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wazzup987 · 2015-05-29T15:00:34+00:00

Think of this thread like a group ama. So you post and by posting people will know they can ask you any thing. Lets get to know each other....

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She was French, her uni course was finished. she could go back to France or she could stay in the UK with me.

She wanted to get engaged.

So I had a good long think (this is 18 years pre RP).

She was hot and fucked well. Adventurous and shit.

But she had a high n count. There was definitely a feeling she could cheat. The French have a different marriage deal to anglophone cultures. Plus she seemed a leeetle bit edgy. Not quite crazy yet.... I think I'd been subconsciously "assessing her" for most of the 18 months.

It just didn't feel right. Passed up the opportunity. Broke up about 6 weeks before she went back. Could've stayed shagging for 6 more weeks, she was up for it... But I just decided to fold this hand cleanly and walk away.

So.... Artistic differences... I swear blind, to this day, that I didn't think about another girl, or was branch swinging. Just a clean exit.

A few days later.... MrsTGP pops into my head.

Game on.

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Really quite amusing. I spent quite a few years posting on politics boards, so a political tussle with RP posters is like a welcome return to old times. I know how to argue with American wing nuts.

Because RP is so right wing trad/libertarian dominated no one appears to have thought much about what plugging RP into the intellectual left would mean. To the yanks the left is dominated by feminism. I come from a culture where they are fellow-travellers and foot soldiers, but they don't run the left. So, RP is a much more useful "plug in" to the left wing. I can see its potential for kicking off something like a DE of the left. Get those old commies out of retirement, unplug them and the black-bloc (anarchists), roll in the Fabians and the social-democratic left (finally with an accurate model of human behaviour).... Libertarians watch out !

There is massive potential in RP for kicking the left off its current track, and jumping over to a new unexplored track for the left.

Just a question of do we have the big brains left ? Or did they die off with the commies and/or have got sucked into DE. The left needs a new paradigm, a communism replacement. Hopefully we can built on granite and not sand this time round.

Viva la revolution !

The people's flag is deepest red

It shrouded oft our martyred dead,

And ere their limbs grew stiff and cold,

Their hearts' blood dyed its ev'ry fold.

Then raise the scarlet standard high.

Within its shade we'll live and die,

Though cowards flinch and traitors sneer,

We'll keep the red flag flying here.

Now if only I could remember the 3rd verse, comrade. Then I'd be a real lefty.

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[–]TheGreasyPoleObjectively Pro-moderate filth0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

Well, I was yanking your chain a little. Let's say an ex Trotskyist for now. Never really liked their model. Goals good, means of achieving goals were lacking in common sense and too prone to highjacking by dark triad types (Stalin... I'm looking at you, dude !).

One of many political leanings I passed through and stole good stuff from. Commies, anarchists, some right wing philosophies, some genuinely weird things. Now I'm just a lefty.

Got respect for those old commie brains though, they really had worked out how to take over a society... If their economic model was anything better than a "shit show fail parade" they woulda won. Political organisational skills and subversive tactics and discipline were really top notch.

The left needs to get all that natural raw talent channelled into a new paradigm. A DE of the left. Someone gets that going I'll jump in and help direct the action. Too old for revolution now. Leave that to the young, wild, dumbfucks.

I'll be the old guy directing the action back at Central Party HQ next time :)

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Well, I don't. It's got the same problem the commies had...

People are rational. If we just show them how our paradigm is rational, they'll work along perfectly well within it. Everyone will be happier. All rational ~~new socialist men~~ new capitalist men, working rationally together in our rational paradigm

And so they both go off structuring their system around rational agents who respond rationally to change.... And drive their political ideas off the 100 mile high cliff of "basic animal human nature".

Queue .gif off coyote plummeting to the valley floor. Ending in a soft ~poof~.

Humans aren't that shapeable. We're build out of crooked timber. You can't make straight, rational, things out of us lot. 90% are fuckwits who couldn't think their way out of a wet paper bag for a start.

So.... DE is to the 21st C right.... As Communism was to the 20th C left... I'd put them around the 1890's period about now.

Interesting system, very clever... Based on faulty assumptions... Will crash and burn spectacularly.

What I am extremely jealous of is the quality of the brain talent over there in DE-Land.... Top notch brains. Shame they're working on a broken model. It's exactly the same as the early commies. Such a waste, such a waste.

If only I could get those brains, and the commie sharp minds, and the clever guys 'n' gals elsewhere interested in a system that could actually work, that would go with the grain of human nature, that would finally be able to build something worthwhile out of the crooked timber of humanity.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident; that all men are created equal."

I may not get there with you...

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Whats an unplugged wife ?

A wife who has BP with an RP male, where the RP male deliberately exposed her to RP thought and explained he was RP. A dicey move.

Do you really believe in the RP background theory that there is a feminist conspiracy to destroy masculinity and the natural hierarchy between men and women

I don't think it has that intent. I think feminists are just intent in "getting goodies for the girls" and are happy to trample on male equality to do so if that means more goodies.

Not really a conspiracy. They're doing it in the open. I just don't like having my rights to be equal trampled on so girls can have free stuff.

or do you just like the perspective about gender roles in sexual relationships?

The sexual strategy model is definitely the draw. The stuff above is ancillary, almost completely irrelevant.

It's the accuracy of the sex model that makes you RP. Any of the rest of the gender, political, what-have-you stuff is take it or leave it. Sex strategy ? Nailed it. Spot on.

