My experience with "Are We Dating the Same Guy"

Fuzzy_Department2799 · 2023-03-15T17:05:29+00:00

All you can do is complain to Facebook which will accomplish nothing.

AvailableCandidate89 · 2023-03-15T17:32:27+00:00

this completely put me off meeting anyone else

This is what is happening to most of us. No one likes their mistakes and failures broadcast to others, people especially don't like it happening behind their back, people especially don't like it when the condition for success for the task (dating) is creating a good perception and if all the women who for whatever reason want to drag you down become involved then it makes that process (dating) completely not worth it.

Women acting like this is actively ensuring men's mistakes/failures/awkwardness and everything they've worked to improve on in dating follow them around forever.

It's the reason libel and slander laws even exist, but this system is designed to be distributed and small enough to avoid being worth the cost of litigation, while ensuring the consequences of that slander and libel are fully enforced.

Until society is willing to hold women accountable for being self absorbed sexist cunts, dating isn't worth the effort. At this point it's a circus where men are expected to perform and women are handed tomatoes, and guess fucking wat? Men don't enjoy acting like a clown, or being treated like one.

The fact that women themselves can't even acknowledge how harmful this is, or even if they do immediately dismiss the harm as not comparable to any mythical harm to women it might possibly in their fantasies prevent, they still do it.

This is just the most modern and toxic expression of the "women talk" phenomenon, and until women grow the fuck up and get this toxic shitty behavior under control, and hold other women accountable for their actions when they do it, men will just walk away.

It's better being alone than dealing with a chore that only provides abuse, or many of them.

pearl_harbour1941 · 2023-03-15T17:13:53+00:00

This is female dating strategy 101. You're obviously a catch, and the trashing of you by your dates - to other women - is a way to "get back at you" for not choosing them. They want to hurt you, by chasing off all other women from your life.

It's about the worst thing women can do, and it seems like it's automatic. There is NOTHING rational about this, and although you dodged a massive bullet, it still scarred you.

No one is policing those women. However, in your favor, you seem to have an instinct before you get into a relationship, that any given woman is toxic. So that's something.

Next, learn how to spot these women before you go on dates with them. Sadly, that means no dating at all.

ProspectiveEngineer · 2023-03-15T17:38:45+00:00

These FB groups lend credence to the red/black pill talking point that women by and large tend to find the same characteristics in men attractive and due to hypergamy, knowingly and unknowingly, end up dating the same high-value guys, essentially forming soft harems.

Given the extremely lopsided ratio of men to women on dating apps, what are the chances that women date the same guys enough to warrant forming such groups, if not for hypergamy-induced mating choice overlap?

Sorry that you have to go through this and it really is grounds for defamation imo

Stained-Steel12 · 2023-03-15T19:33:05+00:00

This is just horrible.

I remember when women got angry at those high school boys who created a group to rate the girls in school, saying women aren’t meant to be rated. And here we have grown women doing a similar thing.

But you’re 100% right, a male version discussing and trashing women wouldn’t last more than a week before being shut down.

DoctorStorm · 2023-03-15T17:07:34+00:00

I honestly don't see how men are supposed to navigate these waters anymore. They're simply too treacherous, and with the Facebook groups it becomes a weird world where they actually are forming harems. I remember reading that for the first time a few years ago and shrugged it off as some one-off, but the conspiracy theory has become reality.

I would ditch social media and dating apps altogether, and just asks friends to keep an ear to the ground. Close family members too.

When I dove back in, around 2014, I remember deleting everything myself because, after hundreds of rejections and a handful of promising fails (catfishing, by and large), I'd finally found a single, solid date to a woman I was interested in and attracted to. During the date, I was happy because we seemed to have a genuine connection, our interests and life-goals were aligned, so on and so forth...

When I arrived home after the first date, she then informed me she requires $1k/mo to date. That's right, she wanted a salary. W-2 Prostitution.

I just quit after that. Quit outright. I met my wife by going overseas.

Nowadays, I don't know what the actual fuck is going on, or how in the actual fuck men even find someone honest and legitimate to date to begin with.

I haven't the fucking foggiest.

king_rootin_tootin · 2023-03-15T19:43:34+00:00

There are groups like this for men. Check this out

https://www.glamour.com/story/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-facebook-group

"Deanna’s comments touch on a common debate: Would Are We Dating the Same Guy be considered appropriate if the sexes were reversed? Interestingly enough, this thought exercise was put to the test when a male-centric group called Are We Dating the Same Girl NYC materialized. The Facebook group used the same community guidelines nearly verbatim, and even added a disclaimer that the group was directly inspired by its predecessor.

