Guys only like me for my pussy!

redpillmofo · 2014-01-26T17:33:07+00:00

Pussy's not all I want unless that's all you got. - Patrice O'Neal.

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Archwinger · 2014-01-26T15:31:26+00:00

Whenever I made a move for sex, and my wife shot me down, she very often said, "You only want me for sex!"

My reply was similar every time. "That's offensive. Not the implication that I want and enjoy sex. That's normal and not offensive at all. You not wanting sex is what's abnormal. But when you say I'm only in this for sex, you're essentially calling me an idiot. If I only want you for sex, where the fuck is all this sex I'm in this for? You think I somehow haven't noticed that we only have sex once a month? If I only want sex, where is the damn sex? What am I still doing here?"

PimpMasta · 2014-01-26T18:01:32+00:00

Depends on their audience:

Group: It's a plea for attention - bragplaining if you will. She's telling the people around her how much guys want her body, but if she makes it sound like she's the victim of shallow sex fiends (men), she gets some reassuring compliments ("No way, you have so much to offer") for basically...bragging.

Solution: ignore attention starved people.

Girlfriends/orbiters: It's the hamster at work - rationalizing slutty behaviour/ONSs. It's not that she not LTR material, it's the men who are always in it just for the sex.

Dates - if she's accusing you: Shit test - young girls use this one a lot. See, women don't like rejection and they know about the power of pussy. So "you only like me for the sex" is a sure way for her to get guys that want to keep fucking her, to say some validating shit like "Don't be ridiculous, I enjoy [random flattering bullshit]". She's testing to see how addicted to the pussy you are - how willing you are to work for it - it's a commitment trap for betas.

Solution: It's a shit test, yet agree and amplify will be too shocking for most women, unless you make it harmless - something like "Obviously, you have a magic vagina, it's distracting"

Women actually love to be objectified by men they're attracted to - they protest (mostly in public) because they care about image, so it's a bad idea to objectify them in public (the anti-slut shield goes into overdrive).

A great way for you romantic motherfuckers in LTRs to exibit those few beta displays that keep the "are you going to stick around" insecurities at bay IS to objectify your girl from time to time, in private. It assures them that they're still the object of your desire - makes them feel like women . Slap their bum on their way out the door. When they ask how some article of clothing looks on them, don't say anything, just stare at their body with a predatory look on your face while breathing out loud, then chase them around the room. My girl giggles like a school girl throught the whole thing.

TL;DR Women like to be objectified

They protest because:

a) it's other women not them who are getting the attention (see: feminism)

b) they're in public and it goes against the feminist imperative/good girl image.

c) it's being done by low value men - no woman ever complains when Snoop calls them "bitch".

mojo_magnifico · 2014-01-26T22:36:15+00:00

Girl: "Guys only like me for my pussy"

Me: Oh my God don't you hate that?! Girls only like me for my dick. It's like hello, I'm a human being...

IllimitableMan · 2014-01-26T15:43:23+00:00

Her: "I'm not an object."

You: "You sound disappointed, let's change that."

key402 · 2014-01-26T19:44:17+00:00

Most women that complain about being used as "sex objects" are looking for men who are "success objects". That is, they only want a man who is highly respected, successful and of course sexually attractive as well. I'm not saying that with any malicious intent, because all humans want the best they can get when it comes to sexual parters, careers, status, etc...but it really annoys me when I see women who aren't intelligent enough to even see their own hypocrisy.

10J18R1A · 2014-01-26T17:51:33+00:00

Go to any popular dating website. Now go to the women's profile. Drink everytime you see mentions of jobs, finances, houses, "chivalry", and "if you only want sex, don't bother".

Enjoy being wasted in 15 minutes.

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FortunateBum · 2014-01-26T19:03:48+00:00

This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but...

Subconsciously, women are fucking to secure resources. They prefer "Alphas". Alpha = greater resources.

Attractive women fuck exclusively high status men because they can get these kinds of men. Subconsciously, they are fucking to get resources of some sort even if that resource is only friendship of a sort.

So guess how that woman feels after fucking and the guy drops her like a rock? She feels violated. Like she was robbed. And from her subconscious POV, she was robbed.

MegMartinson · 2014-01-26T17:42:04+00:00

When she refuses you with that nasty comment, just leave for a few hours every now and then.

Seriously, leave the house immediately. Go to the ATM and withdraw a few hundred bux. Squirrel that money away somewhere she cannot find it. You are going to need it later one way or another.

Come back a few hours later with a cheerful disposition and a smile on your face. When she asks where you've been tell her it is none of her business. Adopt an attitude of don't give a shit what she thinks or says. Think: "Outcome independent". Do NOT initiate or respond to her initiations for a few weeks.

