'm BEYOND confusedLikely a beast? Beasts were put on this earth for one reason, and one reason only. To be slain | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 06:04 AM |
| 0 | Girl tried to frame me as a pervI’m gay | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | I had LTRs as a young beta, but I don't know how?I would say timing is important. A handsome dude at the right place at the right time, engaging with a women can end a marriage, or empire. Just be careful what you wish for. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Kino Escalation - How To Attract Women With Physical TouchIt’s intuition. Trust your intuition. When a girl stares at you that’s what us guys call “asking for it” and you know it when you see it. You’re having an innocent back and forth when the silence breaks but the eye contact remains the same. Plant your face on hers And get r-done. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/18 08:09 AM |
| 1 | What went wrong?There’s two sides to the game but most wont talk about it. You have to stop being too cool for school. If you think she’s asking you to be exclusive in desperation, or lack of abundance you are dead wrong. She dangled a carrot in front of you and the universe is using the stick approach. I Hope you can repair this, friend. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | I got the bread and the butter in my hand but I cant fucking make the toastWow, dude. I know how you feel. I was going through this with a girl i brought to my parents house. We didn't fuck and i felt like a failure, what i found out is it doesn't what people think, or say it matters what they do. She came over, you are suppose to take over from there. Literally. Shes expecting you to be a man and touch her, kiss her in when she "asks for it".... but no one is perfect. All you can do is say you tried and try again. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 05:45 AM |
| 2 | How has Red Pill helped you this year?It got me to get back in the gym. Which has been the best place for me, overall. I feel more confident and energized, it’s fun. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How to treat your boss?I don’t think it’s a good idea to kiss his ass, keep your integrity but you don’t wanna get in argument with him about the daily work either. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 11:05 AM |
| 3 | What are some common mental fallacies that i can avoid in my life?Arguing with your girlfriend or spouse when there’s no reward. If you must raise your voice, or get theatrical with your words this is normal for people, just watch yourself do it. You have to stop trying to control Womens behaviour. And accept them for exactly who they are.If you try and fix a relationsihp without working on yourself, you know your side of the street then its only going to exacerbate the problem. This problem is with perception. My uncle would talk about the bigger picture and … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 10:21 PM |
| 0 | Women and sexI’m not gonna dive too far into this but No more mr nice guy explicitly states guys who are getting their partners off are almost always unattractive and unavailable because the women cannot help you pleasure yourself. Take the shame out of your game and pound that turkey into next thanksgiving. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 10:15 AM |
| 3 | First date at her place- Please dissectHere’s what I’m seeing. You showed up to her place with your balls intact. But you got distracted when you got there and didn’t get the job done. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I have problems with talking.Truth is you’re gonna make a couple enemies along the way but most importantly you will change and make new friends. Some of them will walk away when they have their exit and others will have their entrance. But you gotta be yourself. Talk about what’s good and positive in your life in the moment. I’m not saying that new age bullshit about feels-good-man I mean real down to earth with people who share a common interest in doing the things you wanna do! Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 09:22 AM |
| 2 | I have problems with talking.Talking to hear yourself talk? There’s gotta be a platform for that. Anyways you’re probably not haveing problems with opening your mouth and pardon the pun, so to speak but you’re more interested in getting people to like you. That one thing that all the single ladies in your area will love and adore you! What is it? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else here 30 and feeling like a loser?When I hear problems with these it makes me think I don’t have it so bad. But that’s not really the point of this community. We want change. I’ll be the first to admit working 9-5 is a good start but it’s not ideal. I like paying my bills and being a good little cog in the machine and coming home to spread my girlfriends legs on cold sheets to just wake up in the morning and do it again. Because I know life could be so much worse. I eat three or four meals a day and my women don’t complain. So s… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 09:06 AM |
| 2 | How do I convince myself I don’t need a girlfriend?Tell yourself you just want to be friends. Look yourself in the mirror and say I just wanna be friends. How does it feel to reject yourself? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 09:00 AM |
| 0 | What to do during winter break?Lift, manicure, take your dogs inside the house, fuck bitches on cold sheets. Come on man you came here asking for it | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Scored a date with girl on dating app relatively quickly. Asked for number and she’s says “maybe I’ll earn it later”She doesn’t even have to be awake | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to word this messageTell her where you’re at, making plans with ho’s is a trick because they know they have all the cards. Just last night I said I grabbed a Pizza Hut on “highway 36” where you at? She said I just got off work- showed up 10 minutes later. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Depressed working a 9-5I know how you feel, but depression and anxiety are just passing like the storm. I found out if you want to eat, you need to work. Unless you’re gay and find yourself a sugar daddy. .. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How did the world react when you tried to change ?This is a good chance for me to flex on y’all. When I started the red pill the first few months I was just a fake. I read the books, didn’t go to the gym yet and acted like I had it all together. It was embarrassing, to say the least. A couple months later people in my family started to notice. It was a powerful affirmation that I was on track. They would say things like “you were never like this before”(selfish) or “we didn’t know you were like that” (Setting boundaries) For a while this is wha… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 01:08 AM |
| 10 | I called a girl “Gigantic”Defend, explain, excuse, rationalize Apologizing is like all these things with a bow on it that says fuck me up. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask girls to date me?I just told her a girl I met after work we should meetup when I’m off. And I’m thinking of doing a regular lunch for some Mexican food and perhaps inviting her to my house to see my cats. Sound good? | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask girls to date me?What’s wrong with fucking? | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask girls to date me?And this is probably all you’re gonna get, if you’re lucky she won’t make it easy for you and it will be exciting to challenge yourself. More than likely if she gets in your car or goes out with you and you don’t fuck her you’re gonna seem like a creep. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 05:49 AM |
| 5 | Not kissing a woman on the first date?If you lead her on all night, kiss her but don’t call back or initiate contact with her the next day in a friendly way you’re gonna seem like a creep. If you act nice and attempt to win her approval with typical nice guy behavior like if I pay for the date you have to have sex with me then she’s gonna think you’re a creep. Just be normal. Do what everybody else thinks you’re doing but do it with another purpose. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feeling burnt out?Yes. You workout in the gym for what 30-45 minutes on a good day? Think about how much time and effort it takes to get the food, sleep and overall rest before your next workout. This is how you should feel coming to this community. You can OVERDOSE on it if you’re not careful | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Does Gaming at your Gym count as shitting where you're eating?I’ve noticed more and more guys gaming girls in the gym, in the open and I think this is key. There’s nothing wrong with puss and dog getting together. But Don’t be cruel to yourself or others if she rejects you. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | AudiobooksIron John is really good audiobook. For its age, the audio has a down by the river or campfire conversation tone | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | 22% of male 45y/o does't have kids in Sweden! Because no women wants them. Open hypergamy in SwedenSounds like us men should all move there and put our words to the test | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 01:22 AM |
| 14 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.-Michael Scott | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 10:39 PM |
| -3 | Nexted my Oneitus, you know the story, fucked other bitches and am lifting and she calls me.I thought about leading her on just to flake for shits and giggles but ah, never mind. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Does being the opposite of a nice guy actually work?Did you even read the book? “The opposite of crazy is still crazy” it’s like on the first page not that you would know but NO to answer your question it doesn’t work. You have to develop the mindset that a nice guy is just behavior that doesn’t get your needs met. If you’re assertive and DARE as opposed to DEER you’re on your way to breaking free | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What should you do if your female boss asks (in a professional or indirect way) if you have a girlfriend/wife, but you don’t have either? I’ve had female bosses who literally say they think guys with girlfriends/wives are better employees/managers.So Jordan Peterson was right about monogamy being the best case scenario for men...... | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 01:34 AM |
| 9 | How do you get out of the loop of telling yourself you're a loser and will never get better?baby steps are the beginning. When i was depressed and my house was a mess i started cleaning the table and the next day i cleaned the toilet and so on. But those little steps make all the difference, believe me | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:23 AM |
| 11 | How do you get out of the loop of telling yourself you're a loser and will never get better?holy fuck, i needed this. The bubble is exatly what ive been asking myself for a more in depth explanation. PERSPECTIVE is KEY! | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | a coule questions about what im doing wrong and if i should just move on.i told i have to work and will tell her more info tomorrow, | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 02:41 AM |
| 2 | What was the hardest part of TRP for you to accept?This so much. The women who approach me for sex and Easy lays are the xactly just that, and I don’t want it if that’s easy. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:33 AM |
| 3 | What was the hardest part of TRP for you to accept?Grandma still likes my ex girlfriends posts on social media!! | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:32 AM |
| 19 | Can you get away with bad "game" (ie "no game") if you're physically attractive?Yes but if you accept the fact it’s your weakness, then maybe you don’t have bad game. In the end nobody wins. You can get laid by being physically attractive. But it won’t keep the girl interested enough in you from fucking other guys who hang on her... | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Hey, could you like..leave? (how to kick a girl out after sex?)Idk. I once dropped off a girl after a suck n fuck “booty call” and she did not like me the next morning so just do the McDonald’s thing. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think is the best weightlifting routine out there to put on mass/strength? What routine has given you guys the best gains?One a day two days on two days rotating legs push / pull I usually hit every muscle as long as I don’t have an injury. Last week I pushed up too fast doing close grip bench and it felt like pulled tricep off. It’s better now. Probably wouldn’t be if I wasn’t so young. Be safe. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl with no friends...She might be a good fit for you, maybe she needs a friend. She wants to play her strongest hand and that is a good way to get into your hobbies. Truth is no one is perfect. Everyone is going to hurt you. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do most men still go to bars and night clubs if women are just going there to waste their time?This post is so funny. If you are gaming chicks consciously they will tell you they are looking to fuck or not. Really I’m serious you don’t have to jump through any hoops or shoot any free throws. I’ve had women who I met at party that I fucked that night who later turned into a FWB tell me if I didn’t find you I was just going to a bar to meet someone else, I was like I know the game I’m not at mad at you baby, now roll over and let daddy hit this ass. People don’t think it be like it is. But … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here ugly or painfully average?Don’t call yourself names | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here ugly or painfully average?Calculated | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Is cold approach actually worthwhile/worth one's time, or is it pushed too much by PUAs trying to sell stuff?Stop thinking you have to do stuff when you approach women, stRt to see it as a game because that’s what makes it fun. You only have so many options approaching a stranger and getting to know them won’t happen at all in one sitting so you need to ask yourself if YOU want continue to see this person as they are asking themselves if you are insane, you should ask them out. While the iron is hot. If you think “what if” I talked to her or “what if” I asked her out its approach anxiety setting in and… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone noticed that their mom may shit test more than anyone they knowThat sounds miserable | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Getting Bullied At Work? What Should I Do?Ayy lmao | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting Bullied At Work? What Should I Do?If they say something like you are retarded all you can do is say well it takes one to know one or something silly like that. Remember DARE not DEER. What you need to do is make light of the situation and have a laugh but if it gets to be too serious simply walk away otherwise, it might lead down a physical path and you don’t wanna do that at work. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Gaming a fat chick with huge ass and tits? And she’s fat!Shots fired | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Why won't she initiate meet ups? (advice needed)You wanna paint my nails, bro? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Gaming a fat chick with huge ass and tits? And she’s fat!She’s not a co-worker but a frequent visitor. I have had her bring me coffee and worksheets from the office we merely pass by each other in the building. So if I’m shitting where I eat it’s more like farting where I eat. I was thinking about asking her out at least once for a coffee or movie before inviting her over just to make sure she’s not gonna flip the script | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:32 AM |
