Such on point advices are what we need!

GeorgeSamy69 · 2020-07-20T10:08:20+00:00

What i know from my experience in romance is that good relationships (short or long) are very often simple in the beginning. Every time i tried to force things, to "hard-flirt" with a girl it was a fail or if i succeeded it was not great as i expected it.

This sentence over there is quite a good advice indeed, simple connexion are the best. If you like someone and the one likes you back it will become an evidence. Cheers folks.!

kamikazes9x · 2020-07-20T05:48:09+00:00

Advice from Alexander at RSD : A girl attraction to you is like a schrodinger’s cat. It both exist and doesn’t at the same time. They don’t really know if they like you or not. That what test are for.

Twobithatter · 2020-07-20T06:57:26+00:00

I’ve met some people so socially retarded that the chick could be blowing them and they would still be posting.

Principatus · 2020-07-20T09:09:41+00:00

In my opinion, you should always assume that they want you bad, until proven otherwise. It gives you the cocky vibe you need, it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy

Rohan98k · 2020-07-20T09:35:19+00:00

Not accurate , most of the time women themselves don't know if they like someone or not. They test the guy to see if he's actually what he claims he is. Men on the other hand atleast the vast majority are never able to make the first move

oikmule · 2020-07-20T12:41:40+00:00

More like if they ABSOLUTELY DON’T like you, you’ll know and if they do like you, you’ll either be certain or confused depending on how good you are at reading people and how explicitly they express themselves.

aiquoc · 2020-07-20T07:14:36+00:00

I think the opposite is more true

So_Forlorn · 2020-07-20T11:22:08+00:00

I got rejected by a girl 2 days ago. I kept feeling confused the whole time about whether she liked me or not. I couldn't read her signals and I focused too much on the ones that I thought were indicators of interest. Turns out I was wrong but eh- I tried and got my answer so now I can move on. Thank god.

PappaNii · 2020-07-20T09:37:29+00:00

https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw

This video might also be of help to some of you. Helped me a lot

IFlip92 · 2020-07-20T05:34:27+00:00

Ehhh, grain of salt. I really liked my ex but for some reason she was confused no matter how much I tried to tell her how much I like her.

raimondi1337 · 2020-07-20T09:50:03+00:00

Pretty shit advice, like saying "just be yourself". If you're not well adjusted it's just plain invalid.

frogpeoplearecoming · 2020-07-20T10:56:15+00:00

No

This is far too simplistic.

You will be confused(and not caring) until you know they like you.

Women are not like men. Especially high value women will take some time for them to really like you. You can have sex with them. But taking initiative/really liking you is a different story.

This is the type of advice that makes guys give up to fast. I have been there. There can be tons of reasons why a girl isn't sold on you. That doesn't mean you won't have sex or she won't like you in the future.

This post is more suited for the dating sub. People complaining they had 4 dates with someone and it doesn't go anywhere.

andreycruz16 · 2020-07-20T09:26:45+00:00

Any other signs that she like me?

kumeno · 2020-07-20T14:58:40+00:00

I’m just going to pretend I didn’t see that lol

KingOfTheLostBoyz · 2020-07-20T11:33:54+00:00

Not necessarily. There was one chick who sucked my dick but didn’t like me. After COVID-19 hit and we got kicked out of our dorms, and we went back to our respective states, her texting became VERY different from before and she just didn’t flirt the same way / ever respond in a timely manner.

StarlightCrystal · 2020-07-20T15:13:14+00:00

As a woman, I think this advice applies to women dating men. I was given this advice 17 years ago and met my soulmate. He didn’t play games, he was direct and asked me over to hang out often. Introduced me to all his friends, held my hand in public. He answered my calls and never rushed me off the phone. And because I was given this advice before meeting this guy, I didn’t play games either and was direct as well.

Before that I remember certain guys not taking my calls or calling me back a couple days later. Canceling plans last minute, excuses for why we couldn’t hang out, no public displays of affection, only calling me late at night to come over, etc.

I truly think men are more simplistic in their approach. They WILL let you know they like you by their actions.

Women on the other hand... sorry to say but we confuse ourselves sometimes if we like someone or not so I have no advice there, sorry :(

I just have to say this: if you feel used, or like it’s always YOU compromising or you going out of your way to see them at THEIR convenience - they’re probably not that into you.

A person that likes you WILL make room for you in their life.

_-__-__-__-__-_-_-__ · 2020-07-20T10:31:27+00:00

I’ve only ever been confused for 35 years :(

Atriev · 2020-07-20T22:01:21+00:00

You need game to get a girl that already likes you? Game is meant to get girls that are on the fence.

BreakTheWallsDown95 · 2020-07-20T23:29:54+00:00

The problem isn't whether they like you or not, the problem is whether you let her mixed signals actively ruin your self-esteem or day.

In the words of CM Punk, "Some of you need to stop listening to criticism from people you wouldn’t ask advice from."

Jarin01 · 2020-07-21T05:36:07+00:00

This. If a girl attraction level is high enough, you will know and she will make the seduction easy. You just have to be careful to not trigger her slut shields. If her attraction level is too low she is going to making things very difficult. If you are not sure, it's too low.

lowfrec · 2020-07-20T10:46:18+00:00

This isn't really accurate though.

autisticspymaster1 · 2020-07-20T13:56:30+00:00

Sometimes our minds can play games with us though. Especially if we grew up with insecurities.

clawjelly · 2020-07-20T14:38:22+00:00

Well, i've been told a lot of times already "Why didn't you do something, she was obviously into you!" So yea, can't say that's my experience.

