Imagine Being 30+ And Thinking Like This

OrchidLion · 2020-06-27T21:13:45+00:00

:) Die alone.

Scrotes get what they deserve when they hit the wall.

Tbh, even before they hit the wall. As 99% of them are repulsive and deformed.

nonsequitdurr · 2020-06-27T20:58:18+00:00

Should I mayhaps post the full post? 😳

Decided to share the OP, he never states what age he might be attracted to. Allegedly, with a mindset like this, younger = higher sexual attraction.

Someone dating a girl in her young twenties while you’re in your thirties has some serious, toxic, power exchange.

So ya’ll can do the rest, chile 💅

tumadre22 · 2020-06-27T22:03:47+00:00

Here’s the worlds tiniest little fiddle 🎻 for him.

smittydoodle · 2020-06-27T21:44:27+00:00

Is he looking for sympathy? Ick. I hope that “average” girl runs for the hills.

Wirerose13 · 2020-06-27T22:20:47+00:00

I have seen this before. A guy, I am glad I left, was in his thirties and preoccupied with the "horror" of probably ending up with women in their thirties. One of his primary goals was to find an attractive woman as young as possible to be his SAHM.

DunRuther · 2020-06-27T21:00:46+00:00

What a sad, pitiful existence. Though as a 33 year old, I’ve seen it so often.

I can’t wrap my brain around how sleeping with multiple “hot” women is supposed to better than finding a loving, supportive partner and settling down. Surely sleeping with a person you love, with whom you get to spend everyday learning about each other’s body, has got to be more fulfilling than just chasing randos for one night stands.

weird_waving · 2020-06-27T21:13:50+00:00

“Young girls out of my reach” sounds so predatory!! 🤮

nonsequitdurr · 2020-06-27T21:04:59+00:00

Can we also talk about how this user invalidates that regular, everyday women (especially his around age) can’t be attractive, sexual beings.

BlueImmigrant · 2020-06-27T22:49:46+00:00

This is the first time a saw i man admit they lose attractiveness with age. Usually they believe tha "man age like fine wine" bullshit. I hope women stay away from such an waste of oxygen

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-06-27T23:03:49+00:00

Sir, you are mentally ill. Please get into therapy for help with your obsessive thoughts. You are also rapidly turning into The Creepy Old Guy at the Bar. Yes, that 23 year old can tell you are undressing her with your eyes and she doesn't find your rehearsed pickup artist bullshit attractive. She wants to flirt and talk with other men who are her own age.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-06-27T23:04:18+00:00

I love how people in the original post comments are either nope-ing away from him or redirecting him to therapy (which he probably won’t take).

A teeny bit of hope in humanity is restored.

plembb · 2020-06-27T23:21:55+00:00

Yes because on your deathbed you’re not going to be thinking of all the amazing times you had with your family and how grateful you are that you contributed something to the world. You’ll be reflecting on all the super hot women you were able to sleep with for like a year and a half.

This mentality is insane to me. He really thinks the path to fulfillment is sleeping with hundreds of hot women? What a depraved world we live in. Porn access is ruining minds.

randomgirlimok · 2020-06-27T22:39:36+00:00

Probably fat with a small D

honeybeeroll · 2020-06-27T23:53:09+00:00

Wow, imagine thinking like this and not realizing you need therapy! Clearly he has no fulfilling hobbies, interests, friendships, family relationships, religion, causes he volunteers for, etc, if he thinks the key to happiness is having sex with as many attractive women as possible. What a sad existence to place all your happiness on a thing so fleeting as hookups. I'll bet he's never had a genuine emotional connection with a woman before. Get a fucking hobby dude, shit.

mydeepestinnerworks · 2020-06-27T22:29:32+00:00

Embarrassing...

CassieGreen85 · 2020-06-27T22:53:23+00:00

It's funny how generally, women reach their 30s and are on top of the world (as long as you're not a pickmeisha): established career, experience to not have to deal with bullshit, if she wanted to she has kids...

Meanwhile, guys hit their 30s and it's the fucking end of the world LOL If anyone has an expiration date by their 30s, it's certainly not women.