But when the original group caught wind of its male counterpart, an overwhelming number of comments said it was disgusting and unacceptable for men to post photos, screenshot dating profiles, and discuss women in this way. While a few joked that now all of their boyfriends were going to find out about each other, plenty called them incels "

🤣🤣🤣🤣

don_kong1969 · 2023-03-15T17:37:10+00:00

Same exact thing happened to me. Women that I had fine dates with and women I dated from the past, all coming together to trash me. Also women that I never even met. All of them made wild assumptions and outright rewrote history to make themselves out as victims. It has completely turned me off of dating entirely. I'd rather be alone than deal with the toxicity and one way street of the dating world. And women wonder why there are no good men left.

hendrixski · 2023-03-15T20:50:02+00:00

It's defamation

Yep. Doesn't this legally qualify as Libel? It's published defamation and it has real psychological impact on you.

Why don't you get a doctor's note from your psychologist about how this damaged you and then give it to your lawyer so he/she can take it to civil court and turn it into money?

Comfortable_Ad_9154 · 2023-03-15T18:11:05+00:00

I have been abused by multiple women... generally people protect them, make excuses for them. It's just frustrating how society is so concerned about protecting women that it's OK to abuse men/protect abusive women. I don't think I can ever forgive my mom... even after fleeing my own home my mom still took her side, only changing course when my ex started abusing my mom, eventually my mom apologized... but I don't know. I've given up as well, the societal default is men are abusers, women are the victims... until that changes... I don't know

Itsdickyv · 2023-03-15T19:07:15+00:00

I wonder how long it will be until there’s a class action style lawsuit against either Facebook, or the founders of these groups - I suspect that will be the only thing that stops them.

Realistically though, I’d say there’s a line of thought that this is just a digitised version of ‘bathroom gossip’, and won’t be going away anytime soon.

Bean_Town_Blender · 2023-03-15T17:09:46+00:00

Wow this is absolutely brutal and I didn't even know this was a thing. Thanks for sharing your story, and I think most guys are coming to the conclusion that OLD is absolute shit. But for most men there just isn't anything else to do. It seems more and more places are "unacceptable" to approach so the options are dwindling lol. Either way so sorry that happened to you and could you report that group? I'm not on Facebook so idek how it works haha

Ronniebbb · 2023-03-15T18:25:51+00:00

This sounds like a highschool bullying page. Like those horrible once we would hear about when social media first started and it encouraged ppl to harm themselves. It's pathetic to see grown ass women continuing that pattern.

I'd see if you could get copies of everything and bring it to a lawyer for a lawsuit because that sort of shit can really cause problems.

ContentStage9133 · 2023-03-15T21:09:05+00:00

Funny how females get pissed that one men is dating multiple girls at once, like they never did it or have never mess with couple guys that are interested in her at once. Cool when they do it but if happens to them then is a big issue.

ERiC_693 · 2023-03-15T18:56:32+00:00

Seen this before in person with a girl in college liking a guy and he just wasn't interested. She used to be rude and critical of his essays and call him overbearing etc... It's just a feminist exercise these groups, they should be closed down as it allows abusive exes to trash victims trying to get away. It should not be allowed either way, just personally track down some ex partners of the person you're dating. but having a private group just allow women to do what they do best.

And yes, men wouldn't be allowed to set a group like this up. Many women do come across an neurotic during and especially after a breakup and seriously, they can destroy your whole career, marriage, social network etc.. with their lies. It's so much more than drama with them but a group like that would be shut down if it was for men.

badredditjame · 2023-03-15T20:49:54+00:00

Don't avoid meeting anyone all together, just avoid online dating and the types of women that use bumble, Female Dating Strategy, and these FB groups. Avoid typical American women.

Plenty of women out there that have never heard of these things, but you might have to get outside your comfort zone to find them.

Edit: Eddie Murphy called it in the 80's.

Salonimo · 2023-03-15T19:01:20+00:00

Posting your pictures and conversation isn't illegal?

kvakerok · 2023-03-15T20:23:40+00:00

Duuuude! All the trash takes itself out! How is that a problem?

Suspicious-Sleep5227 · 2023-03-16T01:36:45+00:00

Maybe we need a page on Facebook to publish the names of women who use these kinds of pages.

