curious why men send dick pics

AnniaT · 2021-11-13T14:34:58+00:00

I always assumed it was because they are attracted to random, detached body parts on us, so they assume we will be too. But it’s probably more selfish than that.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2021-11-13T15:55:37+00:00

It’s not “now a thing,” it’s been a thing. One of my older cousins had a few emailed to her back when people had to have film developed then scan the picture. lol

Zeniite · 2021-11-13T15:29:24+00:00

I have been waiting for this day. Here’s a study that examined why men send unsolicited dick pics:

https://www.psypost.org/2019/09/new-psychology-research-reveals-mens-motives-for-sending-unsolicited-dick-pics-54420/amp

“The most common motivation for sending such an image was hoping to receive sexual pictures in return, followed by hoping to turn on the recipient.”

ETA: guys who send dick pics tended to be younger, narcissistic, and/or sexist.

scorchedsouI · 2021-11-13T14:31:50+00:00

I think it's simpler than that. They want women to interact with their dicks, digitally or otherwise.

PixiesGem · 2021-11-13T14:17:59+00:00

I believe most of them do it because they all think they have the one magic dick we will actually want to see. Their level of deluded is so ridiculous that I really think that although women constantly say how gross it is, he will believe he has one we would want to look at. There is also the man who does it because he doesn't care about you. He will send the pic to see if you might be open to sex, but doesn't care that there is a good chance you will block him since he doesn't have an interest in you besides easy sex. There is going to be exhibitionist type too but I think they are less common than my other examples.

Bonds_Girl · 2021-11-13T15:21:13+00:00

My own hypothesis is that the majority of guys are so enamored with their dicks and the dicks of their bros; hell they’ve been whipping their dicks out since they were little, comparing and sizing themselves up amongst themselves since they could walk….

And past all of that, they don’t see women as whole complete separate people,..we’re an extension of men not entirely separate. So as their extension (in their mind), they can’t comprehend why we aren’t as enamored with their dicks like they are.

And then, once they’re told to knock their shit off, deep down they’re still kind of pissed about it.

And guys in general; they’re just refusing to accept the message. They know women don’t like it, they won’t accept it.

Platipus6 · 2021-11-13T22:14:25+00:00

It's harassment. They know we don't want to see it.

It's not their gaslighting bullshit about 'hoping to get titties in return' or 'finding that one woman who'll be open to sex'

It's about digitally flashing the 99.99% of women who DONT want to see their dicks. It's the thrill of exhibitionism at forcing us to see the pic because they know it's not blurred or marked NSFW it's right there, thrust into her eyes.

Who cares why though. We've told them thousands of fucking times we hate it and to stop.

lolmemberberries · 2021-11-13T18:37:15+00:00

I'm not sure. But the only people I've known who liked receiving them were gay men.

fireforestfairy · 2021-11-13T17:36:10+00:00

They get turned on by harassing women. They see it as a form of humiliation so it makes them feel "powerful".

AdmiralRando · 2021-11-13T16:42:14+00:00

I think that everytime they see a hard dick, it’s when they are turned on. (Because it’s their own dick.) So they assume that you will be turned on when you see a hard dick, too. Simple mind-blindness.

Some men are nefarious and are aiming for a power trip, but I assume most men who send dick pics are just…idiots.

Nonnasaysfuckoff · 2021-11-13T17:11:04+00:00

To harass women. They like hurting women, in any way they can.

cherieblosum · 2021-11-13T22:47:56+00:00

It's sexual assault.

dr_mcstuffins · 2021-11-14T02:22:52+00:00

Get off OLD. It’s in the handbook for a reason. It’s lowering your standards and your expectations.

Men do it because they are disgusting. The thought of you seeing it, no matter what your reaction, turns them on, because they know you don’t consent.

