A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).

Colorado1996 · 2021-01-11T03:01:00+00:00

How much you wanna bet she thought he’d propose during the shoot, and it’d turn into an ironic inside joke? I’ve seen so many photo shoot proposals lately, I wouldn’t be surprised if she booked this herself and then dropped hints the entire time beforehand. And for what? Now you have non-proposal photo shoot pictures to cherish for the rest of your lives?

chasingastarl1ght · 2021-01-11T01:33:40+00:00

This is a cry for help

Sage_Planter · 2021-01-11T02:20:47+00:00

I'm all for couples taking more photos together outside the standard engagement, wedding, babies, etc. but please no with this shit. Those shirts are not cute. This whole thing is just pathetic and sad.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-01-11T01:41:06+00:00

Even if they both are happy and it’s no problem, why announce it? They are insecure about something, to go out of the way and spend time and money on this? Why do they care to prove something to the internet? It’s just weird to me.

Summoning-Freaks · 2021-01-11T01:12:44+00:00

I got this from a Facebook group (not where it was originally posted), but the comment section was filled with unmarried women in relationships for over 5years defending this.

Struck a nerve methinks?

Meepnit · 2021-01-11T02:46:47+00:00

And him cheekily doing the middle finger in the first photo is the icing on the cake 🤦🏻

wrice05 · 2021-01-11T01:14:07+00:00

Oh, honey, no

shortywannarock · 2021-01-11T03:15:59+00:00

Okay I think I understand the motivations here..

Her: hehe what a fun and cheeky way to publicly embarrass him into finally proposing!

Him: Laaadieezzzz— guess who’s still single 😎😝🤚

2021-01-11T01:27:17+00:00

This is some clown behavior. Have you noticed how society makes light of men's bummyness? Almost as if it's cute.

The other day, I came across a livestream on Reddit which was titled "live from my mom's basement"...it was a group of like 5 sweaty guys playing music is one of their mum's basement. Why is bummy behavior so charming when it's from a man?? And I do not doubt one of those men sleep in that basement too (despite being grown). Women need to start shaming these men into change because they honestly believe they can do no wrong.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-01-11T02:09:51+00:00

She should have spent the print shop money on a nice outfit for herself, and had her portrait done in the snow. This is just a waste, destined for the curb on some future moving day.

Winner-Takes-All · 2021-01-11T03:48:26+00:00

Ah, yes.

I can't wait until she releases a rant post next year in how they broke up, and he has already proposed to his new girlfriend after only nine months together.

99power · 2021-01-11T04:02:37+00:00

This is some reverse psychology bullshit lmao. He really thinks he’s just gonna string her along for a few decades until a skinny 22yo virgin magically falls into his lap, huh?

PhoridayThe13th · 2021-01-11T05:29:15+00:00

Way to aim high. Also, he doesn’t look like much of a prize. Looks like the type of man child who swills Pabst, and eats the deer he hits on the way home from the bar. “Wilsons Eventually”? Pure class.

Fun_Sherbet · 2021-01-11T02:13:23+00:00

I'm just thinking about the money and time she spent on all of this..

smm1892 · 2021-01-11T01:12:11+00:00

Wow, how insulting!

SpecificPatience8 · 2021-01-11T02:29:29+00:00

🤡🤡🤡

_xyoungbellax_ · 2021-01-11T02:32:06+00:00

Why do people do this and not realize this is epic circus shit?

localgirlcult · 2021-01-11T11:22:28+00:00

Ladies, if you're ever desperate to marry enough to degrade yourself like this, go to therapy, find some resource, do something. Just...take a pause and think about if this is appropriate for you as a human being. I know there are lurkers from various corners of Reddit here. Ask yourself if this culture is acceptable to perpetuate.

Altowhovian93 · 2021-01-11T04:43:22+00:00

I have a friend who has made joking posts over this past year about how her BF of 4 years has not proposed. I don’t know her whole story but a woman should never have to publicly shame a guy into proposing.

fairywakes · 2021-01-11T03:27:38+00:00

I’m SICK

hakunnamatatamfs · 2021-01-11T05:09:16+00:00

Mr and Mrs not yet. SMH

Confection_Efficient · 2021-01-11T05:48:06+00:00

She clearly needs FDS, higher self esteem and to dump his ass.

VivaLaSea · 2021-01-11T06:26:46+00:00

Why would you embarrass yourself like that?

Party-Promise-8840 · 2021-01-11T06:47:28+00:00

How embarrassing 🙈

Ayxmiii · 2021-01-11T11:27:48+00:00

Weird flex but ok 🥴

nomaki221 · 2021-01-11T14:05:39+00:00

I read some waiting to wed subreddits and honestly, some people are a shit show. Something about the ring just turns their brain into mush.

Babooshka-123 · 2021-01-11T15:44:32+00:00

If they didn’t want an engagement but wanted a couples shoot they could have worn nice outfits and designed a shoot that expressed their love and relationship authentically. This is awkward, tacky and the outfits are ugly.

v0ta_p0r_m0ta · 2021-01-11T07:02:29+00:00

This is just plain DUMB....oy vey 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

Mella_20 · 2021-01-11T08:49:04+00:00

2021-01-11T10:19:06+00:00

I fucking cringed.

SarcasmSlide · 2021-01-11T15:24:02+00:00

I cringed so hard I think I sprained my asshole.

iaintgonnacallyou · 2021-01-11T05:45:47+00:00

Big yikes 😬

warinmymind94 · 2021-01-12T00:51:41+00:00

Eww. I knew a pickme that did something like this because she's been engaged now for way too long. She bought a house with the guy too. Its been almost 3 years of the engagement and she keeps delaying the wedding. First of all it was for "bad weather" and then with covid its now "because of covid" and its still because of covid... its all very suspicious

heleninthealps · 2021-01-11T21:41:53+00:00

My whole face just twisted.... This isn't cute or even funny. It's tacky and pathetic 🤢

Woman_on_Pause · 2021-01-11T14:31:04+00:00

Oh, sweetie noooooo

AllTheBeanToes · 2021-01-11T17:35:18+00:00

Damn that's pathetic and pure cringe 🤮🤮🤮

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2021-01-11T20:04:37+00:00

Is this a formerly religious couple trying to stick it to their folks? It’s the only thing that makes sense.

_Twixes_ · 2021-01-11T20:32:15+00:00

Honestly this has to be one of the most pathetic things I’ve ever seen.

Title	A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).
Author	Summoning-Freaks
Upvotes	349
Comments	58
Date	January 11, 2021 1:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kursqe/a_not_engaged_photoshoot_shes_the_one_who_booked/
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