Bovvsette · 2020-06-28T01:17:02+00:00

Is this the source of the legendary ”maybe he's depressed” excuse? That's the whole reason? Wow, the world is not like porn? Men age too and people notice? Who knew?

yggiwtmiih · 2020-06-28T01:33:35+00:00

This is sad and scary. All I'm getting from this is this person has never experienced true affection or love. He has no idea what it looks like or feels like to be loved. He doesn't see woman as people at all, but goal posts. What existence is this? No wonder he feels so empty it's depressing him. How can anyone have gotten to that age and remained so emotionally undeveloped? Fuck, he needs therapy, and every second he's not he creeps slower and slower into depravity and loneliness. Underneath this disgusting, horrific mindset is a suffering human being who is emotionally stunted. Hopefully he takes the advice and gets help for himself; I can only imagine a relationship with a person like this will lead to an unfulfilling, toxic dynamic and abysmal loneliness on both sides.

2020-06-27T22:50:12+00:00

Lmao

MACMUA · 2020-06-28T03:01:06+00:00

This guy sounds like a rapist in training.. like all it’s gonna take is one opportunity..one girl who drank too much and bam..instant sex offender

I’m glad his gf left him lmao die alone

AfraidofFollowers · 2020-06-28T01:38:48+00:00

This sounds like the epitome of online dating. Maybe I should just consider it as the epitome of all dating. They suck as human beings.

radical__daphne · 2020-06-28T03:32:58+00:00

Hopefully he just keeps being ridiculous and bitter so he can't get any woman and ruin her life

Adawritesrules · 2020-06-28T04:33:06+00:00

This is the mindset of every porn sick loser everywhere. The effects on the brain, included but not limited to the Coolidge effect, are well documented. These men live in some fantasy world where photoshopped babes are just out of their reach. They walk in delusion half believing their lies and even if they snatch someone above their league they always think they can so better.

I know first hand because I am above his league in every way while he lives in some fantasy where he “settled”. His only other relationship Was with a woman (possibly a prostitute) who looks like my foot. But in his delusional mind he thinks he had sex with every model every pornstar he payed eyes on. Pathetic loser 10 years my senior never went beyond a high school degree or a dead end job he got when I pushed him to.

PudgyPudgePudge · 2020-06-28T07:21:54+00:00

My brother is this...at age 46. He just recently stopped mentally messing with a 26 yr old. Whenever I talk to him he claims all women are "crazy". 🙄 I was finally forming a real relationship with him as siblings but when I saw how his views on women/relationships was and he didn't want to change, I took a step back from being close to him. It sucks but I disagree with how he feels relationships and women should be. I want him to be better and suggested therapy because it has helped me but "TheRApY iS fOR WeAk PPL anD dOeSNt WOrK"

WeWereOkay · 2020-06-28T12:48:56+00:00

I actually find this really depressing. Society fails women in a lot of ways but at least human intimacy isn’t stolen from us. That dude is obviously a creep and harmful to every woman he dates but those women will get over it because they have the capacity for human intimacy—they have friends and family who will help them when he harms them and then they will find intimacy with a person who doesn’t have his issues. But this guy will continue on this way because he was dumb enough to buy into this lie society teaches men that they should kill their inner emotional world, never connect intimately with other people, and that the depth of their “intimacy” must be limited to bland sex with near-strangers. Yes, dudes like him are gross and we should stay the hell away from them but ultimately they are really the losing parties here. What a sad and lonely existence.

thedevinefemme · 2020-06-28T01:42:46+00:00

Epitome of a loser

eclaire-savoir · 2020-06-28T04:51:38+00:00

Oh, boo hoo. He’s sad because he can’t stick his dick in every pretty girl he sees. Disgusting. How about finding someone who loves you, whom you love, and enjoy each other’s company and each other’s bodies, and build a strong relationship together. This guy’s problem is that he’s lazy. He doesn’t want to put any effort into forging a bond with one special person, instead, it’s easier for him to put in no effort whatsoever. No wonder women don’t want him. He’s causing his own disappointment.

cherieblosum · 2020-06-28T05:29:15+00:00

Porn addicted bozo.

lemon_hearts · 2020-06-28T05:29:04+00:00

What a waste of breath

2020-06-28T07:24:00+00:00

At least he’s honest and not out there stringing a woman along.

hyacinthgirl95 · 2020-06-28T11:49:28+00:00

No semblance of self awareness in this one yikes 😬

boringcatwrangler · 2020-06-28T15:41:14+00:00

Hmm - his fiction needs work in the grammar and spelling department.

0/5 stars

Lilybb16 · 2020-06-28T07:33:38+00:00

Male depression - not being able to have sex with every hot young girl

2020-06-29T05:21:56+00:00

He needs to stop watching internet porn.

Title	Imagine Being 30+ And Thinking Like This
Author	nonsequitdurr
Upvotes	381
Comments	72
Date	June 27, 2020 8:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hh1c22/imagine_being_30_and_thinking_like_this/
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