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Outfit Privilege

Simi510

October 14, 2017
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Title Outfit Privilege
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Simi510

Upvotes 14418
Comments 514
Date October 14, 2017 8:38 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
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[–]littlefilms 1700 points1701 points1702 points 8 years ago (38 children) | Copy Link

The thing is, if a girl wears a cute dress and a guy notices, he's going to think it looks good. If she wears it again, he's gonna still think it looks good, because he would remember it looking good on her before, this being no different.

[–]pugmommy4life420 642 points643 points644 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Yup. I have exactly one cute dress and any time I wear said cute dress my husband thinks it’s cute no matter what. The only people I get complaints from are women saying I shouldn’t wear said dress so much.

[–]nobodyyoullremember 480 points481 points482 points 8 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

"stop wearing that dress. its stealing the attention away from me" is what I guess a woman is really saying? I'm a guy so I'm making a guess here.

[–]Skreevy 137 points138 points139 points 8 years ago* (14 children) | Copy Link

As a guy who has seen these situations irl, I can say that most of the time that is exactly it. This goes so far that a woman, who was angry about the bride went to her wedding in a ridiculously pompous dress, just to spite her.

Edit: You can stop telling me to proofread, thank you.

[–]Psycho_Sentinal 134 points135 points136 points 8 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link

Proofread please Edit: Wow these two words got me quite a bit of karma haha

[–]Chewcocca 86 points87 points88 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

As a guy who has semen these situations irl, I can say that most of the time that is exactly it. This goes so far that a woman, who was angry about the bride, went to her wedding in a ridiculously pompous dress just to spite her.

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie 51 points52 points53 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]perrycohen 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Are you sure about that? Because I am 100.0% sure that Chewcocca is not a bot.


I am a Neural Network being trained to detect spammers | Does something look wrong? Send me a PM | /r/AutoBotDetection

[–]Chewcocca 34 points35 points36 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Bitch you don't know me.

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bitch I might be.

[–]vne2000 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Snitch bot

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Correct. Good bot.

[–]netuoso 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Good bot

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Thanks.

[–]Psycho_Sentinal 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Proofread please /s But you did type semen though lol

[–]OgenB 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"As a guy who has seen these situations in real life, I can say that most of the time this is exactly it. This goes so far that a woman who was angry at the bride of a wedding, went to the wedding in a ridiculously pompous dress just to spite her."

FTFY

[–]Cuboos 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What.

[–]SphincterKing 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you OK? It looks like you had a stroke.

[–]melancholy_astronaut 51 points52 points53 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My wife had many dresses but one that was my absolute favourite. Every time we went out, if she asked me what she should wear, I had one answer.

[–]speakingoutofcontext 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Awesome

[–]JMEEKER86 157 points158 points159 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And the guy will probably even think "hey, she decided to wear that cute dress I liked, she must really like dressing nice for me" which will make him happy.

[–]c0mbatm0nk 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This

[–]BlackBoxInquiry 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. If it looks good, it looks good. I don’t care if it’s the same dress, same shoes, same accessories, if it works, do it.

Sounds like what she’s looking to bitch about here Female oppression, not “male privilege”.

How dare she saddle us for her own stupidity. She should own it.

[–]Xanaxdabs 33 points34 points35 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Exactly, lots of girls have something that guys look at and remember as "that dress". You know, like Veronica Deane in Shanghai Moon.

[–]MagnusTheGreat 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would barely remember her wearing that dress before. All I would know is that she looks good.

[–]jimjimjimjaboo 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are more likely to say 'that looks great, you should wear it more often' but this excludes people like men in the fashion industry that propagate the nonsense that women should keep buying expensive dresses and generally they do that because they have money to make.

[–]45MinutesOfRoadHead 13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Girl chiming in. I don't think she's actually talking about men looking down on women for wearing the same dress. It's usually other women that are ugly to other women for wearing the same clothes to different events. Typically it's the "almost rich" women.

[–]pm_me_ur_anything_k 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Then why blame men for made up “privilege?”

Why not just say “women are catty bitches and hate on each other too often.”

[–]45MinutesOfRoadHead 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She didn't blame men. She's just saying that it's something that women have to worry about and men don't.

[–]pm_me_ur_anything_k 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why mention men at all? It’s a privilege to not be petty about each others clothes?

[–]The-os2 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So men are not involved yet it is us who need to be mentioned in a negative scenario.

[–]double_a_ron 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Except that women don't HAVE to worry about it. They could just grow up and stop worrying about what other, unimportant people think about them, and maybe spend more time worrying about what the people who actually contribute to their lives think about them. Or even just worry about themselves.

Furthermore, she flat out called it "privilege", which is a loaded word these days.

[–]Solid_Waste 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Logic is oppressive!

[–]coolyman13 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And also if he says he thinks the dress is cute, he will like the fact she again, wore the dress she knows he thinks is cute.

[–]SPQTiberia 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

According to the theory though male privilege doesn’t come from men it comes from society at large. So if women are causing other women to feel uncomfortable wearing the same outfit twice it doesn’t matter, because they wouldn’t do it to a man. Therefore, men are privileged because they don’t undergo the same societal pressure.

Or they’re bred to be more comfortable and stand up for themselves so a handful of anal guys or girls can’t dictate what they wear.

Or wearing the same thing is like a uniform and it’s seen as masculine and that’s okay, but a girl can’t wear a “uniform,” unless she’s actually in the military.

Or.... look there’s tons of shit you can make up to say it’s a privilege, but dwelling on small shit distracts from any real point that was trying to be made.

[–]juniper55722 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Women are the gatekeepers of the patriarchy. I don't mean that in a 'men are bad' way, I'm saying women keep women down. I'll probably get downvoted for use of the patriarchy but w/e

[–]Crusader_1096 656 points657 points658 points 8 years ago (35 children) | Copy Link

How privileged do you have to be to be able to only wear a dress once and then getting rid of it?

[–]ConcupiscibleEther 171 points172 points173 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the real question here. How rich is this female specimen (she ain't no lady).

[–]gljivicad 131 points132 points133 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

And I get laughed at for spending $150 on a keyboard that is actually high quality, satisfying and comfortable use, and will last me for over 5 years at least

[–]thetoastmonster 66 points67 points68 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but do you ever use it more than once?

[–]gljivicad 102 points103 points104 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

No, i have about 350 blackwidows for the year in my garage

[–]thetoastmonster 60 points61 points62 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's quite an infestation. You should call an exterminator.

[–]Pappy_whack 13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

They might be paying rent if they're on a yearly contract

[–]Felmaeggy 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Some would call it the Ultimate Infestation

[–]__BIOHAZARD___ 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't believe it hasn't been nerfed yet.

[–]Proachreasor 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s one dangerous garage.

[–]jeegte12 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he has that many adult black widows in his garage his neighborhood isn't going to see a bug again

[–]SocialForceField 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

don't worry my Apple keyboard from literally 20 years ago still works

quality = longevity

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But is it mechanical tho?

[–]gljivicad 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

as long as you don't go ape on it when you die in a video game, or spill shit in it, you're fine for the most part

[–]lolinokami 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's only ok of it's mechanical. Rubber dome keyboards are shit.

[–]gljivicad 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, mechanical

[–]JohnnyhiveisaliveIt is all about ME Bitch 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Only 5? Maybe get a better one mate. My Das is still going strong after 12.

[–]gljivicad 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I said at least

[–]Kaelemael -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Only 5 years? My cheap crappy keyboard has been in use for atleast 7 years already

[–]pansexualgenderdruid 38 points39 points40 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

A lot of women buy clothes, wear them once, then send them back to the store the next working day. Be careful when you buy clothes in store, because they may be tinged in second-hand shame.

[–]yoursolace 37 points38 points39 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I only buy clothes from thrift stores, second hand shame is my brand

[–]Cannabanoid420 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If I was a chick thrift shopping would be the go. I always find much cooler clothes for my gf, that looks like it's never been worn.

Not many guys clothes come in being only used once.

[–]Professional_Bob 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I think this might be related to newsreaders. A female Aussie newsreader got criticised for wearing a dress she'd already worn, then her male co-anchor wore the same suit for a week to point out the double standard when nobody criticised him for it.

[–]Riceman-Chris 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He wore the same suit for a year, not a week.

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_BACKDIMPS 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd love to see the articles about this

[–]Professional_Bob 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/article/30069564/australian-tv-host-wears-same-suit-for-a-year-and-nobody-notices

[–]Cannabanoid420 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I find it more of a sexist thing towards men. Suits are the cock cage of men. Uncomfortable and restrictive. You'd never hear someone complement a man's business attire, but for women it's different because they get to show a little of their personal flair in their everyday life.

