I've determined the whole of TRP sees the world through the prism of hot, catty "mean girls" who rejected them in school. In essence, a lot of TRP applies--and applies very well--to this one demographic of women.
We've all met these types of girls. It's a psychological phenomenon. There are some women who are indeed very hot. But they make being hot their part / full-time job. They use their looks to kill. I knew scores of these girls in college. Just as TRP predicts: they want bad-boys and dangerous, sexy men. They are often low on self-esteem despite all their exterior show and are prone to infidelity in relationships. They tend to land boyfriends who manipulate them to keep them in check. After school, as they approach 30, they start freaking out because they rely on their looks so much that wrinkles devastate them (the "Wall"). So they spend thousands on botox and plastic surgery. They become obsessed with getting the biggest slice of the American dream pie, and will not hesitate to dump / divorce some dude, go on a fling with the pool boy, and then marry up to someone richer.
TRP is tailored around these types of women. What I challenge a red piller to do is to look outside of this prism at NORMAL women. None of these principles work on 95% of women who are not catty, mean, sorority girls.
The reason these guys get hung up on this one demographic is because they are the ones who a.) rejected them the hardest, b.) represented the sexual options of the cool, popular kids in school, c.) are told by PUA literature / the Manosphere that they are the 9s and 10s who every man must aspire to bag and every other woman is invisible.
When you're thinking like a PUA, you're only focusing on that one super cute waitress and ignoring that shy, "average" but still attractive girl who's probably amazing in many ways the other girl isn't.
My life experience facts about the other 95% of "normal" women:
- They're better in bed.
- Unlikely to play head games with you.
- Relationships are not complex.
- Easier to break up with. Less chance of psychotic stalker behavior.
- Stable
- Very unlikely to cheat
- Much easier to ask out
- Not likely to judge you and put themselves on a pedestal
So, who are these "normal" women I'm talking about? I searched for some pictures to compare.
NORMAL WOMAN: http://www.clearvisiondevelopment.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/bigstockphoto_Friendly_Secretary_507166.jpg
CATTY MEAN GIRL TRPERS AND PUA IS OBSESSED WITH: http://www.mynewhair.info/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/long-sexy-blonde.jpg
The most absurd thing that any TRPer could claim is that all of their characterizations belong to the first woman as much as the second woman.
Now I hate to judge / stereotype "hot girls" as all having "hot girl syndrome". I've met some exceptions to this rule. Very self-aware women who realize they don't want to belong to "catty mean girl" culture despite being very physically gifted. So, really this is just a sub-section of very attractive women who flock among other women who use / exploit their looks and have a live and let die attitude. However, any woman who's very physically attractive, knows it, and works to stay that way is going to go for guys who are similar.
I sense there's a lot of guys in TRP who are frustrated / angry that those girls are "out of their league" and for ego reasons they refuse to even pay attention to any "normal" (even "normal attractive") woman--even the ones who'd be great fits for them.
CHALLENGE FOR TRPERS: Try.... for the love of god... try to get to know normal women and take the hot girl goggles off.
Stop using numbers. Or if you must, then take this last piece of advice: Remember those pictures I linked to? Due to life experience, I'd put that normal looking secretary in pic 1 as a 9/10, and the blonde a 5/10. What on Earth for? Because hot girl syndrome comes with endless problems, and she probably sucks in bed.
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