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mabden/r/seduction09/08/12 10:52 AM
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Sorry, I don't do Instagram. Thanks anyway. Then next..
/r/seduction01/07/26 04:07 AM
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Because they think too much.. too much competition. I.E. hot girls attract lots of guys, thus more options for higher quality guys.
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:18 PM
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Isn't the reason chicks are considered 9s and 10s, is a great body that goes with the pretty face? If met a lot of butterfaces. Great bodies, but not so great faces. Would put them in the 5 to 6 range.
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:01 PM
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I haven't met a woman i did not enjoy eating her pussy.
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:22 PM
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Attraction is not a choice. Desire cannot be negotiated. Reread the side bars starting with No More Mr Nice Guy. As long as she is doing everything sexual for you, why give a fuck about her motivation. Now, if your wife goes sex-negative, then you have a problem that either a side chick or divorce would resolve. Lastly as another response said, watch her actions, not her words.
/r/askMRP21/05/26 11:41 PM
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Works 2 out of 3 times.
/r/seduction12/05/26 01:32 PM
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David DeAngelo - Cocky and Funny book
/r/seduction02/05/26 11:11 PM
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In the beginning dating, especially first dates, they should be lite, fun, and short.
/r/seduction30/04/26 02:12 AM
3

Kitty kats kompete
/r/seduction30/04/26 12:22 AM
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Under these circumstances, lose her number. Problem solved.
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:48 AM
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You lose her number. If she is disrespectful (wasting your valuable time) then no amount of words will convince her to respect you. If you really feel the need to "teach her a lesson in manners" just say, Apologies, I am busy. And lose her number. She'll get the message when she attempts to waste more of your time, when she can't get a hold of you. Respect is earned. Actions always speak louder than words. Suggest reading No More Mr Nice Guy The System by Doc Love
/r/seduction22/04/26 09:17 PM
23

Check for voice activated recorders, cameras, and her phone for recordings.
/r/askMRP21/04/26 03:10 PM
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Check for voice activated recorders, cameras, and her phone for recordings.
/r/askMRP21/04/26 03:10 PM
1

Remember the phrase, "For entertainment purposes only." That's you. They are more than willing to waste your time with day to day drivel, but once an offer is made that requires a substantial commitment on their behalf...
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:12 PM
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The Sex God Method
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:11 PM
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Check out The System by Doc Love. Doc comes off corny and the book is a weird format (dictionary) but his advice on girls and relationships is rock solid. Example, which is what you're experiencing: First dates are lite, fun, and short. Go for this kiss at the end. If that went well, schedule for the second. He talks about interest level, being a challenge, time wasters,
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:50 PM
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It's fun while young, for a while. Eventually, (IMHO) it wears thin and seems meaningless. If you are looking for something more out of relationships, the seduction life does help in vetting potential long term partners. Suggested reading The System by Doc Love
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:30 PM
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ChatGTB man💁‍♂️
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:53 PM
1

You approach as if she doesn't. They will tell you they have a bf if: They do and aren't interested, They don't and aren't interested. You can tell their level of commitment to bf and/or their level of interest in you, by how soon they mention a bf.
/r/seduction07/04/26 12:05 AM
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Typically inexperienced girls will say this as an ASD.
/r/seduction05/04/26 10:43 PM
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Your advice, match-number-call-date is the way to go. It weeds out the time wasters real fast and in a numbers game, there's no time for those. If you haven't heard or read, The System by Doc Love, you might want to check it out. The doc comes off a bit corny and the format of his book is weird, but his advice on girls and dating is rock solid.
/r/seduction24/03/26 11:32 AM
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I have one, love it for relaxing, but also fun with my girl. One of my single buddies has one and always has some bikinis on hand for the times he brings home a girl. More times than not, they say there's no need for one.
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:17 PM
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The younger they are, the more fleeting their attraction levels are from moment to moment.
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:30 AM
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You're way too available. She interprets that as you having nothing better to do with your time/energy. It's an attraction killer. Read the System by Doc Love. Learn about interest level (attraction) and how you drive it up/down. It's an odd format (dictionary) and the doc comes off corny, but his advice is rock solid.
/r/seduction24/02/26 05:26 PM
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Excitement equals wet pussy.
/r/seduction20/02/26 01:57 PM
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If a girl is showing no interest in you, politely excuse yourself and find other people to talk to. By sticking around trying to illicit any type of response shows you don't value yourself or your time.
/r/seduction13/02/26 09:31 PM
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So this will come off corny as all fuck, but what are your intentions? If you just want a fuck, leave her alone, there's plenty of available pussy out there. She told you she doesn't want to get hurt, so don't and cut her loose.
/r/seduction12/02/26 02:42 AM
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Learn/perfect how to read body language. Your hesitation maybe a lack of confidence in what you're reading/seeing. Experience is a great teacher. DeCarlo Escalation Ladder will get you from point a to b to c to d to p. "Hey do you want to date?" Generally, if a girl is unwilling to fuck you, she is unwilling to date you. Unless she is a materialista willing to use you like an atm. Declaration of intent, IMHO, is best delivered in innuendo. Read Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man
/r/seduction08/02/26 12:06 AM
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Question, what percentage of these girls are one and done (your choice vs theirs) and how many come back for seconds/thirds? Did you care? Is your "style" contributing to the outcomes you experience wrt returning girls? Understand the drain, especially the mental/emotional aspect. Running through that many girls will leave you empty. I went through a period in my life (after a nasty breakup) where girls were plentiful (vacation/resort beach) in a southern climate with a NY accent (a suprising ho…
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:37 PM
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Suggested reading Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man Attraction is not a choice. Desire cannot be negotiated.
/r/seduction05/02/26 06:42 PM
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As long as she understands that cheating equals end of the marriage and that you are more than willing/able to live your life without ever seeing her again. Not much else you can do other than keep tabs on her behavior.
/r/askMRP14/01/26 11:54 PM
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DeCarlo Escalation Ladder (since 2011) and the ability to read body language.
/r/seduction12/01/26 05:49 PM
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DeCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction12/01/26 01:46 AM
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When you went for the kiss (the r ight move) but was rejected, it's done, you're out. The only thing you needed to say at that point was, "let me know when you're home safe." Then lose her number. Her eventual 'let's be friends' text was a forgone conclusion. Only other thing is first dates should be light, fun, and short.
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:36 AM
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How old is this girl? Behavior indicates teenager. If so, either prepare yourself for this type of behavior or start meeting/dating other girls.
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:57 PM
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Take a break, refocus on career, hobbies, physical conditioning, education. Be comfortable in your own skin, i.e. no need for outside validation. If you go out, have zero expectations of meeting girls. It took 6 months to get a breakup out of my system. Avoided clubs/bars and went more for music/art events. Met girls "organically" meaning never approached without some sort of natural opening or invitation. YMMV. Maybe I'm wrong, but one other thing, if you're looking to replace your ex and/or co…
/r/seduction04/12/25 04:02 AM
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Frustration leads to desperation leads to rejection. Girls can smell desperation a mile away.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:16 AM
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Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man The System by Doc Love
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:13 PM
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When asking a girl out, have a specific event/activity with a specific date/time. If she doesn't accept without an alternative date/time, she's not interested.
/r/seduction22/09/25 05:06 PM
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She's a materialistica. You did the right thing. Read, Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man.
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:47 AM
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Have you read DeCarlo's Escalation Ladder?
/r/seduction26/07/25 12:56 AM
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I knew a guy just like the one you described. Worked enough to pay the rent, always had weed and constantly smoked, played video games, dishes piled in the sink, clothes strewn everywhere. Reminded me of the big labowski. Had a steady stream of anti-establishment bullshit. Absolutely, did not give a fuck. Yet, had a constant stream of hot chicks parading in and out of his apartment. I asked one of his buddies what the deal was. He replied that the girls came from upper middle class to wealthy fa…
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:42 PM
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Generally (not all are the same), if a girl imagines herself fucking some guy, she will imagine herself in a relationship with the guy. Conversely, if she can't see herself fucking a guy, she won't see a relationship and she won't give you the time of day. At that point, move on.
/r/seduction07/07/25 12:13 AM
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The Gray Rock method is a communication strategy used to deal with difficult or toxic individuals, particularly those with narcissistic or manipulative tendencies. It involves making oneself appear as uninteresting and unresponsive as a gray rock, thus reducing the individual's interest in engaging with you. The goal is to minimize conflict, protect yourself from harmful behaviors, and potentially discourage the other person from continuing their problematic interactions. Look it up.
/r/askMRP29/06/25 02:15 PM
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Hire a divorce attorney to draw up separation/divorce papers. Have a sit down with STBXW.and tell her why wait, and hand her the papers. Here's the hard part, Shut the Fuck Up. Focus on yourself and being the best dad for your kids. Grey Rock her. Read the side bar, and once through, read it again. Up your workouts. Restart/start hobbies.
/r/askMRP29/06/25 01:28 AM
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Agree with don't ask and assume she is single until she tells you otherwise. The reason being... You can gauge a girls commitment to her boyfriend/husband (if she has one) by how soon she brings him up in conversation. This also indicates her level of integrity and loyalty, i.e. her willingness to cheat. You will have to apply your own moral code on how to proceed.
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:25 AM
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Any chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you would make every effort to spend as much time with you as possible. Downgrade or eject time.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 08:08 PM
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An asshole i used to work "explained" women and money. I'm never getting married. They're all bitches and cost too much to marry. If I have money, I can always get bitches.
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:47 PM
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Suggested reading: No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/seduction29/03/25 01:55 PM
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Every day.
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:24 PM
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And yet, the OP is asking why texting peters out on him. The short answer is that you can not build real attraction through text. Only through one on one, in person meetups can that happen. It is also your way to screen girls to know if they are down for more or time wasters.
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:27 AM
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The Sex God Method focusing on DEVI
/r/seduction24/02/25 09:14 PM
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Look it up, Attraction is not a choice. Desire can not be negotiated.
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:04 AM
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Your first fuckup is asking if she had a boyfriend. You can gauge any girl's commitment to her boyfriend (if she has one) by how soon she brings him up in conversation. Your second fuckup is getting involved with some chick who has a boyfriend. Move on and go find your own. If she comes back around sans boyfriend, go for it, otherwise, stay the fuck away.
/r/seduction19/02/25 04:24 PM
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IOWs, attraction is not a choice.
/r/seduction12/02/25 05:47 PM
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So what. Unless she offers up a specific date/time/place, (what a counter offer looks like) she is not interested and just wasting your time. Another way to look at it, her words don't match her actions. 3 times is 2 times too much.
/r/seduction10/02/25 01:23 AM
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Sounds like a time waster. If a girl declines an offer for a meet-up without a counter offer, then she is not interested. If a girl flakes at the last minute, she is not interested. Lose her number.
/r/seduction09/02/25 06:47 PM
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You can be confident without being an asshole. If you haven't, suggest reading No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:03 PM
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If she is unwilling to have a one on one meet up, regardless of the excuse, she is uninterested. IOWs, the only way to "get to know you better" is in person meetups. Don't water your time.
/r/seduction21/01/25 04:33 AM
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I would suggest continuing to do her laundry to check for cum stains on her blouse, skirt, and panties.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 02:32 AM
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If you have no response from a girl, she is not interested. Lose her number and move on. Suggest reading The System by Doc Love
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:38 PM
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Double texting is the definition of needy.
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:35 PM
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Your biggest mistake was canceling plans for a maybe. The other mistake was being too available, indicating you had nothing (better) going on. To add, this chick is a time waster. Lose her number. Suggest reading The System by Doc Love.
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:25 AM
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This may be outside the realm of seduction, but the book Saving a Low Sex Marriage by the bluepillprofessor explains the concept and stages of dread. In short, trying to "produce" jealousy is usually counterproductive.
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:17 AM
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Anything beyond, OK, is a waste of your time.
/r/seduction20/11/24 11:10 PM
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Mouth shut, eyes and ears open. She is your wife and should know what her boundaries are. If she doesn't, then remind her with divorce papers.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 04:17 AM
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Dominance, Intensity, Variety, Emotional
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:37 PM
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It's a book that you should be able to find a pdf on line.
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:08 PM
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The Sex God Method focusing on DEVI
/r/seduction04/11/24 02:58 PM
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The grass is greener, where you water it.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 05:45 PM
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You should be able to find it online. Try scribd
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:59 PM
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Saving a Low Sex Marriage
/r/askMRP06/10/24 07:43 PM
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Check The System by Doc Love. Learn about challenge and how it drives attraction.
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:42 PM
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"I don't want to play games." Then, you play games.
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:35 PM
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The first date should be fun, light, and short.
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:50 PM
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First dates should be fun, lite, and short.
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:14 AM
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Not necessarily. The descriptions could be of anything, anyone, or just enhancement of their experiences. You don't have to agree, just feedback an understanding.
/r/seduction01/10/24 05:48 PM
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Find out what gets them going (dreams, desires, likes, dislikes) and amplify/feedback with rich descriptions of similar experiences.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:26 AM
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' If you want to get together later, I will be at such and such place around such and such time.' Then leave.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:18 PM
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I interpret going on dates as interviews for fuck worthiness.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 01:45 AM
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Until the relationship is established, no group dates. If this girl is not comfortable meeting you one on one, then she is not that interested in you. Your choice on still going and giving her another chance, but you should probably lose her number.
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:07 PM
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Watch any/all Cary Grant movies.
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:08 PM
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Not really. It works regardless of how long you've known her or whether she invited him or he invited himself. Boundaries are boundaries, and their establishment is fundamental on how chicks will perceive you. Serves two purposes, sets expectations (no group dates), and weeds out time wasters.
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:54 PM
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A lot of your findings are right out (corroborated) The System by Doc Love. Interest level, challenge, flaking, counter offers, etc. If you haven't heard of it, it might be a good read. The doc comes off as somewhat corny, and his book is in the form of a dictionary, but his advice/analysis is rock solid. Anyway, good right up and good luck going forward.
/r/seduction12/08/24 12:10 AM
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Use em as wing chicks.
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:40 PM
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Marriage never fixes the problem(s), only compounds them.
/r/askMRP20/07/24 12:17 PM
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Date
/r/seduction30/06/24 11:37 AM
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Check out Bill Maher's 'New Rules' from 6/28 on G.A.M.E.
/r/seduction30/06/24 02:02 AM
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Always have things to do, places to go regardless if some chick wants to spend time with you. When setting up a meetup/date, have a concrete date/time/place/event that you are going to attend and invite her along. If she accepts, it's because she has some interest in you (measurable). If she rejects w/o a counter offer, she has no interest in you, so you can quickly delete her number If she rejects with a counteroffer for another date/time, there is still some interest and may have a legit reaso…
/r/seduction15/06/24 12:46 AM
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Reverse the situation. Do you want to listen to a girl talk about previous boyfriends that have railed her on the first date? First dates should be lite, fun, and short.
/r/seduction10/06/24 01:15 AM
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DeCarlo Escalation Ladder!
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:35 AM
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"You can't map medical." The Married Man's Sex Life Primer.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 03:06 AM
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I have pics and letters of previous girlfriends. I'm not, nor is my wife, that insecure.
/r/askMRP26/05/24 03:46 PM
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My wife has mementos, pictures, and letters from previous guys she went out with in high school. Does it bother me that I am the one fucking her instead of any one of these chumps? No.
/r/askMRP24/05/24 11:15 PM
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This may be why you are getting so few follow-ups. All interactions when first meet up s should be light, fun, and interesting. Suggest reading The System by Doc Love Also, the vist Black Dragons website. Yes, it's a numbers game and can be a grind. So, keep working on yourself.. Best of luck.
/r/seduction22/05/24 12:35 PM
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You did not go for the kiss. The surest way to gauge a girls' interest level (attraction) is to go for the kiss. If she reciprocates, you're in. If she doesn't, you're out. If you don't, you get gay videos.
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:00 PM
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Bitch shields = not interested, go away Shit tests = who are you, let's find out
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:30 PM
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Any girl that is willing to cheat on her boyfriend will cheat on you. Little to no integrity. If you are just looking for a good time, do whatever. If you are looking for a ltr, keep looking.
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:07 PM
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Bad manners. How you treat other people. Chewing food with your mouth open. Poor hygiene. Acting in anger. Crying.
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:05 AM
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Check out the DeCarlo Escalation Ladder.
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:25 AM
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If a girl has a high interest (attraction) in you, she will give you a pass on minor bad behavior. However, this won't last with continued/repeated fuckups.
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:17 AM
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When they say it's a numbers game, they ain't lying.
/r/seduction20/04/24 03:48 PM
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This girl is debating friendzone or boyfriend options.
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:33 AM
4

Typically, giving out your number is not as effective as getting her number. When you ask and receive her number, it's a sign of her interest (attraction) and investment in you.
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:13 AM
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She won't fuck you (separate bedrooms), acts rude, disrespectful, undermines relationship with kids, and is unremorseful for said behavior with no indication of change. Your options... Divorce.
/r/askMRP18/04/24 03:00 AM
2

Back in the day, these games were called Tease the Prick.
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:44 AM
2

Lift. Calisthenics. Swim. Bicycle. Also, look into some form of martial arts.
/r/seduction14/04/24 03:03 AM
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Guys who chase are viewed as having nothing better to do (nothing of importance) with their lives. Always being available is a sign of low value. Guys who don't chase are viewed as being busy. This gets their hamster wheel turning with what else does he have going on. It's a sign of high value. Having them thinking about you peeks their interests in you. If you are chasing them, there is less left to the imagination and less to think about.
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:09 PM
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Car shows, drag races. Music festivals, art shows/festivals.
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:42 AM
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Of course, she didn't come right out and say it. ASD. But she was giving you an opening for an invitation. Flirting leads to fucking, if done right.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 05:26 PM
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Hypergamy at its finest. "I would love to go to Miami" translates to, 'I would love to get fucked by you in Miami.' (Preferrably on a hotel balcony overlooking South Beach.)
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 02:42 AM
3

Just Google Standard Evidence Post
/r/askMRP15/03/24 02:25 AM
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For covert surveillance, check out 'Standard Evidence Post' on TAM Coping with Infidelity. First rule is keep your mouth shut, eyes and ears open.
/r/askMRP14/03/24 11:29 PM
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Why wait for her to serve you? Get a lawyer, get papers drawn up, and have her served. Look up Grey Rock and The Healing Heart - the 180 - to start detaching and a guide on how to "act at home."
/r/askMRP11/03/24 05:44 PM
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It's hard, if not impossible, to build attraction over text. Numbers are for setting up one on one meet ups. If she is too busy or has too many other options to respond, then lose the number. Why waste your time and energy on a girl with little to no interest in you.
/r/seduction03/03/24 01:40 AM
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"Reactions?" OK, I'll play. Dude, any woman with a high interest level (attraction) in you would not be entertaining other guys. (RE: Doc Love The System) Add in that she "dressed up" for this kid and hid (lying) the date from you are all signs that you have multiple problems in your marriage. What do? Start with the side bar. Keep your mouth shut and your eyes/ears open. Based on the minimal amount of info in your post, your wife has little respect for you and low integrity. Find out who this k…
/r/askMRP19/02/24 02:24 PM
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All of it, twice, three times, or until it becomes second nature.
/r/askMRP15/02/24 04:08 PM
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Saving a Low Sex Marriage. By the bluepillprofessor
/r/askMRP22/01/24 05:30 PM
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The company I worked for employed the concept of Cost, Delivery, Quality in their product development. The goal is an equilateral triangle. The area inside never changes. Once you try to increase one side of the triangle, you sacrifice another side. To equate this to relationships, Sex, Commitment, Longevity. Increase your Commitment (beta, comfort), and you will decrease Sex. YMMV.
/r/askMRP22/01/24 05:28 PM
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Doing things that benefit your kid is what you should be doing. Anything beyond that is your choice. Keeping things friendly with your ex is a benefit by minimizing drama during interactions with her. If you can't, then it's strictly no contact except about the kid. The question you will have to face is how much are you willing to do for/spend time with your ex when she starts dating/fucking other guys? Chances are, those "family dates" will dry up in a heartbeat once some other guy walks into t…
/r/askMRP05/01/24 03:19 PM
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"discuss it with her" Your least beneficial option. It will signal to her, you are weak and insecure, lowering your attractiveness. Keep your mouth shut, your eyes and ears open, focus on making yourself more attractive. However, if you really feel the need to say something to your wife, "Is it just me, or does 'my friend' seem hotter lately? Man, would I like to fuck him in the ass."
/r/askMRP20/12/23 02:50 PM
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By the time your wife utters those majick words, so much time has transpired where she has fallen so far out of love for you, that she has already moved on from you and onto some other dick. You are the last to know and no amount of "change" on your part will repair the damage already done.
/r/askMRP18/12/23 07:52 PM
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If she cheats with you, she will cheat on you.
/r/seduction18/11/23 01:51 AM
1

Look up Doggie Dinner Bowl Look.
/r/askMRP08/11/23 12:28 AM
8

Become her warden or be free of bullshit drama? What do, what do?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 07:27 PM
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"I believe this is a strong frame if the intention is for her to break up with me." Just breaking up with her (instead of being such a dick that she breaks up with you) would be a stronger frame.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 02:54 PM
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She was so into you, she fucked two guys in one night, neither of them you. You have your work cut out for you.
/r/askMRP13/08/23 12:23 AM
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Story time. Working 32 hrs per week. Involved in the company's retool program, where they pay for college courses in computer science with a bachelor's degree in 4 years, the end goal. Required 2 courses per quarter, 4 quarters per year. Day consisted of awake at 6 am, 1/2 hr drive to be at work by 7 am. Out at 3:30 pm. 1/2 drive to university. Either in the library for study/homework or the computer labs to work on programming projects. Eat quick bite in cafeteria before classes start at 7pm. O…
/r/askMRP07/08/23 10:20 PM
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Look up Hypergamy.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 11:41 PM
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"How do i deal with her cheating and lying." You hire a divorce attorney, file for divorce, and prevent her from leaving the country with your kids. Also DNA the kids.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 11:39 AM
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Timing and logistics is everything. If she is busy, she's busy. Check out DeCarlos Escalation Ladder.
/r/askMRP12/07/23 10:44 PM
2

