How many bad boys do you know have consistent relations?

stats135 · 2022-11-24T18:54:26+00:00

All of them?

At least in the circles I run in, bad boy or not, is just a means to an end. Its like asking how many workers I know get consistently paid. Well all of them. Because the ones that aren't paid, stop being workers.

One of two things happens to men that adopt the bad boy lifestyle. 1) They get good at it and get consistent sexual returns. 2) They eventually give up.

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-11-24T20:31:46+00:00

That archetype is kinda dying in 2022.

The tall good looking rich guy is the one that gets the most.

Super-Peoplez-S0Lt · 2022-11-24T19:14:26+00:00

My brother is what many would call a bad boy. He's in his early 20s and he's been in only three serious relationships. He mostly have FWBs and ONS. He could be in a relationship with many of these women if he really want to and he often talks about wanting a girlfriend. However, he's the type of dude would doesn't seriously commits unless the option is too good to pass up. A lot of his girlfriend were basically sugar mommas (despite them being around his age).

KayRay1994 · 2022-11-24T19:15:33+00:00

enough to know that the phrase “relations” won’t get you any

MuchMethod7039 · 2022-11-24T19:28:10+00:00

I have a co-worker who would be considered a "bad-boy". He is tall, relatively good-looking, smoked, and doesn't like authority, etc. What is interesting, however, is none of the women who have careers in our facility are interested in him. Some of the younger CNAs flirt, but none of them take him as a serious partner.

AGalWithThoughts · 2022-11-24T19:14:15+00:00

I don't associate with people who would call themselves "bad boys"

TheKarmicWoosh2 · 2022-11-24T19:28:34+00:00

People tend to be really vague when using "bad boy". Elaborate? Seems like a really juvenile term that doesn't make that much sense outside of high school.

Whatever, if I think about what I imagine when I think of "bad boy", that ranges anywhere from guys who I know that were basic thugs, to your college preppy drug dealers in frats, to guys who were ultimately just kind of douchey/not really good people.

To the varying degrees that I've known people like this, relationships/dating/love was never an issue for them. The debates here and on reddit in general would seem completely foreign.

There's not a single Man that I know who actively breaks the law or flouts authority who has a single problem bedding Women. In fact, their personality types tend to be more aggressive anyway so they aren't gonna bullshit you about not approaching a woman because "tHey'Re AfRaId".

Erring on side of aggression and hyper arrogance is probably gonna net you more than being an asocial internet nerd too afraid to speak to real humans.

These guys aren't all hot super chads either. Just toxically masculine. To a fault.

neetykeeno · 2022-11-25T01:40:23+00:00

People who I think are bad? None. Men who the angry guys here would think are bad? Quite a few have wives they have great relationships with, lots of regular sex.

It's dodgy reasoning and confirmation bias a lot of the time with angry losers. He's living a great life and that annoys them. So they look for stuff to define him as bad. He's state manager of the sales division of a major food company he must be seriously dark triad. He parties and plays bass so he must be an alcoholic and drug addict. He thinks computer games are lame and Reddit is for losers he's the classic schoolyard bully. Blah blah fucking blah, whine and gripe why don't nice girls like Nice Guys.

Barneysparky · 2022-11-24T19:27:44+00:00

My son is a 275-300 pound gym bro. He has a very nice house and several cars. Definitely what the men here think of as an Alpha, in fact we've had conversations that lead me to believe he well knows he is. He's always had a girlfriend, engaged to the woman he's been with for three years now.

In conversation, he talks about beta simp incels (guys who think about n count ) as being the lowest of the low.

Treacle-Flimsy · 2022-11-24T19:48:11+00:00

That type of guys just didn't stick with me for long enough to know that. However, my female friend always ends up with them. She had 3 relationships with these guys and, since we're good friends from school, it usually ended up with her coming to me for help to break up with her new bf because she's scared to tell them while she's alone. Keep in mind that I'm talking only about relationships. Who knows how many ons she had with them. So, I really think that unfortunately these guys slay. They are not on top of this thing though, because there are men who will just overshadow them without being bad.

SlashCo80 · 2022-11-25T13:09:32+00:00

One of my friends from college was a typical "bad boy". He had several girlfriends, but the relationships were not always smooth sailing. There were frequent fights, cheating (on his part) and sometimes even physical violence. He got married recently and about to have a kid, but I understand he and his wife still fight and she's worried about his infidelity, especially now. Oh well, not my business.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-11-24T20:12:59+00:00

Put it this way, I know more horrible men who are alone, not having sex and considered not worthy of women's time than who are able to have sex with any regularity. If you're just talking about being a bit edgy, that's a different story.

