this post with nearly 175,000 likes on instagram is the epitome of sexism. it’s disgusting.

TheStumblingWolf · 2021-01-21T07:16:27+00:00

Replace "men" with "black people" and you get a whole different post...

fgyoysgaxt · 2021-01-21T08:45:00+00:00

Here's the tl;dr

It's safer to assume the worst of men
Sexism against men is not as important as violence against women
These statements are about the social construct "man" rather than individuals
Addressing sexism derails more important conversations
It's about the statistics, not the actions of individuals
The feelings of men are not important in this discussion

I think these points could probably have been combined (2, 4, and 6 could be combined into "a bit of sexism is not important compared to the issue being discussed", 3 and 5 could be "we are looking at the big picture, not individuals").

Personally I think it's possible to address sexism in non-problematic ways - justifying sexism by saying you are fighting a bigger sexism is two steps forward, one step back. I am a firm believer that working towards women's rights shouldn't mean regressing men's rights, and vice versa men's rights shouldn't mean denying women's rights. Rights aren't zero sum after all. When it comes to things like education funding, they should be allocated based on needs rather than fighting over funding, of course it's not that simple.

I would generally agree it's good to look at the big picture, but I don't think that justifies making sweeping statements and ignoring the feelings of individuals.

The first point may be true, but simply always assuming the worst of everyone isn't productive.

Durgens226 · 2021-01-21T08:57:11+00:00

"...women still earn less then men for the same work." as someone on this subreddit already asked: if men are paid more then women then why wouldnt companies hire much more women then men.

Drippinice · 2021-01-21T08:08:47+00:00

They're generalizing millions of men just like they say men do to women... Its like they have zero awareness

jacksleepshere · 2021-01-21T08:19:51+00:00

What statistics? The ones based off anecdotal evidence, or the ones that say false accusations are just as common?

Imagine writing a thesis to justify being sexist.

FullTimeUnplucker · 2021-01-21T05:51:19+00:00

Genitals cut as an infant - wow what a privilege. I'm seriously sick to fucking death of hearing I'm privileged. It makes me physically ill

dannyboi1178 · 2021-01-21T06:48:02+00:00

Could say the same about a woman who wants to falsely accuse me of rape and ruin my life but of course feminism takes it one step further with dividing people

XenoX101 · 2021-01-21T09:50:39+00:00

Lol photo 8 says "YOU ARE LIKE THESE MEN" while photo 9 immediately after says "No one is out to CRUCIFY YOU". Yeah this is why making gross generalisations about a given gender/race/etc. is bad, you lump in all the people who should be applauded for being moral with those who should be chastised for being immoral. It is also simply inaccurate, since the proportion of men who commit these crimes is far lower than the proportion that don't. They would be more accurate to say "The vast majority of men do not commit rape or sexual assault, but some do.", than "men are evil" or "men are rapists", statistically speaking. So even if they wanted to generalise (which they shouldn't) they would be wrong.

HeartOfSky · 2021-01-21T06:14:04+00:00

OMG, I have rants for each bullet point.

LuminescentSapphire · 2021-01-21T08:47:37+00:00

You never really know if someone will attempt to harm you or not, it doesn't matter if they're male or female. Are you gonna stay inside a plastic bubble because something bad might happen? Sure a random guy might be a rapist, but he probably isn't. You don't need to be a sexist asshole about it, just be cautious around people until you get to know them. Is that so hard??

Tastysalad101 · 2021-01-21T09:35:39+00:00

They say man as a society but the men who actually rape and stuff are like 0.1% of men who did to everyone it’s just you don’t obviously remember the 100s of men you pass everyday who are normal and don’t do stuff like that.

Jager454 · 2021-01-21T10:08:11+00:00

I fear for the future of our sons...

PossibleMedStudent · 2021-01-21T10:22:29+00:00

By that same logic we should say black people are criminals, stay away from them because of statistics. And when they say "notallblacks", they're derailing the conversation away from the important topics... These people are fucking nutjobs. I truly can't estimate how stupid they can get.

hambonejamboree_ · 2021-01-21T08:36:17+00:00

Whites are not stupid of course we know not “all blacks are rapists/criminals”. But how are we to know which one are and which ones aren’t? Better to err on the side of caution, no?

