DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!

divorcing-insecurity · 2020-10-13T10:19:57+00:00

This is something that I absolutely and embarassingly so, for a long time didn't know. Everywhere I go, i see "only 15 percent of women experience orgasm" and it was always implied that women just can't orgasm except a few lucky ones. It turns out apparently it's just because women don't experience enough size ranges and techniques to actually know what's right for them...

Either way, women are entitled to orgasms be it clitorial or vaginal, whenever they desire period. And we know that most of the time it's because the man can't be bothered to please his partner. My lord the horror stories I read and hear!

ModernDayOracle · 2020-10-13T10:36:59+00:00

What they hear: only men with 800ft penises deserve to get laid

What we actually mean: all women have different needs in terms of penetration and clitoral stimulation. There are multiple ways you can improve your lovemaking so that your partner is satisfied every time, but you don't want to put the effort into learning what gets her off.

Source - I've had half a dozen crygasms, one of which was from a lover who was smaller than my usual preferences.

Journalist_Full · 2020-10-13T13:03:37+00:00

I actually have to tell my bf to ease up. Apparently I have a low cervix and there is a such thing as too big. (OGBYN confirmed) of course, small would be no bueno too.

I think its funny when men complain about women wanting bigger dicks then turn around and want thick thighs or big butts and boobs with a skinny waist. Almost impossible proportions.

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-10-13T12:40:13+00:00

Part of men's ignorance on this is their insistence that since women orgasm through masturbation with their fingers, they should be able to orgasm with a small penis. FIRST OF ALL, who actually masturbates by fingering?? 👀 Like, what? Every girl I've ever known masturbated through rubbing her labia and clit or stimulating it some other way. The women who did finger only did it as an added stimulation to the rubbing; they didn't orgasm through fingering alone. But of course porn is full of women fingering themselves because men want to see the penetration going on, even though I think most women don't even get off like that in real life.

MonicaLSolis · 2020-10-13T11:23:58+00:00

6-8 inches is best

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-10-13T15:25:08+00:00

If a man can't figure out how to make me cum after a few tries or doesn't seem to care if I do, he gone! Boi bye. Orgasm is wonderful and so important to me in a relationship.

ModernDayOracle · 2020-10-13T13:08:12+00:00

Also tall and have a controversial opinion. Look, if we’re talking micro-dick, that’s a whole different conversation. The average guy can do a lot for a woman, but he has to want to do it. Pointless if he’s self-interested. A man who does the research about his own anatomy and women’s will know enough to get the basics right. Honestly though? Women should expect more. Men expect us to accommodate their dick and with that, their preferences on how they get off. When was the last time a man brought you to orgasm without his dick being involved? How often does that happen? How often is your pleasure prioritised over his? That has nothing to do with dick size, that has everything to do with man-size. It’s not a height, weight, chest, or dick issue. It’s a specific issue for an individual guy. Not interested in my pleasure? I’m not interested in you.

fim_de_semana · 2020-10-13T10:18:57+00:00

I don’t care that it’s unfair. My pleasure matters. That’s all.

Cosmictears83 · 2020-10-13T08:28:04+00:00

I've gotten the most hate for my comment here that I don't like small dicks, to the point I had to turn off push notifications (keeps you from seeing hidden comments with no flair on your phone)

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-10-13T08:03:16+00:00

Men stay dragging me on this platform for saying dick size matters. It does! 6+ better be the size or you can't get in between these thighs. You better make it exclusive or keep your dusty a*s moving.

themintmitten · 2020-10-13T21:36:03+00:00

Gosh this makes me think back to when my ex was literally okay with the fact that I have never orgasmed with him in the TWO years we dated. And that dude actually thought I’d marry him😅

No thanks dude

Emma_Lemma_108 · 2020-10-14T01:56:20+00:00

Frankly, I refuse to be with someone who doesn't make me orgasm every single time. And guess what? I, shockingly, orgasm every time I have sex now. Because I deserve pleasure as much as I know I give it, and I won't drop that standard and never have. Just wait for someone you're compatible with, gals! It's beyond worth it for you both!