| 7 | Should I fuck less attractive girls when I have no active plates?This guy fucks fat chiccs | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why won't she initiate meet ups? (advice needed)You guys are fucking gay | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do many men regress when cohabiting with a woman?You catch a fish so you don’t feel like fishing anymore? Makes sense to me. But you gotta feed it otherwise it won’t grow and if you let go, does it come back? Some say true love is letting go... You just gotta play your strengths, if you have muscles or tan skin or whatever don’t wear a shirt in the house. If she seems bored, have sex with her. If you’re bored, have sex with her but you probably won’t be bored with each other you will be bored with yourselves and seek some sorta outside stimula… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 06:52 AM |
| 5 | Pulling women out of depression.Absolutely, and remember misery likes company. So if you spot someone with depression or whatever it may be, you got it too. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Happy International Men's day, brothers!Happy holidays, brothers. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Getting older and getting more nervous/concernedI see guys like you all the time trying to stay young or fit in with the crowd when in reality you stand out like sore thumb. However , I see older guys scoring young women too. From the bar to the hotel clerk. It’s all about your positive attitude. You gotta keep the end goal in front of you at all times while being able to navigate your away around rejection because it does happen, you gotta feel it. If a girl is just being nice and you try to seduce her because she’s giving you attention she … | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 09:11 AM |
| 2 | How do I specifically overcome the fear that lots of people in public will see me ask a girl for her number?Right? Like I can’t wait for thanksgiving to sit at the table and tell everyone about this guy who got rejected. It’s gonna make everyone laugh and like me more!!! | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Always missing the signalsIndeed, if she comes back it was meant to be. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else get obsessed with pussy to the point where your mission yields no pleasure?I was obsessed with having sex for that sweet, sweet release of emotions. You can do it watching movies, in the gym but most people do it in bed having sex because that’s where they feel most primitive. It’s perfectly natural. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | 6'0+ guys, what were your lifting PRs when everyone could tell that you lift?I’m not confident doing deadlifts after hurting my back but my squats are like 120 this is what I work out with reps and high intensity. My legs have been sore for weeks. I’m not too much into setting the bar as far as going up every workout. I’m trying to squeeze as many light weights reps this “cycle” but I may switch to heavy lifts before too long. Bench press is like the bar plus 25lbs on each side so however much that is. This is my first year lifting by the way. 6’3 185lbs M26 | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What are some green flags on a woman?Right because women aren’t at fault for men taking responsibility for our side of the street. It’s the perspective you see and when you spot it, you got it. So just because we should do the right thing doesn’t make what we’re doing the right thing. There must be someone who says what I’m doing is silly but if you do it with that, THAT attitude, your perspective changes | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 11:27 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?Isolation is typical blue pill behavior. That’s why we’re leading guys away from porn and their computers to go outside. But not to be alone. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to behave to keep GF interested in LTR?A healthy relationship will only work if you are just being who you are, anything else is weak-will which she will pass on the first opportunity. Have you read No More mR nice guy? | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:06 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give at yourself 20 years old?I wouldn’t tell him anything just that everything is gonna be alright. Pussy was good to me then and my life has only gotten richer since then. The struggle of finding pussy when you’re thirsty is likely what’s causing young guys problems. You have to go out there and see what works. Most of the time you’re not doing anything wrong but the girl just isn’t interested in you right now. No big deal, keep swinging the bat. Get the win. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it fucked up to go and try to hook up with girls on vacation with my family?I don’t think so | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:00 AM |
| 0 | How can a woman add value to a man's life?I guess he’s just a noob. Women who can’t follow your rules are simply not yours. Simple as that. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Gym with your plate & game related questionUnless you two have built a relationship together that profits from this which in most cases you’re just using it to get lucky, you might as well just find some other activity like bringing her flowers. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Tips on letting go of the anger and resentment of a relationship that went sour?Pretty much everything is feminized, transsexuals, bathrooms, politics(don’t get me started) but mostly you just gotta start hanging out with guys who YOU perceive as having their shit together. They don’t have to be rich or look like a body builder but successful with life in and of itself. Find these men or better yet let them find you and mold you into a man. You know you’re well on your way when you can turn back to this post and say geese must have been really afraid of love that day. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:49 AM |
| 4 | What are some green flags on a woman?Green flag- she approaches me, asks questions about my hobbies, doesn’t get nervous when I say I had fun talking let’s hang out, etc. basic human interactions are underrated to what most people are used too. I like women who like me just for who i am. Red flags are women leading you on, telling you what you did is wrong or refuses to work on the relationship and is only focused on you doing things right. Square peg, round hole. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 01:58 AM |
| 3 | What are some green flags on a woman?Agreed. You gotta play the field and women who know the game won’t be removing themselves from all availability. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Does having a kid make a male more or less attractive?Good fathers are subject to the worst discrimination in society that I’ve ever seen go unnoticed. Women with vaginas get the child support and kids because why? Fathers are nurturing in their own way. It’s backwards. Women should be paying us. I mean I guess some guys aren’t suitable fathers just as women who might be addicted to substances or lifestyles unfit for child rearing but that’s neither here or there. We need to be grown up to see our children as given to us as a gift and take responsi… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 09:30 AM |
| 9 | She hits me up after 3 weeks of no contact, why do they do this?Or hit her with the I’m busy I’ll call you back later... but don’t call her back. Soft next that hoe | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 09:27 AM |
| 1 | What was the one thing or situation that brought you to start changing your life from the path you were on? Can be a book that was read, a person that gave you advice...etc, anything.I met other struggling guys sharing their pain. But who were working on being different than they had been. Men who talk about embracing change. Guys like my uncle would mold me more than my father ever dreamed because his ego was in the way of doing the most mundane tasks, everything had to be perfect, I was perfect to him in every way, etc so I over achieved. My uncle taught me to just “measure what matters” and pay attention to what was in front of me. He taught me I don’t have to live in a t… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Cheated on a girl, think I have one-itis and could use some advice.You felt like cheating because.... ? If you don't tell your girlfriend your horny why should she have to take you back? My advice is you you tell her what she already knows, maybe you can fix ithis but probably not brother, good luck | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 12:47 AM |
| 10 | How do you guys deal with/relieve stress?The gym would be good but I workout a routine and it’s not until I get home in the evening do I really feel the stress of human life and I want to go back to the iron. If I’m emotional, movies seem to help. Or an audio book. Psychologically speaking you just gotta get your mind out of the gutter. Approaching women, playing with kids, planning a trip. All these things are good for you. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:41 PM |
| 66 | Broke up with gf after I learnt her parents are first cousinsYou make it sound like she was physically disabled. Pussy is just pussy man, chill the fuck out. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:01 AM |
| 10 | Not interested in chasing, or playing the typical game.Women are like money, you gotta have money to make money am I right guys? Say amen! | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm a a depressed stereotypical nerd with no positive attributes to make up for it.Just give up stay at your parents house | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Do women want to do shit tests?:( | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests are normal and expected, but don't they turn you off sometimes, or is that just me?Dad? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Should I take my girl friend HB7 to a restaurant where a girl works HB8 that I want to fuck?Women is a numbers game. If you can get one women, use her to get some moe | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Self hatredI know how you feel. I’m constantly in a state of high pressure to prove to myself and the world I will strive for success. It’s both hell and heaven and I’m somewhere in between! Speaking of Jesus and I can’t believe I’ll use this comparison but the red pill has been bipolar about Jordan Peterson, he has been teaching us to keep one foot in Chaos and the other in stability. If you wanna stay balanced you have to kee fighting Both sides of the war. You don’t get to find a pretty women and ride o… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Is going monk mode for 1 year a good idea for new comers to the red pill?Monk mode isn’t for you to leave your job and family to go be spiritual. It’s a toolbox for you to begin to question what got you in a rut in the first place! There’s relationships or just unhealed grief built up you probably need to let go of. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 10:59 AM |
| 0 | How do I Flirt Sexually and make my Intentions Clear without coming on too strong?If she doesn’t let you at least tap that pussy you probably came on too strong | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 10:51 AM |
| 25 | “Why don’t you ever message me?”I’m gay | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Do I even belong here?Are you a metro sexual who lost his manhood trying to attract to women? I know how you feel. Read Iron John. It’s ok for men to cry but there’s a time and place. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:32 AM |
| 2 | How to age well?By not getting set in habits. Be prepared for change. Children are like rubber and can shapeshift into any environment. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:30 AM |