EmeraldCharm · 2021-01-21T11:56:48+00:00

I'm a woman and I had to stop reading tbh...it really angers me

DragoonurHD · 2021-01-21T11:37:48+00:00

And when we confront feminists with what hateful things they done they immediately resort to "Not all feminists did that" or "They're not real feminists".

Feminism is an ideological group with an objective but men don't have the same ideological group or objective so saying "Not all men" is valid than the invalid of the no true Scotsman fallacy "Not all feminists"

___yj_ · 2021-01-21T11:11:36+00:00

I've seen some men comment stuff like "I'm ashamed of being a man" under similar posts.

GullibleAirport732 · 2021-01-21T10:46:39+00:00

As a Muslim man, I feel male bashing and Islamophobia have shockingly similar patterns. Both of them are collective labeling and bashing. Highly offensive and hurtful stuff.

ScaredDelta · 2021-01-21T11:12:03+00:00

When people say killallmen and say it’s a joke, I give them this example:

KACP, kill all chinese people, realistically that would never happen, but does that make it any less offensive? Of course not

Man_in_the_suitcase · 2021-01-21T10:49:50+00:00

"white people are not stupid, of course we know the "not all black people are rapists/sexual harassers" or whatever. The statistics say so. however, how are we supposed to know which ones are and which ones aren't?"

Mrbipartite · 2021-01-21T12:26:03+00:00

All women report fake rape and assault cases.

Had you rather we start each statement with "Some women"? Would that make you feel better? Because I beg to differ it should be "Too many women...." given the statistics. Is that you want us to acknowledge the fact that you never fake report rape case?

The_Pale_Angel · 2021-01-21T12:34:38+00:00

By their definition, all women are child molesters, all women are gold digging cunts, all women are spineless POS who commit paternity frauds, all women are rapists, all women are domestic abusers, sex abusers, all women are misandristic assholes, all women are narcissistic pussies...

Yeah only some women might do the things I've mentioned above. But "I'd err on the side of caution eh"

Evening_Eagle · 2021-01-21T14:20:28+00:00

Just start saying "all women are sluts" and when someone complains you say: If you feel called out, you are the problem.

SPLUFFT · 2021-01-21T10:57:09+00:00

I would actually like a cookie

1320Hunan · 2021-01-21T13:54:37+00:00

It’s always “kill all men” and “fuck men” until black lives are mentioned...

realbrit · 2021-01-21T10:27:31+00:00

More nonsense about privilege.

I am getting more and more sick of this rubbish.

2021-01-21T10:50:09+00:00

but if this was said about women, or any other demographic ...

djc_tech · 2021-01-21T14:37:17+00:00

Remember when the gentleman in New Zealand stopped and helped a woman with a mechanical problem and was accused of sexual assault. Pepperidge farm remembers:
https://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/woman-who-accused-man-of-assault-after-he-fixed-her-car-admits-making-it-up/ICUS5UJMOCGFC664ROSQXIFZZ4/

Long story short - keep to yourselves. If you're in an office setting, never have lunch with a female colleague or a closed door meeting with a female without another person present. Obviously don't stop to help a woman in distress like the one noted above unless it's a relative, girlfriend, close friend (even that's iffy) or spouse. Keep copies of all text and email correspondence with females - this is particularly important in cases of co-workers and wives and spouses. Those of us who have gone through a custody battle can attest to that point.

Am I saying MGTOW? No, what I am saying is keep women out of your immediate circle at arms length and don't trust them. And once a wife or girlfriend becomes and EX they're immediately out of the circle. As for coworkers? Stay away in general, avoid private meetings and lunches and don't date them. Sure, most of us know you're not a rapist, but it's better to be sure to not get a false allegation against you and pay tens of thousands in legal costs to just somewhat clear your name.