The bullshit about not feeling the connection/can't give herself completely because of no love or some such thing is just her saying you didn't give her enough tingles to allow her legs to spread.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 09:26 PM
21

Your marriage is fucked. Lawyer up, get STD and DNA tests, get your financials in order so she can not drain the accounts and run up debt, and grey rock.
/r/askMRP26/05/23 08:08 PM
18

Hire a lawyer. Have her served. Grey Rock. The Stay plan is the same as the Go plan.
/r/askMRP01/05/23 10:45 PM
2

General order 102 Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 03:49 PM
1

You don't answer the phone or texts when it's not an emergency This is the correct answer. My wife was a practitioner of verbally shit testing me through the phone for whatever bullshit that happened beyond my control at the moment. Flat out said, 'do not call me unless it is an emergency that required me to leave work immediately.' Never had a problem since.
/r/askMRP22/03/23 04:32 PM
14

Does it really matter. She is on her way out of the marriage. You need to show her the way out the door. Hire a lawyer and serve her divorce papers. In the meantime, look up Grey Rock and The Healing Heart - the 180. Focus on yourself and the kids. Get your financials in order, get tested for STDs and DNA the kids.
/r/askMRP17/03/23 09:54 PM
3

Or she thinks you won't leave her because she can make your life hell with two kids to fuck you over.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 03:10 AM
5

DEVI works outside the bedroom as well as in. Story time: I was with this chick for a while. We visited her sister for a few days in another city. Sister was smoking hot, married to an ex marine who owned his own construction business, two kids, nice home in the burbs. The marine was 6'4" chiseled and the most stoic man I ever met. He never spoke more than two words while I was there. Sister could not say enough about hubby. However, me, chick, sister, and sister's hot friend went out on the tow…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/23 01:44 PM
17

If only there was a book called, "How I stopped worrying, and learned to love eating pussy."
/r/askMRP12/02/23 10:46 PM
11

Your wife has no respect for you. Respect is earned, not given.
/r/askMRP01/02/23 03:21 PM
36

Way back when, I used to frequent a website called askmen.com. it eventually became untenable to visit, so I stopped. However, one advice column that was interesting was by Doc Love. He had a book called The System (the dating dictionary). In it, he described the benefits of being a challenge towards women and how it drives interest level (attraction.) The doc comes off as corny, and his book is a weird format, but his advice is rock solid.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/23 01:24 AM
6

Other than medical issues, a woman's bad behavior is usually a result of you fucking up. If it becomes so untenable that you are contemplating divorce, you might as well call your lawyer instead of trying coercion. In general, ultimatums are only effective if you have the capacity to follow through, and all parties are aware of that fact.
/r/askMRP29/12/22 08:44 PM
4

Grey Rock and The 180. Start the divorce process.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 03:39 AM
9

"make her feel good, her life is just boring and that's the only exciting thing she's got going on" sitting on the couch sexting some other dude! Your fucked, your relationship is fucked, you fucked it up. The Stay Plan is the Same as the Go Plan. Lift, Sidebar, STFU.
/r/askMRP29/11/22 12:30 PM
13

The OP is delusional if he thinks he is "all she has." Open legs, insert new dude.
/r/askMRP28/11/22 08:04 PM
16

Her: "Some guy is hitting on me in class. Blah, blah, blah. " You: "Invite the guy over, so I can fuck him in the ass while he fucks you."
/r/askMRP22/11/22 04:52 AM
5

Read: Saving a Low Sex Marriage along with the rest of the sidebar you probably haven't read.
/r/askMRP17/11/22 07:46 PM
53

"Stop chasing chicks for a while. A lot of people say the best way to forget about a woman is to be inside another woman. That is true but not in that stage since every negative emotion will get amplified. If the new woman ghosts, flakes, or does something you don’t like, you won’t be able to process it very friendly since you will feel nobody wants you." The idea behind "Fuck 10 Other Chicks" is to form no attachment other than to get between their legs. Fuck, forget, and move on to the next. T…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 09:09 PM
14

"I've never been a side dick before so Idk if there's rules to this" Rule 1) keep your mouth shut Rule 2) keep your dick wrapped Rule 3) enjoy
/r/askMRP08/11/22 07:31 PM
1

Happn
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/22 05:08 AM
0

Did not read your post so this is an answer to your header question If a girl is unwilling to fuck you, she will be unwilling to be in a relationship with you. If you go for the relationship without the sex, she will string you along until a shiny new guy comes across her path. Suggest reading the Sex God Method (DEVI)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 01:53 AM
59

In The System by Doc Love, he talks about interest level of a woman in a man. Once it drops below 50%, he concurs, there is little to no coming back, she is gone.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:51 PM
0

Have your T levels checked. May be a clue. In my you ger days, I could jerk off several times a day and still go a couple of rounds that night with the girlfriend.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:13 AM
2

However, does she know what is expected from her, once you committed to her? Does she know in no uncertain terms you will end your commitment if she crosses boundaries. Before I married my wife, we were conversing about the upcoming nuptuals when she asked what if something happened between us. "Well, you can have everything, the only thing I want is a backpack full of clothes and my dog and you will never see me again." She was dumbfounded and has never been a problem since
/r/askMRP23/10/22 01:27 AM
3

Whether she is going to fuck this guy is TBD. Whether she is disrespecting you (taking/sending pic) while spending time with you, YES. Whether she is entertaining this guy emotionally, You Bet. He's a work buddy so unless she is willing to quit her job, the only thing you can do is enforce consequences for crossing boundaries with this guy. This means you end the relationship. Your choice on before or after she fucks him.
/r/askMRP23/10/22 01:13 AM
2

Couple of things. You may be suffering from Oneitis over your ex. Comparing these other girls to your ex is a sign. Understand what it is and how to kill it. Back in my day, the common theory after a breakup (and a way to kill Oneitis) was fuck ten other chicks. Never really thought this was a universal cure all as what your experiencing is the non emotional aspect of hooking up with random pickups. The sex is good, but great sex is always with an emotional connection. I went through a horrible …
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:48 AM
3

You can't MAP medical issues.
/r/askMRP19/10/22 05:39 PM
6

I met a guy who everytime I went to his apartment had some young hot chick over. This guy was nothing special 30 something. His game was being a rebel, against the "man", do your own thing, going against the crowd. The chicks he usually drew were rich daddies girls out to rebel against dear old dad.
/r/seduction15/10/22 08:07 PM
9

I think the club was a great second date because it showed you who she really was. Interesting way to screen chicks for bad behavior.
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:25 PM
4

Being a man is doing what's needed instead of what's wanted with no expectation of recognition, or appreciation.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 03:29 PM
3

Bone up on poker. If she's really into betting, suggest a few hands of strip poker. Search r/seduction for escalation ladder.
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:15 PM
2

Search for Escalation Ladder in r/seduction.
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:24 AM
5

Maybe I am misreading, your complaint is not getting laid (attempts vs results) but you want a long term relationship. Which is it? Each have different approaches/strategies to yield success. IOWs, using one approach to achieve a different outcome leads to the frustration you are experiencing.
/r/seduction01/10/22 02:32 AM
3

Whenever I was fucking my gf, my dog would sneak into the bedroom and repeatedly push his nose into the bed (waterbed) making waves. When I looked over, there he was sitting at the side of the bed with a big ol smile on his face. He knew. He was a great dog (collie/Shepard mix looked a lot like an Australian Sheperd), friendly and a hog for the hand, my traveling companion during my hitchhiking days, and always a good opener to meeting chicks.
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:03 PM
9

Anything in life can be reduced to; it is or it isn't. If you want to understand the why, it takes a little more digging.
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:37 AM
3

Look into AMOG tactics. Most of the time agree and amplify will diffuse most situations. Show em their bullshit won't bother you.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:27 AM
55

The Naked Man works 2 out of 3 times.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:08 PM
1

When she questioned why you haven't csll the coast guard, your response is, i got this, then stfu. Not DEER.
/r/askMRP20/09/22 08:28 PM
1

If she friendzoned you, you're in.
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:45 PM
45

Unless she has hot friends. Then consider friend zoning her to expand your social circle.
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:19 PM
16

You are texting too much. It shows you don't have much else going on, which is a sign of low value. Telling her your birthday was meh, paints yourself as uninteresting. Why should she care? The phone number is used to setup face to face meetups.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:37 AM
1

Why are chicks confusing?? In general, to separate the men from the boys. In particular to this chick, she has a low interest level (attraction) to you. Move on.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:26 PM
1

If she had a high interest level in you, she would have agreed and showed up. If she was truly busy, she would have countered with an alternative day/time she is available. Time to loose her number.
/r/seduction15/09/22 02:10 PM
2

Smile. If she smiles back, approach.
/r/seduction15/09/22 02:14 AM
2

In PU, you are talking up a chick, getting her attracted to you. Everything looks good to take her home. You hit the head and come back to see some other guy walking her out the door arm in arm. The other guy used her state that you generated, transfered it to himself and has a good time off your hard work.
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:06 AM
3

When initially spending time with a chick, the best approach is keeping it light and fun with a hint of sexy. If it progresses, then you can consider "deeper" conversations. Chicks form bonds by sharing.
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:12 AM
7

If you are not familiar with Transference, it would be worth understanding. As long as she doesn't dissappear on you and goes home with you, have fun flirting/playing/dancing with your wild one. If other guys try the same, know you will be the one bedding her tonight. If it turns out she ends up going off with some other dude, then know your turn with her is over.
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:07 AM
182

If you haven't already; cut her loose, learn from this experience, and get back out there.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:28 PM
51

The measure of a girl friend is how she treats you The girl you are describing is full of red flags, so be prepared that the "relationship " will end in a moments notice. IOWs protect yourself mentally and emotionally.
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:49 AM
3

Correct. Nebulous offers results in nebulous responses.
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:45 PM
1

I have had success disarming bitch shields on cold approaches with I am looking for some friends and can't find street/place. Assumes you know the area so the street/place is real, nearby, and out of sight. Works really well if you are from out of town. Alternative is if they can recommend a good place to eat/drink.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:51 AM
149

If you don't have a trusted wingman to short circuit the cockblocker, then you have to befriend her to disarm her.
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:50 PM
21

Search in r/seduction Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:28 PM
6

And this is why girl's nights out or trips out of town is never a good thing. Alot depends on the company ( in your situation single/divorced girl's compound) so the tendency is to blend/act the same. Not saying your wife is/will/might cheat. My wife went to Florida for a week with friends (mixed) for some Art Festivals to work for the friends and get a paid vacation while I stayed home with the kids. Once home I got the story that the guy running the booth next to theirs was heavily flirting wi…
/r/askMRP06/09/22 08:31 PM
1

You are demonstrating you are not desperate. This peeks their interest as to why.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:19 PM
90

In my younger days, I met up with this dude and had quite the eye opener. His hair was always greasy, terrible skin complexion, skinny as a rail, and dressed like a guy who just got out of bed, rumpled, ill fitting. His nickname was the lizard and it fit. However, every bar we went in, the chicks would flock to this guy. They all seemed to know him, as they would literally run up, wrap their arms around him, and squeal his name, "Lizard!" He would introduce me, but the chicks were on him and I c…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 11:49 PM
3

To check out how to detect time wasters check out The System by Doc Love Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:51 PM
1

So far all good.. Ask for the in person meet up. Have a specific date/time/place/event to offer that is lite/fun/interesting. If she has a high interest level she will accept. If she has a conflict, she will offer a counter date. If she has low to no interest, she will decline without a counter offer or worse flake. In that case, loose the number.
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:18 PM
11

Have a specific date/time/place/event you are attending and if she wants to meet up you will see her there. If she shows , there is some interest. If not, no skin off you back and don't waste anymore time on her.
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:05 PM
6

1 OK. 2 No In the mean time STFU, read the sidebar over and over until it is internalized, lift, and STFU.
/r/askMRP27/08/22 02:32 PM
7

WRT to your first few interactions. When I was in field service we were trained that if we did not understand the problem with the machine within 10 minutes, get on the phone to next level support. You have less time with chicks. If you are not getting any positive response from the chick within a few minutes, politely bail.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:52 PM
8

Once you get the ILYBNILWY speech, the relationship is over with no chance of recovery. Focus on yourself, get a mission, read, understand, internalize, progress.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 11:31 PM
9

She has no respect for you. Respect is earned.
/r/askMRP14/08/22 06:30 PM
-2

Chicks love a challenge. Source: The System by Doc Love.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:33 AM
7

Soft next for a few days. Be busy.. Then reset.
/r/askMRP07/08/22 01:51 PM
9

WRT 1) talk to a lawyer 2) visit a sperm bank
/r/askMRP02/08/22 01:01 AM
38

The phone number is more personal.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:51 PM
8

Expand your search radius. Form hobbies that attract females. If you are not in school, take a night class at local community college or university. Approach while shopping, at the library, at the beach, anywhere. If all you are doing is club or online, then yeah, it's possible the chicks you are finding are not relationship material or that's your mindset anyway, so make changes. Check out The System by Doc Love.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:10 PM
0

If a girl is unwilling to fuck you, she is unwilling to be in a relationship with you.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:02 PM
62

To be a man is to have the ability to do what is needed rather than what is wanted, and to do so without an expectation of appreciation.
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:53 PM
5

DeCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:23 PM
0

You don't. If she has a boy friend, how soon she mentions that she does, will tell you how loyal to the guy.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:37 PM
7

Expensive things attract expensive girlfriends. Should not be used to impress. Analogy: in writing, write to communicate, not to impress. Gaining monetary wealth would do more for a dgaf attitude which is attractive on it's own.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 11:36 PM
43

One thing to consider, regardless of age, if you can make them feel like they're younger, you're in. Older people may look/feel their age, but their mentality is still that of a teenager/20 something. When I was 19, I was going with an "older" 26yo chick. After a good fuck session, all she could say was, "Where were you when I was 19?" What I didn't say was, "12, building model cars in my bedroom."
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:56 PM
2

3 kids aged 6 to 11. Remodeling a 180yo farm house on 2 acres with 50x100' vegetable garden. Two vehicles to maintain. M -F work 50hrs with 1/2 hr commute each way Friday night dinner out with the wife. Saturday morning sport practices. Saturday night sports with the wife. Showers, wine, lingerie, games. Every other Sunday with extended family. Once a month Saturday bonefire/party get together with friends. Life is good. You make the time.
/r/askMRP19/07/22 01:45 AM
2

Just like Video Killed the Radio Star, Internet Killed the PUA.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:30 PM
3

Body Language is important. However, if you want to cut to the chase, at the end of the first date, go for the kiss. Source: The System by Doc Love.
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:57 PM
19

These are shit tests designed to see if you will pull back and stop (unworthy of their pussy) or be cool and keep on keeping on, (game on.) It is also an ASD and alleviate themselves from responsibility if you happen to spread their legs. It is also an indicator that they are thinking about fucking you without admitting it. It's up to you to make that happen. Your response is good as the results demonstrate. Practical Female Psychology for The Practical Man
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:05 PM
1

When you are first meeting up with a girl, keep it light and fun! Unless you are considering marriage with any girl, Do Not Discuss Religion. If she brings it up, change the subject. If she insists on your views, have one. If she ends the interaction because of differences, so be it, any relationship would have problems form the get go. Same with politics.
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:28 PM
16

Ta lking about lack of sex rarely increases sex. Suggest reading Saving a low sex marriage by the bluepillprofessor The Sex God Method Look up the terms Lover - provider dichotomy Dopamine vs oxytocin
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:32 AM
1

Having a sense of humor is different than being a comedian.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:29 PM
1

You can tell how loyal a girl is to their boyfriend/husband by how soon they mention them when you first meet.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:48 PM
7

|her bf was never ever mentioned since that one time Rule of thumb, you can tell how loyal a girl is to her boyfriend by how soon she mentions him and how often.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 02:32 PM
1

If she is doing this in front of you, it's disrespectful. On the other hand, since she is doing it in front of you, you know she has her eyes out for your replacement.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:02 AM
182

"Well, if you ever breakup with your boyfriend, your dreams may come true." ;) ​ Also consider that if she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend, she will bel willing to cheat on you just as easily.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:16 PM
35

With regards to number 3, IOI's do not start or stop with the open. IOI's are invaluable (after opening) to determine if she is dtf or you are wasting your time.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 02:54 PM
8

The Sex God Method. Look up "how to unleash her inner slut"
/r/askMRP27/06/22 02:47 PM
5

It's literally on the right side of this post. Start with New Here?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/22 12:28 PM
8

. The problem is that i over-complimented her. No you are over texting her. Shows her you have nothing better to do, too available. Her complaining about you not texting is a shit test, you are failing. You reply with, been busy with ____ fill in the blank. Preferably something you are working on and/or having fun with. Read the side bar, twice, let it sink in and read it again. Internalize that shit, be a better man, work your passions, this chick is not your priority, don;t make her one.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/22 12:27 PM
3

If she does not offer a counter offer, at the time she is canceling, this is correct response, none at all. If there is a counter, then the chances her excuse for canceling might be legit. Otherwise it shows a lack of integrity and more importantly a lack of interest (attraction.) Any chick with a high interest level in you would make sure to keep a date. Don't waste your valuable time. Lose her number. If she contacts you again, don't respond unless it's a solid offer (date/time/place) to get t…
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:56 PM
1

It's trendy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:02 PM
0

|he's overweight, half bald, the same height as her and generally an ugly guy. She is with him so that she can; 1) easily control the relationship, 2) not have to put that much work into the relationship, and 3) have a less demanding "man" getting in the way of her career. Plus if she wants kids, she will have a ready made babysitter while she doctors doctors.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:42 PM
2

You give yourself confidence. It is your mental attitude that you are the shit, you are the best version of yourself that you can be, and if anybody doesn't agree... fuck em. Read the sidebar, lift weights, focus on finishing your studies. Set goals, ie graduate, work on them until you succeed. Each accomplishment builds confidence in yourself and sets you up for the next challenge/goal. If you don't succeed, no big deal. Reset, refocus, modify, set new goals. Every failure is a lesson that help…
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:50 PM
1

Your wife's behavior is not shit testing, it's disrespect. Respect is earned.
/r/askMRP26/05/22 02:02 PM
8

what she’ll do if you hit a low point This is an important point of any relationship... will they have your back? Your ex stabbed you in the back.
/r/askMRP25/05/22 03:19 PM
1

can easily switch to interest within 30 seconds. Absolutely.
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:03 PM
1

I almost always ask for directions Being a New Yorker living in Texas, my best success was, I am looking for some friends of mine from NY. 9/10 times this opens the girls for "Are you from NY?" which is verified with the accent. Followed more often than not by, "Do you have a place to stay?" Asking for directions is a good approach, also with good results and leads into the looking for friends. Cold approaches otherwise, chicks almost automatically raise their shields with who the fuck is this g…
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:28 PM
58

Smiles, notes, texts are cheap. Time is not. If a chick is interested/attracted she will make time for you, one on one.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 04:45 PM
151

| I asked her if she had any plans for the weekend, Never ask a girl IF she has plans. Tell her your plans and invite her along. If she refuses, then lose the number. If she accepts, proceed accordingly. Lift, sidebar, improve.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 04:43 PM
2

If you want to know if she is "into you" or just her hangout buddy because she has nothing better to do, you will have to "make a move." DeCarlo Escalation Ladder.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:33 PM
1

Nice guy behavior has a "hidden" agenda behind it. Having these traits and being genuine does not make you "nice guy."
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:35 PM
8

9 habits of insanely charming and charismatic people: They are empathetic. They are humble. They are vulnerable. They are have a sense of humor. They are present. They are genuinely interested in EVERYONE. They avoid social narcissism. They are generous and altruistic. Check out some old time movies with men who exude charisma. Marlin Brando, Cary Grant, Humphry Bogart, James Cagney, etc. Compare them to other charismatic actors like John Candy and John Belushi .
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:16 PM
8

Can confirm. The longest relationships I have been in were second or third date sex.
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:36 PM
10

Insert penis into vagina. ✔
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:37 AM
1

Why spend time and energy on some chick with a bf? Even if she is into you, so what, she is still going home and fucking her bf, not you. Actions, not words determine her true interests. Meaning if she wanted to be with you, she would. One last thing, if she would cheat on her bf with you, she will cheat on you. Find/date available single chicks.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:27 PM
9

This one chick I was with for about 1 year, was described to me as a butterfly (before I met her.) She would flit from guy to guy, never staying too long on any particular one. I guess I was her longest stay, but in the end she still floated away on the winds of whim. C'est la vie. Moral of the story, enjoy your turn while it lasts.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:21 PM
6

If she will cheat with you, she will cheat on you.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:31 PM
2

I meet a guy, dick job, crappy apartment, kind of a slob, but he had hot chicks in and out of his apartment all the time. I asked a mutual friend, what's going on here? They are rich girls with daddy issues who come over to get high, fuck this guy as a,sort of fuck you to dad. If you have confidence in your self as who you are, what you do and where your headed in life.... don't give a fuck about how rich/hot this chick is, she is just a chick who you want to find out if she is worth your time.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:51 PM
5

In regards to #1 this works, however the results will be mixed.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:08 AM
2

If after two flakes,, you have not lost her phone number, the problem is you giving her attention/validation she seeks but does not deserve.
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:27 PM
2

Yes, it validates why they rejected you in the first place. It is also an ego boost, since she has the power/value to make you react so strongly.
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:08 PM
1