BrummieAMN19 · 2022-11-24T20:39:14+00:00

My cousin, my former friend and my coworkers ex bf are bad boys. They’re criminals and my cousin in particular is in prison at the moment for robbery and my former friend got done for being a woman beater as well as my coworkers ex. This guy(the coworkers ex) is one of those south London gang members had also been in and out of prison, bragged to her and in general how he’s stabbed 11 men. They actually met when he just came out of prison also. All these guys have never struggled with girls ever. With my coworker she’s grown up in the environment with these types of men so that’s what’s she’s accustomed to.

I also knew a gremlin looking white guy who went my school who has a Stacy gf and he went to prison for robbing, battering and stabbing an old man almost to death. She waited for his whole stint no problem.

Along with the fact that it’s a certain type of woman that goes for this man, it’s never really an emotionally healthy woman in a good raised home. Which raises the question why are man on here even attracted or concerned about these types of women? With all these women there’s glaring red flags and issues you can see from a mile away.

whale_sports · 2022-11-24T18:52:09+00:00

What is this fascination with "bad boys"? So...some guys just KNOW how to attract multiple women...maybe others should learn how too, also.

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-11-24T19:04:14+00:00

My best friend in high school was a badboy, but not in the robbing people kind of way. He just flaunted social rules. He lost his virginity at 14 and at 15 was living with two older female roommates and yes, he was banging both of them. He had no money. He wasn't a star athlete. As a matter of fact, I've never seen him play a sport other than martial arts. But he did whatever he wanted and was a leader. He just went and did it and girls followed him. He is married wjth two kids now.

My step sister is a well established nurse. According to her dad, ever since she was a teenager she has chased after bad boys, the stereotypical ones. Guys stealing car radios, doing black market currency exchange. She was married for a small time mobster for a while. One of her exes got busted for credit card fraud and is doing time in a French prison. Not sure what's she's up to now, but can't be good.

propyl21 · 2022-11-24T19:19:47+00:00

Why be a bad boy when you can be a king amongst men?

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BigZaddyZ3 · 2022-11-24T18:49:54+00:00

Hmm… tough to say tbh. Do you expect people to have an exact number or something OP?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-11-24T19:42:34+00:00

one night stands count just as traditional long term dating…

How? I'd rather have successful LTR than ONS lol.

I've had 7 relationships 4 of which were pretty serious (first 3 were in HS so... yk...). And my total body count is 25 so mix of fwb, situation ships and ONSs.

I'll take 3 of the 4 LTRs over a ONS any day (the one that I wouldn't she fucked me over lol)

Anyways.. to answer the OP..

It's pretty damn simple.

Hot bad boys get ONS but no LTR except from borderline personality crazybish

Ugly bad boys get neither ONS nor LTR

Medium bad boys may get the occasional ONS but never LTR except for the ugly BPD bish

breaddacheese · 2022-11-24T20:03:19+00:00

Honestly from what you describe as “bad boys” it is none, I don’t see those in a relationship or having ONS with people. But maybe because I don’t associate with them

melody_of_ · 2022-11-24T21:27:19+00:00

All of them? If by consistent you mean consistently dating and fucking?

If you mean long term relationships some kf them but only the ones who seek that out.

The9thElement · 2022-11-25T01:36:55+00:00

In middle school it was always the naughtiest boys having new girlfriends every week

caption291 · 2022-11-25T03:14:12+00:00

I think I know 4 "bad boys" if by bad boy we mean straight up illegal stuff and generally extremely creepy behavior.

They do super well, the creepiest one does the best out of anyone I have ever seen. The limiting factor is what he wants.

If we include just being a selfish asshole then I'd say most if not all of them have access to consistent relations/relationships but they have to put in some work to get their success.

bigboobstonerfreak · 2022-11-25T05:43:36+00:00

What is a “bad boy”?

Apprehensive_Cut_146 · 2022-11-25T12:08:26+00:00

50/50

RandomAttackHelpMe · 2022-11-25T23:04:59+00:00

At least 2 I’ve known come to mind and they were both very different people.One guy was super fucking bad toxic, the other was more reasonable and grounded.

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