After several discussions IRL about men/women relationships I heard too many time the sentence "it's not the same"

Let me quote some examples :

  • As a short dude I hear often "I need a tall guy to feel protected and feminine", when saying back "I need a 20 yo beauty to feel attracted and feel manly" I hear "it's not the same". From my pov it's the same : something outside one's control which affect SMV

  • On here, TRPers claim "men cheating is not the same", for me it's the same, when you cheat you hurt your partner I don't understand how it can be different. I am personnaly disgust with cheating

  • I hear often women say "I need the men to approach me", when I say that men do not have some superpower which makes them less sensible to rejection I hear "it's not the same", for me it's the same, men have generaly just no choice but approach

  • I heard often men say "my gf can't talk to other men", when I say "but you do talk with women right?" I hear " it's not the same", for me it's the same, if a man can talk to a woman without puting his dick inside her, there is no reason a woman couldn't do it.

I would like to have some of your imputs about couple things :

  • Do we have some consensus about good analogy on here ?

  • Do you have other "it's not the same" examples ?

  • Do you have real "it's not the same" examples ?

let's discuss !