Correct. You need to reverse the dynamic. Constantly texting/calling (i.e. keeping in touch) gives her the impression you have nothing better to do, you are too available, you are not a challenge to her, so interest level (attraction) drops like a rock. Since she is close to being a lost cause already and you are losing the vibe, cancel with "something came up" so you won't make the date. Then cut contact for a few days and hit her up with an invitation to some event (not dinner) you are going t…
/r/seduction23/04/22 12:16 AM
1

Quitting cigarettes is a great first step. That alone with put some weight on you and combined with lifting, the weight gains will be where you want them. Not smoking will also increase your social interactions/opportunities in a positive way. The hard part will be dealing with the physical and psychological withdrawal symptoms. Best of luck and live life large on your own terms with no regrets.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:42 PM
1

You just sound lazy. Or unaware of how to unfuck himself.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:49 PM
1

|I have tried explaining my issues, and she really is not understanding. She keeps questioning my attraction, my love, ans even now my sexuality. The relationship seems to be falling apart, and this definitely has become a huge issue Explaining your issues will never work in your favor. It only dries up her pussy and drives her away, thus her questioning you and the relationship. it's a huge issue because you made it an issue.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/22 08:18 PM
0

That's not how the game is played.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:58 PM
3

|putting themselves close to my proximity It's an IOI. It's up to you to act on it.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:56 PM
1

Stories around events in your life. As long as you describe them with passion and detail you can make the most mundane, the best experience ever. I found outdoor adventures particularly good. Invokes a lot of the senses; touch, sight, smell, sounds, which impart feelz in your audience.
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:03 PM
0

Yes.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:37 PM
2

Well worth the read. Franco is one of the contributors who was a major contributor to the original mASF website and a psychologist by profession (if memory serves correctly.)
/r/askMRP24/03/22 02:36 PM
28

She is reliving her teen years of getting dry humped in the back seat of her clueless boyfriend's car.
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:03 PM
1

the relationship was in a bad state SHE was in a bad state and yeah, don;t believe her words, just her actions/behavior.
/r/askMRP23/03/22 12:15 PM
1

The go plan is the same as the stay plan. Keep on your path and if this girl becomes a viable option for you... In the mean time, your option to keep her around for the purposes of improving your bedroom behavior. At this point, why give a fuck. Read the Sex God Method. You want to try something, try it out on her. If she is still harping you, then move on. (check out 'Sam Kinison sexual diaries youtube' for a good laugh and look at who/what you are dealing with. | It's far easier to find new gi…
/r/askMRP23/03/22 11:56 AM
46

You can have everything going in your favor, but if the logistics aren't right, it can easily derail the night.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:02 PM
1

The only reason to go to the party is to game her hot friends. Of course read her first to gage her interest first.
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:26 PM
53

|she says 'I didn't think you had it in you' (Lol). ​ Meaning most guys would have bailed by now.
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:00 PM
14

This reply is irrelevant but a young movie writer had an idea for a post-nuclear holocaust movie. Unfortunately for him, the only backing (money) he could get was from the porn industry, caveat being, of course, the movie had the contain hardcore sex scenes. Thus in 1982, Cafe Flesh was born.
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:51 AM
2

|Getting a date requires skill. You have to have awareness to make a good profile. You need to know how to banter well. You need to know the right time to ask her out (not too early, not too late). |Do you feel like women know about this stuff? They could care less. |She then mentions he didn't kiss her. I have been ghosted/dumped/told no thanks by chicks because I did not escalate. Live and learn.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:15 PM
1

In the beginning, group dates are a bad idea since you can't get the one on one time to drive interest or gage her interest. Having girls as friends is advantageous for expanded social circle, meeting her girl friends, and using her to pivot or wing for you. However, that doesn't happen until you have established yourself with her, that means dating her for a while. You might think it's a catch-22 but not really since you can't "establish " until you have a few one on one dates first. With this …
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:44 AM
36

If she is that beautiful, then chances are you were probably one of a hundred guys talking her up. Her interest level in you was clearly not very high, so why waste any more of your time. Unless of course, you want to find out how her "laughter" is while getting fucked.
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:29 PM
0

Not the point.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 07:32 PM
2

'Faking it', is not being fake. You set goal(s) and work towards realizing your goal(s). Along the way, you will fail/succeed/learn/correct/grow. Keep true to yourself and eventually you will achieve your goal(s) and/or establish new ones. It is an everlasting, life long endeavor. In more, but less words, 'Faking It' does not include dishonesty.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:21 PM
1

Where I work, there is an undocumented system of Atta!Boys and Oh!Shits. No matter how many Atta!Boys you stack up, one Oh!Shit will knock down all the Atta!Boys. The only thing you can do, is reset and keep moving forward.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 07:09 PM
15

The power is if you are not constantly texting her, she starts to wonder why. Wondering is thinking. Thinking is interest. Interest is attraction. Attraction is commitment.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:37 PM
2

She could easily be fucking him for the last 6 months, with the branch swing (full commitment to the other guy) as the final nail in the current relationship coffin.
/r/askMRP02/03/22 06:38 PM
10

Without reading the heading and with every sentence read, you could tell where this was going. The only salvation for this guy is to: Contact a lawyer to understand his options financially. Quit his night job. He goes out once a week with his buddies. If he doesn't have any, find some. Stop payments on his wife's schooling. Tell her to quit school, get a real job, and start paying back the "household" for all her expenses to date. Cancel joint credit cards, set up a separate bank account that hi…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 03:43 PM
1

Have at least one short story on some fun adventure you went on that will invoke a positive emotional response.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:09 PM
1

Attraction is not a choice, desire is not negotiable.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:47 AM
1

Leisure Suit Larry or Groundhog Day
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:13 PM
1

When you offer nebulous plans, you get nebulous responses. Be direct, be specific, have a purpose, IOW, don;t pussy foot around.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:45 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:21 PM
0

Drive the drama, drive them home.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:22 PM
2

If you haven't already, read No More Mr Nice Guy. Not sure, but you may have replace one manipulation tactic with another. Chicks pick up on "nice guy" behavior faster than "asshole" behavior. Also. Chicks live for the drama, as it drives emotions. Another good read (if you haven't already) The Sex God Method, focusing on DEVI.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:07 PM
2

Failure is your best teacher.
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:48 PM
2

Attraction is not a choice. Whatever your thoughts on this chick are when out of sight (fantasy,) have no bearing on when you are with her (reality.) Desire is non negotiable.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:34 PM
6

Simply, they are looking to lock down providers for their kids.
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:25 PM
1

My cousin gave me a primer. Plenty of books/articles. Also how to catch a liar articles are good.. Then go out and people watch. Wash, rinse, repeat. Eventually, as you meet girls you will be able to observe telltales in their behavior that let's you match up what they say. Edit: The rule is watch what they do, not what they say. Also look up IOIs.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:20 AM
6

Although I agree with a lot of what u/Renshato says in his post, especially the bottom line "find what works for you" getting there is easier said than done. To your question, no reading posts on this sub will not teach you how to seduce or pu a girl. In the before times, dealing with chicks was hit or miss, trial and error as we had to figure shit out on your own and it was brrutal. Especially when you see so-called "naturals" seemingly attract chicks with ease. Frustrating to say the least. Th…
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:45 PM
4

|Got her number = Good. |Talked about many things to know more about each other = First mistake, you want to do this face to face. EDIT: unclear if this occurred over the phone or in person. The rest stands. |She told me about her ex-boyfriend = Bad, he is lurking in her head. |I asked her "why?" = Second mistake, if she is talking about her ex, do not encourage her. |so I told her - Third mistake, not your job to tell her what to do, also perpetuates her talking about her ex. |I became like som…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:26 PM
3

Not married, not living together, no kids.... dump her. Then reread the side bar, lift, improve your career, meet/date/fuck other women.
/r/askMRP03/02/22 01:29 PM
1

Read up on body language and IOIs. Take a look at the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. Learn how to dance.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:50 PM
3

So how often has this played out?
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:34 PM
7

| I remember reading in one of the resources (don’t remember which) Then reread. Specifically covert contracts and outcome independence. If you are making a latte for yourself or heading in the direction, then fine. Expect no compensation. Otherwise, "Sorry babe, got other stuff to do." Then go do that other stuff.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:32 PM
2

|when I’m playing with my children without her, she will try to involve herself in the game, resulting in me separating myself from the game. I don't see where this is a problem. She wants to participate with her husband and child. This is not "her bullshit." Why "separate" yourself from this opportunity to have some fun. To belabor the point, is there some rule that only one parent can engage with the child at a time?
/r/askMRP31/01/22 09:31 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3h5plr/masf_repost_simplest_possible_pua_framework_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 ​ mASF (fastseduction) was where I first found out about PUA. Prior to that it was trial by combat meaning you go out in the world and fail, fail, fail, until you don't. You had to rely on your gut instincts, but the problem with that was you didn't know if you could trust them. My cousin turned me onto reading body language and how to deal with shit tes…
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:22 PM
1

Check out The System by Doc Love. The doc comes of as a bit corny and his book is a weird format (dating dictionary) but his advice is rock solid. Points of interest: Challenge, Interest level, Truth Triangle, Bottom line Factor and more. Age is a factor in your gf's diminishing interest. Any girl under 24 is fickle. Your behavior is the other major factor that drives her interest level in you. Your gf is growing tired of you, you need to find out why. The doc can help you. Maybe not with her, b…
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:51 AM
1

If she "forgot" to reply, her interest level in you is low. Any girl with a high interest level (attraction) would not take days to respond. It would be wasted effort to continue to send texts after no response from her initially. Lose her number and move on.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:35 PM
1

First dates should be short, light, fun, flirty. Going for the kiss at the end will tell you her interest level and prospects of future dates.
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:07 PM
1

George Carlin, Richard Pryor, Redd Fox, Rodney Dangerfield, Sam Kinison, Bill Burr Firesign Theater, Ceech and Chong, Second City TV, SNL S1-4, David DeAnglo- Cocky and Funny The goal is to provide emotional imagery. The above references do just that. They a great story tellers.
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:28 PM
2

You have to balance experience with desire. So you are not that interested in this girl other than ending your virginity. Ok. Things to think about: Respect. For the girl and for yourself Sex. Make it as good for her as for you. Read The Sex God Method. Regardless of the direction/outcome leave her better than you found her. Live life large on your own terms with no regrets
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:00 PM
1

the other 10 dudes she is texting. And therein lies the problem. If the girl is not interested in meeting up, then you are wasting your time. Personally, I would rather finger fuck the girl, than finger fuck her phone.
/r/seduction21/01/22 12:45 PM
9

Practical female psychology for the Practical man
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:29 AM
6

This is the correct and only answer. You lwill never be able to raise / gage a girls interest level and/or escalate over the phone.
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:19 AM
1

Modify this to have an interesting event that you will be doing/going to on a specific date/time, instead of an open ended thing with a vague time that she can agree but not commit to leaving flaking a higher probability. This narrows her response to either she commit s (shows actual interest) or she doesn't indicating no interest. If she counters with an alternative date/time/event then she may still have interest. IOW, cut to the chase, determine real interest level, act accordingly with littl…
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:10 PM
28

She only saw you as a beta bucks option once she hit the wall after fucking as many Chad's that would have her.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:12 PM
2

Unless you are considered a guy who already "knows" how women work, women will not give you the truth on how to seduce them. Most common lie you will hear is, "just be yourself."
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:50 PM
64

Going for the kiss is a good indicator of her attraction to you. She's not.
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:43 PM
87

What's the worst that can happen? She's a crazy person and kills you? She's a paranoid person and pepper sprays you? She's a mean person and yells at you? She's a shy person and runs away from you? She's in a committed relationship and says no thanks to you? She's single but not interested? She's a lesbian? She's a polite person and accepts that you are interested in her and starts a conversation? Or... she is any combination of the above. The bottom line factor is that you will not know until y…
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:42 PM
1

Take it slow, move with purpose, your a lover not a fucker. Oh and read the sex god method
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:25 AM
15

She is fucking with you. Do not reply. Lose her number. Block her.
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:57 AM
0

Rodney Dangerfield, Redd Fox, George Carlin, Sam Kinison, Richard Pryor, Bill Cosby. These guys were master story tellers. Firesign Theater, cheech and chong. Somewhat dated, but wild for their time. Read National Lampoon Original SNL, Second City TV. Great Original comedy.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:25 PM
-3

The sex god method
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:00 PM
27

I've asked if they would reciprocate after going down on them. 50/50 responses on a limited sample set. Other times, while going down, would swing around and "offer up" my dick, some would take up the offer, others not so much. Never force, shame, pout, get upset, or offer any negativity if a girl doesn't or refuses. The one's that do, do so because they like it and/or they know you like it and are willing to please. The one's that don't don't for a lot more reasons; the most common being prior …
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:13 AM
1

last thing you want is to see them every day where even going to work isn't an escape from them. especially when she is getting "friendly" with some other dude.
/r/seduction13/01/22 07:57 PM
1

If her interest level (attraction) in you is that low, you have very little chance to recover. Best forget about it and meet/date other girls.
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:20 PM
1

My observations were Texas girls start young.
/r/seduction13/01/22 01:02 AM
5

He's bullshitting you. If given the opportunity, he will fuck her.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:37 PM
166

Couple of thoughts; She may like you, but if she is not giving you the same "touchy/feely" she likes other guy better. The other dude doesn't give a fuck about you, your likes, dislikes. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:36 PM
3

Learn, practice, master - Outcome Independence
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:19 PM
4

Must have gone down hill then, because when I lived in Texas, 1976, some of the most beautiful women I meet where from Dallas. Austin, Houston, Corpus Christi weren't to shabby either. Austin is a great place; clean, music scene (not C&W,) State Capitol, and the University of Texas, so plenty of girls. The only problem at that time was very few jobs compared to the rest of the state.
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:32 PM
1

Yes. Shedding a tear? No.
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:56 PM
1

Just a few thoughts Have stories to tell about your adventures. Even the little things as long as you have a passion in your voice, are descriptive, and convey your feelings. If you don't have any adventures, make some. Keep a journal of your observations. Read poetry, read classic literature. Listen to classic comedy; Bill Cosby, George Carlin, Sam Kinison, Richard Pryor, Rodney Dangerfield, etc. Listen to Firesign Theater. Those guys were fantastic story tellers that took ordinary life and cre…
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:05 AM
2

The System by Doc Love
/r/seduction09/01/22 06:15 PM
4

You have one-itis. Best cure is to find/meet/date/fuck other girls. I.E. abundance mentality.
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:36 AM
5

Best approach is to have a casual, fun, interesting event /activity that you are going to and invite her along. If she accepts, she's interested. If not, she is not. Proceed accordingly. General consensus on asking out/getting involved with work mates is; don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:30 AM
2

Check out The System by Doc Love. He explains interest level, how to guage it, maintain it, and what to do if it falls below 50%. How to be a challenge, the bottom line factor and the truth triangle. The doc comes across as a bit corny and the format is weird (dating dictionary) but his advise is rock solid.
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:16 AM
1

Look into reading body language. I always understood if a person looks down after initial eye contact it is because they are attracted and/or self-conscious. With gay men staring you down, males are generally the aggressors.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:02 AM
3

Anytime there is an ex lurking in the background, there will always be trouble. Don't hold your breath waiting for this girl to "realize" she made a mistake and come back to you. Once she's out, she's out. Why waste your time thinking about this chick who lost interest in you. Loose her number. Check out the system by doc love
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:29 PM
2

David D'Angelo- cocky and funny.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:12 PM
21

I had to take a social studies class in Community College. It was a fairly mixed class. Instructor poled the class on what qualities (5) they look for in a partner. He tallied the results on the board. For the girls, top trait was Sense of Humor. For the guys, top trait was Loving and Caring. Consensus among the girls was the guys were a bunch of momma's boys. Consensus among the guys was you would need a sense of humor to be with these girls.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:09 PM
1

Instead of performing mental gymnastics, ask her on a date and find out exactly how she feels you.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:08 AM
1

The area of the triangle never changes.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 10:52 PM
10

In my job we employ QCD, quality, cost, delivery. It's a triangle with each element representing a side. The area of the triangle remains the same, but each side can change depending on the priority. Cost of the product is relative to the quality is relative to time to deliver. Increase on side, decreases the other, etc, etc. Substitute QCD with; Sex, Commitment, Longevity for the sides of a relationship triangle. The geometry is the same. I.E. increase Commitment, Sex is decreased.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 05:20 PM
7

Offering to reschedule without specifics is a sign she is not that interested. Why waste your valuable time. Lose her number
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:28 AM
20

Never ask. Escalate.
/r/askMRP24/12/21 05:07 AM
2

It's called anchoring.
/r/seduction24/12/21 12:35 AM
6

Wish her luck and loose her number.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:29 PM
53

Does she understand she is just a fuck buddy? Review your behavior that you weren't giving off boyfriend/girlfriend vibes that confused her into thinking the relationship was more than just fuck buddies. I.e. sleeping over.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:00 AM
4

It's her way of protecting her ego.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:18 AM
13

A chick is only going to give ioi s for so long without any positive responses before she determines your not worth it anymore. Her interest level dropped below 50% and is not recoverable. Obtw, don't shit were you work.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:34 AM
5

DeCarlo escalation ladder
/r/seduction21/12/21 12:11 AM
6

Agree that you should not ask for the added reason, If she does actually have a bf, you can tell how loyal she is to said bf by how soon she brings him up in your interactions.
/r/seduction18/12/21 02:02 PM
3

Google.com Sidebar
/r/askMRP18/12/21 01:59 AM
2

She is shit testing you. She could be ready to monkey branch or she is just a ball buster.
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:25 PM
2

Option 1 ) risk is friendzoning yourself, requires patience and skill. Also she could end up marrying the bf, so time/energy wasted. 2) Hard no. 3) best option is keeping your options open. This was covered in both Seinfeld and How I Met Your Mother episodes.
/r/seduction12/12/21 07:05 PM
2

Use her as a pivot and/or have her introduce you to her friends.
/r/seduction11/12/21 10:44 PM
3

Any girl with a high interest level would do everything she can to make herself available. Check out Doc Love's 'The System' to understand interest level and how to gauge it. |I ask if she wants to go out on a date sometime When you ask a chic for a date, have a specific date/time/event that you are going to and invite her along. Using "sometime" is nebulous and leaves the girl an easy out to turn you down without actually turning you down. Asking directly leaves her with a yes or no response. I…
/r/seduction09/12/21 01:34 PM
1

mASF used to be a good resource, but its been years since I have visited.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:15 AM
2

The only pressure is what you put on yourself.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:32 PM
3

You have to trust your chick to handle this guy on her own. If she doesn't, then you have a different set of problems to deal than the work creep.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/21 08:05 PM
-2

Stating the obvious? I look at N-Count as the number of females I have been with in any capacity (see below,) not just who I fucked. It's all about the experience of interacting with chicks that gives you your knowledge base. Dates/STR/LTR/FWB/ONS/FB
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 03:41 PM
1

Check practical female psychology for the Practical man
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:08 AM
10

If she was flirting with the dude, while she is out with you, it's disrespectful. As far as her making you feel attractive, drop that nonsense. Understand that a girl with high interest rate (attraction) in you would not be flirting with other guys in front of you or behind you. However, her presence does not validate your attractiveness. Your turn may be close to an end. So keep your eyes, ears, and options open.
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:25 AM
20

Any chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you will do whatever she can to spend time with you. Text/calls are for setting up meets only. You cannot build attraction over the wavelengths, only in person.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:02 PM
1

Mmslp - you can't map medical. Having a kid is medical. It was 2 months before my wife was ready for piv.
/r/askMRP14/11/21 11:51 PM
1

Give her what she wants/earns. If you haven't already, check out The Sex God Method and Practical female psychology for the Practical man.
/r/askMRP14/11/21 08:05 PM
2

Reward good behavior, punish bad behavior ;) Also look up 'Madonna - whore syndrome'
/r/askMRP12/11/21 11:29 PM
2

>I sit wonder if something is physically wrong. >I am assuming it is psychological. > I feel like it's one of those things that wouldn't be a thing if I didn't think about it. ​ It's time to break out the Kama Sutra and break out of your head.
/r/askMRP10/11/21 02:03 PM
8

You want to talk In Person. This is how you build attraction, comfort, and escalate. This is why text/phone calls are for setting meet ups. On the other hand,, young chicks change their minds/attitudes as often as their panties. Lose her number and if she ever contacts you, start like it's the first time you met.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:19 AM
2

A chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you will do everything she can to spend time with you.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:44 PM
3

These aren't shit tests, this is blatant disrespect. Hard next.
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:41 PM
6

"You are not ‘red pilled’. You are a guy that read some shit online and took it hyper-literally and now you feel proud of yourself for it." This made me laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 12:21 PM
2

To spell things out for you: No sex in marriage = your wife finds you unattractive. You fixing this is required, not plating other chicks to find validation/justification. Just because some chick finds you attractive during a short interaction, doesn't negate your unattractiveness to your wife/gf of 5 years. Open Marriage = open door/permission for other guys (your wife finds more attractive) to fuck your wife. Chick that works in the same company/HR department regardless of assignments/location…
/r/askMRP29/09/21 06:48 PM
6

Read Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man The Way of the Superior Man
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:22 PM
3

Check out; The dating dictionary by doc love The married man's sex life primer The sex God method No more Mr nice guy
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:13 PM
2

Always go for the number.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:39 AM
6

Doing things for you is her investment in you.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 08:23 PM
8

Some of the hottest fucks I've had were "reformed" Catholic School Girls.
/r/askTRP17/08/21 08:05 PM
3

>She regrets everything, wishes to go back and fix everything, says all the nice stuff you'd want to hear, and that we had a lot of problems then Two things in this statement, 1) her words are meaningless, action is the only qualifier. 2) "we had a lot of problems" translation: blameshifting to you for her willingness to fuck some other dude because basically, she wanted to. Instead of stepping up and trying to resolve said "problems" with you, she jumped on some other dick. Do not confuse regre…
/r/askMRP28/07/21 03:38 PM
11

