I mean, don't get me wrong. I'm happy for you both, and I'm glad that we helped save your marriage(s). I'm happy that so many men are choosing to improve themselves after finding FDS.

The one thing I just don't understand is why didn't you believe your wife before finding FDS? Why did you have to read thousands of women saying the exact same thing before finally admitting that her perspective might actually be worth something?

I feel similarly about guys who pay for male dating coaches to teach them how to get a woman. They say shit like "never ask a woman for dating advice, when you want to learn how to hunt, you ask the hunter, not the deer"

It's so strange to me that men openly refuse to receive instruction from women unless they're being sneaky about it in some way. When I see guys talking about being a male lurker on FDS, they talk like spies gathering intelligence from behind enemy lines.

This isn't new information, my dudes. It's certainly no secret, either. The stuff you read on FDS is the exact same stuff that women have been complaining about for YEARS, some of it is stuff we've been saying directly to your face! Why are you only paying attention now, after ignoring our pleas for so long?