Also the people that pointed both those things out were women.

[–]chrill2142 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ehm, i love wearing suits.. almost all my male friends love it too..

[–]Cpt_Macaroni 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

The beauty behind all of this is guys clothes typically cost more than a women's. The fact that she can go out and purchase multiple pieces of clothing without breaking the bank is the essence of privilege.

[–]punkmonkey22 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

No idea where you live but that simply isn't the case

[–]Cannabanoid420 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Walk through any shopping center and you can plainly see it. Not only the fact that there are just that many more women's clothes shops than men but how often said women's shops have sales.

Hell the cheapest pair of shops are a 1$ more for the men's size at Kmart ffs.

[–]punkmonkey22 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well I don't live in the US for a start so it's probably just you guys

[–]Cannabanoid420 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Australia here mate.

[–]punkmonkey22 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe it's the import costs?

[–]-Macaronis- 1333 points1334 points1335 points 8 years ago (148 children) | Copy Link

The only reason why someone is not able to wear stuff multiple times is because they are afraid of what other people think. I don't care and I wear what I want and how often I want. Everyone I know does this. I'm a woman btw.

[–]KillerAceUSAF 323 points324 points325 points 8 years ago (103 children) | Copy Link

Hell, I routinely wear the same thing 2 days in a row because I go to different campuses on Tues/Thurs than my Mon/Wed/Fri classes.

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (91 children) | Copy Link

I rarely wash my pants and wear the same jeans nearly every day. Jeans aren't supposed to be washed.

[–]KillerAceUSAF 133 points134 points135 points 8 years ago (56 children) | Copy Link

Well, if they are actually dirty, then wash them. But generally they are just as dirty after 40 days as they are after 1 or 2 days

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (33 children) | Copy Link

Define dirty.

[–]KillerAceUSAF 63 points64 points65 points 8 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link

Having stains, or dirt/mud all over it.

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (26 children) | Copy Link

Yes, stained clothes should be washed. Agreed.

[–]MisterNiceGuy001 89 points90 points91 points 8 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link

What if the ass part of the jeans smell like ass?

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Then you wash them. Unless you're into the smell, I'm not here to kink shame.

[–]smokeydaBandito 74 points75 points76 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am... Get that swamp ass outta the office bertha

[–]Dr_Bukkakee 14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

They say you should put them in a ziplock bag and put them in the freezer overnight if they stink but don't have visible stains.

[–]saintkreaux 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Where do I get "jean-sized" ziplocks? Is it at Costco? Damn it, I really need to be a member of Costco. They also sell freezers big enough for me to put my fucking pants in?

[–]SpiritBamb4 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

On a related note, where can i get human sized ziplocks? I need it for uh stuff.

[–]mr4ffe1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

/r/2meirl42meirl4meirl

[–]jeegte124 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Do you live in Lilliputia or some shit? What kind of tiny ass freezer do you have that wouldn't fit a pair of jeans?

[–]saintkreaux1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Regular freezer, I've just yet to meet anyone who actually has room in their freezer for a pair of pants. Most freezers I've ever seen have been full.

[–]Tzarlexter2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Their is only two type of people regarding freezers. Those who stuff them and those who leave it practically empty.

[–]Eazy_DuzIt3 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm guessing you're not American. A gallon bag and standard freezer would certainly fit a pair of jeans

[–]double_a_ron1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not much more though, if you're in America

[–]majaka12342 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"Welcome to CostCo, here's a 600 pack of jean-sized ziplock bags. Also, we love you."

[–]Dr_Bukkakee2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You know you can fold up jeans right?

[–]Eazy_DuzIt 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Wait, I heard about this with jeans, but could I do this with my smelly underwear/shirts while I'm traveling and not have to do laundry as often?

[–]Terminal-Psychosis4 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yah, the extreme cold kills the stinky bacteria n stuff that's stinky.

[–]Eazy_DuzIt2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

What about a musty/old clothes smell (that's not BO)... Is that bacteria?

[–]villan4 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You can get underwear / undershirts / socks with silver weave in them which stops the bacteria responsible for the smell. They’re very effective and really handy for long trips. I’ve tried “Brothers” brand socks, and Y-Athletics underwear as an example, and would recommend both.

[–]jbaughb1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I've been strongly considering stocking up buying some socks, underwear, sweatpants,undershits,etc. I think those youtube sponsors are doing a number on my consumerist side.

Did you try other brands before settling on the two mentioned above?Any brands you had bad experiences with? or crappy products.

[–]villan2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

They were the only ones I tried with the silver weave. Prior to that I had been using active brands like Exofficio which weren’t bad either.

[–]ififcanIhaveacoatplz 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wear aome boxers and quit raw dogging it qith ur skidmarks

[–]saintkreaux 14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Balls smell. They just do, even with a thin layer of undergarment. Maybe not every day, but there are some days that the sweat factor can be enough to almost make your hat smell funny by proximity.

[–]speenatch2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Great imagery. Made me chuckle.

[–]Matikinz 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is that when you eat them

[–]fatmanthrowaway777 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wash your ass after a shit and you won’t have that problem. Or use baby wipes.

[–]ShelSilverstain -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wipe your ass better

[–]GloriousGardener 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Covered in blood and cum?

[–][deleted] 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]KillerAceUSAF 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good bot

[–]kiddhitta 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Covered in shit and piss.

[–]Bendix 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Soaked in sweat and smelly?

[–]abloopdadooda 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

But generally they are just as dirty after 40 days as they are after 1 or 2 days

Take this with a grain of salt, because I can't provide a source, but I read that it's been studied and concluded that jeans are as "dirty" as they get at 15 days worn. After 15 days they plateau.

[–]khalidh22 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

With clothes i feel most don't get dirty outside but inside with sweat and all. Socks are a prime example. If you don't sweat, then it's all good.

[–]kronaz 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think that's why it works so well with jeans. If you put on fresh undies every day, your jeans aren't really absorbing that much bad stuff.

If undershirts were still in fashion, you'd probably have to change your shirt less often, too.

[–]Surelynotshirly 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If undershirts were still in fashion, you'd probably have to change your shirt less often, too.

They are for me... I don't get the whole idea of not having undershirts. Button up shirts are so uncomfortable in comparison.

[–]TheOneTonWanton 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think they're referring to people wearing t-shirts these days for casual wear. I don't know anyone that doesn't still wear undershirts with button-ups.

[–]NotThatEasily 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Socks are a prime example.

I wear 3 pairs of socks almost everyday. I put on a pair of my house socks (fluffy ankle socks), change into taller socks for my boots when I'm ready to leave the house, then into another pair of house socks at night.

It really bothers my wife, but I'm pretty comfortable. So, I don't care.

[–]khalidh22 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That may be on winter, what's your summer routine

[–]NotThatEasily 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Summer is between 1 and 2 pairs. Once my shoes come off in the summer, I don't put them back on with the same pair of socks.

[–]Eazy_DuzIt 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you exfoliate your feet regularly, your socks will hardly every smell

[–]ablobychetta8 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Ya'll must live in cool places. In Panama I can get maybe 4-5 wears out of my jeans before they feel gross. Oh god the sweat. Also before comments roll in, yes I wear jeans in Panama because it is socially unacceptable to wear shorts here and linens show sweat in very awkward places.

[–]saintkreaux 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That's what always gets me about jeans. The manufacturer always says that you should avoid washing them if you can. That they can go months without washing, if treated properly. But I have a problem with not getting a ketchup, BBQ sauce, mustard, etc stain on almost any lower extremity covering I choose to wear, jeans or no. Who are these perfect eaters who never have to wash their pants?

[–]Isotopian 54 points55 points56 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Try putting a table between your food and your legs ;-)

[–]completely_apathetic 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And/or a napkin! Pretty sure they were partly invented for lap-covering purposes.

[–]bipnoodooshup 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

THEN WHY AREN’T THEY CALLED LAPKINS??!

[–]strayacarnt8 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Try living in the tropics. Everyone will know.

[–]shdewit 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh, jeans dry my hands.

[–]TitleJones 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That's gross. I hope you're exaggerating.

I can wear pants 2, maybe 3 days in a row. After that, they get washed.

They just start feeling grimy after 2 days. It's a yucky, dirty feeling.

[–]Coontang 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I mean, they may feel that way and definitely it's kinda gross if one is prone to BO, but from a bacterial perspective it's not bad:

http://nationalpost.com/news/canada/not-washing-jeans-for-15-months-ok-healthwise-at-least-study

[–]TitleJones 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I gotta go by feel. At the end of 2 days, they feel gross.

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[–]TitleJones 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe I do.

[–]EsoteriCola 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jeans get damaged every time you wash them, I hope you like buying lots of new jeans.

