Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2013-04-30T18:10:06+00:00

Getting rejected by 17 girls in one night and not giving a fuck

bl1y · 2013-04-30T19:32:02+00:00

One night at a bar I was talking to this girl, it was going pretty well, and then I got outgamed by some of the best coordinated game I've seen. Two tall, good looking european guys came over. One guy started talking to the girl while his wingman kept talking to me to that I couldn't interfere with his friend. Not an overly complex strategy, but executed perfectly.

Having studied this stuff, I was able to recognize what was going on, rather than realizing it the next day and being left just to kick myself.

Of course, recognizing what's going on and being able to counter it is completely different, and I didn't have any go-to moves for this type of thing. I could have used my wing women, but they were on the other side of the bar being idiots and just talking to each other, so no help from them.

I did the only thing left to do. I picked the girl up and carried her a few feet away from the other two guys. Maybe I'll write a guide on how to isolate...

erchlt · 2013-04-30T18:37:32+00:00

I ran a perfect game at a party, had tons of social proof, used negs perfectly, and was the life of the party. Got with an HB 8 then within the next month I'd been with all her friends too. Taking them as pivots now since were all good friends. That night changed my life.

new_player · 2013-04-30T18:45:17+00:00

Two separate f-closes in one day. This year it's going to be two-at-once or at least three f-closes in the same day. Gotta keep moving forward.

thesupreme333 · 2013-04-30T19:35:46+00:00

Got a blowjob the first weekend I started applying what I've learned. This was this past weekend. Pretty happy

rotoreuter48 · 2013-04-30T20:18:50+00:00

Being happy

Starship_Ogre · 2013-04-30T20:31:49+00:00

kissing a girl without saying a single world.

big party, music and drinks all around. we saw each other across de room a few times. after a few courage shots, when we looked at each other again, I locked my sight, put my game face on, walked to her and profit

pieguy40 · 2013-04-30T18:06:16+00:00

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2013-04-30T21:52:34+00:00

Not having knocked anybody up.

inked25 · 2013-04-30T21:41:40+00:00

Seducing another man.

Ran into Black Thought (co-founder of The Roots) in Amsterdam. Recognized him and used the mindset I learned in /r/seduction to chat him up. Without me asking him for a thing, he asked for my name and wrote it down on a coaster at the bar. Guest listed me for The Roots show the next night, and added a +2 so I could bring the two girls I had met on a windmill tour that day.

Walking up to a concert in a foreign country with two chicks on your arm and having your name on the guest list = tops.

ApathyTX · 2013-04-30T22:00:28+00:00

I once made a bet with a friend that I couldn't pick up a girl using nothing but one syllable words. So I did.

"Hey." "Yeah." "Cool." Wow!" "Totally?" "Fellatio?"

It's too easy sometimes. Too easy.

yamaraja499 · 2013-04-30T19:11:26+00:00

Broken hearted after a breakup, read a bit of this stuff. Fucked 14 new girls in seven months. Last week was a great one 3 different girls, one previously rejected me.

Hatterslawl · 2013-04-30T20:10:42+00:00

Having severe social Anxiety and making eye contact with six women as well as starting a conversation with one during the day.

InfiniteBlink · 2013-04-30T17:57:38+00:00

I dont have a pinnacle triumph, but i guess speed increase in getting F closes. Fastest meet to fuck was 15 minutes. Another was banging a chick on a roof deck overlooking the city after only knowing her for 30 minutes.

Maybe the triumph was the number of girls i fucked in a year since stating this, 22.

CunningLanguageUser · 2013-04-30T21:26:58+00:00

Not my greatest triumph in terms of enlightenment or anything, but one of my favourite times was when I was so care-free and I didn't have a job to get up for. I had three dates three days in a row with some very attractive girls (admittedly I'd known them all for quite some time) and £40 in my bank account. On the fourth day I had a threesome with girls 2 and 3. Still working on the foursome but I don't want to push anyone into something like that and girl 1 has deep reservations. I'd sure like a foursome on my CV though.