>wife suggests that there may be some action tonight. She may have been flirty during the day. Escalate on the spot, then pull back. Repeat, throughout the day as required. This is a temperature check to gauge what may or may not come later. Allows control over your action/reaction, i.e. she's busting your balls, you avoid being butthurt or she's DTF. Experience. Wife was giving my shit (with a smirk) over some sexual innuendo bs I threw her way. Within seconds, I closed the gap, had her pants u…
/r/askMRP19/07/21 05:08 PM
2

It’s a defense mechanism which doesn’t make any sense. Look up DARVO
/r/askMRP19/07/21 12:31 PM
2

"I bet you're one of those girls that kiss and tell?"
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:13 PM
1

> its as if all our jokes and secret spots and all that gay shit and bond doesn’t matter or exist to her anymore You do not state her age. Chicks under 24 tend to change attitudes as fast as their underwear. >i was a dog. even when we were “exclusive” i was going out with other girls and she even saw one time. i just didn’t care. contradiction = confusion = short term relationship. OBTW, it turns out you do care. >i don’t know if shes playing games or what but the fact that she just seems to not…
/r/askMRP25/06/21 01:55 PM
7

>Is it normal to buy expensive gifts to a plate ? No! Your reply about starbucks coffee is correct. > should soft next this plate As long as she continues to come over and fuck you the way you like, why. >As this is a red flag Of course it is. This is why she is a plate and not an LTR.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 06:54 PM
1

>she's all 'We should put away the dishes or else we wake up to a mess.' You, "knock yourself out."
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:06 PM
1

>unless it is manipulated or sparked by something external Kitty Kats Kompete when dread is applied.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:35 PM
4

Outcome dependant. Dinner, expensive gift, anniversary, sex boxers /= sex. As another post stated, game your wife = sex.
/r/askMRP11/06/21 11:25 PM
5

> I try my best to be very If you are trying, then yes it could sound forced and insincere. >The problem is that it looks so forced and awkward that it almost looks like a meme. Watch/listen to your tone and voice inflections. >My rude coworkers think I'm a soyboy Fuck them.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:11 PM
17

LTR GF, "Who was that girl you were trying to pick up?" You, "Which one?"
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:17 PM
1

AMOG. Their weak attempt to pick up your chick by trying to make you look weak. Been 21 for 8 years... gold. Agree and amplify works with chicks and chucks equally. Also, your chick's behavior was exemplary.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:44 PM
3

The more things change, the more they stay the same. I grew up in a small town, meaning few fuckable chicks, so often hunted in neighboring small towns. Got with this one chick who fell hard for me, but I wasn't interested in any bf/gf relationship. Once she figured that out, I couldn't get laid in that town for the life of me as all the other chicks shut me down out of loyalty to this one chick.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:13 PM
2

>Also my god, its like over half 50+ dudes. These are all the guys whose old ladies finally woke up and dumped their asses.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:04 PM
32

One girlfriend I had used to say, "I don;t care when you get your appetizer, as long as your home for dinner."
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:13 PM
85

Your desire to fuck other chicks will never go away. Every chick I see/meet is instantly evaluated for her fuckability. As far as I am concerned, it is in our nature and I have not met many men who don;t feel the same way. It all depends on your moral code. There are many ways to deal with your desire to stick your dick in stink. Don't put yourself in situations where readily fuckable pussy is available. Make a game of it; fuck, marry, kill. Go through the mental exercise/process of fucking/eati…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:08 PM
3

Who she is when you leave her is: a) not under your control or b) an alpha widow. Which is it?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:02 PM
19

>Teased her a bit saying “ahh can finally get rid of you”. Chicks can turn on a dime. In this case a phrase. Perceived by her as pump and dump, she threw a comfort test at you. > as a human no one wants to do or make an another person feel like that. Leave them better than you found them.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:31 PM
3

I embraced semen retention Reminds me of... Brig. General Jack D. Ripper
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:00 PM
2

> I can't even pinpoint the exact time that the table turned in these relationships where they took my balls from me, Three simple words, "I love you."
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:58 AM
12

This is why texts/phone calls/messages/whatever are stickily logistics for meetups.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:34 AM
1

Recently met up with an old friend from high school. My chick was with us. After dinner my buddy got out our senior yearbook (we all went to the same school.) Going through the pictures, pointing out what we knew about other classmates and who we had crushes on, who we thought were hot, etc. About a week later my chick mentions, "So between you and Tom, you went out with every girl at 'alma mater'?" "It was a small school." which she knew. Point is, chicks are curious and will always compare the…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:25 PM
13

You never really know what you have until they're stripped down and in the shower.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:51 AM
0

>other times, is uncooperative, argumentative, combative, etc. In other words, a woman. At this point I stopped reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 02:47 PM
1

They are for a friend.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 11:40 AM
1

Girlfriend during discussion on making improvements, "Muscles would be nice."
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:31 AM
13

She broke up with you. She just hasn't told you yet.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:03 AM
14

Team: you pulling the cart she is riding in. > She’s very intelligent and pretty. Translation: she will be riding in some other dudes cart once she understands you are no longer willing to pull on for her.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:52 PM
15

she let a little sweet talk get her to engage in some quasi-necrophilia. I've fucked chicks in cemeteries. Is that the same thing? Asking for a friend.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:25 PM
1

>I am willing to do work I just don't know where or how to start Look into the trades. Electrical, HVAC, Plumbing, Carpentry. If you can find an apprenticeship program, that is the best way in. Also to kick start that path, look into the local BOCES programs for courses in Electrical/HVAC you can take. Upon completion (at least for Elec.) they will set you up for taking the licensing test. It's work, but once you have several years under your belt working for a master, you can go independent if …
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:03 PM
123

> I immediately feel very emotional towards her situation It's called empathy. It means you are a human being. If you are up for it, be her oak.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:54 PM
31

No shit, she is an experienced escort whose main service is to manipulate men.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 03:17 AM
1

Anytime an ex (especially one she fucked) is lurking in the background (or foreground) is never a good thing. Any chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you, would not be blowing you off and/or making plans to be with some other guy. Your not crazy unless you plan on staying with this chick for purposes other than just fucking her. This chick is disqualifying herself as a gf/ltr. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:40 PM
5

> Admittedly I did catch oneitis but that's exactly why I pulled out immediately Unfortunately, you did not "pullout" soon enough. She detected it before you and acted accordingly, i.e. she found some other dick. > they can switch up so fast Depending on age, if less than 24 yo, chicks will change feelings/dicks as often as underwear. If older, their hypergamy is in full swing, always looking for the better deal/dick. > I feel like shit right now. Love and learn, it is all part of the process of…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:57 PM
2

Two opinions; you can request she delete you from the PPP and anywhere else your pics exist in her possession. Brings up where did she get this pic of you? Second, she is showing it to a guy (you ) she is fucking. Don't know who else she is sharing with.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:48 PM
1

Be upfront and honest. Conduct yourself as a professional. This is business, nothing personal.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:12 PM
3

Look into apprenticeship programs. All trades are skilled. Electrical, HVAC/Plumbing, Carpentry.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:07 PM
5

>"You're mad at me." "Have you given me a reason to be mad?"
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:39 PM
1

> i experience several first date rejections in a row from different girls,..... Maybe i should accept that not everyone will want to fuck me no matter Dating is always a numbers game. You can't win them all.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:05 PM
28

I like my woman the same as my coffee, without some other guy's dick in it.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 06:49 PM
9

>the divorce proceedings were not going according to her plan, or when beau 2.0 didn't actually stick around, that the girl starts talking about 'mistakes were made, want to work it out?' and then some of the best sex of their relationship. It's called 'hoovering,' as in trying to vacuum/suck her chump almost-ex-husband back into a relationship. Has nothing to do with attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/21 02:38 PM
2

Athol Kay - "You can't map medical."
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:38 PM
6

Knowledge is power. Gaslighting - the act of manipulating a person by forcing them to question their thoughts, memories, and the events occurring around them DARVO - a common strategy of abusers: Deny the abuse, then Attack the victim for attempting to make them accountable for their offense, thereby Reversing Victim and Offender. Either way your ex-LTR was unsuitable for LTR status. The correct response is end the relationship. A good fucking on the way out is optional.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:23 PM
2

The Teachings Of Don Juan: A Yaqui Way of Knowledge by Carlos Castaneda Simulations of God by Dr John C Lilly Bobby Fischer Teaches Chess by Bobby Fischer Working by Studs Terkel The Electric Kool-Aid Test by Tom Wolfe Steal This Book by Abbie Hoffman Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury 1984 by George Orwell Animal Farm by George Orwell Brave New World by Aldous Huxley Jonathon Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach A Separate Peace by John Knowles In Watermelon Sugar by Richard Brautigan These are old s…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:05 PM
0

Austin TX. UofT, State Capital, terrific music scene, high tech jobs, Padra Island less than a days drive. The only thing wrong with Austin is it's in texas.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:43 AM
31

wants to fix it to They want some one else to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 08:32 PM
2

it will cycle around, again, sooner than you think.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:50 PM
2

>Shes okay with us being fwb even though we act like were dating. Of course she is, because you are not in a fwb situation, you are dating. IOW, she is ok with dating. > Why do girls do this? What does it lead to? To answer this ambiguous question. She is "doing this" because you are giving mixed signals that she can interpret any way she wants. It will lead to hurt feelings and/or you making a commitment to her.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:29 PM
1

> What can I do as its destroying his life. All you can do is tell him, that no matter what, you are there for him and will help him out as best you can. Stand by those words.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:47 PM
2

One other thing , there is a show called Crashing about a would be stand up comedian trying to make it in the business. It's not particularly funny, but seems to be a good representation of thectrials and tribulations of being funny and not giving up on one's self. Another show in the same vain is marvelous miss marples.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:52 AM
3

All things considered, it's been a rough year with little to laugh about unless you like really dark humor. Also there is not a lot of new comedy that I am impressed with. TV is more of a wasteland than ever and most movies are lame as fuck. That said "new" comedy I like is Larry David, Tina Fey, Chapelle, Bill Burr and Bill Hader. SNL these days is very sporatic with the exception of mellisa mccarthy as sawn spicer. Like anything, if you are out of practice and/or out of sorts, it will take som…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:37 AM
6

I grew up with George Carlin, Red Fox, Richard Pryor, Rodney Dangerfield, George Burns. Cheach and Chong, Firesign Theater. TV comedy was SNL the first 4 years, The Jackie Gleason Show, the Three Stooges, Laugh In, All in the Family, the Smothers Brothers. I read Mad Magazine and National Lampoon for the satire. and anything by Crum. If you pay attention to comedians like Seinfeld in particular, he is a master of timing which is a major component to telling a joke/story. Comedy is varied, situat…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:12 AM
4

I was with this chick for a while. She never shit tested me. However, early in the relationship, we went up to stay with her sister. Sister was an absolute fox, with two beautiful daughters, married to 6'4" ex marine, owned his own construction business. This guy never said two words to me. Sister was a master shit tester. Constantly giving me shit, while chick observed my reaction. Secondary to this experience, chick, sister and sister's friend went out drinking/dancing. Ex marino stays home wi…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:49 AM
3

I heard this phrase/philosophy amongst the pua community, way back before trp. I interpreted the meaning as literal. Hung up on one chick, she fucked you over (for whatever reason) and to get her out of your system the fastest, GFTOW. It may not take 10, but the goal is to focus on gaming/banging other chicks and away from your oneitis. Also jives with abundance mentality. If you can score ten other chicks, then you can score more and become a less needy, pussy whipped sob that got you fucked ov…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:22 PM
4

> Are hot chicks that get fat that miserable to be around They do not like who they've become. They had fun before, now, not so much. Instead of doing something about it, they wallow in self pity and it comes across in the attitude you are observing.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:38 PM
11

Married 40 years this February, lived together 4 years, and knew each other for 3 years prior. I knew this chick better than she knew herself. Understood all the variables going into a marriage and made a conscious decision at age 25. I wanted kids and this prompted me to marry up. Otherwise, I would have been content just living together and going common law. Before getting together; (age 18 - 21) I traveled, lived, experienced, gamed, loved and lost. At the time we started living together, I h…
/r/askMRP01/12/20 06:24 PM
10

> I am not able to comprehend what wrong I did and what can be my plan of action now. MMSLP - "You can't MAP crazy." File for divorce and move on as quickly as possible.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 12:45 PM
7

Truth. At 6'2" 255lbs, I lost 10lbs in a week by stopping the afternoon vendo machine raid and quitting pepsi.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 06:38 PM
2

You never know what you truly have until you throw her in the shower.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:54 AM
12

After you cum, pause for a minute, do not pull out. Kiss, run your hands over her. Once you've subsided, start shallow thrusting, grinding pelvis to pelvis. Talking dirty helps. The chick will usually respond positively, this should get you going so keep up shallow thrusts until you get harder. The second go round you will last longer, so you will have to keep your chick engaged least she gets bored /dries up/sore. Hydration, staying in shape, no porn. Lookup refractory period.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 02:45 AM
9

For most chicks, the relationship isn't over until she says it is. If you bring her back into your life; she will string you along, hook you as hard as she can, and then dump your ass equally as hard and cruel as she can.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:07 PM
3

A chick taller than you means you can suck on her tits more easily while fucking her missionary.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:55 PM
3

Kitty Kats Kompete.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:06 PM
2

She expected you to be angry for the following reasons: Validation (ego boost) Now knows she can keep you on the hook (orbit) but more importantly Your anger (beta response) justifies her decision to reject you. Your response negated the above leaving her to question her decision.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:37 AM
6

You have two options; Fuck 'em or tell 'em fuck off.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:55 AM
1

> I've explained it do death what he means for my soul and yet it's like I'm some kid going through his Pokemon phase with her... The disrespect is subtle, but it's there.. Look up DEER. Don't explain, you see the results. > Why do you keep listening the same song as tears flow down my cheekz? Are you fucking her to Bach?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:51 AM
1

TRP principles of self improvement to give you more/better options (abundance) so you can not only enjoy your turn with these chicks, but vet them for possible long term relationships. > What is the point if the woman you love can just leave you and run up to a bigger fish This is backwards thinking in that, you are the one always on the lookout for better fish.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 12:39 PM
3

blackdragon blog has a "how to"
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:08 PM
18

Softball coach? If so, I can sympathize somewhat, since 12 years experience with coaching girls softball from LL Tee Ball, to Elite Travel, requires you to be on top of your game at all times with these girls. They are not unlike any chick you meet in any situation. They come in all flavors, yet AWALT. At any age, they will test the shit out of you, until you lose frame (then you are toast and they will own you for the season) or they acquiesce to your uncompromising frame, they quit or the seas…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:19 PM
1

at the very least she was an opportunity to expand your social circle and pivot her for dating/plating her girlfriends
/r/askTRP10/06/20 11:43 AM
7

As long as this is a true statement: "You're fun to have around."
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:03 PM
3

when she pointed to those as the reason for the break up If it wasn't "those reasons" there would have been others. You can never be all things to any one woman.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:12 PM
1

what does it mean in your opinion ...( Not telling him about me ) ? You can always gauge a chicks interest in her boyfriend by how soon she brings him up in conversations with other dudes/chicks. To add, any chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you will not be making plans (dates) with other guys and spend 2 hrs getting dolled up for him.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:28 PM
3

every time I see she is respondoig/entertaining them with replies and attention it just makes me less and less attracted to her. If she is doing this in front of you, it is a form of disrespect. Your time with her is your gift to her; she is ignoring it, making it a non priority. If you are living together, then you have few options with hard next gtfo a top option. If you are not living together, then you can demote with soft next and just maintain a fuck buddy arraignment until she either blow…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:19 PM
1

> as she was just 'checking', but the momentum of it took off and one thing lead to another. And this is exactly what she will tell you when you find out some other dick is fucking her. It's not her fault. Any chick/wife with a high interest level in you would not be making/accepting plans to spend two years away from you. > Getting a divorce isn't hard. Yet my heart wants the best for her, These are mutually exclusive terms. What she wants is best for her, what's best for you is up to you, sinc…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/20 01:56 PM
0

Read, understand, internalize, live.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:51 PM
5

If a chick has a high interest level (attraction) in you: ​ She will make sure it's known know that she is in some way associated with him You can always tell how attracted a chick is to you by how soon she brings you up in conversation with others. ​ If she takes your side in front of other guys when she has no reason to She has your back. ​ She will bring you your stuff without being asked to She is invested and obedient ​ Doing stuff when asked to, eagerly/without protest She is invested and …
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:50 PM
2

> She’s had a boyfriend Who cares. >that’ll leave some tension for the rest of the work weeks that follow Don't shit were you eat.
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:23 PM
2

You can always gauge a chick's interest in you vs her loyalty to any boyfriend she may have, by how soon she brings him up in conversation.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:52 PM
1

It's a lonely business being a man.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:33 AM
14

My wife threatened divorce once. I told she is free to do what she feels she has to, then STFU. Went about my business as a father and a man, ignoring her for the rest of the week. By Saturday, she was pulling me into the bedroom, pulling my pants off and swallowed. Pussy was wetter than in a long time. No more talk about divorce.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 06:22 PM
2

First mistake was talking relationships. First date(s) you keep things lite and fun.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:32 AM
2

But shes special.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:28 AM
1

I got laid more with $20 bucks in my pocket, than with $20k in the bank.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:17 PM
4

I told her I was OK with it as long as it's nothing more than a friendly/professional relationship. So how is going on a date, "friendly professional?" This does nothing but keep him on the hook or she is fucking him. Either way she is lying to you. Fuck her right before she goes on this date. Her response will tell you a lot. Fuck her right after she gets back from the date. Her response will tell you a lot. > She paid for the tickets and the plan is I pay for our stay untill we break even. Onc…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:55 PM
1

>Today she told me that she feels no emotion anymore towards anything or anyone including me and the kids, doesn't know what she wants in life. This is almost equivalent to ILYBNILWY. Translation your marriage is fucked. >She said what she wants to do right now is plan a vacation just for herself to go to an all inclusive resort by herself during spring break to figure out what she wants. Red Pill translation: I want to go party and fuck whoever I want far enough away and with no one I know so t…
/r/askMRP30/01/20 04:25 PM
1

She didn't get her ice cream.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:54 AM
19

Letting go of everything to experience true freedom sounds like a great gig - but it’s easier said than done. At age 19, I was unemployed (laid off electrician in a recession) plenty of part time/side work, and other hustles. Life revolved around riding my bike from town to town, meeting up with friends, partying, gaming chicks. Life was good with no more than 20 bucks in my pocket at any one time. Eventually, an opportunity came up to do some traveling. This ended up being a two year adventure …
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:56 PM
15

Young chicks change their minds as often as their panties.
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:11 AM
1

>found out she hooked up a few times with a former professional soccer player So fucking what. She is fucking you now, his turn is over. If you are worried she will jump back on his dick if he comes sniffing around, then you are insecure as others have pointed out. Your turn will only last as long as you either; want it to or you blow yourself out with this insecurity/beta bullshit. >he's significantly better looking than me. So fucking what. There will always be some other guy who is bigger, fa…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:02 PM
7

The difference is... you are standing up for yourself when some dick is disrespecting you. It's not about the chick.
/r/askMRP15/12/19 08:13 PM
7

Massive disrespect. She is too stupid to conduct herself properly in front of you, what's she doing out of sight? Add in she works with this guy, you will have nothing but trouble with this chick.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:42 PM
-1

Act like a whiny beta bitch and see how long it takes to pack her bags.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:36 AM
2

You are not leading.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:13 PM
1

To each their own.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:47 PM
3

> increase your expectations in the "don't be a fucking rude and superficial bitch" department. Good advice. ​ Probably lowers the number of girls you will fuck, OP can still fuck them. Understanding they are not LTR material for him will shorten time wasted.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:21 PM
1

>generally women online like you if you can do something for them. generally women online in person, like you if you can do something for them.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:38 PM
7

Way back, my girl friend and I were talking about improvements we needed to make for ourselves. Her: "muscles would be nice." Said with doggie dinner bowl look.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 06:41 PM
1

We were expanding our minds.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 02:23 AM
1

I may be easy, but I am expensive.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:46 PM
12

And many do. Most times when I am eating out a chick, I will occasionally look up and see them pinching their own nips. Hot!
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:22 PM
6

When I broke up with this chick that I thought I loved, I went on a road trip to hang with some friends from my home town. We grilled up some great texas steaks, drank heavily, chased chicks wherever we found them, got into fights with their borefriends, and got a tattoo on my ass. What a fucking weekend. YMMV.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:31 AM
15

>Is it safe to say that the moment you catch feelings/oneitis, it's over? Yep. Case in point, in my younger days, I was seeing this chick for a while. As soon as I declared my love for her, it was like she flipped a switch. Sex was rationed, all sorts of rules came up, and within 3 months she was bored with me and we were history.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:21 PM
1

Young chicks change boyfriends as often as their underwear. Get used to it.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/19 01:30 PM
4

>3.5 Years that "loved" me to death Forget about the time with this chick, she did. Forget about her "love" for you, she did.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:58 PM
84

>When a girl asks how many girls I’ve slept with Do you mean today?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:43 PM
14

I’ve always wanted a loving, honest relationship with a girl If a girl is unwilling to fuck you, she is unwilling to get into a relationship with you - other than a beta orbiter "friend." > We took it back to my apartment and since I’m a virgin I had no clue what to do. DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. > she wouldn’t let me finger her Next time, especially with girl on top, go from behind, i.e. hands roam from ass cheeks to crotch to thighs and back. Fleeting at first, then lingering more and more wit…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:44 PM
2