[–]NeDictu 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

i haven't showered in 6 years and my clothes are made of fibrous sewer residue.

[–]infamousnexus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This one got me.

[–]Terminal-Psychosis 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ewwwww, you're not suppose to wear the same jeans every day though. They need time to dry out in between.

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[–]FountainsOfFluids 13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wash them when you feel like it, but you should know that lots of people who know clothing say that you don't have to wash them often, maybe ever. One manufacturer CEO says he only ever spot cleans them, never wash. I think that's a bit extreme and maybe he was just trolling. I say wash them when they smell bad. Not very often.

[–]fellatious_argument 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One manufacturer CEO fucking stinks.

[–]deek0146 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe that's true for people who don't sweat. After a week of use my jeans smell like stale sweat.

[–]FountainsOfFluids 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I say wash them when they smell bad.

[–]Dihydrogen_Monoxides 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree...I can't even believe I'm reading that people don't wash jeans for up to 4-6 months. Are you guys insane..?

I wear jeans for a couple days...anywhere from 3-5 times before I wash them. They start to stink and feel grimey.

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

Your skin is all around you in the air. You're breathing it in now. Oil never hurt anyone and anywhere I sweat that I'm worrying about is covered by boxers. People who make jeans say don't wash jeans often.

P.S. I wash my hands before I piss, not after.

[–]mellotronworker 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I actually think I can smell you from here.

[–]infamousnexus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I shower at least once a day, sometimes twice.

[–]mellotronworker 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And then you put on the same foetid rags afterwards? Why bother?

[–]Lothlorien_Randir 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I hope you use something more hygienic than toilet paper or you're getting literal shit everywhere...

[–]infamousnexus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am only referring to when I piss. Obviously I wash my hands after I shit. I'm not Indian.

[–]lilyrae 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

P.S. I wash my hands before I piss, not after.

Your reading skills need improvement.

[–]Lothlorien_Randir -3 points-2 points-1 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They're fine. Check your hygiene tho.

[–]lilyrae 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're fine. Thanks for the reminder. However, I am not OP.

[–]shotgun883 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I generally wear my pant two days running. But I’m from the Uk so I think that makes me disgusting... turning them inside out helps.

[–]infamousnexus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When you say pants, do you mean British underwear? I mean actual pants. Like the things you wear on the outside.

[–]shotgun883 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course. You mean trousers.

[–]kimyungill 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I do that with my underwear, as long as you clean yr ass reall good yr fine.

[–]infamousnexus 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wear new underwear daily. Sometimes twice a day.

[–]Irecruitfish 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

That's gross. Jeans smell especially depending on the surroundings.

[–]infamousnexus 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Idk, mine seem fine. I'd say I wash them perhaps every 1-1.5 months. I work in an office, don't go out a ton (occasionally on weekends), and the pants come off the second I get home.

[–]Irecruitfish -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You don't go out for lunch?

[–]infamousnexus 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I eat in my car at work. I either prep something before or I pick something up.

[–]infamousnexus 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I eat in my car at work. I either prep something before or I pick something up.

[–]hellabad 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends if you own cheap jeans or not. I own a couple of these and I have yet to wash any of them. I don't have a need to either because they don't smell. I also own a couple of pairs of Levi's 508's (discontinued) in black that I cycle between and I have yet to wash them and its been a good 8 months. It also gives it time to form around you and fit better IMO.

You'll want to wait to "officially" wash your jeans — ideally anywhere from 4–12 months. The thing about raw denim is that you're not supposed to wash it. If you wear your jeans everyday, you can probably get away with washing them 4–6 months after purchase.

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[–]infamousnexus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If it does, my nose is immune to it.

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[–]infamousnexus 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ive asked brutally honest people to tell me and they've said no.

I've had a complex about it after somebody in high school told me I smelled after gym once, cuz I didn't have time to shower after a vigorous work out.

[–]ChickenWithATopHat 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'll wear the same pair of pants until they get a stain or food dropped on it. I think my longest time is almost 3 weeks.

[–]Minobull1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The raw denim crowd will go months, some just straight up never wast them.

[–]alchemist5 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I routinely wear the same thing 5 days in a row, because my uniform comes out of my paycheck, and fuck [company name] if they think I'm buying another one.

[–]TheIncompetenceOfMan 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i was always told by my parents to wear things twice

unless of course its dirty

im not gonna make my shorts/pants dirty by wearing them once, my boxers yes, my socks yes, my top might get a bit funky

[–]HittingEject 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ShamelessEfficiency

Edit: that was supposed to be a hashtag. I'll leave it for my shame.

[–]bl1y 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. I wear the same thing for my Tuesday class as I wore for the Monday class. I just change out of it when I'm done teaching so I've only worn it for a few hours.

[–]DeadliftEveryDay3 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Some of my friends in college and I wear the exact same thing every day. We each have about a dozen of plain, heathered colored shirts (different colors, obviously) and plain colored shorts.

If I find even more people I'm thinking about making it a club for plain colored shirt enthusiasts. A name like "coloreds only club" or "no whites allowed" might do.

[–]flaviuscrispus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wear the same clothes to work all week long

[–]akjoltoy 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the fact that you do it because it won't be noticed means you are the opposite of the poster you're replying to. you actually care about ppl noticing. cringe

[–]FlexibleToast 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do the same thing for the same reason with my pants. I have to change my shirt, that gets smelly.

[–]beautifulcreature86I am a lazy cunt so fuck you I ain't going anywhere 14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wear the same pair of shorts like 3 times a week and I do laundry twice a week. My shorts are wearing out. I'm 31 and nobody gives a shit. When I was in high school I wore the same pair of jeans so much the entire butt part tore sideways so I stopped wearing them. Nobody cared then either. I have clothes but I'm not girly and I hate shopping. I'm also straight and very happy with my soon to be hubby. Not every female is a fashionista; some bitches just like to be chill and comfy

[–]The_BeardedGentleman 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I alternate between two pairs of pants, slightly different colored, until some part of them tears, then buy two more and repeat the process. Its been working for like 15 years now. Don't ever plan on stopping.

[–]vodoun9 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

After many years of bartending/hospitality I basically have a uniform now - black leggings with a black shirt (blouse for work, tee for everyday)

Wear that shit every day with no issues, I've never been more comfortable

[–]ranza 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s not even that they are afraid what other people will think, but they „assume that other people will think/talk about them and are afraid of being viewed negatively” which to me, sounds like a self-perpetuating mental disorder affecting the weak in sociaties. Hopefully someone will finally recognize that.

[–]ConcupiscibleEther 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Internalized patriarchy! You're one of us now 😈

[–]vickzzzzz 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Everytime I see a girl wear her cute dress again makes me happy. Cos I just want to see her in the cute dress again, not a different one.

[–]Sneaker_Freaker_1 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is exactly what today’s society does not understand.

[–]ififcanIhaveacoatplz 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. I have 2 pairs of pants i will wear to work. 2 pair thats it. Dont give a fuck what people say

[–]HastadinOnly my mommy makes me cum 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link

true dat.. owning only 2 pair of underwear also reduces this wash load. one for every day and one for a date or doc appointment

[–]ArkLinux 19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Man, people don't understand sarcasm.

[–]HastadinOnly my mommy makes me cum 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah :( guess sometimes they forgot that this is reddit...

[–]D-Aton 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wait..panties? Cus uh a friend of mine will buy them off you

[–]HastadinOnly my mommy makes me cum 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i send them vacuum sealed to japan, they put them into vendor machines.

[–]D-Aton 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If i ever do go to japan i wanna buy some vending machine panties just to say i did it. Im not really into that kind of thing. I mean ill probably use em since i got em but im not reeeally int that kind of thing

[–]bferret 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

bro you don't have to justify it to us. if you wanna sniff dirty panties you bought out of a machine in Japan, that's between you and your god.

[–]Hatweed 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sweet Lord, that had me going for a bit.

[–]WelsCain -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

You reuse your underwear without washing it?

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[–]just_mark 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

EXACTLY!

[–]kronaz 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Maybe wipe better?

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[–]kronaz 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

There's traces of it on your toothbrush, too. And your beard. And literally everywhere.

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[–]kronaz -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe wipe better?

[–]IWouldManaTapDat6 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Is your dad a superhero perhaps?

[–]seanyGSXR 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Ew that's nasty .

Scunders, socks and tshirt changed everyday for me. Jeans stay on until they are noticeably dirty haha. Fuck that, I want me comfort, couldn't give a shite what someone else thinks

[–]infamousnexus 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Jeans aren't supposed to be washed often, if at all.

[–]seanyGSXR 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If something is dirty I'm washing it

[–]infamousnexus 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Define dirty.

