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| 39 | Be careful when you share your addresses, personal informationUnfortunately Google is a thing and property records are public where I live. That's probably a tick on the side of "pros" of renting but always be vigilant, ladies. I have an extremely unique name and for that reason I'm very careful about even spelling my name out to men, e.g. "Your name is...what? How do you spell that?" First name and a computer is all they would need to find me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 40 | Positive for chlamydia- the audacityProbably not common enough. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 04:57 PM |
| 261 | Positive for chlamydia- the audacityWhen I was walking to class in college a panhandler on the street asked me for spare change. When I told him I didn't have any, he asked me if I'd go to dinner with him. Wonder if he would have been a 50/50 guy or if I'd have been expected to foot that bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:43 AM |
| 32 | The most hellish DM convo showcasing the classic hits: grammatical errors and sociopathy!I don't block a man that knows where I live AND makes sure to remind me of that fact. If he telegraphs in any way that he is coming over, I want to be prepared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:54 PM |
| 34 | Just noYou just saved yourself a week's worth of nightmares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 03:31 PM |
| 30 | Just no☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 22 | A joke eh?Only thing worse is "you females". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Just a reminder that old age doesn’t guarantee male decency. He could be her grandfather!I didn't know that thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 188 | Just a reminder that old age doesn’t guarantee male decency. He could be her grandfather!What a horrible day to be literate. Edit: I got a "reddit cares" message Looool yeah I probably do need therapy now after reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 27 | Imagine being this uselessHe couldn't find the shallots. For the uninitiated: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hdtxf8/thought_this_belonged_here/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:01 PM |
| 22 | Two OLD apps have coffee dates as part of their ad... admitting they're trash. Made me laugh.Agreed! I hear Janet's voice in my head every time I hear someone refer to a woman as a girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 96 | Two OLD apps have coffee dates as part of their ad... admitting they're trash. Made me laugh.As Janet flatly says in The Good Place: "Not a girl." We are women, not girls. There's a special place in prison for males who want a girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 02:52 PM |
| 58 | The occupation of men on OLDIn my neck of the woods they're always "entrepreneurs" who went to the "School of Hard Knocks". So...you had a shitty life up to this point and are currently unemployed. Where do I sign up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 52 | I thought they always said cat ladies were gonna die alone.I always enjoy your insightful comments and posts. Happy birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 06:21 PM |
| 88 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪This. Textbook example of weaponized incompetence. When she made him put in even the least amount effort to get her a gift he figured he'd teach her a lesson by getting her something so terrible she'd never leave it up to him to figure it out ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:06 AM |
| 29 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”We sure wouldn't need to be armed with hatpins either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 108 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”Not for nothin but that Suffragette Bar looks delightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 206 | The reality of being a woman today - and the fear of sexual and physical abuse that comes with it - is something that most men will never have to experienceWhy were you out there in the first place? Yeah I mean why did you go to jail in the first place if you didn't want to get raped? You must have known that would happen, especially showering naked like that around other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:38 PM |
| 513 | The reality of being a woman today - and the fear of sexual and physical abuse that comes with it - is something that most men will never have to experienceHey guy, not all prisoners! What are you worried about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 54 | How to piss off men (this had me rolling)My favorite related insult is "you look like you couldn't fight your way out of a paper sack". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 35 | This holiday season I urge you to take trip down the girls toy aisle.I recently volunteered to provide a gift for an underprivileged 9-13 yr old girl. I have a career in STEM and I also like to smell amazing so I got her a robotics kit AND a gift set from Bath and Body Works. I just hope the organization doesn't redistribute the kit to a boy like, "Oh this isn't for girls". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:09 AM |
| 87 | I ended a situation before it even started because he wanted me to change into someone else.This is so gross. Any male who suggests you behave within certain "ladylike" stereotypes just needs to "be a man" and go die in a war. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 26 | Automatic dealbreaker for me, but are men who use intentional misspellings lv/nv?They're just trying not to wear out their dick hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:26 AM |
| 62 | Dunning-Kruger.That grammar alone made my vagina shrink deeper inside itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:26 PM |
| 142 | The Media Hates Women: TV Title EditionAnd the smart women are frumpy and socially awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:54 PM |
| 9 | A reminder just in time for Christmas.I noticed that too. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Did FDS take control of the youtube comments? So refreshingAND they wear sleeves and their armpit hair isn't sticking out of them. Why would hers be any different? They act like she has Rapunzel armpit hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 206 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help."No but I'm only 17." Guy interprets this as her being fair game. What in fresh hell... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:18 PM |
| 48 | The Bar is in Hell ExpressionsThe bar is so low, it's a tavern in Hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 707 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?I hope when it's flaccid the tattoo looks more like "EW". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 33 | Dear Men: So you think you want a ‘strong, independent woman’I would be shocked if this wasn't posted before, but I hadn't seen it in my time here so I figured many others hadn't either. Worth a repost for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditNext they'll be saying that if he's a two pump chump it's even better cuz that's all the more time she can spend with her kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:30 PM |
| 6 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditBut it was her CHOICE to be crying. Her body her choice! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 195 | Hurt feelings on Instagram"NEVER BEEN HAPPIER!" he angrily proclaims on his checks. 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:30 PM |
| 17 | Every time I start to have 2nd thoughts about OLD, I find a post that reminds me that a large majority of the men on there are scumbag LVM & Queens can do better. I'm sure he will NEVER ask for sex and those wee blue pills he has are just "vitamins.'Don't forget Snail Smoothie Scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 10:20 PM |
| 19 | "How come you are still single?"This has been a recent topic lately. Check this and this for more answers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:55 AM |
| 149 | I am absolutely speechless. Tl;dr, if he can’t have sex with her after a surgery, she will not be allowed to use her cup/tampons. This is straight up abuse.No blow jobs? No food. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 31 | A cheating man 100% wrote this. By making these unpopular opinions popular and giving them a wide reach it makes women with a HEALTHY mindset doubt themselves and feel as if something is wrong with them for not wanting to be with a cheater. Do not fall for it.Men can't even keep one woman happy what makes them think this is feasible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:57 PM |
| 30 | “Why are you still single?” And other questions I hate answeringI just ask them why I shouldn't be? "Give me one valid reason for me to not be single." They can't ever supply any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 10:31 PM |
| 98 | Japanese artist Jasushi Takahashi made the biggest GPS drawing by crossing 7162 km in order to propose to his girlfriend.Oof good thing he didn't use Kanji. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:12 AM |
| 10 | When you are choosing a man you are also choosing a father for your daughter. Choose your husband wisely. Make sure to choose a father who isn't a pedophile and a rapist for your daughter.On today's episode of "What Are Women" we are...checks notes...apple trees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 37 | Update: reining in the subI suspect the lack of green flag stories are for one of two reasons (or both): Too many "Yeah but..." comments. "Yeah but you haven't vetted him for 20 years, you don't know." "Yeah but even LVM do this to appear HV." We know, it's not our first day on FDS. Let people enjoy experiences while their relationship unfolds, trusting that our sisters are going to continually vet. People sneaking in complaints about it on separate posts instead of providing the feedback on the post in question. "God I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 11:06 PM |
| 50 | Womem are "Gold diggers"Funny, most of the men I've encountered are looking for a "nurse with a purse". Not only do they expect to live off the salary and life savings I've worked my ass off for, they also expect me to take care of their every domestic need like they're disabled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:40 AM |
| 7 | Asking Women Why/How They’re “Still” Single Is A Shaming and Control Tactic in the Dating World...And In SocietyWhat people are really trying to say here is, "how dare you deny a man the ability to benefit from all these great qualities you have?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 100 | Asking Women Why/How They’re “Still” Single Is A Shaming and Control Tactic in the Dating World...And In SocietyI play Dumb Fox and ask them to clarify. "What do you mean? Why are you surprised that I'm single?" When they list all the reasons that I'm a great catch..."You're attractive, you have a great paying job, you're educated, you have lots of interests and hobbies, you own your own house"...etc etc...I say "well if I have all of the qualities that you just listed...please tell me...what on earth would I need a man for?" They never have an answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 38 | FDS perk #358961 - Seeing through their BS and manipulationI can hear him now. "She just wanted a free meal!" Yeah dude you wanted sex in exchange for a meal so...💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 99 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂Wow they really have nothing better to do. I mean they could use all that free time they apparently have to, oh I don't know, go to the gym, wash their ass, or learn a new skill but that's not for me to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 14 | Heath Ledger in “10 things I hate about you” is 🥵🥰That's one movie I can watch again and again and never get sick of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Will I ever be over Lee Jeno?Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 197 | Walk away!A man who can't understand his own feelings, much less express them, can't possibly be expected to understand yours. Walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:59 PM |
| 23 | "Remember when modesty was the golden rule?" -Do you remember when people actually condemned and punished people for sexualizing highschoolers? 🤢🤢 Btw, almost all of the commenters like this were women. 😣And yet the picture of the boys on the swim team wearing their Speedos in the same yearbook was just fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 302 | How to Spot a PAAddendum to #3: pooping for an hour. Oh wait sorry..."pooping". My ex took forever in the bathroom, turns out he was a porn addict. He also had a curved dick and developed sores on it from masturbating the skin clean off. He said it was from a skin condition but funny, he didn't seem to have that "condition" on any other part of his body. Can confirm all your other points as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 82 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsMen are constantly overestimating their market value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 6 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".Well they say if you have to advertise that something is true, it probably isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 3 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".Hell yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 29 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".And Babe Ruth ended up getting a brain tumor and dying fairly young, must have been the epicenter of his audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 15 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".We literally run marathons while pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 176 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".He's seriously seething. If you read the Wiki he glared at and verbally abused the umpire who called him out on his third strike. I thought men were the rational ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:57 AM |
| 188 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".To be fair he's 36 in this picture but yeah imagine passing as a professional male athlete while looking 7 months pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 184 | After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate".Read more about her here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 18 | Do Less (to be a Immovable Mover)This is very fascinating and I love the perspective. Thank you for sharing! Would you recommended this book or was this the only helpful takeaway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 8 | 6'7" Brock O'HurnHe's the king of it! https://youtu.be/zzgGFVJ_dXY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:38 PM |
| 40 | 6'7" Brock O'HurnI know not everyone is into long hair and man buns, rest assured he is just as hot with short hair and clean shaven. He is SO GOOD with pets and kids. He absolutely adores his nieces and nephews and his sisters. Seems like an all around good guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 9 | Shemar Moore (Criminal Minds, SWAT) (3)Whenever I hear him call Penelope "baby girl" I melt. He's always so lovely to her, I love their dynamic so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 11:38 AM |
| 25 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallIs there a sadder story than the before and after of Mickey Rourke? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupExactly. Unless you're in a profession that relies on your appearance no one should care what you look like. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupThis was exactly the point I was making in the context around this screen shot that didn't get posted. "I don't like this woman but instead of formulating a real argument about why she's wrong I will say she's ugly." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupI realize that the context around this picture was lost because it didn't get posted but if you thought this was about being against wearing makeup, you misunderstood. No one should care whether or not you like to wear it and whether you do or not it certainly shouldn't affect how people view your ability to do your job, or anything for that matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupWhat I had written around this topic that didn't get posted wasn't specifically about politics or conservatives. It was about how women who have jobs that have nothing to do with looks are judged by their looks. I remember Sara Sanders getting dragged for her looks by the left (and not even because of makeup, just her face which she has no control over) so it's not a political issue, it's a global misogyny issue. If we don't like a woman we resort to insulting her appearance instead of criticizi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 18 | Paing Takhon😦🥵🤤🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:24 AM |
| 16 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupExactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 08:30 PM |
| 28 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupDamn it I typed up a whole well thought out essay on this and all that posted was one screenshot. But you all get the gist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 55 | Always ask a guy when he got tested for STD's - AND always get testedMy guy ALWAYS wears a condom and still gets tested regularly. When we first got together he told me he had just recently got tested but that he would go again if I wanted him to. There is no excuse for not making sure you're clean. Even if you don't have insurance there are all kinds of cheap or even free testing facilities. If you don't have $100 for an STD test you shouldn't be dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 130 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"My kids' dad has spent many years being either covertly or overtly suspicious that our second son is not his because he looks like me. He absolutely cannot comprehend how genetics works, because his genes are the only ones that matter and I had no part in it other than being an incubator. Not surprisingly he has always favored our first son because of the physical similarities to himself. Reminder: Don't have kids with monsters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 34 | "Boys Being Boys" vs "Girls Being Girls"I hard cringe when I see my friends posting pics of their daughters and the influx of comments about how "beautiful" or "pretty" she is. Conversely the comments to little boys' pics are "he looks like a little man" or "how precious". Sure sometimes he's noted as being handsome but not at the same rate as comments on girls' attractiveness. Also as (if not more) cringey: when a woman/girl dies and people comment on her pic "what a shame she was so pretty" like what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:22 PM |
| 70 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.Yeah I don't think her responding like that was warranted given the immediate context (there may be additional background that led to this) but he went way over the top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 217 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"Do girls not have blood? If he has a daughter will she still not have his "bloodline"? This is 100% about mens' ego around carrying forward a surname, which you/he did mention but it's nothing to do with some sort of "pedigree". This guy is a scrote of the highest order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 26 | Men sending her hatred online launched her career. Stay mad.Just goes to prove there's no such thing as bad publicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 19 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationGet the Tip Jar or Lurker Mode tier. Still bills monthly but just disable payment whenever you want to pause. You can pause payment with the higher tiers but they reward you with merchandise after you pay for X number of consecutive months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 8 | TW:-Suicide. I was really disheartened when I saw the Dublin video posted here of a girl being pushed under the train. I saw this today and it gave me hope. Props to the young lad who ran immediately and grabbed her by the leg. Side note:- another reason why Tiktok should be banned.That's what I was thinking it must be. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 7 | But - but younger women love older men! /sExcept their "wall" is just an unwashed ass and porn induced ED, both of which they control 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 48 | TW:-Suicide. I was really disheartened when I saw the Dublin video posted here of a girl being pushed under the train. I saw this today and it gave me hope. Props to the young lad who ran immediately and grabbed her by the leg. Side note:- another reason why Tiktok should be banned.How is this being filmed? Doesn't look like a stationary security camera because it moves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:19 PM |
| 111 | But - but younger women love older men! /sSame. I scaled the wall years ago and it's hasn't stopped men one damn bit. The wall is a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:03 PM |
| 126 | But - but younger women love older men! /sIt's an invisible line where women reach an age where they're no longer desirable. It's a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:58 AM |
| 12 | I don’t want to live on this planet anymoreMaybe I'm misunderstanding your comment but c sections don't prevent lactation. Or are you just wishing both to happen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."There needs to be an FDS store. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 3 | "If we ask for consent we're afraid you'll say no so we just do it while you're unconscious and hope you'll never know the difference." Thankfully the laws are changing but in many states doctors are still allowed to perform unnecessary pelvic exams to women under anesthesia without their consent.With my first c section I told them I could feel everything (failed epidural) and they didn’t care. Not one goddamned person in that room showed an ounce of concern. They just kept telling me to “do your breathing techniques like you learned in childbirth class”, as if I was just overreacting. Don’t ever blindly trust medical personnel. Question everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | "If we ask for consent we're afraid you'll say no so we just do it while you're unconscious and hope you'll never know the difference." Thankfully the laws are changing but in many states doctors are still allowed to perform unnecessary pelvic exams to women under anesthesia without their consent.I kinda assumed there was a reason so thanks for confirming, but yeah still annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 7 | "If we ask for consent we're afraid you'll say no so we just do it while you're unconscious and hope you'll never know the difference." Thankfully the laws are changing but in many states doctors are still allowed to perform unnecessary pelvic exams to women under anesthesia without their consent.Did men fail sex ed or did sex ed fail men? This must be why so many of them think all we need is a penis, any penis, just inserted in there, to have an orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 17 | "If we ask for consent we're afraid you'll say no so we just do it while you're unconscious and hope you'll never know the difference." Thankfully the laws are changing but in many states doctors are still allowed to perform unnecessary pelvic exams to women under anesthesia without their consent.And some men actually have the nerve to think we enjoy pelvic exams. Those speculums are torture devices for real. Let's not even talk about what it feels like to have your cervix scraped. It always seems odd to me, too, when they ask about your sexual history at every doctor visit for any reason. Like does the fact that I'm sexually active or knowing the date of my last period really make a difference as to how you need to address this broken bone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."Since this got positive attention from a mod, can you explain this? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 13 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."That was the line that gut punched me as well. Where is the lie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:21 PM |
| 6 | DOJ Women's Safety Program - anyone want to guess the year? (I don't know)"Nobody's Victim" is a film from 1972 so gotta be around that era. https://archive.org/details/nobodysvictim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:10 AM |
| 51 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."FACTS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 352 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."I can confirm. I no longer have to clean up after my ex husband or do his laundry etc., and my sons have stepped up more to help with dinner, cleanup, laundry, yard work, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMI agree that there isn't a one size fits all approach to pets but my cat wasn't feral, and there was no reason to believe that he needed to experience forced holding like my ex did in order for him to be properly socialized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 57 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMMy now ex-husband thought he could make our young cat learn to like being cuddled by holding him in his arms against his will. It made me super uncomfortable but he said I didn't know anything about cats and this is what you have to do. Looking back now I can see it was a glaring red flag about boundaries and consent. 🚩 After we separated and he returned to get the last of his stuff, the cat (my cat now) made sure to walk between us and rub up against my legs while looking at him all smug, somet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:42 AM |