[–]iamyo1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Really interesting. Thanks. I enjoy the humor and intelligence in your comments.

I agree the sex strategy is spot on if you have those preferences. I definitely agree that the majority of heterosexual men and women likely have those preferences--I don't know why anyone denies this. Feminists debate whether there's a point in moralizing about it or not. TRP shows there's a tremendous backlash to moralizing about it.

I smile when you say 'getting goodies for the girls' because of course the comfort women have with their sexuality and the sexual access men have to women are massively facilitated by the increase in gender equality and the disruption of traditional sexual roles. Men would never have the number of sexual partners they have now or have access to as many women capable of enjoying sex if we'd continued in completely traditional roles. For example, in the early days of the sexual revolution there was so much fretting about female frigidity (likely caused by women's feelings of shame about sex). You don't see much talk about frigidity anymore--women aren't as panicked about having sexual feelings as they used to be. So even if you are in a monogamous marriage you benefit. For tens of thousands of years, women were required to be starfish in bed.

Anyway, I'll bet someone on TRP has a counter to this observation. ;)

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I'm glad you like the strategy. Do you know you can get a much better view of the strategy, without all the waving dicks, from the books. Their male orientated but the sex strategy basics are useful to both sexes. Have you read MMSLP or MAP for example ?

I smile when you say 'getting goodies for the girls' because of course the comfort women have with their sexuality and the sexual access men have to women are massively facilitated by the increase in gender equality and the disruption of traditional sexual roles. Men would never have the number of sexual partners they have now or have access to as many women capable of enjoying sex if we'd continued in completely traditional roles. For example, in the early days of the sexual revolution there was so much fretting about female frigidity (likely caused by women's feelings of shame about sex). You don't see much talk about frigidity anymore--women aren't as panicked about having sexual feelings as they used to be. So even if you are in a monogamous marriage you benefit. For tens of thousands of years, women were required to be starfish in bed.

I also agree with all this. I love the sexual revolution and the flourishing sexual marketplace available.

But that was started, and near completed, 50 years ago.

Why do I have to give up my right to be equal in order to give women a privilege or advantage ? I just want to be equal, and feminism of the last 5 years, not the last 50, has been pushing way past the equality line on some issues.

Thanks for the sex, though. Although I should probably be thanking your nan.

For tens of thousands of years, women were required to be starfish in bed. Anyway, I'll bet someone on TRP has a counter to this observation. ;)

Well TRP wouldn't have said that was true. Women weren't required to starfish. I'm sure every hubby would have appreciated a little more than that. But I suspect due to lack of skill or interest most did. TRP would doubt that this was a requirement from the randy husband that wanted a damn good fuck once in a while.

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No. Who said the where only counting single men ? She explicitly called out that all men do better, and all men do.

And.... When did the standard change from "men getting sex" also change to "men have to get it 2 or more times a week".

Once a month is diabolical, but for a single man it's light years ahead of, say, the pre-sexual revolution 1950s SMP.

So, you've moved the goalposts here twice. Without the goalpost move your looking at 90% of males having sex in the past year. That's leagues ahead of pre-sexual revolution. And 75% of single males Also had sex in the past year. That's light years ahead of the 50s. It got men laid.

Thers no point being dumbfucks about it. The sexual revolution of the 60s got many more men laid. It also generally improved the sexual adventurousness of females, to our great benefit.

That was 50 years ago. Round of applause. Granny take a bow.

Now, feminism.... WHAT I'd like to talk about next is the next 49 years that ensued, ya know, that whole "rape and pillage of my rights" period. Thank your granny for the sex, from me. Tell her well done.

So feminist, now we've thanked granny. Why have you and your mum been ass raping my gender for the last 49 years ?

We're going to have to stop THAT, but I want to keep the sex.

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Feminism has driven up the frequency and pace women get laid hundreds of times higher than it has for men.

Really, who they fucking ? Because they seem to be fucking men. So if the frequency and pace women get laid has gone up hundreds of times, guess which other sexes getting laid rate just went up the exact same hundreds of times.

Your missing the point. It gives access to a large number of sexual partners to a small amount of men but a large amount of women.

No. I get that point. But that "small amount of men" are not the only beneficiaries.

When you look at the Kinsey Data above a better description appears to be.

20% of men get all the sex they want 30% of men get no sex except hookers 50% of men get some sex but not as much sex as they'd like to have.

Now. Because women have a lot more sex, and can be a lot more slutty, all of those groups benefit.

The top 20% get a lot more. The middle 50% get a better shot, more often, and generally get a few LTRs here and there that keep them having at least some sex (which they wouldn't be getting unless they wifed someone in the old days).

The bottom 30% have got a lower bar to clear. In the past, a woman had to want to hubby them to get laid. Women just didnt want to do it. Now they've got a shot... Theyve got to improve, but a shot is there. Still. They got the worst deal. But they always do. You can't really help that.

So... Every male benefited from the sexual revolution. That doesn't mean we don't want a lot of other things changed. But we'll keep the more frrequent and easily available sex thanks.

Only the top men in society like Leonardo Dicaprio can walk into a night club and pull out 5-10 girls and fuck them in his Lamborghini. But any attractive girl can do so herself without being the tip top.

Whaddya you care if the girls benefitted or not ? We're not girls.

We benefitted. Who cares if they benefitted more ? If they can fuck Leanardo Di Caprio, good luck to them bitches.

Now am I getting laid more ? Yes. Am I getting laid dirtier ? Yes.

Fine. You girls get to fuck Leanardo. Deal.

