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The tea is hot

Myplummms

December 18, 2021
2916 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Title The tea is hot
Author

Myplummms

Upvotes 2916
Comments 50
Date December 18, 2021 3:31 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/riycdz/the_tea_is_hot/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-tea-is-hot.1091874
https://theredarchive.com/post/1091874
Top posts by Myplummms

I got you, babe.

8761 upvotes
December 11, 2020
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.

5206 upvotes
February 1, 2021
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and that’s on periodt

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Great job Jaines! You’ve got power inside of you 🙏

4329 upvotes
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Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.

3398 upvotes
December 9, 2020
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If you ain't serious, send me on my way and I will thank you. Sadly, LVM love to string women along with the hope of something permanent. I'm good.

3147 upvotes
January 8, 2021
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Men of this generation are so disappointing....

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December 24, 2020
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That's on that - period.

3086 upvotes
January 23, 2021
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Comments

[–]LizzoSaidTruthHurtsFDS Newbie 90 points91 points92 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Be wary of the male feminists who will gaslight you into thinking they actually respect women when they don’t. They’re honestly the worst. Typical “niceguys”

[–]d1gb1gg3rFDS Newbie 224 points225 points226 points 4 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

Men should always clean the toilet🙄 they’re the ones that pee everywhere like children.

[–]warinmymind94FDS Disciple 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They leave a "snail trail" of poop down the bowl and o don't even know how they can be that dirty and then just leave it. So unsanitary

[–]jetcakeFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some time ago there was an AITA thread where the OP (woman) had her boyfriend move in with her (first mistake). The guy was such a moron and left a train of piss on the toilet and drips all over the floor around the toilet every time used the bathroom.

She cleaned the area with disinfecting wipes, yet it kept happening. Her solution came in the form of putting the extra pee pads from when she was trying to housebreak her puppy and cutting them to satisfy the shape of the area around the bottom of the toilet. Way too labor intensive - in my opinion - and her boyfriend flipped out that she was treating him like a dog.

The read was hilarious, but as a whole was a disgusting reminder of how a glaring majority of guys treat an in-home bathroom as if it was a public restroom. Women can't get away with leaving a toilet in the same condition, so why shouldn't guys be held accountable?

[–]malibooyeahFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No kidding. And shit everywhere.

[–]thediverswifeFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

The seat up, every time? So annoying

[–]jetcakeFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Every time my boyfriend comes to visit, without fail he is leaving the seat up. Funny, he doesn't do that at his apartment. I can't figure out how the absentmindedness only seems to descend upon him here.

Is it bad that I am trying to come up with ways to get back at him or even prank him for continuing to do this? Taking suggestions! : )

[–]aquietswordFDS Newbie 569 points570 points571 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Fucking YES. Every guy I know who has ever painted his nails was basically just an "I'm not like other boys" attention whore who was exactly like other user assholes.

[–]halebaIeFDS Newbie 98 points99 points100 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Lmao. They only break gender norms they like, like having you pay for dates, propose to them or wearing nail polish but when it comes to things they don’t like, all of a sudden they’re “tRadiTiOnaL”.

[–]abby_ch238FDS Newbie 444 points445 points446 points 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

Lmfao the guys on tiktok wearing nail polish and long earrings are the biggest f boys

[–]donttextme_kFDS Newbie 250 points251 points252 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

And it’s all black nail polish ☠️

[–]4foot11 88 points89 points90 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s always black polish on bitten nails with their cuticles grown half way up their nails and they never use base coat or top coat. Taking care of your nails and doing a proper manicure is too feminine for them 🤧

[–][deleted] 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The grown ass men I've always seen coming into the nail salon with their wives and children, or coming from work or whatever, either get just a buff or clear polish. Getting colors and acrylics and all of that has to be at least 50/50 with men who actually like it and men who just want teenage girls to like them. No way they've all just discovered how much they like nail polish.

[–]ChgItToRayGunYouFuckFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

What's hilarious is the ONLY guy I know personally who dresses like that is an HVM. Treats his wife super well and his look definitely is deceiving.

I've known him since high school, and he's always been an HVM.

[–]Noemie_MathildeFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good to know a man can wear nail polish and clean the loo 😁

[–]Specific-Composer300FDS Newbie 120 points121 points122 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Right! They give off MAJOR cheater, gaslight, f*ck boy vibes.

[–]throwthefaway1234 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

“babe i’m sorry i cheated but i got you a special edition apex monster energy drink 🥰😍 uor my wolrd baby”

[–]hensbanexFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this comment physically injured me I think you channeled my ex 😂

[–]ThatIntention1FDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Biggest misogynists too

[–]thinktwiceorelseFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My IG feed is filled with them, I block one after another, but they keep showing up for some reason, I hate this.

[–]ArtisticBrilliant491FDS Newbie 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That tea is scalding hot! Yasssssss!!!! 100 percent.

And to all the "girl dads" out there showing off their painted nails but still letting mom do 98.9999999998898888888999999% of the parenting and household drudgery, get off your asses and show with your actions instead of your cute little nails what a real supportive man does: make a doc appt for his kid, vacuum w/o being asked, buy the teacher's gift, remember to sign the homework and wash the masks, scoop the litter box, etcetera, etcetera......

