The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)

2340000 · 2021-05-18T23:50:48+00:00

One day she will sob when her LVM porn addict husband pressures her into a threesome and starts having more fun with the other girl.

9hazle · 2021-05-19T00:07:45+00:00

Kind of disgusting how they laugh about it

Chickpea16 · 2021-05-19T01:32:33+00:00

Huh. Whatever happened to enthusiastic consent? I’ve done some things I’m not proud of but at least I’ve never had a sexual encounter with someone who was crying or clearly uncomfortable. What an odd thing to brag about 😬

eru378 · 2021-05-19T01:59:53+00:00

A good reminder that gleeful misogyny is a core element of being a Cool Girl

GoldandGlowing · 2021-05-19T03:10:11+00:00

Very ugly energy tbh

Protoetype · 2021-05-19T02:08:47+00:00

There are types of pick me girls that will throw women under the bus any chance they get, they want to see cruelty done to women because they hate the weakness in themselves and they love to mock women to make themselves feel like 'tough girls'

I also feel like these girls would be the ones to be performatively bi as I doubt they have any genuine romantic relationships with women

throwaway111qqq · 2021-05-18T23:55:06+00:00

I bet, the first husband doesn't go down on the wife or doesn't go down enough on the wife and it was triggering for her.

AcadiaLeather5071 · 2021-05-18T23:49:29+00:00

I saw this on one of the bi subs and wanted to talk about it.

First of all- I don’t like how they’re laughing about this. If someone breaks down and cries during sex something is very wrong.

These women seem to have been pressured into this by their LVMs. They’re probably insecure and scared he’s gonna leave if they don’t perform.

It’s also weird for the bi person involved because they have to deal with a creepy unicorn hunter and his unstable relationship. I can’t imagine how awkward it would be to think you’re having a fun time and then someone starts crying during sex...

WittyImprovement · 2021-05-19T00:08:43+00:00

This was painful to read. I feel very very sorry for the wife 😔 and that woman who's laughing about it should be ashamed of herself 😡

Maingurl · 2021-05-19T01:39:31+00:00

HE cHosE Me instEad of Her! Lol am I rigHt laDies!?

So friggen bizzare! Shit ain't cute at all!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-05-18T23:50:31+00:00

Vomit.

So funny hurting women and taking advantage of them.

spicyspa · 2021-05-19T02:03:34+00:00

Cruel.

throwaway1378420 · 2021-05-19T00:49:21+00:00

Bet the pickme never asked the wife if she was okay with the threesome 😷 She probably got off on making some other woman hurt or jealous like all pickmeishas do anyway.

pearlspaghetti · 2021-05-19T00:20:24+00:00

Sad on so many fronts. The wife forced herself to be the CoOl GirL and had performative sex with another person in order to satisfy her husband’s obvious pornsickness. Meanwhile, the other woman thinks she’s out-cool-girled the wife because it’s incomprehensible that a woman would cry over seeing her husband performing oral sex on another person right in front of her. Like does she honestly think the wife was really down for it? Both women lose, but the dirty scrote leaves more depraved than ever and with a smile on his face. The libfem idea of sExUal eMpoWerMenT only ever seems to empower men to continue to exploit women sexually.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-05-19T00:03:56+00:00

Wow. Look at how edgy, cool and laidback these women are. I’m so jealous and I realized how much I’m missing out on like dating ungrateful men who don’t give a damn about you.

Also when the guy said “I think the F was expecting the whole thing to be about her so she got really pouty” like right? Women are so selfish and only think about themselves which is why they finally caved in when their boyfriends were constantly pressuring, manipulating and guilt tripping them into having threesomes and he managed to convince her because

“If you love a man, you’ll do anything for him. Because he would do the same thing for you” really? I’ve never heard of a man having a threesome with another man for his girlfriend. But I’ve heard multiple women having threesomes with other women but no, apparently we’re the selfish ones.

Men are the most selfish and self centered people on the planet. They never change 🤦🏻‍♀️

yeahhh22 · 2021-05-19T06:51:09+00:00

Why are monogamous people bullied

Edit: monogamous women? And jk I know the answer.