Now about these divorce laws, we're going to have to have a chat about them...

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I mean, I haven't really thought about how to navigate the sexual marketplace. To me, it's no different from dealing with people in general. Same sorts of tests are there. People sizing you up, making instant judgments on your worth.

I'm just focusing on getting healthy right now. Can't really worry about getting jacked. As all my limbs, with the possible exception of my right arm on the days, are significantly weaker than those of most men. So it's mostly cardio and stuff like sit-ups and push-ups, for about a couple hours a day.

I have trouble understanding your second question. I think my strategy, when I do decide to start actively pursuing sexual relationships, is already fairly purple. I think I've made all necessary adaptations. I do tend to suffer from bouts of one-itis, but that should work itself out once I've had a couple relationships.

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I mean, I haven't really thought about how to navigate the sexual marketplace. To me, it's no different from dealing with people in general. Same sorts of tests are there. People sizing you up, making instant judgments on your worth.

Not going to sugar coat it. It's going to be tougher than normal interactions, in normal day-to-day interactions their lizard brain isn't really assessing your genetic fitness. In the "hello darlin'... What you up to tonight ?" conversation they are. You're going to have to bring your A game.

I'm just focusing on getting healthy right now. Can't really worry about getting jacked. As all my limbs, with the possible exception of my right arm on the days, are significantly weaker than those of most men. So it's mostly cardio and stuff like sit-ups and push-ups, for about a couple hours a day.

Absolutely the right starting point. Be your ideal weight. Then do whatever you can do add muscle mass. Sounds like this will be harder to add for you, but it'll be even more worth it for you in the end. Build some mass, anyway you can. It's not a perfect adjustment to cover/compensate for a disability, it's just the best available. The fact that it'll help your general health is a bonus. Ancillary benefits, you gotta love them.

I have trouble understanding your second question. I think my strategy, when I do decide to start actively pursuing sexual relationships, is already fairly purple. I think I've made all necessary adaptations. I do tend to suffer from bouts of one-itis, but that should work itself out once I've had a couple relationships.

Yeah. Get laid a few times. Helps massively with the one-itis. I'd just be assessing every RP nugget and adjusting to my situation. My uncle was heavily disabled. He could have had a satisfying sex life, but he never adjusted. Didn't make changes necessary for his level of disability (severe) and just tries to bull it through. Bad move. Died in his 40s very frustrated (cerebral palsy).

Sounds like your disability is much less severe, he couldn't have done push-ups. RP stuff will help you, you've just got to bend it round your disability. But I'm sure you're used to doing lots of stuff that way... Not as others do it,.. But bent around your personal situation.

Wish you the best of luck. The right attitude can take anyone a very long way indeed. Ian Dury seemed to do all right. Had the attitude.

When you're the lead singer of a hit band who's No. 2 hit is called "Spasticus" you've transferred the alpha personality into a disabled context the right way :)

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Yeah, in some ways you'll have so much more opportunity to develop natural game. As you say, if you're already having to drive conversations early on, and you have to get in quick with something clever or witty.... Thats going to come in extra handy in some situations, know what I'm saying ;) Build you skillz. There is an Iron Temple for the mind available out there, as well as for the body. Use it to develop every day, thats how you get goooooooood

On your actual problems, I'd say that unless talking to a family member or medical professional... I'd try and use some of our cocky/funny techniques more rather than discuss an issue directly. Agree and Amplify, say. Or Amused Mastery.

It gets that cleverness and wit direct into the conversation. It also brushes aside in an unnoticable way discussion of a negative or weak trait.

Have you thought of running cocky/funny natural game. It's what I run. Check out a post of mine...

https://www.np.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/31w7ew/stoic_game_and_cockyfunny_game/

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eh, its never been about the power. I think I was just excited and feeling aggressive. Instinct. I just wanted her. So I took her.

And it wasn't a poor decision at all. All I did was push past some logically-based, but otherwise pretty half-hearted no's. She could have stopped me anytime. She could have been more convincing or even actually pretend like she didn't want to have sex at any time, but she didn't. She just wanted me to take the responsibility for whatever happened off of her. And for what its worth(to BPs, I imagine it isn't), she doesn't consider it rape. In fact, i know she thinks of it as a rather a positive experience. She thought it was very hot and she would have never done it unless I was so assertive.

We had sex multiple times after that, including more "rapes". I know for a fact she actually liked the guy taking an aggressive role in initiation, and consent is generally obvious.

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That does leave the children of the abandoned spouse somewhat, to be crude, fucked, especially if the abandoned spouse is not readily employable and/or unable to support the children on her/his own. It brings up a more general point of what the government's role is when a parent or person is unable to do the "right thing" by another person. I don't just mean alimony in this case; I do mean up to and including regulations on business practices.

How do you prove alienation of affection, since I non-trollishly do not know the exact laws around it? I am curious about the institution of no-fault divorce. What is your argument against:

Fault-based grounds usually include mental cruelty, but true mental cruelty has a psychological component that can make it very difficult for the abused spouse to articulate that abuse. More to the point, the abused spouse may be terrified to describe the relationship on paper and testify about it in a court. And of course, a controlling partner will always choose the path of most resistance to whatever it is that the other spouse wants.

We all know, for example, spouses do fear an abusive partner yet may not be able to leave out of fear or Stockholm Syndrome. We know orders of protection are only worth as much as the abuser believes they are worth. And since I believe women can be cruel, abusive, rapists, and so on, I am making this gender neutral.