Cairenne · 2020-10-13T13:00:25+00:00

It really, truly, matters. I find it so strange that we almost have to pretend it doesn't, or we're shallow and the worst. 🙄

Having sampled a wide array, I like 7-10 so long as he is actually gonna use it properly. One time, a guy with an otherwise good dick decided to use it like a jackhammer. No. That shit hurts.

I do find that no matter the equipment, I really can't give a damn if he's not attractive to me mentally. Confidence based in reality also soooo good.

Muffy217 · 2020-10-13T12:01:57+00:00

Not so lucky in love, but I’ve definitely been lucky in this department. Before someone tells me about the giant they dated with a tiny pecker, I realize that my theory isn’t always true, but I’ve had good luck...

I’m tall and have only ever dated tall (6’2”+) men. A friend was showing me these unsolicited dick pics that she was getting from losers on tinder and it dawned on me that I’d never even seen a small penis. Talk about naive, I just thought all dicks were 7”+ hard.

Dick size isn’t everything, in fact I think a lot of guys with monster cocks think that that is all they need. However, I have never had an issue with this little equation tall + big hands = big dick.

MRgoudaonionspickles · 2020-10-13T12:46:53+00:00

Long before FDS, I actually felt bad that I couldn't orgasm from sex with my last partner who had the most average size dick in the world- about 5-6 inches, like it was my fault that he couldn't use it right... I think he knew his was smaller and wasn't secure or confident that he couldn't make me orgasm. Then get mad at me after sex because I was essentially a reminder of this fact. And his self-deprecating jokes about his dick size started- huge turn-off. It killed our relationship.

Then I met my now partner who is 8 inches and knows how to use it. I think the lack of confidence in your own body affects how you use it. My guy is secure which is the biggest turn-on!

ThrowingItIntoTheSea · 2020-10-14T00:36:40+00:00

I don’t care if he looks like an Adonis, lives in a castle and farts million dollar bills- if he’s got a tiny, useless penis, I’m out.

I love sex way too much to ever put up with a man who has a micro dick or doesn’t put MY PLEASURE 100% FIRST in bed.

2020-10-14T00:48:24+00:00

I have been able to orgasm twice through PIV and his penis was average and curved. I’ve almost succeeded recently with a straight and average sized penis, but it was so difficult i got frustrated and stopped.

Women have been conditioned to not desire an orgasm.

Partypuppers · 2020-10-13T18:13:35+00:00

I also like larger dicks. The two guys I've been with have both been approx 8 inches long and decently girthy. I'm a 5 ft 2 petite woman but apparently my vagina is a tardis 🤷

On a related topic, one thing that annoys me is that 99% of vibrators come in the same size. That is, 5.5 inches and not very girthy. Took me ages to find one that was at least 6.25 inches with a rabbit vibe on it.

All women are built differently, preferring different sizes, girths, penis shapes etc. Why don't sex toy manufacturers create toys that reflect this reality??

maeta123 · 2020-10-14T05:59:36+00:00

So what do you do if you get in bed and it's super small? Been there. Done that. Don't know how I should handle it.

asteria2002 · 2020-10-13T11:22:06+00:00

Yep this true, there may be some women who enjoy small dicks. But small docks aren't pleasing to the vast majority of women don't like small dicks and this is what men don't want to hear. I myself don't like small dicks too, but men see this as hate speech 🤷🏼‍♀️.

kmblue · 2020-10-13T12:06:58+00:00

I’ve learned for my own vagina, 7-10 inches with girth work best with clit stimulation. I’m also relatively tall for a woman so I like men taller than me. They also tend to be in proportion so I get the correct dick size as well as the height I enjoy. There are women who enjoy smaller dicks. I can do a smaller dick if it’s girthier than normal for its length. But i know what my body likes and I go with that.

breadandbunny · 2020-10-13T13:12:40+00:00

I'd have to disagree to an extent. Was with a large guy for two years and never orgasmed. In fact, sex was often painful (also due to him not liking to do positions that I need to get off or even close to it). Current partner is average and it's like he was made for me. It didn't occur to me that orgasming from PIV was really possible.

newuser20202020 · 2020-10-13T23:33:07+00:00

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Title	DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	246
Comments	71
Date	October 13, 2020 7:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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