[–]scooter_seFDS Newbie 223 points224 points225 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Men like that paint their nails so they don’t have to clean under them

[–]imnotfitforexistenceFDS Newbie 79 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So gross, but probably so true 🤢🤮😂

[–]2340000FDS Apprentice 156 points157 points158 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I fucking screamed 😂😂

[–]xfelugirlxFDS Newbie 115 points116 points117 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This, they try so hard but homeboy can’t even cook a tomato sauce without almost burning everything

[–]MyLifeIsWandsXIIIFDS Newbie 60 points61 points62 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

They can't boil water without burning it LMAO

[–]SpittensFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Flashing back to the time my ex-husband nearly burned the house down trying to make box Mac n' Cheese because I was still too groggy from surgery anesthesia......

[–]PeengwinFDS Newbie 338 points339 points340 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

A straight dude in nail polish is def virtue signaling to a pickme libfem who will create a whole narrative about how "he's different"

[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Newbie 192 points193 points194 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I could write a whole dissertation on this. You're completely right. I used to paint my nails while watching tv and eventually my ex wanted to try it, but only on his toes so he could cover them out in public. It meant I was the only person who ever knew about the virtue signaling and "how comfortable he was in his masculinity." Yet he was awful at painting his nails and refused any of my advice or tips so even something performative was tainted by "I'm a man and don't take advice from a woman" on a typically feminine activity.

The whole thing was just weird and now my inner emo kid is very conflicted about men who wear nail polish.

[–]MaingurlFDS Apprentice 98 points99 points100 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yet he was awful at painting his nails and refused any of my advice or tips so even something performative was tainted by "I'm a man and don't take advice from a woman" on a typically feminine activity.

I've noticed the same thing on makeup forms. You can't critique or criticize any makeup look done by a man lol. Especially when they claim they are trying it for the first time etc.

It is all about virtual signaling and receiving inauthentic compliments. It just amazes me... because women on makeup forms don't receive the same energy.

[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Omg yes the makeup forums! You can't even nicely suggest using brushes for blending when it looks like something a toddler painted on. Not to mention the posts that are obviously a fetish but rarely get called out.

[–]FDS-GFYFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We can’t speak about the fetish without being labeled bigots.

[–]MaingurlFDS Apprentice 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao, it's true.

On top of that, these guys think they're doing something revolutionary by wearing nail polish lol. They're not.

[–]Specific-Composer300FDS Newbie 83 points84 points85 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It's nice that they visually show us whom to avoid though.

[–]MorthaPFDS Newbie 54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men have been wearing nail polish for ages (black polish for goth dudes for example) but only recently are people pretending this somehow means they're embracing their feMinIne siDe or whatever

[–]MaingurlFDS Apprentice 82 points83 points84 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Like when Harry Styles wore nail polish lol?

Everyone was talking about how revolutionary it was...when in reality he was trying to sell us a $65 nail polish set. 🤣

That old saying is true, "There's a sucker born every minute" lol.

[–]Astral_weaverFDS Newbie 133 points134 points135 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I really like the aesthetics of performative femininity in men, but I don't really like the whole package that usually come with them. I've yet to see a hetero man who does "feminine" things and isn't a total arse.

So realistically, I'd rather have a handsome plain guy who is kind, decent and does housework.

[–]keep_my_stuffFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I also like these aesthetics. My reason has to do with internalized misogyny. I was taught from an early age that feminine things = bad. And also men's opinions = important. So my suppressed femininity was attracted to men who seemed to say (with the necessary importance and freedom from doubt conferred upon them for being male) that femininity = good (with their appearance and/or demeanor).

This is not a game I want to be playing, anymore..

[–]Astral_weaverFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I come from a kinda different place but I get what you mean. For myself I struggled to be fenimine as a young person. Femininity for me was always more attractive, but I kinda felt like a genderless being. So seeing men being feminine was always attractive in a way of "if they can pull it, I can pull it too."

I identify as queer nowadays, but I'm at last connected with my feminine qualities.

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh man, I know this woman married to one of these guys. He’s the biggest NVM. I don’t think he’s even working now. He’s insisting on using they/them pronouns because he’s just too complex to to be limited to one sex. 🙄He took the dumbest thirst trap selfies in makeup and paints his nails. It’s just such a ploy for attention and reeks of narcissism.

[–]jesymix14FDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

only thing worse than a man who wears cosmetics for attention is one who thinks he must not be a man because of it 😶 I haven't met one they/them man who wasn't insufferable so far

[–]SupremeDearLeaderFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yessssssss

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes 👏

[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

the tea is scalding.

[–]Lost_Kale90FDS Apprentice 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yesss I love this!!

[–]-25TFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

PREACH

[–]intergalacticanon44FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL

[–]jetcakeFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha, oh my goodness.

This is why observing the way a guy lives by himself (i.e. cleanliness) yields very surprising results.

The other week ago when I was visiting my boyfriend, I went to use the bathroom and discovered that once again he didn't flush.

I decided to broach the subject very innocently and ask him if he was having an issue with his toilet. He told me no, asked why I thought that, and that is when I very bluntly told him that he didn't.FUCKING.FLUSH and I notice it every time I come over. He vehemently denied it and I was like, um, not after what I just saw. Take care of your crap, literally and figuratively.

What I don't get is how he can keep an otherwise orderly apartment, yet he neglects necessary disposal.

[–]FDS-GFYFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“I’m really a woman.”

“Please accept lower pay and clean the toilet”

“Not like that.”

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