| 26 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!My ex husband told me once that I have a "J-Lo booty" and he did not mean it as a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 219 | Keep Men At A Distance Because False Intimacy Creates Trust.Don't let them spend any kind of quality time with your children. Kids get attached easily and they can have a hard time understanding why they don't get to see Spencer anymore, and guys can use your kids against you to feel guilty about breaking away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:04 PM |
| 88 | Getting through to a coworker with FDS wisdomIt's soooo hard to give advice to young women when I already have kids and don't feel pressed to marry like them but I always tell them that. "I know, easy for me to say but let me save you the decades of hardship I put myself through because I did all the wrong things." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Any viable use cases for this, like filing a police report?What's odd is that when you upload a pic you choose between "this is a dick pic" and "this is not a dick pic". Wondering why it matters. I tried both using generic photos and in both cases it mapped to the local hospital. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Any viable use cases for this, like filing a police report?What's odd is that when you upload a pic you choose between "this is a dick pic" and "this is not a dick pic". Wondering why it matters. I tried both using generic photos and in both cases it mapped to the local hospital. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 9 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoLets not forget shallots and the guy who wiped his dick on the curtains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 86 | Lord if this ain't some anti-women shit.You're welcome, enjoy! 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo BagThey can't make it pink though, and it has to have that manly smell of bourbon and failure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo Bag"A fever dream" I am dead. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:47 AM |
| 33 | I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything.I always look at my watch and say "it's time for you to get a watch." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:21 PM |
| 10 | Parent in NY seeks to marry their child. Parent HAS to be a man. The lowest of the low.The parent wants to walk down the aisle... I'm guessing it's the mom by this statement as grooms don't walk down the aisle. Still gross. ETA: nothing about this is traditional so who the hell knows. It's sick either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 73 | FDS PODCAST FIRST 30 DAYS RESULTS: we literally DOUBLED our goal of hitting 15k downloads in the first month. 🥳🎊🥂 Such a strong start, and a sign of a promising future! Special thanks to all you ladies who listened and shared!!! 💗💜💗💜💗💜💗💜I think it was episode 2, y'all got the giggles so bad I was in my car laughing along with you like a crazy person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | 😂Same here! One of my favorite movies in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:42 PM |
| 14 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)Unless it's a gift from family it's absolutely taxable. Make sure you plan for that before you blow it all. Edit: assuming you're in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 104 | 😂Yeah I don't think he was the smartest guy in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 223 | 😂I once had a guy not recognize me after I put my hair up in a ponytail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:24 AM |
| 25 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘As an application developer, you had me at "boolean". 😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 149 | Guys who leave you at a party or a family gatheringI swear they only see us as appliances or accessories. They wouldn't think to introduce their friends to their refrigerator so they don't think it's odd not to introduce them to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 22 | Did this crusty just blame rapist on women??Loooool the philosophy of Scrocrates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 31 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.God please don't give them any ideas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Stop referring to women as "females"."Well I am a female so what's the big deal???" Ugh 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 10:11 PM |
| 148 | Old school pick-me's... sabotaging their sisters since time immemorialIs anyone else creeped out that these are children being depicted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:44 AM |
| 44 | Let’s talk about sexEven then they'll probably just try to Gorilla Glue it back on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 12 | Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew.They respect a man they've never even seen more than the woman right in front of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 21 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.Yeah I wasn't trying to split hairs with word definitions by any means. Word choice is very important to me and the fact that he chose "gore" not once but multiple times to describe different facets of his wife's pregnancy indicates to me that he is trying to remove himself from the process and making her seem gross. This is your kid, dude, you're not some middle schooler being forced to watch a birthing video in sex ed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 52 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.I've had two children so yes. I know there's blood and poop and all kinds of fluids but that is not "gore". The definition of gore relates to bloodshed borne of violence or wounding. Not the word I'd pick to describe the miracle of birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 11:05 PM |
| 73 | Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew.Gives me hope that it's possible for LVM to turn themselves around. Not probable, but possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 227 | Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew.Me too and I feel like he's a guy that other guys would respect because he's a football player, big, rugged, etc. Not someone a typical dude might easily brush off just because he's not a "manly man". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 194 | Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew.Oh for sure. Didn't mean to imply that what he says doesn't have value just because we have known this for awhile. It's always good to hear it from the source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:06 PM |
| 307 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red."Gore" is related to violence and bloodshed. What the actual fuck with these males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | This *guy* writes himself into the conclusion that calling a group of women “guys” is gender neutral. Oh, and a dash of racism for good measureOhhh no just a guy with long hair and somewhat of a feminine body type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 6 | This *guy* writes himself into the conclusion that calling a group of women “guys” is gender neutral. Oh, and a dash of racism for good measureWell for the simple fact that I got it wrong the one time and I felt badly about it. The guy was good about it (he looked quite feminine to me which was how I made the mistake) but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 12 | This *guy* writes himself into the conclusion that calling a group of women “guys” is gender neutral. Oh, and a dash of racism for good measureMight be something questionable or regarding p0rn or you used a trigger word like $lut? I've made some posts that didn't appear right away that had to be approved, and some of them never were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:10 PM |
| 12 | This *guy* writes himself into the conclusion that calling a group of women “guys” is gender neutral. Oh, and a dash of racism for good measureI'm trying desperately to stop doing this. I don't even wanna say "ladies" because that's assuming they identify as such. And masks make it difficult to discern sex/gender with some people. I have a part time job where I sometimes have to greet people, and 98% of our clientele is female. I recently referred to a couple as "ladies" and the gal was like "that's a guy" (referring to her friend). I felt so bad. I'm trying now to force myself to say "folks" or something similar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 93 | If you ever need a laugh, just remember that ancient Greeks spread the rumour that having a small D is a sign of intelligence and self control.whips tiny dick out ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 52 | How to make the first move, but not reallyIf Covid has taught me anything it's that prior to having to wear a mask, I wasn't genuinely smiling every time I should have been. A true smile can be seen in the eyes, whereas an obligatory smile is only shown with the mouth. If it's a genuine smile, he will notice, even with a mask on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:05 PM |
| 357 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.As my old man used to say, "Better to be tried by 12 than carried by 6." Referring to 12 person jury in a US court as opposed to 6 pallbearers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 61 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.I read some rape "advice" once where it said that rape is about power and therefore rapists get off on the victim fighting back so if you just stop fighting them they'll stop raping you because it's not fun for them anymore. Okay no. NO. I'm not trying to figure out how to make rape less fun for rapists. I'm going down swinging. Guy may very well get me in the end but best believe he is going to look and feel like he was just in a war zone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 101 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.I lift heavy, and it shows. But if I'm wearing a jacket or something not form fitting it's not easy to tell at a glance how much mass I have. Awhile back I was leaving a bar, it was broad daylight and I was alone. It was spring so I had worn a sleeveless top with a light jacket. A couple of guys were heading toward the bar on their way in. Either one of these dudes could have picked me up and carried me off if they wanted to. As we passed each other, one of them said "Hey honey, where do you thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 23 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?This is a contest I never wanted to win loool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 49 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Mine: "can I use one of your holes for a minute?" And when he said "minute" that was a gross exaggeration. It was never that long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:12 PM |
| 125 | Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.Yeah honey and all the guys in prison are innocent cuz they said they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:03 PM |
| 58 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?"She just hasn't had a REAL man yet hew hew hew" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 23 | Welp! Now the incels on a famous greentext posting website have found us. RIP mods’ inboxes 😭No he just hasn't made it that far yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 120 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenSo when men are "jUsT jOkInG" they're just joking but when women are just joking it's not a joke. #scrotelogic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 32 | Just read this thread of a 28 year old man trying to make excuses to why it's okay to have sex and a romantic relationship with a 15 years old. I'm disgusted.He's just employing the Dan Savage logic of simply redefining the issue and thus the problem clears up on its own. "Just change your definition of adult." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:10 AM |
| 693 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenWhere in the WORLD have we ever talked about forced vasectomies?? Are "journalists" (and I use that term very loosely) just making stuff up as they go now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 256 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenBecause "men deserve to be loved for who they are". Yet these dipshits would never be caught dead even being seen with a fat or ugly chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 18 | A woman's touchIt needs a "woman's touch" but then they'll complain that she does all the decorating and that's why they need a "man cave" with all their shitty shit packed into a dirty dungeon. Which is it guys? Do you want her to do all the decorating or not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 38 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police.I noticed that. And he advises the defendant to "not say anything else" like bro you are NOT his lawyer stop trying to help him! As a judge he needs to be on neither party's "side". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 32 | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccurateI also feel like I've been asking for napkins the wrong way this whole time now. Did I miss the "classy napkin requests" section in the handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:45 PM |
| 51 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police.I had a cop standing in front of me with my abuser standing directly behind him, facing me. Cop asked if I was okay, if I wanted to file a report, etc. and I was too terrified to tell the truth because there he was looking at me, non verbally threatening me. If there was even a 0.1% chance the cop wouldn't help me, if my ex was gonna be able to sweet talk his way out (it happened before) I knew I was in for it. I figured I'd take the L this time and hopefully get another chance later. Why the co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 74 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police.I thought that too. I'm hoping she isn't letting him change her mind but having been with an abuser I know how easy that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 147 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police."You hit bottom and you're continuing to dig." Best. Line. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 25 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!wow That is literally what I said out loud when I read that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 23 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!"...I's life choices"?? Not sure if her best course of action is to stay in school or quit altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:36 AM |
| 8 | Scrote tropes decodedThe thing to really understand here is that there isn't something inherently wrong with actually being many of these things (e.g. IPA lover, respectful, love traveling, looking for a faithful partner). It's what they choose to highlight in the very limited amount of characters allotted in a bio. If your bio just says "I'm a nice guy looking for just one female who won't cheat on me." and that's ALL it says...it speaks volumes aka "I'm a giant asshole to every one of the other half of the human r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Scrote tropes decodedSame! It's gonna be my OLD wiki. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 25 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...https://medium.com/@info.momminghard/i-dont-help-my-wife-you-shouldn-t-either-7fe5c60ee9e8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:17 AM |
| 133 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...Right, I hate it when it's referred to as "helping". Helping implies that it's someone else's responsibility and you're being a good sport and doing part of their work so they don't have to. Like you're doing them a solid. No, it's his house too and he uses the things that need tending to (e.g. dishes, trash bin, toilet) so it's just doing the housework. It's not helping with the housework. This concept is akin to "babysitting" your own children. No, it's called being a parent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:46 AM |
| 24 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:19 AM |
| 13 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.Was it at least in cursive? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:39 AM |
| 37 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.Thanks for the nightmares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:35 AM |
| 60 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.He needs a good woman to help him hydrate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 223 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.Just got a DM from a guy from an incel sub that tried to argue this is what guys think is cool. Okay he should go wave his piss dick at men then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 50 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.I guess he didn't drink enough beer to have the pee volume for "Jacob". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...I prefer to work out alone but I also realize some people like a workout buddy, if nothing else than just for accountability. But yeah I think lifting with someone...like directly in tandem with them where we are essentially doing the same things...would be odd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 67 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...Hahaha I would too! "I got six more sets bro. Settle in." The audacity. They'd never do that to a man. And anyone who can't figure out an alternate lift or skip to the next thing and come back when the equipment is available has no business being in a commercial gym. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:53 AM |
| 128 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...Lol they made "Brokeback Mountain" for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:51 AM |
| 71 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...They do! They take up so much space and like to "claim" a piece of equipment for an indeterminate amount of time, like no Chad I don't care if you have two more sets to go on this machine so you leave your sweaty towel on the bench while you chat it up with your buddies at the water fountain, if your ass isn't on the seat then I'm working in and you can die mad about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:49 AM |
| 29 | "I had literally the best time with you"I just pictured him gleefully wearing one of those paper crowns, so thanks for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 28 | Guys can't grasp the concept of shorts under a skirt and use it as an excuse to be degrading and gross to pro athletes. Giuliani is revolting and doesn't deserve to even be near MichelleI remember back in the late 70s and early 80s, we wore shorts under our skirts because boys would try to lift our skirts up at school. It was a necessary defense mechanism. That's also when tube tops were a thing and it was common for boys to rip those down off our chests so we stopped wearing them. It wasn't worth the paranoia and inevitable embarrassment if they succeeded. Edit: and to clarify this was elementary school and boys were doing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 65 | What other women's contributions throughout history were attributed to men by sheer default? We may never know.Right? It seems so obvious in hindsight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 85 | What other women's contributions throughout history were attributed to men by sheer default? We may never know.I can't find this particular one but it's Sandi Toksvig, a comedian and activist. She took over as host of QI and spoke out about how she made 40% of what Stephen Fry made for doing the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:16 AM |
| 14 | Don't trust porn when wanting to learn about "the sex" 😂I wasn't sure either hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 120 | Don't trust porn when wanting to learn about "the sex" 😂"Pornograppies" lool ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 126 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!He's looking at the centimeter side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:56 PM |
| 46 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!Taint to tip loooool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 133 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!Or her kink. No kinkshaming! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 66 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!Same. We actually referred to him as "Pringles". But he is referring to the size of her dildos, not his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 351 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!But has he tried to communicate with her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Divorce papers came in the mail yesterday!Damn I missed an opportunity to smile through my divorce hearing! 😩 In all seriousness though, congratulations and welcome to freedom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 26 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.I had the same reaction when I heard the judge say that. I want to believe he was expressing pity and a sense of biblical forgiveness. It's the only way to even start to accept that statement but I agree with you in that he didn't have to say those words AT ALL. It was like he was trying to make Bundy feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:18 PM |
| 157 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.That's like saying "there's a big difference between a man who fantasizes about raping women and one who actually rapes women." Yeah the difference is the first guy just hasn't done it yet but there will be a defining moment when just thinking about doesn't do it for him anymore and he crosses over into acting it out. That very fine line is not a big difference at all. Ask Ted Bundy how gossamer thin that line was. Oh you can't because he was executed for raping and murdering women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 17 | Found this on whisper... lots of pickmes in the replies 🤢My thoughts exactly. These two things are not mutually exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:36 AM |
| 4 | Which red flag shall we pick first?Oh, okay! Thank you for the information! My comment is clearly US centric, then, but it still stands that we have men that try to "prison brag" and it's a sad state of affairs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Which red flag shall we pick first?My guess is that he went to jail, not prison. These types of men are trying to attract women who like "bad boys" so they stretch the truth. Most likely he spent the night in jail sobering up from losing a bar fight. Probably couldn't fight his way out of a paper bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:28 PM |
| 74 | NOBODY can stop herI swear I wouldn’t be able to do my job if it weren’t for StackOverflow, this woman is not only a god, she’s a god killer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:17 AM |
| 37 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.Yeah I married a malignant narcissist, doesn’t mean I’d recommend it to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 19 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.If you have to teach him how to treat you, he ain’t the one, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 99 | I got banned from a subreddit for saying I prefer big dicks. Reddit is full of easily offended incels.Honestly they scream even when it's something they can change, like fitness or not being an asshole. "YoU'rE sHaLlOw!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 172 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.Dean's probably a tattoo artist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 243 | NEVER answer this question! Low effort = low value. If he can’t even exert the minimal effort it takes to think up a question to ask about you, he’s not it, sis. Instant unmatch."The basics? Well Chad...I'm human, I have two eyes, two ears and a nose. My eyes and my hair have a color. I walk upright. I sleep at night. I work sometimes and other times not. I know some other humans and interact with them at times. When not working or associating with others I do things to keep me occupied." Is that basic enough for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:42 PM |
| 31 | Queen Jackie Weaver holds her ownBut women are the emotional sex! Lol "You have no authority..." blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 44 | "Women Are Warning Creators About The TikTok Silhouette Challenge""A lap dance is so much better when the stripper is crying", right? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:45 PM |
