LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Muscletov · 2025-07-28T06:55:38+00:00

I am once again asking the mods to stop dragging their feet and pin the looks thread/unpin the old N-count thread.

Weird how that never ever happens when the N-count post goes up again.

small-pp-small-smv · 2025-07-26T19:09:23+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMiTYq6stMI/

Weekly reminder that male body shaming, especially height and dick shaming, is completely normalized by liberal women. Conservative women do it too of course, but they aren't hypocrites who preach body positivity and self esteem.

Somerandomdudereborn · 2025-07-26T16:18:00+00:00

It baffles me how people (mostly women) all of the sudden are trying to gaslight and treat others (men) like idiots or by calling them neurotic by saying "Duh looks were always the most important factor are you stupid?" despite the fact that society has been denying the importance of looks for centuries.

Now that pandora box has been opened people are trying to claim that it was always open from the start "Well actually 🤓👆 it was always about looks your just stupid". And don't make me start on the most narcissist phrase of "No one never has denied it".

IgorXY · 2025-07-26T16:11:20+00:00

I am in a cycle where I kinda want to have low fat % body but don't want to change my diet too much cause food and drinks are one of a few joys I have left on earth, but then I am angry at myself for being weak and not able to achieve the only achievable physical improvement.

Was anyone able to break through this?

Muscletov · 2025-07-27T06:55:41+00:00

Let's talk about physical fetishes.

I think most physical fetishes are an evolutionary mechanism to further facilitate reproduction on the male side. They're an extension of men's "normal" sexuality, ensuring that almost any woman can trigger arousal in at least a few men. Say a man finds himself in an environment with conventionally unattractive women. In order to make him more willing to procreate with these women, evolution makes him aroused by unconventional and non-sexual features like body hair, body smell, muscles, armpits, feet etc. The male variability hypothesis plays into this as well. Nature simply plays around with male DNA more.

And that also explains why only very women have similar physical and unconventional fetishes for male bodies. Evolution wants female sexuality to be discerning and focused instead of broad and arbitrary. Women with physical fetishes probably exist, but personally I've never heard of a woman with a fetish for male feet, armpits, anuses etc. Female fetishes revolve a lot more about scenarios and actions than men's physical features, especially if you exclude those that are part of "regular" male attractiveness like height, strong hands, muscles, defined jawlines etc. And even those are not as strongly and directly sexualized but more of a general attractiveness marker.

Electronic-You-1717 · 2025-07-27T08:06:03+00:00

What yall think is why height is so important for male?whats the female equivalent to it?(esp asking to the women of the sub)

Logos1789 · 2025-07-26T20:09:22+00:00

It looks like every admin and mod on Reddit is afraid to allow discussion, or god forbid debate, about the importance of looks except for in a highly regulated way.

This is all because of the misguided censorious impulses of the status quo.

The likes of Tate et al could have easily been met with equal and opposite speech, but now that millions of people have come to side with the censored, they aren’t open to hearing from those who disagreed with him anymore because there’s a censorship agenda.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2025-07-26T17:50:43+00:00

I am seriously surprised when many women do not understand what men mean when they say that "attractive men are worse than average men"

It is not that literally ALL attractive men are terrible people (after all, I also know wonderful attractive men). It is just that they get away with much more shit, they need to put in much less effort for a better result, + they do not have a deficit mentality, which is why they can also calmly behave like assholes because they always know that they already have another woman.

And all this cannot be allowed by an ordinary average guy, because he will be rejected after any minimal negativity. Unlike an attractive guy

And then it is easy to understand that the damage that a bad attractive man can cause is 100 times higher than that which the MOST vile average guy can inflict. Simply because an attractive guy has a rotation of girls and / or dates on his mind, so if he wants, he can insult dozens of women in the shortest possible time. And the average man is not capable of all this, because he literally has to try to get at least ONE date and therefore he cannot offend even a significant number of women.

SherbertDense1415 · 2025-07-27T00:03:18+00:00

Looks don't matter that much. Women have a minimum threshold and once you pass that its 90% behavior.

Looks have extremely diminishing returns because men are the initiators and performers. If you can't perform it doesn't matter much how you look.

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ColbyXXXX · 2025-07-26T20:21:47+00:00

Would you date anyone from this subreddit if you both were single and lived nearby?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2025-07-28T20:40:10+00:00

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Looksmatched y/n (cropped out Trinity)

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2025-07-30T06:06:39+00:00

Q4W: What’s your ranking of these things in order of preference? Feel free to list your preferences if you want.

height
body type
face
haircut
clothes style
cooking skill

For me I think the order would be:

Body type (fit or flat stomach), cooking skill, face, haircut (any haircut without product), height (shorter than me), clothes

ThatBitchA · 2025-07-26T16:31:27+00:00

Looks Weekly reminder that women don't just look at a man's face/eyes/body to determine attraction. They also look at clothes, the context of the space, and personality cues.

Women aren't always "on" and aren't always looking for an attractive man.

Pretty, beautiful, hot women don't want to be told they are hot/pretty/beautiful by random strangers. They know they are pretty and want to be seen for more than just their face/eyes/body.

Women want to date men who are attracted to them as whole person. Not just because of what they look like.

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2025-07-26T23:02:08+00:00

Women are weird. Some girl sat down on a bench next to me outside Starbucks just now. After a minute, she just got back up and went back to her friends, and they started talking about how she just didn’t get my attention, or something like that.

I’m 28 freaking years old. I’m not going to initiate a conversation with someone who looks like they could be in high school (my new guess is she was probably college age)

New-Western-4819 · 2025-07-29T01:53:38+00:00

if you have enough confidence and *believe in yourself* enough, then all you need is to be attractive enough and not be really annoying. that's it

Title	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD
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Date	July 26, 2025 4:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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