Ladies, do you watch porn? And if so, what kind of porn do you watch and where do you find it?

Unhappy_Offer_1822 · 2025-05-18T12:39:03+00:00

no its too boring

Dapper-Suggestion462 · 2025-05-18T12:48:17+00:00

Porn got very boring, as it should be!

My favorite is taking vids of just self and replaying for obvious research purposes!

AngeAware · 2025-05-18T04:51:56+00:00

Not anymore, definitely watched a lot at one point in my life.

I was not at all interested in the actors' penises from a purely visual standpoint. They were like strange alien appendages to me. I watched a lot of softcore because it simulates sex without explicitly shoving random strangers' genitals in your face. Daily Motion was my go-to before they cleaned up.

leosandlattes · 2025-05-18T08:52:16+00:00

These questions always, without fail, come across as horny posting… typing with one hand type shit 💀

I don’t watch porn. I listen to porny audios and on occasion read erotica.

Lazy_DreadHead · 2025-05-18T08:17:29+00:00

The porn I usually like to watch is a woman getting head. Head is honestly my favorite part of sex whether I’m giving or receiving. However receiving head turns me on more. I don’t really care about seeing a dick in porn… that honestly doesn’t really turn me on. Seeing and hearing real moans from the woman turns me on as well as the sucking, spitting, and slurping sounds made when an individual is eating the pussy. This turns me on more than seeing a dick. I also prefer to watch a guy masturbate vs thrusting someone. Love watching both a man and woman pleasuring themselves so this is what I typically watch when I watch porn. I also watch more lesbian porn vs hetero. :) Hope this helps give you an idea of what I like as a woman.

EulenWatcher · 2025-05-18T04:53:58+00:00

I don't really watch porn - it does nothing for me.

I read smut from time to time, mostly manga directed to women. I don't seek specific penis size, and I care more about the plot, a long foreplay and the art style that I like. It's a win if it has an interesting plot with smut scenes just adding spice to it, not being the main ingredient.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-05-18T14:35:56+00:00

Nope. Nothing about porn is sexy to me

If I ever watch it, it’s for the humor or shock value

CatchPhraze · 2025-05-18T07:37:01+00:00

We read it.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2025-05-18T10:48:47+00:00

Not porn, erotica or fanfic is usually what does it. It's my life goal to make a business catered towards women's sexuality in the same way porn caters to men's.

Big-Bodybuilder-5035 · 2025-05-18T05:09:49+00:00

I don't watch porn very often but when I do it's usually just oral. Penis doesn't really do much for me visually. I also sometimes read erotica

Nearbykingsmourne · 2025-05-18T08:30:38+00:00

I read gay fanfiction

Windmill_flowers · 2025-05-18T05:54:21+00:00

Yes.

Ethically made porn for women

Erotica

BBC

Fanfiction

r/chickflixxx (edit fixed)

Makuta_Servaela · 2025-05-18T11:10:54+00:00

I use porn art like Rule34. I do not watch live-action porn due to the vast amount of trafficking and the fact that there is no guarantee that actors in the porn are consenting.

I don't specifically care about size interests or masculinity. I don't care too much about dick size- especially since it's understood that it's basically never realistic in art. I definitely prefer things happening that aren't just PIV.

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2025-05-18T11:48:42+00:00

I only watch porn with women, the last thing I want to see is a strange man and his dick. I dont give a shit about the women, it is what they are doing

RecognitionSoft9973 · 2025-05-19T00:21:51+00:00

I like porn made by amateur creators. Stuff with darker or more ambient lighting and shot in a bedroom. People with have average bodies having sex. Sometimes the classier stuff shot in cinematic 24fps. I don't pay attention to penis size, I care more about the atmosphere and the passion.

Do you also prefer seeing big dicks

No, but the only porn that seems to do well is porn with big dicks, unfortunately. People cry for representation in everything except porn and sex lol.

Competitive_Lion_260 · 2025-05-19T03:37:00+00:00

I don't watch it. I don't read it. Pornography is not sexuality.

