CMV A Man that takes care off himself will be in his physical Prime till hes ~35.

MxMaster9907 · 2023-10-08T12:46:46+00:00

I would say physical prime (because it really wouldn’t be) but you’d be better off than most dudes aged 35.

I don’t think you would compete with a handsome 20 year old either.

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-10-08T13:12:40+00:00

The average man isn't a millionaire, so stop comparing the average man to a millionaires or actors. It's 100% certain that you can't take care of yourself like they do. Jared Leto is over 50, but he literally looks like he's in his late 30s. However, that doesn't mean the average man has this chance or Jared Leto looks exactly like this if he isn't a millionaire. 🤷

Alexa Demie is over 30, but she can easily compete with 20 year olds 🤷. However, it's delusional to base our perceptions on millionaire celebrities and think their lives are the same as those of average people.

I had seen a study comparing the appearances of identical twins. These were not famous, wealthy people. Just the difference in using sunscreen alone had created a minimum of a 10-year gap in appearance between the two twin siblings.

Now, let's attribute this to wealthy individuals. Their lifestyle, the products they use, the quality of foods they consume is not the same as average people. I'm not even talking about aesthetic interventions.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-08T12:18:47+00:00

The difference between the male and female prime is, that men universally like women in their twenties physically the most, no matter if they are 18 or 70 themselves. Early to mid twenties being the most attractive. Women like men around their own age or a little older the most. In their fourties it reverses and physically their ideal is their age or slightly younger. So the physical attractiveness peak depends on the woman's age. However, since men desire women in their twenties the most, the ideal male age is the age, where it's the easiest to secure a prime female. Considering how unsuccessful 18-24 year olds seem to be according to studies and how many men get into relationships from mid twenties to mid thirties, 23-33 is probably the male prime, unless you start balding, then it's over even earlier. So both male (23-33) and female prime (19-29) is quite young. It's maybe a bitter reality for some, but we will all age and become uglier.

Lenovo_Driver · 2023-10-08T13:15:17+00:00

Anyone who takes care of themselves will be in their primes..

Most 20 year old women prefer guys their own age that are attractive over a 35 and the inverse is also true..

JNRoberts42 · 2023-10-08T11:23:16+00:00

This is something that many Women cant accept

If it were true, women would universally prefer men of that age range, right? But 18, 26, and 35 year old women aren’t chashing or monopolizing 35 year old men. There are still 3-5 30 year old men to 1 30 year old woman on OLD. Most women date or marry men 2-3 years older.

Most men date or marry women 2-3 years younger regardless of his age.

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-08T13:12:37+00:00

WHo said a man will be in his "Physical" prime later in life.

What pill are you taking.

What does the Redpill actually say:

"At 37, if all goes well you'll be more financially stablke and mature than you are at 27" (The Rational Male)

Nowhere does it actually say "Physical Prime".

"The 37-year-old you will, in theory, be more ttractive to a LONG-TERM prospect than the 27 year old you"

(This has nothing to do with physical appearence).

Now as for women competing with "Maddison Beer", does she have to? Most men will not get with Maddison Beer (especially just on looks alone). Yes women age as they get older and so do men (who wudda thought). But if a man in his older years, 20 years olds are not going to be queing up for him based on looks alone, its going to be wealth and social status. So that leaves the average man with the average woman. As most people, on average, tend to let themselves go when they get older, the man who looks after his appearence, as well as wealth, reasources and status, is just going to fare better than the man who chose to become a slob (in this day and age, its a choice). Likewise, with women, however men seem more fixated on looks than women, so it "may" be harder to get a suitable partner as things that matter to women won't necessarily matter as much to men. If you have let your looks go, then yeah it may be super tough.

But the dating market changes as you age. Howerver, its still about being the best catch you can be, to increas ethe number of people attracted to you, for you to pick from (regardless of gender).

Fusiontron · 2023-10-08T13:21:37+00:00

Most men and most women in the US do not care of themselves. Poor diet, sleep, exercise, alcohol, and water habits. So just how applicable is this?

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-08T14:12:26+00:00

Dude , everyone age, relax, it doesn’t matter, just take of yourself.

NakedStreets · 2023-10-08T12:44:38+00:00

What is this relevant to?

Sex isn’t a reward for “primeness.”

Relationships aren’t a reward for “primeness.”

Of the men I’ve had sex with and dated, the men most “in their prime” have been the worst in bed and in life.

Veloci-Tractor · 2023-10-08T11:43:47+00:00

most GOATs do their best shit in their 30s, and most top fighters are over 30

canelo alverez is 33

tyson fury is 35

sean strickland is 32

alex pereira is 36

the quick vigor of youth is overrated, its an advantage that *compensates* for less experience and skill. any incredible athlete at 22, if they stick to it and take care of themselves, is going to be far better at 35.

most creatives create their magnum opus in their 30s. most great medical are scientific leaps are discovered by people in their 30s.

the mind is quick and sharp in our 20s but unrefined, it is quick and sharp so it can be refined. in its refined state is where we reach brilliance. youth alone is not enough.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-10-08T12:07:45+00:00

We are all in our prime in our youth. Reality, prime is peak fertility.

Just because one ages better and can still look good at 35 doesnt equal prime. They just aged better.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-10-08T11:26:07+00:00

He's still going to wrinkle, lose hair, get physically less capable and generally look worse, he can just make it slower. Yes, like women, you can start out bad and get better with effort, and you can gain some skills through training, but the natural process is one of decline. But you're still losing compared to where you were and I can't think of one positive physical thing you gain. The only people most attracted to forty-year-old men are women a little older than that, so if you want to date them I guess that's your prime. But they can't compete with sex symbols in their twenties for general attractiveness.

BunnyFlopped · 2023-10-08T11:30:00+00:00

Ariana Grande is 30. Zendaya is 27.

