So my older sister is getting a divorce from my STBX brother-in-law because he no longer feels like he’s in love with her. It irritates me because they just had my nephew who is just about to turn two. My sister is a cardiac-oncology nurse so she out earns him by at least double and she’s 8 years younger then him - they met when she was 21. Initially, for the first half of their relationship my brother-in-law made significantly more while my sister was in school. My nephew has special needs and has been in and out of the hospital during the continuing pandemic because of his low immune system. My sister has been a rockstar taking care of my nephew, but the whole new family scene has been stressful and is just not for my brother-in-law supposedly because he wants to “focus on building his business and traveling while he’s still young”. For context, he’s now 40 and been with my sister for almost 10 years. I’m shook that he decided to leave the moment they PLANNED to have my nephew as my sister refused to become pregnant before they got married and bought a house.

I was talking with my younger brothers about how much of a Scrote my STBX brother-in-law is for what I think is securing his fucked up genetic line while saddling the responsibility of that line with my sister. Both of my brothers replied “We DONT know his side of the story.” I was enraged. “She’s our sister. From what she tells me there was no infidelity on her part and he’s just changed up since nephew was born. What more is there needed to know?’ Then they go in depth about our scrote father’s first marriage and how his ex-wife called the police on his Black behind, saying if we saw it from only his ex-wife’s view he was be seen as an abuser….

FDS please save me from this madness