CanaryHeart · 2025-05-19T04:02:04+00:00

I do. I don’t watch a ton of porn because it’s easier to find smutty fiction that caters to my interests, but if I happen across something I enjoy, I’ll watch it a lot. I prefer average looking people, but I care more about my kinks/quality sex talk than what the performers look like, honestly.

freekin-bats11 · 2025-05-18T09:13:23+00:00

I used to then stopped for ethical/political reasons and personal reasons.

Mostly 'romantic' stuff when I did tho. It transitioned to more 'hardcore', regressive shit as my consumption progressed and porn degraded aspects of my sexuality as it developed (dont give your kids unfettered internet access 🙏🏽).

Im bi, maybe 60/40 F/M attraction, but seeing a woman get pleasured was 99% more important to watch than anything the guy was doing lol. I even prefered not to see his dick and would always skip any fallacio. Never craved fallacio or 'swallowing' or dick related stuff, and its often seen by guys as degrading to do to a woman, which also made it less appealing. I still didnt want to watch anything where the guy was looking rough, to say the least, though lol.

Sometimes I watched gay porn cuz it was interesting, not really 'much' for me tho. Lesbian porn always seemed kinda.... 'staged' in a non-lesbian perspective, iykwim. Like, I never seen any that wasnt just a straight white guys fantasy (white, petite, hyperfeminine women using lots of toys for penetration), so wasnt interested in finding any more.

Now I just like erotic but not pornographic art. I think theres a major difference. The difference being depth of expression of human sexuality and contextual significance, also of subject material, and the fact there can be no real subjects sometimes.

I find that mostly in 'smut', primarily comics since Im a more visual media person. Preferably written/drawn by women.

The art is more meaningful and expressive of human sexuality than porn, and nobody is usually getting physically hurt or exploited (though I recognize ideas expressed in written/illustrated media can still be harmful, but I think that can go without saying).

The story helps contextualize the sexual interactions as part of the plot and organically built up between the characters rather than just random sexual images between two ideas shaped as people. Harder to fetishize that way and imo healthier to project onto.

Also erotic art is fun to draw sometimes, for me. It can help ease shame about the body and sexuality. I love those black and white nude photos of various bodies, for instance. The sports ones are really cool. Theyre really great for drawing practice wrt proportions, anatomy, shape, lighting, and perspective. Also helps to diversify my concept art skills and keep off that 'same-face'/'same figure' sydrome some artists can fall into.

TL;DR to answer the asked questions directly:

(When I used to watch it) Sexy women and womens pleasure; dont watch porn anymore.
Never liked seeing dick in porn that much, so i really didnt care to see it at all lol.
When I watched it I did care more about how the women was getting treated. Ive seen some stuff where women get dragged, spit on, and other nasty shit; very traumatizing to witness someone that could be you get degraded so badly. Anyway To me 'foreplay' isnt a thing. Its just sex, so I expected cuddling, making out, and rubbing to be part of sex. Oral wasnt something I cared about when I watched. It became more significant to me as I got older and stopped watching porn, tho.

JadeGrapes · 2025-05-18T16:54:53+00:00

None of the ladies here are going to give you free spank bank fodder. Nice try.
You are telling on yourself, and possibly the men of the pilled community;

YOUR biggest fantasy is being manly and important, that having the body of your dreams would make you feel confident and acceptable.

And, sadly(?) ... it's important for YOU to have a partner that is small, less than, meek, and subjugated... IN ORDER for you to feel impressive.

Wow. Maybe you aren't okay buddy?

Because that actually NOT the most common male fantasy. It's just common artifact of making porn to make a visual impact... since that's a visual "art" and performing arts always use exaggeration like stage makeup etc.

Generally, the most common straight male fantasy is that a gorgeous woman REALLY wants to have sex with him, and really enjoys it.

The details of what makes a woman "gorgeous" varies by taste. And the signs of "really wants/enjoys" it vary... But the theme is "highly desirable woman finds me desirable"

Technically, your greatest fantasy is about YOURSELF... comparing favorably to others. But Most men have a fantasy about the INTERACTION with someone worth having.

This difference could explain basically the whole subculture of red-pill etc. The other person is kind of just a prop or trophy, not a worthy and interested person.

Fascinating.

Yokowi · 2025-05-18T08:35:16+00:00

Not really, usually it does absolutely nothing for me. Most of the time, when I do bother to find one, I just use it as an audio addition. Maybe occasionally glance at the screen, but I prefer my own fantasies or AI text role-play.