| 14 | What are you guys thoughts on bartending in a gay bar?You are the five people you hang around with. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Surprise visit. Should I?Thanks for sharing. I have what you would describe as fear intimacy. I meet girls who I screen out and my ego gets boost cause abundance is key. I feel powerful to reject a women. But when a women whom I like, coordinates times and place with me to hang out I start to feel insecure like something must be wrong for both of us to like each other, at the same damn time. I’ve screened out probably hundreds of women I would slee with but never date. Then, it happens. That one girl comes along with th… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Just got a girls number and she texts thisI have a similar situation. I once asked her to “come out” with me tonight. She was like yeah okay! Then when I got there I said get in the car we’re going to a drive. Another okay!! I was kidding myself when I thought it wouldn’t be so easy. I don’t want it to be so easy..,. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexted a girl with a boyfriend, she keeps texting meYep | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexted a girl with a boyfriend, she keeps texting meNah she has mutual friend of mine. We usually see each other when the other one goes but when it’s just us I can gauge she is giving me “my time” and none of my touching has ever been rejected... ever. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Surprise visit. Should I?I wanna know more from a red pilled marriage myself. What’s the screening look like? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Soft nexted a girl with a boyfriend, she keeps texting meOkay, thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexted a girl with a boyfriend, she keeps texting meCan you plate girls with boyfriends? Am I suppose to act like it’s a secret? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:32 AM |
| -2 | How to respond to "I'm old enough to be your mother"?“I like it when you call me baby” | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Approaching saleswomen when they are at work?Women at work, working is a bad idea. If they smiling and just not taking life too seriously then you can play ball with her. That sounds like some thing a nice guy would say but I’m just guessing you don’t want a hard rejection from a girl who is just trying to pay her bills. It’s awkward for everybody. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Gym integratorsI use ProMix and it’s by far the best tasting chocolate, IMO I tried all kinds of grass fed hormone free stuff and None compare. No stevia no bullshit and you get your BCAA added in. I like getting enough protein everyday and breakfast is usually only 20-30grams so I typically have a shake with it. If I have a meaty breakfast like an omelette or whatever I’ll have a shake at night for a snack. But like some users say don’t become reliant on it. It’s expensive and like fruit juice the real stuff … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Date multiple girls or date noneRule of thumb, don’t abandon your plates for a new girlfriend and don’t abandon your girlfriend at least until you have someone else. Spending time alone is one thing. Lifting. Going out by yourself on Sunday evening, these are all things you can do by yourself. Just be normal. Pursue a relationship. Don’t leave your family because they aren’t spiritual enough. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Setting a first date in her neighborhoodLive like an animals. LOL | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Are beta friends better than no friends?People are interesting creatures, I wouldn’t try to classify them... this isn’t India. We’re a classless society with rich and poor, you just gonna find yourself and allow yourself to meet those like you along the way. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Nervous when talking to attractive women, what is the evolutionary reason for this?Good it might come in use if you ever find out how to get a women to take it up the pussy. Until then, why don’t you work on strategy for feeling your feelings and being alone. This is why we lift. This is why we pursue careers. This is why we do everything we do as men. Get used to it. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | "Hey can you tie my shoe?"One of the breaking free lessons for nice guys is to start asking people for what they need. Asking a women to hold your shit is more appropriate so you need to either counter her with a “can I have a kiss on the cheeck?” or just say no but thanks for asking! | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 07:55 AM |
| 12 | Why do bums have confidence and I dont?You need to work on a strategy. If your goal is just to slay pussy then you might not have a job, you know? And it works vice versa. Just focus on what you’ve been doing and watch yourself do it. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my game back after depressionDo what you always do. When you were depressed you probably slept a lot or watched tv and didn’t do anything active. Start lifting and interacting with the world. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Is wrestling worth it?Then own that nerdy shit. Go to conventions and talk to girls about your passion. Fucc bois only get laid because they own it. that they are just out to pick up chicks and women know it but they play along because that’s the rules- it’s the Game. If you’re nerdy just keep doing nerdy stuff. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Getting rid of a white knight?Oopsie | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 07:04 AM |
| 1 | What is your obsession?My infatuation with my cousin. The Bible doesn’t care, most states don’t care and doctors only make it a point to say you pass on the same faulty genes, if you have them. I’ve always liked my cousin but y the taboo made me hide my feelings. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Where do you most frequently find new plates or fuck buddies?Facebook people say don’t go there but if you don’t use it you lose it ^^ | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Girl intrested in me after I started liftingIts a good sign that affirms you are taking action and the universe is responding. Just be careful what you wish for. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps staring at meThis is good. Stand up straight with your shoulders back. The words will come easy. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Is fake it till you make it a good strategy?Yes. You have a strategy and that’s what’s important. Most guys think it’s some magical thing that happens to them when they become Alphas but it’s just a mental attitude. You gotta keep a positive mental attitude! | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How long after getting a number do you reach out? How do you reach out when you do?I have to know your experience dating girls with boyfriends, if any ? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts actually a thing or is it all just excusesTo me it’s just bullshit. If you have something to say just say it. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | So I got drunk last night and I rarely get fukcked but I noticed something. I noticed that how I act when I’m drunk is the way I strive to be from TRP. Saying what I mean and just having fun and being myself yaknow? Is it possible to feel like this normally? Without drugs or alcoholIE: your mission is priority and you have to set a hierarchy within this FRAME such as you won’t leave your job or family because they aren’t spiritual enough. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on non-plates coming back after rejection?I was seeking a bond with the girl before I go dropping her panties again. Too many time I’ve used girls as a hole to fuck with so knowing the red pill is about abundance I thought this might be able to work in my favor. Clearly it’s a game and if she comes back I must be #winning. But you’re right nice guys finish last. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Is violence every okay other than if in self-defense?If you were in a bar and a man says hey that’s my drink, aggressive and all do you punch him? Normally no you just try to address his confusion. But when you walk away he knocks the drink out of the your hand, that’s when I recommend necessary force. It’s happened to me and I can’t ever tell you when to use necessary force or how to stop an aggressor you have to trust your better judgment. Some guy at the gym recently came up to grab the bench nearly out from under me and I was only using it to … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 12:41 PM |
| 10 | The real reason Lady Gaga completely covers herself in thick makeup and elaborate outfitsShe looks like boy with emo/ hardcore vibe. honestly she looks just like me at 17 | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 09:14 AM |
| 1 | She has changed lawyers 4 times. I don't care who she goes with, she can't have my house or more than 50% custody of my kids.I seen this happen in LIAR LIAR with Jim Carey where they are in the court room and DAD loses custody of the kids just because the women sees them as a check(child support) the system has men fucked and its not going to change-"Seek not to change the world, seek to change your mind about the world" | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Went on two dates and made out with her, now i've found out she has a boyfriendReally, the only way you could fuck this up is if you tKe the boyfriends side of things and call it off. Keep pounding her brains out until she says to stop. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How to break dry spell?I’m already sharpening the sticks. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to deal with all the soreness the morning after the gym?Aye, here’s a man who lifts consistently | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | How did you get out of the anger phase?Wow if only there was some sorta compensation for men in society who have endured this suffering, women or men we all suffer but the law would say ok the mom gets custody and child support what do the men get? | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Practical ways to improve frame?Doing things once a time, that advice seems to help. Can you further explain this in practice? | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Law of attraction/AffirmationsI’m not more mr more nice guy the author who is a counselor of sorts mentions the importance of using affirmations when you least believe them. Those moments you feel really down in the dumps and an affirmation is like a reminder that you’re not just a two legged creature having a mental breakdown. You’re as lovable now as you always have been. We’re just learning to accept this. A state of grace, if you will. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else actually been really good looking their entire life but fucked up opportunities constantly due to mental issues and blue pill conditioning?Well, my biggest “oh my lord” moment was when I realized we have choices. I don’t have to say yes, or when to say no. I’ve been doing it backwards most of my life. As far as blue pill conditioning, it washes out with water. Don’t beat yourself up for not being there, yet. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 01:54 AM |
| 3 | What type of stuff should I learn as a young man in high school?That you can be whoever you want in life. Right now isn’t the time to be worried about what’s popular or getting laid at party. Just focus on your mission. “Cool” people in high school aren’t so cool at 30 | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Am I genuinely disgusted with this chick? Want to break up and just be rid of her, not even gonna bother cheating.Lmao XD | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP made you more conservative?Honestly I was raised conservative and red pill since I could remember. It wasn’t until I became an adult that I realized I was making a choice to begin with much less any facts about the political landscape as a whole. If there are any but we don’t have to go there. My blue pill fantasy’s weren’t crushed until I realized my dick was the center of the universe to women and I stopped basking in every workmen’s attention. We weren’t even fanatics in my house. I listened to Glenn beck radio and Fou… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:09 AM |
| 2 | They say you're the average of 5 people you spend most of your time with, so how do you get better friends if you grew up in a shitty environment and didn't realize this till after college?Don’t leave your family because they aren’t spiritual enough- Don’t leave your job because it’s not spiritual enough- don’t do all the silly things people do. Just be normal... Pursue a relationship. Pursue a career but at the same time you’re doing all that start to cultivate the attitude of stepping back, watching yourself. Watch yourself interacting with people. Watch yourself get up in the morning. Watch yourself go to work. Get dressed. Eventually you will begin to see the difference. But i… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Need advice; sister AWALT and disgusting.The shit Apple doesn’t fall far from the shit tree. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 05:33 AM |
| 3 | What’s the best book for an early twenties man to get into investing?Think and grow rich Rich dad poor dad | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 05:06 AM |
| 6 | I'm such a fucking pussy. Help.You’re just a rookie. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 10:15 AM |
| 12 | I experience insane attention from women after I relapse/jerk offThat’s hilarious. I know how you feel. There’s this thing called “Freudian slips” and in some schools of thought they are called Hermès precision. Here’s why. You stopped jerking off to approach women , seduce them and eventually sleep with them, right? So when you jerk off it’s like your anxiety about this (covert contract) has finally paid off The mind is a powerful thing ;-) | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 09:56 AM |
| 7 | What was your most brutal firsthand experience of AWALT?This seems to me the common bond we share here. I too was in a similar situation. Twice. Long term relationships, covert contracts and cheating. AWALT | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Social media, necessary for social and dating life in 2018?I’m on the Side of the fence that it can only benefit you. You won’t lose anything you don’t already have in which this case you seem to be fishing for single girls. The best approach is direct and out in the open. Women will notice. And will be attracted to you. Whatever you do don’t TRY like Yoda says there is no hitting on girls you fucking drop in her DM’s like a man with a plan or don’t but get it over with. I once dropped some messages about a girls tent she was posted pictures of on her c… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Where to fuckWhy can’t you bring girls home? My parents don’t ask don’t care, better to ask for forgiveness than permission. I once brought a girl to my uncles whom I wasn’t living with but just visiting for a concert. I brought a girl home from said concert and he said next time just give me a heads up so I don’t walk in on y’all. Ez pZ | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 05:59 AM |