| 40 | I told his girlfriend he cheated on her with meThis is like someone who gets fired for sexual harassment. The complainant didn't get him fired, his actions got him fired. He got caught playing you both and now he can just die mad about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | I know not every woman would love this but I think, overall, this is a treat. I love that he is catering to what his partner wants, is keeping it a surprise, took the initiative, and is seeking valuable advice. She may have a HVM on her hands. (I could also flair this as Message For Male Lurkers!)For many men "romance"="sex". For women, however, we think more about gestures than acts. That's why there's often a disconnect between the sexes when someone feels like the romance has gone out of a relationship. We define it differently. Romance to me is maybe planning a day trip to a botanic gardens because your gal is into plants, and bringing a picnic lunch you packed yourself with her favorite foods and wine, etc. (and you know what those are because you've been paying attention) with zero… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 249 | This is horrifyingTHIS. The fact that men can actually get pleasure from stimulation of the prostate via the anus is all the proof we need to turn the tables and argue that WE should be pegging THEM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 424 | This is horrifying"BuT mY lAsT gIrLfRiEnD lIkEd It". No. No she didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:55 AM |
| 14 | I know not every woman would love this but I think, overall, this is a treat. I love that he is catering to what his partner wants, is keeping it a surprise, took the initiative, and is seeking valuable advice. She may have a HVM on her hands. (I could also flair this as Message For Male Lurkers!)I don't know yet, on the surface it sounds like he planned a nice getaway but I can't help but get a weird vibe about it like it's not really about pampering her and more about sex. He wavers between saying it's for her and for "us". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:46 AM |
| 18 | I know not every woman would love this but I think, overall, this is a treat. I love that he is catering to what his partner wants, is keeping it a surprise, took the initiative, and is seeking valuable advice. She may have a HVM on her hands. (I could also flair this as Message For Male Lurkers!)Is it just me though or is lingerie more for him than for her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:40 AM |
| 118 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...I mean if I were to be honest and tell the guy I was gonna just take his money, I wouldn't get it because men don't reward honesty. So it's his fault I have to resort to violence to get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 4 | hey, listen!"Dick is not on backorder..." ☠️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 18 | To lurking FDS women: You want advice on your relationship? Easy answer below.And feeling the need to Google his behavior is all the answer you need. Block and delete faster than those search results come back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 261 | Cats, candles, wine and the golden girls??? SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍If you're not careful you'll get a full body massage too! That'll teach you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:09 AM |
| 52 | Valentines Day is an Excellent Vetting Opportunity....don't let it go to waste!Yes men are stupid and they die anyway so why have one? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:00 PM |
| 30 | "Just Ask"Yep. My mom (the Supreme Leader of the Pickmes) tried to tell me "you have to tell men what to do, make them a detailed list because they don't know what needs to be done and how to do it" like Mom they have eyes just like I do. They can see dishes or trash piling up. It doesn't take a detailed work instruction to know how to carry in groceries or empty a dishwasher. This is the same mom who calls all the wimminfolk into the kitchen to clean up and do dishes after Thanksgiving so the men can wat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:24 PM |
| 11 | Best response to Schrodinger‘s douche bag👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:57 PM |
| 35 | "Just Ask"I know it's been posted before but this literally changed my life. https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:41 PM |
| 57 | So when a person states a boundary that makes them uncomfortable, suddenly they’re controlling and insecure. Porn is cancer.Came here to say this. If you think your man eating someone else's food and having a sexual encounter with someone else is the same thing, oof. Just oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 116 | relatableThe fact that I'm attracted to men is proof that sexual orientation is not a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:06 AM |
| 7 | Why are women shamed whether we're emotional or emotionless?Not sure how old your mom is but wait until she hits menopause. She'll feel what it's like to cry for any or no reason at all. I'm normally emotionally solid as a rock but one time I burst into tears because I thought the cars in the parking lot at work were too close together. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 10 | “Should I bring anything with me when I come over to your Mom’s house?”What is with that, seriously? My ex husband would always, without fail, encourage me to drink whenever I was trying not to. It got to the point that whenever I wanted to abstain for awhile I wouldnt tell him because I knew he'd try to sabotage me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:37 PM |
| 86 | Found on another sub but I think it fits hereAnd you still don't see a ring on her finger lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 40 | Don't be an empath QueensYeah, seriously. Oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 13 | Reminder to check your security: Former ADT employee pleads guilty after spying on hundreds of customersI have Simplisafe and it allows you to control when the camera shutter is closed. For instance, you can keep it open always or have it remain shut until an "event" such as deactivating the alarm, or motion when the alarm is set and you're not home. I can hear the shutter open and close, it's a loud snapping sound so I'd hear it if it opened for no reason. Definitely not a failsafe but better than having a camera that has no lens cover or shutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖Thank you for making this! I loved this the first time around when you originally posted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:25 PM |
| 3 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖OP didn't make this. u/_xyoungbellax_ did and someone modified it a little bit before it was reposted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:21 PM |
| 68 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂And that's such a lie anyway. You mean to tell me that a guy that's into boobs doesn't care if she has tiny ones? He just cares that she's got boobs? Bruh that's literally every woman that hasn't had a mastectomy. And you're an ass man so that means you don't care if it's a J Lo booty or it's flat as a pancake? Come on man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:54 PM |
| 0 | I was learning a lot in this subreddit but I can't anymore if my work is being stolen.When I saw the repost I was like wait wait...someone else MADE this. Not only had I seen the original, the reposter actually said "I don't know if this has already been posted" but it actually refers to "FDS mods" on it so it was obviously custom made for this sub. I'm disappointed to see that other people are praising and thanking the reposter for making the meme and the reposter is not correcting anyone. Not blaming them, it's possible it's the first time they've seen it but the person who pos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:48 PM |
| 386 | Woman dumps her partner of 13 years after finding out he watches porn. Comments tell her she’s overreacting. Ladies, you do not have to accept porn in your relationships!If porn use is “common and reasonable” then why lie about it? If I’m not doing anything wrong then I feel no reason to hide it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 153 | Comeback queen“Ugh your sense of humor must be where the clit is, you can’t find either one.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 4 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.My thoughts exactly which is why I don’t care that I’m being called out for posting it so the lurkers can see. It’s not real, and even if it is, it’s all over the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 7 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for this, this is exactly the way I understood it and I drove for Uber, although to be fair I haven’t for awhile. It was always like well drivers can and should refuse a rider that is not the person on the app but you’re right many just wanna get paid and don’t wanna lose the ride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 37 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.Unless Uber has changed, they don’t allow someone else to ride that wasn’t the requester, for the safety of the driver. If it says I’m picking up “Angela” and I can see her picture and she has an account with her contact info but then “Robert” appears and tries to get in, as a driver I can still take him but if he assaults me I have no idea who this person is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:34 PM |
| 229 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.Thanks for the info, I was wondering how this was distributed to women so that only they would see it. I’m also wondering though why a bartender would call a Lyft/Uber as you can’t really call those for someone else. A taxi, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 27 | The line of “I’m allowed to be attracted to other people!” that lvm/nvm use to excuse shitty behavior while in a relationship.“But mUh BiOlOgY!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 37 | Any FDS approved podcasts?Not exactly dating related but I like “The Art of Speaking Up” with Jessica Guzik. Here is Pandora’s description: “A podcast that empowers women to achieve their wildest career goals by helping them strengthen their voices and find their inner power. The show aims to motivate, entertain, and remind working women that no matter what they might be struggling with, anything is possible for them in their careers. In addition to providing strengths-based professional empowerment, the show also curate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Reminder: A person is not HV just because they're physically, economically, or socially advantaged.And Steph actually liked Andie but was closeted about it because she wasn’t a part of his precious richie rich social circle (and because she wanted nothing to do with him) so he just spent his energy on telling her how much she was beneath him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:24 PM |
| 43 | What’s the worst neg you got?“I have no idea why I like you but I just do.” - guy that decided to interrupt my lunch with my mom by sitting down at our table on his way back from the restroom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 46 | Wholesome high value behaviour from men that should be more the normWas thinking similar. I hope he’s not just trying to get social media points. I mean he got the set she wanted so why is he worried that he’s missing something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 30 | If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sisIt’s signaling to other women that “if you cheat with him I’ll find you and beat your ass and he’ll still be mine cuz I won’t dump him for it so don’t even try”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 18 | If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sisHahaha same! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 55 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.But he’s perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:26 PM |
| 230 | Just let him go"YES honey and I can't wait to sleep with TONS of other men while you're gone. When do you leave???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.Yes it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.Cheaters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.I agree he's kinda greasy. I miss Clark Gable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 15 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.I don't think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 13 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.It's my new guilty pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 32 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.He's one of those guys whose dick just falls into a vagina like some kind of freak accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 68 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end."I didn't know what was going on" like what? You were making it happen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:44 PM |
| 5 | In today's episode of "what object are we"...women are a benchpress machine!No worries, I had to read it a couple times myself. And yes still garbage nonetheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:43 PM |
| 11 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.Thank you! I tried but the app I used clearly failed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:39 PM |
| 138 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.Sorry, I don't have a transcript but she's telling him she can't believe she's been fully supporting him for two years, living together and paying all the bills, even got a second job so she can put him through school while he is unemployed. He uses her car she lends him so he can go to school to cheat with the girl he's with who is a classmate, classmate says she didn't know he had a girlfriend so she's even disgusted with him. He tries to play it off saying he loves his gf but didn't want to h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 4 | In today's episode of "what object are we"...women are a benchpress machine!He's not talking about bench. He's talking about adding weight to dips and pull ups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 13 | In today's episode of "what object are we"...women are a benchpress machine!This is not bench press. This is weighted dip and pull up. He's trying to add weight to his bodyweight which is easy in the gym but he wants to do them in a park. So what he's proposing is that a woman hold onto him while he does triceps dips and pull ups to add to his own weight. Which is ridiculous and not realistic to ask of anyone. Also very highly doubt this is real. Most men can't even do one body weight pull-up so one who can add that much weight for 10 reps is jacked and thus already kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 99 | This man knows something at leastHis 2021 resolution is to grow a beard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:30 PM |
| 82 | This man knows something at leastThis is just aggressive peach fuzz. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 134 | FDS Movie Throwback: Legally BlondeWerner: "YOU got into Harvard?" Elle:"What, like it's hard?" 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:28 PM |
| 10 | Dont Date Men Who Are Sports, Rap, Rock StarsYes bartending, handyman, and around here roofers, landscapers, and construction. Of course not all these are automatically cash jobs but they are some of the most common. Men getting cash under the table usually brag about it like they’re so smart so they tell on themselves easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 56 | Dont Date Men Who Are Sports, Rap, Rock StarsAlso don’t date men that do only cash jobs i.e. don’t get a real paycheck aka “independent contractor”. Not only are they not being a good citizen and paying their taxes like the rest of us, they are more often than not drunks or druggies. These employers typically don’t drug test their workers and don’t really care if they show up stoned or tipsy as long as they can do the work. It’s an enabling job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 34 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!Dumped my husband this year. He's now unemployed and giving his tiny limp Peyronies dick full of fap sores to some chick who sold her house so she could support him and live in a camper together. I can just hear it now: "It doesn't matter if we're homeless as long as we have love." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Saw this wholesome video yesterday of an elderly woman and thought of you guys."And what? It's not dangerous. 🤷♀️😄" This lady is a whole damn mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:27 PM |
| 6 | It’s hard to watch, but if you’re looking for a film about a man who dragged himself out of actual hell and made something of life, it’s worth the time.This WAS difficult to watch but very compelling. I was so glad to see J.D. "rise above his raising". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 120 | “My Legacy 🤡” yeah sure - of sexism and homophobia.It's not even about carrying on the bloodline, it's about carrying on the last name. Think about it. Guys don't see daughters as carrying their "legacy", only sons. Because of a fucking name that means exactly jack shit to anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 43 | Whyyy...I don't even want to know what the options are for this depraved scenario.It's a "Game of Lust" so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 83 | Disgusting invasion of privacy - let's date!Why would anyone date someone they've never even met that just randomly calls them?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 67 | LVM and ChristmasI work a seasonal job at a popular chain fragrance/soap/candle store. 99% of the time our clientele is 99% female. The last couple of days the flurry of frantic males has been stunning. Most of them have no idea what kind of scents or products their gal even likes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:29 PM |
| 12 | Judging from some of these posts, men gifting be like this. If you need a refresher: “I almost forgot. Here’s some office supplies. I didn’t wrap them. I knew you wouldn’t mind.”"Grandma's kisses" is such a golden episode. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 300 | This is just wrong in so many ways. The fruits of OLD. How to be blocked in under a secondYou're a "thing". Yeah no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:25 PM |
| 16 | Does anyone hate dating single dads?THIS. Yes small children will figure out very quickly what postpones their bedtime by being thirsty/hungry/scared/gotta poop etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 19 | Fellas is it gay to have sex with women?Sounds like some kind of hilarity should ensue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 145 | Women don't want to be "treated like a man" ...have you SEEN how men treat other men? Women want to be treated with basic human decency and respect. Why is this such a foreign concept for so many men?If they want to treat us just like they'd treat a man that means no sex then. Unless they also enjoy sex with men. They twist the narrative to suit them as well. They want to hit us but also have sex with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:47 PM |
| 11 | "If I was single..."Yeah don't flatter yourself pal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Advertising today is psychological warfare towards women. If you’ve never watched Jean Kilborne’s documentaries please watch this 15 min Ted talk. If you want to skip to the 🤏 joke only it’s at about min 7:30 and hilariousThank you for sharing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:38 AM |
| 30 | The entitlement when men want to decide what to do to a pregnant woman’s body and unborn child when it doesn’t benefit themThis guy clearly doesn't know that the first thing the government does when you apply for assistance is try to find the father and make him pay for his child so the taxpayers don't have to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | I'm done with relationship subs for today“He anally raped me with a knife while I was asleep but other than that he's perfect." -- every pickme on reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:28 PM |
| 7 | I'm not even slightly gay, but I can't imagine hanging around grown men after seeing stuff like this.But he loves women. He said it himself. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:07 PM |
| 21 | Unexpected situation after 2nd dateFor future reference the cop can't force you to take anyone anywhere. Under no circumstances can the cop require you put yourself in a situation that compromises your personal safety. If he believes the guy isn't fit to drive he can wait for the guy to start driving his car and pull him over. Or, take him into custody until he can find someone he knows that is willing and able to give him a ride. Cops like to flex sometimes. I once had to take a sobriety test because a cop insisted he smelled al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 12 | What I learned from being an evil stepmomGreat advice, another point: Odds are he didn't initiate the divorce and and such he may still harbor feelings for his ex. Unfortunately this means he may prioritize her wants and needs over yours. Many years ago I dated a man with who was very clearly reluctantly divorced, and we briefly lived together. He had a young daughter with his ex. I quickly realized that whatever his ex demanded he enforced. She said "jump" and he'd ask "how high?" At her request I was not allowed to attend any of thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 10 | If ThE gEndERs WeRe REveRsEdJack's "hypocrite settings" are clearly awful too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 28 | Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.But a guy can literally choose not to be a fat neckbeard. Again we are just supposed to accept them as they are but we have one dimple in our thigh and we are damaged goods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 15 | Since it’s my cake dayThis guy definitely cannot find the clit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 155 | "WoMeN hIt ThE wALl aFTer 25" "MEn AGe liKE WinE" scrotes looking worse in their 20s than aging women in their 50s. Like what's your excuse? Basement dwellers logicJesus Christ that man looks like he's pregnant with twins. It was hard enough carrying that around for a couple of months during my pregnancies, I can't imagine living with it every day for forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 40 | Lol @ these men pretending to be women 😂 they really think we can’t tell 😭Oh yes whenever I get a pap smear and my gyno scrapes my cervix for a cell sample I just about cream my paper nightie. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:24 PM |
| 11 | What do you guys think he wears to weddings?Where I live some men think nothing of showing up to a funeral in basketball shorts and a sports cap. It's so unbelievably disrespectful. You mean to tell me you don't at least have a nice pair of jeans and a polo or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Just got divorced today.This. He's very good looking, very tall, and a nice guy. Apparently this is someone who had a crush on him in elementary school so she already had rose colored glasses on for him. When he knew it was over he joined social media and that's how she found him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:19 PM |
| 38 | Just got divorced today.To be fair he wasn't cheating. He just didn't waste any time finding another one after he knew I was done. Edit: maybe I used the term monkeybranch incorrectly. I meant he just went immediately from one to the next without being single for a second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:35 AM |
| 50 | Rooting for this queen who unfriended her LVM husbandProbably won't even notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Self care isn't always bubble baths.I LOVE this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 32 | I know my worth, I've paid dearly for every ounce of it. I make no apologies for loving myself and finally living my best life.Me too! Divorce is the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 11 | I know my worth, I've paid dearly for every ounce of it. I make no apologies for loving myself and finally living my best life.A book called Eileen by Ottessa Moshfegh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:27 AM |
| 22 | I know my worth, I've paid dearly for every ounce of it. I make no apologies for loving myself and finally living my best life.Looks like a book called Eileen by Ottessa Moshfegh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:26 AM |
| 15 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolIt's how you do the sex good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:19 AM |
| 21 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolSlamfuk, the new word for 2020 y'all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 18 | Please gods tell me this is fake #justboisontinderthingsA literal shitpost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:25 PM |
| 54 | Need I Say More?Sorry where is the picture of the sexy man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 52 | So many men have this sense of entitlement when the topic of "men's mental health" comes up. It's so god damn rampant.If you don't have access to your kids - man or woman - it's because of something you did or didn't do. Not because of what someone else did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 41 | We are high maintenance because we maintenance ourselves not men"You couldn't do this" lol so true, most of the time they can't even maintain their damn selves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:31 PM |
| 72 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVMOr "you look good for having had children". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:22 PM |
| 38 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVM"Wow beauty AND brains?" As if the biological accident that is my face prevents my brain from working properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:20 PM |
| 9 | It's not your job to be pretty or look happy or even smile for men.I found it on Pinterest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Don't worry about the background image but I live by this motto!Secondary reminder here not to be overlooked: you have options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:13 PM |