TakinOver · 2013-04-30T22:33:09+00:00

The last night of my junior year of college I had a threesome with a couple girls who were roommates, one of which was a virgin.

ysef95 · 2013-04-30T20:16:46+00:00

using game to replace a stolen bottle of wine for free at our table during an awards ceremony.

2013-04-30T21:04:28+00:00

Getting rejected by about 25 girls in one night and then scoring with 2 in a row afterwards. Belligerent nights.....

hallsworth · 2013-04-30T23:01:34+00:00

I went out one night with some people from school. Everyone was spread out and I basically did a bunch of approaches alone got a couple numbers couple kisses and got the best rejection. Girl said I was way too smooth. I said thanks I practice everyday. Was really stoked on that rejection for whatever reason.

Polemicist82 · 2013-05-01T01:20:30+00:00

I'd love to say being engaged to be married in two months, or successful closes, but honestly it was after listening to hours and hours of seduction CDs/female psychology lectures/confidence boosters/ reading books on sexuality, biology, evolution, etc.

After 2 years of study and no balls to go out and actually talk to women, it was gaining the balls to actually start leaving my apartment, talking to women, maintaining eye-contact and building new relationships. In short: Having the courage to practice.

WoodrowCall · 2013-05-01T03:29:49+00:00

When i was a sophomore in highschool i went to a bonfire with a bunch of seniors and got wasted. I got in between a senior guy and a senior girl who were chatting and said to the girl "let me tell you about campfires" and successfully stole her from him and got laid.

wildchild11 · 2013-05-01T04:29:34+00:00

picking up a girl who spoke only spanish. i know 5 words of spanish.

2013-05-01T04:37:22+00:00

SNL an HB9 model who I stole her off some guy at my local bar. I put myself in a high risk social situation with confidence, did not take her "Model" shit and totally controlled the interaction.

Everything just fell perfectly into place even when she got pissed off at me and i told her to leave the bar she came back (I knew she would come back), then i told her to leave again and she was waiting for me outside the bar 5 minutes later when I had finished my drink. Walked past her did not say a word held out my hand and you can guess the rest of the story.

ready-ignite · 2013-05-01T11:42:45+00:00

After graduation from a University I was handed a sign-on bonus and flown out for two weeks of training with my companies new-hires from across the country. Included in the group were additional new-hires from my office, some of which I had known from school.

We were put up in a luxury hotel, each having our own rooms, ten hours of training every day accompanied with mandatory socialization in the evenings. Open bar provided, of course.

I spend the first couple days observing. Striking up conversations, getting to know people. Assessing what options are out there. I'm not particularly looking for anything, but a closer connection with someone from the group would make the two weeks more interesting. I rule out many of the options before identifying someone in the group I might be interested in.

The Challenge: Somehow find a way to pursue without tipping off my co-workers, who have the advantage of knowing me prior, or alerting her co-workers in order to avoid bringing stories of the hook-up back to our respective home offices. And do this within the confines of strict group interactions from 8am to 7pm every day.

Once sights were set finding opportunities to get closer and strike up conversation proved scarce. We're split into random seating during training hours and she's across the room from me. She is studying for an upcoming professional exam after training sessions and becomes scarce whenever we have free time. Have one chance to strike up conversation during a break.

Nearly a week goes by. Finally on Friday we get more free time than usual and I find her and a friend ordering food in the hotel bar. Sit down to join them and order myself a drink. Engage them in conversation for a bit before a friend I was waiting on meets me, I get distracted and leave to check something out with him.

We go out to bars as a group about 20-deep, each of us with sign-on bonus money to burn. Everyone is fighting over who gets next round all night. She meets us after we've been out for a couple hours and first thing she does is come up to me incredulous that apparently when I ordered my drink at the hotel bar earlier, I left without paying, leaving her with my bar tab. Oops. I wish I had planned that. I play into it kidding her that it's like she's never bought a man a drink before. She's come straight to me now that we're out and I take advantage of the opportunity to entertain. I promise to make up for the drink and buy her one in return, which I don't, we move locations. Next location she's resettled near her co-worker who's actually a pretty cool guy and doing a great job of entertaining that side of the group. After a while I wander off to the bar to order some food and in the meantime strike up a conversation with a girl at the bar. My target comes looking after a while and finds me there, I turn attention away from the other girl back toward her and have some opportunity to kino a bit away from our main group. Reminds me I owe her a drink and I deflect as another from our group has just purchased another round. Night winds down, everyones trashed, I take control and coordinate cabs to get everyone back to the hotel. The group plans to post-party on her floor of the hotel, she excuses herself for the night and as we have a third wheel I restrain myself to not draw attention.