| 3 | "I hate you"She’s tryna fuck u and is calling you a pussy. Your next move is on her. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What is your mission?My mission- Pursuing a relationship with my wife, as all things in life people change. Pursuing a career that has that sweet passive income so I can retire before I’m 50 doing more charitable work for the community. IE: I want to open a soup kitchen in my home town for the needy. That’s my objective and getting there is requiring me to work a night shift police patrol at a chemical plant. Soon to be getting my license as insurance adjuster online with all the time I spend here just sitting in fr… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:38 AM |
| 0 | I feel like girls want to be ghosted For weeks after you fuck. Makes them hamster why you’re not texting/calling and/or shows you’re high value/busy. Is this true?That’s just a shame. Sex isn’t bad!!! | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Experiencing the side-effects of reading too much without enough application in real lifeWomen lead you on even if you don’t think they are attractive or feel anxious about the relationship ending the way the last one did. You have tools but you don’t use them. You must approach. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth joining a high smv group of guys if you’re the lowest smv there?Dude absolutely. That’s the best opportunity for you to learn as a man is from other more successful men.. especially if they know what you’re doing. Of course girls will be more attracted to them but getting to watch them interact with you and women is priceless. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 01:12 AM |
| 2 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?Common dopamine behaviors would be getting a relationship to get some sorta validation. -Sport fucking. Rarely is your life in a place for this typa of behavior u less you’re married -Coffee, Soda, caffeine -Working paycheck to paycheck -Running around calling yourself a victim while not taking responsibility for the way you might be pushing people away, projecting, shame, blame and poor me. You gotta keep a positive attitude. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | It depresses me to see former popular people doing well socially because of the friends they made in high school and college. How would you even catch up to the level of social life they have?The jocks and cool kids? You take pussy off the pedestal you faggot. Find your own hobbies. Get a life. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Escalating to sex once you start making outSome women who want to fuck you will tell you they are having LMR, things like I don’t usually do this or whatever. That’s when you stop but don’t abandon the ship. Comfort and cuddle and kiss them, they will feel like they can trust you and then when she least expects it the next time y’all hang out go for it.... | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Just got thrown for a loop.Dude your intuition, that gut feeling that is telling something is wrong. You feel that? Do not pass go. Do not fuck with this girl. You was right. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:45 AM |
| 11 | Bored of My Girlfriend AlreadyThen Get her pregnant L | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:43 AM |
| 0 | So I got LJBF, but I really don't think it's typical, advice appreciatedYes, read the message. But Remember she’s not yours it’s just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:42 AM |
| 3 | How to "talk to everyone" without looking needy?Literally this, whateve ryou approach with will get received, then all you gotta do is be interested or interesting and don’t count on the other person to do the heavy lifting. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | So I got LJBF, but I really don't think it's typical, advice appreciatedYou know exactly what this means. My advice is to open a bottle of wine and celebrate because she just saved you a lot of time and wasted energy. And for fucks sake of all fuck this is not a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 02:54 AM |
| 37 | "This guy hit on me" shit-testIf she’s telling you happened chances are you are being seen from a branch she’s swinging to and from so don’t do anything with her to make her thing you seriously want a LTR because that’s not what she is thinking about. Do keep pursuing a relationship but do it with a more care free approach. Game is supposed to be fun not something you have to ask online buddies for advice about at every turn otherwise you will keep hitting these glass ceilings. I’m sorry, I hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 02:51 AM |
| 5 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Approach anxiety is such an underrrated topic because its an important psychological problem for guys to face their face and do it anyway. What this means is you cant use logic and reason to approach a women, you kinda gotta embrace your darker maculine side. Picture this, and this might be a stretch but although i walk through the valley of the shadow of death i shall fear no evil. You might say that this is you walking the valley watching yourself as the hero of the play. No need to rescue t… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 11:01 AM |
| 18 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Pro tip: You wont quit until you have too and if no one is going to make you, you cant be helped by any one either. I struggled with pot and found out no one really cares except my employer and on some level they dont want me to get caught. Get fired and lose a product or whatever. What made me finally quit? After years of cheating drug tests and smoking in my car in dark alley ways at night hiding from anyone? I just had enough of it. I was focused on my job, my family, my mission in life and… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?speaking of mothers, love em or hatem where would we be without them? Nows thats an incel comment right there. Anyways my point is when it comes to assertive masculine dominance this is not something you can teach. You need to be able to enforce boundaries. Inner and outter. in no more mr nice guy he uses the example of a rigid line where people will push you back. The lesson here is to just WATCH yourself allow someone to push you back and see how far you will go until you physically stop him… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?This is easily the thing i mostly struggle with. I have faced many obstacles and through all of them i did it my way. Its hard to go back to my memory and say here is where i didn't give a fuck and it paid off. I cant say i never tried. Care to explain this concept? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:48 AM |
| 1 | How to game hipster girls?I know you’re sarcastic but it’s obviously not a good point to mimic what these women like, if we did we would be slipping into their frame. And If we learned anything in PUA it’s to always be aware of who’s frame you’re operating in. However, does she wear ugg boots and work at Starbucks? She shouldn’t need much in the way of foreplay. Invite her over and escalate | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 11:26 PM |
| 45 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?I second this, women with tattoos and more than one body piercing are as good as pussy flapping in the wind like a wet sack of trash. Leave it on the curb bro. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Is this girl trolling me? Texted me "wanna fuck?" convo screenshots insideContext is your friend. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.Reminds me of the song:” if you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty women your wife, so from my point of view, get an ugly women to marry you” | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.Some would say normal development of the self, we’re only victims if we want to be. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Is it gay to shave your armpits?Don’t be gay | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Lean or Bulked Up?Confidence. Be you in charge. I’ve gotten enough girls in skinny jeans to tell you all these bulky guys are full of shit and passing on shame. Lift. Eat the kinda foods that are going to keep you healthy, whatever those are. But do it with a purpose. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 04:46 AM |
| 3 | How effective is IDGAF attitude for you?To answer your last question about breaking frame to assert the situation you just have to trust your instincts. If this girl is running around on you and you think I’ll just get back at her by hating myself then you know you made a mistake but if you see her looking for a sign that you’re not fucking around on her you need to be able to show this chicc some masculine authority that you’re in charge and she has nothing to worry about, okay? Most of this stuff in this subreddit especially can be … | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Guys who overcame severe depression?Same here, the diet was really important. I started eating a lot more meat due to my gym routine and stopped buying bullshit snacks for meals. It takes a couple weeks to get your body accumulated to new foods so take slow and steady. They don’t call it cold turkey for nothing; it’s disgusting!! | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Do you think it is possible for a guy and a girl to be friends without one or both of them ever having any romantic or sexual thoughts/desires towards the other person?I’ve been friends with a girl for years, we traded video games in college and went to each other’s birthdays. Family assumed platonic through and through. Then at one of our classes we shared together, she passed a note to me asking if we could be boy friends and girlfriend. She was basically giving me an ultimatum which made me think the entire friend ship was superficial. I valued our friendship more than some romantic feelings that were fleeting when I wanted to see her tits. So she asked for… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 04:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you discipline yourself to go to sleep at night?This. None of that laying there with your mind asking existential questions. When you stay up all night playing video games on the other hand, now that’s when you moan and groan so hard you wish you could do something different with your life. That’s what the gym does for the soul. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | She's a legitimate 9/9.5, do I spend $100 to maybe see her at a concert?Yeah it’s a dance at the end of the day you have to learn to dance with women... they are no strangers to the game you just gotta put your best foot forward and like I said don’t be afraid to make a mistake. As you well know, every mistake is an opportunity for growth. You did good. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 09:39 AM |
| 0 | Where do you find the time?We keep it under our beds. All my time is buried in the sheets ;-) | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 09:21 AM |
| 2 | She's a legitimate 9/9.5, do I spend $100 to maybe see her at a concert?This isn’t a bad idea mate. If you’re this far into planning it I won’t tell you not too just to invite the girl and remember don’t fear making a mistake. If you feel excited that she’s coming with you you might confuse that for genuine interest. You need to be able to set a sexual vibe with kino and eye contact through out the date but if I were you I would hang out with her before the concert. Take her some where like to get food or whatever for a walk and get to know her so you can build enou… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Girl eye raping meShe was probably thinking about just that. The only way to know is to approach her and say I can see by the way you’re looking at me that you want to fuck it’s ok, you can kiss me now. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Releasing repressed angerI try and think about it like where you don’t want to release anger and rage, at work, your boss or land lord. It might lead to consequences outside your control. In the gym is a good place to start. Imagining pushing the bar as pushing someone you hate away from you is my favorite weight to push. Just my two cents. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 10:30 PM |
| 8 | What's the best way to turn down a woman at work?Right on. Girls will love being rejected at work. This isn’t gonna work though, it’s validation. You need to downplay her advances and play on her rejecting you. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Do you have problems being in public alone?It sounds to me like you’re looking for validation which isn’t a sign of confidence. But now what do I know about confidence? I’ve been on a dry spell all year so be careful who you get your game from young man. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl gives lot of IOI's but gives Facebook instead of numberYou either go all in or don’t but get it over with. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Apathy and idgaf mental stateRekt | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl gives lot of IOI's but gives Facebook instead of numberThen you write her and act as non-needy as possible. These girls are fair game and likely she has planned to fuck somebody just make sure it’s you. I would invite myself over to her place once she responds act like it’s already a done deal and say you’re bringing beer and if she wants anything? Works for me. I know it can work for you. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How can I incorporate martial arts again?I was in taekwondo when I was a landscaper and they had classes for adults who worked 9-5 that could come in late. You just gotta find the right dojo. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 01:32 AM |
| 4 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?I just wanna add something to this. If you’re willing and able to walk away, use this to have a real conversation with the girl about your intentions. Do not say if I bring you to my place will you have sex with me? But do bring her somewhere and show her you’re not a loser. Tell her about your fish tank. About the funny thing your cat does when it wants to come inside the house. Be normal. And do everybody else is doing but do it with another purpose. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 01:28 AM |