| 69 | Why not to pay rent for LVMMen will stay unhappy with a woman until their dying day as long as he doesn't have to be the one to do the breaking up I swear to GODT. He will be the worst shit in the world just to make her be the one to pull that trigger and then tell everyone she dumped him for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:38 PM |
| 21 | Men will make you crazy if you let them !I think the funniest/saddest part about this whole thing is that it doesn't even cross his mind to go buy lotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 77 | I ghosted him, he sends this 🤡You were at LEAST in his top five. 🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:40 PM |
| 75 | People who enable toxic abusers are just as toxic and should also be removed from your lifeThis includes acting like nothing happened and continuing relationships. It doesn't have to be direct condonement. If your buddy raped me and you continue to be his buddy, that's being an enabler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 6 | No, unicorn, you’re a douche and please correct your age and put your own photo, thanks.Or women. He wants to watch her have sex with women, as if lesbianism is a spectator sport. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:10 PM |
| 15 | Why do guys on first dates ask “can you cook?”But they think they CAN give you an orgasm because every woman before you faked it. Men ALWAYS think they are the best lover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 7 | In case anyone asks...I wonder if these same men would still feel like it's a compliment if another man catcalled them. Just kidding, I don't wonder. I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 76 | In case anyone asks...Wow your first paragraph was a gut punch. Yeah we know what it means and that's unacceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:12 PM |
| 8 | The "woke" queen.Ah yes. Ol Sharpie Neck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:21 PM |
| 15 | Because her husband bet her she couldn't. Never underestimate the willpower of a woman.I wasn't necessarily assuming the husband was a jerk. Good to know he isn't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:43 PM |
| 14 | List of men with jobs to avoid. Please bear in mind that women in these jobs could be fine, as we are socially conditioned to continuously work on self-improvement, whereas men are not. I’ll start the list in comments, please contribute.Bartender. Rare if you find one that's not at least a heavy drinker if not a full on alcoholic. Part of their very job is to flirt with women for tips. Typically busy nights and weekends. Also lazy as fuck, conditioned to believe they should get instantly rewarded for service because that's what happens at work. It's one thing to do it for awhile to get by but often content to stay a bartender well into middle age and beyond if they can get away with it. Source: was married to one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:25 PM |
| 103 | You're not getting good boy points for not assaulting meThat tells you he was considering it. That's terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:57 PM |
| 18 | So sweet! This man just set the bar a lot higher for me. I guess this video has been around for months, but it's my first time seeing it.Well I didn't want to be crying this early in the morning but here we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:20 PM |
| 7 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.The same guys that beg to put it in your ass and get shit dick won't have period sex. And men think WE'RE confusing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:42 PM |
| 23 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.Yes EX husband for many years now. Leaving him was literally the scariest thing I ever had to do. I always say if I survived him I can overcome anything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 40 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.Well he's a malignant narcissist so he doesn't care about anything but his needs and wants. I hate that I had children with him but I gotta say I'm so glad they're in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 94 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.This. With my first c section the doctor said no sex for six weeks. I shit you not six weeks to the day my then husband was pushing for sex. When I told him I wasn't ready because I was still bleeding and in pain he was like "but the doctor said you can!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:24 PM |
| 10 | Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina?Case in point. Not to mention all the everyday prisoners that have groupies and pen pals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:24 AM |
| 67 | No one wants your used up Cheeto chodeThe one on the right is waaay too erect to be pornsick. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 10 | A positive post💞After my STBX husband moved out this year I refinanced my home, got a cheaper payment and now it's in my name only. Taking care of a house by myself was scary at first but I'm learning so much and it's honestly been so empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 14 | Do something for yourself before the weekend is overGonna go to an orchard and look at the fall colors with my bestie tomorrow. We've made an annual tradition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:02 PM |
| 44 | Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina?Yeah but look at him. He could be a murderer and he's still gonna have em lining up around the block. Edit: y'all can downvote me into oblivion but you know it's true. Wouldn't be us but there are plenty of women that would step over each other to get to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 109 | Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina?Also don't listen to what "the internet" considers to be an ugly vagina, which is basically anything that doesn't resemble a 10-yr-old's: neatly packed with no visible bits, just a slit separating two plump hemispheres. Unless he's Henry Cavill he's got no business being picky. A man should just be happy to get A vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | I'm sorry WHAT?You're so kind, this is how I wish everyone could talk to each other. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm sorry WHAT?Let's just hope I vet my men better than I vet my posts. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm sorry WHAT?I didn't see it was satire, thank you! Attaching my comment to yours since it has the highest upvotes and I want to be sure my mistake has been recognized. I'm relieved but will leave up in case anyone's interested, but change the flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 75 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!"Get what you are." It's so simple yet these men don't wanna hear that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 22 | This belongs here (I work in data and god I've never loved a Venn so much!!)As a programmer this made me laugh inappropriately loudly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 8 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?THANK YOU. Some of the reposts are literally minutes apart, which tells me the reposter is clearly not paying attention to the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:34 PM |
| 17 | FDS will be increasing the amount of low quality memes/videos we remove at our discretionSame. Although I think it’s important for couples to align on their political views and core values, high value people can exist on both sides of the spectrum. Political posts in this sub only invite infighting and encourage divisiveness and scrotes would love nothing more than to see us eat each other alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:29 PM |
| 23 | A first date unlike anything I've experienced before.But she should still totally burn his warhammer if it comes to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 5 | "You have no control over your body because my "hotdog" is more important than you as a person". Absolutely disgusting.And then he’s gonna be the guy who pressures her for sex after a couple weeks even though she shouldn’t for at least six (if not longer). And additionally pissed because she can’t do housework until she’s healed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 26 | Reason 1 out of 30,000Thank you I was like everything what lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Egypt’s #MeToo movement takes hold in CairoThank you and I agree. I may go but not by myself for sure. I hate that we live in a world like this but it’s the reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:56 PM |
| 13 | Egypt’s #MeToo movement takes hold in CairoEgypt has always been on my bucket list to visit. My boyfriend's mother is native Egyptian and she refuses to ever go back, even to visit relatives. If someone that was born and raised there is too terrified to ever set foot on Egyptian soil again, I can't see myself ever fulfilling that dream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 5 | LVM encouraging LVMExcept that looks like a woman’s hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 28 | Upset. Just got chased 1/4 mile by a man on my runI have the Gerber Ghostrike Punch knife . It's great because you can wear it around your neck with the lanyard so its a quick one handed pull out of the sheath and is inconspicuous under your shirt. Comfortable grip and wicked sharp, would definitely ruin someone's day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 42 | What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs?God I laughed but it's not funny because it's so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:32 AM |
| 60 | Damn. That kind of hurt.I feel so called out right now. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 52 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.This is the poster child for why we need to be able to walk at ANY TIME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 70 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.Wowowow this is why it's so important to vet for as long as we do and not get emotionally invested too early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 27 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisA carry a 9 mil., a knife, and a nasty attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 21 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleThis is brilliant. I can't wait to use this (I work in a STEM field so it won't be long). Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:36 PM |
| 10 | Jacob Blake 👎🏿And she told the family she's "proud of him". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 22 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.There's always that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 39 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Yeah but they did use the women's intimates section from the Sears catalog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 9 | WTF is wrong with men?Can this "Karen" thing just die already?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 9 | New BF gave me this card after he impaled his ear and I was so worried. Opened it up find thank yous for ___ all over the card! ❤️What is happening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 50 | This video on Tiktok made me think of FDS ^_^ she’s got other videos on similar topics @youcancallmerachWhich one of you is this??? Lol that's a straight up FDS queen right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 63 | Another broke man afraid of "golddiggers!"He'll be like "I dOdGeD a BuLlEt". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 15 | what the fuck is this shit and how is she okay with that?Oh no. He gets to exchange showering and teeth brushing for game time. These are optional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Creepy guy recording me with his phone.I think you're assuming I don't agree with you. I do. 100%. It's how you prove it though, and quite frankly until there is a law against it, they get to do whatever they want. This isn't Japan. I think it'd be a regulatory nightmare, vetting who has good intent and who doesn't among millions of people who carry some form of a camera everywhere they go. You can't always tell what people are focusing their cameras on. These guys were overt about it, most people that are being creepy are very good … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 20 | What would you do if...My dad was good in a lot of ways but he was such a LVM in many others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Creepy guy recording me with his phone.By being in public you're giving consent though. And I've been at parties where I didn't wanna be in someone's picture that ultimately gets put on social media. No one got my consent but I inherently consented by being there. Look I get it. I'm with you. I'm just saying what the law is. We can cry all day about how wrong it is and how it's not fair and we know godt damn well those scrotes had bad intentions but that changes nothing. You're right, decent people aren't going to do indecent things … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Creepy guy recording me with his phone.OK but then we can't record things like birthday parties and concerts and other fun stuff. You couldn't record crimes being committed to get evidence of said crimes. You wouldn't be able to ever even take pictures of anything in public. I get that this is different but where do you draw the line? It's all or nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 49 | What would you do if...You and me both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Creepy guy recording me with his phone.Police can't seize someone's property unless there has been a crime committed. It's not a crime to record someone in a public place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Creepy guy recording me with his phone.Police can't do anything because recording someone or taking photos of them in a public place is not illegal, at least not in the States (don't know where this happened). If nothing is preventing someone from seeing something with their eyes in a public place there is no expectation of privacy and therefore it can be recorded or photographed. So if I can see a person walking down the street there is no difference where the law is concerned between using my eyes or a camera. You can literally tak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:39 AM |
| 80 | What would you do if...My father used to watch the dog lick his own balls and say "If I could do that I wouldn't need your mother anymore." 😗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 31 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 101 | No words.Yeah she needs to lose weight, about 190 lbs of dead weight of a weak ass man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:48 AM |
| 16 | The absolute energy."We're not on the same page, we're not even in the same library" looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 27 | It's funny because it's true.That adds to the terribleness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 13 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!"You have a J Lo booty", hurled as an attempted insult. Like thanks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 28 | Julius Fucking Caesar.u is jus overwhelms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 35 | This poor woman. Her BF/Husband doesn't want to buy her pads in an emergency!Agree 100%. Soooo many men love vaginas until they function as intended for reproduction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | 💯🙌Kinda what I thought but a scrote's gonna scrote. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | 💯🙌Yeah I got called a "fucking whore" in my DMs for desecrating Otis. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:33 PM |
| 98 | Got to talk about dating standards with my 16 year old daughter, but I’m not sure if I got through to her.I am raising teen boys and I can tell you they are absolutely flabbergasted when girls throw themselves at them when they've shown no interest. One girl is calling my 17 yr old almost constantly, he doesn't answer, and he is just so disinterested that it's sort of sad for this girl. I'm sure they're probably not as outwardly clear about their disinterest as they could or should be, but this validates the notion that "if he wanted to he would". In their mind they ARE being clear by their inaction… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:54 AM |
| 13 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultHahaha {{slaps belly}} | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 554 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultThey'll blame her for showing too much ankle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Ladies I need your advice on thisUnless her comment was edited before I saw it, that is not what she said at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 21 | Just what? This only a few months before they tried to sell "Daddy's Little Slut" shirts for little girls.Have they never heard of a man by the name of Jeffrey Epstein? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 15 | Is this even acceptable to plan a date like this??? Like how much more cheap can this guy get? "I hope she ate already so I don't have to waste money"? Ladies, I present you 🤢Jokes on him, it's cheaper to run the dishwasher than to handwash (as long as you have a full load). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 14 | Are There Books Like “Why Men Love Bitches” but Updated/ More CurrentProbably not, he just presents them from a different perspective. His main theme is the idea that adult men are no different than three year olds and should be treated as such. When does a three yr old want his mommy's attention? When she's busy with something or someone else. Why does a three year old act up? He's testing mommy's boundaries to see what he can get away with. And it's not done with the idea that it's a parent-child dynamic, per se, he's just using the toddler comparison to draw a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:12 AM |
| 4 | I can’t believe this is even a question smhWhen I was living in an apartment complex many years ago I received a letter from a male neighbor telling me he'd been watching me and that he wanted to take me to his home country (Turkey) and present me as his girlfriend to his family. Had no idea who this guy was or how long he'd been stalking me. I went to the building management to file a complaint. I don't know what they ended up doing but they kept a copy of the letter in my file just in case. It freaked me out big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 18 | Are There Books Like “Why Men Love Bitches” but Updated/ More CurrentI'm sure there was although I don't remember anything specific that I could pinpoint; it's been a minute since I read it. I tend to absorb what resonates with me and disregard the rest. I DO remember thinking "if this is the way men truly are, why the hell do I even want one?" In other words if even the most HVM has the emotional capacity and general empathy of a toddler and I have to take that into consideration in every interaction with them, what is their value? He doesn't make it easy to lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Are There Books Like “Why Men Love Bitches” but Updated/ More CurrentThat I don't know, I got it on my Kindle for quite cheap tho. Incidentally I like your username as I am also one, if you catch my drift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:02 PM |
| 63 | Are There Books Like “Why Men Love Bitches” but Updated/ More CurrentI like "F*ck him: Why Nice Girls Finish Single" by Brian Nox. He reveals the silent "bro code" and throughout the book explains how to interact with men based on the idea that they all function like three year olds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 20 | What happens when I'm both?What are they referring to by using the "Aryan" label? White? Indo-Iranian? White supremacist? Certainly not the last one because a white supremacist would never breed with a POC (assuming they are assuming a guy name "Tyrone" is). If they meant white why not say white? It's just an odd choice of label to me. This meme is a hot pile of garbage all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Friend's husband wants her to get a job despite them owning and operating 4 retail stores, for the sole purpose of getting health insurance. They haven't gotten along for years, she's on the verge of divorce, and she has him by the short and curlies.I agree but I'm wondering if there's some reason it's not a good idea right now (business reasons etc) which I'm sure is what I'll find out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Reddit scrote talks about women’s fantasiesBingo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 123 | We had been talking to eachother daily for weeks up until this point while I recovered from surgery before our first date. I immediately ghosted him after this. Just... wow LMAO. His bumble originally said he was 31. Make sure you do your research before meeting up with a guy--adds "knows own age" to list of bare minimum expectations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:56 AM |
| 53 | Re: His true colors have been Revealed. He just emailed me... I guess he doesn't knowing blocked him already....at least he wished me the best👀Oh PLEASE tell us how you hurt him so bad. {{grabs popcorn}} | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:44 AM |
| 49 | Know it all dummiesI see you've met my ex husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:42 AM |
| 16 | Friend's husband wants her to get a job despite them owning and operating 4 retail stores, for the sole purpose of getting health insurance. They haven't gotten along for years, she's on the verge of divorce, and she has him by the short and curlies.I don't know that he is aware of that (I mean you can technically just file the initial paperwork without him knowing) but you may be right. I won't get the details until I talk to her but yeah, shit's been sour for awhile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:54 AM |
| 46 | Friend's husband wants her to get a job despite them owning and operating 4 retail stores, for the sole purpose of getting health insurance. They haven't gotten along for years, she's on the verge of divorce, and she has him by the short and curlies.Damn, thank you ladies! This makes sense because she did indicate that she did actually file divorce papers but pulled back for "reasons I'll explain face to face". So there's a very good chance he's trying to get ahead of her. Thank you thank you! You all are the very best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 25 | Reverse psychology?....Easy no for this one.I'm not even on OLD and I've seen this before, it's a copy/paste, can't even be an original asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 8 | LVM drowning in expectations.Yeah they'll point out that one dimple in your thigh when they look like they're 7 months pregnant but that's "muh dad bod". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 11 | Lvm lol....He can't even be bothered to use vowels!!! Oh my gosh the bar is truly in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 15 | Pickmeishas in the comments bragging about being proposed with a recycling project 🤦🏻♀️But but ThEy MaDe it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:00 PM |
| 13 | LVM drowning in expectations.I meant as opposed to being ugly, as so many ugly dudes feel entitled to gorgeous women without having anything else going for them. Is this better? Edit: I actually think u/Maisiebr nailed it, although she went above and beyond my concept of bare minimum expectations which is basically just "don't be gross". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 6 | I’m so lucky to have my mom (FDS’er by nature). My LV husband keeps using the ‘pity poor little me’ move and this is what my mom wrote me this morning.I'd like in as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Would this tattoo make you feel confident?As long as she doesn't wear a thong it should be covered but I don't think she really cares if anyone sees it regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Would this tattoo make you feel confident?There are two pictures. Scroll across to see the other one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 24 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Sis, expecting people to treat you like you treat them is like expecting a lion not to eat you because you didn't eat him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 47 | The Onion made a video about us 😂The Onion's satire has consistently been so dead on that so often many people have missed that it's even satire at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 78 | I’m so lucky to have my mom (FDS’er by nature). My LV husband keeps using the ‘pity poor little me’ move and this is what my mom wrote me this morning.Sis I can't think of a better way to spend money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:06 PM |