I am watching my mentally-unstable friend make demands of his divorcing wife that worry me. However, I think a public record of his mental illness will have serious detrimental effects on his career.

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Oh, no, I'm not pushing religion, just the descriptive aspect

"The Patriarchy" is simply a feminist schizotypal neologism for "civilization". It IS civilization, single mothers is hut culture. Uncertain paternity/lack of paternal investment both fails to give rise to civilization ab initio and erodes civilization from within if introduced once edtablished. Advanced tech Civilization results from 1. Unprecedented intramale cooperation caused by the advent of Christian/Roman male resource monogamy 2. The unleashing of beta male innovative genius due to the stability this intra male cooperation causes, 3. The surplus wealth these now incentivized betas can generate by being innovators and toolmakers and 4. Paternal investment in sons who's paternity can be reasonably guarded by men, leading to incentive for the accumulation of wealth and it's transmission through the generations via legacy. I hope this made sense, typing off the top of my head on my phone, I have no sources, it's my theory

Single mothers break this cycle. Lack of paternal certainty leads to higher intra male competition and Low paternal investment, disincentivizing the accumulation of surplus wealth in favor of immediate consumption to signal status for quick breeding ( cf. R/k selection strategy), this in turn suppresses and disincentivizes betas due to inability to compete on the open smp for mating opportunities and inability to effectively mate guard and ensure paternity, leading to a loss of innovation "mgtowing"(going galt) and the eventual decline of civilization wherever female sexuality Is emancipated

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When I was about 21 I had a severe case of oneitis that ended badly. It wasn't a really explosive ending, but more one that really disappointed me when the girl I thought was 'special' turned out to be anything but. This was the 3rd or 4th in a similar pattern so my frustration level was high. A good friend who had broken up with his fiancee 6 mos. prior turned me on to /r/seduction, viewing it as a tool that helped him get back on his feet with women. I frequented that sub for a while, but the signal to noise ratio was poor and solid advice was drowned out by feels and PC bull. One of the first mods invited me to TRP.

When TRP first started, we were basically an offshoot of /r/seduction. Our desire was to discuss game in a realistic and straight talk way without all the white knighting and censorship that comes with a low signal to noise ratio. After a while we started noticing common themes in our collective experience and began to develop theories based off these shared observations.

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I am not actively looking for another partner, but I am open to the idea. My boyfriend has another girlfriend and they are also serious LTR like he and I are.

Non-hierarchiacal

We had an OPP in the very beginning, along with some rules from my side. My rules and his OPP rule was about keeping ourselves "protected". But over time we have become more secure in our relationship and have pretty much dropped most rules.

We have 2 left, SAFE SEX, so dental dams, condoms etc. Our other rule is no surprises, so if either of us is in a situation that may lead to sex, we always say so up front. For example, my BF went to visit an old flame, and he said before had, maybe they would have sex, that way I don't get surprises (which I don't deal with well) and he gets to still be spontaneous.

Poly has definitely added value to my life, I also feel like I know myself better than I ever did.

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A few different factors :

I do believe in AWALT as a motivational approach. Contrary to what I learned as a teenager, men and women do have different approaches to many aspects of life, sexuality and communication being the most important when it comes to relationships. Keep yourself at your best, remember that masculinity is pretty much always attractive, etc. Has she started to avoid sex? Instead of panic, whine about it, communicate, you try to look at it from a different angle. Have you let yourself go? Could there be someone else lurking around? What is her emotional state right now, any issues somewhere else? Then you try to take a rational action.
Nature is harsh and cruel, mating is highly unfair and discriminatory, so you go into dating keeping that in mind. You look for what's best for you, but that doesn't mean you're going to get it. I saw someone talking about considering all relationships as temporal. I like that, as there-s just many things that can go wrong and, in example, being left for another man or being cheated on are things that can happen, so just move on then, that's how it is.
Being yourself is a double-edged sword. Getting philosophical, it's actually not so easy to determine what is yourself, but while it's good to accept who you are, striving for becoming your best self is the ideal course of action.
Responsibility, responsibility, responsibility.

About blue, even with what I wrote above, things can be more complicated than that and different kinds of relationships can work just fine. We're all going through different phases in our life, with many things affecting us, so I don't think it's so rare to see couples that have different goals, directions, strategies, etc. just work fine.

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More sex?

Considering I was a virgin before, definitely yes.

More women?

I was the standard nice guy who was afraid to go near girls. Started going on a few dates about 2 years ago but never got past one date and couldn't figure out why. I now know it's because I was too afraid to let my intentions be known and acted like the nice guy friend on those dates.

I get much more attention from women now than before. Mostly due to lifting but also by improving my frame and being more confident, masculine and dominant.

Better relationship with your SO etc?

Never been in a relationship, always wanted to. Like I wanted this more than anything in the world. Caused me lots of depression for a LONG time.

However after finding TRP, my standards are much higher on what I look for in a LTR so I don't see it happening anytime soon. I don't see being in an LTR as anything special unless I find the right person.

The only difference between pre-TRP and now is that now I don't care about getting an LTR because I don't want to be one of those people that had a bunch of shitty relationships. Also, I have to focus on improving myself at this time.

In terms of my other relationships ie. friends, family, etc. I'm more forward and don't take shit from people if I don't need to. Same with the workplace, I get a lot of respect because I am more confident in myself and my abilities.