Cyphex555 · 2020-07-20T16:31:03+00:00

Sure in a theoretical world. Girls do give "the shit tests" and on top of that all those little games.

reverse269 · 2020-07-20T17:52:05+00:00

Except I had times when I didn't know at all or was confused and they really liked me. I'm so dense

Westward_Nothing · 2020-07-20T18:29:30+00:00

Great... as a generally attractive woman, I am always confused about whether guys like me or not! I wish that anyone was that simple around me. I spent 6 years crushing on the guy I had the most amazing relationship with, and... I always feel like a predator.

Peperoniboi · 2020-07-20T19:05:26+00:00

This is incorrect. Love is a skill. Learn it and find somebody who also learned it.

misterandosan · 2020-07-20T19:08:19+00:00

nah, people are clueless

Beateam100 · 2020-07-20T22:50:54+00:00

Not to be a dick the quality of post of this subs keeps going down by the day. Next time, I come over I’ll read, “Be yourself.”

girlwhocooks · 2020-07-20T22:58:24+00:00

Does this also apply to men? Like I’m seeing this guy for about 2 months now and I’m confused whether he likes me or not. Lol I guess what I mean by like is if he likes me enough to build a life with or we’re just playing here. Or is it too early to tell right now?

2020-07-21T00:00:15+00:00

This is fucking retarded. Literally the stupidest shit I've ever read.

SaintLogic · 2020-07-21T00:11:02+00:00

Explains why I'm always confused.

girlwhocooks · 2020-07-21T04:22:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I don’t think I’m an anxious person. Just want to know where I stand or where his head is at. And he is giving me mixed signals. When we’re together he’s so amazing and I think he really likes me and it could potentially be something long term but when we’re apart he barely texts me (he might just be busy)

I think you might be right. I think this guy is not sure what he wants. I have not had the exclusive talk with him coz I think maybe it might be too soon? But I think I will do that and just be honest about my thoughts and feelings. That way he’ll be able to tell me his thoughts and feelings as well then I can gauge if this is what I really want and if it is worth investing my time into or not. Lol

justadudenameddave · 2020-07-20T09:16:06+00:00

*cries in constant confusion

hughonvicodin · 2020-07-20T10:13:08+00:00

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inaminadicka · 2020-07-20T11:29:35+00:00

What if i know they dont like me?

LakshayCORMAC · 2020-07-20T13:05:07+00:00

WillhamBerry · 2020-07-21T00:31:53+00:00

Wow! Now I know no one likes me because I’m always confused

MemesManufacturer · 2020-07-21T03:05:09+00:00

I don’t think this is true at all. People will put a lot of effort to hide feelings

tacticalassassin · 2020-07-21T04:31:39+00:00

So that explains why I’m confused all the time

TonyDCoaching · 2020-07-21T07:30:14+00:00

Well, that's some really dumb advice.

I've been teaching dating, pickup, whatever you call it, for over a decade. If you're waiting for the women to let you know they like you, well, you just don't have game son.

Sometimes it takes a little time for feelings to develop. She can think you're a pig one minute, and be shoving her tongue down your throat the next.

Think of that scene from Empire Strikes Back. Leia wants nothing to do with the scruffy nerfherder, and the next thing you know, they're kissing.

When you're good at this stuff, all the rules get tossed out the window. And every guy who's good with women knows this rule: Never take dating advice from a woman. Unless she's Kezia Noble, or a trained pickup coach.

Such rubbish. What's with all the upvotes? What a circle jerk this forum has become.

philo_soph1a · 2020-07-20T11:10:16+00:00

Very direct and clear to understand this is. Just these two simple rules you keep in mind and you are done.

cmchunk · 2020-07-20T19:27:08+00:00

Why am I always confused?

Hauuuuuuu · 2020-07-20T20:12:10+00:00

Explains why im confused a lot

Rooster1981 · 2020-07-20T22:41:36+00:00

Garbage advice

as0909 · 2020-07-21T03:50:11+00:00

now i look back and realize how true this is

Myz1988 · 2020-07-20T10:48:29+00:00

It’s true and will save you a lot of frustration and heartache.

iamsad007 · 2020-07-20T11:49:07+00:00

That explains a lot

pale_28 · 2020-07-20T12:09:35+00:00

visible confusion

redaccnt · 2020-07-20T15:04:59+00:00

What if I know and at the same time I’m confused?

nouseforaname888 · 2020-07-20T15:08:46+00:00

So true. If they like you, they will talk to you nonstop and share with you everything about their personal life and tease you.

15458434 · 2020-07-20T16:51:31+00:00

Mixed signals are the message.

hob814 · 2020-07-20T19:10:22+00:00

Your totally correct i love this line when i read it. It answered so many questions, although im still new to all of this but this book was fantastic and not only showed me the road but my mistakes and how to be the man i want to be. Hope it does the same to everyone and they appreciate its value, its totally priceless.

AtelierEdge · 2020-07-21T02:56:20+00:00

It's not really that complicated. If they like you, they will want to spent time with you and won't be making excuses to avoid you.

Title	Such on point advices are what we need!
Author	hughonvicodin
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Date	July 20, 2020 5:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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