SO how do you explain the expensive Manhattan apartment, fabulous diner and the Ferrari you "drive" in the pictures versus the Accord you show up in to drive her to your Brooklyn shitbox with spaghettiOs diner?
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:51 AM
1

Your LTR should be worried about what you are up to while she is away.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:13 PM
2

Does her pussy lie to you while it is sliding up and down your cock?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:57 PM
4

You can judge a chicks interest level (attraction) in you by how she responds to you asking her out. Canceling any plans she may have to be with you = high interest. Declining a date but offering an alternative = interest, declining straight out = no interest = lose her number. This is straight out of Doc Love's dating dictionary. Brad Pitt has nothing to do with it.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:55 AM
1

If her name is not on the mortgage /deed, (which she shouldn't be if you are not married ) the responsibility is all yours. If your expectations for her participation (financial and/or otherwise) are not being met, then you would be advised to reconsider the relationship, specifically your covert contact.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 10:36 PM
1

> My girlfriend is picking up on this and keep reassuring me that things will be fine Interpret this as she is reassuring herself, not you. > I almost killed this woman. I put her in a situation where we could potentially die (camping in sub-0 temperature without heating and minimal food). However, you didn't. > I lost my entire frame Dude, a life threatening accident occurred, you "saved" the day because of your ability to "hold frame" thus you did not die or kill some one else in the process. …
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:02 PM
11

Got to that number after the equation Just to be clear Her stated n-count is 6?
/r/askMRP04/10/19 06:52 PM
2

Politics dries up panties like anything Will disagree with this on a personal level, my chick gets riled up talking politics (passion) which if I lead properly, results in wet panties, great sex. Agree with everything else you have posted here. I am an old long haired hippy freak that believes in a free and open society. When I tell people that, they automatically interpret that the mean whatever fits their world view. I embrace TRP as far as it has helped me understand the nature of things wrt …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 12:19 PM
8

Greeka.com to check out what the island offers in vacation adventure. Your chick says she doesn't want to go, but will if the opportunity is there. Double Speak. No mention of you going with. Any chick with a high interest level in you would not be planning vacations without inviting, including or going with you. Regardless of the proper redpill response to your chicks behavior on this, you stated your position, you have to follow through. In the mean time, stfu , you said your peace, its on her…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:57 AM
1

One measure of a chicks interest in you (and how committed she is to any boyfriend) is how soon she brings him up in conversation. Since she has not mentioned said boyfriend, two things are clear, she wants your attention and does not respect her boyfriend. How far this attention goes is subject to debate. you will only know her true intentions until you attempt to isolate her and escalate. Understanding that the boyfriend is her problem, not yours, you have to decide if you want to pursue this …
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:17 PM
3

These 3 guys permeated the mAFS website for years. They have been out way before redpill was a thing and they known their shit. You may still be able to access their archives on Fast-seduction website.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 08:07 PM
36

Exactly, chicks bond with each other by "sharing. " Guys bond with each other by doing shit together. Guys and chicks bond by fucking.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 07:49 PM
22

Or the complete opposite occurs, she was going to have the nice wedding experience, diner, dancing, drinking, romance and get railed by an old comfortable dick. But op pulled the plug on all that by not accepting her bullshit. She is left with the consequences of her deceit, blames the ex because awalt, her night ruined, she sends the guy on his way. The only variable is her belief she can convince the op to stay with her.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:58 PM
2

Keep the split civil. You never know, she could end up being a returning fox. IF, that happens treat her as just another plate.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:12 AM
0

The answer is in your question, You would be concerned about her being loyal.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:29 PM
1

So all you require is some basic phrases in a foreign language, run them on an unsuspecting girl, switch to english when it's established she doesn't speak said language and game on.
/r/seduction13/08/19 06:46 PM
2

So she is not on the pill. Why not?
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:30 AM
3

> She also said earlier that I "frustrate" her, but she said this while smiling and laughing and pulling away from a kiss. When I asked why she said she didn't know why, which frustrates her more. What does this mean? This means she has not "figured you out yet." You are keeping her on her toes, she both likes it and doesn't like it. It "frustrates" her because she cannot control you, she likes it because it is keeping her attracted. As soon as she "figures you out" you dead.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:22 PM
2

Throw her in the shower.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:47 PM
3

This guy is giving your girl the tingles. She may be all over your cock, but wouldn't doubt it 's because she's revved up by work dude.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 02:14 AM
1

If you are that fucking worried about it, voice activated recorder.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:38 PM
2

My wife told me, repeatedly, "If my stomach ever sticks out further than my tits, shoot me." ​ ​ Her, "I guess I know my place here, I'm only useful around here if I'm fuckable." You, "Weight has little to do about it."
/r/askMRP10/07/19 08:18 PM
2

17 states have no fault only divorces. The rst have some form of at fault divorce. If the op lives in one of these states and has a good lawyer, he could get ahead of a deteriorating marriage and file first with grounds. Yes I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 02:49 PM
1

Some states, like ny, still have at fault divorces on the books.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:52 AM
5

Depends on if he lives in a no fault state or not
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 11:39 PM
3

Kids are natural born cock blockers. ​ A week after bringing home son number one, my wife is trying to give me a blow job (I guess for being there) and the kid is in the bassinet next to the bed asleep. As soon as she starts, kid starts crying, stop, gets kid back to sleep, restarts where she left off, kid starts crying. Wash, rinse, repeat. I'm thinking does this kid have telepathic connection with my wife that directs him to prevent her from focusing on anyone else but him? It never stops, one…
/r/askMRP28/06/19 05:16 PM
1

You have described Al Bundy, who once scored 4 touchdowns for Polk High in the city championship game.
/r/askMRP29/05/19 02:19 PM
1

Whenever I deal with venders for goods/services we require, we have a procurement process and the vendors do not process any order with out a written purchase order. Just saying.
/r/askMRP17/05/19 09:16 PM
1

People: I've found that verbal interaction makes it easy for customers to be vague and deny responsibility. This is common, i have to go broken record frequently to get a solid yes/no or solid information on their current machinery. ​ Treat it like a negotiation. The Customer has Requirements, (material, specs, tolerances, technology, schedule, dates, delivery methods, services, maintenance, whatever) you have to pull out exactly what they are. Then you feed back to the Customer exactly what you…
/r/askMRP17/05/19 12:19 PM
9

Here's my take, if your wife has sexual "boundaries " she overtly enforces, it is due to actual personal issues she has with sex and/or she is not attracted enough to you to overcome them. In your quest to fulfill your sexual desires, you generate overt dread forcing your wife to drop her boundaries. This leaves you in the same position you started. Is the sex you just experienced real or memorex? In shorter words you've created a no win situation for both of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 01:16 AM
15

Her dopamine rush came from the machines, not him.
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:27 PM
3

Catholic school girls are some of the best fucks once they figure out what's between their legs. Ask me how I know.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:11 PM
2

DGAF
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:10 AM
20

Truth. I've fucked tall blondes and short brunettes, fat chicks, skinny chicks, once the dick is in, it's all about the motion. The pussy... felt the same going in and cumming out.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:22 AM
1

When chicks "do stuff " for you it is a form of investment. The more they invest the more they justify their increasing feelz for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:03 AM
9

Any girl with a high interest level (attraction) in you, would do everything she could to spend time with you. The question you ask yourself is: Why would I pursue (waste my time) on someone who doesn't want to be with me?
/r/seduction29/04/19 05:20 PM
1

>I started to realize that most girls out there had a type, and I was some of those girls type! I just needed to find those girls, and that meant wasting as little time as possible on girls whose type I am not. ​ Truth. Your whole story/life is truth, but this single realization also saved me a shit ton of resources on chicks that were more than willing to waste my time.
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:29 PM
10

Fat, drunk, and stupid is no way to go through life son.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 08:49 PM
2

Did she ever bring up future long term plans? Her cavalier attitude indicates she had little investment in you as a long term option.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 11:41 PM
2

Any girl with a high interest level in you, would move mountains to stay with you. She told you, you didn't listen, the relationship is not in a good plce, she does not want to move with you, she is out. This bullshit about a LDR is her way of keeping you on the hook (not fucking other chicks) while sets up your replacement. Move, end it clean with her, meet /date/fuck other chicks.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 09:55 PM
7

Replace persuasive with relentless.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 10:31 PM
3

I got it on scribd.com. Had to make an account, then upload something to enable the download. Don;t know if this is still the case. You maybe able to get it on thepiratebay. The doc used to have a column on askmen.com. If he still does, you can get a feel for his take on male/female relations. Back in the day, before redpill came along, his work was exactly what I needed to understand what the fuck I was doing wrong. He comes off as corny, the format of the book is weird (dating dictionary) but …
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:57 PM
11

Young chicks are as fickle as the underwear they put on. Check out 'Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man', 'The System' by Doc Love, and 'the Sex God Method' on how to screen for quality chicks (23 and older,) how to maintain their interest level and keep them coming back for more.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:16 PM
13

No RP guy should tolerate blatant disrespect like that Having dinner with chick (all good.) Guy sends drinks to table (props for a DGAF attitude.) Chick goes over to thank him (thanks = phone number.) Pure hypergamy on display (at your expense.) Gives bullshit excuse that she can learn from him (did/could not know before or after a minute.) Maybe she was DTF (disrespect has negative effects.) Missed out on some pussy (self esteem intact.)
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:23 PM
1

>god forbid doggy (my favorite position) because she feels inferior) Has she ever been fucked doggie style? Most chicks I've known prefer it.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:09 PM
1

If I'm accountable to someone else, it's easier to rationalize cheating when they aren't around. Absolutely. Chicks do this all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/19 06:06 PM
17

What is more important to you, getting your dick wet with some chick who has no loyalty, respect, or integrity - or staying friends with your buddy, beta or not.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:30 PM
1

First consultations with lawyers are usually free and they will assess your cases viability to you and also to them on whether to pursue or not. Interview several to get a feel for your best options and how they would proceed with your case, what you would need to produce for evidence, especially what your damages are/would be and likely outcomes if you move forward with suing. Having damages (monetary is best) is the key to your case. Your situation is based on slander, so it goes into civil co…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:33 PM
1

Her fighting, for whatever reason, is a sure sign of no remorse. Lack of remorse = no reconciliation. If her branch is out of reach, one would think she would be begging for reconciliation. Of course she could be that stupid.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 01:11 AM
22

Your wife is a serial cheater. Serial cheaters are impossible to reconcile. Add in she is fighting you tooth and nail, your best option is divorce.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 03:22 AM
10

> what is your message Bottom line - drugs/alcohol consumption to excess is a fucking waste of valuable time and money that you will never get back. > What do I really look like to men and women? Do not give a fuck. .> what do I really look like? The real question is what do you look like to yourself? Ridding yourself of outside influences (drugs/alcohol) will allow you to find your true self. However, micro-dosing LSD and/or psilocybin may open pathways (read Center of the Cyclone and Simulatio…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:48 PM
1

>"What would you do without me?" A&A- I would mourn the loss of you, living miserably in my sad, darkened cave until the day I dried up and shriveled into the nothingness.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:33 PM
3

Hard next? Yes, she gave you the hard next.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:26 PM
1

Not in NYS
/r/askMRP05/02/19 06:14 PM
1

>First I noticed the TV series she starting watching more and more Zena Princess Warrior? ​ > I discovered that my wife was into lesbian stuff, a lot.... Thereby she hopes to confirm whether she is into women or not. So it could be a case of limerence about this particular girl, or just the point of confirming whether she is in the closet or not. Now many of you would say, go for the threesome or bang the friend. What if you substitute woman/girl with man/chad. Still want that threesome? Point b…
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:23 PM
2

>"I'm only with you because I have no choice." ​ Then give her one, serve her divorce papers.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:16 PM
1

Shut it down. Better to lose the down payment then to have to pay half the mortgage in a house you cannot live in. If the OP has a signed contract, then backing out may very well trigger a breach of contract lawsuit, whereas, the house goes back on the market and when it sells, the seller sues for the difference of what the Op would have paid vs what it eventually sells for, plus all the ancillary costs of maintenance, interest, etc. Add in lawyers fees it adds up quick. An unscrupulous seller c…
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:13 PM
2

The act of writing down whatever it was that I wrote down was enough to etch it into my mind well enough. When you ask a question like "What is it about me touching you that is wrong", her response does the same thing. It forces her to put her feelz into her conscious brain and validates it as a fact. It basically puts a timestamp on her feelz to look back on. ​ Learn something new every day. When first read his question, seemed reasonable to me, then your explanation corrected that. ​
/r/askMRP05/02/19 02:56 PM
2

> I am still utterly confused about the chapter on withholding ejaculation during sex. ​ Purity of Essence
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:30 PM
7

best case scenario, expose affair to posom's wife, she divorce rapes him, now he is free to pick back up with your stbxw paving the way for a smooth divorce since she will be so happy to get her "walking dildo" back.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 08:10 PM
5

C is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:38 PM
1

> if a girl feels they need these experiences that need isn’t going away This is correct. > now it’s near the time of the trip, she’s distraught, crying all the time Pure manipulation to get you to change your mind. > others saying I’m controlling/abusing etc. Because they cannot accept/understand a man with standards. >I find myself quietly doubting my strong stance on this, Stay true to you. If you back down on this, her respect for you diminishes and the LTR will start is inevitable decline. …
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:35 PM
7

My wife's family is very well off. She told me that one of her cousins coached her daughter on how to spot wealth by assessing rings, watches, clothes, etc. Mamma's want what's best for their daughters, i.e. hypergamy.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:42 PM
30

She was fucking with them. Eventually went on to grad school, but not right away. Actually turned down two med school offers, moved out to the west coast and lived the bohemian lifestyle for a couple of years. She did not want to commit 8 years and $300K - $500K on a career path she was unsure of. Not much I could say as when I was 18, packed a backpack and hitchhiked across the country for two years. My folks did not know where I was for months at a time. At least my daughter had a plan. :)
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:35 PM
3

To be a man is to have the ability to do what is needed rather than what is wanted, and to do so without expectation of appreciation. ​ Being a man is a lonely business.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:27 PM
39

My daughter went to an ivy league school on a full ride scholarship. Her friends/roommates where offspring of doctors, lawyers, wall street execs. The biggest difference between her and them, she had her shit together and knew how to handle her shit because we taught her to be independent and how to think for herself, whereas her friends relied on mommy and daddy to get them through life. Academically they were all on par, my daughter graduated with honors, but life... forgetaboutit. ​ Use your …
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:17 PM
3

Women rate guys who have more muscle and guys that are stronger as being more attractive Direct quote, "Muscles would be nice."
/r/askMRP21/01/19 06:59 PM
3

> I hate to say it but I now see why divorce rates sky rocket after the kids come. The ultimate in psychosis will come out of your wife. It's like living with a woman who is taking woman pills. And the worst part is all of the beta, complacent men in your life will back it right up with a smile on their face. ​ IDK, one week after bringing home my first son, daughter, & third son, my wife was blowing me with enthusiasm. Why, because I took care of shit. YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 08:27 PM
6

Moms want their sons to get married and give them grandchildren. As a woman she knows there are guys who they will fuck and guys they will marry. The ideal is to lock down both in one guy but knows that is rare. So to increase percentages of marriage, she teaches the way of beta billy.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:08 PM
2

"Whom she cheated on with me." This qualifies her for plate status at best.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:20 AM
1

Proper = earned, got it.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 08:56 PM
2

A proper man demands respect. Agree with you except, respect is earned.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:52 PM
3

Married women are usually up for dirty stuff that their hubs won't do. Married women are usually up for dirty stuff that they won't do for their hubs. ​
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:52 PM
4

>today she randomly deletes our photos together on all social media She just got hit up by a higher SMV guy. > she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”. She wants to string you along until the new guy pans/flames out.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:53 PM
1

Check out Talk About Marriage - Coping with Infidelity website and the thread called - The Charade ​ There are similarities and differences to your situation, but at first this guy seems to have it together, but then seems to fall apart the longer you read through the thread.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 10:25 AM
2

The OP dosen;t owe his stbxw anything. Her desire to save face is pure leverage.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 10:18 AM
6

>"ice tea please." is all that came out. I couldn't do it. It didn't even sound good, the thought turned my stomach. ​ This was me, but only with food. In 2003 I was 55 lbs overweight, drinking two 16oz Pepsi, hitting the vending machines at work in the afternoon, devouring half a bag of choc chip cookies in one sitting, always going for seconds on dinner with dessert. After 3 months of cutting carbs, soda, garbage food, working the iron maiden, and hitting the bike, I was down 30 lbs. One after…
/r/askMRP24/10/18 12:14 PM
1

Girls overlook nice guys for assholes.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:01 PM
2

My understanding of the Triangle is as follows: ​ The 3 sides of a relationship triangle are: Sex, Monogamy, Longevity. The ideal state of the relationship is all 3 sides are equal. If you want to increase any one sides value, you sacrifice from either or both, of the other two sides. ​ There is another triangle applied to product development called QCD - Quality, Cost Delivery To increase quality, cost and/or delivery are effected. To cut costs, quality is lowered, etc. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 11:33 AM
1

>What should i do? This: "She always initiates to hangout with me, and i never ask her to come hang." Why: because she is not LTR material if she is banging other guys while having a bf.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:23 PM
2

>She likes someone else, then why does she even bother? She "doesn't know where it is leading to." You are her plan b. >Why's she acting so desperate? Speculation says, you are too good a beta provider for her let go of until the other guy commits to her. >Should I break my hard nexting and respond to her text? NO!
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:19 PM
1

>he wanted to show her something. His dick and how nice it would fit in her pussy. >She is quite open about it, and she isn't hiding anything when I ask her about him. Why should she, she is free to do whatever the fuck she wants. > Is it something I should be worried ? Why worry about the inevitable, your turn is over.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:09 PM
3

I mean it is not like she is spending the night with him right? Correct, people only fuck at night, in the dark, under the covers.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:08 PM
4

won't tell you because they might be looking to branch swing. You can always tell how loyal a chick is to her bf (if real) by how soon in the conversation she brings him up.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:53 PM
5

> when the odds are literally against you Banging chicks is a numbers game, so by definition the odds are always against you. They are no different for you than any other guy. > Every single one of them has a boyfriend. Shit Test, learn to pass it. > I really need some motivation and encouragement. Seek from within. > It is extremely difficult for me to find a girl who is single. What is your goal here? If you just want to fuck, see above. If you are looking for a girlfriend/ltr/wife, then see a…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:49 PM
4

> I usually agree and amplify shit test ... I just ignore them all. Ok > 'I want to have a good and fun conversation and not waste time on bs Lead the conversation. If they can't keep up, then bail or bounce them to another location and escalate to fuck. > Does it harm your game habing this mentality and ignoring shit test? you tell us, what is your hit rate on ignoring?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:31 PM
3

fuck a lot of low smv guys in order to get the same validation the high smv guy quantity vs quality
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:41 AM
2

> she left the bar shortly after I confronted her because she was mad at me This is obviously a bullshit excuse to justify her fucking this ex. Story time: I lived upstairs from some chick with a fiance. I was friendly with her, did not know him very well. One night I could hear them fighting like cats and dogs. Things quiet down, he leaves in a hurry and soon after I get a knock on my door. It's the chick. She comes in, obviously pissed off, wants a drink, after bitching about her "stupid" boyf…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 06:53 PM
1

the guy is abroad so she can’t get to talk to him in a way that doesn’t involve social media So your friend has this window of time to turn his life around, so that when secret boyfriend abroad is back home and she is primed to fuck him, since he will be fanning her flames and she will be fantasizing his arrival, and MAYBE get her to notice, tell secret boyfriend abroad thanks for the tingles, and drop all thoughts of branch swinging. Chances of that are slim to none. > He doesn’t want to snoop …
/r/askMRP26/06/18 03:25 PM
1

>she wants to be what she calls “the angel of the house”. Does this mean she is willing to suck and fuck you on command?
/r/askMRP25/06/18 02:08 PM
10

> she said “our couch is uncomfortable” I said - “you’ll get used to it” with a smirk and grabbed her ass, best line in this post
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:24 PM
1

>This morning I mentioned it and she got defensive, "you're starting already?" WTF dude, she's right, STFU and move on to bigger and better ways to spend your time. > she said "I won't say it because we are not on the same page". Textbook, conditional "love" from the female species.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 05:05 PM
1

> I kept saying I wasn't while she claimed I was Stop DEERing > I continued to press STFU > She'd have to give somewhat of a fuck because I'm the sole earner for the family. Not really, the divorce rape will ensure you continue to support her. > I haven't been happy in years Only you can change that. Your wife has no fucking respect for you. Respect is earned, as is disrespect.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 07:10 PM
1

>she “needs” to feel love to have sex. Translation - She does not love you enough to have sex with you.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 04:06 PM
2

If it smells bad enough you would't eat her, then don't fuck her. Have a talk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqSYL9ZaaDw
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:32 PM
1

Oneitis and Abundance Mentality are incongruent concepts.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:58 PM
4

Tone down flirting with co-worker (DSWYE) Maintain professionalism when dealing with people at work, especially boss lady. Always look for better career opportunities. Engaging in useless thought patterns gets you nowhere.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:54 PM
1

Dopamine.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:44 PM
7

> I enjoyed myself and my wife enjoyed myself too Best line in this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 05:30 PM
2

>intel on how to turn a situation like this? Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford and turn this shit show of a marriage around in the form of a divorce. Then read/comprehend/internalize the side bar and use this "intel" on improving yourself and your life, without the current boat anchor you call a wife.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 05:32 PM
3

My go to shirt was, all black with white lettering: FCK the only thing missing is U.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:23 PM
0

when I try to I initiate she says she is dirty "Give Me your dirty love." sung with your best Frank Zappa voice https://www.google.com/search?q=frank+zappa+-+dirty+love&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b
/r/askMRP17/04/18 09:42 AM
2