| 71 | Big oooooft- this male Youtuber confirms FDS principles. Calls out mens behaviour & double standards when it comes to cheating & lying. Says women are usually right about their suspicions & are stupid to keep giving them endless chancesI noticed he fit a LOT of words in a short video, I assume he'd be barely understood by a non native English speaker. I especially loved how he confirmed OUTLOUD the fact that men as a collective have a pact of silence about how they treat women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 85 | Big oooooft- this male Youtuber confirms FDS principles. Calls out mens behaviour & double standards when it comes to cheating & lying. Says women are usually right about their suspicions & are stupid to keep giving them endless chances"My comment section is a minefield, don't step on a block bomb." So much gold in this video, I like this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 6 | ‘Most of words we use for sex are violent, not just fuck. Think about it…. bang, screw, hit it, pound, smash, rail, plow, pound, like our entire culture has tried to remove the concept of intimacy/vulnerability/emotion from sex by associating violent words with the action.Whoa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 66 | Tbh the only people online I want to meet in real life, are you ladies.There was actually a scrote awhile back who was trying to do just this...get as many FDS ladies to meet up irl as he could. Good thing our mods were on top of it and shut him down, lord only knows what he was planning to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 58 | 😘It's because you don't hang around white supremacists. Not joking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 21 | 😘Lol I know this one got me ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 54 | I hope this hasn’t been posted before, seen on Instagram and had to share!Even when a woman is literally getting PAID to be nice i.e. customer service job, many men take this as flirting. It's insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:32 PM |
| 78 | Men that try to argue your sexual preferencesHad an ex who had a tongue piercing and insisted it made oral spectacular. Instead it felt like a ball-peen hammer and when I told him that he insisted that I just didn't know what good head felt like and I'll "learn to love it" because, well, all his exes did. Men that think women are mass produced from the same mold in a factory are the worst in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 22 | People asking if you’re pregnantInsinuating pregnancy is actually a form of sexual harassment. I know because I sued a major corporation for sexual harassment by my direct superior and that is one of the many things he did (mainly to try to embarrass me in front of the other workers) and my lawyer included it in the complaint. ETA I was not pregnant, and you don't have to be to sue for harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 10 | This Energy >She had me in the first half not gonna lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:53 AM |
| 12 | Really needed this clarification...He'd probably fuck the ocean though if it'd do the job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 75 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡I got an Apple watch for my birthday from a man who I'd only been dating for a few months. This is appalling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 90 | Just Had This Video Hurled At Me On A Post On Ex Red Pill As Justification For FDS Being The Same As TRP. WHEN WLLl Pickmesha's Fucking LEARN!!! I Am Done For The Day.Why does she even care? She can criticize the method but she can’t argue with the result. Get a $5 engagement ring and come tell me in a few years how that’s worked out for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 45 | Luring me into his place with alcohol 🤢It took him a whole hour to Google "chakras" and come up with a response lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:07 AM |
| 4 | A partner that treats you better than your previous partner(s) is not a partner that treats you well.Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:25 AM |
| 12 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?Number 10 may outright get you killed. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 12 | Is it okay to continue having a busy schedule with a boyfriend?Compromise? Let Eartha explain it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 98 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolMy dude I get "good vibes" from my actual vibrator. Try again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 10 | Husband makes 975K a year and she wants to be a stay at home mother. Should she?This aside, Chris Hogan could read chemical formulas outloud and I would be completely rapt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 25 | Why are men so 🤮......stay safe ladiesAnd he said something to the effect of "this is my car and it's going where I want". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Thanks to FDS I can see all the red flags in this sloppy attempt to reel me back in. They know what they’re doing & they don’t care till their access is revoked. He’ll be waiting for that reply forever.Thanks for the responses everyone. I've had guys "apologize" before but the ones who aren't looking to get back together or even have sex (I know because former pickme asked if we could 🤡)baffle me because if they didn't care about what they did when they did it what are they getting out of absolving themselves now? Scrotes are a confusing breed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:17 PM |
| 30 | Thanks to FDS I can see all the red flags in this sloppy attempt to reel me back in. They know what they’re doing & they don’t care till their access is revoked. He’ll be waiting for that reply forever.Legit question: are these ever sincere? If a man actually does the work needed to stop being the scrote he was and genuinely wants to atone for the hurt he caused people, is that a thing? Or do they generally not reach out to people like this even if they do change? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 41 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...I interpreted it as "you'll stay loyal even when I'm being amoral (cheating or being a general shit)". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 47 | Never give them all the answers! He could have consulted my profile for this. Back in my pick-me days I would have given him a list lol.Tell him to buy a watch lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 21 | The ruminations of Sir Scrot! He condemns attention seeking sluts while he commiserated with his fellow scrots over women who know their exalted worth!r/iamverysmart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:22 PM |
| 21 | Some of these men have deep rooted misogyny, and a superiority complex that outshines the sun. The delusion level on this one is also alarming 🚨Thank you, I thought that as well. Like yeah now I'm curious as to what she thinks a mom is supposed to look like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:20 PM |
| 8 | I have no wordsImagine being so useless you're jealous of someone who has been on this Earth for mere days and can't do anything but eat, sleep, and cry. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 40 | I have no wordsThis was my thought exactly. I wonder if he'd still want it if she expressed some in a glass, or if he's really just trying to sexualize the experience and is actually jealous of the baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Reminder about our other subs for non dating questions, men with questions, and for mocking idiots who send abusive messages on redditThat third link doesn't come up with anything. r/fdssuperfans maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 14 | The bar is SO LOW it's on the groundOhhh I totally read it wrong. I read "show a cool girl enough leaf" lol I need more coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 10 | The bar is SO LOW it's on the ground"Leaf"? Help an old lady out here with the lingo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on fake wedding rings to keep men away?I knew a guy who wasn't deterred by a ring, he'd say "I never saw a ring that could plug a hole". Having sex with a married woman is attractive to them because it means there's a high chance she won't want a relationship since she's already in one. And if she's willing to cheat she must be desperate for the D so even better for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 71 | Saying too bad he couldn't sleep with me is apparently a compliment 🙄Because he's hoping you'll sleep with him, just like the subject of OP's post. You see he is trying to still sleep with her after she says she's married. They're hoping we'll cheat if they express desire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 15 | I've been studying FDS this past week for the first time and now I'm able to spot LVM on OLD that think they're the prize. My old pick self would probably agree with him 😑You would think a Haitian and Colombian would know how to spell both. Probably spells his own name wrong too. Laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 32 | Oh wellCame here to say just take that first line off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 24 | I've been studying FDS this past week for the first time and now I'm able to spot LVM on OLD that think they're the prize. My old pick self would probably agree with him 😑"Cheap? No I'm not cheap, I only accept high end brand name products and services. 💅" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 30 | "That's it?" I thought instantly when I got in bed the first time with my ex and he removed his pants. I wanted to stop instantly but didn't want to offend him. How to tactfully handle getting in bed with a guy but he instantly does not have what you want (particularly in the length department)?Hahah thanks! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 70 | "That's it?" I thought instantly when I got in bed the first time with my ex and he removed his pants. I wanted to stop instantly but didn't want to offend him. How to tactfully handle getting in bed with a guy but he instantly does not have what you want (particularly in the length department)?This. I knew I had a good one when my now boyfriend got a boner and it was halfway down his thigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 72 | He really thinks God gave me tinder for him. Oh, where his job title, he put “not looking for anything serious fr” so clear contradictions.Any man who refers to human women as "females" like we're some kind of wild breed on a National Geographic documentary is a hard no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 10 | Men supporting women sleeping with them for nothing. Satire article.Ha! It would be Madison too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Cervical screening support neededI hope so too sis! Take comfort in knowing that nobody likes these, they always suck but we gotta look out for our health and make it a number one priority because that's what queens do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Cervical screening support neededThis tends to be a very humbling and off putting experience for sure. It might help to think of that as just another part of your body, like you're getting your arm looked at. Honestly that's how the medical staff sees it. I'm not trying to trivialize or minimize your experience, but instead putting it in a clinical category. I second the other ladies when they say it's something that will probably become easier over time. Find a doctor that does their best to make you feel at ease and establish… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 27 | Maybe he doesn’t hit you.... butMaybe he doesn't hit you but he wants to. He thinks about it every time you "mouth off" to him but he knows better only because he doesn't want to go to jail. One day maybe he'll actually do it because it's getting harder and harder not to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 13 | Instead of sending this reply, I blocked him. Not spending time on guys who don’t do the basics.That would be a step up from the current "sandwich artist" moniker currently used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 23 | Instead of sending this reply, I blocked him. Not spending time on guys who don’t do the basics.We should all have a personal handbook that guys are required to read before even messaging us. "What do you like...""READ THE HANDBOOK" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 33 | Instead of sending this reply, I blocked him. Not spending time on guys who don’t do the basics.Men on Facebook: "how dare you be polite and chat with me after I initiated contact when you have a boyfriend which I would clearly have seen in your profile had I bothered to look past your pictures!!" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 60 | Even female friends refuse to listen to the horrors about porn...She may have been uncomfortable but you most likely planted a seed. In general people don't like their beliefs challenged, and discovering that you've been wrong about something is never a comfortable experience. I, too, was a frequent porn user because I truly didn't think there was anything wrong with it and at best it was women capitalizing on mens' natural inclination for depravity (yay empowerment! /s). Thanks mostly to this sub I know better now, and I do better, and I demand better from t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 3 | THANK YOUhttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i682l5/i_found_the_perfect_song_for_my_fdsinspired/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 3 | THANK YOUHere it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Yellow dick paste the revolutionising antibacterial goodnessSure dick cheese is natural but just because something is natural doesn't mean it's not gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Dating Advice Needed For a NoviceBecause you put the number sign in front of the numbers which formats the text as bold 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 72 | Sorry!!!! (Not) guy was so damn thirsty.Didn't even ask, it was a directive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:21 AM |
| 121 | I have no words lolI saw "big earner at 50K" and snorted. No no no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:52 AM |
| 14 | Keep flip flopping on a LVM, please talk some sense into meThis. It feels like rejection but only sort of, like maaaybe if you just tried a little harder he'd come around. This is exactly what he wants because now you're chasing him and vying for his attention. He's handing you an entire bouquet of red flags, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:50 AM |
| 113 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one."He's the hardest worker I know." She must not know very many people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:45 AM |
| 33 | Guy raped his ex-girlfriend "as his prize" and doesn't feel it's wrong.Anal only four months in. 🤔 That escalated quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 17 | Please share some personal, real examples of HVM treatment and behaviours ❤️The other day I had to put my pet to sleep. My boyfriend doesn't live in my city so he couldn't be there in person but asked if he could send lunch to me and my kids...and he did. He wanted us to worry about one less thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:27 PM |
| 20 | Found this gem floating around Facebook.That's included with "must do everything I say". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:20 PM |
| 31 | Found this gem floating around Facebook.MUST EAT 20 MEALS A DAY WHAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:18 PM |
| 45 | “I hate small talk” = I hate putting in the effort required to have authentic emotional intimacy. So, rather than earning your trust, I intend on acting annoyed by your walls/boundaries and prying into your psyche because I feel entitled to your immediate trust.And it's a straight up copy pasta from a meme you'd see on Pinterest. The bar is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 22 | Ideas for high value hobbiesWorking out, gardening and landscaping, remote volunteer opportunities, crafts, online schools/classes, online mentoring programs, community service... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 13 | The double standards... I can’t deal!!! Ugh!Think of the children! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.I agree with you. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.I think all ex husbands are cut from the same cloth lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments."Pulling open the trash bag." You're so right. Thank you. And yes my kids' dad sounds exactly like yours, it's so hard when you wanna say something but you can't because he'll take it out on the kids. Oh the verbal and mental gymnastics we endure because we chose wrong men. Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.I provided some context in a comment, it's floating around somewhere. Basically he has a history of not having sympathy for anything or really caring at all until he experiences it for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:12 AM |
| 12 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Haha "I know what your 37 hr back labor felt like because I had a poop caught crosswise once" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Someone gets it. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 11 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Excuse me? Read it several times. Just because someone is asking for advice it doesn't mean they haven't read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 11 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Thank you, I have considered that. My ex isn't abusive, just lazy and wanted a mommy, not a wife. Not making excuses just saying he's not completely evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 8 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.☠️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Yeah I kinda thought that too. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 32 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.That's actually better. It's how he responded yesterday when I told him our pet passed away. "That's sad." Told you, emotional variation of sand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 31 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.I can't block delete. Divorce hasn't gone thru yet, still has some stuff at my house, and he's the stepfather to my kids. YES he can communicate directly with them (and does) and he's responsible for maintaining any relationship he wants with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 45 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.My soon to be ex husband, has the emotional variation of sand and never had any sympathy for any pain I had, physical or emotional, unless it's something he had personally experienced (and then would downplay or tell me how I should feel compared to his experience). A part of me just says to not even respond because I'm not trying to change him (he's someone else's problem after moving in with another woman immediately after I ousted him) but I still have this need to reinforce my decision to en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:24 PM |
| 14 | When women say no, it's a negotiation.If you have to tell someone you're nice, selfless, generous, etc. you're actually not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 72 | Dear men, you don’t get it both ways.You don't get to jerk off to other women to the point that you are literally unable to have sex with your girl, then feel like the victim when she finally gets dick elsewhere. You don't get to complain that you don't have enough money as a couple while you refuse to upgrade from your part time job. You don't get to complain that your wife's retirement fund isn't enough to sustain both of you after retirement when you don't have a job that offers retirement benefits (and refuse to get one). You d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 13 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.Hahah yes! "What's up fuckbuddy?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 78 | Something about an article mentioning a 16 year old’s bra just doesn’t sit right with me. Notice there’s also another piece about a 14 year old’s wardrobe.Why is that even news? "Woman wears workout clothes to work out" what a world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 15 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?This was my first thought. "He's not watching a movie with his sister at that hour.". Even if he was, who throws a potential love interest over to spend time with his sister?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 21 | At what point should you stop playing the dumb fox?Thank you for saying this. This concept is one of the issues I had with "Why Men Marry Bitches". The author talks about playing dumb fox well into a long term marriage and while I understand the logic, it seems like way too much acquiescence if you have to keep employing this method for years just to get him to do basic stuff like put his dirty clothes in the hamper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedBingo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:24 PM |
| 17 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedHe probably has mail delivered there. He probably has a key. He can show the police all his personal possessions that are there, it wouldn't be hard to prove to a reasonable person that he has been living there. The lease is just there to hold someone accountable for paying the rent and responsibility for damage, doesn't say fuckall about who stays there. If there's even a question about his residency there the police would say it's a civil matter and to take him to court, and here we are back a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:24 AM |
| 29 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedDepending on where she lives the police may not be able to do anything. If he's established residency there (been living there for a good amount of time) it doesn't matter if he's not on the lease, he lives there now and has just as much of a right to be there as she does. Eviction is the only way to remove him if he chooses to stay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 26 | Pick me is a thing on Tik tok! Interesting. Also, please someone pick her please ...Those aren't even real dreads it's like matted hair from not brushing it for months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:00 AM |
| 6 | Find yourself before you look for someone elseYou know, I remember seeing this in my pre FDS days but I watched it again and it holds so much more depth and meaning now. Thank you for the reminder, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:13 PM |
| 7 | “And stuff”Lol true true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 52 | “And stuff”And "watching Netflix" didn't mean "have sex". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:19 PM |
| 20 | OMG look who bought me flowers! It's me because I'm my favorite person and I love me so much.Agreed! I also have a HVM who does all sorts of wonderful things for me. Doesn't stop me from doing all sorts of wonderful things for myself! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:03 AM |
| 39 | OMG look who bought me flowers! It's me because I'm my favorite person and I love me so much.If you don't treat yourself you can't expect anyone else to! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:39 AM |
| 54 | OMG look who bought me flowers! It's me because I'm my favorite person and I love me so much.I have no idea ladies! 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 6 | These men really have that much audacity...Why does he have cocksucker's cramp in every picture? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 118 | Don’t let any man waste your time, no matter how short.And "Chill" = "you're upset which means you can't regulate your emotions so I have to do it for you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:22 PM |
| 19 | I have no clue what just happened here. Not entirely convinced I’m not being punk’d or something....An incel in the wild. Shhhhh I think it's trying to talk to us... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:32 AM |
| 8 | way to go callumHey Callum, a chokehold during sex doesn't count as "practicing BJJ moves" you shit for brains. ETA anyone truly trained in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu doesn't "practice" with someone who isn't also trained at the same level and hasn't agreed to spar with you. You're just being a dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 49 | I started a discussion 😬NO do NOT feel sorry for him. These assholes need to be called out publicly when they sexually harass us. You did a public service here and I thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 8 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightI didn't do it, I just noticed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 17 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightHaha you're an apprentice now, congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 15 | sure sure..."Logically, I already know that she is interested in me because she approached, what I don't know yet is if I am interested in her." -- the only guy telling the truth in the comments This. If he wanted to he would. And if a guy doesn't have the balls to talk to me, why should I? I mean he is the one with the balls, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Bruh leave me alone 🏃♀️On YouTube no less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 34 | Why are the FDS stalkers so obsessed with us and what we do with our sexualities and love lives lmfaoFALSE. My man doesn't get soft until I tell him I'm done with it. Go tell THAT. Side note: he doesn't watch porn. It's almost like there's a correlation. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Roast-a-scrote: A how-to guideRoasting him for being short? This is body shaming. If it was a pic of a man making a covert "fat" gesture while taking a picture with her and all his buddies laughing about it in the comments we'd set them on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:14 PM |