[–]cuntdestroyer8000 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Has dirt on it

[–]infamousnexus 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair

[–]HastadinOnly my mommy makes me cum -5 points-4 points-3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

im European

[–]PacmanAlt 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey object please stfu and gtfo my sub

[–]WeirdGoesPro 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only people who seem to be gatekeeping party outfits are other women...🤔

[–]Zinki_M 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

my wardrobe is basically like a cartoon character's: multiple copies of the same outfit.

I don't particularily enjoy clothes shopping, so when I find a pair of pants I like, I will just buy three of them. Like a T-Shirt? buy 5.

Result is that I wear "the same thing" all the time, and I don't mind it at all.

[–]Jones3619 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You are doing it right! Rock out what you want and don’t worry about other people’s opinions. I’m mean fuck you especially have to rock out a cute dress multiple times.

[–]DrBairyFurburger 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One of my female coworkers has what I assume is a very limited wardrobe. She wears the same tops/bottoms in different combos all the time.

I don't care. No one does. She looks good and wears clothes that are flattering. Anyone who would actually care isn't worth your time.

[–]Ferg8 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been wearing the same pair of jeans for about 3 months straight.

I don't give a fuck. As long as they don't smell, everyone can fuck off.

[–]akjoltoy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/imagirlbtw

[–]JohnnySkidmarx 957 points958 points959 points 8 years ago (95 children) | Copy Link

Men don’t wear outfits. We wear clothes.

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

This is such a brilliantly simplistic and shockingly true statement.

[–]ChildColeYeBino 38 points39 points40 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I'm a guy and I wear outfits. :/

[–]thealmightybumholio145 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

How do you find boxers to accommodate your dainty vagina?

[+]AtomicKittenz -6 points-5 points-4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There’s no need for childish insults and bro-ing out. And there’s nothing wrong with using the term outfits to describe what he wears.

[–]SirGingerBeard 14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I t s j u s t a p r a n k b r o .

Seriously though. It’s friendly ribbing. Get over yourself homie.

[–]infamousnexus16 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

There is no shame in being gay.

[–]acamu5x 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/streetwear we out here

[–]Spiderdan 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you Paul Feig?

[–]TehDunta 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ain't nothing wrong with that man. Rock that shit, yo

[–]Slave2theGrind 33 points34 points35 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I;m married - non of my clothes match anything - and my shoes are four years old (cheap payless crap too) - c"est la vie

[–]jam11249 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm impressed you've got 4 year old shoes. My formal shoes are around that age, but are rarely used. Day-to-day shoes usually last around 3-4 months for me, though I do walk everywhere.

[–]ogkushaladaora 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean how cheap are your shoes? Super cheap shoes wear out super fast.

[–]jam11249 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not so much, I normally go for pairs around £60- £80, more boot-like than trainers. I think it's more that I really wear the hell out them, I live centrally enough to never drive or use local public transport, but I'm out and about enough that I'm probably walking a couple of hours a day, always in the same shoes until they need replacing.

[–]OrangeClyde 58 points59 points60 points 8 years ago (66 children) | Copy Link

You must have never visited /r/malefashionadvice

[–]Tralan 281 points282 points283 points 8 years ago (59 children) | Copy Link

/r/PompousDickwadsJerkingEachOtherOffOverRidiculouslyOverpricedHipsterClothes

[–]votebleach2020 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Why is that not a sub and does reddit have a character limit for a subreddit title?

[–]Tralan 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It stopped blue-linking it around "Over."

[–]EDTa380 15 points16 points17 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

For me it stopped after “Jerkin”

[–]Tralan 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe it only made it to Jerkin for me too. I look at the keyboard when I type, so when i looked up, it was already white.

[–]Cheef_Baconator 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[–]Dinosaur_Weirdo 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

21 characters is the maximum I believe

[–]MrNar 74 points75 points76 points 8 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link

Idk why so many redditors get so triggered about /r/malefashionadvice.

[–]WolfeBane84 8 years ago [recovered] (27 children) | Copy Link

Because unless you are literally a fashion model the only "male fashion advice" any guy needs is the following.

Comb your hair.

Be clean shaven.

Wear contextually appropriate clothes.

Done.

[–]gljivicad 21 points22 points23 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That should apply to women aswell, this gender difference crap is getting out of hand. Women are going out of their way to follow some unwritten female rules to then complain about it.

[–]yoursolace 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are totally more options and the options are often dramatically different, which is far less existent in dude clothes

Some women love this and love the options, this makes the ones who just want to wear that really good dress they got often feel bad about not keeping up with as many different looks as the one who loves trying different looks

I really don't think other people care what someone else wears (women or men), but a lot of women are self conscious about it and think other people are criticizing what they wear

If course, my experience may be different than others

[–]maisonping 95 points96 points97 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Maybe people like clothes more than you do...?

[–]5nurp5 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yes, we know what the problem is, no need to repeat it.

[–]AtomicKittenz 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/PompousDickwadsJerkingEachOtherOffOverWhatOtherMenLikeBecauseTheyDontLikeIt

[–]megalurkeruygcxrtgbn 37 points38 points39 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I DreSs fOr cOmFoRt AnD UtiLIty

[–]FiachB7 26 points27 points28 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"My DC shoes and megadeth t-shirt have served me well since I was 15 why change now?"

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

*Sharts quietly in my utili-kilt.*

[–]MrNar 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing is, some guys dress like shit and don't know how to wear contextually appropriate clothes, or they want to dress better but don't exactly know how, so they need some advice. There's also people like myself who see fashion as a hobby and are super into it, but I understand that most guys don't see it that way and that's fine. People have different hobbies and interests.

[–]skoolhouserock 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Clean shaven? Fuck that. Otherwise ya.

[–]Shenanigans22 45 points46 points47 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Uh no. Don't try to generalize us. You're committing a fallacy. I dress nice because it makes me feel good about myself and it let's me do my own thing. If you want to dress like Flanders do your thing.

[–]melancholy_astronaut 37 points38 points39 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Stupid sexy Flanders

[–]russianbotaccount 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

feels like i'm wearing

nothing at all

nothing at all

nothing at all

[–]smokecat20 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well hi diddly ho neighborino!

[–]HAWAll 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! I take pride in my appearance and my fiancee enjoys this as well. She would love me regardless of what I wear, but I like dressing nice for ME. I like going out and being confident that I look good. Look good - feel good.

[–]SleveMcDugnutt 15 points16 points17 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

"Be clean shaven."

I forgot, are we living in 1955 or 2017?

[–]WolfeBane844 points 8 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

2017 and clean shaven is still the default for getting an actual good job.

[–]Beeyull 15 points16 points17 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay grandpa.

[–]Hyronious 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

In some stuck up and boring industries I guess. In software at least I see loads of people with facial hair getting good jobs.

[–]Arclight_Ashe 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

haha "boring" jobs. it's anything involving hospitality where it's not allowed, everywhere else is a "preffered clean shave" because every guy can grow a beard but not every guy maintains that beard.

[–]Hyronious 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've seen plenty of people in hospitality with beards. Maybe it's a regional thing? But yeah if we're talking un-maintained beards that's just generally looking scruffy. It's the beard equivalent of showing up to an interview in a shirt with a stain on it.

[–]Arclight_Ashe1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

i think it depends on the owner. you're more likely to end up with hair on someones plate with beards than no beards

[–]Hyronious1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Thinking back on particular examples it's mostly bartenders I had in mind, but I have seen some waiters with beards.

[–]HAWAll 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some people are into looking good. Others don't care. But I assure you that a lot of women do notice clothing choices on men. While wearing a t-shirt and jeans isn't a no-no by any means, having pride in your appearance isn't a bad thing at all.

[–]HDpotato 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. Take fashion advice from redditors in /r/pussypassdenied. You'll sure look amazing.

[–]DeepSouthTJ 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's nothing wrong with well groomed facial hair, a lot of times it actually looks better than just plain old clean shaven.

[–]notswim -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Found the neckbeard.

[–]ttchoubs 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Insecure about guys who actually make an effort to look good?

[–]vert_mike 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it's like most of the topic specific subs where all the normal behavior stays within the sub, and only the really outlandish stuff makes it into /r/all giving a distorted view to outsiders.

[–]GodsAreTired 8 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck people for having hobbies amirite?

[–]TheSartreilliest 22 points23 points24 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

literally fuck you for the "amirite" though, amirite?

[–]Xanaxdabs 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They're generally an affordable sub, they're not advocating for buying Gucci all the timr

[–]melancholy_astronaut 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Really? Im subbed there and I always get the distinct feeling that it's mostly for rich teenagers and college students.