>The BSA doesn't teach what boys need to learn any more. Can attest to this. My son is an Eagle Scout. I was involved in his troop and scouts as a youth mostly for the camping and jamborees. His troop went on a high adventure to Philmont. A great experience, but at one point we were washed out after a hailstorm at 12,000 ft. This is were I learned that the Lead Scout on this adventure, also an Eagle, could not start a fire. Apparently starting a fire is not a requirement for earning any rank.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:38 PM
2

For clarity: "Fault-based divorces are still allowed in many states, and New York is one of them. The fault-based grounds for divorce are: Cruel and inhuman treatment where it is unsafe for the parties to live together Abandonment for a continuous period of one year or more Imprisonment for three or more years after the parties were married Adultery Living apart for one or more years after obtaining a judgment of separation Living apart for one or more years pursuant to a separation agreement"
/r/askMRP10/04/18 10:07 AM
0

Wife asks for separate vacations, I don't get it? When my wife plans vacations it is for the both of us to get away from the day to day bullshit, share wonderful experiences and create lasting memories that we can carry forward. Ever gotten a blow job driving a convertible down Duval Street at 10 o'clock at night? Ever fuck on top of Pikes Peak? Ever live naked on Padre Island for a week? Ever watch the sunset on Canary Row with your fingers knuckle deep in wet pussy? Ever fuck on a balcony over…
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:29 PM
3

she didn’t have time for a relationship, and said she couldn’t give me the time or attention I deserved. Translation; she didn't have time for a relationship with you, her interest level (attraction) in you is so low that she is unwilling to make time for you. You deserve what you earn. will it get any easier breaking up after I learn the ways of the red pill? Some will be easier, some will be harder, they will all be hard if you do not have an abundance mentality. Lift, learn, live.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:07 AM
5

This confuses me. Lover - Provider Dichotomy Dopamine vs Oxytocin Any chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you would not be planning a vacation without you. Time to tell her, she's out.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:44 AM
1

Yesterday it was some guy, today it's some chick, tomorrow it will be some other guy. Wash, rinse, repeat.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 11:04 AM
3

unchained alpha male something I came across blackdragon many years ago (pre-redpill) on a pua website mASF. He came to the site and posted his demise as an average frustrated chump locked in a sexless marriage, found his wife cheating, divorce raped, etc,etc. Sound familiar. This guy however, took control of his life, with the help of the puas on mASF, and turned his life around. He documented his successes and failures and refined his skills in dealing with chicks vowing never again getting ti…
/r/askMRP21/02/18 07:19 PM
5

Martial Arts
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:57 PM
7

Their vagina is wet.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:47 PM
2

If you live in a No Fault state, then infidelity will not matter in divorce proceedings. Your first hire should be a good divorce attorney.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 02:56 PM
3

Wife just started working as a CrossFit coach Yep, your screwed. That crossfit crowd is like a cult and rife with affairs.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 06:25 PM
2

I can't think of any non-nefarious reason to hide a burner phone from her husband. Neither can I. The phone option just airs her secret. Correct. Some guys (me) like to understand the depth of the betrayal. Some guys (not me) require irrefutable evidence to pull the trigger. Regardless of her choice, come clean or divorce, the final decision (reconcile or divorce) is still the Op's to make.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 06:14 PM
1

what she's telling me and being able to trust her. The words out of her mouth are meaningless. Her actions tell you exactly what she is all about and it ain't you.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:58 PM
1

We're not married but engaged If she is treating you like this before marriage, it will only be worse if you actually marry her. I'm the one paying for our place (we live together). You do understand you are the beta bucks in this scenario? my girlfriend has hung out with dude one-on-one She is not your girlfriend if dude should be cause for concern The dude is not your problem, he is only cashing in on your beta behavior and your soon to be ex girlfriends willingness to cheat on you. Get this l…
/r/askMRP07/02/18 01:18 PM
6

Keep your mouth shut for the time being. Check if it has a sim card, if so you may be able to access text/call logs from it. If not, get one, put it in the card and then monitor. Hire a divorce lawyer, have separation//divorce papers drawn up. Once in hand, have a sit down with her, the phone and the papers. Option her with what's on the phone or divorce.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 01:06 PM
20

Alt 1: Find a new job, and never shit where you eat again. Alt 2: Tell beta Bf you've been fucking his girlfriend, enjoy the train wreck. Alt 3: Continue to fuck this guy's girlfriend, ignore her craziness and let shit happen.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:57 PM
2

google amog techniques
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:33 PM
1

she says “No I’m dirty.” You sing, "Give Me Your Dirty Love." in your best deep FZ voice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_IeD525tEeI
/r/askMRP26/01/18 11:21 AM
3

she proposed for us to be "exclusive", Translation - I do not want you fucking other girls she was thinking if she should go Translation - another guy wants to fuck me and I am on board there was no grounds for the exclusivity. Translation - exclusivity is a fluid concept dependent on how I feel at the moment she is clear on the boundaries now Is she clear that you will enforce those consequences for crossing those boundaries?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:52 PM
1

Frenched my first girl at 13 Felt my first breast at 14 Fingered my first pussy at 15 Fucked my first girl at 16
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:40 PM
1

I’ll research hysterical bonding. Also check out "hoovering"
/r/askMRP16/01/18 01:51 PM
1

Radical events are good opportunities to pursue change Have you read "The Shock Doctrine"?
/r/askMRP16/01/18 01:46 PM
1

Quest for Fire!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 04:44 PM
2

We were flying blind. No shit, growing up all I had was gut instinct that I did not completely understand or trust.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 04:08 PM
1

she wants to make me jealous No shit. How old is this chick? Ignore most of her shit and treat her like the plate she is. says sometimes to me that a certain guy looks pretty when we walk down the street "Let's bring pretty boy back to your place, so I can fuck him in the ass, while he's fucking you."
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:49 PM
3

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:41 PM
3

Outdoor survival skills including: orienteering, shelter construction, fire building, trap setting, first aid, fishing, hunting with bow, slingshot, spear, & knife. Cooking.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:30 PM
3

Men spin plates, women spin orbiters. The difference is men fuck their plates, women don't.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:54 PM
1

I am flirting, kino, gaming as soon as I come in from work. Some days shes receptive and other days not so much. If you are doing this, every day, then change it up. Some days game her, others go directly to workouts, fixes, whatever after a quick kiss and hello. Game her at different times during the day, not just when you come home from work. Leave her guessing.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 01:39 PM
2

wife asks "I would like a weekend alone to go and see friends etc etc". Translation: I find you so unattractive that I would rather spend it with anyone but you. Bonus: etc, etc = seek out a man who will fuck me like I need to be. How do I tell her in a good way that she has to earn such things, or that my time is more vaulable than wasting on her? Translation: She has no respect for you, since respect is earned. She does not value you presence in her life other than a paycheck and babysitting. …
/r/askMRP15/12/17 02:10 PM
1

DARVO
/r/askTRP13/12/17 01:39 PM
1

The System by Doc Love Not Just Friends by Dr Shirley Glass Watch/Listen to the late great Sam Kinison https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJDkhTiFWHU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwNW8lqe1tk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSw2MfEGK7I
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:26 PM
1

Thanks for the information. In 2003, I had high blood pressure, high cholesterol and high blood sugar counts. I was 255lbs on a 6'2" frame. The doc sent me to a dietitian, best thing that ever happened to me. He explained carbohydrates, food portioning, and how to read nutrition labels. He setup a guideline of 60 grams of carbs for each meal, 3 meals a day with 15 grams of carbs for two snacks between meals. Example, breakfast during the week is 1 cup of cereal, 1/2 cup milk, 4 oz OJ, and a hand…
/r/askMRP01/12/17 11:31 AM
1

going to have to call bullshit on this. You didn't lose 14 pounds in three weeks. No bullshit, as I lost 10 lbs in 2 weeks by cutting out daily 16oz Pepsi drinks and afternoon trips to the vending machine at work.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 08:09 PM
1

Why am I afraid to escalate? You answered your own question. You are afraid. You fear rejection. You do not want to hear the word, NO.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:51 AM
-1

<I was about to open her when a little voice in my head said, "Is this chick worth losing my house, half my money and 50% of my time with the kids?"
/r/askMRP14/11/17 12:45 PM
1

The reason for this, it helps you keep her confused; you don't want the woman to decide it's all over and she lost you, she needs to feel like there's something to fight for, then she may come out with full on remorse and so on... even if somewhat faked, it's good for you, to simply help you process this shit without going crazy. Sounded like a cc to me. you barely comprehended this one Understood full well what OP was presenting. Offered a resource complimentary to OP's.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/17 03:40 PM
1

It's going to be all about holding frame going forward. Without getting into a word for word comparison, 'The Healing Heart - The 180' has always been the go to frame for dealing with wayward spouses who show no remorse. It is an effective way to emotionally and physically detach from your soon to be ex wife, STBXW. she may come out with full on remorse This may be an outcome of properly implementing The 180, however, the goal is still detachment and any other is a covert contract. Check out 'Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/17 01:19 PM
3

I only met one girl who I would crawl through mud to lick her ass.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 02:30 PM
5

seing a guy tonight Shit Test act jealous Shit Test Failed she didn't really react Continuation of Shit Test left me thinking about maybe acting jealous Shit Test Failed
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:31 PM
21

Should I let them go eat? You do not "let" them do anything, they are free to do as they please. However, what you can do is establish boundaries, the consequences for crossing them and the balls to enforce them. Example; my girlfriends do not go on dates with other dudes, otherwise, they are no longer girlfriends.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:11 PM
1

I am crazy for you dear." I use this all the time. In a lot of instances, I will purposely do some crazy shit, just to illicit a "You're crazy!" from her. "That's right baby, I'm crazy in love with you!" stated in almost a song like tone. Another shit test when I initiate is "I'm all dirty." To which, "Give me your dirty love!" (credit Frank Zappa)
/r/askMRP02/11/17 10:07 AM
1

If you track the phone logs, may give up patterns that you can apply to when and where likely encounters occur. However, ff you cannot file for reason of adultery, then fuck it, unless you need/want the hardcore proof to dispel her spin that the divorce is all on you. Edit: Alternatives include GPS and VAR in her car and spy cams in the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 03:34 PM
13

She has proven herself to be an unreliable cheater. What more do you need, dump this bitch so she can continue to bang the more attractive co-worker without you making her feel guilty.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 01:11 PM
3

How do I bring this up to her? Blackdragon has a blog post on this. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2017/07/27/convert-monogamous-gf-open-one/
/r/askMRP16/10/17 06:49 PM
1

after swallowing the pill and knowing what I know I’m horrified Your RP journey is not complete. It controls you, you do not control it. Once you master RP theory, you will see the way things are and it becomes so internalized that you are immersed in the world around you without it affecting you. You know the game, you know how it is played, you no longer think about it. Being aware of AWALT does not subject you to it. Long term commitments of a relationship are nothing to fear. RP knowledge al…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 02:58 PM
1

whenever we're apart it turns into a constant digging match where she seems to be trying to break my frame, using light hearted humour to cover it up This implies that you are conversing/engaging through text/phone/email. If this is the case and it is the only time she is shit testing you, Stop and most of this bullshit is eliminated. Phones are for setting up physical meetups. If she is shit testing you in person, learn how to deal with shit tests.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:16 PM
1

her telling me how sexy i sound when i talk to her like that Test this with a follow up, 'Be showered, shaved and wearing lingerie when I get back.'
/r/askMRP04/10/17 02:53 PM
2

Read this for the proper way to deal with guys hitting on your wife in a bar. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/72dnms/neutralizing_competitors/
/r/askMRP04/10/17 02:44 PM
3

I agree with u/Westernhagen, never leave your drunk wife in a bar to fend for herself, least you find yourself at home, wondering where she is and who she is fucking at 4am.
/r/askMRP04/10/17 02:40 PM
3

communicate back with my wife via emoji. When it comes to sexting, you need to know your three food groups: the peach, the taco, and the eggplant. 🍑 🌮 🍆 🍑 📞 = Booty call 🇫🇷 👄 = French kiss 🍿 ❄️ ? = Netflix and chill 👐 🍅 🍅 = I’d like to put my hands on your breasts. (Note: Some people use melons. some prefer tomatoes. Establish your preference early and stay consistent.) 👅 🌮 💦 or 👅 🍆 💦 = I’d like to put your genitals in my mouth until something pleasant happens. 👅 🍑 💦 = I’d like to eat your booty…
/r/askMRP27/09/17 03:17 PM
2

beta men use power point
/r/askTRP21/09/17 06:57 PM
6

kissed her boyfriend on the lips without even brushing her teeth. Institute a new rule: have your wife brush her teeth and rinse with mouth wash before she can kiss you.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 09:56 AM
3

Wife dragged her feet changing her name, (8 months later, wants to hyphenate) So what is really important to her? Where are her priorities? For a singular reference point. When I got married, on the first day she could, my wife changed her identity; drivers license, bank accounts, utilities, insurance policies, etc, etc to reflect her newly married status. It took her half a day and some money to do it. She was happy and proud to take my last name. We never discussed it, I never demanded it. Hav…
/r/askMRP19/09/17 06:06 PM
14

I told her not to do the something and day went on. One fine afternoon, the wife and I were walking in the village we live in. We meet up with one of my work mates. This guy is young, fit and (apparently) good looking. After introductions and some small talk, we moved on. Once out of ear shot, my wife got up on her toes with excited eyes and voice whispered in my ear, "Are all the guys you work with that good looking or is it just him?" I told her, "Why, do you need a date for next weekend? I co…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/17 10:10 AM
1

Like I said, there was no redpill community to bounce shit off, no RedPill Handbook, no Rollo Tomassi, Athol Kay, BluePillProfessor, or Family Alpha to reference. I was flying on instinct (blind) with trying to adapt a wild bunch of pua personas approach to women in an attempt to seduce my wife. Would not call it a waste as I was there for my three kids, involved with their sports, scouting, music, and other school activities. Family life was good, just that my wife did not find me attractive en…
/r/askMRP15/09/17 10:21 AM
2

When I first observed problems in my marriage (my wife would not fuck me with up to 12 different reasons why) and was concerned she was stepping out on me, I started with how to romance my wife searches on the internet. There was no reddit, there was no redpill, but I did discovered mASF (a pua site that told me how to game my wife) and soon after, Doc Love's The System. From there I learned outcome independence, abundance mentality, how to be a man with confidence, control, and consistency. How…
/r/askMRP15/09/17 12:15 AM
1

end up making me crazy. What would make you more crazy, not knowing or knowing?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:14 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJDkhTiFWHU
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:40 PM
1

watch you tube videos. It seems that the entire knowledge base of human civilization resides on youtube. If youtube were destroyed, then how long would take to devolve back into using stone knives and bear skins?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 01:36 PM
1

if it's on my own terms? And those terms are?
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:32 PM
1

She said she hates guys with a passion. she hates fucks guys with a passion. FIXED She said in her own words she is dating multiple guys at once and using them for stuff she wants. And they are using her for what they want. She told me she has not slept with any of them Bullshit. Why the hell would she tell me this? To gauge your reaction in an attempt to make you jealous. She inferred to the idea that she wants to get back with me. Really? She said I am the love of her life and has been dying i…
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:24 PM
1

How in the Fuck is 10 or more texts to the opposite sex appropriate unless it's for work ? Where did I say it was? Not ok under any circumstance Where did I say it was? Wake the Fuck up Eyes wide open, ears pinned back, mouth fucking shut.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 01:18 AM
2

When dealing with the prospects of a cheating spouse, confronting with limited information (phone logs) will give the cheater plenty of wiggle room to DARVO, gaslight and/or trickle truth (admission to what is presented.) The thought that a cheater would willingly confess on flimsy accusations is unrealistic. It also gives the cheater time to cover up (delete) any evidence and allows them to drive the affair further underground making it much harder for the betrayed spouse to get at the truth. F…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 07:24 PM
2

I have zero desire have your T levels checked
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:23 PM
7

how do I progress it from stares across the room to just plain fucking in the work restroom. DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:08 PM
3

via text it's a bit painful. Text is for setting up a meet/date only. Example: her: "how has your week been" you: "great, looking forward to meeting up with you on (enter day of the week) at (enter time) for (some cool event/activity.)" if she accepts, good, if she doesn't but offers an counter proposal for date and it meets your schedule, accept, if she does not offer a counter proposal, loose her number because she is a time waster. You only want to go out with chicks who want to spend time wi…
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:04 PM
2

drop the "thumbs up"
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:00 PM
2

The penis is desighed to scoop out your bros semen and shoot yours in before he notices. Sperm Wars!
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:51 PM
2

OP's wife has already ended it with the dude the other guy is still hanging around, won't go away, and still carries a torch for the op's wife He will just get drawn into other people's drama. not really, he is passing on the drama to the other guy's wife. let her deal with him, while op deals with his wife.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 01:30 PM
1

getting the other dude's wife to fight your battles. 1) one of the surest ways to end an affair is exposure 2) the other wife deserves to know what dear hubby is up to 3) the op's battle is with his wife, not the affair partner
/r/askMRP11/07/17 12:45 PM
12

I think she's bored out of her mind Bingo!
/r/askMRP11/07/17 12:29 PM
1

Why do men ditch their friends when they get a GF? As much fun as it is hanging out with guys and doing guy shit; their tits are too small, they do not have pussies and they will not blow you.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:18 PM
6

I went to college at age 28. My first lab partner was 18. My biggest concern was characterizing transistor curves, while his biggest concern was having enough money for beer and whether his girlfriend was going to fuck him on any particular night. By the end of the semester he had dropped out, while I celebrated a 3.5 GPA. Keep your eyes on the prize.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:10 PM
4

mother of my children, instead of as a sex toy Madonna - Whore Syndrome
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 02:57 PM
2

one or two drinks, I become the killer machine What this should tell you is that under the influence, you do not give a fuck. No covert contracts or outcome dependence. Learn how 'not to give a fuck' sober.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:06 PM
1

After playing Chessmaster for a few months, I could regularly beat the program on level 5. Playing competent players in chess club, I got my ass beat regularly.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 10:33 AM
2

you expect something that isn't realistic If managing expectations isn't a RP concept, it should be.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 01:38 PM
5

i think we should break up At least she was up front about it and did not suggest a "break" or just cheat. However, her intent was the same; test out different cocks to satisfy her "curiosity" with you waiting in the wings. The problem is they lose all respect for you by agreeing to this bullshit and any future relationship is fucked. If you are not good enough for her to remain loyal, you never will be. ill just get more experience as each day goes by Once she goes down that road, there is no t…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 04:43 PM
1

Not me, my buddy, he paid the security deposit and the first months, that;s it.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 05:35 PM
1

It was actually a decent place in a nice community that she was soon sharing with some beta bux.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:35 PM
1

good question. did not come up, not sure what advice the lawyer was giving him, just assumed he was good with it, but I believe my buddy was ready to call the cops first, her family second. She was not on the deed, everything was in his name, no kids involved. The example was to demonstrate, start the process BEFORE you tell the wife. Starting the divorce process after announcing you are divorcing your wife creates a drama filled existence while you get your shit together. My buddies divorce too…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:33 PM
2

compliment your wife when she looks hot? If she is looking hot for you - complement If she is looking hot for someone else - stfu
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:12 PM
4

Here is how a buddy of mine initiated his divorce from his nightmare of a wife: Hired a lawyer. Had divorce papers drawn up that heavily favored him. Contacted a realtor to set up getting his city house on the market. Contacted HR to understand/get forms to change beneficiary on benefits. Contacted bank(s) to setup separate checking/savings accounts. Contacted Life Insurance agent to change beneficiary. Found an affordable apartment in the suburbs, paid deposit first months rent. Lined up buddie…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:06 PM
4

What do you mean this guy is "safe"? She can play with excuses. edit: always trust your gut
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:01 AM
16

he is basically a kid When I was 18, played football, basketball, ran track and worked on a farm. I had a perpetual hardon and could fuck all night. My girlfriend would "sleep over' all the time. "This was no problem before" That was before, this is today, it is a problem. "You know I wouldn't sleep with other men". No. she would be pissed at me at home So what. or she would do it anyway. Tell her do not come back, file for divorce.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 09:34 AM
5

If you are busy that's one thing, if it is her that is "busy" then you have a problem with attraction. Any chick who has a high interest level (attraction) in you, will do whatever she can to make herself available to spend time with you. This includes blowing off other activities/people. Give it a couple of shots as suggested, then lose the number if she is "busy" without giving you alternative days/times.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 04:46 PM
0

probably too complicated Funny, having to come up with just one word is beyond comprehension for most chicks.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 01:34 PM
36

She still feels really bad about it, Sure she felt bad while lying on her back, legs in the air, screaming, "fuck me, fuck me!" Sure all she thought about was you the entire time. saying how royally she fucked up, She left out the part about being royally fucked to save you the hurt. how she didn't mean to do that, What... take her clothes off, lay down, spread her legs, let this guy slid his dick into her, over and over again until he came inside her... is that what she meant not to do? She doe…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 05:34 PM
2

Italian men have a code to never date/fuck their friends' sister.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 11:58 AM
3

My wife has been doing it for well over five years So you are in a deep hole. MRP will get you out of the hole you dug for yourself, however, the hole the marriage (and wife) is in is another matter. "fixing the marriage" ... To assess the chances of reconciliation, visit 'The Chump Lady - Real vs Imitation Remorse.' Without true remorse from the wife, reconciliation will be a complete waste of time and energy. You can own whatever problems existed during the marriage, but her infidelity is all …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 04:01 PM
2

You may hear about him At First, then when she gets more serious, you won't until she tells you, 'buh bye, i'm fucking new guy now.'
/r/askTRP19/05/17 02:27 PM
1