| 18 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.Yeah my first thought is how would she even get this large makeup compact between her toes, open, beyond his head without him knowing she was doing something weird. Unless she's one of those really skilled people and can pick up grains of rice with her toes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 56 | Spotted in the wild: a LVM😑While I guilt trip you because "you knew what this was". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:20 PM |
| 48 | Spotted in the wild: a LVM😑"And you pay half for gas." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:17 PM |
| 21 | Are reproductive rights key to ensuring more women make the money they need to stay single?The company I work for (it’s a global multi billion dollar Fortune 500 company) just did a study on why they tend to hire more male than female college grads. Long story short what they found is that while both sexes interview answers were the same or at least logically sound, the way the women answered the questions was off putting to the interviewer, who were mostly men. For example the woman would say “I think I’d do this...” or “well I don’t think I have all the information but...” and the m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 28 | He stuffed so much audacity into one little space, I just had to share it with y'all!“You’re that disgusting dude” “Yeah” Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 98 | No, I am NOT the crazy one.Sober thoughts are drunk words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 16 | LVM PUA Tactics on OLD.This explains so much about the OLD screenshots y'all post here that makes the rest of us go "what is he thinking posting this??". I mean of course, duh, it's a conscious tactic and yes despite logic it works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:31 PM |
| 27 | Dating religious/conservative men: A Report/ Share your experiences!My boyfriend eats a lot of hummus but he's middle eastern so I gotta give him a pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 92 | 2️⃣🙅🏻♀️1️⃣🤦🏻♀️3️⃣🙎🏻♀️😂😂😂I agree. It's illegal to walk up to a person in public and display your genitals (aka "flashers") so I don't understand how this isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 7 | Advice on the best way to tell men to leave me alone and stop complimenting me?I walk on a trail in my city and I like this knife because who knows if the guy walking or running towards/past me is harmless or gonna grab me. I think the knife is easier to get to and would be more effective because you can stick them anywhere if they attack you as opposed to hoping you get the pepper spray in the face (and not getting yourself in the process). I also understand that not everyone is comfortable with deadly weapons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 8 | Advice on the best way to tell men to leave me alone and stop complimenting me?I don't know where you live but I bought a small punch knife on a lanyard and its the most brilliant and badass thing. In my state any knife is legal to carry as long as you wouldn't be unqualified to carry a weapon (i.e. not a felon or insane). It's a one handed motion to pull it out of the sheath. Easy to conceal under a shirt on a walk or just a trip to the store, sure to fuck up any scrote's day. https://www.gerbergear.com/en-us/shop/knives/all-knives/ghostrike-punch-knife-30-001007 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 22 | This man's response to a LVM saying, "Y'all bitches gonna love being single until you're in your 80s, no kids & all your family dead. Keep playing."☠️☠️😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 31 | Males love to make fun of women about bathroom lines in attempt to feel superiorMen don't have to change diapers and take children to the bathroom??? The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 16 | BBC News: Coronavirus face masks: Why men are less likely to wear masksMy 14 yr old son insists on wearing a mask, and he uses one of mine that has pink roses on it. I've offered to get him another one but he loves it (he's way into plants and gardening). People comment all the time how "brave" he is or how secure in his manhood he must be to wear it and he's just like "yep!". If he can do it, so can they. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 58 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?Or if you're gonna pay for your dinner then you'd just go by yourself and be spared a solid shitty hour of some dude telling you how awesome he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 138 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?You sit there quietly when he receives the check. Don't pretend to look at your phone or rifle through your purse for your wallet or anything like that. If he complains AT ALL about the bill (how much it is, what you ordered, etc.), your time with him is done. End the date as soon as possible and don't go out with him again because he's cheap, broke, or thinks you're not worth it. Delete and block. If he wants to split the bill, pay your half gracefully. End the date as soon as possible, and don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:15 AM |
| 69 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?Not worth it. That gives him leverage to "fix" it or charm his way out of it and pull you back in. You don't want him if you have to correct his behavior on date one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:03 AM |
| 8 | Lord help me... I can not with these scrotes. Guys... just stop. Stop pushing our boundries. Stop abusing us. Stop telling us thats its normal and okay to be abused. Stop telling us to stay when men who are abusive. FUCKING STOP!!!Right, because hitting an abuser in the balls is gonna potentially result in him doing even more harm to her. People that have never been in an abusive relationship, or even an abusive situation, don't have even the bare minimum qualifications to give advice on the subject. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 16 | SexBullshit. Men would literally fuck a tree stump if they thought it would get them off. He's trying to control you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 8 | I took a LONG break from dating apps and this is what I come back to. Somethin is seriously wrong with him. JANUARY?!?Thiiiiirrrrssssty lol WOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:28 PM |
| 48 | Don't be afraid to say you are happily divorced!It's exactly as Louie CK describes it: "Divorce is always good news. I know that sounds weird, but it's true because no good marriage has ever ended in divorce. That would be sad. If two people were married and ... they just had a great thing and then they got divorced, that would be really sad. But that has happened zero times." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 2 | is my boyfriend a HVM?So often I react one way in the moment and later think I should have reacted differently. Getting some distance really helps give us the clarity we didn't have in that moment when we were likely caught off guard. And I don't know about you but Im still recovering from a lifetime of conditioning so my first reaction is usually a result of that conditioning (e.g. nervously laughing it off). After the fact, I reflect a bit and my perspective changes. So yeah sometimes later I'll be upset at the per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:19 AM |
| 10 | is my boyfriend a HVM?The silent treatment is an outright punishment. What you're doing is self reflection and taking time to process the situation before reacting. Two very different things. I always tell people "I need 3 to 5 business days to process my feelings" lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 01:56 AM |
| 94 | is my boyfriend a HVM?I stopped reading after "he is receptive to feedback after sulking for a few hours". 3 yr olds are also pretty receptive to feedback after sulking for a few hours. You know the answer to your question already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:39 PM |
| 104 | What do you think of this ladies? Idk where to even start. This seems pretty toxic.No he didn't say "hi" he said "hiiii" and that definitely means "let's fuck". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 138 | You what mate?This is a really good call out. Same as those who don't understand that the "right to free speech" does not mean freedom from the social consequences of that speech. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else tired of conspiracy theory reddit bros sensationalizing terrible things?And yet someone is downvoting me lol I guess she really DID enter the room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Women share these social media husband fails as "humor" to downplay their partner's LVM behavior & convince themselves that marriage with an unequal partnership is better than being alone. Don't take advice or feel shame for living your best life from the (unhappily) married crabs-in-a-bucket-club..And I was only asking him to pop an ALREADY MADE food into the oven! I should have known. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else tired of conspiracy theory reddit bros sensationalizing terrible things?"Women could never" Ghislaine Maxwell enters the room | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:39 PM |
| 41 | New Scientific Study Finally Confirms What This FDS Post Flair Already Knew"The running hypothesis is that the type of porn watched may become more explicit over time and partner-sex may not lead to the same level of arousal as the pornographic material does." Boom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:16 PM |
| 2 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️My bf and I have this but it's not the glue that holds us together by any means. We are the only person each of us has ever known that we can talk to about our stuff and be truly understood, think "empathy" vs "sympathy". We don't use each other as a substitute for therapy or try to "fix" each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 11 | What do we think about burping and farting?Haha reminds me of this! https://youtu.be/-_zS-3ofyo8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 124 | She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected.Her insta is chock full of "look at me!" pictures of her in sport bras and bikinis with duck faces. Not taking her advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 69 | What's up with guys photoshopping anime characters into their pictures nowadays?!?And one with red rimmed eyes and physically forcing herself to smile. He's showing you your future with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 41 | Women share these social media husband fails as "humor" to downplay their partner's LVM behavior & convince themselves that marriage with an unequal partnership is better than being alone. Don't take advice or feel shame for living your best life from the (unhappily) married crabs-in-a-bucket-club..Reminds me of my ex. Once I made a meatloaf ahead of time with explicit written instructions on when to put it in the oven and at what temperature. Or so I thought. Meatloaf can take about an hour so I wrote "at least 50 minutes before I get home from work", thinking that gives a little leeway in case I'm a few minutes late getting home. Well he figured two hours was "at least 50 min" (technically, sure) so by the time I got home the loaf was a dried out burnt meat puck. Guess who was to blame f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 118 | Don’t drink alcohol on datesI would also say that if you choose not to drink, pay close attention to how he handles it. I've experienced countless men that were so insecure and uncomfortable that that I wasn't drinking (even strangers approaching me after they notice). It's a huge red flag if he's not comfortable with you not drinking and/or pressures you to drink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️It's Michael James Schneider. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:34 PM |
| 3 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️Yeah honestly to each their own but I don't understand how this is "art". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 7 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Same. I actually have more time, more money (funny how much he was costing me and I didn't realize it), stopped drinking, lost weight, and sleep like a log because I'm not stressed out from constantly caring for a grown ass man. Life is good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 33 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Let me tell you...I kicked my husband out earlier this year and now am the sole caretaker of the house. Which is a bit ironic because part of the reason I booted him is because he's lazy and didn't really do anything around the house so it was left to me. BUT...now that I am on my own I am learning. There are YouTube videos for everything that Google can't explain well enough, and people I can pay to do jobs too big for me (I pay someone to do my nails so there's no shame in hiring someone to kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 37 | Impart a nugget of FDS wisdom on every young woman you meet. They are being groomed. An experience with Radio Disney...Pop music in general is rife with these messages, but it's a moneymaking industry designed to be consumed by the masses and relevant to a wide demographic to maximize profits. Angst and pain sells, especially to women, just like sex sells to men. It's a vicious cycle...we are bombarded by these messages that we soon are conditioned to believe, and when the self fulfilling prophesies come true we continue to listen to the messages because it's relatable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Oh Lort 🤭No problem, 'tis a common misconception. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Oh Lort 🤭Lol nah, if they're juicing heavy their nuts shrink but that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:50 AM |
| 26 | Oh Lort 🤭Unfortunately some of them look like a mushroom cap in a bird's nest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 70 | This is proof that when a guy "cannot control his anger" or "got too upset" that he is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it.Same logic as guys who won't harass a woman if she's with another man. They can absolutely control their urges when there's a very real threat of getting their ass handed to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:32 PM |
| 10 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 65 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Another one looking for a therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Try again pleaseI raise you a bottle of Night Train and a Tootsie Roll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 79 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Maaaaan...if someone shared their snacks with me AND each one came with a story I'd be in heaven. You sound like a lovely person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 35 | Lvm "apologizing""I'm sorry but I don't know what I'm sorry for I just don't want you to be mad at me and I'm hungry can you make dinner now" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:41 PM |
| 21 | Try again pleasebrings $5 boxed Franzia and a Hershey bar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 15 | Try again pleaseGod I HATE when a guy says something like "only if you want to" or "you don't have to" BITCH I ALREADY KNOW IT'S MY CHOICE!! Like I need your permission to say no???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Entitled man negotiating sex with me after having gone on just ONE walk “date” and very sporadic communication in betweenYou have SEVEN other unread texts (yaaas queen). Go and engage with those people and drop this dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 90 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girls"Accept rematch" lol like a battle. "Once more we spar." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedThis right here is why we never show them the playbook. We let them reveal their intentions and sort it out from there, otherwise they know how to fool us into getting what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 10:14 PM |
| 7 | So the only thing he has going for himself is a shelter over his head 🤮Like ok break me off...a piece of that Kit Kat bar and give me a massage, sounds kinda nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:23 AM |
| 16 | TruthIt has not been easy but we women are tough right? That's the thing you know, a guy is like "I was hurt one time" and uses it to be a shit pile to everyone he meets. Many of us women have been through so much yet we don't seem to use it as an excuse to the extent that they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:21 AM |
| 22 | So the only thing he has going for himself is a shelter over his head 🤮"Break you off"? Someone explain. Is this a euphemism for sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 178 | TruthWhen people ask me what age I lost my virginity I always refer to when it was MY choice, when I willingly had sex for the first time. Because the truth is that I don't know how old I was, I was a child and my timeline is so fucked from the ongoing abuse that I truly I don't know, and my brain is protecting me from knowing for a reason. Virginity to me is not when someone took you for the first time, it's when you gave to someone else. I will not let some depraved male take that away from me afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 38 | Even non-swipe based apps are uselessEven on Facebook men I don't know will "like" a picture or pictures (sometimes many in a row). Are they expecting me to be flattered and then "friend" them and start a conversation? It's so lame to me. Is this what they're used to women doing now? Just liking some random chick's pics and sitting back waiting for her to do something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF]Haha the new FDS coffee table book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 30 | LVM hits me up with an emoji, I meet him with equal effort - he would rather it if I were a woman who can hold an "articulate conversation" - you can't make this shit up.Earth=your vagina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Do you have a handy link by chance? Or remember what it's called? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:24 PM |
| 134 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Am I just old or does it bother anyone else when people way overuse "lol"? Like are you really lol that much or do you just really not know enough words to form a complete coherent sentence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 15 | Does not turning heads mean you're not attractive anymore?Depends sometimes on where you're "out". At a college bar guys are gonna think a 29 yr old doesn't belong and may gloss over you. At the grocery store, not so much. At 47 I don’t usually notice when I'm garnering attention and even when I'm told otherwise I don't believe it and brush it off. I think I’m just not paying attention like I used to because I don’t really crave it like I did when I was younger. The wisdom that has come with age blunted the need for validation from strangers that I yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 8 | Weigh in: do you think this is sketchThis is similar to a man touching a woman to “squeeze by” her. Would he do that to a man? Would he put his arm/hand around/on his waist to hear him better? Purposefully brush past him with every body part in a crowded room to “lemme just sneak past you”? Hell no he’d get socked in the nose for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:19 PM |
| 117 | I mean, what do you even respond to this? LolLet me guess, you’re Latina? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:48 AM |
| 88 | Would it be okay to take him back in this specific scenario?You're way too invested in him after two dates, already trying to figure him out and getting mixed signals. Don't initiate contact again, if he wanted to he would. If he does reel you back in ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want, him ghosting you every time he has an issue and canceling on you to go to work. Edit to add: you're not even exclusive at this point so there is nothing to "take back". You should be dating other men also which will help you not focus on this one so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:17 AM |
| 9 | On an article about gardening and pollination. Mother Nature gets it.Was waiting for this comment 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:25 AM |
| 12 | Much needed pep talk"Cheesecake with bones" omg I'm dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 9 | I was a pickme before, but not anymore. This subreddit is helping me be better alone."I can't settle down"...with you There I fixed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 9 | On an article about gardening and pollination. Mother Nature gets it.Hahaha here you go! https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/jamie-oliver/crispy-zucchini-flowers-stuffed-with-ricotta-and-mint-recipe-2011987 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 10:58 PM |
| 7 | There is nothing okay about thisYeah mine was like “but I don’t wanna lose you” like I’m sure you don’t, I'd hate to lose me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing okay about thisMe too sis! I’m grateful that there are so many women here that are figuring it out early and not learning the hard way after decades of mistakes like me. This sub is such a gift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 7 | There is nothing okay about thisTo be honest my first husband was abusive so when my second husband came along I was so grateful that he didn’t threaten to kill me all the time that I didn’t see how low value he was too, just in other ways. It’s sad when we rate these guys by comparison because it’s all we know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 19 | There is nothing okay about this"He doesn't beat me." The bar isn't low it's in Hell now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:45 PM |
| 23 | Glad to be this man’s second choice. We went on a date back in October. This virus is bringing out the desperation in menJake? From State Farm? What are you wearing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:22 AM |
| 32 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekHey! He couldn’t find the shallots ok??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 12 | 'He chooses to be home'“He looks at back at me when he dies” ah if I had a nickel for every time I’ve said that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Liberal feminists think too highly of men and men's nature.I agree with both ideas. Yes we should be teaching boys to not rape as men, but until that utopian day when 100% of them are in absolute compliance, I will arm myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 58 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️There is something deeply wrong about a big man who needs a tiny woman to inspire him to work out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:03 PM |
| 98 | So this happened.... I'm actually taking it as a compliment I am pissing these incels offFound the sister who’s gonna rescue us from that burning building! ✅ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:15 AM |
| 86 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!Another Schrödinger’s douchebag: he was joking or not depending on the woman’s reaction to his audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 79 | "I don't play games I'm straight"I hate this. “When are you free next?” Like for what? For how long? Vague open ended questions are so low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.Because there’s a good chance they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | How to end a first dateHahah I don’t know where it’s from, someone posted it on Facebook and I found it on YouTube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:15 PM |
| 3 | How to end a first dateThat's what I hear too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:21 AM |
| 182 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Or OP is just another one she knows about now and she's just like "yep". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:50 PM |
| 90 | She can have him.Truth! My ex's rebound girlfriend thinks he's the best thing ever and how lucky she is that I "gave him up". Good luck honey! Have fun scrubbing his shit splatter off the toilet while he plays video games! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:46 PM |
| 56 | Nothing wrong with just wanting to hook up, but low value males don’t even make an effort to get you to find the attractive. Why do they think it’s okay to speak to us like this?"If I let you fuck me it means I'm already brainless and someone else already beat you to it." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:43 PM |
| 15 | Safety: how many of you own a gun?I have a concealed carry license and a 9mm Ruger. I always had a healthy respect for guns but at the same time was afraid of them. I realized my fear stemmed from not being comfortable handling them (classic fear of the unknown) but also because I was hyperaware of their innate power, and I was determined to overcome that. So I went to a gun store with someone who knew about guns, and between him and the clerk found one that felt good in my hands, had a solid reputation, and was within my budget… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:18 AM |
| 40 | Going from a narcissistic asshole to successful good guy?Please read "Women Who Love Too Much" by Robin Norwood. It helped me immensely to understand why I kept finding myself with the same kind of man over and over. "Women Who Love Too Much (1985) explores the unhealthy relationships that some women find themselves in again and again. Using real-life case studies and devastating insights, the blinks explain the true reasons behind women's fascination with unsuitable men and describe how we can move past our insecurities for good." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:56 AM |