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third wave will burn out when no one believes them or any one claiming victim hood. they are going to make it so rape never get prosecuted because they have:

A) fucked with the definition so much the literally every thing is rape,

B)no one will believe victims because of all the false rape accusations, they will push things so far that they will get treated like men, and cry oppression and no one will listen.

C) be fore that some will grow out of it but a lot won't when they will hit thirty and people start expecting them to behave like adults and they will crumble.

there will be a backlash against women, do to all the white/male guilt 3 rd wavers have been piling on since the 90's. the sexually market place will invert. the new generation of girls will have the same problem men have except it wont be because of reproductive systems but because men won't want any thing to do with them.

the same way male feminists/ white knights are now is the way women will be when feminism implodes.

in the end it will be could because men wont coddle women, and women will have to toughen up.

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You know, I go back and forth about this. Most of the time I do want kids, yes. But sometimes I'll hear my friends who have children talk about their sleepless nights, or complain about how they never get time to themselves anymore, and part of me balks a bit. I see their adorable babies and I think "oh my god, I want one!" but then I come home from work to a quiet, clean apartment, pour myself a glass of wine and settle in to read a good book or watch a TV show and I think to myself, "this is the life!"

Kids are great, but let's face it - there are some great things about not having kids too. I have a lot more free time than my mom-friends. I have a LOT more expendable income than my mom-friends. And, as much as I hate to say this, I look and feel a lot better than my mom-friends. I get plenty of sleep, and have much more time and money to do things like buy/put on makeup, shop for clothes, pay attention to fashion, cook delicious healthy meals, do yoga, and just relax. So I look better and I feel better, and as much as I sigh with envy when I see their baby pictures, they sigh with envy with I talk about my weekend plans.

So the answer is...probably. But not within the next 3-5 years. And yes, I know I'll be pushing things a bit if I wait until my mid-late 30s to start trying to get pregnant. I've read all the stats. I am making an informed choice because I love my job, and I value my freedom and independence. I don't want to give those things up just yet. Maybe i never will.

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Is it because your a woman that I'm telling you that you are failing at your teleological purpose? Of course! Men can't have our own children and women can no longer sign a contact to trade their children to is in return for our labor. Now you just use the government to steal our labor. You benefit from this right now. No matter what. Even the women that don't want to have no choice.

I have so many women friends who are fucking miserable at age 32, 33, 40, who have either waited too long to have kids and now it ain't happening or they've fucked up their own reproductive system by riding the carousel for too long. Hey I even know one woman who has hep C from her only one night stand. But the guy was so hot, right?

Somewhere there is a man whose dream is to have a family and you deny him that. But this isn't just any man. This is the other half of your coin. You deny yourself true happiness to chase someone else's dreams, some feminist high T lesbians dreams, force fed to you since you were a child. To support our sick american culture of consumption and corporate slavery. You hurt yourself. Your children's souls are waiting for you. They're waiting for you right now.

I'm sorry I'm so angry. I just hate this entire sick culture. I can't stand it. All I want to do sometimes is burn it all down.

I hope you can find the yin to your yang and become whole. And bring your children's souls into physical bodies where you can work hard to give them every privilege in the world. And work hard to teach them to discard their entitlement that our society shoves down every "victims" throat.

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What you are witnessing in your cohort may reflect the TRP concept of The Wall, or it may just reflect the fact that growing older is not always a painless process

RP would say they are the same thing. That, for chicks, the 30-40 period of "wall approaching, then hitting" is the first stab of that growing older pain for the chicks. One they hadn't felt before, and it's a harsh introduction with a one-way deal. You can't wind back the clock.

I don't think anyone would argue that growing older doesn't involve change - change in your body, change in your life circumstances, change in your friendships. Where TRP gets it wrong, I think, is in their assumption that all of that change is for the worse.

Nah, all of the growing older stuff is not for the worse, lots of big benefits accrue. It's just for female sexual strategy it's all pretty much bad news.

The benefits are elsewhere, if you are a chick that wants a hubby and kids then it's all bad news 30-40. No need for hubby ? No need for kids ? Well.... It can be all sorts of things for those gals... But if kids and hubby are on the bucket list ? Hurry up.

Build your shelter from the storm.

Winter is coming !

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It's just for female sexual strategy it's all pretty much bad news.

I think this is an overly simplistic view. First of all, in terms of physical beauty there are much larger differences between women than within the same woman over time. A 20-year old model will almost certainly be more attractive than a 40-year old model, but that 40 year old model will still be more attractive than the vast majority of 20 year old women. So it's not so much how old you were, as how attractive you are to begin with. If you were gorgeous at 20 and you eat healthy and take good care of yourself, it's highly unlikely that you'll be a troll when you hit 40. Telling pretty girls "you'd better marry while you're young, because no man is going to want you when you hit 30!" is therefore disingenuous and self-serving.

Second, there is more to female sexual strategy then physical attractiveness. Which would you rather marry, a gorgeous 20 year-old girl with a terrible personality, no sense of humor, very little intelligence and no sense of loyalty, or a attractive 32 year old woman who is funny, kind, smart and dedicated? Are there guys who would pick the former? Sure. Will every single guy on the planet pick the former? Not in my experience. Personality, maturity, education, these are all things that can get better with time (although there is certainly no guarantee that they will).

If you look at sexual strategy within the same girl/woman over time, her ability to attract a man may get worse but it might also get better. If she was pretty before, but insecure, immature, emotionally unstable and unsure of herself, growing up a bit might do her some good. The same girl could be a much more attractive relationship prospect at 35 than she was at 25. Now, will ALL 35 year old women be better prospects than ALL 25 year olds? of course not. But all that really matters to a woman is her own prospects, so why does it matter?

