I was never a guy who cried “nice guys finish last” because I was aware of how cringey that is and I had several friends that did it growing up and would hear women complain about those guys. But there was a period in my early 20s where I almost never got laid, and I made many observations. I befriended players and bad boys and took their life advice. Eventually I went from being a skinny, frail nerd to somewhat masculine, street smart and lately I’ve been pulling girls very regularly, anywhere from ugly fat girls to dimes, but significantly more dimes than I’ve ever had. This is why “nice guys finish last”, my observation:

  1. The first and most obvious is that they are not actually nice. Everybody knows this though. These guys are angry, bitter sexless assholes. They treat women like shit the moment they get rejected.

  2. Not as obvious but more important than #1. These guys are not genuine in the slightest. They are completely fake shells of human beings. They have no interest in the woman aside from sexual purposes. Taking this further, they are not genuine with themselves whatsoever. Their entire life is a lie, based off of influences in the world and not on who they are or their real interests or soul. (I realized this after reading models by mark manson, I read that book 2 years ago and only about 3/4 of it, but the concepts changed the way I viewed myself)

  3. They don’t know how to have a good time. Even if they fake it and pretend they do, even if they go to parties, there is something about these guys that you can just tell they aren’t having a good time. If you stick around long enough you’ll notice they are actually miserable, and often seem out of place in social situations. This relates to #2, they are not genuine or comfortable with themselves.

  4. They are not well connected. This might matter more than money, and be equivalent to game. Women are impressed by people you know in social settings and the type of reputation you have. I brought a girl home last weekend who was glancing at my phone and noticed I had 120 unopen texts which sparked up a conversation. “Whose all those people!?” Oh just people checking in, you know. Didn’t have the time to get back to them. This relates back to #1, these nice guys are only looking for sex. You should be looking for more than that. You should be looking for legitimate social interaction with a large demographic of people. Make friends with everyone. You’re not gonna get laid if your circle is small.

I could type more but it is late. I do not claim to be any Don Juan or pussy master but I’ve learned a lot and I love learning more all the time. Getting out their, being socially connected and making myself a popular person, and getting in decent shape has done wonders for my sex life. There is no secret trick, there is no pick up line or random pua tactic you can pay somebody on the internet to teach you. Be stylish even if you’re broke, always make yourself the life of the party, even if it means the occasional drama. Take a good couple months off here and their to crack down on fitness but always stay active with it. Always treat women and yourself with respect, nobody actually gets laid by treating women like meat, that’s a fantasy they show betas on television. The guy might be kind of a jackass but he’s probably a decent guy deep down, and his life is more interesting than yours. If you follow all of this, your life will change dramatically.