Next night we go out to the bars again. I'm a little more direct this time around trying to make sure I've got her attention. Move locations to a dance club. I've had some competition from other guys in our group. Turns out the girl is a dancer. As is one of the guys into her. And I'm more on the terrible but like to have fun side of things. No one knows each-other all that well and keeps switching partners. Finally while dancing I remind her I still owe her that drink and we move off and press into the bar where I get more opportunity away from the group.

Night winds down, she's hammered. Give her my hand and lead her to get a huge glass of water from the bar. Rest of our group is hammered. I take control and arrange for cabs again. Manage the situation to split her co-worker along with my last-standing co-worker in one cab and her next to me in mine. Help her get to her room, she's completely trashed. I've got no interest in pushing anything further with someone in that state. Come in and hook her up with more water. Order room-service to bring up a fruit-platter to get some vitamins in her, your typical hangover-management provisions. Meanwhile she goes to the bathroom and gets sick, totally embarrassed. Chat a bit. Make sure she's taken care of before heading to my room. She cuddles up and asks me to stay, felt nice, went ahead and fell asleep next to her. Woke up early the next day, exchanged numbers, I slipped out and returned to my room. Lots of immediate flirting through texts.

Sunday night our group parties in hotel rooms. Her co-worker is paired near her almost all night. I'd like to redirect her, but can't as I don't want to raise suspicions. Finally she says her goodnights for the evening and leaves. I figure what do I have to lose and text her, playfully inviting myself over to her room. (Apparently not directly enough as she totally missed my meaning, as I would find out after-the-fact. Additionally apparently she tried giving me some sort of clear look, or indication that I should follow her out and I totally missed the sign.) Whoops. Just hung out and socialized for the evening.

Monday. Back to training. Go shopping with few other people, one of my female co-workers takes the opportunity to suggest she noticed I'm into someone at training. Whoops, I've been noticed. Necessary evil to get initial attraction going. Typical evenings are social dinner -> group to the hot-tub until 10 -> group party in someones hotel room. This one is no different. After dinner my target is on the fence about studying or hot-tub. I kid about walking up to her room and carrying her down, flirt a bit, she comes down. We keep the flirting to texts. One of the other guys who has shown interest keeps hovering. I slip inside-jokes like references to fruit-platters casually into conversation, she has a hard time not laughing throughout. The main group goes to watch a movie, we opt out and I walk her back up to her floor. See the opportunity and go in for the kiss, her eyes go wide, grabs me by the hand and drag me further down the hall closer to her room. Finally I kiss her. We make out in the doorway a bit, then I discretely take the stairs conveniently located by her room down to my floor.

Flirt a bit more in text. I express wanting to keep things discrete, she's on the same page and wants to keep it secret from her co-workers as well. I make a game out of it. The objective is to escape notice from anyone else. We don't eat at the same tables at dinner, we don't sit next to eachother during training. Only passing comments in public. She loves the idea of the game. I invite her over to my room for the evening. She says tomorrow night.

Secret Ops Rendezvous is a go. She has a hard time not laughing every time she looks at me, which is perfect. I use that to my advantage to occasionally drop into a conversation she's in and tease her. She's into the secrecy of the whole thing, go so far as to suggest alternative names for her which I put in my phone so people around me don't see who I'm texting. I've already figured out the stairwell option allowing us to bypass elevators and stay out of hallways. We spend the rest of the trip slipping into eachother rooms then back to our own in the mornings. One final meeting before we went off to the airport and flew back to opposite sides of the country. Later got a text asking permission to send an account of the hookup to one of Cosmo's Sex Stories columns, made me feel proud of the effort I put in.

