This is a heartbreaking thread on Twitter:

https://www.twitter.com/t0nit0ne/status/980401431281917952?lang=en

Of course many of us are big fans of getting married within the first year or so of dating a man but beware of being the woman he settles for because you were just…there.

It also explains why there are one too many audacious married men who cheat on their wives left, right, and center and how they won’t think twice about disrespecting and hating their wives.

It forever astonishes me how men create these problems for themselves. They’re the ones who propose but won’t marry the woman whom they were deeply in love with but will instead marry the first woman who comes along when he thinks he’s established enough.

So vet, vet, vet and put up boundaries. Cut and run at the first sign of complacency or disrespect.