[–]Xanaxdabs-2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I mean kinda, but ridiculously overpriced clothes is pretty expensive to me. The most expensive shirts I ever see them talk about are Brooks Brothers, and even Brooks Brothers is only alright.

[–]jimbojangles1987 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Really? Whats wrong with a guy wanting to feel more confident? Especially when so many of us are so bad at finding stylish clothes that actually fit

[–]Tralan 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The sub is a bit... arrogant. Find stylish clothes, but damn, the smuggness there is a bit overbearing.

[–]jimbojangles1987 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh I've never actually been to the sub so i didnt know all that. Just find it weird that ppl are giving other ppl shit for wanting to dress nice.

[–]Tralan 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No, I was attacking the sub specifically, not wanting to dress nice.

[–]jimbojangles1987 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ya not you but the other guy that replied to me

[–]washedrope5 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you derive your confidence from your clothes, something is wrong.

[–]jimbojangles1987 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I said "more confident" as in it might just be one contributing factor to your overall confidence. God damn why are ppl fighting me on this?

[–]HAWAll 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Let it be known! /u/Washedrope5 gets to decide from here on out what methods people can use to increase their confidence! If you're ever so much as thinking about trying to build your confidence, you must send a handwritten letter on parchment to him!

[–]TheMrShadySlim 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know whenever I'm wearing a suit, I do feel a little better. It isn't a big change but you know it does help

[–]DrDawkinsPhD5 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Mmm, delicious low hanging fruit.

[–]frostbird 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

OMG the amount of hate your comment is getting is HILARIOUS. They're exactly proving the point were making, lol!

[–]9874123987456321 -5 points-4 points-3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Enjoy your cargos loser

[–]daffyduckhunt 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the only shorts I'm comfortable spilling salsa on.

I eat a lot of salsa.

[–]rtizzle_trybizzl21 -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/Im6'5"andasizeslimsmallbecauseihaveshouldersaswideasapineapple

[–]FiachB7 -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone has a chip on their shoulder. It's really helpful if you know what you want and you can stay at basically well dressed or go full expensive hipster.

[–]Kylde_ 25 points26 points27 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Not a hipster faggot, so no.

[+]Lothlorien_Randir -11 points-10 points-9 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Lol, post a picture of how you dress! I bet you look like shit.

[–]ayywumao 53 points54 points55 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah his outfits aren't even on fleek. smh

I do not find how I dress to be very important and look down on people who do

Yeah, well I bet you do not even dress well!

Got 'em!

[–]gljivicad 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Comments on /r/iamverysmart

"I always identify with Morty, what does that imply?"

That you are obviously autistic.

Whatever you wear, it doesnt matter.

[–]SrslyGoFuckYourself1 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with him and I'll save you the time.

Khakis and a polo. Timeless unless you're a fucking try hard with a beanie. Also you kinda proved his point. Dipshit.

[–]ttchoubs 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Talk shit post fit

[–]TheBigLahey 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I like to think men aren't defined by their opinions on some stitched rags, but that's just me...

[–]yoursolace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No! every guy has one suit that they wear to all funerals and weddings, it probably has little wedding favors and funeral cards in the jacket pockets from the previous few that they went to

For daily attire, yeah, because it's jeans or khakis or whatever shorts were cool w summers ago which go in a solid combo with almost every shirt they own

[+]dank_lennie 8 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

This is the dumbest thing I've ever read.

Hurr durr men don't care about how they dress hahahaaaa

[–]Oathkeeper93 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ironic

[–]moist_seagulll 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I dont. I need a t-shirt? I open my t-shirt drawer and take the one off the top. It results in me wearing the same 4 on rotation, but I dont care, and no one I know does either.

[–]dank_lennie 8 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

So that must mean not one single guy cares about his appearance right?

[–]moist_seagulll 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That is not at all what I said.

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unrelated but I fucking hate seagulls. Like I wish I could genocide them.

[–]gljivicad 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I was single and I am now in a relationship of 3 years. Neither me nor my SO nor my friends and family give a shit that im cycling through the same clothes over and over again.

[–]dank_lennie 8 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Again, what does your experience make so special?

There are definitely more guys that care about how they dress than those who don't, and that's their thing.

I don't get why guys have to act as if we're so rugged that we only wear dirty college hoodies and stuff, just let people do their thing.

[–]gljivicad 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No. My point is, nobody else should give a crap how one dresses. That person dresses for themselves, not me, and therefore i dont give a shit. Im not gonna wear according to fashion just because someone might expect that from me.

[–]dank_lennie5 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Okay but the original comment I was responding to said 'men don't wear outfits' implying they just don't care about how they dress which is kinda dumb imo

[–]Epamynondas -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So you're saying she has a point?

[–]TheMeisterAce 236 points237 points238 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Same thing when they talk about not wearing shirts/bras in public...that it is unfair. Men don’t complain about that shit. It is the saggy busted breasted brigade that complains

[–]Virtual_Messiah 81 points82 points83 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Then they totter over to /r/BigBoobsGW and use the title "someone told me to post here".

[–]boobytrap_bot 25 points26 points27 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Here are some boobies, just for you!

[–]fkingrone 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those actually look pretty and healthy... Unlike your average bigboobsgw poster.

[–]D-Aton 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love hot girls that dont wear bras. Im not looking at ugly women anyways.

[–]WolfeBane84 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I know that you're using "busted" in the context of referring to a bust. But I find your statement infinitely more funny if you imagine "busted" to mean "broken" like "my car's busted"

[–]southsideson 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

/r/brokenbustedtitties

[–]gaynazifurry4bernie 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank goodness that doesn't exist.

[–]MidWestMind 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I too was curious. Like driving by an accident.

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[–]Ferg8 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't even noticed what your hair color looks like. I don't even care about what people looks like.

I'd be terrible at helping police officers identifying someone.

[+]b6NPXjQ -8 points-7 points-6 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Why do you think this is what feminists are like? Because this idiot says that? This person is a sample of all feminists?

[–][deleted] 8 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

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[+]b6NPXjQ -10 points-9 points-8 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

And this sub is so you can be triggered and outraged by what they say, and then feel superior when they get "served"?

[–]Arclight_Ashe16 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

and this comment is here so you can feel morally superior by passing judgement on others for what they do?

[–]b6NPXjQ -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The circle has closed?

[–]fairlymediocre 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Question mark?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well a lot us are superior because we don’t care about petty shit like they do

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes

[–]Made-a-blade 227 points228 points229 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Yet the only ones who gives a shit about stuff like that are other women or possibly the gay fashion guys. Maybe the real male privilege is that most of us aren't born with the urge to constantly criticize and be a cunt for no reason.

[–]Ormild 63 points64 points65 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've worn the same suit to the past 3 weddings I've been to. I don't think anyone has ever noticed. I'd be flattered if anyone actually thought about me enough to care that I wore the same suit all three times.

I ain't rich enough to buy a different suit each time.

[–]nobodyyoullremember 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're....not wrong.

[–]HangryHipppo 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

In my experience, most women don't give a shit about this either. At least I haven't met any that have ever commented negatively about someone wearing something they recognize from a previous outing or photo.

[–]Made-a-blade 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're probably right. I haven't heard anything like this in the wild either, and of course it was a huge generalisation. But my point is, that whenever somebody will be taking flak for this, it's probably less likely to come from a dude.

[–]CGA001 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think Chris Porter said it best (NSFW language)

[–]MinisterforFun 57 points58 points59 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Well, maybe some guys are annoyed at how limited our choices are when it comes to clothing designs.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

MEN AREN'T PRIVILEGED; WOMEN ARE! THIS NEW STUDY REVEALS SHOCKING RESULTS!

[–]MinisterforFun 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She’s basically “woe is me for my privilege of choice”

[–]Yuo_cna_Raed_Tihs 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but....

Pockets

[–]lovethecomm -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you serious? I find it's the exact opposite. Or maybe it's women desperately trying to fit in and they all look the same to me barring a few exceptions. Although it's the same for men, what with the cow lick hairstyle going around.

[–]ThugDaddy 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Real privilege for guys, including me, is that we go waaay too long without washing our khakis or jeans. We just wear them shits till its stained or visibly dirty.

[–]PigNamedBenis 8 years ago* [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

Yet as a man, if I wear my birthday suit just ONCE, everybody loses their minds and I end up in jail. If a woman does it, I'll end up in jail for looking... go figure. Pussy pass alive and well.

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

I always say, why can women Free The Nipple, but I can't Winnie The Pooh?

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Winnie+the+poohing

[–]autourbanbot 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Here's the Urban Dictionary definition of Winnie the poohing :


The act of walking around with a t-shirt and nothing else on, like Winnie the Pooh.


