Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡

SureEmployment4 · 2020-02-20T18:40:45+00:00

Could never be with someone that undervalues housekeeping/cooking/childcare like this! The average cost of a live in nanny is $650 A WEEK.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-02-20T18:39:08+00:00

My sisters of color have it worse than fucking any of us, y’all. The misogyny in the culture is real and it’s strong.

Edit: I found this awesome thread from a few weeks ago. I’m always eager to read about your experiences, ladies: your struggles and your victories. I sincerely hope that we’re making enough room for you at the FDS table, and if we’re not please let us know. Your voices have been silent for so long.

airhostess_inthe60s · 2020-02-20T18:52:27+00:00

Make HIM stay at home for a week to take care of the house and family. Pretty sure he'll go back to his job running!

maybeathrowaway5678 · 2020-02-20T19:22:02+00:00

I’ll never understand this narrative. 90% of the women I know have jobs/careers.

2020-02-20T19:44:40+00:00

So let's see as a single person I already pay $1300 or so on bills and work fulltime. You're saying I could literally have children and a partner and never have to cook a meal or clean my house again while my children are raised and loved and I would have to do literally nothing extra? I'd still be working the same hours and paying the same bills?

Men are delusional and entitled AF.

Lazy_Sherbert · 2020-02-20T19:55:31+00:00

Most women work, take care of the kids and agree to split bills :) And then get 5 pity roses from a supermarket for Vday

how is anything hard for men exactly???? lol

ItsFreezen · 2020-02-20T20:37:21+00:00

A lot of these guys are hardly working. There just goofing off in the workplace.

responsiblenatures · 2020-02-20T20:43:32+00:00

Lol he should do it himself then.

2 months later, posts on OLD

"Looking for a woman to be a mother to my daughters"

DagDag001 · 2020-02-20T19:07:53+00:00

Growing up mixed, my black mother warned me to stay far away from black men when I was ready to date. I never knew why she was so adamant about it. I quickly figured out why once I experienced it myself. Pass!

venomous_g · 2020-02-20T22:48:51+00:00

1300 dollars? That doesn’t even cover rent in a decently large city or a place that isn’t a complete dump. His broke ass wouldn’t know that though.

Anyway, this fucker is likely still living off of his mom or auntie. A lot of black men are using black women’s hard earned and limited resources just to sit up on the internet all fucking day to whine about black women being users. What’s the point of their existence?

So happy I only date women.

logicalmonzi · 2020-02-20T22:20:50+00:00

cooking takes an hour HA cleaning takes an hour HA boy who has never cooked or cleaned or looked after a kid for more than 1 hour in his actual life. gtfo, you bring nothing but ur pennies to the table anyways.

Whateverrr_345 · 2020-02-20T19:08:43+00:00

Laziest most pathetic men in the entire history of mankind. They are the complete opposite of evolving. We are de-volving. They fail to fulfill their biological purpose.

Blondejobs · 2020-02-20T19:37:53+00:00

My parents bills are around 12,000 a month, my mom stays at home, takes care of everything. My dad doesn’t dare say shit if something wasn’t done or forgotten,he does it himself. You don’t have to tell a HVM all of the shit you do or provide for him emotionally or physically, he already knows what a woman brings to his life. My dad is so wonderful, with how he plans dates/pays attention to what she enjoys. always makes plans on the weekend,to make sure she’s fulfilled too. always considering/carrying out what makes my mom happy. I’m glad my stepdad came along, my father did me no justice on what a man was supposed to be like.

MissVvvvv · 2020-02-20T23:01:50+00:00

Ooohhh weee! They came for him in the comments! 😂😂😂😂

Blackishcat27 · 2020-02-20T23:55:10+00:00

This guy's a fucking idiot! Women who do those things if they got paid for all that labor would make at least one hundred thousand a year. Do these fools know how much a full time personal chef cost?

AyemHerself · 2020-02-20T22:06:36+00:00

Great, you go and be a house husband if it's so easy.

_anon_throwaway_ · 2020-02-20T21:20:27+00:00

no, she's a live in nanny

" The national average hourly rate for a nanny is $19.14 per hour. The national average gross weekly salary for full-time live-out nannies is $766. The national average gross weekly salary for full-time live-in nannies is $670. "

670*4.34 (weeks in a month)

Her work is worth $2907.80

or lets pretend you take care of the kids when you aren't working.

40hrs a week 4.34 weeks and $19.14 per hour is $3,322 ... somehow even more

So STFU you get a mother that raises your kids and takes care of your house. According to my calculations you OWE her money.

ThrowAway3879284 · 2020-02-21T00:10:30+00:00

Ok.

Well why don’t you stay at home and take care of the house and family while I go lay my fine ass up in Costa Rica baking while a nice Latin bell boy brings me mojitos in a coconut cup with one of them lil umbrella straws that’s pink... cause I like pink.....

And let’s see if you can handle it?

Oh, you can’t stay at home cause the bills gotta get paid? Hm.

Oh, but if you go to work all the time, who’s gonna take care of the house and kids? Hm.

mypretties · 2020-02-20T20:29:57+00:00

What a shitty dad, an inch away from a full on deadbeat

505ithy · 2020-02-21T04:28:51+00:00

Cleaning takes an hour???

extraacct1234 · 2020-02-21T02:55:55+00:00

Well you can know a low value man by the way he devalues raising a child properly, cooking healthy food and cleaning a house. making sure your child can speak and interact with other human beings is a waste of time apparently. Just shove him in front of the TV like this dude!

99power · 2020-02-21T05:54:20+00:00

Cooking healthy food takes wayyyyyy more than one hour a day. Over this winter break I took care of my mother while she worked and I wasn’t, and you bet I figured out real quick that quality food made from scratch is at least a part-time job, even with modern conveniences. And that’s not even counting cleaning and maintenance. You know damn well they give these clownish estimates because they probably can’t do more than pour cereal and microwave fries for themselves. How much money do you wanna bet he uses plastic forks and paper plates? Hm?

Title	Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡
Author	Balkanka
Upvotes	218
Comments	72
Date	February 20, 2020 6:34 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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