Statutory rape victim forced to pay child support now that he is of age.

DanteLivra · 2021-11-10T17:16:48+00:00

How about that : make the rapist pay for the child she chose to have by raping a child.

Wtf kind of world are we living in ?

ijustdontcare74 · 2021-11-10T16:39:37+00:00

Disgusting....not only did he suffer a rape he's now punished again for the next 12+ yrs to pay his rapist. No matter if it's not the child's fault, this is immoral and a blantent example of misandry and how men are seen by the state as disposal assets, good only for cash and as cannon fodder.

Diesel-66 · 2021-11-10T16:23:04+00:00

Ignoring the state is often the biggest issue. Then you get locked in and can't adjust anything for the past payments

jedi1josh · 2021-11-10T16:54:06+00:00

I noticed the story is seven years old. Is there a follow up with this?

LateralThinker13 · 2021-11-10T18:51:56+00:00

I stand by my previous opinion in these cases. Sue the mother to terminate her rights to the child and get sole custody on the basis that she is a rapist and a pedophile. Then put the child up for adoption.

hehimCA · 2021-11-10T16:44:48+00:00

This is disgusting but thanks for posting.

tragedyfish · 2021-11-10T19:00:03+00:00

People who are convicted of statutory rape should never get custody of their children.

Terror-Error · 2021-11-10T18:52:51+00:00

Nick Olivas became a father at 14, a fact he wouldn't learn for eight years.

The two went their separate ways. Olivas, now 24 and living in Phoenix, graduated from high school, went to college and became a medical assistant. Then two years ago, the state served him with papers demanding child support. That's how he found out he had a then-6-year-old daughter.

He said he panicked, ignored the legal documents and never got the required paternity test.

So if he was raped at 14, and the child is 6 when he's 22, it's quite possible the child is not his. Should have done that paternity test.

ParticularExact9234 · 2021-11-10T18:46:14+00:00

Makes you wonder why men and boys are here at all now.

ALL MEN BAD WHEN YOU'RE RIGHT OR WRONG.

When it comes to being sexually assaulted or sexually harassed by a woman, the court is always lenient but not on men, it's no big deal when it happens to us.

MASTERoQUADEMAN · 2021-11-10T18:31:24+00:00

This is insane. How does something like this even happen?

2muchtequila · 2021-11-10T18:47:35+00:00

You'd think he would be able to petition for full custody considering the other parent is a child rapist.

HorizonBreakerNEXIC · 2021-11-10T19:54:10+00:00

What.... in the living black hole density of fuck?

Its time to bring out the goddamn pitchforks

Daman_1985 · 2021-11-10T19:20:13+00:00

There is no justice in this world.

xTheVyrusx · 2021-11-10T19:57:05+00:00

This is beyond disgusting

No-Feedback7437 · 2021-11-10T20:58:32+00:00

This is horrible This woman is viscous predator and she is being rewarded makes think about the injustice in society

Normie316 · 2021-11-10T22:45:38+00:00

This is so disgusting I don't understand how this is legal at all.

Qwesterly · 2021-11-10T23:34:11+00:00

This man clearly doesn't understand that being raped while male is a crime in this country.

Fullertonjr · 2021-11-10T23:47:10+00:00

How many cases of a man being a rapist where he was able to obtain primary custody of the child….after being convicted of rape?

aranboy522 · 2021-11-11T02:04:15+00:00

This topic was talked about in r/malerapevictims. I tried to find as much information on these topics as I could but information on this matter is criminally under reported

f4z3ultr1x · 2021-11-11T04:47:14+00:00

State law says a child younger than 15 cannot consent with an adult under any circumstance, making Olivas a rape victim. Olivas didn't press charges and says he didn't realize at the time that it was even something to consider.

HOLY FUCKING SHIT

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-11-10T21:04:22+00:00

He needs to #meetoo her ass BTW!

SpookeyClown · 2021-11-11T04:14:11+00:00

These stories are so fucked up. I'm so glad that rape victims don't have to marry their rapists like in other countries.

jmcsquared · 2021-11-11T00:05:28+00:00

Old story, new rage every time I read it.

Million-Suns · 2021-11-11T00:15:05+00:00

We're not going to hold him responsible for the sex act

As it should !! That'd be the last thing we'd need !!

In that kind of case the victim should automatically wins full custody once he's an adult. No child support to pay and no child raised by a rapist who will devour all the child support money to find their gucci bag.

This whole situation is fucked up and like in paternity fraud cases, show that men are always sacrificed and never considered as victims.

Also, I'm glad I'm not in the US.

BowtiepastaMasta · 2021-11-11T00:42:01+00:00

How? How can this be real? I hope he doesn’t pay. This can’t be real.

Win090949 · 2021-11-11T02:18:45+00:00

That doesn’t make sense

Also, 24-2=22 22-14=8. Wouldn’t his “child” be an 8yo then?

0mnica · 2021-11-11T02:40:58+00:00

His parents, if they were smarter, should have immigrated. The guy needs to leave and find a new home.

Ordinary_Ad_7992 · 2021-11-11T06:42:11+00:00

That is fucked up!!!

AnalystFormer9448 · 2021-11-15T03:15:32+00:00

What's next you gonna have to Marry the rapist because they decided to target you?

Edit: oh and if someone raped me and said i had to pay child support, i would tell them screw you, you'll have to arrest before i pay for your child's way.

AnFGhoster · 2021-11-10T23:50:54+00:00

I'm shocked they waited that long.

DouglasWallace · 2021-11-11T00:52:09+00:00

Nothing new, sadly. Nor is it confined to the USA.

Legally, what's happening is that the victim is pay for the upkeep of the child. In effect, of course, that can't help but benefit the rapist.

