Too many incels overtaking the forum ?

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-25T16:30:13+00:00

The funniest thing is that they say seduction is a myth in a seduction sub and mods allow it.

productive_guy123 · 2022-06-25T16:14:13+00:00

Yea this sub used to be a gold mine. Unfortunate how it’s turned

Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-06-25T16:39:18+00:00

It’s Reddit. What do you expect?

Iganno · 2022-06-25T19:44:39+00:00

If you aren’t actually putting the work in when it comes to trying to seduce women or get a gf, don’t just fall back on false statements like “women only want handsome men and game doesn’t matter” because that’s you quitting on yourself after not getting the result you want exactly when you want it. Also there are plenty of people on r/seduction legitimately looking for advice so don’t be that person.

kathruins · 2022-06-25T17:14:24+00:00

I'm here trying to fight those sentiments and help those folks, but it's getting worse. guess that's just what happens in forums like these. it's a shame. this could be a helpful place.

buddhistbulgyo · 2022-06-25T17:54:05+00:00

"Seduction doesn't work. I can't get laid because I am not woke enough to treat a woman with respect. Be a sexless politically brainwashed incel like me." - Notarussianbot69420

"Makes sense. I'll allow it." - mods

nbh1995 · 2022-06-25T16:16:44+00:00

I doubt a lot of people here think that changing their behaviour won't impact their lives in any positive way shape or form but I do think that people pre select partners based on looks most of the time and that is a very depressing realization as an average man.

froze_gold · 2022-06-25T17:14:23+00:00

Happens in these subs. The state of asktrp before it's quarantine was rough too

7Birdies · 2022-06-25T18:14:21+00:00

Sad :(

yuckyuck13 · 2022-06-25T18:48:15+00:00

I was about to make a similar non specific ideology post. No one is perfect but people need to learn to accept to become better.

StubbornBr1t · 2022-06-25T20:55:42+00:00

Working on yourself is the ultimate aim. When I graduated I was unemployed and all my friends moved away. I took action to get to the gym, work on new skills and get a decent career started. I've since gained 14 pounds of muscle, landed a management position in an engineering firm and speak to more beautiful women than I ever imagined.

Yes I still need to improve with women absolutely but it is something that I know is problem. And knowing the problem is over half the battle.

Brothers, the only person who can determine your destiny is yourselves.

2022-06-25T21:49:25+00:00

Thank you for calling this out

great_account · 2022-06-25T19:23:18+00:00

There are still occasionally good posts, but most of them are super whiny. Frankly, it's good for all the guys who figured it out. Keep the rest of the dudes forever whining while the rest of us keep slaying.

Blackmagician · 2022-06-25T18:21:20+00:00

It’s both too many incels and too many women giving bad advice. The incels at least you can hope to steer away from their problematic thoughts, better them coming here and getting a reality check than them congregating with other incels.

Big_P4U · 2022-06-25T18:22:55+00:00

It is sad, a lot of those people would rather blame everyone for their perceived problems rather than accept they whatever they have going on is fairly adjustable.

_DTRK_ · 2022-06-25T20:23:53+00:00

I am sure there is a reason for that phenomenon. More and more incels emerge, and they have more incel energy than past years.

Shouldn’t that ring any bells? Something is causing this. Something in our society. That’s where anyone in their right mind should focus.

Hate the sin, not the sinner.

SadBox4529 · 2022-06-25T19:14:48+00:00

I got attacked by a bunch of Incels for smashing a girl who doesn’t date short guys. There are a lot of weirdos here.

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-25T16:53:19+00:00

Self defeating negativity that doesn’t take accountability for the things you can control is incel trolling.

Recognizing the factors that women actually go for and devising ways to be successful with what you’ve got is not incel trolling imo. “Women do x with tall handsome guys but have opposite expectations for men they aren’t attracted to” is simply an observation of one reality of dating. As long as that turns into a productive discussion about the factors you can control and doesn’t turn into women hating I don’t see any problem with it.

Agreed I don’t really like seeing any bashing of opposite sexes because it’s completely unproductive and passes the buck as you say.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-06-25T18:09:47+00:00

Well I think it’s because online dating has rly exposed that women don’t mess with avg guys.

Which makes sense, because avg guy is boring.

Which then results in a lot of bitter jaded guys here.

Mcfusion31 · 2022-06-25T18:13:10+00:00

I follow this sub because 1. It’s nice hearing men get laid because that’s kind of what this subreddit is all about 2. Reading that cold approach actually works for some guys 3. The support group is all about. I hate how black pill narrative is all about looks that’s online dating which majority of this sub isn’t about it’s about warm approaching and cold approaching and being a better seducer.

simplyaguyonline · 2022-06-25T20:51:37+00:00

I believe times are harder than ever for straight men. So it makes sense that a larger amount of these individuals are turning toxic. We need to be supportive and honest with them. I really wish we had local communities we could become engaged with. I feel like they are dying for a place they can belong and grow and I am pretty sure it's not going to happen very successfully online..

Good luck out there gentleman. I support yall. Keep up the good fight and respect yourself.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-06-25T19:18:35+00:00

Also an influx women coming in giving nice guy advice

carlos1973633826 · 2022-06-25T16:09:11+00:00

What do you expect from a anonymous board? Groundbreaking advice on how to pickup women?

Take your own advice and direct your energy to talking to real women instead of spending all day trying to make a hot post.

DeJuanBallard · 2022-06-25T20:10:44+00:00

You are a weak person, you have no room to shit on anyone else.

BostonWeedParty · 2022-06-25T16:51:22+00:00

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TooMuchJibberish · 2022-06-25T19:29:37+00:00

Can we not advocate for self improvement but also recognize that good looking people have an advantage in dating as well?

Title	Too many incels overtaking the forum ?
Author	yo_saturnalia
Upvotes	221
Comments	128
Date	June 25, 2022 3:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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