Mel_1289 · 2021-01-21T15:29:49+00:00

And when we point out the flaws in Feminism, I bet they jump in real quick to say "Not all Feminists" or, "That's not really Feminism".

BlackBoxInquiry · 2021-01-21T15:35:22+00:00

Not all women are whores and cheat on their men.

Not all women are gold diggers.

Not all women abuse men. (like poor Johnny Depp for example)

Not all women act mentally unstable during their menses.

Not all women look for a man as an atm or retirement plan.

“Not all women are stupid and believe this.” (Quote from Insta post)

But how are men supposed to know which ones?

Yeah. Fucking garbage “logic” on that insta post they are liking.

2021-01-21T15:41:53+00:00

So basically, “We know not all men but all men need to feel guilty for the actions of bad men but nothing about women because we’re all perfect victims”

2021-01-21T12:24:01+00:00

So to even the field should we suddenly treat all women like there gold diggers?

Of course not because that's hurts society... When people want equality, proper equality then absolutely I'm on board but that's not the conversation a lot of feminists want, if I suddenly campaign for women In the states to sign the draft, that courts no longer can favour the mother just because she's the mother, that more men's welfare shelters open up to combat homelessness to get more women involved in construction. Then the militant feminists will not be happy with me...

These shitty feminists posts that apparently empower women but shitting on and degrading the opposite sex does nothing to help lift up society.

As said before if you swap men out for any other minority you'd get shut down instantly.

Someone_Somewhere1 · 2021-01-21T17:50:50+00:00

Replace men with ‘black people’ or ‘Muslim’ and the post would have caused endless outrage.

‘White people are not stupid, of course we know that ‘not all black people are rapists/sexual predator’ or whatever. However, how are we supposed to know which ones are and which ones aren’t? Better to err on the side of caution’

‘Hindus are not stupid, of course we know not all Muslims are criminals, bombers or terrorists, that statistics say so. However, how are we supposed to know which ones are and which ones aren’t?’

Statically, black people and Muslims commit lie crimes on average, so this is a phenomenal analogy, would we accept generalising them now? Of course not, but feminists are stupid and deluded

ArneRosc · 2021-01-21T11:35:13+00:00

I just reported it, take the time to do so as well

IceBlocY · 2021-01-21T13:51:07+00:00

Guess im "one of those men"

PlanetMeridius · 2021-01-21T14:00:37+00:00

This is why feminism is one of the most hated movements of all time

2021-01-21T13:42:13+00:00

When men point out negative facts about women they go bonkers. They believe a narrative and they can't see beyond it. Whenever you puncture the narrative they completely fall apart. They can only preach to the converted. This could be why more and more women are turning away from feminism than embracing it.

jinladen040 · 2021-01-21T13:47:01+00:00

From this we can now assume "All women think men are trash, therefore men should stay away from women" But it goes to show why no one should use this type of crooked thinking.

Genesis1A · 2021-01-21T13:49:12+00:00

Look at #5 and the statistics source the author uses. It assumes that the data is representative of all cases however, there will be differences bet different societies and you also have to take into account the legal definition of rape. If you believe that a woman who forces a man to penetrate her by force or by coercion (non-consensual) is technically rape, then tough luck bec that's not "rape" but a lighter sexual assault case (assuming it's even reported and investigated). In fact, the US National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey NISVS 2010-2012 report determined that (page 4) "The majority of male victims of completed or attempted [legal definition] rape (86.5%) reported only male perpetrators with no statistically reliable state estimates. The majority of male victims who were made to penetrate someone else reported only female perpetrators (78.5%), with 7 reportable state estimates ranging from 71.8% to 89.7%. Similarly, the majority of male victims of sexual coercion reported only female perpetrators (81.6%) with 7 reportable state estimates ranging from 75.3% to 97.9%."

The estimated number of victims that faced female "legal definition" rapists are 160,000 young men while the estimated number of victims that faced female made-to-penetrate rapists are 5,312,000 (page 32 of 2010-2012 report). Do note that the figures presented in these studies are only lifetime reported data and many studies have noted that a staggering number of men (particularly the young) do NOT report and are generally less likely to report (vs women). It is also known that the higher number of estimated lifetime reported data for sexual violence against women is the result of years of study, investigation drives, and empowerment hence, the difference between the reported data between genders may also be not representative of "which gender is the most victim". Link to NISVS 2010-2012 report and NISVS 2015 report.