| 17 | Kino for shy guys?Something something - nice guys never fucked fair lady. Get your head out of your ass and start being a man. You have nothing but time and you’re wasting it by being something you’re not. And remember, rejection > regret | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 01:25 AM |
| 3 | In my case, how would I bring a girl back to “my place”?This. Your dad is a legend and it would be a sin not to take this opportunity. Whatever you do don’t fuck this up.. P.s. wrap it up and clean your dick in case of blowjobs. Girls have complimented me on a smooth dick before and I only use baby whipes. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Does Shit Test mean interest?The flip side is shit testing disturbs the ongoing communication and blocks you from entering her sex dungeon. All you have to do is say something that means you can stay or go but either way it’s your life and you will please yourself. I’ve seen myself frustrated over a shit test only to realize my intent was to fuck this girl I just wasn’t being honest with myself which led to frustration. Nice guys for example and covert contracts is the dynamic of doing things for people but under lying all … | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 01:46 AM |
| 3 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Same. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:17 AM |
| 3 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)Here’s the thing guys. You need to ask yourself two questions. Where am I going? Who’s going with me? If you get these questions out of order, well you’re in BIG trouble! Source: Fire in the belly by Sam Keen | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I succeed in life alone?Nice guys don’t ask for help. Not because they don’t need it but because they think by doing all the work themselves they are saving everyone else the trouble. It’s covert, manipulation. No one succeeds in life alone, not for long. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Raising redpillsDon’t introduce him to anything. If he has a problem and brings it to you set the example but don’t try and push kids into this stuff. They will find it on their own. Most of all just be there and so he can watch you interact with people. This is most important IMO | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?If a girl likes your dog when it drools and shits everywhere- she’s the one. This is why it’s good to have a dog going into a relationship. Sharing a dog wit someone is really like a divorce because when you break up it’s difficult for all parties. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I get people to invite me to hang out?Talk to people and get interested in something besides helping yourself. People will notice. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 12:31 AM |
| 2 | How would you classify this woman's behaviour at my gym?Boundaries- have them. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How to derive pleasure from meeting girls? and where to meet them.Looo at it like this. If you’re watching porn you’re not with women. You’re not working on your mission. You’re distracted. Just leave that shit alone until you know what to do with it. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Super hot HB9 says shell teach me how to fuck good if i pay her? Would it be a blue pill move to go through with this?If nothing you might learn a thing or two about the sexual dynamics with HOT women which are no different than land whales. Have fun! | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 01:30 AM |
| -2 | She asked if I love her during sex...Andddddd... it’s turned into rape. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Why would a girl give me HEAVY amounts of IOI, but decline a date invitation?You’re not alone. Once you hit the red pill like your suppose to it’s not unusual toe experience depression, fatigue, anxiety. It’s all normal given your awareness of reality. But does it sound fun to just watch yourself? You must act. You gotta keep pushing forward. Always. Get the win and don’t go home a loser. You’re the only person you have to please. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What happens when you lose "passion" for women?We’ve all been there. I’m sure it was a one time thing right? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How can I set my ego aside?Why do you think that’s your ego? If you stop and watch to yourself interact with people you will notice the person asking why did I just say that is YOU the observer. If you stop judging yourself, there cannot be an ego. Because the ego always judges. But the person that watching yourself is coming from the same place. If you wanna turn down the volume on those voices try meditation, positive affirmations and going to the gym. Moreover, nothing tells you anxiety is false like approaching a girl… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Where is the middle ground between using your charm/humor and having a masculine frame?Thanks, dad. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Where is the middle ground between using your charm/humor and having a masculine frame?When your loved one is getting raped or murdered and you need to stop them do you think you will have to stop and think about it.... hesitations means death. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 12:08 PM |
| 2 | I’m pretty sure I failed this shit test... what to I learn from it?Why are you having philosophical conversations about the rational male IN A TEXT MESSAGE? Logistics or busy- that’s it. You either work your way up to asking her out by checking in on her with a buzz and if she doesn’t text back try again but you can’t just be out here telling girls about all your crazy shit especially when she asks in a text message... The only proof you need is when you go outside and see girls on their cell phones. They are always texting for social proof just not in the way … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Regressed back to anger phaseAccept that growth is slow. Often times painful. Sorry if that’s not the answer you wanna hear, | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What does the Red Pill says about the Myers–Briggs (Carl Jung) personality types?The only reason we would care about this is if a girl is curious about your personality and it might lead to you getting laid.. which was the first time I heard about this test. Some “artsy fartsy” girl was going around asking people about their personality and telling them hers is INTJ and blah blah blah. Needless to say she was looking for validation. Don’t fuck with these women and don’t fuck with these tests. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Would you still come to r/asktrp now that TRP is RIP?The “anger phase” isn’t meant to be a phase. It’s a interrelationship with the fragments of ourselves we abandoned at an early age. We can take responsibility for the feelings without taking the blame. Moreover, Women aren’t the bad guys here. Neither are your so called blue pill parents who for better or worse did the best they could and simply passing on the same scraps they was given. It’s no wonder men grow up confused and take on idols like Jordan Peterson or “Gym Bros” lifestyle in getting… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?Is this fucking a joke? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Gentlemen where do you predict the SMP will go?That’s exactly the case. Guys have been dropping out of the dating pool for years and it’s become standard. That’s why they sell Sex dolls. It’s crazy. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Gentlemen where do you predict the SMP will go?You don’t buy a sex doll on Tuesday and fuck Teresa on Wednesday | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 07:03 PM |
| 6 | How do I stop being anxious about girls messaging me back/cheating on me?She’s not yours it’s just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 07:10 AM |
| -2 | How do I stop being anxious about girls messaging me back/cheating on me?I would say Just be yourself. It’s your only chance at having a healthy romantic relationship. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Gentlemen where do you predict the SMP will go?I’ve seen the sex doll craze in Japan. War is upon us Men. Stand up and take life by the pussy. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 05:34 AM |
| -2 | A quick word on liftingThis post is the equivalent of shitting where you eat... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to help my GF's brother with chicks?You can tell him the truth but I wouldn’t raise him like the second fucking coming of Christ... | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Should I send this message?The king does whatever the fuck he wants | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill cultures/civilizations to read about?USA- as far as freedom goes and taking the thirteen colonies from Great Britain. On a side note you have to understand the red pill is itself red pill culture and we don’t talk about fight club, so it’s called a specific word or phrase that I don’t remember but the idea is only specific people in the world will speak the language. So an example of this is the Bible. Jesus is widely misinterpreted from the Bible because of how many different ways you try to use him to fit a certain mold. I’m sorr… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Are there any decent women anymore?He’s marrie dhis cousin so yeah he was full of tricks alright ;-) | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Does your sex drive increase as the quality of females you have sex with goes up?It’s not her your disgusted with. But I know how you feel, our hormones or biology or whatever is wired differently than women. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | What is the right way to handle this situation?I would say they are fine how are you doing | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on texting “wear something cute” once finalizing date plansIt’s a powerful move girls will love it... but a word of advice judge the situation. Don’t go into a date by acting like a tough guy if you’re not prepared for her to fall off the hook. You need a rock solid frame. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 08:10 AM |
| 0 | Is getting called 'buddy' insulting?I know how you feel, I felt the same way and I found out most guys don’t know how to have successful relationships with each other. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 05:45 AM |
| 3 | How to communicate with a group of guys?It’s only gay if you get called out for being “extra” and you react to it. When you lose frame. Otherwise you remember it’s just a game and it’s nothing. You can smile sweetly and continue playing but if you take it seriously and bust the controller over someone’s head you know you made a mistake. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about going monk mode for the next 3-4 years. Thoughts?Don’t deliberately call out a monk mode. That defeats the purpose, don’t leave your job, don’t leave your family. Be normal. Do what normal people do just do it with another purpose. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | My girl wants to move in together. What should I do or say?You’re not married, you don’t have kids. She can push you all she wants just tell her no. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:11 AM |
| 5 | How would you have handled being teased sexually in the gym?This is it | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:10 AM |
| 2 | As a red piller, what's the goal of pursuing a LTR if there are no unicorns?Everyone is going to give off red flags. She might be beautiful in one area but in another may suffer. This area which she suffers is where her lesson in life are coming and is your job to show her it’s not that bad. So if you think of roses and blue sky’s what sorta expectation does that have for your women to live up too? It’s impossible for one person to meet all your needs. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to reject a girl without getting #metoo'd?No don’t do this fucking ambiguous advice that keeps coming up in this sub. Fuck | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Have girls ever approached you? How does that usually go for you?When they did, they usually seemed curious, scared but a little excited. Probably not far off from how I looked when I approach girls at the time. We all suffer we just get better at removing our insecurities | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Is no reschedule always a next?Build comfort, just be aware of where you draw the line. You don’t wanna become her girl friend. Most guys don’t banter because they are afraid of it hurting their tough guy image. I want you to text her at least 5-10 back and forth about any sorta nonsense you can think of even if it’s tacky like you just forgot rice at the store. If she follows up with do you always go to the store on Tuesday? Or something like that. You can use it to branch into her coming to hang out. It doesn’t matter so lo… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:32 AM |
| 3 | To what lengths have your exes gone trying to reestablish contact with you after you nexted/no contact them?Every single girl I no contact had wormed its way back into my inbox at some point. They aren’t ashamed one bit that you ghosted them and are probably just looking for a fuck. The real test is will you rely when you’re lonely? Don’t fucking dare | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the sidebar?Weight lifting 101 for noobs | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | On "Fake it till you make it"The best way I’ve used fake till you make it is to cal out people. You know who you are, no friends, drinking beer, has no sex, etc These guys are crabs in the bucket and usually follow the nice guy covert contracts of getting rich- to get laid. Fucking fake bitches if you ask me. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/18 12:15 AM |
| 5 | [FR] The Redpill at 18It doesn’t work like that. I had a mentor at 15 until I turned 23 and every guy I met in the game said I wish I knew this at your age. They werenot doing anything different than they were yesterday. Drinking beer, no friends, casual sex. Etc. The thing I want to mention to the young man who wrote this post is you’re all the man you will ever be today. Don’t let the old guys fool you into believing who they were yesterday wasn’t good enough. Your self worth is priceless, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/18 12:08 AM |