A slight hope for him is that he might well be able to sue her for the money he has to pay, as stupid as that sounds. There was a case where that succeeded a few years back (in the USA, I think but I don't recall it that well) and the woman was made to pay it all back over a period of time. Let us hope he can do that and gets the legal help to get justice of a kind, though nothing can pay back for his trauma.

alwaysboopthesnoot · 2021-11-11T00:21:51+00:00

Rape and incest victims who are female usually have to share custody or permit visitation to the children they have or are forced to have, with their rapists/relatives. Even if they were minors when the rape/incest occurred.

Sounds like this disgusting practice cuts both ways.

ParticularExact9234 · 2021-11-10T23:50:15+00:00

I guess every man and boy will need body cameras now just so we can have evidence when something happens to us or so we can prove we didn't commit a crime on a day to day basis.

Sorry folks, if this is the future then i want to go back 30 years or more and live, I can understand why all our mental health is suffering with courts that pass judgments like this.

Professional-Dog-265 · 2021-11-11T06:23:25+00:00

This is the worst law in existence.

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-11-10T21:03:56+00:00

This is insane... especially the back support to when he was 15. AND back support should be calculated based on his earnings up to a max of 25% for one child. Since a 15-year-olds income is legally zero... he should owe 25% of that from when he was a kid. Move forward to 16 or 17 and he was probably making minimum wage part-time.. so he would owe 25% of whatever he was raking in.. probably less than 1000 bucks a year. Child support can be greatly reduced for those enrolled full time in college in program that has the potential to greatly increase earning capacity and since like most college students his income was probably - 500 a month he would owe 25% of that. NOW once he graduated college and PA school and started working.. he would owe 25% o whatever he was making.. any way those number do not add up to what the article says he owes. This guy is a PA he can afford a lawyer.

HeligKo · 2021-11-10T21:41:39+00:00

Tying public assistance to child support collections has been a huge evil perpetrated by the state. It knocks poor man down, and there are more than a few men who will never see a child that they didn't know about before the state showed up to take their money, because no one is going to give them visitation after not seeing the child for the first decade of their life.

JAernie · 2021-11-10T23:59:52+00:00

I am literally lost for words!

ToWinDontPlayBayBay · 2021-11-11T01:28:30+00:00

Is there anything we can do about this?

snoozeflu · 2021-11-11T01:55:07+00:00

This is disgusting. Is the mother registered as a sex offender? I'm curious how the state sees no issue with letting the child live with a convicted rapist. Usually the state would remove a child from living in such conditions.

Reddituser155 · 2021-11-11T03:41:30+00:00

I'm not the best at math so if I'm wrong let me know. My math dose not add up in this story. He was 14 when raped. 24 when he found out he had a 6 year old daughter. Gestation for a child is 9 months assuming it's 1 year that would make the child 9 years old not 6 years old. 24-14-1=9 Could have been a typo with the age in the article though.

GeometryNacho · 2021-11-11T04:07:24+00:00

I feel sick upvoting a post with this title alone, holy shit ñ

Nevek_Green · 2021-11-11T04:13:42+00:00

This is why judges should not have limited immunity

kapriece · 2021-11-11T07:41:44+00:00

I see the JUST US system extends to family court and beyond.

shadybowties · 2021-11-11T07:51:48+00:00

Seriously wtf

blue_theflame · 2021-11-11T08:45:22+00:00

.....WHAT THE FUCK DID I JUST READ?!!!!!!!

EpicHajsownik · 2021-11-11T13:00:15+00:00

Many people say "this money are so the child won't starve"

This doesnt excuse having a victim to pay all of it.

I know that people who say this arent for a child, but are for mens suffering. How?

Because the money for this child could have been get from public funding. And if you think that we having to pay from our taxes is unfair cause "we arent guilty for this child", then why do you support paying ALL OF THIS by a man who also isnt guilty?

ImJustHereForCorn · 2021-11-11T14:26:21+00:00

This is so wrong! I mean props to him for wanting to be in the child’s life, I mean that’s some real paternal responsibility and I can 100% commend that! But for him to have not only gone this long without knowing she even existed, or a paternity test and still owed money to the woman who raped him as a child, is beyond fucked up!

Kharvel72 · 2021-11-11T14:58:37+00:00

He should launch a counter claim against the state for failing to protect his rights while under their care.

criolle · 2021-11-12T14:44:44+00:00

I have read about this issue a few times over the years.
Perhaps it's just my reading, but I have never noticed the WOMEN'S NAMES.

Only the victims are identified. The victims are all men.

rorzri · 2021-11-17T14:12:16+00:00

How long before we abandon all pretext and just make being a male victim of a female rapist a crime itself

Mortikiy · 2021-11-17T19:26:06+00:00

this reminds me of the time a rapist legally got split custody of his and an 11 year old girl’s baby …

lovedrspock · 2022-01-01T15:20:21+00:00

This world is upside down...

CdnPoster · 2021-11-10T19:13:10+00:00

Imagine... My god!!! Horror... How can this be!

I hope he gets to see the child and be a father to that child then... after all... it is half his???

I see this as pretty bad given she was much older than him!

But.. maybe she didn't know the laws and that means 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ lack of education about laws that citizens are subject to even if never voted for or educated in !!!! Just saying....

Requarzium89 · 2021-11-10T20:40:36+00:00

Does he have contact with the child as an actual father? If so then he should absolutely pay for his child

If not (and this is one of the only times I wouldn’t blame a man for not having contact) then absolutely no chance he should pay

Title	Statutory rape victim forced to pay child support now that he is of age.
Author	ParticularExact9234
Upvotes	1698
Comments	144
Date	November 10, 2021 3:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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