AbysmalDescent · 2021-01-21T15:10:16+00:00

The percentage of men who are capable, let alone willing, of rape is a fraction of a single percent, and yet feminists want to paint them as if they were the male majority and this was a systemic problem. They also want to wrongfully paint this idea that they are socially accepted, when rapists are quite literally criminals operating outside ever legal/social contract, and their crimes are treated as though they were worst than murder.

When they try to have a discussion about misogyny, they try to do so while disregarding every factor that is inconvenient to them and where women have control/power to change things. Women seeing innocent, harmless or well-intended desires or feelings by men as wrongful and oppressive is a choice. Women rewarding the men, or male behaviors, they choose to, is a personal choice. Women delegitimizing or belittling men because they are men, or profiting from their loneliness, is a choice. When women have this much influence over men, that is systematic power. When women are violent, sexist, prejudiced or sexually abusive against men and it isn't even recognized as a crime, that is systematic power.

You cannot have a discussion about sexism without first addressing and understanding female privilege, and how strongly it plays into these issues, or silencing men who have every right to be part of that discussion.

gamessuck00 · 2021-01-21T16:25:07+00:00

“Women are not stupid... or whatever.”

I fixed the intro.

priestMarX · 2021-01-21T16:53:34+00:00

[permanently deleted]

1the_pokeman1 · 2021-01-21T09:08:16+00:00

could you link the post ? please and thank you

GiveSouce · 2021-01-21T11:30:34+00:00

This is insanity... The core emotion of these statements are pure hate. People like that don‘t even understand the word constructive.

Nickdela9812 · 2021-01-21T11:34:55+00:00

I stopped at page 5, when it says "By being a man, you are more privileged in a society than a woman", seriously, didn't even read the rest. When it comes to bullshit like this, they don't even deserve this much attention tbh, not even worth criticizing, just have a laugh.

flufalup · 2021-01-21T11:43:43+00:00

I seriously don’t get how you can think like this

Glorfindel42 · 2021-01-21T11:53:37+00:00

Sometimes I feel like giving up, then I remember there's nothing up to give.

VeteranOfDepression · 2021-01-21T12:02:34+00:00

my head hurts just reading this.

iman_313 · 2021-01-21T12:04:44+00:00

hahaha what a cesspool instagram has become.

MostlyPeacefulReddit · 2021-01-21T13:34:31+00:00

Jordan Peterson already mastered the art of telling these people how and why they are wrong

rejectx · 2021-01-21T13:39:08+00:00

I wonder how would they feel if I said that "women needs to stop killing their newborn children" by refering to those crazy mothers that commit neonaticide, and when they would get argue that women don't do that or it's only very small, specific part of women that do that, I would say "wow, you are so entitled that your ego is more important to you that child's life?". This is basically same to me. Which is absolutely stupid.

Morden013 · 2021-01-21T13:45:10+00:00

The un-logic behind the statements is unreal.

bigbrainchurro07 · 2021-01-21T14:06:28+00:00

"However how are we supposed to know which ones are and which ones aren't?" It's... pretty obvious that if they stick their penis forcibly in you without consent, thats rape, bring called "nice tits" or "you look like I wanna f*ck you" thats harassment, it's not hard to tell. They will call ANYTHING at all they don't like rape/assault.

Evening_Eagle · 2021-01-21T14:17:13+00:00

They love how they say: "we are not discussing you" and "you are privileged" in one paragraph.

BeastMcQueen · 2021-01-21T14:32:11+00:00

Listen to what they are saying. They see men as the problem. Adjust your feelings towards them accordingly.