TestaverdeRules · 2023-03-16T01:55:28+00:00

Bro your not alone in this, I have 3 exes that gradually became friends after I broke up with each of them. I have blocked them, they still try to get there friends to request me on fb so they can internet stalk me. Im sure there all talking trash but its okay, I don't think I'm a bad guy, I think a lot of women can't handle being broken up with. These same women also became friends with one of my good friends ex gf and are doing the same thing to him. The jokes on them I'm currently dating a very successful woman and my friends about to be married.

Aimless-Nomad · 2023-03-16T21:36:34+00:00

u/djc_tech This is classic modern woman behaviour dude.

Remember the West Elm Caleb story?

On January 11th, 2021, a woman posts a tiktok about dating. Within a week, the full name,workplace, and photos of a man have been leaked all over the internet. Large companies are condemning the man, ranging from sending tweets to taking out entire billboards mocking him and putting him on blast.

His name and face draw tens of millions of video views and news site clicks. He got branded the most hated guy on tiktok. One girl (Kate Glavan) is even on record for saying that she wanted to add this guy to her arsenal of men. But no one cares about that.

I mean the way these assholes hounded on this guy was so insane that even hardcore lefties called this out. Like Hasan and Trevor noah. But ghosting guys is bread and butter for women. They do it for nothing more than shits and giggles and proudly post it online for all to see followed by cheering in the comments section.

Next up we have the tinder swindler. How many divorce rapes happen on the daily that no bats their eyes about? Yet here we have an entire documentary being made because these dumbfucks willingly sent 100s of thousands of dollars to this guy. He didn't scam or rob anyone. They did it cos they thought he was rich or whatever. They still play the victim even tho netflix paid them and gofundme generated over 300000 euros. How are they victims again?

Next up, guy is arrested for 'foodie date'. Basically he orders himself expensive food on the menu and ghosts these chicks. Standard 'foodie date' behaviour. But ladies whined enough for him to get arrested. https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/la-man-paul-gonzales-takes-women-on-dates-then-leaves-them-with-a-massive-bill/news-story/ec15113f850e71dda228b455d57951c7

Yet on the other end of the story we have this. Same shit being glorified.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/arts-and-entertainment/wp/2014/04/24/how-one-colleges-students-are-hacking-tinder-to-get-free-food/

And here. Woman eats for free for 2 years. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11659543/Woman-reveals-spent-two-years-going-six-dates-week-didnt-buy-GROCERIES.html

I have countless more things to add but you get the point. This is nothing more than the classic

"Rules for thee, but not for me".

Training-Celery3946 · 2023-03-15T19:35:50+00:00

Damn dude sorry to hear that, I was posted on a website like this back in college around 2014, to this day idk how much it actually affected my chance with women, but from what I could see it didn't affect me at all lol. The point is don't let this shit get to you, I'm sure most women don't even know about pages like that. Hell I had a chick one time and we just finished getting busy, then she pulled up the site to show me I'm on there... it was good laugh for both of us lol. I wouldn't let this ruin your perspective of talking to women. Or at least stick to meeting women outside of apps, I know it's different nowadays, but I've always had better luck finding women outside of apps.

Also it's nice to see you had a woman friend stand up for you, that shows a lot. Maybe you could try getting to know her a little better 🤷🏾‍♂️

Imissyourgirlfriend2 · 2023-03-15T20:32:10+00:00

Dating seriously has become too difficult today. With so much networking we are capable of, one lousy date (for which there may not even be anyone to blame, just misunderstandings) ruins a person for life now. The internet has made it impossible to forget or forgive...anyone.

sonthehedge42 · 2023-03-16T05:36:10+00:00

I go on a are we dating the same guy group reporting spree every now and then. Facebook always tells me they aren't gonna do shit about it. Maybe if enough of us report them regularly Facebook might do something about it

IceCorrect · 2023-03-15T22:59:35+00:00

Remember when women said: "HER past is her past", they explicity say about women, not men, even if men past is all lies

theanchorman05 · 2023-03-16T00:58:01+00:00

OP go somewhere that doesn't have this western society bs to find a decent woman (South America, Puerto Rico, etc.)

Dr_RxRedpill · 2023-03-16T12:24:18+00:00

Take screenshots. And take that crook to court for defamation.

AbysmalDescent · 2023-03-16T14:55:37+00:00

Pretty pathetic how so many women create and flock to these types of groups. It really shows a great lack in personal accountability and maturity. Instead of taking the loss and learning from it, they just want to create hate groups on social media just to tear guys down, get reaffirmation from other women and feel better about themselves for being rejected. It's juvenile. These women-children are demonstrating that they do not have an ounce of independence and accountability.