Her reasoning/hamstering for the whys of her cheating on you are all bullshit. She is not taking responsibility for her own decisions and actions in cheating on you. By not taking ownership of her low character traits and instead blame shifting that responsibility onto you; too much working, too demanding, too social, is a giant sign that she has little to no remorse for her actions. She is backward justifying her disrespectful, disloyal behavior. What this will lead to is her cheating again, ei…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 06:33 PM
1

Once she dumps the boyfriend, she now has all the time in the world to focus all her attention and energy on the OP, fatal attraction time. As far as the OP is concerned, her boyfriend is on his own. He doesn't give a fuck about boyfriend when fucking his girlfriend, why should he give a fuck about boyfriend when not?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:46 PM
1

said she is going go dump him dump her before she dumps him, like yesterday
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:28 PM
1

is sex all I think about all the time? Sounds like she doesn't understand she is a friend with benefits. Figure out if you are giving her mixed signals, I.E. read up on fuck buddy rules. Soft next.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:27 PM
144

I think I ended up a better man This is the essence of TRP.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 06:46 PM
1

How Alpha is it if you are sitting on your ass while your wife is out running around looking for dogs? Story, gf and I move into an apartment (bottom half of a house) together. She locks herself out of the apartment (not the first time) and calls me at work, in panic. I leave work (with corresponding loss of pay) and unlock the door for her. As she is apologizing, I take her into spare bedroom put her against the wall, remove her pants, and fuck her standing up. The only thing I said was, your w…
/r/askMRP13/05/17 01:14 AM
1

she's the mother of my kids Look up Madonna - Whore Complex - known as the distinction men draw between the women they desire and the women they respect, with the implication that those two categories are mutually exclusive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 02:05 PM
1

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig Simulations of God by John C. Lilly Rights of Man by Thomas Paine The Ice Schooner by Michael Moorcock The Sloop of War by Alexander Kent In Watermelon Sugar by Richard Brautigan Player Piano by Kurt Vonnegut Sometimes a Great Notion by Ken Kesey
/r/askTRP12/05/17 01:55 PM
2

Biologically/Evolutionary I don't get it. My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan Sperm Wars by Robin Baker
/r/askTRP12/05/17 01:27 PM
5

I don't feel jealous, just deceived. deceived - given a mistaken impression. There is no mistake, the impression she is giving is outright cheating on you. The only deception is you thinking this is salvageable. She of course defends her position, nothing happened, it was so long ago, are you jealous, you're trying to control me, etc DARVO she had an exit plan less than 6 months ago? Tell her to use it. Context matters Yeah, but the "context" in this case is, any time there is an ex lurking in t…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 10:26 AM
1

doing the male equivalent of Kegal exercises can help, but it sounds like bullshit to me Not bullshit. Pelvic exercises - practice contracting and releasing your pelvic floor muscles (muscles that you use to stop your urine in mid-flow.) These exercises can be done anytime and anywhere. Once you have good control over your pelvic floor muscles, you will be able to contract these when you near ejaculation. This will prevent you from ejaculating and you can continue with your lovemaking for as lon…
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:36 PM
2

Your first experience was a lot better than mine. At 17 yo. this chick pursued me for over a month, when we finally hooked up, she was hot, soaking wet and ready to go. As soon as I slid my dick in her, I came. I was like wait, what??? The worst part was my dick was done with no indication that it was getting back up. Here was this chick hot to fuck, begging me to fuck her and all I could do was finger and eat her out. Man was she flustered, frustrated and fuddled. As far as this chick was conce…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:54 PM
2

Two thoughts: Buy physical gold, silver, diamonds Buy 9mm ammo - dollar for dollar, 9mm ammo has seen better return on investment than the stack market. These can also be used for trade during SHTF scenarios. http://wolfstreet.com/ http://kunstler.com/ http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/ Looking Out for #1: How to Get from Where You Are Now to Where You Want to Be in Life Paperback – November 6, 2013 by Robert Ringer
/r/askTRP08/05/17 12:45 PM
5

Look into Tantric Sex.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 06:13 PM
2

seeing them get horny versus the actual sex itself. If these chicks were solid 9 - 10's would you feel the same?
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:07 AM
1

your girlfriend didn't change her plans, try to get you to come, or really give it a second thought. This tells the Op everything he needs to know.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:02 AM
1

"Yeah, I can be an asshole when somebody's being a dick." (Self-satisfied smile.) "Yeah, I can be a dick when somebody's being an asshole." Fixed.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 12:50 PM
1

she asked why I'm not answering her calls when I'm at work "unless it is an emergency requiring a trip to the hospital or the house is burning down, do not call me at work"
/r/askMRP01/05/17 12:35 PM
2

During the concert she even slid her hand over my bulge, not very discretely. I’m having a wonderful time… After the concert we retire to one of our favourite pubs. IMHO, you should have retired the evening between your favorite pair of thighs, feeding your face with pussy instead of wings.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 12:20 PM
2

I said sit down, relax, breathe, take 10 minutes, then figure out if it's worth leaving. This is Ok. She said I'm only saying that so she can't blame me if it doesn't work out. Then said I'm using some psychology BS on me. Ignore this bullshit. Should I have made the decision for her? Fuck no. I was afraid of telling her to leave, and then her blaming it on me later and saying she quit "because I told her to" and everything. Fuck that. You cannot tell her what to do. Your only concern is, Does s…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 05:11 PM
1

Fun, Lite, Sexy.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 07:08 PM
1

I'm literally beside myself KNOWING full well what I should do, but not being able to do it. This, gentlemen is how not to deal with an unfaithful wife/girlfriend/SO.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 12:54 PM
2

So, I went from discovering the affair to a confrontation, getting a signed separation agreement with no alimony, and getting her out of the house in one week and a day. This, gentlemen is how you deal with an unfaithful wife.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 12:48 PM
3

Clint Eastwood, Marlon Brando, Sean Connery.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 10:04 AM
1

You are grasping for straws that your girlfriend is innocent in all this, she is not, she knows exactly what she is doing. I am not going to tell you anything different than any other replies you received. Follow the advice given, read the redpill side bar, start working out, and prepare for when your soon to be ex-girlfriend fucks this other guy and dumps you hard.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:07 PM
5

If they never mention it That is the point, your girlfriend has no loyalty to you as a boyfriend. Time to find new girls to date.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:44 PM
9

she has never mentioned that she has a boyfriend to him You can always tell how loyal (interest level/attraction) a chick is by how soon they bring up their boyfriend when conversing with another guy.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:33 PM
2

she wants to be my friend any further time/thought spent of this girl will be a complete waste of time. Loose her number.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:02 PM
1

I have not expressed any issues with the trip to my LTR yet Don;t. It is a waste of time and will have an opposite effect intended. Any communication involving commitment should have been handled long ago with boundaries/consequences/enforcement conversation. she has actually invited me to come on it. This is a positive. A chick with a high interest level will make every effort to spend time with you. Do I go on the trip or is that kind of clingy/me being too much in her shit? Go on the trip bec…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:00 PM
1

Why are you fucking around with some chick who has a boyfriend? Having said that, the best way to determine how committed/loyal a chick is to her boyfriend is how soon she brings him up when you meet her. Examples: If she mentions her boyfriend within 5 minutes of meeting her, move on. If your fingers are in her pussy when she first mentions a boyfriend, then say ok and escalate.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:51 PM
15

This girl is just fucking with you for laughs. Loose her number. Learn how to act with women, because your behavior at the bus stop was plain fucked up.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:42 PM
2

her best friend is her ex Anytime there is an ex lurking in the background, it is never a good thing. No other tips, just game her, ignore the shit tests (ex bf is a shit test) and fuck her as long as she remains lite, fun, and sexy.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:37 PM
2

Once they, "figure you out" you're hosed. Always keep them wondering.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:32 PM
1

As a young dude, I was always horny. To the point that when I checked out/interacted with chicks in the small town I grew up, I was unknowingly giving them a look of, 'I will fuck you nine different ways to Sunday.' That vibe came off loud and clear with these chicks and I was deemed, "dangerous" due to the social mores of the time. The results were a mixed bag, in that it weeded out the prudes from the curious.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:23 PM
2

wife sucked into her phone refocus that attention on you with some texts of your own, start with obscure bullshit or cryptic emoji strings and escalate to sexting
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 12:35 PM
2

get her to drop her beta bf and ultimately upgrade her to a regular plate? If you just want her as a plate, why do you want her to drop the borefriend? she's the classic "good girl" Willing to give you her pussy, but not her borefriend, (if she really is a virgin) yeah that's classic.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:05 PM
2

she'll flirt with him and give him her attention even more than she will give me. Girlfriend does not understand respect. clear she is attracted to him Next. I ended it over something small. Who gives a fuck. Her interest level is higher for the other guy than for you, she is not ready for long term commitment, (neither should you be) you need to meet/date/fuck other girls and build attraction with them. Trying to rebuild attraction with your current gf is a waste of your valuable time.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:12 PM
1

What the fuck is up with the cuck shit? Spring is in the air.
/r/askMRP07/04/17 11:35 AM
1

I just wished I had taken the wheel long ago, and been a better me. Whatever problems in the marriage and your contribution to them, does not in any way shape or form justify her decisions to fuck this POSPT. Her fucking boytoy is all on her.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 07:20 PM
6

Can this relationship be saved? What is to save? She fucked this guy, now has left you to fuck him some more. u/mrpthrowa gave you the right (only) answer. Cheated with me 1.5 years ago, and wants to go try things out with the guy she cheated me on. In the unlikely event that she comes back to you after fucking this guy nine ways to Sunday; do not cave, do not let her back into your life. She is unworthy of your time or energy. She has shown you her true colors has done you a huge favor before d…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 12:54 PM
5

I believe that she was sorry, because she's realized that she fucked up. Do not confuse being sorry for remorse. Check out The Chump Lady - Real vs Imitation Remorse for the difference. Bottom line without true remorse on her part, there is no way to reconcile the marriage. should I tell his wife Yep, she deserves to know what a piece of shit she is married to. she needs to get a new job Yep, no contact with the affair partner is number one. Also an indicator of remorse. I'm pissed, just don't w…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 10:35 AM
1

Fat fucks who eat like shit have digestive problems Be that as it may, I am 6'2" 205lbs, been lifting, biking for 10 years. 6 months ago, found out I have "silent" acid reflux. Rarely had heartburn (once in maybe 2yrs.) or any other symptoms. Mostly live on a Mediterranean diet, with limited coffee, fat, and chocolate, no smoking, alcohol, or fried foods. Looked into what diet changes are required for dealing with acid reflux. Top of the avoid list are tomatoes, garlic, onions, peppers. Fuck, I …
/r/askMRP04/04/17 09:30 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJDkhTiFWHU
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:13 PM
5

another is about to drop so I want to LTR her. Wrong.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:11 PM
5

Back in the day we called weed weed because it weeded out all the bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:42 AM
16

i never made a serious move on her, He who hesitates is lost.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 05:58 PM
2

Interest level (in you) is dropping. Read up on 'Being a Challenge' - The System by Doc Love.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 07:05 PM
3

full of "great ideas" Indicates your wife has little respect for your efforts. Time for the simple "I got this." own our shit Youth sports is a tough gig between the kids and the parents. Most times it is the parents that cause the most problems. When they sour on you as the coach you can tell by the way their kid(s) behave in practice/games. As suggested the first practice/team meeting is to establish your goals for the season, your expectations of the kids, and boundaries for the parents on ho…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 01:42 PM
1

What can men offer women and women offer men in a relationship otherwise? Respect.
/r/askMRP14/03/17 07:32 PM
14

If she comes crawling back, doubtful, get this out of your fucking mind
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 04:03 PM
1

She didn't like the idea, She has no attraction for you. Any women/wife that has any attraction for you would do everything she can to spend time with you, especially trips away from home. it would suck big time She is threatening that; if you go, then you will regret it. She started making excuses again damage control now that you know she is lying she is texting me, saying she loves me, patronizing you with the bare minimum she feels is required She said it was a minor thing She thinks you are…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 08:06 PM
1

Pook and Anti-Dump came up with this well Correct me if I am wrong, but Doc Love came out with "The System" before the articles referenced in in this post. Most of the concepts (interest level, asking for the number, mystery/be prepared i.e. challenge) are straight out of the Doc's work in The System. Not that it matters much, but The System was one of the first books I read on dealing with women, that truly helped me understand what the fuck was going on. Pook is ok and kind of summarizes what …
/r/askMRP21/02/17 07:41 PM
1

Agree, I once (only once) diffused her bitchiness over some bullshit I failed with a picture of me in a dog house on our kitchen chalkboard.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 06:54 PM
2

saying that she is tired of me picking on her. For future reference, Look up DARVO.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:24 PM
2

Commence major shitstorm about me not understanding, its her life, wants to have fun, im controlling etc. Your soon to be ex wife has: no respect for you, no loyalty to you, no integrity as a person, and has zero remorse for cheating on you. advise on where i go now To a lawyer for divorce papers ready for her to sign.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 09:10 PM
1

there is nothing you can actually do to return to the old relationship Although each situation is different with many variables, you are right, the relationship is changed and will never be the same. Some reconcile under the terms of Marriage 2.0 or go through the divorce and then start over. To each their own. Basically all of it is about becoming a better person for yourself. Absolutely, since you can no longer depend on the reliability of your mate. Not that you should have from the beginning…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 08:55 PM
3

An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. "A fight is going on inside me," he said to the boy. "It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on in…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 01:48 PM
5

To summarize: If a chick has a high interest level (attraction) in you, she will do whatever she can to spend time with you. That includes doing shit she could care less about, just to be with you. As that interest level drops, so does her willingness to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:48 PM
50

"We're just friends" Read "Not Just Friends" by Dr Shirley Glass from MMSL, Option A) Co-worker leaves her existence or Option B) You leave her existence. Maximum effect on the confrontation: print out all the texts, have the pic of the co-worker on top, and the divorce papers on the bottom. Start with questions about the co-worker and reveal texts as you go. If your wife, starts to Gaslight, DARVO, and/or Hamsters you, get up with "Ok, I have my answer." Hand her the divorce papers and leave th…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 01:40 PM
1

Keep a log book of events and always have a voice activated recorder on your person.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 02:00 PM
1

The reality is, unless you live in Pennsylvanian, Ohio, Michigan, or Wisconsin, your vote really had no effect on the outcome of the election. However, your wife has an ideological problem with Trump and what he represents regardless of your votes effect. You voted for him, you are him. Irrational, but you know that. she only wants to fuck cause she's horney Stop fucking her. Employ "The 180." I spoke to a divorce attorney this morning Looks like your only option is to follow through. She has pu…
/r/askMRP24/01/17 11:33 AM
2

Originally thought this was Yossarian from the book Catch-22, in which, Yossarian showed up naked for a medal ceremony.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:17 PM
3

So fucking this co-worker solves the problem of your unfaithful wife how?
/r/askMRP22/01/17 11:59 AM
3

I had told her there was no possible chance If you back track now, you loose all respect from her. Not that you had much to begin with. she is a objectively high quality girl, The reality is much different. Fun together, no fights, sex everyday or 2x per, great cook, she would do adventurous hobbies, and very pretty, probably a 9. And options to pick up stray dick. No thanks.
/r/askMRP22/01/17 11:54 AM
1

Sex God Method, role play. Her: naughty school girl caught cheating on her exam. You: stern english teacher with a thick ruler/paddle.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 10:45 PM
1

that height differential is awkward I'm 6'2" and fucked a 6' chick for a while. The best thing was I could easily suck on her tits, while I fucked her. Shorter chicks, I have to bend down awkwardly to get at them, so I generally don't unless they are riding on top.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 10:40 PM
2

3 – Wait it out, see how it the next six months go and re-evaluate while continuing my improvement plan. If you want to continue to be in your kids life, full time, here is what I would do in your situation: MAP like a mother fucker. Be the best father you can be for your kids. Implement The healing heart - the 180. Implement the 12 levels of dread. Give no fuxks about your wife or what she does. Get tested for STDs. DNA the kids. Hire a divorce lawyer and have divorce/separation papers drawn up…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 01:01 PM
0

They're kind of boring and weird to me Back when I working second shift in the trades, if we were not working OT, then we would hit the strip clubs to grab a couple of beers and a show. We could have gone to local bars, but why not see some ass and titties dance around while sipping away the days pains. No pretense, no bullshit, no expectations other than having a good time. Most joints were dives filled with lonely guys and some chick barely going through the motions. Until we walked through th…
/r/askMRP01/01/17 03:30 PM
4

I had been stoned for 15 years and completely missed what she was trying to tell me I was sitting in my basement. I just rolled myself a taste Of something green and gold and glorious To get me through the day. Then my friend yelled through the transom "Grab your coat and get your hat son, There's a nut down on the corner, Givin' dollar bills away" But I laid around a bit Then I had another hit. Then I rolled myself a bomber. Then I thought about my mama. Then I fooled around, played around jack…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 04:16 PM
1

Low Self - Esteem Materialista's Attention Whores
/r/askTRP20/12/16 12:28 AM
3

If my history serves me correctly, the reason the Titanic hit an iceberg is because when the captain was informed of the impending collision, instead of maintaining speed and making a small course correction, he ordered a full stop and reverse engines maneuver. This resulted in the ship's forward momentum overriding the attempt at full stop and the iceberg ripping a large hole in the side of hull. This or course is just theory, but redpill is theory until it is applied and results tabulated. I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 06:29 PM
1

girls of my class think he's hilarious So you want to be a class clown? Having a sense of humor and being a comedian for entertaining purposes are two different things. My sensor of humor was shaped from a variety of sources: Youth: Mad Magazine, Bill Cosby, George Carlin, Jackie Gleason, Looney Tunes. Teen: Cheech and Chong, Firesign Theater, National Lampoon Adult: SNL - the first 4 years, Rodney Dangerfield, Sam Kinison, Redd Foxx, Richard Pryor, Lewis Black, Dave Chappelle.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 03:28 PM
1

It is not cheating if monogamy is never promised.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:03 PM
2

she is totally willing to receive oral outside of the relationship Test this theory. Get her showered up, on the bed, legs spread, bring your A game oral skills to take her to the edge of orgasm. Stop. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know about her willingness or not to reciprocate and/or fuck. If you want some pointers, Nina Hartley has a demonstration video online.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:57 PM
2

She is currently shacking up with the other dude. No remorse there.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 05:47 PM
2

Red Pill Tenet - actions always speak louder than words.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 05:44 PM
8

it was my fault Whatever problems there were in the marriage and whatever contribution you had towards those problems; does not, never will, justify your wife's decision to fuck some other guy. Wife was very remorseful Check out The Chump lady - Real vs Imitation Remorse for what true remorse looks like and see if your wife's behavior matches up. I don't feel like she deserves it now She doesn't. Instead of either, working out any problems she had with the marriage or ending the marriage, she be…
/r/askMRP08/12/16 11:27 AM
1

I used to get bullshit phone calls (pre text) at work about bullshit I had no control over at the moment. Before I figured out how to handle these, I would engage with wife which always ended up with us getting more pissed and frustrated. Finally I told her that unless there is an emergency (the kids have to go to the hospital, the house is on fire) that required me to leave work immediately and deal with it, do not call me at work. Have not had a problem like this since.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 11:14 AM
10

Any ideas? Improve your reading comprehension and listening skills.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:11 PM
14

shit test but really I think it's a beta temperature test Same difference.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:08 PM
3

when other girls interact with me, text me, call me, etc when im with her that it "turns her off." If the roles were reversed and she was accepting/interacting with other dudes, when she is supposed to be with me (my time is valuable, too valuable to listen/watch her game some other dude) then I would show her the door and soft next. any ways to fix her? No. She is being honest with you. You are not listening. When you want to spin plates, do it on your own time, not time allocated for her. Othe…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:05 PM
2

I'll investigate. Check out "Standard Evidence Post" on Talk About Marriage for some ins and outs on discreet surveillance techniques.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 03:26 PM
2

mandatory try optional
/r/askTRP02/12/16 10:02 AM
8

compounding interest negativity charges you Engineering term for this is Stack Tolerances. Each piece/event that does not line up, contributes/adds to the next piece being off, so on and so forth for each variable down the line until the situation is unworkable. At some point, you just have to say fuck it and start over.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 03:20 PM
1

The sex god method by daniel rose
/r/askTRP30/11/16 01:15 AM
2

can't keep my eyes and ears open I believe I suggested this before; google 'Standard Evidence Post'
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 10:47 AM
1

whether she will be worth my time? two books I found helpful in screening chicks are: The System by Doc Love Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man
/r/askTRP21/11/16 07:48 PM
1

an angle to say that's all I care about Shit Test - Agree and Amplify do some lame thing of hers and gets prissy Double Bind - your fucked if you do or don't. Learn how to deal with them as they are a bitch and chicks are masters of putting you in them. told her things had to change This is like pissing in the wind. But you should know this already. she wants to make things better For Her! A conversation at this point would not have been a bad idea to find out what she really means and how far s…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 07:43 PM
3

Are you directing her in bed? My answer to starfish sex; flipper her over, slap her ass, and fuck her from behind.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 11:00 AM
6

You do not compete with other men, you compete with yourself. Are you the best man you can be? Are you actively working to make yourself a better man? If you are really paranoid, then google 'The Standard Evidence Post'
/r/askMRP18/11/16 10:52 AM
1

Who knows what happens after you die. It is all how you want to live your life, what kind of man you want to be, and what effect your presence has on your environment and the people in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 12:59 PM
3

You are talking about Instant Karma and it is not really a thing (if I understand Buddhism correctly.) It is more along the lines of if I lead a good life, do good deeds then I will be rewarded in my next life. I agree with all your other points; petty deeds/thoughts drive negative energy and can produce negative results. Karma is the definition of a covert contract: only in the afterlife, if you believe in that sort of thing. DEFINITION OF KARMA Karma is intentional action, that is, a deed done…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 12:14 AM
1