| 15 | Getting any girlfriend/plate is not your problem.I stopped jerking off to about once or twice a week at MOST and without porn. It’s finally enjoyable but it doesn’t replace a women... Nothing does | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Lifting questions - gains stalledKeep your diet in check too. Eating tons of carbs and whey protein won’t be enough. I typically try to eat as much meat as possible and usually get the greens I need with snacks like rice and broccoli bowls. The best foods are those that work for you. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How to I transition from sex with unattractive women to attractive ones?You could go cold turkey like I did. Approach the ugly girls is easy but if you want a challenge approach the hottest girl objectively to you at the time and take in all that approach anxiety because you KNOW she is going to dump cold water over your head faster than an ice bucket challenge. Embrace it! | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Pain in right shoulder when squattingYou got hurt. The shoulder joint is a common if not the most common injury in the gym because the way it moves against itself. Try not to use the heavy loads for a couple days and move on to another exercise like maybe Brazilian squat. I’m not a doctor but I know how it feels when you get disconnected from your goal over stuff like this. If it bothers you see a doctor but it’s probably nothing. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Don’t think my LTR is over her ex. Advice needed.Yep, and whatever you do don’t talk about her ex or try to negotiate attraction with her. Your probably just a rebound. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Off my chest: Why I swallowed the red pill and am trying to unplugThe signs were all there and now you can take joy in knowing we all agree with you.. Okay, that’s bullshit. None of us really care that you might have had your life ruined by a women. That’s not my bitch. We just want the truth. If you think about it you don’t need me to tell you that. Just look at how you feel. You’re not better off now then you were yesterday. Come back when you have had gotten laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/18 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Off my chest: Why I swallowed the red pill and am trying to unplugYou can still Nurture your beta instincts. So for example you wouldn’t turn down a raise at work because you don’t want to be a beta provider- that’s not normal. You wouldn’t turn down a fun trip to the beach because you wanna seem manly and defiant staying home alone at the fort- that’s not normal. The child in all of us needs nurturing we just need to stop them from driving the bus. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | She might be playing hard to getWell, fuck xD | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Why did I get banned from another subreddit ? Was it for recommending this sub ?Hey it’s me, fight club | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Hit 225 deadliftYup. A little trap activation will go a long way. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl with a boyfriend be stalking me on INSTAGRAM?LOL | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Clawing the way up hierarchies - social and otherwise. What is everyone holding back for?You mean instant gratification? Like all my nights when I stay up late playing battlefront 3? Dopamine is just a chemical like any other, alcohol, tobacco that our bodies become addicted too. You can break the habit but first you have to replace it. This is where affirmations are so useful. They remind you that what you are experiencing is false and that reality is you’re a spiritual being full of light and love. And not some shameful creature doomed to live a life on earth just to suffer. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Girls text...Ok yes and no. You want her to meet your needs but first you must get used to the revolutionary idea that you have needs. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than RegretMy issue is the rerunning old tapes that come up out of nowhere and distract me. I’ll be having a good time and I see that tape play of me calling my girlfriend when her NEW boyfriend is in the background telling her to hang up. If I ever reach for a girl to talk to me sometimes I hear myself saying just give up. She’s cheating on you, before I even open... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Feeling defeated and woman have too high expectationsDon’t get rid of your old beater (5s)until you can afford a new car. That does not make sense. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 06:06 AM |
| 10 | Mental FitnessKnowledge isn’t locked in books but it certainly can be used as a tool to push a narrative. Pardon the pun. But anyone who is trying to sell you something obviously has something to gain so be careful who you get your game from. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | The Reality Is ThisI have a job- security officer- and I have no friends there... I have two hobbies. Gym- no friends at the gym but I try to be open to meeting people there. I’ve never known any one in my family to use the gym so relating to guys who are going there just to get laid doesn’t work for me. Video games/ computer building- this hobby has proved time consuming but I really enjoy it. I’ve made my hackintosh and virtual reality is a big hit with girls I bring to the house. It’s more physical than sitting… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Don't you like me anymore? shit testWhen I was approached with this question, I assumed my LTR wasn’t interested in me and was already cheating on me or looking elsewhere. It’s called a self full-filling prophesy and I made it real... now I know it’s just a comfort test and can act with a different purpose from a different point of view. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 11:26 PM |
| -2 | Escalating socially awkward girlsThis looks like Oneitus. Eithe rhave sex with her or don’t but get it over with. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Cracking under pressure..........Push pull works at the gym and in social muscles. That’s why we tells guys to go to the gym. If you keep trying to do this by the book you’re going to crack. Let some of that steam out ever once in a while in a way that won’t hurt anyone. You may have heard the phrase, be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. You of all people should know that. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:28 AM |
| 1 | The toxic shame of being who you are in this society is reason enough to give up on women and I don’t want too.Thanks for sharing. I guess I’m just a perfectionist. I’m told not to be a nice guy but the alternative is still crazy. So I’ve been trying to work on being a better me and it just doesn’t work. Who would of thought of just being yourself works? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | "Why Do Girls Dump Their Boyfriends?" An introduction to Generation-Z and whats to comeNow thats a hard act to follow. you're telling us to do the opposite of her Frame and the opposite of crazy is still crazy. So yes, lift, and be aware of which frame you're operating in but dont judge yourself for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Holding frame: 18 months down the lineThat’s not an indicator of anything. I watch movies and catch myself thinking about buying a new laptop or a new car but I don’t act on it. That’s what meditation is like, practically. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyI was recently listening on the Joe Rogan podcast with Jordan Peterson’s daughter and they mentioned, antisocial behavior is just as bad for you as smoking. The opposite of crazy is still crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | How do you get motivated to eat right?By finding foods you really like So I started drinking coffee without sugar. Then I stopped drinking coffee. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 04:23 AM |
| 13 | How do u guys keep a date interesting? What do u guys talk about?You sound like a nice guy, wanna year about my problems? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Have you had the fear of others watching/judging you when you approach women?You have nothing to lose. Be a Man and act like you have answers. No more mr. Nice guy is written by Robert a Glover. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Have you had the fear of others watching/judging you when you approach women?Sounds like your basic approach anxiety and whatever you think people will believe about you to be true or not is entirely in your conscious mind to keep you away from these women, it’s your ego doing its main job to protect your identity in over-drive. If you want to get past these responses without your ego getting involved then drive thru the fear. Remind yourself that you can handle it. Have you read no more mr. Nice guy? Your breaking free lesson is to approach at least women. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 09:22 AM |
| 1 | The unicorn fantasy that even TRP men have the hardest time letting go.Wow. I need more guys like you in my life to emulate. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 11:47 PM |
| 3 | My SMV has gone through the roof in comparison to earlier and I have lost ALOT of friends. How do I go about making them?Dude practically anything can be done to make friends. Playing poker, playing darts, hanging out in a vape lounge, arts and craft shops, the list goes on and on. It doesn’t matter what you do so long as you just do it, | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Being called 'buddy' by AMOGs: Condescending, or reading too much into it? Example included.It’s normal for guys who aren’t confident. You beat yourself up for not “being” the alpha male. Just shut up about the judge mental stuff and focus on what you can do. Like asking that “buddy” what he thinks of our current political climate, his job, etc. don’t be a stranger. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 02:16 AM |
| 2 | [18m] absolutely terrified of going on my first date with a girl I don't know. What should I do?I don’t know why you’re so scared. Just show up and talk to her. Jesus. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 02:10 AM |
| 2 | [18m] absolutely terrified of going on my first date with a girl I don't know. What should I do?Honestly I’m saving this for next time I get approach anxiety. ;-) | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 02:08 AM |
| 13 | I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With HintsWe call them Nice Guys, his breaking free lesson is to tell her to fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 01:31 AM |
| 4 | How to online date“As a white man, demographic matters!!” | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | gave random girl at gym a card with my name and numberLife happens in the middle, you don’t have to live when you get out of from the bottom to the top. If you need any proof of that look at the guys here who are approaching women. They didn’t wait for their retirement. Or the right girl. They made it happen. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.As far as texting goes. Just look at what you would normally do and see yourself as the man of the hour. Remember in Shakespeare, all the worlds a stage and all the men and women are merely players. Some women have life’s and dictate who is going to be in the male gender role, don’t upset yourself over her rejection. Abundance is key. "I frequently encourage recovering Nice Guys to be just who they are, without reservation...The people who like them just as they are will hang around. The people … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Distrust that Particular FlavourIn other words. We’re all created equal under god. Indeed, there is a difference between being and behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How to be funny and improvise on command without much effortIt’s not his fault the crack pipe is attached to his body! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How to be funny and improvise on command without much effortIf you’re funny you will use a pickup line not as a serious form of picking up chicks but as a lighthearted way of entertaining yourself because you know not to take it seriously | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | I can't fucking stop smilingYou’re trying way to hard for people who don’t even matter. They probably think you’re a psycho looking for the insane asylum. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 05:33 AM |
| 2 | How can you tell when you're evoking charisma?When people ask you what the fuck you think your doing, you’ve gotten their attention. I get most of this from guys when I hit on a girl their vetting. For instance a women at a house party was approaching me and said I don’t like the host because I was acting like I was and therefore she felt the presence. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 05:09 AM |
| 9 | Frame can drastically affect women’s emotionsFreud’s book, The analysis of the ego and group psychology is the greatest book ever fashioned by man. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Went monk-mode and lost desire to have sexI think you broke a couple of habits so it’s time to replace them again, to embrace change and never remain stagnant. You need to be approaching women if it means you get rejected; you have nothing to lose but you have to work on a strategy. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 07:25 AM |
| 1 | What are some good tips to remember on a 1st date with a high value women?This. If she’s reciprocating your text and doesn’t flake on the date, turn the escalation up to max settings and then let her turn it down for you. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How do u act or keep a normal conversation in a group setting?Keep the pressure on others, get the win. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 12:50 AM |
| 21 | Maladaptive Daydreaming - The root cause of mental masturbation and miseryImagine these conversations aren’t with people but with your self, observing yourself. If you can remember a time when you weren’t judgmental and you see yourself judging yourself , it helpful to separate between the two. The real world and fantasy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:46 PM |
| -3 | She doesn't sympathize with youThis is stereotypical nice guy behavior, why are you getting upvotes? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:38 PM |