Davina33 · 2021-05-19T08:15:38+00:00

My ex boyfriend's scrote best friend did a MMF with his first wife. So the first wife left him for the other man. He was the biggest misogynist I've ever met and I'm sure he played a role in our break up. There was domestic violence involved and a load of nasty message from him about me, when I've never been anything but pleasant to him. He was single at the time and wanted my ex to join him shagging around.

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-05-19T00:23:54+00:00

I almost had a threesome and so so so glad I didn't. It was one hundred percent to be the cool girl.

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-05-19T03:35:10+00:00

The way those assholes are both laughing at the women makes me sick tbh. Imagine feeling good about your role in a woman agreeing to a threesome, that she didn’t want, and getting hurt in the process. Pickmes and the dicks they worship are disgusting.

WeirdRockbaby · 2021-05-18T23:50:23+00:00

Even when they bring another men, that person is for the men enjoyment not the woman's. They're selfish in all sexual orientations. 🙄

eveloe · 2021-05-19T09:55:36+00:00

I don’t think the conclusion of “cool girl” is accurate here. We believe that too many women are coerced into sex by their partners, who they ostensibly love and are committed to.

I think threesome situations are rife with even more coercion and abuse, given that it’s sex with a stranger, and there is the cultural expectation that one partner (usually male) has to “convince” the other (usually female) to go through with it, in order to save their relationship.

The fact that the OPs in the screenshot are describing their situations with a tone of pride is really messed up.

This feels victim blamey

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-05-19T09:53:42+00:00

I was in the wifes position with my forever bf ex back then. Can confirm that everything was great as long as it was just the two of us. She didn't need to secretly "invite him" (her wording) doing her while she was doing me tho. Especially after I declared that those situations were unbearable to me and I therefore never want to participate in a threesome of that kind.

Picardgrrl69 · 2021-05-19T09:28:02+00:00

I’m not sure pouty is the right word. I know I would become disgusted if my partner started fucking another man in the ass, and I sure as hell wouldn’t want his dick in my vagina anytime soon.

Round-Antelope552 · 2021-05-19T11:14:16+00:00

I reckon couples that do this take on a predatory type of conduct and quite frankly it’s disturbing.

freelancepsychic · 2021-05-19T17:48:16+00:00

This makes me angry in so many ways, and brings up so many feelings for me.

For many years I questioned/denied being bisexual because I was afraid it was a result of being conditioned by men to enjoy sex with other women. I still have a lot of questions in regards to my own sexuality. I come from an abusive past and I had boyfriends/partners who forced me to have threesomes and engage in sex with other women for their enjoyment. I often wonder if other women have similar experiences with being confused about their sexuality due to abuse, because I haven't had this conversation with anyone.

I should probably save it for a therapist

Confidence_Relative · 2021-05-19T08:59:31+00:00

MtF calling a woman ‘reeel pouty’ because you had bare back anal with her husband in front of her, bait and switch any expectation her pleasure would be important. God I miss the GC sub, at least a space where we weren’t gaslight into pretending TW aren’t misogynistic as fuck and SW is empowering.

Bleep_bloop5678 · 2021-05-19T00:24:56+00:00

This makes me feel so sick.

lucidlotus · 2021-05-19T20:25:55+00:00

Jesus. This is awful. I know some people can do casual sex and polyamory without issue, but it's heartbreaking to think about all the women in scenarios like this because they're trying to "make their husbands happy." YUCK.

There was a Showtime show called Polyamory where the man in one of the couples got a girlfriend. His wife, who was totally into the lifestyle and made herself out to be some sort of polyamory expert, had a legitimate nervous breakdown. Yet it was all about her having to work through her "insecurities" and "grow" and that kind of BS. Nah, nervous breakdowns are probably the NORMAL reaction for things like that. People pushing polyamory as a normal, healthy lifestyle for the average person, when it's something very few can do successfully, are insane.

the-lonely-spirit · 2021-05-19T23:44:21+00:00

The dude in the second part literally said:

"Oh no...."

"Anyway"

ketodietclub · 2021-05-19T18:18:15+00:00

Is eww an acceptable comment?

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Title	The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)
Author	AcadiaLeather5071
Upvotes	416
Comments	61
Date	May 18, 2021 11:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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