This HAS to be a troll 🤦🏼‍♀️

fuckbeingautobanned · 2021-10-01T22:48:40+00:00

You just can't win, can you? 5 figures, taking care of the kids, husband stops working and decides to manage YOUR budget. I can't believe this is real.

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-10-01T23:29:58+00:00

They’re worried about gold diggers but they literally Groom children & leech off them lol.

Lolita_Loquita · 2021-10-01T23:32:20+00:00

I bet you this guy buys tools to look manly but they are still sitting unused in the garage.

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-10-01T23:37:38+00:00

Why do you think this is a troll? There ARE men who are THIS controlling.

catlady4u · 2021-10-02T00:03:51+00:00

I hope this is fake. But some women really are this gullible.

My NVX tried to sweet talk me into letting him control my finances. It was a solid NOPE from me and a fight ensued. The same thing would have happened, with me doing all the work and him trying to dictate to me how to spend my money.

MadamePotpourri · 2021-10-01T22:56:08+00:00

This is financial abuse, plain and simple. He is stealing from her. I can't believe this woman has convinced herself to go along with her husbands insane controlling behavior. I wonder what else he is controlling about besides money. Plus the 15 year age gap 🚩

I hope this is a troll too, if it's real I feel so sad for this woman.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-10-02T01:52:57+00:00

Financial control is just one part of domestic violence and abuse. She may be only addressing this, but I bet there is so much more.

The way she said that she didn't want to take away attention from other posts on the subreddit is so sad. I bet she's used to pushing down her needs.

She has a newborn with all the exhaustion, hormones and body recovery that entails and took NO maternity leave.

This man is a disgusting DV abuser and I fear for her. I'm not sure she would respond to a rescue mission?

Snugglyy · 2021-10-01T23:07:42+00:00

It’s posts like this that I wish I could see the blocked comments. How do men justify, let alone explain this in the face of FDS.

fancy_tetrahedron · 2021-10-01T23:15:14+00:00

I stopped reading after "25f" and "40m".

Ok_Occasion_5057 · 2021-10-02T00:11:36+00:00

I seriously thought the same. Nothing in the story is making sense.

Young, ambitious stucked in a financial abuse by a man who doesn't work. A dollar discrepancy???

But if this were a trys story, she should start investigate and separate assets as she should consider divorcing him.

purasangria · 2021-10-01T23:56:48+00:00

This man needs to get a job so that he can stop leeching off his wife and mind his own fucking business. He's literally sitting on his ass, earning nothing, and telling her what she can spend.

She could divorce him, and then he'd have to go back to work and pay her child support. He'd better watch his ass. He's literally contributing nothing but stress to her life.

Men should not be house husbands, it's bad for their character, and we end up doing all the work anyway. Men need to work out of the house. Stay out of our hair during the business day.

huskyhockey451 · 2021-10-02T03:25:01+00:00

Guys, OP saw this thread and was hurt by the comments calling her stupid. Please, let's think about the woman who was manipulated by a man who was in high school when she was born. Many of us have been in the same shoes, just not as extreme of a situation.

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-02T03:09:13+00:00

They are the gold diggers tho, she has a good income, works for her money and can’t spend it on her?????? He’s a manipulative asshole taking care of her bank account

CrazyPaine · 2021-10-02T03:18:02+00:00

I put down the phone immediately when I saw the fucking ages. I was literally fucking over it.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-10-02T16:44:55+00:00

I'm sorry for those young women who think they have to be in a relationship with a dude who could be their father. This is financial abuse. The OP could have the freedom to live on her own terms. She'd be feeling so much better. I hope she reconsiders this relationship and leaves the dude.

OP from the other post, if you read here: You are not stupid, you were manipulated. Abusers are insidious and know exactly how to wear other people down. But you can break free and leave this behind you, now. Good luck🍀

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-10-02T01:17:58+00:00

What did I just read?! How do people live like this???

Davina33 · 2021-10-02T08:55:45+00:00

As soon as I saw the 15 year age gap I knew this was going to be a pile of crap. She's the breadwinner and he is still controlling her? The audacity of this loser is unreal.

Jandi18 · 2021-10-02T01:46:13+00:00

Op can you message this lady? This is deeply disturbing! She is going to have her life snuffed out of her! Scrotes love to destroy whatever they cross parts with.

Half_Halt · 2021-10-02T03:03:47+00:00

Jesus f-ing Christ. Wtf is this fresh hell??

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-10-02T01:42:40+00:00

I don't know where these old lady stingy scrotes keep finding women! Did she fall off the banana cart yesterday?

qualitylamps · 2021-10-02T02:40:52+00:00

Which one of you wrote this ??

Title	This HAS to be a troll 🤦🏼‍♀️
Author	huskyhockey451
Upvotes	362
Comments	43
Date	October 1, 2021 10:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pziiuw/this_has_to_be_a_troll/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/this-has-to-be-a-troll.1073024 https://theredarchive.com/post/1073024

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