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I think this is an overly simplistic view. First of all, in terms of physical beauty there are much larger differences between women than within the same woman over time. A 20-year old model will almost certainly be more attractive than a 40-year old model, but that 40 year old model will still be more attractive than the vast majority of 20 year old women.

But we deal in the aggregate. Let's imagine she's a 9. Still a 9 at 40 (although some RP guys will dispute that being possible).

Thing is, she's competing against the 39 yo 9's, the 38 you 9,s..... All the way down to the 25 yo 9's for her man.

Most men who could pull a 9 ? They take their sights off her, and they put them on the 30 yo 9 that's still well within their "accessible range". Then the 40 yo 9 says "where did all the good men go ?"

Fucking younger versions of you is the answer. Her contrition isn't really the 22 yo 6.... It's the 30 yo 9... And she's got the 40yo 9 bang to rights.

So it's not so much how old you were, as how attractive you are to begin with. If you were gorgeous at 20 and you eat healthy and take good care of yourself, it's highly unlikely that you'll be a troll when you hit 40. Telling pretty girls "you'd better marry while you're young, because no man is going to want you when you hit 30!" is therefore disingenuous and self-serving.

Some of that too... But her "competition" isn't "plain girls"... It's "all the other girls as hot as her trying to snag the same man she is".

At 25 the 9 has all the other 9's beat.... She can attract a male 9 from age 18-65 if she wants.

At 40 the 9 loses to all the other 9's... Maybe to a fair few younger 8's and 7's too.... She can't attract a male 9 anymore. He's distracted by the 30 yo 9 he can get, or the 25 yo 7.

The dating pool shrinks dramatically, quickly and irreversibly. Girls used to every man in the world being interested can't understand why the best guys have better options... And all she can attract is the low value guys now.

Second, there is more to female sexual strategy then physical attractiveness. Which would you rather marry, a gorgeous 20 year-old girl with a terrible personality, no sense of humor, very little intelligence and no sense of loyalty, or a attractive 32 year old woman who is funny, kind, smart and dedicated? Personality, maturity, education, these are all things that can get better with time (although there is certainly no guarantee that they will). Are there guys who would pick the former? Sure. Will every single guy on the planet pick the former? Not in my experience.

Absolutely. But you are assuming two things here. The first is that women's personality gets more attractive with age. RP would say this is actually rarely the case. That they get more entitled, and pick more selfish sexual strategies, as they age. So we'd say this ain't balancing out the ageing problem.

Second, well say that attractiveness overwhelms many other factors for men. We're wired differently to you. So any woman looking at the SMP and applying her personal feelings concerning personality to it is almost certainly massively overestimate the credit she is getting for this with guys. We really are quite simple creatures.

So, yeah, it's an effect ... If you're personality does improve... It does help you a little. But we'd just say it helps slow the decline as the attractiveness/youth issue overwhelms it easily.

If you look at sexual strategy within the same girl/woman over time, her ability to attract a man may get worse but it might also get better. If she was pretty before, but insecure, immature, emotionally unstable and unsure of herself, growing up a bit might do her some good

And if wishes were coins I'd have a Scrooge McDuck vault full of the fuckers. May work this way, for 1 in 10 girls. You talking to girls blind ? Assume she's one of the 9/10 that this is shitty advice for.

The same girl could be a much more attractive relationship prospect at 35 than she was at 25. Now, will ALL 35 year old women be better prospects than ALL 25 year olds? of course not. But all that really matters to a woman is her own prospects, so why does it matter?

Because we talk about strategy in the aggregate. About the strategy for most girls.

If you say, we'll.... I might be one of those 10% this doesn't apply to here..... And one of those other 10% there... And one of these other 10%... Well, you're claiming to be a 0.1% of the female population. You're only likely to be right 1 in 1000 times.

So we advise/chat as though you are one of the 999.

And yet, every girls says "I get what you are saying. But that applies to other girls, not me. I'm a special snowflake. I'm one of the 0.1% and so are my friends !"

And we say.... "Nigga, please. Stop kidding yourself snowflake"... But we're only right 999 times out of 1000. So, ha know what, maybe you just picked the right lottery numbers.

Good for you.

We just think that's a very unsafe assumption to make.

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The dating pool shrinks dramatically, quickly and irreversibly. Girls used to every man in the world being interested can't understand why the best guys have better options... And all she can attract is the low value guys now.

The dating pool shrinks dramatically for everyone. What you are describing applies just as much to men as to women.

TRPers drastically overestimate the extent to which women want to date much older men. That 9/10 40 year old guy is competing with 9/10 30 year old guys, and the 9/10 30 year old guy is going to do better with 25-30 year old women because when push comes to shove, those women prefer guys their own age.

To give an example, I have a friend who is single at 30. She's really pretty, and never has any trouble getting dates (your 9/10). She told me once that a guy lied about his age to get a date with her - he said he was 37 when he was really 41. He was very handsome - your 9/10 41 year old trying to score the 9/10 30 year old, like you describe - but she told me she wasn't going to go on a second date with him because he lied, and also because he was just 'too old for her.' Even 37 was pushing it for her. She can get 9/10 guys her own age, and those are the guys she prefers to date.

As people get older, the dating pool shrinks. Period. It doesn't matter if you are male or female. And the attractive folks will ALWAYS do better than the unattractive folks, regardless of gender.