| 12 | My opinion was most men are trash oopsie daisyNah my boyfriend is well trained in jiu jitsu, he says ABSOLUTELY kick a man in the balls if needed for defense. This bullshit like it won't take a man down is just that, no man on the planet will hold up to a well placed kick to the nards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 182 | From a potential date before we’d even gone out once: Sure you were joking...testing the waters then backtracking, gaslighting and when neither worked hitting me with the oh so classic angry tirade of abuse 👌"I wish I was there with you so I could rip your nuts off. Kidding! I would never do it. 😂 WhAt YoU cAn'T tAkE a JoKe??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.Yeah I could do that, it would work in certain situations. I feel like I’m not obligated to answer it all though if it’s not an appropriate question. If he was asking if I’m single then that’s a different question. There was just no reason for him to know if I live alone in this case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.THANK YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.Right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 36 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.I love dogs but I also want to travel more so I honestly can’t afford the responsibility of one. I do have weapons though but I know those only work once the dude has already broken in and a dog would be a deterrent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 84 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.“Shining the doorknob” is that what they’re calling it these days? Seriously though that’s super scary. Ever since I enacted KickHimOut2020 earlier this year guys in the neighborhood are catching on that I don’t have a man in the house and it frightens me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.I vet them as much as I can (look at their info, public posts, friends list) but part of why I got back on the site was to meet new people and network. Yes I know most guys are not going to be my friend but I have accepted friend requests from some that haven’t been creepy at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 15 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.He’s in Jersey and I’m in the Midwest. Not sure what shot he thought he was getting lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 24 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.Exactly. It seems like men treat Facebook like a dating app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:46 PM |
| 77 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.I can see that but I think there’s a better way for him to ask. Again this is not a dating site (Facebook) and nothing about my profile indicates I’m looking to date. He just added me as a friend on Facebook and proceeded to fire personal questions at me. Edit: he unfriended me because of this. It’s sad when they can’t handle boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Queen EnergySAME lil sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 21 | This woman is so deep in the fog. What can we do to help?Oh God it's my ex husband. I guarantee this is only how it starts. Reading this made my stomach turn in knots knowing what's in store for her. Run sis. Please RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:45 PM |
| 27 | Her mind is set for sureI didn't know that's what she was dressing as! Makes sense now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 21 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂I was thinking more Sideshow Bob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:55 PM |
| 53 | when lurkers don’t even lurk correctlyAnd I see a LOT of sisters on here going on about how much they hate men but that is their individual opinion, NOT the point of this sub and not something this sub promotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:49 PM |
| 206 | Her mind is set for sure"#KickHimOut1948" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | What in the flying f—k !?“My husband found the guy on Reddit...” The hell you say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Sleeping 😴 I’ve noticed a key difference between HVM and LVM is that HVM care about your sleep. Anyone else?He has dealt with this since college and yes he’s seen doctors. He has sleep apnea which I suspects at least contributes, but his CPAP is uncomfortable as hell (imagine having air literally forced into your lungs all night) so he has a hard time sleeping with it on. He’s a good sport about being sleep deprived so what can you do. We don’t live together so it’s not something that directly affects me like it would if we were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 39 | ComebacksLol yes this is my favorite!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 9 | Sleeping 😴 I’ve noticed a key difference between HVM and LVM is that HVM care about your sleep. Anyone else?Could be he just wasn't used to someone sleeping next to him. If you normally sleep alone it can throw you off, especially if you're a light sleeper. Worst case scenario he was too nervous to sleep waiting for someone else to walk in and catch him sleeping with another woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:34 PM |
| 16 | Sleeping 😴 I’ve noticed a key difference between HVM and LVM is that HVM care about your sleep. Anyone else?YES. My HVM ALWAYS asks me how I slept when he texts me good morning. He has horrible insomnia (sometimes doesn't sleep at all) and yet when I haven't had the best nights sleep he will be very empathetic. Then I realize me complaining about getting 5 hrs of sleep instead of 7 is way better than anything he ever gets and I feel so bad but he's always like "Hey I'm used it and you're not so it's OK". He never tries to one up me. If I'm even the least bit tired he encourages me to take a nap, even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | He ghosted me and I have one question"Zombied" omg ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:45 PM |
| 1 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Go to "About", scroll all the way down to the list of moderators. There's a little envelope icon to the right of the "Moderators" heading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 61 | Thank You 🙏It's the same thing when dudes think strippers are legit into them. Bro you have dollars, that's what they're into. They're into doing their job. Irony is if they ever ARE able to score a relationship with a stripper they soon resent her for being a stripper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 64 | This one's for the books, girls! She's cracked the code they didn't know they had.This is pure gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:35 PM |
| 23 | Looking for a strong independent women but also reply within 24 hours or you’re toast. At least he’s self aware that he’s a piece of shit lol. 🤷♀️Why list specific qualities that won't make you his wife if he indicates at the end that he's an asshole and therefore not husband material anyway? Is this just a way to reel in women who think "oh I'll be the one that changes him!"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:34 PM |
| 18 | His wife is probably safety pinning the household to-do list to his front pocket like a 5th grader at this pointI was just gonna say I SO applaud these responses, sis nails it every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:07 PM |
| 3 | A friend of mine’s ex cheated on her and she hasn’t decided whether to stay with him or not and he’s making no effort to admit he did wrong, it’s been months. She keeps talking about it. I don’t know what to do, it’s starting to make me aggressive.Ask "what can I do?". If she wants advice, urge her to talk to a therapist because you're not equipped to help her. What you would do and what she should do may be totally different. There may be more going on than what's she's telling you. Make it clear to her that you don't want to get in the middle of her relationship because it could have detrimental effects on your friendship (eg if she doesn't like your advice or you end up being wrong and she resents you). Don't feel badly if you have to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:01 PM |
| 86 | I’m sorry, he what?What in fresh hell did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 12 | I hope she gets picked. Also, getting in a car with a stranger on the first date... Couldn't be me 🤡🤡🤡Hey at least she’ll be in comfy clothes when she’s rolled into that shallow grave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 11:57 PM |
| 20 | Today is the first time I'll be going to the beach completely unshavenI typically shave in all the normal places but now if I have a little stubble at the pool or beach I don't care because if someone can see it they're too damn close. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:40 PM |
| 86 | Triggered Pickmeisha mad on behalf of little dick menI've had experience with a variety of penises. I thought I liked smaller ones because most hung guys think they don't need skills if they're big, and a guy that just wants to jackhammer away at you is so painful. Now I have one attached to someone who absolutely knows how to use it and I couldn't have even imagined it could be this amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:36 PM |
| 18 | In case you forget, men are the logical ones.Jesus. The same way you overcome the urge to not eat the whole cake or not murder someone: you learn to control your impulses like a civilized human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 37 | A L A R M B E L L SIt's just like the quote says: "Men who tell you they have a crazy ex are saying they have at least one confirmed victim." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!They do. It’s why they think we want dick pics, because they’d love to get a pussy pic so they assume we’re the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 50 | Wow... guys who think we only want them for sex acts are the ones who will only want us for our bodies 🙄imagine this being your only positive qualityAny man who has ever wanted to eat my ass has done so because it gets HIM off, not me. So basically what he’s telling me is “I’ll use you for my own pleasure I really don’t care what you like.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 44 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!I wish men would imagine themselves on the receiving end of these types of approaches...from another man. You know FULL WELL if a typical man was approached by another man who said “wow you’re cute” or “nice ass baby” or whatever they consider to be compliment when directed towards a woman, that they’d jump back and go “dude what the FUCK” and probably start swinging. These men think we’re supposed to be flattered by the same bullshit they’d consider to be disrespectful if they were on the recei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:29 PM |
| 27 | My former next door neighbour got nearly killed by her husbandI suspect he was showing signs that she either was too blind to see, or ignored. True psychopaths are extremely good at acting like normal people and blending in but if you pay close attention you’ll get that gut feeling that something isn’t right. Some people are just too naive, and that’s the perfect victim for a psychopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:05 PM |
| 4 | No contact with ex for three years randomly reaching out and sending flowers 👎Holy shit me too!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 12:50 PM |
| 75 | But the marriage is healthy!!You know...my ex has psoriasis and he’d get it on his dick so he’d have open, bleeding sores that he’d have to treat with prescription steroid cream. He was also addicted to porn and masturbating so much at the end of our relationship that it was a contributing factor to the end. Now I’m wondering if it wasn’t psoriasis at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 12:10 PM |
| 18 | Thought this belonged hereYeah I once asked a grocery story employee where the sauerkraut was and he looked at me like I had lobsters coming out of my ears. “Sour...what?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?Yeah what is that??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 28 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?I honestly sincerely hope so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 03:33 PM |
| 144 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?Also I don’t understand why someone wouldn’t wait to propose until they have a proper ring. The ring isn’t the only “placeholder” here I’m afraid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 91 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠I have two sons. Once they started reaching the age where they got that “boy stink” going on, I, too, wondered how to tell them nicely. Turns out you just have to be blunt. No amount of hinting or using euphemisms or being nice would get them to wash and put on deodorant. It wasn’t until I started saying things like “Jesus your stench could knock a buzzard off a shit wagon” or “your breath smells like you ate a shit sandwich” that they got it. Boys don’t work with hints. So if this grown ass adu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 10:17 PM |
| 82 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.It is important to reproduction cuz I’m not reproducing with you if you can’t make me cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Sex writer says that instead of saying all breasts are sexy, to stop sexualizing breasts altogether because it “furthers objectification”. LibFems center their understanding of sex based on magical ideological thinking rather than material reality which is why their advice is always terrible. 🙄Am a 32DD, can second this. I basically have to shop at Victoria’s Secret which means spending upwards of $50 for one bra. Don’t get me wrong, I love my shape but sometimes I just wish I could wear a tank (or anything) without needing to strap myself in first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 44 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleAnd “wicked busy” so like...too busy to talk to people and date? Why are you on a dating site then?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:56 PM |
| 10 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycle💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 18 | Men will literally beg for your forgiveness if you ignore them after they totally wreck their chances with you. He knows what he missed out on...Read “F*ck Him! Nice Girls Always Finish Single” by Brian Nox. The whole book is about how men are basically like three-yr-olds and just like toddlers, they will test you to see what they can get away with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Bye then.What have the locusts ever done to you man??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:44 PM |
| 65 | This is satire but the truth bells are ringing for milesI bet if it was called “STD sex” it wouldn’t be so appealing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 7 | None of what you said was funny, intelligent or even original! You are the epitome of uninteresting.I bet this guy has an entire closet full of t shirts that say things like “You look like I need a drink” and “Smile if you like anal”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 14 | None of what you said was funny, intelligent or even original! You are the epitome of uninteresting.Like asshole but in a “fun” way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:11 PM |
| 40 | OLDER WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE TO MEN ?I’m 47 and my man is 31. I have zero problem getting attention from men in their 20s and 30s. Sure some of them probably have a weird mommy issue but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 7 | "I don't know what I want right now "If it’s not a “fuck yes” it’s a “fuck no”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Nothing serious, but could be 🤪 y’all comment below. This gave me a chuckleIt’s a section of the floor that’s cut out and can be rigged to swing open when someone is standing on it, they fall through and go to a dungeon or somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:24 PM |
| 33 | “Have you seen rape and abuse statistics? I never want a son” This! Men are scared of their hypothetical daughters wearing a skirt in the future, but not worried about their future sons who would grow up to be a danger just like themAs a teen whenever I would go out with friends my father would always admonish me sternly as I walked out the door: “Watch for wolves.” He said it was because he remembered what he was like as a young man and wanted to protect me from the same kind of predator. Not once did I ever hear him say anything to my brother about not being a wolf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:20 PM |
| 84 | HVM shitTHANK YOU. She’s not tired (weary) she’s cautious (wary) or suspicious (leery). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:00 PM |
| 9 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.That’s when you do your best farting because there’s nothing stopping it from blooming in its full glory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:09 PM |
| 53 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.See that’s the thing. I also caught myself thinking “I would slap my son’s dick into next week if he...” but then I remembered we wouldn’t get here in the first place because I’m not raising idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 107 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.Both sets of parents birthed complete trash cans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:21 PM |
| 175 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.Do you think your anus just seals while you sleep? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 39 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......Same and also be sure to leave the stickiest shit splatter on the back and sides of every toilet bowl you use. Bonus for also getting it on the rim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | The girl in the photos is my sister. Yeah, sure bud.I have never in my life posed with either of my brothers like that. Nice try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 13 | "I like small penises," said NO WOMAN EVER who was actually interviewed for a formal scientific study. Men who insist the “Motion of the Ocean” is better than the size of the ship is scientifically disproven Scrote Cope.Lol if we’re not feeling your penis that’s on you my brother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 29 | Never disregard FDS advice...I almost double texted a guy but didn'tFDS is like a 12 step program. You just have to put your faith in the process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:19 PM |
| 22 | Why would you ever write something like this on your dating profile?It’s called “punctuation” my dude. Bad grammar is about on par with having an STD so that’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 79 | Men’s obsession with weight on tinder dates, while we are lucky If we don’t get a date with a manipulative sociopath.Yeah and they’re not exactly 6’4” and athletic either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 140 | "She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink" - Women are fed up from having to "nag" men to do the bare minimum. She shouldn't have to tell you something needs to be done. You're an adult - Just do it!Right. This idea that we have to make “Honeydo” lists is absurd. If I can see the dishes in the sink, so can he. If I can see the faucet is leaking, so can he. Saying you have to be told to do stuff makes you no better than a child. I want a partner, not to be a project manager with an employee I dole out tasks to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Men trying trying to catcall women from expensive cars 🚘I had two taxi drivers catcalling to me and then they starting fighting each other when I was walking around in downtown Panama. I was minding my own business and didn’t hail either one of them. I just kept walking while they sorted it out. These men are just thirsty as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 7 | Disgusting, random scrote gives unnecessary advise to me about my body at the grocery storeThe worst thing you can ever do to a man to emasculate him is laugh at him. Just look at him like “are you seriously talking to me right now?”, then throw your head back and laugh like that’s the funniest shit you’ve ever heard. Bonus: blow him a condescending kiss. Then if you listen very carefully you can hear his testicles shrink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:17 AM |
| 39 | Y’all this guy is mansplaining my job to me. I’ve only done it for 15 years, but thank you Bumble man for telling me how to do it.Looool “You’ve read Lovecraft BuT hAvE yOu ReAd It In ArAmAiC?????? Pffftttt” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 5 | I'm a stalker 🤗Sis go back and read the handbook. Several times if necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever ok to live with a partner?Yes I believe you do get to know someone better by living with them. But above all honoring our core values takes priority. I agree, we never want to be so reliant on a man that we can’t be on our own if we need to. There is seriously not much worse than needing to get out of a relationship and not having the means to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 34 | Clueless scrote post on r/datingoverforty can be summed up in a few words: "ImMA guNNa FUcK? HUH HUH????111 OH I WAs JusT JOkinG!!!"“How DARE you assume I’m the one that made sex jokes just because I am male!!” Well there’s only two of you in the conversation and obviously it wasn’t her if she got offended enough to make it clear she wasn’t fuckin on the first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Is it ever ok to live with a partner?You didn’t specify whether or not they are unable to afford to living separately or if they just wanna move in to make their finances a little easier. Moving in together only because you can’t afford to live separately is a recipe for disaster. I know many people (my former self included) who did this and then felt stuck in the relationship because they couldn’t afford to leave. If they can both afford to live separately there’s no reason they can’t wait until they’re married to live together to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:43 PM |
| 12 | Beware of guys saying they want someone "smart and funny" on their dating profiles“Smart” - just intelligent enough to understand the knowledge I impart on you when I mansplain everything (and I will). “Funny” - enough of a sense of humor to get my off color jokes but just weak enough to laugh at them and encourage me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:49 PM |
| 13 | I’m off the blame game.It’s any man who isn’t a “nice guy” aka them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:39 PM |
| 12 | Guy trying to maintain conversation between dates via text but it's annoyingThis is what tipped me off as well. Sounds like he’s doing his best to hide his real self (dodging questions about himself and bombing you with questions about you instead just to have something to talk about), but his need to be right and superior is so strong he just couldn’t help himself. If this is how he was on date one when people are on their very best behavior, imagine what being married to him would be like. Always correcting someone is a really effective way of eroding someone’s self e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Potential Love Bombing? Manipulation maybe?If you were the guy and he were the girl in this situation, you would have ghosted him by now (unless you only wanted to use the insecurities as a way to sleep with them for awhile and THEN ghost). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:10 PM |
| 10 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.I am a coder and can also attest that the vast majority of the developers I work with cannot understand anything but literal language. It’s why they do their job so well, because computers also function this way but it definitely bleeds out into how they interact personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 5 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.Well that escalated quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:37 PM |
| 14 | Received a first follow up textIt’s BECAUSE you didn’t have an OMGWTFBBQ panic and text him all day asking where are you, what you doing, WhY wOnT yOu TeXt Me BaCk?!?!!! He sees that you went on with your life just fine without him, and that messes with guys because it’s not what they expect. The other guys didn’t apologize or explain because they didn’t care enough about you to do so. You passed the test but don’t let him get away with this in perpetuity. No one is ever too busy to send a ten second text letting you know the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 69 | Why do men's pants have such big pockets? To hold the audacity...I feel like there is exactly a 0.0% chance you hit on him anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 16 | Can't afford glasses but can afford a new carIs this even a real question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:07 AM |
| 37 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...Maybe if he just tried harder he could be taller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:01 AM |
| 71 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...He has a complaint, must be that time of the month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:34 AM |
| 149 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...Jeez can’t he take a joke? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 17 | I don’t rock up to a conversation saying “hey baldy”, why tf do stupid men think this is okay with someone you barely know? 👎🏽Sis that last line tho, you’re my hero. 👑💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 22 | Piercings, tattoos and unnatural hair colorsOMG that totally explains why I get more attention when I’m schlepping around in sweats with my hair in a top knot, not EVEN trying to be cute. That mystery has been bugging me for quite some time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:49 PM |