The correct response to it, is to flip out on them and ask why they sent you child p•••. It could only be a child’s, because it’s so small. Make a huge show of it, and tell them you’ve contacted the police to file a criminal report against them. Then block and delete.

preppykat3 · 2021-11-13T21:15:36+00:00

I think a lot of them love being degraded and humiliated. Ive seen so many hideous ones that I can’t help but make fun of them and then block!

melympia · 2021-11-13T14:32:50+00:00

No personal experience with that, either. But I'd be so, so tempted to nitpick every little thing that's more or less wrong with the dick in the pic. Too small, too slender, too much/little curve... and is that dirt I see there? Dude, get some soap and water - and a washcloth...

lexyglass · 2021-11-13T15:03:19+00:00

it's flashing, just in the digital world

barbedwiredaisycrown · 2021-11-13T19:19:49+00:00

Not having data saved me from many a picture people sent me that never downloaded. Once I got data I was already long past the point where I'd get an unsolicited dick pic because I wasn't giving my number out to random dudes.

Cosmic_Cantaloupe · 2021-11-14T01:32:48+00:00

Because they would be turned on by a pussy pic, so they assume women would be turned on by a dick pic

ThatsWhat__I__Said · 2021-11-14T04:56:37+00:00

My theory is, they're so utterly fascinated by their own dicks, they're convinced we're going to have the same reaction.

JadeBaby2211 · 2021-11-14T13:58:28+00:00

Men used to have to drive to parks to flash women.

Now they do it lying down.

Hopefully they'll just become more lazy as time goes on and melt into the earth. Fingers crossed 🤞

Mysterious-Ocelot166 · 2021-11-13T14:57:44+00:00

They think they will get laid .. they think that when we look at their ducks we will get turned on .. they think we are easily turned on just by looking like them and the size thing ( another example of the fragile male ego ) unfortunately had a Portuguese guy sending me his dick pic it was tooo much like it was repulsive he was happy sent me before even accepting his Dm like 3 pics I accepted the chat told him you are disgusting then blocked him

womanofmyownheart · 2021-11-13T15:23:29+00:00

From my experience, men who do this - their dicks are their most prized assets and they believe any woman would feel privileged and turned on to see such a fantastic asset. It also creates a dopamine rush in the reward center of their pea-brains - because violating a woman this way gives such men a sense of a achievement.

steakandfriez · 2021-11-13T17:47:51+00:00

It's because of paid porn. Before sites like o n l y f a n s you could pay a pornstar or cam girl to talk to them. BUT you have to pay for every single message. The girls on the recieving end could care less what you talk about or send as long as they keep you on the line they're getting paid.

These guys are talking and sending dick pics to attractive women who tell them it's OK. So when it comes to normal girls they think it's OK because these other women said it was.

witch1111 · 2021-11-13T22:15:03+00:00

They are delusional about having the 'MAGIC DICK'!! That will get them nudes, and sex with lowest possible effort, also they are pretty sad and pathetic to think this is how to turn women on!! Poor scrotes!! 😂😂😂

NitzMitzTrix · 2021-11-14T02:00:57+00:00

It's definitely to assert dominance.

PinkestMango · 2021-11-14T13:09:34+00:00

They want the thrill of forcing you to see

mypetchickens · 2021-11-13T18:04:09+00:00

I also haven't received dick picks before. I think it is a lot of who you swipe on in profiles too. IDK (not that I am blaming women for receiving them, but I've been pretty specific on who I swipe on in the past)

Unless it was a delivery guy. But he was like 60 and found me through a SM profile.

corkymuu · 2021-11-13T14:15:09+00:00

From what I’ve read, they do it because they get a rush from knowing that girl has seen their dick. They really are such depraved creatures.

inschanbabygirl · 2021-11-13T20:02:00+00:00

when this happens, i tell the guy to next time send a dick pic and include his full bare face and social security ID. :p that aside, these guys dont know that their dick pics NEVER turns a girl on. what turns a girl on can be good conversations, him doing romantic things to her etc.. it's never the dick pic per se. they think that just coz they get horny with a woman's nude pic, she will also be horny with a nude pic of a man. lol

Drpyroxene · 2021-11-14T19:09:23+00:00

When I was on OLD and would start chatting to a guy through Kik they would almost ALWAYS send a dick pic within a few minutes. I would be like, um, thanks? He would always respond "now you send me something." Me: "uh, no." Him: "Why not? I sent you a pic, it's only fair." Me: "I never asked for a pic???" I'm 100% convinced it's simply a bartering tool to get nudes from a woman.... literally ANY woman. It's so pathetic.

Title	curious why men send dick pics
Author	katiekat0214
Upvotes	238
Comments	51
Date	November 13, 2021 2:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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