Q4Women: How would you react if your partner asked you to roleplay losing your virginity?

simeneta · 2021-01-10T20:56:28+00:00

So he wants an awkward blowjob where I keep using my teeth then starfish for two minutes while he goes at it?

Kind of a weird fetish.

Mimoxs · 2021-01-11T00:12:28+00:00

I'd do it but like... Sounds like a odd roleplay. He wants me to lay there silently and keep saying stop for 3 minutes? Respond "no" when asked if it feels good? Saying "ow"? Odd

superlurkage · 2021-01-10T20:50:36+00:00

I can’t act for shit, so he obviously will be disappointed.

What are you talking about — obviously men fetishize virginity and n counts because sex is devaluing for women to engage in, because women is thing. Don’t believe me? Women have been and are still bought and sold as usable sexual objects, whether for sex or babies

death_by_1000_cats · 2021-01-10T21:02:09+00:00

I really don't enjoy any sort of role playing and would probably not be a very convincing actress, but I'd give it a go. I wouldn't want it to be something we did every time or very frequently though.

Reisiluu · 2021-01-10T21:22:26+00:00

Ohhhh he would not like a repeat of that lol

Seems like an innocent kink but I'm not sure how to act in a way that's hot and not a disaster. I wasn't shy as a virgin.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-11T03:45:54+00:00

Can’t you people just play school teacher/pupil like the good, wholesome pervs of my day?

Gerealtor · 2021-01-11T10:37:29+00:00

I think I'd do it, given that he was a good guy, we were in a relationship and that he asked in a normal/nice way, but like... I doubt any guy who has taken a virginity before views it as this magical thing; it seems more of an obsession for men who never got to take one. I lost mine to a guy who was also a virgin so we lost it together and that was nice, but the reality of it was that it only got good later on. The first (handful of) time(s) was... bumpy, careful, painful, stunted, fumbly and doesn't offer much chance for the guy to "let loose" and enjoy getting his own selfishly. I imagine guys with the virgin fantasy think once they've "deflowered" her, they'll be enjoying it so much, going crazy and showing her the moves or whatever, but you can't do that with a virgin. It's all about her the first time, seeing as she's (likely) the one in pain.

SaccharineX · 2021-01-10T20:57:41+00:00

Lol, I mean sure why not, as long as it's not a kink that's painful or degrading I am fine with roleplaying.

jumpatomic · 2021-01-10T21:18:39+00:00

It's a red flag for arrested development. Absolutely creepy.

PrincessFKNPeach · 2021-01-10T21:23:13+00:00

That's kinda hot ngl

Manufacture-Insight · 2021-01-10T23:15:47+00:00

I”d ask him for the card and go on shopping splurging. Would say it”s cheaper to jerk this one off and move along.

thelajestic · 2021-01-11T07:32:02+00:00

There wouldn't be any point because I wasn't nervous on my first time and I didn't act like I didn't know what I was doing. I really wanted to fuck and made proactive moves to do so. There would be little difference in how I approach sex now.

Also I'd think it was really fucking weird if they did want me to act nervous/unsure etc. I'm down for most kinks but I think that's a bit much.

2021-01-11T14:01:55+00:00

I actually had an awesome time losing mine so I wouldn’t mind. The person sucked character wise but was pretty decent in the sack. I didn’t bleed and it was a fun romp.

I’d 100% role play that but I couldn’t give him the insecure virgin experience because my first time was awesome.

Asbelowsoaboveme · 2021-01-11T18:26:45+00:00

No way, that’s creepy and speaks to a strong Madonna/ Whore complex and the perspective of women as objects. I like role play, but if my boyfriend ever suggested such a scene I would be instantly turned off and would likely stay that way for a long time.

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AnarchoNAP · 2021-01-10T20:54:54+00:00

Seems fair tbh.

mechanical_elves · 2021-01-10T21:02:19+00:00

Like this, but pretend it's a woman

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckHn4gsuZew

crookedsummer2019 · 2021-01-10T21:56:32+00:00

Sure, I have no issues with that. It wouldn’t be the weirdest thing I’ve been asked to role play.

2021-01-10T22:17:53+00:00

I think I’d feel closer to him

Emberily123 · 2021-01-10T23:50:16+00:00

Fuck no, gives me pedo vibes. I would indulge a rape kink so I would indulge a pedo one.

umnothnxbye · 2021-01-11T02:48:32+00:00

I genuinely wouldn't care. This seems relatively easy to do.

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-11T05:03:07+00:00

Would do it, i don’t judge.

Not my usual dynamic but I love role play so sounds like a gd time.

philomexa · 2021-01-11T05:13:08+00:00

🤮🤮🤮

Willow-girl · 2021-01-11T06:11:30+00:00

Roleplays. Oh geez! Long ago I had a lover who was into this sort of thing. I could never stay in character and would usually end up ROTFL. He remarked that I'm a bad actress. Yeah, probably.

2021-01-11T06:29:54+00:00

You mean, role play a man’s fantasy that it’s your first time.

If nervous and insecure are the qualifications, you don’t have to be a virgin for that. I was only ever nervous once, when I had fallen really hard for a man that I made wait for a long time.

Gross ex liked the DDLG thing. Not just virgin, but daughter. Not just daughter, but toddler. So no, I wouldn’t go near the innocence RP thing again. 9/10 I’d curb him.

octocombo · 2021-01-11T20:09:02+00:00

I select partners who want to sexually submit to me, but switching occasionally is fine! I'm not sure I would be able to keep a straight face for this, but I'd be down to try acting like a stereotypical virgin (which I never was) as a "let's do this once for shits and giggles" roleplay.

I'm happy to indulge a desire someone I love has if it's not violating something I need for a healthy relationship. I wouldn't do it all the time because what I want out of sex is different, and for me sex that I enjoy is a requirement for a healthy sexual relationship.

ReasonableSignature7 · 2021-01-11T22:47:15+00:00

Go along with it

Unteryn · 2021-01-12T02:58:14+00:00

Weird for sure. He'd want me to fake pain or seem scared and that didn't even happen my actual loss of virginity. The broken hymen scenario is mostly a myth. If I tried to recreate my first time it would just involve a really awkward attempt at vigorous riding since I didn't know it was better to plant my feet and squat, and I got incredibly tired whiplashing my hips like a madwoman.

2021-01-13T16:31:51+00:00

block him

ivy176 · 2021-01-14T03:35:45+00:00

He's turned on by women faking orgasms?

Is he a virgin in this roleplay? Just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I'm shy. Maybe I'm a virgin who suddenly goes loco and ties him up and stands on his face. I mean i don't know what I'm doing, I might get overwhelmed and do things out of character

Substantial_Wasabi · 2021-01-10T20:59:21+00:00

kinda hot i'd be into it but im an actress

Title	Q4Women: How would you react if your partner asked you to roleplay losing your virginity?
Author	Scores_Man_Mund
Upvotes	6
Comments	71
Date	January 10, 2021 8:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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