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The dating pool shrinks dramatically for everyone. What you are describing applies just as much to men as to women.

Nah, that's the point. It doesn't, or at least not starting at 30.

Guys like to date down in age, girls like to date up. 30 yo males, or even 35 yo, are still in a target rich environment due to this.

Girls like to date up, and at 30... Those up cohorts are cleane out of good guys. They all been snagged. At 35 it's worse. And they can't date down... They don't really want to and the guys below them don't want to date up.

So the shrinking females get at 30-40 never really happens that way for guys due to the different dynamics. Our "wall" happens for different reasons in the 40-50 range.

Your example ? She's 30. She ain't seen her SMP change yet. Whatsmore... 11 years ?... To big a gap for anyone but chad. 4-6 years is the sweet spot. Most girls happy in that range. Most 28 yo more interested in 32 guy than 24 guy.... Most guys interested in miss 24 in same scenario... Different preferences create a different SMP.

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All the good guys aren't gone when you hit 30. Plenty of men are single in their 30s for the same reasons women are single in their 30s - they spent their 20s focusing on their education or building their careers. They were in an LTR/marriage that didn't work out and now they're back on the market. Despite what you think, it's not that hard, IMO, for a 32 year old woman to find a 35 year old man, if she wants to date up. If she's pretty, it's not hard for her to find a 28 year old man, if that's what she wants. this might be different depending on where you live, however, and what community you belong to. My field requires many years of education, so it's not at all uncommon to find great single people in their 30s, male and female. From what I see in my peers or those a little older, the men and the women seem to do equally well on the dating market.

I can't speak much about the dynamics in 40-60 year old single people because the only ones I know are my parents, but my mom was single in her 50s and got snagged up right quick by my stepdad (my mom is awesome :)) and my dad dates women his own age. He complains that women have all the power in the geriatric dating scene - I have no idea if that's true or not.

Anyway, you could be right. Perhaps I'll hit a wall in a couple of years and all of a sudden no one will want to date me. If that does happen, I'll let you know and you can say I told you so.

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To answer the wierd thing a little more.

Back when I was younger and full up in the game, I played the strong stoic alpha will kick your ass type. I am sure everyone knows the type. Now that I am 40, I cant really play the same game as before. Or a better way to put that is; that kinda game works a lot better when you are younger. Now that I am older I need to play a different game, the stoic older man who knows more than you. This is a much different game with different skills and abilities needed.

Playing this type of game has shown really to work better with a little older than top SMV young girls. I will also have to get back to you in 6 months after I work on my fitness a little more as well. I have let my fitness decline the last couple years. I age really well and look younger than my age but could get more play with a stronger exterior.

The game is pretty much the same, entry and exit criteria has changed dramatically however.

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I agree. I do wonder what we look like from the other side, though. We know we are not conceding points because they are poorly made, and inaccurate... But that looks like bullheaded obstinacy to them too.

I think both sides have high bars to clear in order to accept another's point, but I think blue pills ability to clear a bar is terribly low.

And you know what happens ? People listen to both sides talk and.... The number of purple/black flair's keeps on rising.

No one will step across the line, but the smart cookies straddle wherever they wish from their non-aligned flair's.

Is there no pool of the more intelligent femnisists or blooper central party hq we can access ? Get some real minds pulled in for the blue team. The fish on this barrel are getting mighty small and mighty sparse. We need more fish in the barrel. BOOM.

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Petticoats wasn't bad. But we may have scared her off. She started getting her mind changed !

I've knocked a blue to black flair, another to purple. It's a nice little rolling scorecard. I did witness one fuckwit on our side deconvert a red pill flaired woman to purple. Prick. Also got s couple of blue flair's, including a blue flair college male, to read book of Pook. Got the RP goggles on them good and proper.

So, it's not all sharpening the knife. If some of the brighter heathens see the light ? Bonus. I'm just having a barrel of fun shitlording it up too.

You see my wazzup/me tea/British empire mashup comment thread. I had an awesome laugh, particularly with beyond the light.

British Empire for the win !

http://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/37w2oc/why_do_red_pill_women_encourage_homemaking_for/crq9e1q

Follow the beyond the light thread at the bottom for the joke ending.

Follow Wazzup for the interesting historical ending.

EDIT: Damn your eyes auto bot ! Fixed.

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You're going to love this. My grandfather was Canadian. Had a Canadian wife. Came over in the war. Got my grandma pregnant. 7 kids. My mum has number 5. Everyone used to call him "tex" because of the accent. Alpha as fuck. Multiple affairs. Never met him properly, died when I was 2-3.

He was a supply sergeant in the war. Used to show the older grand kids the "war wound" on his leg. Fell off a motorcycle pissed in London one night. He did Europe, but not front line.

By other granddad did North Africa, armoured cars. Driver and wireless operator.

The imperial war museum kicks ass for military history. But the British museum is basically "the central treasury of the stuff we nicked from the world" Elgin marbles, Rosetta Stone, Sphinx beard, a million other priceless artefacts. All stolen. Also the reading room in the great library where Marx wrote das kapital.

Worth checking out if you come to see her home. If it's anywhere near London look me up. I'll take you to where they chopped anne boleyns head off if you want. Lol. Londons fucking awesome.

