Which traits would you prefer?

Jammerly1 · 2018-07-22T17:41:37+00:00

Integrity, High Work Ethic, Self Awareness, Intellect, Discipline, Courage, Sex Appeal

PennnyLame · 2018-07-22T23:30:39+00:00

Patience, generosity, woke in the streets will choke you in the sheets.

EsauTheRed · 2018-07-22T18:00:57+00:00

Submissive, pretty face, hard to choose between low body fat and introverted

hiso_hiso · 2018-07-22T17:43:24+00:00

for husband: introverted, optimistic, pretty face. there are more on that list that would be desirable, of course, but out of those three those are the most important to me.

goatismycopilot · 2018-07-22T19:12:44+00:00

Golden Retriever personality, common ground with me through a combination of upbringing and interests, fiscally responsible which does not mean rich it means has job, paying bills does not have a mountain of debt.

songofmelancholy · 2018-07-22T19:42:08+00:00

extroverted. dominant. college degree.

Yu4nghydr4 · 2018-07-22T17:35:04+00:00

Virtuous, feminine, graceful, inquisitive, warm

Oh from your list... umm submissive

Uncommon_Sense_12345 · 2018-07-22T17:36:31+00:00

For a husband, to be a man of his word, compassion and NT Chistian morality.

Hdhdjjduufjndjidjdfj · 2018-07-22T17:51:04+00:00

For husband: Trustworthy, self-control, loving

Salty-Bastard · 2018-07-22T18:09:19+00:00

Introverted, optimistic, low body fat, pretty face (my version).

Orange_Paisley · 2018-07-22T18:16:38+00:00

Intelligence. Compatible sense of humor. Compatible values. I would also add sense of responsibility and sense of adventure. I don’t care that much about looks as long as he has a handle on hygiene and a respectable grasp on fashion sense.

RockinSocksII · 2018-07-22T18:17:32+00:00

For a husband, optimistic, pretty face, and gregarious, I guess?

LivelyChartreuse · 2018-07-22T20:17:09+00:00

Handsome, intelligent (college degree not required but certainly doesn't hurt), assertive

Five_Decades · 2018-07-22T22:35:33+00:00

Extroverted/introverted, Optimistic, Gregarious, Submissive (or dominant), Low body fat/muscular, Pretty face, High earning career, College degree

College degree
Optimistic
High earning career

Although submissive sounds nice, its not as important as the other 3.

KikiYuyu · 2018-07-23T05:53:07+00:00

Empathetic, honest, no anger problems, has things they're really passionate about... lots of fluffy positive traits like that. Physical appearance traits rank at the very bottom of the list.

exit_sandman · 2018-07-23T14:19:07+00:00

From your list: Pretty face, optimistic, gregarious.

Since so many people pick "introvert" - that's not something I would prefer, introverts can be tough nuts to crack. Extroverts on the other hand oftentimes is code for "vain attention whore", and that I wouldn't want either. So I pick gregarious.

RedPillJane · 2018-07-28T21:25:20+00:00

For my husband (these things describe my fiance :) )

Assertive, Intelligent. Strong.

I feel like he brings things to the table that I do not, and vice versa! which makes our partnership work so well.

(I don't consider myself unintelligent but he has an intellect that far surpasses my own.)

Snowiceolated · 2018-07-22T18:04:44+00:00

You already know what we're going to pick -

Submissive, Low body fat, Pretty face

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SkookumTree · 2018-07-22T18:35:40+00:00

Low body fat/muscular, optimistic. It's a toss-up between high earning career and college degree.

ATastefulNude · 2018-07-22T18:40:45+00:00

For a husband, introverted, optimistic, and college degree.

With the caveat that I'm only selecting "college degree" because intelligence isn't on this list. I'm fully aware that a college degree doesn't always indicate high intellect.

VAOTOMARNOCU · 2018-07-22T19:07:25+00:00

high earning career (assuming she doesn't become less attracted to me, though this would certainly happen), pretty face, low body fat

Willow-girl · 2018-07-22T19:08:06+00:00

Intelligence and integrity didn't make the list?

blackedoutfast · 2018-07-22T19:54:01+00:00

low body fat. not like an anorexic chick or female body builder or anything, as long as she is fairly fit it's cool. i really don't care that much, but i feel like it's important to specify because there are sooo many gross fat chicks our there.

extroversion/adventurousness/willing to step outside their comfort zone. she doesn't need to be the social butterfly with 10,000 friends who loves talking to strangers but i've dated "introverted" girls who mostly just wanted to stay at home and would have social anxiety panic attacks in crowded places. i'm constantly going to loud crowded clubs, concerts/festivals, traveling, etc. so that just doesn't work for me.

not one of the traits you listed but being touchy-feely and enjoying physical contact is very important. i really get along well with girls who show their affection through physical touch because i'm the same way. i like being the annoying couple who are always doing PDA and making out and being handsy with each other in front of everyone else lol

wtknight · 2018-07-22T20:16:18+00:00

Introverted, low body fat, pretty face.

Freethetreees · 2018-07-22T20:45:35+00:00

Handsome, intelligent, passionate, dominant

telytuby · 2018-07-23T00:24:43+00:00

Introverted, college degree, pretty face - I’m lazy as fuck and get really bored unless we can talk about “deeper” topics like religion, politics science etc.

321PK · 2018-07-23T00:55:14+00:00

Rich, intelligent, dark, muscular, ethical, and interesting.

DaphneDK42 · 2018-07-23T01:34:38+00:00

Of the listed: pretty face, low body fat, optimistic.

IncomeByEtnicity · 2018-07-23T07:44:12+00:00

Non Divorced Parents.
Active, Healthy lifestyle and diet. (irrespective of body type)
Good with money (not to spendy).

killallthenarcs · 2018-07-23T08:39:05+00:00

similar moral values, kindness (the real deal, not just doing kind things to make a display so he can be seen as kind), persistence

Of your list... which really are entirely peripheral to my actual preferences... I guess I'd like an introverted optimistic man with low body fat.

Workaholico · 2018-07-23T10:26:34+00:00

For women: introvert, low body fat, pretty face.

SlashCo80 · 2018-07-23T11:25:33+00:00

If we're only allowed three: Smart, optimistic, pretty face. If we could add a few more: Decent body (doesn't need to be an athlete/supermodel, just someone who takes care of herself), kind, funny, resourceful, and with a personality that matches mine. Nothing worse than being in a relationship with someone and realizing you're very different people after all.

sketch162000 · 2018-07-23T11:40:15+00:00

Dominant, pretty, smart

nomansweb · 2018-07-23T14:32:56+00:00

Hmmm... can't decide which one is the least worst option...

pretty face, college degree and not fat but possibly introverted to an annoying degree

or

pretty face, college degree and extroverted but possibly fat

OUcommawinkyface · 2018-07-23T17:00:58+00:00

For a man: Sweet (cuddly, friendly), facially attractive, fully employed (a flat around here costs like 75% of minimum wage).

Nodoxxintoxin · 2018-08-01T11:28:12+00:00

Kind, funny, handsome and horny.

edit since that’s 4 for all the purists.....happy , handsome and horny

TallSwaggOVO · 2018-07-24T03:53:50+00:00

From your list, if we could only pick 3: Submissive, Introvert (introvert that isn’t a total shell) , Pretty face.

Additional (list or not): Loyal, optimistic, trustworthy and whatever other good qualities someone can think of.

Title	Which traits would you prefer?
Author	BearSaint
Upvotes	3
Comments	87
Date	July 22, 2018 5:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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