| 10 | Don't EVER let a relationship start with "sorry"“YoU’re SmArT nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLs” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 63 | I’m speechlessWHHHYYYYY are these men not satisfied with vaginas? Are vaginas so blasé now that they have to go next level sphincter??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 19 | I let my cheating ex text me because it’s entertaining and doesn’t make me feel emotional or angry anymore. He doesn’t care about me enough to have basic respect lol, he just misses what I did for him when he was sick.They want all the benefits of a relationship without any of the sacrifice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:35 PM |
| 41 | You've got to be kidding me. The scrotiest of scrotes are going to teach us how to be women?The guy on the left is the missing link. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 15 | “b-B-bUt mEn aGe lIkE fInE wInE rEeEeEe“ 🤢🤢bows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:21 PM |
| 59 | “b-B-bUt mEn aGe lIkE fInE wInE rEeEeEe“ 🤢🤢How am I expected to sleep with him if I’m not allowed to drink? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:11 PM |
| 20 | Nothing boils my blood more than the phrase “daddy day care” 🤮What in fresh hell... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:10 PM |
| 61 | Nothing boils my blood more than the phrase “daddy day care” 🤮How about dads that begrudgingly decline an offer because they have to “stay home and babysit”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 12 | Delusional Scrote has a meltdown when his former FWBs publicly tell him he’s garbage at sex 😆Oh hell no, if you can’t even kiss that’s a deal breaker. They all think they’re God’s gift don’t they??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 141 | Delusional Scrote has a meltdown when his former FWBs publicly tell him he’s garbage at sex 😆When men would try to sell their sex skills to me by saying, “Well I’ve never gotten a complaint” I would ask them “But how many came back for seconds?” crickets Bad sex is just like receiving bad service at a restaurant, you hardly ever complain you just don’t come back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 11:54 AM |
| 70 | Is this normal?Lol came here to say exactly this. What. The. Fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Cannot be clearer.Yes! And being alone means you can do WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT. What’s more empowering than that??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Cannot be clearer.I’d counter those people by asking...what’s wrong with high standards?? What does it say about people’s opinion of you if they think you should “settle” or lower your standards to get someone low value? Only low value people seek other low value people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:36 PM |
| 15 | A woman who represents sex offenders says they can’t successfully be rehabilitated if they are still looking at porn.o_O At least he did something positive before he left this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Cannot be clearer.I’d also agree you shouldn’t just automatically unconditionally love everyone you fall in love with. But for me it’s not something I can just turn off every time (although good gravy I wish I could). That’s why I’m ok with still loving them, just from waaaay over there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:59 AM |
| 8 | Cannot be clearer.Sure they can. I will never stop loving my children no matter what they do or who they become. But loving them and putting up with toxic behavior/abuse are two very different things. I’d actually argue that allowing bad behavior is NOT loving them, it’s enabling them for the parents’ own purpose (guilt, avoiding doing the hard thing, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Cannot be clearer.The unconditional love I have for my children will not flip like a light switch on their 18th birthday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:40 AM |
| 9 | Doing the WorkThis made my heart happy. Congrats sis, you’ve come a long way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Rachel Hollis (author) splits from her LVM husbandWooooow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:12 PM |
| 13 | A little theory of mineYeah I call it “The Dick Parade”. It’s a thing. No one wants you until someone wants you. It’s like they can smell another man on you and they all start lining up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:07 PM |
| 27 | What’s the betting she’s been brainwashed by LVM into believing this?I NEVER refused my ex husband sex, yet he continued to prefer porn and masturbation at an increasing amount until he no longer wanted it. He was lazy and it was too much work, or he just “had the urge” and couldn’t wait for me to fill it for him so he’d just take care of it himself. He’d say “well I was in the shower and it [muh penis] was right there so” leaving me with nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:25 AM |
| 3 | How come you never see women doing this dumb shit?I don’t live in New Zealand. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 10:14 PM |
| 29 | Damn people like this really exist huhWelp, I guess I’ll die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:25 PM |
| 10 | No thank you.There is no meat and potatoes. It’s just invisible pizza. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 13 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMSame. I may need to read it again if I ever forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:31 PM |
| 30 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMWell done sis. I think a LOT of women need to read this, so much of it hit me to my GOT damn core. Can we stickie this please??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 16 | Why are men so willing to let a great woman go and not make any effort? I can’t wrap my head around it.I see you know my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:23 PM |
| 2 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...Yeah after I posted my comment I kinda wondered if that was why. Thanks for clarifying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...“I don’t have any children so it’s fine because that means I don’t have any obligation to my SO”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 21 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”Came here to say this. And it’s summertime, I’m allowed to wear tanks and halters to stay cool just like everyone else. Not gonna sweat to death just to cover my natural anatomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Oh yes, man is making a joke at his laboring wife’s expense and posting it for internet likes. Yeah so hilarious. 🙄He’s pretending that he has a fish on the line (the baby) and he’s pulling it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?Thank you, that’s a great explanation. I wanted to make sure we’re not automatically assigning low value to someone for having preferences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:54 PM |
| 6 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?I am not a WOC but can we make the distinction between fetish and preference? I don’t think it’s weird or abnormal to have a preference for certain types of people. When I think of a fetish I associate that with an abnormal oversexualization of something or someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 35 | Oh yes, man is making a joke at his laboring wife’s expense and posting it for internet likes. Yeah so hilarious. 🙄“Cletus! Get mah pole and take muh pitcher! Hyeh hyeh hyeh!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:15 PM |
| 101 | Disgusting“She just went crazy one day and divorced me! All women are psychos!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:07 PM |
| 15 | Got tired of waiting for him to plan a vacation for us, so I booked an all-inclusive vacation by myselfGood for you! Let’s all go! FDS party!! 🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 08:45 PM |
| 63 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Wow this guy says “In 90% of cases, the women I ended up with turned out to be major psychos.” You’d think with those astronomical odds at play he’d start realizing the only common denominator here is him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Older guysAnd ED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 25 | Forgiveness vs Dealbreakers?If he’s acting like a LVM then he is a LVM, not HVM just exhibiting LVM traits. HVM can mess up and make mistakes, but they own it and fix it, and don’t do it again. They certainly don’t ever invalidate your experience by saying they don’t remember saying what they said or they didn’t mean it. He remembers it, and he meant it. Trying to convince you that you’re misinterpreting or IMAGINING IT ALTOGETHER is textbook gaslighting and that’s NVM trait. Let’s just pretend he doesn’t remember...that m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Porn addiction and cumming too soon?The question though was why would a man who watches porn cum too soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Age gap role reversalThanks for the heads up! If my guy is gay he sure hides it well. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Age gap role reversalHaha at work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:11 AM |
| 8 | Age gap role reversalThank you so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Age gap role reversalI love my babies but I wouldn’t want to do it again, especially after 40 haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:34 AM |
| 8 | Age gap role reversalYeah I hear you there. I’ve seen his finances, he’s very open about it and I’d be more apprehensive if he needed a place to live, didn’t make a great salary, didn’t have his own retirement fund, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 24 | Age gap role reversalGood point! He is very adamant that he doesn’t want kids, which is good because I can’t give him any. Not to say he might not change his mind but that’s his problem, not mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:23 AM |
| 21 | Porn addiction and cumming too soon?My ex was a classic two pump chump. He was never one with much stamina but it got worse as our relationship progressed. In the end he wasn’t initiating sex at all. When I initiated he’d finish so quick that I wished I hadn’t. Turns out that he was masturbating so much to porn that he didn’t need actual sex anymore, and when we did have it he was basically using me to masturbate with. Actual sex is a lot of work because you have to consider the other person, while masturbation is more of a quick … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:20 AM |
| 23 | People actually took this post in r/marriage seriously!!! I tried very hard to make it satirical!!Have you checked your Tupperware lately tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 14 | Seriously? I have no words.I wonder if he’d be okay with her going to a place to look at random strange dicks...attached to the type of body he could never have...for hours. I mean, you know, if it sexually stimulates her and helps let off steam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 9 | Found on craigslist in my citySo he wants to hire a pimp then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 53 | I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident)Right? Our bodies are designed to pass entire humans, what’s a needle dick gonna do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:22 PM |
| 66 | I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident)Probably thinks his dick is responsible for stretching girls out and making them loose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Medieval depiction of early pickmesBehold! The proverbial bag of dicks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 03:02 PM |
| 70 | I’m tired of our culture celebrating Male Incompetence. Male incompetence isn’t funny and endearing, it’s childish, unattractive, and infuriating!!🤬Yes! I dated a guy once whose apartment was spotless, even made sure he vacuumed a pattern into the carpet. That stopped after I moved in with him. Why? “I have you to do that now.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 57 | I’m tired of our culture celebrating Male Incompetence. Male incompetence isn’t funny and endearing, it’s childish, unattractive, and infuriating!!🤬Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 12:38 PM |
| 122 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?You know what you can do with a philosophy degree? Think deep thoughts about being unemployed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 12:30 PM |
| 14 | Never Let Them Guilt-Trip You, Sis! (A HVM Will Understand You Are Entitled to Safety)Well he’s 14 and he didn’t kill her so no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 39 | Basic redditor starterpackI actually have a deep mattress on a platform base (so technically no box spring) but the dudes in question just have a 20 yr old mattress on the floor, lucky if they’ve laundered their only sheet (the fitted one, because having a top sheet is bougie) this year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:37 PM |
| 121 | Basic redditor starterpackNo box spring! So accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:24 PM |
| 16 | This guy is a self proclaimed incel, MGTOW. He has a YouTube channel talking about EvIL FeMiNiSts. Go on, take a wild guess, why he hates women. .... the fact he looks like foot disease might be be the cause ? Just a wild guess....Goddamn you for making me visualize him holding his microdick, probably looks like he’s using only the thumb and forefinger to prop a mushroom up in a nest of steel wool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 36 | LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮Because they heard somewhere that “all women are at least a little bisexual” so they think we’re all out here casually scissoring each other while watching Sex and the City with a bottle of moscato. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:32 PM |
| 35 | OG Pickmeisha anthem: Dolly Parton - Jolene (HD) (Original) (1975) MUSIC LEGENDSWasn’t a dig on Dolly, I personally think she’s a badass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:42 PM |
| 16 | Weeding out LVM calling my art/interests "cute"Like even if I were going to justify that question with an answer, HOW THE HELL WOULD I KNOW? Does he think it’s standard dinner time conversation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 18 | Wearing a shirt that indirectly downplays the education, field hours, and professor career accomplishments of their daughter by being unable to resist the urge to give himself credit for her hard work is LVM shit. Cumming inside a woman and "believing" in his genetic seed did not do this.She probably became a social worker because of a dysfunctional home as a kid and wanted to make a difference because she wished she had someone like that in her life. Wonder if daddy is gonna take credit for THAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 54 | Weeding out LVM calling my art/interests "cute"Or sexualizing my children. “So have your boys started masturbating yet?” Not making this up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Why do I do this to myself?Yeah I never met a man who actually employed the “bros before hos” mantra because his LVM buddies will totally understand if he ditches them for a lay and will even high five him for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:50 PM |
| 14 | Why do I do this to myself?“Nice” is the bare minimum requirement to be a basically decent human being, even to strangers. Nobody should be getting points for being nice. Being impressed by a guy barely exerting basic human decency is a product of a lifetime of us enduring the shittiest of behavior by men who couldn’t even muster the strength to be “nice” to us, and rating him as “good” by sheer comparison. He doesn’t get a pass for being just above shitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 68 | Ladies, we are not responding to 'hey' anymoreGood advice. Imagine if a guy walked up to you in person and just said “hey” and stood there like a bump on a log staring at you to reply. Imagine how utterly weird and creepy that would feel. Don’t give their stunted social skills any leeway just because they’re hiding behind technology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Please keep up this energy when it comes to the fact that even in relationships where both partners work equal hours, women still to more household work and childcare :)I love it when the trash takes itself out. Problem is, there are enough “woke” Pickmeishas out there that will be more than willing go along with this, thus validating these scrotes’ ideologies. And they will deserve each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 8 | This reeks of NVMOr a bag of feces. This is the same kind of guy that thinks breast milk is akin to piss just because they’re both bodily fluids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 13 | I had to re-read this few times and I still don’t understandVitamin D is code for dick. You know like “imma give dat gurl the vitamin D tonight heh nomsayin”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, I’m a roll. Roast em’!I have a boyfriend but I sorta wanna get on OLD just for the sport of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:40 PM |
| 30 | This guy sent a DM complimenting a picture of mine. I said thank you and I appreciated it, then he jumps to this... no thanks bud!Yeah my favorite is “you don’t have to” like bitch I know I don’t have to. 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:38 PM |
| 136 | Told him I don’t cook for boys and that I don’t like giving massages... he won’t be getting anything from me. The audacity! We have only been talking for 4 days.But you’ll like giving him one. He said so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 14 | Lol. How about no?Funner than the bast majority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 4 | I thought I was saying a HVM until he got drunk and "dumped" me (minutes after telling me he loved me and saying goodnight), then immediately regretted it. Dumped, blocked, and deleted. As hard as it can be, I deserve better. Damn, it feels good not settling.I hope her legal is name is “Buddy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:23 AM |
| 8 | On oral sexLove to eat pussy =/= good at eating pussy I love to bowl but there’s a reason no one asks me to be on a league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:13 AM |
| 36 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢Right? Like are we saying it’s hard to convince a man to repeatedly rub his dick in the shower? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 39 | You deserve to be loved for who you are in this exact moment for who you are and valued as a human being, despite your past or any poor pickmeisha role models you had growing up. Break the cycle of being a future pickmeisha mom!When you complain that he doesn’t do anything around the house, gives you advice like “Men don’t know what needs to be done, you have to give them a list” as if people with XY chromosomes are born without eyeballs connected to a brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:32 PM |
| 11 | For all the recovering Pickmeishas.I was hoping someone did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 164 | Men who request female only housemates are creepy af tbh.“I have my own reasons and you wouldn’t be interested if you knew what they were!!” There. Fixed it for ya buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 107 | Guy keeps spreadsheets and rates sex with his GF....didn’t fit in the screenshot but he also has spreadsheets of all his ex’s too 🤮🤮🤮 why oh whyyyyThey’re souvenirs. Just like some serial killers and rapists take something from the victim. They want to be able relive the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 52 | 100% reject pickme influence if you want a chance of success in your love life.“Do you think you’re too good for him?!?” “Yes.” 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 16 | Remember that this is what males who say "feminism has ruined women" look like“Hey bois lets take off all our shirts and get nuts to butts!” 🍆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:03 PM |
| 12 | Little victoriesBack in my pickme days I had a FWB, long story short he stopped the relationship because he “didn’t feel right about it.” I cared about him so naturally I was devastated. Only after he cut things off he confessed he was in love with me and was just scared of his feelings. 🙄 Which just drove the knife in even further. I “should have known” how he felt about me, even though I only went over to his place after waiting for his invitation with eager anticipation, even through constantly alternating b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 02:30 PM |
| 6 | "Women, ask men out!"“It's not the egg that swims to the sperm". This is brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:11 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, always honor your instinct even if it bruises their ego.If he found a way to cure people of alcoholism by “sheer unconditional love” he’s gonna be a bajillionaire when millions of men and women flock to his seminars because people have been trying that method since the beginning of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Hopefully the last moist thing he’s gonna experience for awhile.Damn it! I should have known it was too good to be true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 05:01 PM |
| 24 | LOL what a load of crap. Who comes up with this stuff?But how will men make the “accidental slip” claim if the butthole isn’t close to the vagina?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 12:56 PM |
| 24 | Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to MeYes and women rape women but when I’m walking alone or to my car it’s not women I keep my head on a swivel for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 42 | Why are they asking for pictures?They wanna see if you’ll do it. Plain and simple. If he can get you to send him his own personal selfie he thinks it won’t be long until he gets you to send him nudes. It’s also an ego thing. Makes him feel special because he’s getting something from you that no one else has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:19 PM |
| 186 | Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to MeI read once that even the way we talk about general instances of rape take the onus away from the abuser and put it on the abused, and honestly it’s changed the way I frame these conversations. When we say something like “When women are raped...”, the subject is the woman, an abuser isn’t even mentioned. Like it’s just something that “happened” to the woman, as if she was just walking along and rape blew in with the wind. When we instead say “When men rape women...”, now we cast the spotlight on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | TikTok made me realize how BRAINWASHED young teenage girls are. Just READ the comments!A 40 year old man dates a 17 yr old because women his age have enough life experience to see through his bullshit. Someone much younger will let him get away with things his peers will not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 29 | Whitney Cummings: Men vs Women Lying (based & pinkpilled)The same guys who bitch about gold diggers are the same guys who make sure the girl they’ve been talking to at the bar knows how much money he makes, what kind of car he drives, how expensive all his vacations are, etc. within the first 90 seconds of the interaction. You can’t brag about your money to get laid and then wonder why women wanna lay you for your money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Are you being a Mommy Girlfriend or a Partner?“He comes into the relationship as a fully functioning, responsible adult.” This. I’m not training a grown ass man how to survive, he’s not a baby bunny. If he’s never lived by himself, taken care of himself, that’s a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Omg women that don’t jump at the chance to ruthlessly pick a sister apart but to instead say with open arms, “Who among us hasn’t been here? We got you.”?? I already love all of you so damn much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Ha! I have a compost pile. I got excited the other day when I found some worms to put in it. Thanks for making me feel not-so-lame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020“Don’t cling to a mistake just because you spent a long time making it.” Waiting even longer to end things is not gonna make him feel any better about it. You’re trying to avoid feeling guilty, which is understandable because it hurts. But don’t make him feel more comfortable by making yourself feel uncomfortable in the process. It never ends well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Drinking just lowers inhibitions, it doesn’t change who someone truly is. It only makes it easier for people to act on something they would have no issue with doing when they’re sober, the alcohol just dulls resistance/boosts confidence. It was a booty call, plain and simple, and him being under the influence just made it easier for him to ask for it (without being so incapacitated as to be vulgarly blunt about it). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I feel like it depends based on the context surrounding it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:41 PM |
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