My roommates stopped paying the rent and moved out when they walked in on me Winnie the poohing.


about | flag for glitch | Summon: urbanbot, what is something?

[–]vodoun 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good bot

[–]PigNamedBenis 8 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I think "Donald Ducking" would also be a fitting term for that.

[–]infamousnexus 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Essentially interchangable.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Donald%20Ducking

[–]autourbanbot 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's the Urban Dictionary definition of Donald Ducking :


To walk around wearing only a shirt, in the style made famous by the Disney character of the same name.


My hot neighbor spends a lot of time Donald Ducking in the windows of her apartment while talking on the phone.


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[–]LawnCareJesus 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Porky Pigging it.

[–]sirin3 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

People even complain, when a man wears a dress once

[–]PigNamedBenis1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Great, now I'll never be able to top that. Unless it's a man who wears a bra... what if your sexy moobs need some support? Don't judge me! It's my body, my right!

[–]dank_lennie 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

So we just making up scenarios for our agenda?

Stop acting like a victim

[–]broccolibush42 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think this is a joke

[–]alittlebitneverhurt 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In fact, I've seen too many of my female friends in a smokin hot dress never to see them wear it again. It's a shame really.

[–]infamousnexus 8 years ago* [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Male privilege is not giving a shit what women think about you if you wear the same clothes twice, because you're not a hormone induced emotional basket case.

[–]gljivicad 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Cant live with them, cant live without them

[–]thefilthyhermit 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're half right.

[–]gljivicad 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lets play a game of guess which

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes, we can live without them

[–]evolore2 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

We have the technology

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep

[–]asus3000 31 points32 points33 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men generally don't need or rely on their appearance to get free shit. Pretty sure this is a female privilege she's complaining about.

[–]nobodyyoullremember 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This womans problem is simply: caring what others think enough to dictate her own actions. so if she wants to play the blame game then look into a mirror love.

[–]sagetrees 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

YES! This is the issue right here, they care too fucking much about what other people think. If they didn't and someone actually comes up to them and said "omg you're wearing the same dress as last time!?", they could just stare blankly at the person and be like "yeah, and? whats your point?"

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I wore the same pair of khakis to work for about a month once. Every day. Don't think I washed them. Nobody noticed.

[–]DarthTigris 21 points22 points23 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well congratulations, Mr. Nevapoopmapantz!

[–]southsideson 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't make assumptions, they could have been dark brown khakis.

[–]wake_me_111 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ive been wearing the same underwear all week #MalePrivilege

[–]sagetrees 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been wearing no underwear all week #humanPrivliege

Literally no one but vapid shallow people GAF

[–]creperobot 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's so true. So much of what women do is to impress other women. Nails for example, useless long mirror shine nails. Could not care less.

[–]bryanrobh 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Damn people will find anything to be offended or angry about. This butch needs to chill

[–]ledg3nd 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"This butch" made me laugh and forget a lot of my worries. Honestly thanks for the relief even if it was only for a moment.

[–]bryanrobh 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Glad I could help

[–][deleted] 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]mrshekelstein18 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is there some kind of physical law preventing women from wearing the same outfit two times in a row?

[–]sagetrees 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

nope, they just care too much what others think about them.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

http://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/tv-and-radio/karl-stefanovics-sexism-experiment-today-presenter-wears-same-suit-for-a-year-20141115-11ncdz.html

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, it just proves many don’t give a shit about suits men wear because many think they look the same or similar

[–]GetchaWater 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I guy picks out a swimsuit that looks good on him. A woman picks out a swimsuit that will make her look better than everyone at the beach. This is the problem.

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[–]Saul_Panzer_NY 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Like women’s shoes. They wear those for other women. Most men don’t give a shit and the guys that do have a fetish. I’d rather a woman wear comfortable shoes and be in a good mood and having fun at 9pm than wearing awesome heels and in a bad mood and wanting to go home because her feet hurt.

[–]johnchapel 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus thats true. Like they exclusively shit on each other and blame us for it.

[–]chambertlo 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only women are petty enough to talk badly about an outfit you wear more than once. Men don't give a fuck.

[–]PuffingTom 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All this shit about privilege is actually starting to fucking trigger me

[–][deleted] 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]D-Aton 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men hate themselves and dont talk about it. Women hate each other and tell everybody.

[–]southsideson 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

not sure who said it but basically, 'You always hear guys say, I wish I understand how women think. I don't, you know who understands how women think? Other women, and they all hate each other.'

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean, it's not like you're wrong, but there are couple problems with how you're presenting that argument...

  1. Not really with the effort considering wether or not you wear clothes twice isn't really an issue..

  2. You cite no sources, even though there are many to back your claims and prevent you from simply looking like a sexist asshole (which is how anybody who disagrees with you is going to see you).

  3. You're speaking as if these are commonly known facts; like anybody disagreeing is lesser in some way. Your goal should not be to "win". It should be to "convince". Those have very different routes to take.

I recommend a revision or deletion.. but ya know, I'm just trying to make men's rights seem more appealing without having to hate on feminism.

[–]ehImCanadian 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can I comment at the same time mens suit pants and top are either for business black, blue, or some other form of blue 99% of the time. I've never seen a hot pink, red, etc color suit at work. If I was to purchase one of those suits and wear it everysingle day people would notice I'm wearing the same red suit.

At the same time I wear a different tie color everyday.

[–]kellykebab 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's always sad when even the cute ones are infected.

[–]gljivicad 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You have to be extremely insecure and self concious to be scared of wearing a same dress two times or more. My SO doesnt have a problem with that and i love it

[–]Ram3ss3s 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women passing off their insecurity and cattiness towards each other as feminist oppression.

[–]SomeAsshole666 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Guys don’t give a fuck about your shoes or your dress. Only other girls do. No guy ever says “She’s hot but she’s worn that same outfit before so she’s disgusting.”

[–]Stevlimo 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A woman can wear whatever she wants as many times as she likes......she just chooses not to.

[–]apatheorist 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would count on one hand how many times I've noticed a woman wearing the same dress twice. But I don't have any fingers. Fortunately, that's also how many times I have noticed.

[–]Cosmohig 13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I can only immagine how nice it must feel to wear a skirt. I'm sure the breeze would feel sensational on my sweaty balls. I can't wear those though... Oh and 99/100 girls WILL NOT date someone shorter than them. So if you're short, you're &%#@ed. It's not socially acceptable for men to wear heels... I wonder if it's okay for the "oppressed" sex? Men can't even wear pink. We have to call it salmon. We even have to wear ties to formal gatherings/work. Ask a grown man if he likes wearing a tie all of the time! Not too mention we have to wear suits even if it's hot. This next one is a weaker point. Most of guys clothing options if they want to "fit in" in school have to be brand name. Girls don't have to worry about logos or any of that. They literally can wear any old cheap shirt. Bonus points if it matches! I'm a man, I don't feel oppressed by this. I just think I have better points. I would even argue if you threw a party every weekend and wore the same outfit as a guy someone might call you out on it. And for some reason we aren't allowed to keep our own clothes!!! Mainly hoodies, t shirts SBD hats.

[–]4cutekids9 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

All your second set of points don’t make any sense.

[–]HangryHipppo 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

  1. Yes you can. I know men who wear skirts. Maybe they're just more secure with themselves. It's hard but if you want to do it you can.

  2. 99/100 is just wrong. Most women prefer men taller than them, just as most men prefer a woman skinnier/smaller than they are. But that doesn't mean they will refuse to date you if you have something else to offer.

  3. lol you're complaining about not wearing heels? Go ahead, no one is stopping you. They aren't a walk in the park (ha).

  4. No that's just you. Pink is in for guys especially if you like that preppy look.

  5. No one forces you to wear a tie just like no one forces women to wear heels.

  6. lol what? No. I don't think I've ever met a man that would give a shit if their friend was wearing a non-brand name item. I don't even know a woman who would care about this.

[–]SirGingerBeard 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn’t even bother, judging by his word vomit comment, he’s probably not the best critical thinker.

[–]Starbreaker99 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

has to be brand name? LMAO check out money pants over here

[–]sadhukar -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man how old are you? 15?

[–]Drmadanthonywayne 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The entire concept of “privilege” is just an excuse for pathetic losers to cast blame on others for the sorry state of their lives instead of looking in the mirror and taking responsibility for their own lives.

[–]Donkeywad 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is actually not male privilege; it's just common sense.

[–]3randy3lue 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

People like her will always find a way to take any comparison and twist it into an example of how the world is so unfair to them and their kind.