| 6 | She doesn't sympathize with youMy mom acts like she’s the prize when me and my step dad have a fight and she try’s to leave. He will try and say look at this, pointing the finger at me. But She does nothing to help me when he drinks and pushes me around. I need to move out.... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How did YOU get your dopamine levels in control?“I never leave once I’m there.” Some say he still there... | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | RP singlesCupkkake- “Vagina” YouTube | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Boomerang GameBottom bitch, beta bucks, billy bob, think of the women who would call the manager in a fuss at the department store but in Nike Monarchs and balding with a fat wallet, perhaps even a fanny pack when he takes the kids out. His favorite songs are completely cool but in reality to him are melancholy and his whole life is blue. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Bored and unimpressed with sluts. I genuinely want an LTR. Am I in an unhealthy mindset?You can either have sex with a different women every week or marry your wife. There’s two sides to the game. Most guys aren’t willing to admit it when they think they can slay women and their ego are so fragile they can’t understand how to mate with women. Truth is, everybody is gonna hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 10:44 AM |
| 1 | #BookShelfChallengeI highly recommend Fact-Fulness its the highly praised book by bill gates that he wont stop talking about. It will change the way you take tests and view statistics probably for the rest of your life. The main idea is The world isn't getting worse, its getting better because science. When choosing a multiple choice question/ answer, you can almost always count on the positive answer which may seem OBVIOUS until you really understand what this means. Statistics are too be judged according to the … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 07:07 AM |
| 2 | The expression of LoveThere’s two sides to the game. Red pill or blue pill. Just be aware of which frame you’re operating in. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 09:10 AM |
| 2 | A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your GirlIf she wants you to know some guy is getting fresh with her, you’re probably too late to intervene but if you see it happening simply step in and say hey is there a problem? So Like a cop might do when he investigates. You can set a boundary. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "Mental health" is a form of cuckholding peopleI really like what your saying, thanks for sharing. Mental health is in every book for depression, anxiety, medication, there all forms of the same disease. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Do Healthy Relationships Even Exist? Please HelpI feel u | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Is /r/TRP really going to waste?Yep. They need to take a nose dive before they can become awakened. You know the saying you can lead a horse to water but can’t make them drink it. This is another discussion for boundaries that applies here. You want to let them make shambles out of their life’s but within a FRAME.. My cousins nickname is MESSY BESSY because her parents have aloud her to do things that are pretty mischievous at times but it’s under guidance of a teacher. She’s a real character. That’s not to say you should be l… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Is /r/TRP really going to waste?Well if they leave then it was their time. If this community needs more posts the teacher will appear when the students ready. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:23 AM |
| 7 | How do I know you’re not a psycho ?“FaceTime me, show me this isn’t a catfish” Insta comfort and you can later close the date based on this escalation. Thank me later. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Being called sexist by girlfriend for refusing to be penetrated by a phallus shaped silicone toy. How to proceed?Ah ahah that’s funny. She wasn’t scared I’ll tell you that. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl is giving me the “what are you looking for” shit test, did I handle it ok?Lmao. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Being called sexist by girlfriend for refusing to be penetrated by a phallus shaped silicone toy. How to proceed?My ex girlfriend tried doing booty stuff with me, I said hey I ain’t gay. She tried it two or three more times and I left that relationshit | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Reach peak state or God Mode before dateYou can play some sexy music, Tupac, drake, or my favorite Cupkkake “Vagina” xD | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Day Game resources?Vince valentine YouTube stuff is pretty spot on. I think the channel is called Limitless EXP | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Is fucking chubbys 4s and 5s better than fucking nothing?Well, look at this way. If you were with a hot chick, would you be worried about all the other hot CHICCS you’re missing out on or would you focus on what you do have? Be careful who you get your Game from lil homie. That’s all I’m saying, | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:53 PM |
| -1 | A kissed a girl with a BF today, how do I act around herIf you act like a man wit her and you like her just tell her you want to be exclusive. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Kind of a stupid question......but is the game plan to get with girls who are more conservative different than your ordinary college chick???When it comes to smell of you can smell a girls pheromones it means she has the opposite set of genes which make for a good immune system for baby’s. So if you smell her b.o. chances are she’s a good catch. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Are muscles really that useful?Stop hanging out with guys with no game, it’s like a negativity and a sickness and it’s just going to bring you down. Find some friends with the same goals as yours who like to lift and game chicks. These guys will seem just as robust and shy as you are just be their friend. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:47 PM |
| 18 | FR: My first experience with a white knight and getting accused of 'sexual assault'No, and they won’t tell you about her boyfriend until as you found out, the hard way unless you ask her out. Doesn’t matter though you got a white night to show up and save a hoe,;not yours just your turn... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 11:35 PM |
| 82 | FR: My first experience with a white knight and getting accused of 'sexual assault'I’ve had many nights this way with girls my guy. These girls who initiate with boyfriends want you to take them away, they want to be stolen. Soon as y’all start kissing you need to ask her if she wants to leave. I’ve texted girls with lines such, do you wanna go anywhere else? You wanna get outta here? That’s all a girl needs to skip over the line and you can have sex with her if she goes along with it. Good job on escalating though and not being a pussy... it could have been worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Stop Hating Girls, Otherwise You'll Never Grow UpWe all do it or tried it when the cards were stacked against us but that was a long time ago, right? Excelsior | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Stop Hating Girls, Otherwise You'll Never Grow UpYou have rationalized yourself or better yet played yourself into believing your own fantasy, no one is going to come rescue you from MGTOW. No one can help you unless you want to be helped. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I understand everything now.So you’re trolling us because they didn’t wanna sleep with you? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Weak ass interaction with old crushThat’s excellent Dude when life reaches out to you like this it’s a sin if you don’t reach back, im telling you it’s a sin if you don’t reach back. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Can men lose their ability to pair bond too?Getting your emotional needs met during sex doesn’t work. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:58 AM |
| 3 | [Dating Apps] Here is how easy it can be...Textbook romantic conquests right there, I don’t care who you are that’s how it’s done. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 02:53 AM |
| -5 | First time pool date with potential plateYou don’t have to do all that gay shit just tell her to get in the water and proceed to rub your dick on her while she rides you cowgirl or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 08:34 AM |
| 2 | What’s better: Dating a girl who has low self esteem or high self esteem?She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 05:25 AM |
| 6 | Long term plate response to hanging out: “can we say yes for now but play it by ear” - how would you respond?Tell her to go fuck herself | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | What’s better: Dating a girl who has low self esteem or high self esteem?“If you want to be happy for the rest of you life, don’t make a pretty women your wife. So from my personal point of view Get an ugly women to marry you” | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Advice for after a successful first date?After a successful first date you shouldn’t be patting yourself on the back. If you want to continue seeing this chick you need to focus on your goals, the mission, and work on getting yourself your own place. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How do i become happy with being alone by myselfIt’s good advice to leave social media because if you’re not already using it and getting laid there’s something wrong and it’s time to asses the bigger picture. You my friend just need to take a break, don’t delete your account or stop replying to your friends post. Just be normal. Do what everybody else is doing | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you make interesting social circles?Don’t be a jerk. If everyone in your social circle is playing fortnite then be normal. Do what everybody else is doing | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Clarification: Don't shit where you eat?Not shitting where you eat is like dating your cousin. Just do it. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a book on emotionAll you need to know about this is in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Girls looking at meGo ask her out dummy | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Advice for after a successful first date?I used to do this and my parents warned me about my house turning into a motel. Lmao. No kidding | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How to esclate at a small GatheringLiterally ask her you wanna get out of here? If you have sex or do something sexual don’t come back to the gathering and act coy. They will know. People can smell pussy from a mile away. Trust me. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel bad about leaving a plate?Guilt is the common denominator in all our relationships. You have to be respectful of others peoples wishes if you want the relationship to flourish. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | not seeing any progress in the gym. What am i doing wrong?Your diet and sleep is important. Most guys think if they show to the gym for two hours and go home they did enough but no no no, you got me all wrong. What you do in the gym is just as important. Lifting correctly matters the most. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:58 AM |
| 5 | How did you learn to reflexively answer questions with funny remarks, opposed to actually answering?Your advice is insane, I love it. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 16 | Female blogger unknowingly confirms TRP principles to a tee.That last paragraph makes me shudder. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 11:23 PM |
| -3 | Initiation for men just isn’t happening.I don’t wanna be shamed by you if that’s alright with you... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Initiation for men just isn’t happening.I’ve noticed a lot of young in the military”be all you can be” in the Army. Uninitiated boys if you ask me | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 04:32 PM |
| -5 | Initiation for men just isn’t happening.I’m sorry I wanted it to seem sincere. Formal initiations don’t just happen. They are consciously motivated rites of passage. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 04:22 PM |
| 3 | What Do Men Want - *how soon to have sex*I feel like having sex early on sets up the relationship to just go downhill. It’s happened to me many times where I only needed to have sex with a girl once and never felt like calling her back . Sometimes she was sexy and not your average one night stand but I don’t know there was just something missing. On the other hand, figuratively speaking girls who I went on three or four dates with before having sex usually made more effort since the sex hadn’t happened yet. I don’t feel like that’s sol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/18 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number at the gym... How do i go about this?I was thinking about hitting the gym, getting the endorphins going with her and then taking her out to eat. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:25 PM |
| 2 | LTR Social Media VettingThe real challenge is finding women who DONT put shit on social media. They usually have something to hide. You cant look at this subject as black and white. While its true most girls aren't fit for a LTR none of them are perfect. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number at the gym... How do i go about this?How do you feel about working out with chicks? Is it worth it? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you greet women?I greet them with my DICHHK | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 05:13 AM |
| 2 | How in the world do redpilled guys even pretend to be interested enough to hold something resembling a prolonged conversation with 90% of women?How do you know what you're doing right now isnt faking it? Couldn't you say you learned this behavior over repeated interactions or lack thereof? You know if you're attractive man when you talk to the old lady behind the counter, the butterface at work and the pretty girls down the street. You treat them all the same. No exceptions. More to the point you mentioned about holding a conversation theres a time and place for everything. If your mind is wondering as it often does just be conscious th… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 05:07 AM |
