The reason why TRP is so appealing to some men is that it appeals it one’s abandonment issues, and it becomes very obvious when you realize how abandonment issues manifest themselves.
TRP fully runs under the belief of “you have to be the best cause there is always someone better than you and if you’re not careful she’ll leave you for someone better” - ie. “if i don’t act like alpha chad, she’ll leave me”
Another belief is “female hypergamy is designed to have a woman search for the best mate possible. You have to be the best mate possible” - aka “if im not at my absolute best at all times, she will leave me”
“Once women will age past (insert number here), she will realize the mistakes she made” - “well yeah i didn’t want you anyway! if i don’t care then never get you won’t hurt”
“a woman who has been with many men is damaged, she cannot be sexually satisfied” - “she’s had more experience than me, she’ll realize i suck in bed and will leave me”
“spin plates bro, forget one-itis” - “if i treat women as replaceable objects, i wont get attached to one”
dread game - a manipulation tactic to trigger her abandonment issues/fear of losing you, most times cause you’re scared of her abandoning you than keeping her at any cost is what matters.
The active interpretation of female nature at its worst as well, it very much reads as mental/emotional prepping for her potentially leaving.
Now, there is some solid stuff in there - you should work to be your best, and not have ‘one-itis’, you should date around and explore your options and understand that everyone (men and women) do follow some biological leanings to an extent - but its the language used, contexualizing and active warnings that separate things lots of men should probably be doing and the messy interpretation the RP brings to these things - as is said many times before, no grift is effective without an element of truth.
Tl;dr - don’t let your abandonment issues rule you, the red pill actively feeds on them and by committing to the red pill you’re entirely letting your emotions of fear and anxiety rule you.
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