I often see this "lose/lose" talk with men on the internet. Mostly with those that complain a lot. When women are sexually open, they call them whores but when they are more tame, they will shit on them about how big of a liars they are by putting on this "saint" disguise and how much they actually enjoy dirty stuff when no one is looking.

So I though, how much do you lie about your sexuality to not look bad? Of course, talking to everyone about all the things you like to do in bed is a one side of extreme (even I, as a man, hate this kind of talk) but pretending to not like sex at all is another side of extreme. This is actually one of the things that make me self conscious around women too. This concept that women are not as interested in sex so if I try anything I will be labeled as a horny creep.