Lawyer up. It's over anyway.

heavilyarmedclown · 2014-01-26T23:17:10+00:00

The girls who claim that guys only like them for their pussy haven't realized that it's because they have nothing else to offer of any value. The real problem here is a lack of introspection, motivation for self improvement, and shallow friendships that lack honest criticism.

anarchopianist · 2014-01-26T18:22:56+00:00

If you want to be liked for you, get a better fucking personality, get some hobbies that are interesting. I cant take a dump on a piece of paper and whine to people to think it should go in a fucking museum.

The fact of harsh reality is that for something to be of high value, there ha to be it's negative, for there to be beauty there has to be uglieness, or else nothing is truly beautiful. This moral that every thing is beautiful just takes away the value from that which really evokes passion inside of us.

TooTurnt · 2014-01-26T23:20:52+00:00

Chicks don't know what they want, and they sure as fuck can't verbalize. Here's a tip, assume 95% of what women say is bullshit. Judge them by their actions.

oxygenjoe · 2014-01-26T18:27:43+00:00

Well yeah, that's like Domino's complaining that people only like them for their pizza.

ScannerSloppy · 2014-01-26T21:03:37+00:00

Girls just love to complain. They don't want their problems solved. Drama is what makes life enjoyable for them.

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[deleted] · 2014-01-26T21:55:20+00:00

Those sort of women don't think they are sluts.

Clauderoughly · 2014-01-26T15:39:45+00:00

It's women pretending not to be sluts.

"I'm not an object" Is a bullshit feminist shit test.

"You only want me for my pussy" can be countered with "you only want me for my wallet"

Really though, its a shit test trying to get you to dominate her. Keep your frame and you'll be fine.

Kimjungillestt · 2014-01-27T01:31:50+00:00

Its funny because it goes for white knights that complain about being friend zoned. Well maybe if you had more going for you than being nice towards women then you would get somewhere.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-01-27T04:23:51+00:00

Quite simply it's because women don't even consider anything below an alpha to be a man, and even if she does marry a rich beta she'll still fuck alphas the entire time.

Google hypergamy.

ilike2partyhowaboutu · 2014-01-26T21:42:19+00:00

bragplaining

"I don't have much else to offer but it works so lemme talk mostly about it so we are clear on what I have to offer as I get pumped and dumped constantly and somehow I think bragging about it will get me the man I deem I want"

monsieurhire2 · 2014-01-26T17:58:09+00:00

I think you answered your own question. If she's only fucking alphas that are into her for sex, then it appears that "all men" only like for sex, even though she's excluding all the poem-reading, boombox-bearing, blue-pill betas, the bronies, the feebs, dweebs, etc. etc.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-01-26T23:38:55+00:00

She "has to know it"? No, girls, from personal experience use denial as their #1 defense mechanism. I was just reading the other day about a woman in her 30's who had 5 kids and was having sex with a young college guy. The guy was in good shape, and she claimed he was out of her league... Now, tell me, how do you think that is going to end up? Clearly he is just using her, but girls don't like to see it this way. They will gamble their body, in the hopes that they might develop strong feelings or get attached. After all, that is what they think they deserve; so why shouldn't it happen? But the denial only last sooo long; usually until their 30's. And that is where plan B comes in. The "good guy". Sad, but true.

caius_iulius_caesar · 2014-01-27T05:18:55+00:00

They still know it's true, but they're prepared to overlook it for an alpha enough guy.

Kinda like you're prepared to overlook being wanted for your money if it's Emma Watson.

abcd_z · 2014-01-27T05:29:57+00:00

"I know! I hate it when women treat me like an object! I am more than just a sausage with legs, dammit!"

Cruising74 · 2014-01-27T11:09:01+00:00

It's all about what they do - not what they say.

If they've got the tingles that over rides anything they've said, their 'morals' etc. it all goes out the window.

Later on, the hamster will rationalise anything they've done and there's a bunch or orbiters to console her.

6TLaRm4g · 2014-01-27T15:25:42+00:00

Maybe it's a shit test/shit filter to find a provider who she won't need to fuck.

johnnight · 2014-03-04T08:20:45+00:00

"Girls only like me for my alpha confidence. I'm not a status object."

Brosama220 · 2014-01-26T20:14:24+00:00

Well, who says that it's alphas that she is fucking?

GaiusScaevolus · 2014-01-26T19:59:00+00:00

Solopsism

mbillion · 2014-01-26T17:08:34+00:00

I am an alpha and to say that I am only interested in pussy is false. I like to have somebody who can carry on an intellectual conversation, share interests with me, knows how to participate in social activities, is not clingy etc.. its not all about intercourse, if you think it is, you are missing the point

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itaintmebabe52 · 2014-01-26T20:01:27+00:00

I was told there would be pussy pictures . . .

Title	Guys only like me for my pussy!
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	147
Comments	175
Date	January 26, 2014 3:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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