Adventure_Machine101 · 2021-01-21T14:32:41+00:00

Women have it easy than men in 95% of the world places.

justarandomtrol · 2021-01-21T14:37:06+00:00

What privilege do men have today over women?

thatgirlanya · 2021-01-21T15:00:39+00:00

If they’re going to keep this up then men need to be cautions when interacting with women because there’s a small possibility that they may falsely accuse them. I’m serious when I say that men need to write up contracts for women to sign if they are going to be having sex. Better safe than sorry.

psilorder · 2021-01-21T15:25:52+00:00

Because i beg to differ, it should be "Too many men" given the statistics

Fuck, start with that then! Because i agree "some men rape" = "too many men rape".

I doubt anyone is arguing against "any rape is too much rape".

There are demands for examining claims of rape, but that doesn't mean they want proven rapists to go free.

And do i want a reward for not having raped? No. Why are you calling it a reward to not be lumped together with rapists? Why isn't it rather a punishment to be lumped together with rapists?

DerEchteCedric · 2021-01-21T15:32:58+00:00

Oh so I’m not allowed to defend myself if I’m being thrown into the same group as actual people? And as they say: we can’t know if you’re good or not-> that is exactly the reason why you should neither say no or all men are bad. Because you can’t. They are just making biased assumptions.

Siv5122 · 2021-01-21T16:03:45+00:00

Ah yes by saying something I silence and oppress women.

thereslcjg2000 · 2021-01-21T16:19:31+00:00

It even says “more men than women are educated by design”. Um... education statistics overwhelmingly show the exact opposite.

HesperianDragon · 2021-01-21T16:20:00+00:00

Don't fall into a script.

We have people trying to get you to say "not all men" because they already have a scripted response for it.

Just don't fall into the trap, or you'll get stuck listening to the same script over and over again.

kalppariya · 2021-01-21T16:27:30+00:00

So how can we say that if a girl is not a gold digger or a loyal person? Why not just treat every girl like a gold digger. Just throw money whenever you see a woman. If she picks it up, she's a gold digger.

Above arguement is not valid by the society. But who cares? They don't care just because I got a dick and balls which produces many times testosterone than a girl.

justmemeingaround · 2021-01-21T17:47:27+00:00

Wow, 4th page, maybe because the men who aren't rapists or oppressors are being treated the same as those rapists, and the 7th page wow

FreshDuckMeatTF · 2021-01-21T17:59:03+00:00

I’m pretty sure that there’s been women who have killed in history so I’m gonna treat all women like shit. Best to err on the side of caution no?

baldestpianoman · 2021-01-21T18:50:36+00:00

Things like this makes me think being gay is better and safer choice than being straight

Lui_Le_Diamond · 2021-01-21T18:52:33+00:00

It's funny because the actual statistics actually contradict everything she's saying.

Underscore_gt · 2021-01-21T19:10:24+00:00

This actually hurt to read. From someone who genuinely cares about all people regardless of your background and from someone who will always see the good in things, this is just hurtful to read. Yes there are bad people in the world. But those bad people come in every form, man women black or white. And for someone to sit here and make a post like that, that contradicts itself multiple times, along with demonizing, excluding and shutting out men from slander that is against them, is anything but equality. It’s basically saying that you should expect the worse out of someone Especially if they are a man, it’s saying that most of the time when a man confronts you, he has mal/perversive intent, and they say they know it’s not all men, but when a man says it; they shame him. “How dare you say it’s not all men”. Then to try and flip the script on men and treat us as if we commit some horrible act by stating that not all men are like that, by introducing optimism into such a dark topic, we are somehow are the problem and are no better than the ones who commit those horrible acts. Bad people will do horrible things, and there’s little one can do to change that fact, but don’t let that fact blend in with reality.

higgs456 · 2021-01-22T00:21:11+00:00

So much is just counterfactual. I mean, she even said women are more uneducated than men by design when women make up a considerable majority of higher education students across Western countries.