[–]SrslyGoFuckYourself1 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck kind of idiot comes up with that shit? How narcissistic do you have to be to think like that

[–]Cuboos 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think the only time i'd criticize a woman for wearing the same dress more than once is if she wore the same dress for like a week straight. Even then i wouldn't give a shit about her sense of style, it'd be a hygiene issue.

[–]sagetrees 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

maybe she likes it so much she has 5 copies of it? IDGAF as long as I can't smell her stinking or lookign obviously gross.

[–]imtinyricketc 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Female privilege is being able to wear a cute dress or the boys outfit and it’s totally socially acceptable.

[–]Beagus 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These idiot feminists are so out of touch with reality it's unbelievable! I love how they bitch about unfair "beauty standards" when the fact of the matter is, men didn't create those standards. Guys don't give a shit if your dress is out of style or your purse isn't name brand. The fashion industry is run by women and gays. If you think your average dude wastes his time focusing on how you dress, you're a full blown imbecile.

[–]AliceTrippDaGain 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also if guys have to dress "smart" (in the UK anyway - don't know about you foreign scallywags) for work, you are pretty much stuck in a suit. That's it. If you work in this type of business you wear suits day in day out. It's so boring. "Smart" for women however seems pretty varied!

[–]8BitsIsEnoughForMe 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just justify it as being environmentally friendly and totally not because I am lazy.

[–]DeafandMutePenguin 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Men don't give a shit what you wear ya dumb cunt.

[–]Ionakana 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Read this in Jim Jeffries voice lol

[–]DeafandMutePenguin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't even thinking of him but yeah it's something he would say.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Another rich white girl bitching about oppression and privilege. Color me unsurprised.

[–]dragonthemagicpuff 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What fucking rule is that!?

[–]TheDewyDecimal 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I couldn't tell you a single specific article of clothing that I wore two days ago other than my shoes, which I only have one pair. I couldn't even tell you the colors, not even the socks since I have black and white pairs for some reason and wear them at random.

[–]YeltsinYerMouth 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, but thats still the patriarchy because your gender is my scapegoat

[–]red2lucas 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not being insecure is male privilege

[–]HenryCurtmantle 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel very privileged wearing the same shirt and tie I wore last week.

If you polish your shoes every week they last for years and years and always look smart. It's a privilege to own just three pairs of shoes and not get upset about it.

Use spray starch on your shirts and they look crisp and new. No need to buy shirts more than once every three years. Metal collar stiffeners keep the shirt looking like new. Iron the inside of the collar first: stops the ends curling inwards.

Rub a dry bar of soap on the inside of your trouser crease then press the outside with a medium iron. Sharp crease!

Place a damp cloth over your jeans when you iron them. They'll look clean and smart and you won't need to keep going shopping for clothes. Privilege!

Use brown paper when you press suit trousers. Prevents shine on the fabric. Suit lasts much longer.

Don't put keys in a pocket where they can move about. Tears the lining.

Chaps, look after your clothes and shoes so you don't have to exercise your privilege.

Avoid cute dresses. They're for the ladeez.

[–]dukefan5656 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only way I'd notice if a girl was wearing the same outfit as someone else is if she freaked out and made it known that her outfit was the same as someone else.

[–]Lupin_The_Fourth 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yo for real!

[–]H_Lon_Rubbard 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. We don't give a flying fuck.

This is just a fact.

[–]drylube 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe that's because men in general aren't so fucking vain

[–]garrypig 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly it truly seems like the inequality is an internal loop. They’re the ones oppressing themselves.

[–]BumwineBaudelaire 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

don't forget the bitchy queens who work in entertainment

[–]sndecker 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That girl who posted that needs to go to some third world country so she can learn how ridiculous and stupid her problems are

[–]Mickface 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I dunno where some people get this idea from. It is completely untrue. Absolutely nothing wrong with wearing a cute outfit a lot. Just don't do it too much, or it'll get boring - but that goes for everyone, men and women.

[–]AndyJBC 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If I see you in a cute dress, I'm gonna think "aw hell that dress cute af on her" and if you wear it again I'll be thinking "aw yeah there that cute dress again looking good lady"

[–]sunshinehyperbole 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don’t know any women who can afford to not be seen in the same outfit more than once. Who are these people that have this kind of money to spend on so many clothes?

[–]sagetrees 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Put it this way, Kate Middleton (british princess person) can afford to wear a different outfit each time but she chooses not to and often rewears outfits because - who the fuck cares!?

[–]REPLY_WITH_POSHNESS 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Be the change you want to see in the world.

Wear what you want to when you want to.

[–]fjell_strom 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait a minute.

[–]pilsung 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lalo knows...

[–]fight24 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dresses isn't expensive compared to suits and other dress clothes for men.

[–]alaskaj1 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Especially if you are willing to wear "last seasons" dresses and such after they go on sale for 80% off. The only time I've found that kind of a discount on a suit was when the store was going out of business.

[–]DishwasherTwig 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Female privilege is having the option to wear many different dresses or skirts or whatever while men pretty much have to wear the same clothes just with minor differences in color.

[–]TakeMeDrunkImHome22 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol it should same that men can wear some of the same clothes days in a row.

[–]brewmastermonk 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Female privilege is believing that people pay attention to what you wear and silently oppress you because if it.

[–]usedsparingly 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is just female hamstering. In reality what she means to say is “I personally won’t wear the same dress twice because I’m scared somebody is going to call me out on it or women will be catty and make fun of me so I’m going to try and direct my anger at my own cowardice at men even though they would get called out on the same shit.”

[–]tractorpillow 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love when my wife re wears a fancy dress to an event. Saves me the time and money of shopping with her for a new one.

[–]JosephND 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This doesn't show a single attempt at pussy pass for pussy pass to be denied. She isn't trying to use her gender to get away with some stupid behavior, she's straw man arguing against men while being completely wrong.

This fits under /r/sjwhate more.

[–]whistleridge 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hell. I wish you WOULD wear dresses more than once. I like that one you got for the wedding last year, and remind me why we have to drop $250 on a one use item?

[–]Terminal-Psychosis 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bitch, you have the incredible privilege of CHOOSING to wastefully wear a new outfit every time you go out!?

You should be grateful for the (undeserved in your case) benefits that patriarchy provides you.

Fucking hypocrite.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only females would care about petty shit like being criticized for clothing. Really shows their childlike mentality

[–]needsmocoffee 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I remember one semester in college after I had just moved I just wore the same thing everyday. Red shirt and Khaki shorts. I would just wash it everynight I don't know why I did it. I had other clothes and they were unpacked after the second week.

[–]akmarksman 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is it because your day job was working the phones at State Farm?

[–]motherhydra 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Coco Channel repeatedly wore the same thing multiple times to big events. Her reasoning was that the jewelry is what made the outfit and differentiated it. But sure, some randocunt Sally knows more right?

Sigh. The upper crust.

[–]GetchaWater 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And this is why the fashion industry is winning.

[–]nosaj626 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love how he made sure to say "straight man".

[–]ionicomb 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude, so long as you're not producing a funk, IGAF what you where. Ladies are far more critical of each other than men. It sort of is the other way around so far as "fashion" is concerned. If it were up to me, I'd habe four pairs of pants, five shirts, 3 sweaters 1 coat and a pair if shoes (not including work uniform) and where that shit until it's literally threads. My wife is the one that forces me to "match". I could personally care less.

[–]dirtysk 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love when my wife repeats certain dresses.

[–]Ekat_clan 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, this reeks of being inedibly wealthy. I don’t know their life story, but if you’re able to abide by this “””rule”””, you’re pretty privileged.

[–]sextacope 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TIL being a dumb cunt means that you actually think dudes give a fuck on what your wearing or would actually even notice.

[–]xenodit 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

female privilege is the abilite to wear male and female clothes too! Can a man wear female clothes?no he will be harassed and discriminated but a woman wearing manly clothes is socially acceptable.

[–]bitcoinvpk 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I want someone to provide me with a single example, in all of recorded human history, where a straight man berated a woman for wearing the same dress more than once.

[–]Templareaid 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If my girlfriend wears a dress that I think looks nice I'm going to be happy when she wears it again, because it looks nice. Why in this woman's eyes would I complain about such a thing?

[–]gone11gone11 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/murderedbywords brutally

[–]Peach_Muffin 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This is the wrong sub for me to be pointing this out I know, but that isn't even what privilege means in that context. Male privilege just refers to inherent advantages like not having to deal with a period every month - obviously in that example it's nobody's fault, it's just biological reality. Privilege need not even have anything to do with male sexism.

Now downvote me please.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Then it’s not a fucking privilege then is it?

[–]Peach_Muffin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Only by definition.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s biological reality, not privilege

[–]iliketriggeringsjws 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Didn't you get the memo that nothing is biological reality and everything is an illusion created by patriarchal social structures? They genuinely believe that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right

[–]tekkers_for_debrz -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao can this sub not take a joke?