Not to mention that it's incredibly creepy and controlling to stalk a guy and try to control who he is or isn't dating. Unless you're with the guy in a committed relationship, it's really none of your business if he is or isn't dating other women. That would certainly be the case if the genders were reversed. Hell, if the genders were reversed, people would certainly believe that men who post pictures of women they've dated online to talk shit about them just do not even have a place on online dating sites and would probably be banned for the safety of regular users.

forest1000 · 2023-03-15T18:27:38+00:00

This is why I dumped all dating apps. Their pictures are fake, they’re not “normal” and are looking for the money side of your life. I had decided to be single at one point last year, then met someone that changed my life at the strangest time. The dating apps are just poison and force men to stay away from women forever. There are good women out there. Good luck.

IoSonCalaf · 2023-03-15T19:36:55+00:00

Soon we’ll have some kind of social credit score, even if informal (I know China has a national one). This FB group sounds like the beginning of it.

Could you imagine if we had some kind of star or number rating? Reminds me of the Black Mirror episode Nosedive. It would be nightmarish.

costwy55 · 2023-03-15T23:05:03+00:00

Anyone involved with these groups isn't worth dating, simple as that. They might have started with good intentions, but now are probably so toxic and bs they're worthless. How many people in these groups are lying or exaggerating? I'd guess it's a high percentage of bitter exes, rejected dates, crazy people who want to start drama, girls who want to steal guys for themselves, and guys with fake female profiles trying to bring down their competition.

It's sad to me that so many girls can't see how toxic and trash these groups are, hopefully as time goes on they realize it and leave.

checkoutdeeznuts2 · 2023-03-16T03:18:46+00:00

I had no.idea about that FB page. Ill.be heading undercover and report back. In my area the men's version has 111 members. The women's 16k lol...What a cluster.

AAKurtz · 2023-03-16T03:37:44+00:00

I know it sounds paranoid, but a few times I've felt like women had suddenly shifted gears on me without reason. I had jokingly thought to myself, "Is there some kind of secret committee of women that deems who is a good man and who isn't?"

I was disgusted to learn that something as bizarre as this actually exists. So the next question is, how do we get access to it?

stent00 · 2023-03-16T14:00:55+00:00

bUt iTs aLl aBoUt fEmAlE eMpOwErMeNt gUys

2023-04-24T00:53:38+00:00

I’m in one of them if Anyone needs any info. At first I appreciated this group and it was comedy but now it’s horrible. I’ve had experiences with men where no one believed me and I got harassed and sm more. But this goes above anything and is ruining people’s lives.

Individual-Clue9738 · 2023-05-23T12:42:22+00:00

You can take these women to court. It will take a few years to win. But you will win if the stories are 100% lies. It happened to a coworker or mine. His wife saw him on that site, so he took action. It took a few years and a GOOD attorney. Not only did he win. But girls had to be over $1m they do not have and had to apologize. The website has had good intentions. But I think now a lot of women are just out to ruin men just because. I do hope you will fight it. Good luck!

KMS_2101 · 2024-03-09T20:28:20+00:00

My brother is currently dealing with this, although much worse. As far as I'm concerned, he dated a narcissist who fleeced him and destroyed his reputation in the community while destroying his mental health completely. She's sent him home unable to cope with this life. Weeks later, he finds out 'someone' has posted a photo of him, including his full name, accusing him of domestic assault and misogyny. He's barely holding on at this point, and all because a sociopathic woman who demanded he move in with her 4 months into their relationship and has had the privileges provided to her by his bank account has decided to completely discard of him like human garbage. I've never been so disgusted in women in my life.

This is not about women's empowerment and social safety, this is about witches discarding of the men in their life they no longer want to coexist on this earth with.

I've reported the page under accusations of harassment, mental health assaults, slander, false information, and everything else I could, but don't expect much to come of it.

I can only imagine the social upheaval of men doing the same thing.

sakuragasaki46 · 2023-03-15T21:27:58+00:00

Every women showing interest in you is an agent of the System. Cut off with any of them and move to another country

corporate_robot_dude · 2023-03-15T20:34:23+00:00

These groups wouldnt be so bad if it equally allowed men and women to post. There's also The Dirty which is a popular one. IMO, usually a person has to have done something quite shitty to make it up on these sort of sites. I've seen some people I know IRL on there and the comments were generally true.

regrettabletreaty1 · 2023-03-15T22:56:56+00:00

So adult life is now high school, great.

