My best friend has been going out with her first boyfriend for 3 years. She was late to the dating game so she is just so happy to finally have a boyfriend.

She is utterly obsessed with him and puts up with ANYTHING.

He doesn’t cook or clean or have a consistent job. He goes out and gets drunk and high regularly. It’s usually her cleaning up his vomit and blunts. He’s never taken her to dinner or bought her a thoughtful gift.

For a while she’s been telling me that he wants a threesome with another woman. She joked about it. But then she brought it up more regularly, saying that he will spend forever looking at pictures of girls online and saying “would you have a threesome with her? Would you want to fuck her?”

Keep in mind that my friend is not bisexual and hasn’t had an interest in women before.

He has a lesbian porn fetish and says he wants to see her have sex with a woman.

I told her that she shouldn’t do anything she’s not comfortable with, especially because the whole thing makes her feel insecure. (Also made a casual comment that a man fetishising lesbian sex is gross)

Alas, now she’s telling me that actually he wants to do it for HER.

She is so deluded and so desperate to defend her loser boyfriend that she now says, “Well he says he just wants a threesome because he wants me to experience as much pleasure as possible. So it’s all about making me feel good”

🙄🙄🙄

Yeah, it’s all for her. That’s why he’s been constantly begging her for it for over a year and wearing her down.

So many women and girls are clutching and searching for any way to defend their gross boyfriends loathe-some behaviour and will try and twist it to fit the narrative.