Translation: Don’t be offended when I say something rude or mean

starfighter07 · 2021-06-08T06:59:59+00:00

The fact that he says "especially with women". Abuser outed himself.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-06-08T09:28:03+00:00

Translation : Im scared of other men and resent women so i take out my self loathing on women by constantly negging them. Women with any self esteem need not apply. PS my crippled personality is actually a positive character trait.

Fit_Juice · 2021-06-08T08:20:18+00:00

What a nice guy, he vetted himself for me.

Platipus6 · 2021-06-08T06:27:20+00:00

We assume when men are "brutally honest" they mean about themselves. Their flaws, fuckups and short-comings. No no. Brutal about their opinion of you.

3v3ryR0s3HasItsTh0rn · 2021-06-08T06:27:39+00:00

Someone had his ego chipped. Aw.

betsybasset · 2021-06-08T06:08:51+00:00

Watch his reaction if you do the same to him)

(Careful not to get punched/raped/assaulted/verbally-attacked)

ENFP_Canadian · 2021-06-08T11:34:23+00:00

"I like being rude and insensitive, especially towards women as I hate them. Telling you upfront makes it ok!"

Practical_Appearance · 2021-06-08T08:08:18+00:00

This isn't being brutally honest, this is just being brutal

whiskey_and_oreos · 2021-06-08T06:01:03+00:00

Tell me you're emotionally abusive to women without actually saying you're emotionally abusive to women.

I love when the audacity and telling on themselves overlap. He actually thought this was a good idea for long enough to type that out and add it to his profile.

Guyincognito9876 · 2021-06-08T07:29:39+00:00

It’s like men who say they like ‘banter’. What they mean is they want to insult you and then accuse you of not being able to take a joke.

haunted_vcr · 2021-06-08T08:21:43+00:00

Direct isn't the same thing as asshole, but he missed the memo

vbych76 · 2021-06-08T05:59:01+00:00

These types are actually 🤡 s. Thousands of years of different civilizations, linguistic rules, ancient philosophers and we get a MAN that just likes to be rude to people, be purposely hurtful, hiding behind"You have no sence of humor".

hopeful_flounder93 · 2021-06-08T09:33:38+00:00

If someone was direct about his small dick, he'd have a meltdown.

Fuck off Branden 😂

CompanyUnusual · 2021-06-08T09:27:31+00:00

It's not only about being abusive assholes towards women. These kind of "men" are never direct and blunt with other men because they are afraid of being physically hurt if other man gets angry or upset. So, they are wussies, as well, lmao, what a way to admit it.

aTophMF · 2021-06-08T09:18:37+00:00

He says while getting his panties in a bunch when women are being direct to him. Loser.

CuntWaffe · 2021-06-08T12:10:01+00:00

ESPECIALLY WITH WOMEN. Because he is too much of a coward to do it with men, lmao. Just say you hate women and go.

Lazy-Design1979 · 2021-06-08T11:43:04+00:00

Oh look...it's another devil's advocate. How original.

msinclaire · 2021-06-08T16:16:19+00:00

All this to say “When I tell you your tits are too small, your forehead is too high, your waist is to thick and that I just loooooove redheads (which you are not), you’ll know I’m jUsT bEinG hOnEST and won’t take it personally “.

Welcome to life with my exNVH. 🙁😡

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-06-08T07:31:02+00:00

So just letting you know now! How considerate and sweet xx

restlessGal · 2021-06-08T11:08:54+00:00

Same energy as “I am a blunt person, I always speak my mind”

smartierthanthou · 2021-06-08T12:34:09+00:00

"I care enough about men's opinions that I perform basic civility, but I do not care about women's, so I expect you to validate my amazing authenticity after I hurt your feelings."

Waste-Win · 2021-06-08T13:20:32+00:00

Translation: I'm an asshole.

ItsFreezen · 2021-06-08T12:14:40+00:00

"I can dish it out but I can't take my own medicine" "I'm a VERY FRAGILE MALE"

AcademicMobile1 · 2021-06-08T11:25:29+00:00

Ah, I'm sure he also loves to describe himself as an asshole

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-06-08T16:50:20+00:00

I jUsT lOvE pLaYiNg dEvIls AdvOcAtE🔥🔥🔥

grrl_in_nyc · 2021-06-08T08:45:39+00:00

Tough love as a love language - classy.

Dating apps are just awful and I will never use them again. I’m hoping to maybe have some luck finding a matchmaking service for LGBTQ folks if it exists.

Only_Lime2520 · 2021-06-08T15:49:28+00:00

I love these translation posts, I'm learning so much. Please keep them coming!!

eveloe · 2021-06-08T13:42:54+00:00

Even taking at face value, he’s not being very direct enough here.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-06-08T22:19:11+00:00

Unbridled, unabashed honesty is not a redeeming quality. Being an “honest” jerk doesn’t negate being a jerk. It’s called having a filter, you cannot get by in life without one. He clearly knows this and reserves his unfiltered hatred for conversations with women he “dates,” hence the women only disclaimer.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-08T18:38:28+00:00

eh? the point being...?

Title	Translation: Don’t be offended when I say something rude or mean
Author	ilostitireallylostit
Upvotes	340
Comments	48
Date	June 8, 2021 5:47 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nuxk62/translation_dont_be_offended_when_i_say_something/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/translation-dont-be-offended-when-i-say-something.781598 https://theredarchive.com/post/781598

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