Those women are absolutely more beautiful than not only the man you mentioned but more so than the vast majority of 20 year old girls.

The guy you posted is honestly not more attractive than all of my friends who are currently in undergraduate and graduate school. In fact, a lot of the guys at the gym at my university are more attractive to me.

I think it’s funny that you don’t consider health issues, stamina, life experience, and overlap in hobbies at all during this. If a man in his 30s approached me, my first thought would be that there is something terribly wrong with him for his inability to get a partner within five years of himself.

Is that true for all men that age? No. However most people do not like large age gaps. That is why statistically women and men are not more than 4 years apart.

purplish_possum · 2023-10-08T14:33:10+00:00

Guys who are hot at 35 were most likely hotter ten or fifteen years earlier.

Of course a tall, fit, handsome 35-year-old guy has it all over a short, fat, ugly 22-year-old. That's not the proper comparison. The proper comparison is to compare within tier. Top 20% 22-year-old guys are hotter than top 20% 35-year-old guys. Bottom 20% 22-year-old guys are, while still ugly, aren't as unattractive as bottom 20% 35-year-old guys.

Aging generally compounds a guys problems -- it doesn't solve them.

metasekvoia · 2023-10-08T17:08:58+00:00

"Physical Prime" is a meaningless concept for most practical purposes. Most decent 18-20yo women don't want to have kids any time soon, they want an education, job, home and savings account before. To date a 35 yo man who would be 45-50 by the time she's ready for a family and 60 by the time their kids go to school? Nah.

fucksiclepizza · 2023-10-08T20:17:53+00:00

Fuck some dudes are delusional.

demedermidimi · 2023-10-08T11:29:29+00:00

„you say there aren’t beautiful 35 Year old women?“ there are, but they can‘t compete with 20 Year old beautiful Women

sure but most 20 year old women are average, not beautiful. a well maintained 35 year old woman wins

While there are several 35 Handsome Dudes that can easily compete with handsome 20 Year old dudes

based on what? if they're both equally handsome, the younger dude is still gonna have an easier time maintaining his physique, will have no wrinkles, will have a full head of hair

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-08T12:16:31+00:00

I think most people can look good till 40. Maybe I have weird taste, I didn't used to like older people that much. The main problem is that people start piling on weight at 30+.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-08T12:05:45+00:00

Bruh,none of you is around 30s Women and it shows lmao

Or somehow 30s women here somehow stay somehow hot more lmao

Lovers691 · 2023-10-08T15:53:07+00:00

No, the male physical prime for looks 20 to 30 past 30 is a slow but not very noticeable decline. For women, it is 18-25, then slow decline

FizzleMateriel · 2023-10-08T16:19:09+00:00

all men will start declining at 45.)

Eh. There’s like a minority of men that get even hotter up to a certain age.

Like compare 55-year-old George Clooney to 30-year-old George Clooney. Provided they didn’t get portly I think a lot of men benefit from having some age and lines on their face.

Independent_Score217 · 2023-10-08T16:29:57+00:00

Depends by what you mean physical prime... 35 will have less issues than 45, but more than 25. That's just part of getting older. Our fertility window doesn't close, and we're more valued as an ATM than for our looks, so from that perspective our SMV doesn't tank like women's does... But getting older is still getting older.

stromyoloing · 2023-10-08T17:01:27+00:00

Men’s peak attractiveness is in their 30s and women in their 20s. About ten years apart

bruhminer · 2023-10-08T18:04:36+00:00

Just no lol, whether you are a man or woman your prime is no later than the age of 25, that's about when your body starts to decay.

AceOfSpadesGymBro · 2023-10-08T11:30:54+00:00

Women get old. Men just get more interesting.

RedditSucksss1 · 2023-10-08T13:00:56+00:00

Lol every post is a woman saying this isn’t true.

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Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2023-10-08T13:38:51+00:00

Depends hiw we're defining it. Athletically, our prime is about 27, but as others have mentioned, there are plenty that de well uo to and even in their 40s.

Other than our hairlines, most of us still look fine into our 30s. I'd say the same about women that taks care of themselves though. Women will probably peak slightlt earlier on average, but nothing extreme.

wtknight · 2023-10-08T14:09:31+00:00

A hair transplant is not something that many men below 35 can afford if they start to bald before then, so I would not say that this is normal "taking care of oneself" like you seem to suggest that it is.

pterry-dactl · 2023-10-08T16:02:53+00:00

Most men in their mid thirties experience some form of hair thinning and skin aging.

They may still look attractive, but they look objectively better when their hair is thickest and their skin is in best condition.

I would put it around 25. They no longer look 'boyish' but don't show signs of aging.

Yoyo4games · 2023-10-08T16:11:03+00:00

Several grammatical errors in the last few sentences alone.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-08T18:13:37+00:00

here a example, are you telling me 35 Year old Tristan Tate is NOT in his physical Prime? You are delusional if you claim that.

You can see through his hairline. That's not prime.

siempreloco31 · 2023-10-08T19:09:14+00:00

35 might be pushing it, I took 2 weeks off my lifts for vacation and came back with old man tendons.

justforlulz12345 · 2023-10-08T19:50:22+00:00

A *human

The wall hits at 25 if you treat youe body like a dump

Treat it like a temple n you proceed to 50 years of beauty

Glittering_File_6990 · 2023-10-08T22:00:37+00:00

When 80% of males are average or worse, that's not a flex lol. Most women, that look after themselves, look objectively better than men way past 30. Hell some older women can look better than younger women cuz they're more put together.

Title	CMV A Man that takes care off himself will be in his physical Prime till hes ~35.
Author	No_Incident4004
Upvotes	11
Comments	97
Date	October 8, 2023 11:19 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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