| 2 | FR: “I hate-fucked a guy”Men and women use sex to get their emotional needs met. It doesn’t work. For guys to take the blame for all of this isn’t a sexual strategy. It’s shame. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 11:20 PM |
| 18 | Picking up women should be easy for youNumber five is my weakest-link. I’m trying to think of ways I can escalate without going into a full frontal sexual assault. I’ve seen the signs where I need to move in but sometimes I fail to act and live in the moment. But I’m gonna be better than ever. My plan is to show these girls a good time and I am the prize. Damn new age spirituality is getting in the way of all that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone get fucked with hardcore after they started self improvement?Stop comparing all the things that are good for you and bad for them. Just leave it alone. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:11 AM |
| 3 | What to do when someone overly kisses your gucking ass to get on your side.Okay, I get this feels strange so maybe you have some inner wounds from childhood that make you think she is hurting you . With older women, they love to tell me how tall how I am, how handsome I am. Some will tell me I’m too skinny to try and get me to prove I’m good enough. Its just a game man. All you gotta do is smile and take it on the chin. If it really makes you mad then just tell her to fuck off. I’m serious. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How to TheRedPill with your ADHDBipolar, ADHD, depression, dysphoria, all of these things are the mental disorders Hitler would use to clean the master race. There’s a word for this that classifies all mental disorders. It’s called neurotic. Psychologist would call you insane. But all of these things have a purpose for being in your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How come I barely ever see guys flirting with random girls?I see guys in the parking lot at gym chatting up women all the time. It really just reminds me this shit doesn’t mean anything. The whole don’t shit where you eat rule is ment to be broken but some guys can’t handle that opportunity so it’s better to enforce boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 12:50 AM |
| 6 | What kind of work does your wealthiest friend do?He owns a roofing company and employees most of my family and friends. Some of them are drug addicts knocking on doors selling roofs and they make 5k a month but my uncle who owns it is banking almost a million dollars this year. He started that company from nothing but has lots of construction experience. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanEffortlessly yes but unconsciously? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 12:01 PM |
| 10 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanBeware of your ego telling people your story or getting them to agree with you. There’s a saying around miserable people and they say misery likes company. So if you get caught arguing with your girlfriend or whatever then, maybe take a step back and say this isn’t our problem this is an inner child problem I’m dealing with and I need to asses this first. The more you can begin to catch an upset and remind yourself that you’re never upset for the reason you think the more you can detach from the… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 11:54 AM |
| 0 | How to handle this?Is that a bad thing? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:28 AM |
| 0 | How to handle this?Sorry I forgot to mention she wasn’t a virgin? lol what do you want me to say. I’m trying to encourage these guys. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:25 AM |
| 2 | How to handle this?I once picked up a girl who complimented how big my back seat was... so yeah just tell her we can move to a safe area and get it on | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:21 AM |
| 32 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a Woman“Justified” anger is a path to many abilities some would call unnatural. Have you heard the tragedy of darth plagues? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 09:08 AM |
| 76 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanYeah man, feelings are like children. You don’t wanna throw them in the trunk but you don’t want them driving the bus either. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to rent pussy?In this economy? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 07:03 AM |
| 3 | How to protect yourself against any possibility of rape accusation“Are you wearing a wire?” | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Girl just called me a chicc. How to respond?Dude I have, we’re gonna work out later. I need to stop taking this stuff so seriously. FR FR. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Girl just called me a chicc. How to respond?Ok so I just copy pasted your message cause why the fuck not and she said chicc-a-doodle-do. Lol | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 02:00 AM |
| -2 | Girl just called me a chicc. How to respond?Thanks for sharing | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 01:35 AM |
| 2 | What books do r/asktrp recommend?Iron John. The audio book is fantastic. I’ve listened to it two or three times and I find little bits that I didn’t notice the first time. The information is strictly Red Pill philosophy | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants a break. Where could this have gone wrong?Asking the real questions. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants a break. Where could this have gone wrong?She just wants to be friends. Don’t fuck this up! | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm actually enjoying much more in monk mode, unsure where to go from hereDon’t stop doing what you’re doing, mate. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 01:02 AM |
| 4 | 9yo daughter asks this question - how would you respond?“Pussy keeps this family together” | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I NEED SOME RED PILL MOVIES“Chances Are” with Robert Downey Jr is my favorite movie. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 11:25 PM |
| 35 | I'm an incel. I don't want to be incel anymore.He gave her chocolate milk and cookies but she wouldn’t suck his dick, un-fucking-believable. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about fucking your distant cousin? Would that qualify as incest?If it makes you feel any better I’ve been romantically interested in my first cousin. She likes me and I like her so just see where it goes. Escalate. Escalate. Escalate. Edit: the birth defects risks are mostly false. The risk is only 2-3% higher for cousins. As long as your family has no cousin repeats you should be fine. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Is a zero N count desirable?I think so. I’m a guy and I will tell you if I know some of the guys you slept with I won’t usually sleep with you but if I get the feeling your just looking for a ONS I won’t make you feel guilty or shameful. It just depends on my needs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/18 02:56 AM |
| 6 | where do you/did you meet your high quality man?I’m a guy forgive me for lurking here but I was considering going out with a girl who invited me to workout. I’m gonna make it a date. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Honestly what’s the difference between pursuing a relationship and Oneitus?Okay thanks | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Honestly what’s the difference between pursuing a relationship and Oneitus?May I ask you, what’s your ideal women? Does she cook and clean? My ideal women is pretty much this specific Suzan and I recognize I could find another. So that’s normal. She’s just cute and sexy and honestly I don’t wanna spend time on other girls.... | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:22 AM |
| 2 | You guys were right all along... and a question on monk modeMonk mode is literally feeding scarcity mentality because it enforces your addictive behavior and you keep feeding it with people in this forum and isolation. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Can't bring hookups homeOn using your car, and your driving her around. How do you smoothly move the car into a dark area without seeming obvious? Do you ask her? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Plate/semi LTR, decides to go on a two day trek with a male friend. Next?It’s time to move on. She’s not yours it’s just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:29 AM |
| 1 | 5 months clean. Need advice for weekends/ways to relax at night.Hell yeah! | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Should I buzz my head as 17yo?Yes | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Bamboozled by a realisation about a potential LTRIt sounds like you have feelings for her. Engage in some abundance mentality so you don’t start this woe is me shit when you hangout with her. Go hangout with some guys or approach some girls if only because you can not because you have too. AWALT | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.Oneitus is only there because she’s the only one, you need to meet other people and see all of us are lonely, scared and mostly depressed. You don’t have to throw the relationship out the window.. you’re the prize. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Recently quit my job due to stress (security guard) and am finding it difficult to hold frame and figure out my next move. Tips?As a security officer I know how you feel, this job is demanding and there’s no real money to be made but its a start. Do you have any interest in getting a tradesman job for day shift? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | im kinda autistic and need a judge.Why is she worthless? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 12:20 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyTime to move on. She’s not yours it’s just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:45 AM |
| 2 | What would you tell your 17 year old self?Stop wasting time with people who say they care about you and move on to people who actually try. Ninja edit: LIFT NOW | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 11:19 PM |
| 7 | My girlfriend of 2 years is attracted to our landlord.If you start acting weak, don’t you think she’s going to know you’re insecure? You need to own your power. You don’t have to throw the relationship out the window, or the baby out with the bath water. You’re the prize. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 01:09 AM |
| 166 | Bulletproof Mentality: How to be untouchable #1I can tell you you know what you’re doing man. This sub needs more of this and I hope you continue writing for us. It’s what we need. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | I came here to learn how to handle women, but accidentally learned how to handle men.I get shit tests from guys all the time, especially at work. I want to tell them to stop shitting where they eat. Lmao but in reality most guys aren’t this far in their process and would take it as a conflict. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | My first field report, roast me.Yeah I got it but self preservation... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Rejected or just the language barrier?"Hey cute are you here with anyone?" if shes cute she has to dance with you otherwise why waste your time? Logic. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl says over text, “lolllll you fkn kill me” after I make her laugh. What do I say?Trust your instincts OP, stop doubting yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Girl says over text, “lolllll you fkn kill me” after I make her laugh. What do I say?im upvoting you because theirs not enough smart ass commments in this sub!!! | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:22 AM |
| 2 | To stop masturbating you need to understand the energy.self improvement = masturbation. Lets get this circle jerk going, | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How long to wait before escalating on 1st date with a girls whos DTF?You can try but you have to gauge her interest. Rejection is a lot better than failure because you don’t want her to think you’re a wimp. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | A pick up artists two cents (We can all admit we are having fun)Sure, I’ll try. According to logic and reasoning, a good looking guy is also established with friends and money but we know this is not so. Just like money isn’t an indication of wealth. You’re friends could win the lottery but it doesn’t mean they have the skills necessary to replace the money they have. It’s that skill that women find attractive and it’s not what they teach you in the red pill. The red pill is still under the same laws as the feminine imperative that 2+2=4 | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 02:49 AM |
| 4 | How long to wait before escalating on 1st date with a girls whos DTF?I once asked a girl how she would feel going to a second bar after we left the first one. She was DTF and by the way people talk about moving around I thought it would be ok just tell her let’s go back to my house and drink instead because there’s less noise. As for the kissing, the best code of conduct is to save it for the moment you can potentially fuck. If she has any resistance to you getting your hands on her she will tell you right away. Don’t fuck up and tell her to go home like I see ma… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:27 AM |
| 3 | My first field report, roast me.Don’t make the red pill your life. Swallow the damn pill and move on. This sub isn’t my main focus either. I wrote this to help guys like you who are still taking baby steps, guys like me, to encourage them to go out and just see what happens. None of this shit means anything if you just read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | A pick up artists two cents (We can all admit we are having fun)I’m going to give this post a well deserved 5/10 What we need to teach is not 2 plus 2 equals 4 But 2+2=5 You were very close. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 11:58 PM |
| 23 | What words mean:I think I saw him at Stop n Go Bumming a cig, | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 11:05 PM |
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