I’d wife me 💍

ilovewinniethepooh · 2021-08-26T17:31:36+00:00

I would not wife me right now, (I was doing really well for a stretch, then I fell off because of home life/pandemic) but I’m working on it!

aclick1999 · 2021-08-26T17:25:07+00:00

Ummm...yes. If you asked men this question they'd hands down say no. I take care of my health, I buy myself nice things, I save for myself and check in with my mental health. The most HVM in the world will NEVER take better care of you than you would yourself.

So even if you have one, you need to keep dating yourself. Just to remind yourself what you're deserving of.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-08-26T18:37:22+00:00

No, not right now. I’m still a work in progress, but ask me again in December and I’ll wife myself in a heart beat 💖✨

MadamLeFay · 2021-08-26T16:47:05+00:00

I bought myself a new vehicle for my birthday- any man gonna top that?

TigreImpossibile · 2021-08-27T00:56:15+00:00

Fuck yes, I would! In fact, I say what I'm really looking for is a male me, lol. I can't find it! I'd love to find someone that is financially independent and enjoys a similar travel style to me, is open-minded and a great friend.

I'm also funny and I have the cutest dog, hehe.

ishika_23 · 2021-08-26T16:38:39+00:00

Omg yes! I'd prefer myself over any guy out there in the world

Wild_Artio · 2021-08-26T18:23:39+00:00

I will always want to date me (now). That’s the part I never worked on. And I can thank my narcopath ex, bc he made glaringly obvious what was missing. Self trust, self acceptance, self love and self forgiveness. We don’t have to be a catch to date ourselves!! I have higher standards for myself now, though. Before I put myself out there, I will meet those standards. We don’t have to be date material to date ourselves! We have to date ourselves so that we ARE. We have to love ourselves unconditionally, because we as women aren’t loved unconditionally. And pickmes aren’t born out of unconditional love but the opposite! Unconditional internalized self hatred. I get the point, but I don’t like how it feels shaming even if the intention is motivation.

If you’re a work in progress, please date yourself! You won’t get the progress if you don’t! If you’re a pickme, date yourself until and so you learn your company is ten thousand times better than being chosen by any random scrotato.

spacebound232 · 2021-08-26T18:55:40+00:00

Id treat me like a god damn queen, go to bed every night telling how beautiful I am and how grateful I am to be with me. I’m the fkn best

IndigoTR · 2021-08-26T19:56:41+00:00

I always say this!!! If I was a man I would think I was an amazing catch. Beautiful, smart, funny, hardworking, supportive. But most of these men don’t even love themselves, so how could they love me?

undertheunderbelly · 2021-08-27T01:04:36+00:00

Fuck yeah I'd date me. A woman who's got 2 corgi's, has her shit together, adventurous, has her own $$, and fun?

I love that I can say that now. When I was in my 20's , the answer was a resounding no.

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-08-26T17:08:59+00:00

Yes! And will be doing so for the foreseeable future 🥰🤍✨

andwhenwillitbegin · 2021-08-26T17:43:15+00:00

Oh wow, I definitely would! What a catch. I would have married me the minute I met me. 😂

SlayOfSunshine · 2021-08-27T01:45:40+00:00

We our worthy of others’ love and our own love even on our worst days. I’m trying to remember that, wish me luck 😭❤️

daglowup · 2021-08-27T07:57:19+00:00

Shit yes. It's taken me a long time to realise this but I am way, way better than any man I've fallen for and I've always been that bitch. I'm never abandoning myself again.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-26T19:08:12+00:00

I hope I can love myself like that again.

kitnb · 2021-08-26T19:05:13+00:00

I’d wife me then reaffirm my vows and get married to myself again and again. I’m just that good. 👸🏽

stealthreplife · 2021-08-26T18:29:17+00:00

I love this! Hell yeah I would wife me up in a second

comet2004 · 2021-08-26T21:06:35+00:00

yeah to the point where im looking for a guy similar to me lol. i love how genuine but blunt I am and what a good friend i am and how my priorities are always on point. I could go on and on 🤣

snowwhite224 · 2021-08-26T18:01:24+00:00

After leveling up physically, mentally and spiritually over the last year ABSOLUTELY.

cocojellygummybear · 2021-08-27T18:14:41+00:00

Since getting rid of my ex I have been dating myself regularly. The last month has been hectic as I booked my very first Business to business trade fair in less than two weeks 😬. (I'll soon have stockists 🥰) So I've not had a date with myself recently,but it's my birthday in a few weeks and I intend to take myself out, dress up and wear the new lipstick I bought a month ago. Ladies date YOU, because YOU deserve it no matter where you are in life.

apple_cores · 2021-08-27T02:42:39+00:00

I for sure would! I’m smart, trustworthy, loving, kind, interesting, funny, beautiful, alluring, Curious, educated, constantly learning, sexy, in good shape, and I don’t have eyes for anyone who is not my partner. Who wouldn’t want that?

tonha_da_pamonha · 2021-08-26T20:10:03+00:00

My husband is getting rusty lately, and I had a talk that I wasn't going to ask for things anymore from him because I am tired of disappointment. I went shopping and came home with flowers, and he said ooo pretty! I said I know! Theyre for me 🥰! He said he was sorry for not buying me flowers, and i said thats ok, I really enjoy to show myself love. This man has been trying much harder to take care of me since I showed him that I am worth it because I will take care of me regardless. Show yourself love every day! How can someone love you if you dont love yourself?

swatir24 · 2021-08-27T16:04:49+00:00

Yes!

Just last night I was thinking that all I want is a partner who is all the things I am in a relationship.

warinmymind94 · 2021-08-27T18:41:20+00:00

Tooting my own horn for where I am right now (even though I still have a longer way to go)... I'd be getting me flowers, I'd be texting me checking in and making plans to see me, I'd get all dressed up and polished up to see me, I'd stand in the cold rain and give me my umbrella, I'd hold the door for me, I'd be doing everything I could just to impress me

cutsforluck · 2021-08-26T17:58:02+00:00

🎵 IN YOUR EYES 🎵

Hot_coffee_and_Rain · 2021-08-26T19:58:50+00:00

Yeah, I would feel lucky to have me. :)

NoOrdinaryLifeXO · 2021-08-26T20:43:52+00:00

Absolutely.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-08-27T02:48:15+00:00

Same.

2021-08-27T08:34:19+00:00

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Title	I’d wife me 💍
Author	LaTaina87
Upvotes	2641
Comments	59
Date	August 26, 2021 4:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pc2vw0/id_wife_me/
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