[–]Enshakushanna 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

im literally wearing the same shirt and shorts as yesterday even though i got piss drunk yesterday, and texted my supervisor i was drunk

give no fucks, its the best way of life

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Uh.. your example isn't a good one since that has plenty of consequences that can effect your future...

[–]Track607 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm sure his supervisor understands that getting piss drunk is important to him.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure, but brain cells can't magically stop dying to appease his lust for alcohol. Actually, maybe that has something to do with his current lifestyle?

[–]HangryHipppo 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not even other women give a shit about this.

[–]2n4life -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Maybe I'm giving her too much credit but I think she's talking about famous women at red carpet type events? It's undeniable that if Jennifer Lawrence wore the same dress to the Oscars two years in a row it would be front page news for tabloids.

[–]DarthTigris 29 points30 points31 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Yet no straight man would care then either.

[–]2n4life-18 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's pretty obviously sexist to assign liking clothes to women, and pretty obviously homophobic to imply gay men are somehow like women. Do you really think there are no straight men who would care about that? Do you really think all, or most, women and gay men would?

[–]DarthTigris25 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm not a woman or a gay man, so I wasn't trying to speak for them. And I will admit that it was presumptuous of me to speak for every single straight man in existence. But I feel confident in saying that the overwhelming majority of them (particularly in the US, where I am) would not care about Jennifer Lawrence wearing the same dress two years in a row to the Oscars. Very confident.

[–]jamsrobots10 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Amen to that

[–]SmootherPebble1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

+1

[–]2n4life1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The "overwhelming majority" is a statement I can agree with. It's not sexist to say men are more or less likely to be interested in something, but saying "every man" or "every woman" would like or dislike something is. I know it might seem like a stupid semantic difference, but one is making a factual observation, and the other is a blanket statement. Like I pointed out above, there are obviously exceptions. Do you think there's something about the biology of men that makes them naturally less likely to be interested in clothes, or is it because society teaches girls from an early age to be more worried about their appearance, play with toys (like dolls) that emphasize clothing, and identify with characters (like Disney princesses) that have intricate outfits?

Hopefully that makes sense, and based on your comments it doesn't seem like you're a sexist or a bad person. I know what sub this is and I fully expected the downvotes.

[–]MajorCocknBalls12 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

TRIGGERED

[–]SmootherPebble2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Next complaint will be about not providing a trigger warning...

[–]iliketriggeringsjws7 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Women and gay men are more likely to be interested in fashion than straight men. Saying so doesn't mean I hate women or gay men. It's not even a critical comment. Is saying that men are more likely to be interested in cars sexist against men?

[–]2n4life1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

As I explained in another comment, there's a big difference between "more likely" and "all". I agree it is not sexist to say women are more likely to be interested in fashion.

[–]khatuba-2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I personally know this girl, her account is just full of jokes. Can no one tell she’s joking lmao?

[–]hdnsmbt -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Can anybody tell me what this woman used her pussy to "pass"?

Edit: I assume the answer is "No" or "Nothing" and "We don't want to talk about it, only bitch about women."

[–]RWRSTDITD -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She never said that it was men who criticize women.

No matter what you think of the woman's statement the man's response was not a good rebuttal

[+]Orsonius -8 points-7 points-6 points 8 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link

That guy has not really disproven her argument. Just because it's other women that care doesn't remove fact that she as a woman will be judged differently than men

[–]iliketriggeringsjws 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Due to the fault of other women. Not men. That's the point.

[+]Orsonius -9 points-8 points-7 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but she never denied this?

[–]SrslyGoFuckYourself1 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Well you can't really blame a problem women created on "male privilege" perhaps she should be attacking the source of the issue instead of, you know, the opposite of the issue.

Fucking idiots surround me on all sides.

[+]Orsonius -6 points-5 points-4 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

It's male privilege because men don't experience this sort of thing. It's really not that hard to understand

[–]pmpsmainprofit7 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Funny...at my office, there are a couple guys who wear clothes they had to wear when they were technicians in the field. Most people wear office attire, but they'll just wear their old tech clothes.

I hear the same group of women making comments about it. Once, I heard them say, if they wanna wear technician clothes, let them go back to being technicians.

So...yes, men experience a lot of the same things women do. The only difference is they deal with it themselves instead of going on social media crying about always being a victim.

This victim mentality is cancer and it's only spreading more and more. It's sad.

[–]Orsonius-2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Muh one anecdotal experience

[–]pmpsmainprofit5 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It happens all the time and you know it. You just want to be a victim so you can't ever be held accountable for your actions.

Some day...when you grow up...you'll know what I mean.

[–]Orsonius0 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The Fuck you are talking about?!

Do you know who I even am? What do you know about me?

[–]robbyb20 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why are we assigning blame to men for women judging other women on what they wear?

[–]Orsonius -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Were are 'we' doing that?

[–]robbyb20 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Male privilege is implied blame. You can’t claim male privilege without implying it’s not their fault and they need to fix it.

[–]Orsonius-1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I could just rephrase what she said to "female disadvantage" doesn't remove the fact that it is something women have to deal with most men don't.

[–]robbyb203 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Except it wasn’t phrased that way and it’s also not a female disadvantage. This is clearly a female on female situation created by them themselves. To add males into the equation is completely inappropriate.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are criticized for the clothing that they wear

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, because men and women are different

[–]Todie -5 points-4 points-3 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I knew i had to sort by controvercial to find something i agree with in this thread..

The point is that these things, like "who feels like they can wear what" are social constructs. Even though it is likely mostly other women shaming women for it, that is a toxic social construct that is culturally bounded and best understood in relation to a broader context, that includes men.

[–]iliketriggeringsjws 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

It has nothing whatsoever to do with men.

I'm used to men being blamed for everything, but blaming us for how women judge other women is downright silly.

Men do not care if women wear the same dress twice. If it looks nice, we'll think positively of them, even if they wear it repeatedly. If I told a woman her dress looked nice and she wore it again a week later, I'd think "Oh, I guess she appreciated my compliment. I'm pleased she cares about my opinion."

Some of the things you learn in Social Studies class are useful. Some things are absurd. It's important to distinguish between them instead of just spitting out things that make no sense.

Would you blame the way men judge other men on women?

[–]Todie -5 points-4 points-3 points 8 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

Im not necessarily agreeing with her use of the term male privilige, but privilige is only loosely conected to blame - if at all.

The words she used triggered you. Made you feel blamed as a man. I get it.

Im just trying to point out that pretty much all social interaction in society is gendered. That is, we learn to think gender matters and to adapt to others expectations of us - expectations partially based on our percieved gender.

To answer your question: inderecly, to a degree, YES i do blame women for that, in so far as i blame widespread ignorance; problematic behaviour like exessive macho culture and unhelthy attitudes towards mental health issues are profoundly gendered, and similarly best understood in relation to the wider context that includes women.

[–]Arclight_Ashe 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the fuck are you talking about

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You seem like you need a break from the internet

[–]Orsonius 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's hopeless these morons don't even grasp even an ounce of what you are saying. They just need to circle jerk over evil women

[–]iliketriggeringsjws 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We are quite capable of processing what she is saying. The problem is that she has no idea of how to apply what she learned of gender theory to the discussion in question. Both of you come across as naive young people who read a lot of theory but are unable to relate it to the real world.

'Male privilege' is a term feminists use to suggest that society gives preferential treatment to men (which is not true any more, but that is not the point here). When you try to apply that to women judging other women based on silly criteria created by women, people rightly wonder what the hell you've been smoking.

[–]Orsonius 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

calls us young and naive

I like triggering swjs

:thinking:

[–]Todie -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you though.

[–]Forcistus -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think his comment doesn't negate hers.

[+]ICANSEEYOUFAPPING -7 points-6 points-5 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I actually did get called out for wearing the same style of dress to weddings, not even the same dress. Yeah i can tell them to go fuck themselves, doesn't change the fact no one comments on my brothers wearing the same ill fitting suits they've had since their 20's.

[–]zeppo2k 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who commented - men or women?

[–]southsideson 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not appropriate to wear wedding dresses to other people's weddings.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Probably because they weren’t “calling you out” in reality, just in your delusional mind

[–]ICANSEEYOUFAPPING 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You're free to live in whatever world you want to, just to protect your fragile sense of self righteousness dude.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well you’re the delusional one bitch

[–]ICANSEEYOUFAPPING 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And you seem real bothered right now, which actually makes me feel pretty great.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope, actually i enjoy pointing out bullshit from bitches like you

[–]rtf111 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, how fucking oppressed are you? Get out of here.

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