I also wonder if people who talk like this realize they give no incentives to men to be nice to women. They shouldn't be shocked that men eg don't want to have 1 on 1 meetings with women coworkers when they make doing basically anything as a man problematic and we can't be sure who buys into this garbage. Why would any man feel safe around women they don't know well when there is a large segment of women who think it's fine to hate men in general and post messages about killing all men on social media? The end result of all this victimization rhetoric is that men will, and are, pulling back in general.

zeerust2000 · 2021-01-22T02:28:40+00:00

It's not just "not all men are rapists", it should be "hardly any men are actually rapists". Feminists use language as a weapon, and they are generally really good at it. Look up "equivocation fallacy". It's the fallacy that a lot of these arguments are based on.

SeerUD · 2021-01-21T11:16:16+00:00

I actually would vastly prefer "Too many men" over just "Men", because I agree, any more men than 0 raping women is too many. That said, there are so many things wrong with this. So many myths. Women have an incredible amount of privilege in modern society, it's in different places to men for sure, but until both sides recognise their privileges and both try to bridge the gap then we're not going to get anywhere. Besides, in countries like the UK for example, aren't women the only victims of rape, given that only women can be raped according to UK law?

UltimaterializerX · 2021-01-21T12:23:11+00:00

Biden won an election because 62% of unmarried women voted for him. Biden openly supports illegal immigration and radical Islam, not to mention he openly molests children on camera.

I take no female seriously when they whine about “rape culture” while voting for a rape culture.

rockafault · 2021-01-21T12:11:31+00:00

I fully endorse any woman that feels that way to have a country exclusively for women. It doesn't have to be an immediate takeover, just buy property until they have one. It's not like the Western Virtue Signaling Patriarchy would tell them they can't and they can be the most independent, empowered women on the planet.

Seszer-06 · 2021-01-21T12:54:13+00:00

Yeah, men are more privileged than women, riiiight...

melk8 · 2021-01-21T12:55:26+00:00

I was expecting an actual good discussion on why people need to stop saying this but it’s just a bunch of feminists still bashing men. I should really start lowering my expectations for posts like these.

TasteFlavored · 2021-01-21T13:06:59+00:00

Pretty rude to assume i haven't assaulted a woman

kilokal597 · 2021-01-21T13:09:48+00:00

Most women are raped by MEN, here let me show you how in Kenya happens

allias24 · 2021-01-21T13:11:19+00:00

If they don’t want us to say not all men then stop saying kill all men and be a little specific-

dla619 · 2021-01-21T13:15:27+00:00

Not all women are gold-digging, child-aborting, French fry-stealers but how do we know which one's are? I'm guarding my french fries from all of you.

thanatotus · 2021-01-21T14:45:11+00:00

Oh the good old "wage-gap", the concept which Google themselves accidentally proved to be incorrect and opposite in practice, while trying to prevent wage gap.

floriandeckard · 2021-01-21T14:45:50+00:00

They always say "oh poor you did you hurt because of our words", and when a man simply say "I don't think I'd enjoy a female protagonist in this particular video game with this spesific setting", they outrage so hard they broke few laptops and smash their windows until their rage ends. lol

TheHerbalJedi · 2021-01-21T14:55:39+00:00

Holy fucking shit.... talk about deluded.

double-happiness · 2021-01-21T15:16:06+00:00

I can't load reddit gallery links at all RN it seems, does anyone have another link pls? TIA.

strangemoods · 2021-01-21T15:24:14+00:00

Relax guys they’re talking about Kenyans.

SaxophoneGuy24 · 2021-01-21T15:26:09+00:00

Get ready for my post later today, that I will title “The issue with ‘Not All Muslims’”

Arzakhan · 2021-01-21T16:17:52+00:00

I actually have a comment on that calling out the sexism and racism on this post

LambdaLikeAnyone · 2021-01-21T16:37:55+00:00

Men who rape women aren’t educated

blu3-Tree-photo · 2021-01-21T16:37:59+00:00

How come we don’t talk about abuse mentality and physically, rape, etc... on a human basis and not strictly on a title only basis if we continue this cycle it will only continue to divide humanity.

This is a humanitarian issue not just a woman or man or black or white or etc... issue.

As a civilization we need to raise up and weed out the “bad” and re-educate and help them along with their victims to stop the CYCLE of abuse usually an abuser was once the abused... that goes for sexual and no sexual abuse...