TL;DR - Discretely enlisted mutual new-hire for secret ops fun during company training, and kept it hidden from co-workers

Things I feel I did right:

Accidentally leaving her with my bar-tab had a great result. We'd all just received signing-bonuses so really money wasn't an issue. She was absolutely shocked that I would do such a thing and didn't know what to make of it. Ensure that when we did go out she came straight to me and didn't get distracted by any of the other guys trying to hit on her.
Making a game of the need for secrecy worked well. She absolutely loved playing the part. I've adapted this in other situations since. I made a game of making the most of every minute of every day with my current girlfriend in the time until she took a month-long vacation in Europe two weeks after I met her.
Not making a move and just taking care of her when she was drunk was big. She disclosed later that this is what convinced her I was a good guy and lowered her walls, that she probably would not have slept with me so quickly otherwise.
Being aware of the situation in terms of group dynamics at all times and having the patience to take my shots when opportunity presented itself. Having to work around not alerting co-workers was an interesting twist on my usual approach that left me winging it more often than not. I was concerned about being too discrete and never having a proper chance before the trip was over.
Not necessarily something I did, but the situation was right. She was far from home with less risk of being judged for her actions. We were all flush with cash excited about a new job in a high-end hotel for two weeks. Adding alcohol into the mix I'm surprised there weren't many more hook-ups happening during the trip.

HugzMonster · 2013-04-30T18:33:07+00:00

Leaning in for the k-close on a first date was a huge mental barrier for me. Instead of mind f-ing myself to death and over analyzing the situation, I just said to myself 'Ok, no matter what happens tonight, you're doing this and she's going to know what you're made of'.

lol_user_frame · 2013-05-01T04:55:03+00:00

Early in the evening, there's a blonde facing the bar, alone, waiting for her drink. (wow, really nice shoulders!) I pull up alongside. We go elbow to elbow. She doesn’t pull away.

Me: Hi!
Her: Hi. (smile, nice teeth, nice gold necklace…there's my opening)
Me: Wow, that’s a great necklace.
Her: Thanks! (smiles)
Me: It looks great. (pause, elbows still touching) Does it smell good?
Her: What?! (laughs)
Me: (my foot slides behind hers, my knee goes on the back of hers, my hand goes to her near hip) I mean, is that the kind that smells good? (pause, we're still touching, and she’s still smiling)
Her: (she laughs...oh yeah, she’s in)
Me: I’m going to smell it. (I lean in, stick my nose against her neck right above the necklace, and take a big inhale, she smells really good, but I better quit while I'm ahead...I back off) Oh. My. God! That’s. A. Great. Necklace!
Her: Thanks! (blushing)
Me: (pause) Wow. That was really great. (she hasn’t pulled away) I want another one, I’m going back. (first hand slides to her far hip, second touches the other side of her face, I pull her in, my nose goes against her neck, I smell her up to her ear and back down her neckline. then, hey - wow, how did I get here, how did I pull this off? - ...I bite…slowly…twice. Then I back off).
Her: I think I got a tingle.
Me: I'm tingling too. (wink, and eject)

TL;DR: Necking, 10 seconds.

deathlux · 2013-04-30T21:57:47+00:00

Going through the comments on this has given me more inspiration than any other post I've read on this sub.

Willem20 · 2013-05-01T09:10:26+00:00

Dealing with my past.

I was very timid and introverted in highschool, while when I was at home I was very extroverted, being the person I really am. I see alot of people back from that time and while they still saw me as the same kid, I surely did show them otherwise.

Also I've dealt with the oneitis girl which beought me here in the first place.

swaggyswagger · 2013-04-30T22:31:41+00:00

Taking a 10 week language class, and on first sight of a woman also starting the class, I said in my head: "I have to have her". Spent 9 weeks getting to know her bit by bit (as part of weekly, in class activities). Kissed her within 20 seconds of us being left alone on a class night out, I was in her bed 30 minutes later. I dated her for a couple of weeks afterwards.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-05-01T00:18:19+00:00

I think my greatest moment was when I ran into The Woman about 6 months after she ran off with a homeless junkie. I thanked her for showing me what women really want, and from now on, I would be sure to give it to them. You should have seen the look on her face. I wrote an FR about it and people were so horrified, I deleted it.

