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Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? Wtf

makeawomancum

April 2, 2022

228 upvotes

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Title	Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? Wtf
Author	makeawomancum
Upvotes	228
Comments	42
Date	April 2, 2022 5:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/tuorzd/escort_only_moaned_because_he_paid_her_hope_he/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/escort-only-moaned-because-he-paid-her-hope-he.1108930 https://theredarchive.com/post/1108930

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[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 291 points292 points293 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

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[–]HV_Pauwau 58 points59 points60 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Probably what my ex used to do - get mad at her because he's so impossibly bad at sex that she is not having a good time (the feeling like nothing more than a human flashlight). He's frustrated that's she's not getting off and giving a pornstar performance. He demands step-by-step instructions so he can 'get it right' (which starts like sweet talk but she just doesn't care to explain and be ignored for the 100000x time. So he gets mad, pulls out, and stomps off to his bathroom to finish himself.

And for a while, she thinks it's her fault and cries herself to sleep - even though he's the one consistently giving the bad performances (If you call 2-4 minutes a 'performance'. Or trying to stick his unclean hands with dirty, snaggly nails in you and getting mad you don't want that. Or when he makes you physically gag from the smell of his breath and that offends HIM).

Ugh. I hope she divorces him immediately.

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I don’t understand this mentality. I’ve been in longer term relationships but not over 5 years, I’m in my 30s, and I’m never-married, so maybe there’s something I’m missing contextually. But if you’re this miserable, why stay? We only have his side but imagine hers. Does she think this life they’re living is as good as it gets, that she could do no better either by dating or living for herself? I imagine she wakes up every day with body pain from the depth of her resentment toward him. He’s terrible in bed and seems to be a financial mess. I assume he’s also mopey and pathetic, shifting personal problems onto his wife. I can’t fathom living each day like that with no end in sight.

Then he cheated with a prostitute. Extremely shitty and potentially dangerous for him and his wife. Taking his whole story at face value, he’s so deeply unhappy that he essentially hit rock bottom and doesn’t yet accept what he did since he thinks there’s still something to salvage. Why get to that point in the first place?

One of them needs to rip off the bandaid and file for divorce. No one should live like this.

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"Monk-like monogamy"

Ah yes folks, our society has plunged the depths to a new low, in which monogamy may as well be full-on sexual abstinence /s. Apparently monogamy is so "bad, boring, and vanilla," you are the same as someone who has sworn to celibacy. 🙄 Pornsick scrotes act like they "need" a flavor of depravity or taboo, such as prostitution, endless novelty, incest, sadism, exploitation, slavery, people/living creatures who can't consent, etc.

This particular scrote sounds like he definitely gave his wife "the ick." What kind of physical pain, emotional abuse, or other condition is he putting her through to make her literally cry after sex?

Ladies, guard your hearts and minds. Our world is no longer a man getting excited seeing a woman's leg or cleavage like it used to be. Men like this are abusive and actively crave depravity for their pps to work IMO. Here he is acting like the victim, and now his poor wife will contract an STD from him (because I bet she feels obligated to give him "duty sex" ).

I think I would rather go to prison for a few years than be in a marriage like this.

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