My EX is definitely on there telling all the girls to stay away cuz I belong to her. SMDH.

We can only hope that some women won't believe any accusation that comes their way.

AdComprehensive1312 · 2023-03-15T19:47:49+00:00

While not optimal men are much more suited being on our own than women. The "strong and independent" line fades quick after they turn 30 and the fall out for western women will be severe. I have told my teenage son the potential consequences and statistics men face from marriage like many dads. In 10-15 years when the marriage rate is cut in half the number of suicidal women on antidepressants will be astronomical.

Toxic-and-proud · 2023-03-16T12:09:00+00:00

Id never ever use a dating app because straight away my common sense tells me only fucking left overs and weirdo women will be desperate enough to use one, we all know how easy it is for women to get a man. Maybe not as easy to keep a man but, still. Yeah, use them to fuck girls, then fuck them off asap

Weekly-Bison1564 · 2024-08-20T23:49:55+00:00

We need to organize

the1mrg · 2025-01-10T06:37:29+00:00

Navigating the world of online dating can be challenging enough, but when you’re a public figure, the stakes become much higher. Over the years, I’ve given dating sites a chance, hoping to meet someone genuine. But what I’ve found instead are private groups and forums that were meant to protect people from potential harm, but instead, they’ve become breeding grounds for drama, gossip, and baseless accusations. It’s disheartening to see how quickly things can escalate, especially when the narrative is driven by hurt feelings rather than facts.

One thing I’ve learned the hard way is how easily someone’s name can be slandered in these online spaces without any real proof. It’s a disturbing trend—groups where people are supposed to share warnings about bad experiences with others have turned into tools of defamation. A simple disagreement or a relationship not working out turns into a public spectacle, with no regard for truth or the impact it has on someone’s reputation. What’s worse, there’s no accountability for these online attacks, and as a public figure, I’m often left to pick up the pieces of my personal life being dragged into the public eye for all the wrong reasons.

What’s even more perplexing is the motivation behind it. It’s hard to fathom that some people are so deeply hurt or vindictive that they feel the need to destroy someone else’s life just because things didn’t go as they expected. I try to understand it—are there really that many people out there who are so emotionally wounded that their only outlet is to lash out at others, even when they don’t have the full story? It seems like a cycle of hurt people hurting people, and it’s troubling.

At this point, the situation has escalated to a point where I feel compelled to take legal action. I can’t stand by while false accusations and slander are allowed to dictate the course of my life. I’ve worked too hard to build my career and my reputation, and I’m not going to let someone else try to tear it down without facing consequences. It’s become clear to me that I need to defend myself—not just for my own peace of mind, but to set a precedent for others who might be experiencing the same kind of unjust treatment.

While I never thought I’d find myself in a position where I’m taking legal action over a personal matter, it’s now the only way forward. It’s painful, but it’s necessary. If things go the way I expect, I’ll likely walk away from this situation owning her home, but that’s not the victory I’m after. I’m fighting for my name, my dignity, and for the understanding that this kind of baseless cruelty can’t just go unchecked anymore. This has to stop, and I’m taking a stand to make sure it does.

QuartzGargoyle_2022 · 2023-03-16T00:06:04+00:00

You need to get your friend that's in the group to get screen shots of those conversations about you. Then you can put in a complaint to facebook. But it has to be a really bad character assassination for them to do anything. A bunch of people saying they had bad dates with you won't be enough.

Suggestion for anyone dating: If you go on a date and don't plan to go on anymore with the person, at least let them know before you block them. Just going silent makes anyone look like an asshole.

IlIIIlIlllIIllI · 2023-05-16T16:37:22+00:00

I for one use it to weed out people who are members. I mean yes it sucks getting posted, but if all these women are going to put their toxic traits out there for anyone to see, I think it's actually a positive. And if people unmatch you after reading a made up one sided story, again, is that a person who will make a good partner??

It may have started out as useful for safety, but it's now a gossip forum of locker room talk for ladies at best, and malicious false allegations at worst.

So get a reasonable lady friend to join on your behalf and use it to weed out any one who is a member. If that lowers your dating pool that sucks, but also do you really want a relationship with someone like that though???

dyingrose85 · 2023-06-07T05:23:16+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Specialist861 · 2023-03-16T08:49:11+00:00

There is a site that is (was?) up, where people post their location and other post 'wins' of nudes of chicks from that area. Not on FB, i'm talking about a chan site - it does exist, even on the other side.