Probably my second greatest moment was when I talked to the homeless junkie's parole officer and got him sent back to prison for parole violations.

Probably my third greatest moment was when she sent a recent ex-bf after me, he threw a punch (in front of witnesses) and he ended up serving 60 days for assault (well, also parole violations).

Probably my fourth greatest moment was when a friend of mine told me she was fired from a teaching job for making inappropriate sexual advances on a student.

All this has taught me to have very high standards for women. And again, I would like to thank The Woman for propelling me into the game.

HorseLifer · 2013-05-01T06:05:04+00:00

Not my greatest triumph, but my most memorable moment

I'll never forget walking up to a gorgeous girl, setting my coffee down beside her and not saying a single word

I was completely relaxed in my body. There was no need to convey value, I was just THERE and a man. Showing intent simply by being in front of her. It really changed how I viewed the game and how I view male female dynamics in general

RedPosterboard · 2013-05-01T14:34:32+00:00

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Miamiheat87 · 2013-05-01T21:32:59+00:00

I had a first date with a big booty blonde girl. She was really into me. After our date we were in the taxi. The driver asked were to, I said to the hotel! Girl gave me a look. I said it'll be okay. I fucked her good and it was my first time.

RedPosterboard · 2013-05-01T21:52:27+00:00

Getting my first same-day lay from a street approach, getting picked up by a HB 8.5 and banging her that same night, approaching a girl in a mall and getting head from her later that day after a two hour date, banging a girl who was 36 while I was 24, instant-dating a Miss Hong Kong 2012 contestant...

Scrub_Life · 2013-05-02T21:49:50+00:00

Talking to the girl I was interested in, after two months of chickening out.

2013-04-30T21:59:25+00:00

Changing my priorities from a need for validation through hookups to prioritizing and screening so that I hang out with girls that are actually fun to hang out with and have fun personalities.

2013-04-30T20:58:40+00:00

It depends on what you look at as the metric for success. Dates? Sessions of sex/fondling? Phone numbers?

I don't play "the game". If a woman's interested in me, cool. If not, whatever, join the pile.

recyclablebantha · 2013-05-01T03:40:01+00:00

Within the last month, I'd have to say that my answer to this question would be advances that I have made in the area of "calibration," (as it's defined by TofuTofu).

My awareness has increased to the point where I have perceived the truth of a girl's interest, even in a couple of situations that would have discouraged me into giving up in years past.

An alpha guy grabbing her and kissing her in the chaos of a foam party. My response: go in for the kiss after him, then neg her into a second one almost immediately. Then I backed off a little & focused on talking to her, because I realized that the things she was talking about, meant that she required a different approach than Alpha Guy ("I don't understand how people can hook up with random people.......Alpha Guy is acting so sketchy, dodging direct answers to my questions....."), all while remaining clear in my intent. Alpha Guy stayed in competition with me for a few hours but eventually I number-closed because I saw that the logistics were not in my favor, and Alpha guy gave up at that point.
A girl kind of slapped me at a dance club. Okay, she just slapped me. My response: I kissed her. She kissed me back. I had recognized that the slap was a shit test: it matched absolutely nothing else in her behavior, all the rest of which said, "I'm really into you." That was a strange night, the back and forth consisted of getting slapped and me responding by grabbing her body or her head and pulling her into a kiss. I pushed her into the wall one time. Strange, but good times.

end32urzm · 2013-05-01T12:04:04+00:00

Cold approaching a cute girl working at a store, got her number, dating for 10 months now. Lost virginity. Yay!

superhenrybros · 2013-04-30T20:20:12+00:00

Seducing my best friend's sister over 6 months. I finally learned to make chemistry, see chemistry, and act on it. I finally got out of my head and into their bed.

rikjames90 · 2013-05-02T03:59:21+00:00

Met a girl on monday kissed her on wednesday.

Title	Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?
Author	SingAlong_Original
Upvotes	95
Comments	161
Date	April 30, 2013 5:29 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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