Let’s break the cycle. We need to educate everyone at a young age and even the old who are to stubborn to see the error in their ways. We need to validate people’s feelings and give them a chance to be heard the list goes on.

This toxic blaming of one or another will get us no where.

Wish everyone the best and much love and let’s heal together.

We don’t have to hang people to create a healthy culture.

Spiderman98329 · 2021-01-21T16:49:42+00:00

Why did she start talking about crime statistics in Kenya? The seems really random and irrelevant.

Lanoir97 · 2021-01-21T16:51:32+00:00

I find it very hard to believe that MOST of the time women are having negative interactions with men. Like more than half of all men are harassers that they interact with on a daily basis? There has not been a day in my life where I’ve had a bad interaction with more than half of all the people I interact with.

Although there’s the old saying: “if you meet a guy and he’s an asshole, then he’s an asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole, then you’re the asshole.”

gamerush177 · 2021-01-21T16:51:53+00:00

I will never understand how feminists can even begin to try and justify stereotyping an entire gender as rapists. So does this mean I can say that all women are lying, cheating whores just because some of them do it? Just think about how different this would be if we were talking about women here.

thor-e · 2021-01-21T16:52:30+00:00

Let's all report it for hate speech

Do these people want women to be disliked or what?

2021-01-21T17:00:49+00:00

the percentage of men who do rape etc is smaller than those who don’t so why are the majority of men being viewed as rapists and talked about more often as sexists when that’s not accurate?

2021-01-21T17:19:26+00:00

This person writes like a 12 year old, nothings to be expected from such a stupid person.

fried-green-banana · 2021-01-21T17:31:40+00:00

Ahhhhh 2021. Biden America took no time to start ramping up hate

arronbursar · 2021-01-21T18:20:52+00:00

Yah know what? I would be fine with feminism if... No.1: they stopped the idea of ‘you are with us or against us.’ No.2: they realized that mra’s know that women have problems, but so do men

ld2gj · 2021-01-21T18:25:35+00:00

Not all women are bad https://imgur.com/a/Bc3KVgg

Throwaway_Old_Guy · 2021-01-21T18:29:36+00:00

I'm sure this person will settle into a happy life of cheap wine and female cats.

Vanriel · 2021-01-21T18:40:58+00:00

... People seem to always say about "people of colour"

Isn't white a colour as well?

PM_ME_COMMON_SENSE · 2021-01-21T18:46:51+00:00

It’s clear by how obviously subjective and poorly written the arguments are that this was done by an immature woman writing out her thoughts purely out of emotion — constantly referencing “statistics” without ever actually providing any facts about either male or female struggles. Sad.

russwriter67 · 2021-01-21T18:48:04+00:00

It’s weird that this post also ignores the fact that women sexually assault men at a growing rate. I thought feminism was supposed to be about gender equality.

joe28598 · 2021-01-21T18:49:30+00:00

I can't be part of the discussion, nor can I remove myself from the discussion, plus I can't talk to even find out whether I was in or out in the first place.

Guys I'm scared, what can I do?

tomachio · 2021-01-21T19:13:57+00:00

‘Racists are not stupid, of course we know that ‘not all black people are criminals’ or whatever. The statistics say so. However, how are we supposed to know which ones are and which ones arent?’

420tacoo · 2021-01-21T20:19:36+00:00

Couldn't make it more than 3 slides in. Disgusting.

JustAnotherPersonToo · 2021-01-21T20:34:40+00:00

NOWALT

msc8088A · 2021-01-21T21:33:18+00:00

Yet another reason to patronize prostitutes.

SharedRegime · 2021-01-21T23:55:14+00:00

If you know its not all men why do you keep saying all men then?

ITZCHOPPER · 2021-01-22T13:13:02+00:00

Yes the best source kenya

TigPlaze · 2021-01-22T15:55:29+00:00

Notice how often feminists attempt to issue orders to men on what language we should use. I don't follow their orders.