I'm working class, so no aristocratic connections. Great uncle was arrested during wwii as he was a commie party member, worked in aeroplane design. Special branch "had a word" back when Stalin was playing nice with hitter. He was asked to leave his job for a while. Then Stalin changed sides.... Welcome back comrade ! If you could just help us with this design we've been having problems with.... :)

So, dockers and working class. I'm the first gen to make it to uni. No Lt-Cmdrs. All NCO or below. Great-grandfather got wounded 3 times WWI (Gallipoli) private, 2 medals... Which I comsder a very poor wound to medal ratio ! Obviously was a lazy fucker.

Got any idea what English county you are looking at for your aristocratic ancestor ?

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My grandfather was at Monte Cassino. I've never been to the European battlefields. Lived where the blitz happened. Lots of family stories. East end was hit bad.

Its one of the big differences of view Americans and Europeans have on WWII. For us it happened here. Our civilians were right in the line of fire. My nan had to run from bombs. Saw commercial road strafed in broad daylight. I think a lot of North Americas attitude to war is that the women and civilians haven't seen it first hand like Europe did.

I worry for us Europeans now those generations are dying out, we still have the stories.... But in another generation or so not even that.

Then shooting those other fuckers who are really getting on my tits is going to start looking attractive again. We're all crammed in over here. All speaking different languages. God help us the next time we get a good set of fuckwits.

A lot of the guys are joking about Germany having to take Greece to get paid back :) we'll have to stop that from happening. You hear that Krauts ? No-one likes a 3-0 scoreline, jog on.

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Can you not be elevated to super mod or something? I think I already said it, but I do really like you. You know what is going on in general that is. Back to the subject you are correct here. This is what most likely will happen. Greece isn't much of a producer anyway. Especially when you compare it to a tiny country like the Netherlands, so it isn't exactly in their best interest to leave the Eurozone. I really doubt that they would do that anyway. I am sure that they know that as well. Honestly the only real reason Greece and Italy are part of the Eurozone is because of their vast wealth of history. The only difference that Italy covers 16% of it compared to the 2% of Greece. Don't forget this though the 2% is still going to hurt the Eurozone hard, but nowhere near the magnitude that it will hit Greece if they decided to go their own way.

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Why do you think it leveled the playing field at all? Due to affirmative action, men need higher scores to succeed. Due to scholarships and shit, men need more money to get educated. Due to legislation, men who are being abused will get arrested if they call the police and their abusive partner will not. Despite being nearly exempt from violence, women get to enjoy nearly all the benefits while simultaneously mocking anyone who tries to get them for men and closing men's shelters. And somehow, blocking paternity testing is leveling the playing field? Was it leveling the playing field when we dump shit loads of money into female birth control and won't fund the male equivalent which has already been successful in india?

Jesus, I could write an essay but what you're saying here is so mind bogglingly stupid that it's not even funny anymore.

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Not at all. Check any tech school. Their applicant/acceptance ratio is always ridiculous. Same shit applies within any engineering or otherwise male dominated department. Male applicants need to be stupidly stronger, plus they don't get the perks like prime internship opps or female only courses, which tend to be easier. In fact, women wanting to enter STEM academia are even preferred over equally qualified males 2:1 according to a recent Cornell study.

Source for DV.

Men and violence vs women and violence.

Feminism and paternity testing. Some countries such as france have had feminists keep it banned and ones in the UK are trying. In France they actually argued that since 1/25 men is unknowingly raising another's child, there'd just be too much anger if paternity testing was allowed.

Male birth control.

Feminism hurts men. If you don't hate men then you'll stop identifying as a feminist. Men are behind women in every single way in which you might say a black is behind a white, and it's not clear that blacks are seeing a worse degree of harm than men see relative to women, although it takes qualitative discussion to see how.

Meanwhile, feminists keep the narrative on that evil old patriarchy.

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Two major things. First, I do have some core differences from TRP. I do not believe in "The Wall". I do not believe the only solution to being sexually successful is looking like Hugh Jackman in Wolverine, and I do not believe TRP is essentially a religion through which to view the world. I see it as a tool that can be used to explain social dynamics, not interpret history (as I've seen done) not interpret politics (as I've seen done) and not as an excuse to shit on the less fortunate whether it be looks, money, social skills etc.

I agree with TRP as far as how they've uncovered social dynamics to function, and the nature of women, but some TRP beliefs do go to extremes, which are misrepresentations of reality. I was once a well known TRP'er when I was much angrier at women. I'm still angry with women but not enough anymore that I'm willing to be intellectually dishonest.

People were able to change my opinion over time.

[–]wazzup987Blue pill, you can beat me black & blue for it later[S,🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]_ArchitectofThought_I hate a great many things, but I suffer them all the same0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Two major things. First, I do have some core differences from TRP. I do not believe in "The Wall". I do not believe the only solution to being sexually successful is looking like Hugh Jackman in Wolverine, and I do not believe TRP is essentially a religion through which to view the world. I see it as a tool that can be used to explain social dynamics, not interpret history (as I've seen done) not interpret politics (as I've seen done) and not as an excuse to shit on the less fortunate whether it be looks, money, social skills etc.

I agree with TRP as far as how they've uncovered social dynamics to function, and the nature of women, but some TRP beliefs do go to extremes, which are misrepresentations of reality. I was once a well known TRP'er when I was much angrier at women. I'm still angry with women but not enough anymore that I'm willing to be intellectually dishonest.

People were able to change my opinion over time.

[–]VerticalSmileyCyrus -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Title	Ask us any thing
Author	wazzup987
Upvotes	8
Comments	518
Date	May 29, 2015 3:00 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/37q6fp/ask_us_any_thing/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/ask-us-any-thing.281896 https://theredarchive.com/post/281896

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