When I do watch,I prefer age gap, PIV close ups, rougher sex (CNC also)... but skip the weird angles or the awkward d*k shots. :/ I don't much care to see the pens so up close and personal, tbh.

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Realistic-Ad-1023 · 2025-05-18T15:33:06+00:00

My preference is women having actual o’s. So mostly solo stuff. I try to find ethically made, and stuff that pays the model directly.

Miss_Acassia-9374 · 2025-05-18T19:21:44+00:00

It's pretty rare that I will watch. But every now and then the mood strikes me, as I am in a very very long DB situation. When I do, I generally much prefer pornography that is aimed at the viewing pleasure of women. Less focus on c** shots, facials, and c** dripping out of spread open pussies. I am not interested in anything where women are being degraded in any way or the pleasure is all hyper-exaggerated to stroke the male ego, or those that encourage women to fake orgasms in an over the top style.These types of things are a big turn off to me.

Dane Jones makes some stuff that I appreciate. It is often more romantic in nature, definitely less aggressive and male oriented. There is a lot of wonderful foreplay and the women do not appear to be hyper over exaggerating their enjoyment. I don't care about penis size in the least ,it's not really even something that occurs to me. I do like it if the man is masculine looking and attractive doesn't look douchie or like a fat guy. I especially like when an attractive older guy is cast.

I really like either Kama sutra type stuff, or occasionally you can find massage p*** that is more like the Dane Jones stuff that I mentioned above, less penis and cumshot focused.

Lastly, sometimes I really enjoy some girl and girl action. Of course like with many of us, it's always been a curiosity for me. And if I'm going to watch two people be intimate.. it just feels like women do it differently. It can be very erotic and beautiful at the same time.

Flightlessbirbz · 2025-05-18T20:01:09+00:00

Nope not anymore. I tried to get into it when I was younger, but just never could quite… suspend disbelief long enough to like it. Nor do I really care to look at some guy who’s not my partner’s dick, regardless of if it’s small, medium, or large. Most women read erotica if they want something spicy.

Sonia314 · 2025-05-19T08:43:08+00:00

I watch porn on pornhub and read it on literotica. It’s always BDSM. I don’t have a preference for dick sizes in the spectrum represented in porn. Bigger dicks than I would prefer in person can be good for compensating for the lower stimulation porn gives me because it’s not real. I don’t find watching women receiving oral arousing at all. Women getting face fucked is hot though, and I watch a lot of blowjob porn to improve my technique.

The porn I enjoy most is pretty psychological, with a lot of words.

But now I’ve done a so much written erotic role play with a professional writer that I don’t watch much porn. It’s so easy to just re-read the porn we’ve written. I also found watching visual porn was making it harder to be attracted to average looking guys, so I try to replace it with written material where I can. Everything about porn has to be over the top to compensate for it not being real, so I ended up only watching porn with super buff guys.

For a better answer, I think this lady is the best sexuality researcher out there. She published this and other interesting articles about female porn preferences.

https://open.substack.com/pub/aella/p/women-prefer-more-violent-porn-and?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

Axis_Control · 2025-05-19T09:15:00+00:00

Yes porn on reddit just big dick pics and big dicks cuming 🫠 I like younger guys and fit guys 😁

Epthewoodlandcritter · 2025-05-19T14:55:26+00:00

This post is written by a perv.

LawfulnessBorn76 · 2025-05-20T11:31:53+00:00

I think im a weird outlier cause I’d only watch porn catered to men. I’d often self insert as the man, even though I’m romantically straight and very feminine irl. But then I made myself quit

S0yslut · 2025-05-18T23:03:53+00:00

Porn is catered to men. I don’t care to see anyone’s dangly bits doing sexual acts. You are having anti social fantasies about women’s attraction that is rather porn brained. It would never have occurred to me to watch porn because my fantasies are 75% about the emotional connection. I don’t even want sex without the emotional connection. Women are not going to look at you and think sexual thoughts get over it.

Title	Ladies, do you watch porn? And if so, what kind of porn do you watch and where do you find it?
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Date	May 18, 2025 4:28 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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