You may appear on these facebook groups, so my suggestion would be to create a fake female profile, subscribe to these groups and keep an eye out.

How to go about finding them, I have no idea.

Frosty-Gate-8094 · 2023-03-16T05:41:25+00:00

I would just keep dating. Fuck these jawns. How you gonna let some random women stop you from enjoying yourself? Keep dating. Let them keep chatting away. Next thing you know someone might be intrigued by all the attention you’re receiving and want to know the real you. Idk. But don’t back down.

Cloven_Hoof79 · 2023-03-15T20:11:50+00:00

Judging by your post it seems they were just being honest and you're not exactly the NiceGuy you think you are.

Amos54 · 2023-03-16T22:54:14+00:00

If you learn you have had your pictures posted on one of their pages, you need to file a DMCA take down request. Men everywhere need to start doing this a lot more.

https://www.dmca.com/FAQ/How-can-I-file-a-DMCA-Takedown-Notice

DiscardedShard · 2023-03-17T11:08:31+00:00

Notoriety has gotten me more female attention socially than being neutral.

In the past, I've lived a pretty unusual lifestyle and quite a few heavy blunders. Been exposed for this and that and shared among such groups.

The women in those groups last about 2-3 years before they all turn on eachother. They live in a small fragmented view of reality and quickly forget about their targets before splintering off in to their own hateful, self cannibalizing groups.

Many of them post shameful material of eachother later on. Furthermore, the men they often shame simply gain popularity because it appears that the women doing so are petty which indirectly drives up the man's value as it appears he simply treated them poorly and wasn't interested.

I sparked more controversy than most and just continued to roll with it. Sticks and stones etc. The most important thing is to make sure your work isn't going to be threatened by social unrest but if you're confident in yourself chances are the people who will defend you will be confident to do so also.

This is a story as old as time. These groups have existed since at least 2015 on Facebook.

Those who build their own power always ultimately conquer those who try to take it from others. The latter turn on eachother inevitably when there's nothing left to take.

AWDTSGisToxic · 2023-03-30T15:18:09+00:00

The group is extremely toxic and dehumanizing. I started a subreddit- please join and share your stories so that people have an idea of what's going on. We have access to some of the big cities.

crockettrocket101 · 2023-03-31T00:42:12+00:00

Im honestly confused and must be missing something. If it wasn’t your picture, why do you think it was you?

Hibernia86 · 2023-04-10T00:17:14+00:00

If you can get the link to where your picture was posted, then you could potentially submit a copyright claim on the photo.
https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/copyrightform?\_\_cft\_\_\[0\]=AZWco4Q1m9KEUhIAO83MLjUuaUmOwlaBZgFVzCQzmZc7j5yGtt3Wy4kDxsOc9PtX2AR9Iti4rQuSpCbjzcfZx1m5txmxkQjzofwgntrVbjCAntabVxuHHOGSMdNyXwnyPC47zUfNrrq-h7b4P7zDgRJHSVJE\_gVyseNl2ebxqDeCnno1ddZMBWOGb9QZhRFxqiDgpJqrw8cg1r3502pJi\_Vq&\_\_tn\_\_=-UK-R
If you took the picture or can get the person who took the picture to put forward a copyright claim on the picture, then Facebook might take it down from the site. If this solves the problem then it is an amazing solution, so long as people know that the post exists. But we will have to see if Facebook follows through.

Individual-Clue9738 · 2023-05-12T17:05:29+00:00

This happened to a coworker. His wife found out he was on that FB in Massachusetts. He decided to take action. Sued both ex-girlfriends an won the case. What these women posted was not 100% accurate and affected his bottom line (Or so he says). So, after a few years back and forth. Both women had to be around 1.4m and apologize. I am not sure both women have that kind of money. But he was just happy they apologized and had to say away from him and his kids.

Individual-Clue9738 · 2023-06-28T11:29:19+00:00

I am sure you can figure out who the woman is. Tell her job. I had a co worker who was a victim of this. He ended up finding out who the woman is and took the woman to court. While FB and other social media companies won't help. He was able to make his story public and she had to apologize and pay a hefty penelty

Stock-Judge-7993 · 2023-09-09T18:21:42+00:00

These women groups scare men away from dating. Dating sites will end up losing , quality women as well who want to get married , have children etc will suffer bc of these groups .

Title	My experience with "Are We Dating the Same Guy"
Author	djc_tech
Upvotes	487
Comments	160
Date	March 15, 2023 4:43 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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