2021-01-22T16:14:36+00:00

That line of thinking is literally advocating for the segregation of the sexes.

343-guilty-mendicant · 2021-01-22T17:12:51+00:00

“Most women end up assuming the worst because most times they have assumed the best and they have endured painful consequences”

You know who else goes through this?

Men, but do we go around acting like every woman is a potential false accuser?

No because we are reasonable and don’t generalize everything.

LegendaryEmu1 · 2021-01-23T04:45:36+00:00

There is so much wrong there, its staggering.

Men are a group, ergo, you're guilty. Always the patriarchy, even in countries which are literally run by women.

'By being a man, you are more privileged in a society than a woman'...Prove it, because thats a bold fucking claim. All the homeless men, all the men who have dropped out of education, been rejected from jobs because of gender quotas, etc. they're STILL more privileged than any woman.

'Similarly, by being white' I'm out, i'm done, too much exposure to ignorance and my head will explode.

EntertainerOk3838 · 2021-01-23T21:08:59+00:00

Just new to reddit xd. Just found this ridiculous group and needed to tell you you are all dumb lol.

shemaado · 2021-01-26T11:04:39+00:00

Howdy, I only needed to say that i really liked your content, congratulations!

chuckdawuck · 2021-02-05T19:47:05+00:00

trying to make me look bad for defending my gender

cptKamina · 2021-02-24T08:12:52+00:00

Don't see the problem. It's all reasonable. Guess some men are really fragile snowflakes huh?

3Rhn · 2021-01-21T13:58:48+00:00

Truth is i mostly agree with this until it starts being offensive against males, i do think women can act suspicious against random men, infact they should! I would act like that too, i wouldnt just act friendly to strangers in fact i would just send them off. but i dont agree that being straight gives me any privilages as i dont think it does any negative to the lgbt+ community. I have never been asked if im straight or not while getting into any place. I couldnt finish the whole thing but the last part i disagree is the rape culture, i dont think that i have contributed to rape culture in any way or sort by just living as a white person. Do i support rape? Of course not, i despise rape and i would love to give every rapist a death sentence. But the thing is, if you call a person rapist even though he/she is not, in my opinion you are saying that that person you called rapist is a scum that should be killed, so what if you are accidently accusing the wrong person? You may destroy a life. Falsely accusing a person is as serious as rape. You should never fully accusr unless you are mostly sure, even then, the police should conduct a investigation, because you are talking about someones life, rape is a scummy thing that should be never done but accusation is the same. When you are accusing you have a chance, you can trust the proffesionals to assure you that your accusation is correct, or you can forcefully destroy a mans life out of misinformation. As one might notice its not that diffrent. As i have ranted too much and dont know how to end this useless rent let me just.

snapfreeze · 2021-01-21T12:39:27+00:00

Not trying to stir the pot with this, but isn't this the exact same argument right-wing pundits use against Muslims and terrorism?

"Well it's not ALL of them but we can't know which ones are the bad apples so we have to assume all of them."

Horseshoe theory and all that jazz.

MorenoSoup · 2021-01-21T20:28:31+00:00

The same people who think racism isnt real are the ones saying a male dominated society doesnt exist.

ThirdPersonRecording · 2021-01-21T15:46:57+00:00

Posting this again to trigger our incel bigots:
https://verysmartbrothas.theroot.com/straight-black-men-are-the-white-people-of-black-people-1814157214

EntertainerOk3838 · 2021-01-21T13:48:28+00:00

Talk about snowflakes. You guys need to chill and stop acting the victim so hard xd poor poor snowflakes every one is so mean to men boohoo

this post with nearly 175,000 likes on instagram is the epitome of sexism. it’s disgusting.

Comments

Definition of rape

Title	this post with nearly 175,000 likes on instagram is the epitome of sexism. it’s disgusting.
Author	15LG
Upvotes	1837
Comments	283
Date	January 21, 2021 4:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/l1qyaf/this_post_with_nearly_175000_likes_on_instagram/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/this-post-with-nearly-175000-likes-on-instagram-is.835651 https://theredarchive.com/post/835651