CH: Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored | “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.” But…. “He’s emotionally available…and actually likes me.”

bsutansalt · 2019-05-07T15:04:38+00:00

AtlRP · 2019-05-07T14:22:45+00:00

Beware the Alpha Widow, boys. Perfect example of the importance of vetting out a potential LTR before you commit. Dollars to doughnuts this broad displayed enough red flags to make VI Lenin sport a hard-on but her doting White Knight failed to perform his due diligence. Sadly he won't realize his mistake until much, much too late.

KeffirLime · 2019-05-07T14:56:13+00:00

A women who has been endlessly pumped and dumped, passed around like a bowl of soup at a tribal gathering is well aware she's worthless to high value men. She's been aspiring to them her entire fertile years, met with rash, consistent disposability.

When a man comes along and instantly offers up his loyalty, love and devotion without a price, no matter how good looking, wealthy or social he appears to be, he's signalling the ultimate sexual and emotional repulsion, that he is a low value man, with few options even more worthless than her.

The tension, the uncertainty and the unattainable is the very core to female attraction, which is why in every study and female reported attraction survey they'll tell you they love guys who are respectful, treat them like queens and constantly express their love. They are expressing their desire for a man who relieves this tension.

The female arousal dichotomy however, is that they are blissfully unaware that the relief from this tension is the relief from attraction. Comfort kills attraction. They are emotional creatures that fold at the absence of the forces that drive emotion. Comfort, predictability and certainty are the surefire quickest way to abolish all emotional spikes.

This is a standard western women's progression. Chase the unattainable Chad, feel the tension, desire the relief from this tension, tell the world about how you just want these Chad's to be nice loving and respectful, get nice guys listening to these women who then giving them this. Then having the women being miserable, stuck in an endless rut of predictability, longing for those glory days of uncertain emotional fire.

This is how men get anchored into Blue Pill thinking. Society says women should be listened to, when in reality they have no idea what they want.

TwentyEighteen · 2019-05-07T15:04:50+00:00

This reminds me of an analysis done on a billion google searches. From the analysis they found that the typical erotic female fantasy is where a dominant, powerful male is seduced and tamed by a young, innocent female. Of course the details vary but most follow this general plot. Source: a billion wicked thoughts

So apply this to her post, she has already seduced and tamed a man. The fantasy is over and so she is bored. The fun is in the chase or journey not in the destination. Meanwhile In her past relationships, she talks about how she played guessing games about a man’s thinking or needs. Which indicates she was continuously trying to tame the man. And so the fantasy never ended and the fun continued

Edit: this also speaks to the hypergamous nature of women. If a man is always just out of reach, well you’re probably dating up. If a man is easily available, well he’s likely at your SMV or lower

BurnoutRS · 2019-05-07T17:08:15+00:00

I love the part where she lies to herself about her beta, especially the "the sex is great" line

You can see the inner turmoil. She doesnt know who to please. There's the overarching notion of equality and kindness, and theres the inignorable ball of lead in her gut.

"If I dont talk more about how great he is then it will become obvious that im lying to hide my true nature. The reason im lying to hide my true nature is because ive been conditioned to believe that its oppressive. Im oppressed by my false desire not to be an oppressor"

If she doesnt fuck him, she's a "broken woman who can only get off on asshole dick" but if she does she has to fuck him.

Its the equivalent of someone telling me I have to fuck the homely hambeast as a courtesy. "She's a nice girl! We're all equal! why dont you like her? You're so judgmental"

throwlaca · 2019-05-07T19:54:36+00:00

I'm in a rather weird situation. I dated a girl for a year. I already knew about TRP so I treated her like dirt. She went crazy for me. Then some fucked up shit happened, I went too hard on the dread and she dumped me. That exact moment I got oneitis for her. Yea, TRP and everything I fell. She on the other hand, couldn't stop talking about me to everybody for months. I believe she was effectively alpha-widowed.

Anyway a year later she came back, even with my rampant oneitis I managed to attract her again using TRP tactics. I'm fucking her brains out for months BUT now I realize, Im much nicer. I actually love her now. She's starting to display clear signs that shes not that attracted anymore. I will apply dread and try to hide my oneitis but I know this relationship is doomed. But then again, who's not.

okuli · 2019-05-07T16:23:55+00:00

Guys, I just got banned from r/sex because of my redpill comments! I don't understand reddit anymore!

GodOfDinosaurs · 2019-05-07T14:20:59+00:00

Everybody knows this deep down; or at least they should if they reflected for a moment. It can happen to men too, although to a lesser degree. I dated a BP girl in college and a sick part of me misses the anxiety inducing insanity they bring to the table.

Sidenote - Why does CH always have to include a racist tirade in his posts? Decent RP observations and then drops a ridiculous comparison to immigration. I'm pretty sure the pro-refugee argument doesn't boil down to women's secret innate desire to be fucked by arabs lmao.

[deleted] · 2019-05-08T00:49:13+00:00

Broken women don’t want fixed dudes

largepaycheckaddict · 2019-05-07T16:24:39+00:00

This is what a mentally ill damaged woman who refuses to take responsibility for herself looks like.

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KingOfPomerania · 2019-05-08T00:58:09+00:00

The inherent paradox in the dating "strategy" of most women is that they do want a kindness and appreciation but only from guys who are emotionally distant and unappreciative. However, once said guy becomes kind and appreciative then he becomes "boring" and she starts to miss the excitement and uncertainty!

anrii188 · 2019-05-07T17:28:20+00:00

Not all women are like this one. When women have no values and fuck randomnly in their past, this is what you get.

OutToAllenBANG · 2019-05-07T15:52:54+00:00

While I’ve seen this before, what about men who are athletes, singers, actors that are renowned as being good husbands? They’re loving, caring, emotionally available...and their wives are smoking and carry their kids. Is this the exception to the rule?

TimGuoRen · 2019-05-07T14:23:24+00:00

She’s almost red pilled herself.

So much that she even knows Red Pill keywords like "emotional availability". The story is so perfect that it is likely fabricated.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-05-08T06:40:26+00:00

I am reminded of two comments that I saw recently on trp:

“Whoever made women was a sadist”

“A man would rather be neglected than be abused but a woman would rather be abused than neglected” (neglect being equivalent of boredom)

universalabundance1 · 2019-05-08T16:08:28+00:00

Because, it's not about you - it's about her ego, which she wants validated.

foxhound525 · 2019-05-09T06:38:09+00:00

Haha desperately tried to shoehorn in his immigration agenda at the end. So dumb and contrived, so much hamstering to try and squeeze in a politicised analogy that doesn't work. I wouldn't be surprised if some rightwing idiots actually think that makes perfect sense. The best thing about that is the irony of Americans (immigrants) complaining about immigration! Absolute comedy gold