Facts are open to interpretation, but they are still facts. In my limited experience, hard core republican voters, male and female, vote republican. Also there is this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtY5bv-oxLE peace out
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 11:08 AM
1

Trump received 42% of female voters. Less than Romney 44% and McCain 43%. http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/11/09/behind-trumps-victory-divisions-by-race-gender-education/
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 06:42 PM
1

I want to give her space and time to come to her senses. Yeah, do this. Give her all the time she needs, to find a divorce lawyer and you do the same. Once you make the fucking decision that she is no longer worth your time/energy and have her served with divorce papers will she "come to her senses." I believe her PM me, I have some land in Florida and a bridge in New York to sell.
/r/askMRP13/11/16 06:33 PM
3

Bring the fun, so that Daddy Time is the highlight of your kids' days (and of yours as well). Right fucking on. There isn't much better than walking through the front door and your kids rush over to hug you with, "Daddy's home!"
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 03:45 PM
2

Call me weird, but when I get sick, I get extremely horny. I playfully initiate when I am in this state and of course get turned down with a your crazy and a smile. My response is usually, "That's right baby, I'm crazy in love with you." Once recovery is noticeable, I get the 'are you still sick' questions and its smooth sailing from there.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 11:49 PM
7

she goes into bed... she'll ask me to make her a sundae Recipe for a fat wife. I make fucking good sundaes Substitute banana with dick. Keep the whip cream. "I'd love to if we have sex tonight." Bargaining for sex. Don't. I'm dying from being so fucking horny Caveman. Well, that's the deal...sex gets you a sundae, no sex gets you my sympathies on your PMS," STFU. I don't want to make one Don't.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 11:40 PM
2

For a while, maybe. However, depending on how things go with his presidency, the backlash could be the mother of all shit tests.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 01:48 PM
1

we're very much paycheck to paycheck right now, Welcome to the life of 75% of Americans.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 02:01 PM
22

She lost the first round, so she is laying the ground work for the second round by hovering you into a false reconciliation while she plans for the final exit. Stay on course.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 01:51 PM
1

https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1RrgcmdwYm97jwNUJ95MH-xV2JhVpWdBSnYp9o1A7Ecs/edit#slide=id.g34b2f46cb_038
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:23 PM
2

"I apologize when I feel it's warranted, not when you think it's warranted." Better option: "When I have something to apologize for, I will." why do they seem to try and "get their little beta bitch back? Beta bitches are safe, they can be controlled, and won't leave them high and dry. Alphas are more attractive, but leave them feeling more vulnerable/insecure. So she wants both aspects, attraction and security even though the two are in constant conflict with each other.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:47 PM
10

"don't make me choose" "OK. I'll choose, we're done."
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:27 PM
14

instant gratification sources like my phone, porn, internet, etc? As hippy-dippy as this sounds, connect with nature. Watch the sunrise, sunset, walk amongst the trees, plant a garden. Climb a mountain. Visit the ocean, lake, river. Lay on your back and watch the clouds drift by, feel the earth move. Observe your surroundings, see how they change from season to season, day to day, moment by moment. The electronic world is a false representation of life.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:57 PM
1

most of these reasons are rationalizations. Equals blame shifting indicating no remorse. Last night her reasons were Starting to have some remorse. I am concerned she is just telling me what she thinks I want to hear. Actions will tell you the truth, not her words. That she will do anything to make it up to me. She has to back this up with actions. what about next time? Too early to tell, but at this point in time, yeah, she will cheat again.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 01:53 PM
3

I go from being enraged to depressed to a sobbing heap. Your wife has put you on the roller coaster from hell. Your job is to get off it as soon as possible. I can't imagine ever being able to trust my wife again. This is correct. She is no longer your wife, she is some person you no longer know or trust. She will never be the same, your relationship will never be the same. There is no going back to the happier time you once had with this woman. The sooner you accept this, the better off you wil…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 09:36 AM
3

I am still in love but don't think she is. It does not matter how much you love/like a chick, if she doesn't have the same feelings/interest/commitment, then it is time to refocus your time and energy into someone/something else with a better return on your investment. Tell her, fine she can have her break. However, you consider this a break up with a no return policy. Then go dark.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 07:40 PM
1

ok, one size fits all
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:40 PM
1

http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/chad-thundercock
/r/askMRP27/10/16 08:32 AM
1

The point is that no matter what type of relationship you have, to effectively communicate your willingness to walk if boundaries are crossed and that does mean boundaries are established. Agreed she will do whatever the fuck she wants, but she at least knows where the line is and what will happen once they are stepped on.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:28 AM
1

he moment you put a ring on her finger you lose the only power you really ever had in the relationship. Not really, you can still walk away at any time, it is just going to cost you more. It is up to you to define your boundaries and the consequences for crossing them. It is also on you to communicate your expectations clear enough so that your chick understands completely your willingness and ability to walk.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:26 PM
1

What do LTR qualities look like? That is for you to define. Knowing what you want and where you are going is the first step in any journey.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:46 PM
1

You are correct sir. For guys who don't know what the fuck they are doing, it's a start and the song remains the same. Digital voice activated recorders with lithium batteries and some quality Velcro to place in the correct position, timeless. Google, keylogger, VAR, GPS, it takes you to the latest and greatest. The methodology and mindset are the same. If the obsessed want to drive themselves crazy, this is the place. edit words
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:39 PM
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whole point of dating is: To find out if a chick has the qualities you require for a potential mate. To find out if a chick has long term relationship potential. Marriage is for the sake of raising a kid, with both parents, to give that kid the best possible outcomes in life. Stability, male and female influences, and a better standard of living than a single parent (usually female with a drive by father.)
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:37 PM
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Acting like some dude you admire, is not the same as adopting their basic qualities, principles, and philosophies. As exampled below. http://99u.com/articles/24401/a-makers-guidebook-9-stoic-principles-to-nurture-your-life-and-work
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:25 PM
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they don't fuck around
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:52 PM
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http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/209754-standard-evidence-post.html This will give you the tools required for covert surveillance of a suspected cheating spouse. A PI is always an option if you have the money. Especially for out of town work.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:37 PM
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She wants one last private conversation with him so that she can "close this chapter of her life and have closure, which will enable her to truly focus on our relationship." Bullshit. The only communication with this piece of shit is a 'No Contact Letter.' She writes it, you approve it, and you both send it out. Any further contact by him is ignored and you are informed. If you find out by other means, divorce. Any further contact by her is immediate filing for divorce. This must be made very cl…
/r/askMRP23/10/16 12:03 PM
2

I love her in sexual lingeriee Buy her lingerie that you like, give them to her, tell her to put them on, then rip them off her as you ravage her body.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 11:52 AM
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If you suspect her cheating, then go here: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/209754-standard-evidence-post.html This will give you the tools required for covert surveillance of a suspected cheating spouse. If her behavior (cheating or not) is unacceptable to you, then here are my Answers: 1) Rarely. Staying with family is about the only exception. 2) Setting boundaries and consequences for crossing them is not a DLV. Bitching, whining, begging, pleading, and stomping your feet is. 3…
/r/askMRP23/10/16 11:45 AM
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http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/209754-standard-evidence-post.html This will give you the tools required for covert surveillance of a suspected cheating spouse.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 11:19 AM
1

excellent advice
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:44 PM
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1) Hauling mexican weed from the rio grande, past the texas checkpoints, and into the north east. TRP was not defined as such since this was during the early 70's. 2) Watching the girl of my dreams (5'8" 115lbs, hazel eyes, long sandy blond hair, long legs ending at an ass that would not quit) walk off with some dude she just met. We were at a party, I went for a piss and more beers. When I came back, she was walking off with this dude. I was like wtf, she was like so, its not like we are gettin…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:48 PM
1

downgrade her and carry on having amazing sex until she fucks up and start lining up other chicks
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:13 AM
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cognitive dissonance - the state of having inconsistent thoughts, beliefs, or attitudes, especially as relating to behavioral decisions and attitude change
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 11:50 PM
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The key to successful reconciliation of infidelity in marriage is Remorse. If she does not have it, reconciliation is a waste of time and resource better used for divorce and rebuilding your life in a new direction. You can forgive, forget, move on, rug sweep, love, cherish, rebuild, push, pull all you want, but your wife must exhibit true remorse. The Chump Lady has a good article on Real vs Imitation Remorse to measure your wife's actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 02:07 PM
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Pro tip... use reply button to poster comment you want to respond to.
/r/askMRP07/10/16 04:51 PM
1

Yes, I have had several chicks decide they would have nothing to do with me, after they realized I was not going to fuck them.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:21 PM
1

meet up with her male best friend for dinner bullshit she always stops him more bullshit How should I react? nonplussed What should I do? get rid of this disrespectful, disloyal, dishonest chick.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:17 PM
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asked me to be exclusive but wouldn't reciprocate. Massive shit test... you failed. whatever was going on before this may have been recoverable, but after this, you were done. You just didn't realize it. Never give up your plates for a maybe.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:08 PM
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I fucked this beautiful girl For the uninitiated, the most dangerous creature on the planet. telling me that I wasn't the type of man she though I would be At least she gave you some honesty. how do I create an emotional immune system to prevent me from ever letting someone fucking me over like that again Read r/TheRedPill Sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:00 PM
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i dont know what to expect or do? Do not expect anything. DO nothing but; accept the clothes, thank her for bringing them over, and then close the door.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 01:52 PM
2

Why do women hate when you're improving ? Because you won;t be as easy to manipulate.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 01:48 PM
2

it's what you make of it man. My old man used to say this all the time. If you think it sucks, it will. If you think it is the greatest thing ever, it is. it's just up to you to define and give meaning to your life man. Agree 100%.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 01:46 PM
1

6 months.
/r/askMRP23/09/16 11:46 AM
1

Add the healing heart - the 180. Read, understand, internalize and implement.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 01:47 PM
1

her starting point seems to be demanding lots of aggression and lots of mean talk Can she take as good as she gives? having a hard time going there without discussing. Act, no talk! I think my wife wants me to be more aggressive physically and sexually Stop thinking, she does. I need to learn to be able to be ultra dominant in bed. Fucking google this exact sentence. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4cvgtg/how_to_dominate_her_in_bed/
/r/askMRP18/09/16 12:17 PM
1

Not really the point of the reply, more will watching your wife get fucked, in the manner she is describing by some other guy, make you happy? How will that make you happy? Trying to get you to set aside her benefit and think if this is good for you? I understand the wanting to make your wife sexually satisfied, (i.e. being good, giving, and game) but she is leaving out/side stepping the part that this is really for her benefit, not yours. Maybe, maybe, she really believes her bullshit, but she …
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:01 AM
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She thinks by me watching it one time it will change me overnite. It will change you alright. You will see her being the dirty little slut she wants to be, the way she was with her ex, the way he treated her, and how she fucking enjoyed being used and abused. You will never she her the same way ever again.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:26 PM
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The only other thing to suggest is tell her that instead of the ex, you want to bring in some other chick so that she can instruct you on how to dominate in the bedroom. Start looking up BDSM hookup sites. edit abrv
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:11 PM
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She says its not the same. Watch some early James Deen porn.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:56 AM
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she was thinking of “spicing things up” a little bit There are plenty of ways to accomplish this without making you a cuck. Read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose I am KIND OF up for it if it will make her happy And how will this make you happy? Is she trying to relive what she had with this guy? Yes. is she really trying to better OUR sex life? No, she is trying to better HER sex life.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:50 AM
1

If you are interested in the trades, look into local BOCES (Board of Cooperative Education Services) for certificates in any of the trades. Community Colleges offer Certificate Programs in many different disciplines. Apprenticeships. In the mean time, get a menial job to demonstrate you are at least employable, i.e. you can show up on time, understand instructions, and perform rudimentary tasks.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:23 PM
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Clarification, substitute 'fucking' with 'infecting with an incurable disease' with respect to the OP. Use of the word 'fucking' was projection on my part.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:10 PM
0

never piss off your boss IME in an employer/employee situation; your job is to make your boss look good. This is accomplished by not fucking up, it is not accomplished by getting him coffee.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:04 PM
1

Tell that to the Italians.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:59 PM
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what's the case there. Opinion below. at least towards op. You can be friends with assholes. Once they cross certain lines (trying to bang your sister/mother/wife/gf or other friends' gf/wife/mother/sister is one,) then the friendship changes. Get this asshole out of my life type of change.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:57 PM
1

She called me crazy "That's right baby, crazy in love with you." Given with a smile and a look that says you will fuck her nine ways to Sunday (by every imaginable method.)
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 12:13 PM
2

the "creative" types seem to be pulling hotter girls Cut off the soles of your shoes, live in a tree, and learn how to play the flute.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 12:20 PM
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Intelligent Creative Adventurous Independent Similar background/upraising Similar political/religious/moral values Loyal Fit
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:14 PM
3

Yeah, r/relationships has really gone downhill since they banned me over a year ago.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 01:00 PM
3

I don't take him to the gym with me or hunting In my family, hunting was the first step into manhood. At age 14, we were trained in rifle use/safety, hunting skills, orienteering, and how to field dress your game. Once completed, the next step was opening day where we were allowed to join the men (father, uncles, cousins) in the hunt. First time out without guns, but next season, yeah. It was a sort of passage from boy to man. You have time with your son and it seems to be the right time.
/r/askMRP27/08/16 09:35 AM
1

Systems Engineering in Research & Envelopment for large fortune 500 multi-national corporation.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:38 PM
2

she starts talking in a child's voice Time to roll out the 'naughty little girl' who needs spanking or the 'don't tell mommy' routine.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 09:25 PM
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How to NGAF.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:53 PM
3

What to do after a tough break-up? YMMV. Went on a road trip to visit with some friends in another part of the state. Spent the weekend like this: Ate steak, drank beer, smoked weed, gamed chicks, got into fight with chicks' boyfriends, passed out, woke up with a tattoo on my ass.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:50 PM
3

To summarize; You will not laugh, You will not cry, you will learn by the numbers, I (the sidebar) will teach you!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 09:45 AM
1

Good advice to the OP. Coed sports (bar leagues) are a good avenue to pursue. offering to take them to shoot I am still amazed at how turn on chicks get from shooting guns. "Happiness is a warm gun."
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:07 PM
1

What works best Hi, want to party?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:01 PM
1

I still have some left-over feelings. One-it-is; learn it, understand it, kill it. she uploaded picture of them she started liking all of my photos. She sure is into mind fuck you games. Unfriend, unfollow, block her from facebook. Better yet get the fuck off facebook and back to accomplishing your goals in life. A life that does not include her.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:59 PM
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Is there something that can be gained from it Read it and find out.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:53 PM
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I believe it's a woman's duty to please her man whenever he needs it. It's a man's duty to be desirable enough for a women to want to please her man whenever he wants it. LTR Starting To Deny Sex She has lost/is losing attraction to you. That is all on you.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:16 AM
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when her boyfriend is not around talks shit about him She has no respect or loyalty towards her boyfriend. She has low integrity as a person, i.e. not suitable for a ltr.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:10 AM
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I see her checking out other guys and confront her about it, You: "Check out the ass on that guy." I'm 100 percent sure about my accusation and the reality is it amounts to absolute zero her telling her sisters and friends about me All chicks talk to each other, good and bad. I'm a little bit insecure Lift, eat right, read, game other chicks. I end up losing the argument Stop arguing with her, spend your time with her in a more positive, fun, productive, sexy way, like taking her clothes off. 1.…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:46 PM
2

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:36 PM
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she stops me and says it's enough for the first date. This is when you get up and leave.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:33 PM
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I think overall im doing things right Disagree. A chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you would not be entertaining other guys. Since she is, her attraction to you is low, (add in that she is disrespectful, has no loyalty, and little integrity.) However, the "things' you think you are "doing right" should be your biggest question. Suggest reading: The System by Doc Love Not Just Friends by Dr Shirley Glass edit format
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:27 PM
1

her 'exuding sexuality' outside the bedroom is a bit much! Learn to embrace it. Many possibilities lie ahead if you do ;)
/r/askMRP11/08/16 01:17 PM
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she will always have more options than you So? She has them regardless if we are committed or open. The question for any chick is; are her "options" better than you? If so, good for her see you later. I just laid it out there up front. Story time. My chick played softball in a bar league. I was one of the coaches. After one game, she comes up to me with a piece of paper with a guys name and a phone number on it. M: "What's this?" H: "One of the girls on the other team gave this to me. She said h…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 12:37 PM
1

Why do you guys don't live together? ??? We lived together for 4 years before getting married ( to have kids) and still live together.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 11:52 AM
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That's just setting up the relationship in her favor, where she has nothing to lose. Wrong. In PUA and RP theory, you are the prize right. She loses you. Material things are just that, things. They have little value in making your life happy. They may make your life more comfortable, but do we not live to be outside our comfort zone in order to grow and progress as men? Edit: full disclosure, before I started hooking up with her, I was basically homeless for 2 years (ages 19 - 21) were I hitch-h…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 11:50 AM
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Dread game is the only way you keep an LTR long term. Absolutely. I have no problems with my ltr (I even lived with her) because I set the frame right up front, we are both free to see whomever we want. When we were getting married, she broached the subject of what would happen if "anything" ever happened between us. I told her straight out, if "anything" ever happened, all I want is my backpack, sleeping bag, some clothes, and my dog (that is everything I came into the relationship with.) She c…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 07:41 PM
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Bravo
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:44 PM
1

How is answering a question defensive?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/16 12:25 AM
1

Why did you laugh? Funny things make me laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 06:54 PM
0

Do you disagree that his statement is stronger with that text removed? Maybe, don't know, don't really care, does it really matter (other than an esoteric exercise in woulda, coulda, shoulda?) The Op had enough of her shit and in the heat of the moment unloaded how things were going to be from now on. The TBD is if he can maintain his frame while he works on his progress towards manhood.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 06:52 PM
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You can wordsmith his response all you want, however, to come out with what the Op said in the moment was fucking awesome. Had me laughing out loud. The bottom line is the Op wants respect and is willing to end the marriage is the wife doesn't turn her shit around. For the moment, the only thing she can think to do is shut the fuck up and give the Op what she thinks he wants. Bitching will no longer work, so her last arrow of manipulation is sex. Will this translate into more respect and better …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 12:22 PM
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tell me guys if it’s anything otherwise... It is not. Her trade up plan failed. I could probably tell you exactly what went down between her and this co-worker, but it would be more wasted words. Live Life Large.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 05:13 PM
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the way he explains things Agreed. Challenge, Interest Level, The Bottom Line Factor, The Truth Triangle, all things that help you to gauge and increase attraction, weed out time wasters, and screen chicks for potential long term relationships in a relatively short amount of time, if that is what you are after. I viewed the Doc as corny, but his work and principles are solid. Plus I found him way before I heard of redpill.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:28 PM
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I let her hang out with him and she use to ask me for my permission quite often, but I've said yes every time, because it's not really my choice. She hangs out with him because, she wants to. She asks because she is testing your frame. You said yes because your frame sucks. The only thing you have right is, it is not your choice whether she hangs with this guy or not. she knows that if she does anything that I don't like that I'll move on. You do not like her hanging with this guy, but you "allo…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:38 PM
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Text her when you want to meet up. Text to arrange logistics of meet up. If she starts any kind of convo, other than meeting up, keep it short and simple. "Ok, cool, look I have x to do, will see you x. bye." You do not start any type of convo, other than to meet up. The idea of the meetup is to gage interest, i,e, will she actually commit to and show up. You want to have one on one face time, that is the only way you are going to build attraction/comfort.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:02 PM
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I do not know if these are considered redpill (not on the side bar) but: The System by Doc Love Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man Side Bar Material: The Married Man Sex Life Primer The Sex God Method
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:47 PM
1

I hit some black ice on the way to work one morning and hit a concrete wall with my 99 jeep. I drove it to my mechanic who told me $2k to fix if I find/deliver used parts (bumper, fender, grill assemblies, lamp fixtures, extra.) The insurance company would either fix it or total it. If I had to pull available parts from other jeeps at the local junkyard, then I might as well rebuild the jeep myself. So the ins company totaled it out, I bought it back for $300 and pulled all the parts I needed fo…
/r/askMRP01/08/16 06:47 PM
5

a false claim of physical abuse in your future. Get a high quality voice activated recorder that you carry with you at all times.
/r/askMRP01/08/16 01:11 PM
0

"Mines bigger. My cuccumber is bigger than the one you're holding." Just remember fruit is sensual not sensuous. Or is it the other way around? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9ZjOCSLYlc
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:42 PM
2

Back muscles. Since lifting entered my life, I feel a big difference in posture (general) and walking upright shoulders back (particular. )
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:33 PM
2

"don't worry there were no hot guys there" Translation: "If there were, I would have fucked them all." Always trust your gut. However, your gut is not the problem, her behavior and your inability to dump this lying/cheating chick who has zero respect for you. how should I go about breaking up with her By telling her.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:44 PM
1

I've posted this before; "Life is a balance between the shit we want to do and the shit we have to do." YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 01:48 PM
1

Layout something for her to wear and you to rip off. DO not initiate. Let her work for it. If she puts on what you left out, if she comes on to you, then rip off her lingerie and fuck her. If she doesn't, then be prepared to go do something else more fun.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:41 PM
1

sex with me is duty sex Is it starfish or does she get into it?
/r/askMRP27/07/16 02:36 PM
2

nobody wants to fuck someone who is pretending to be asleep. Not if you are doing it right.
/r/askMRP27/07/16 02:34 PM
1

First things first; you are fucked. Your wife has zero respect for you. There is a 99% probability your wife is fucking this other guy. She has no remorse for her behavior. Reconciliation of the marriage is impossible if your wife will not stop contacting/seeing the POSOM and exhibits NO REMORSE. You have no recourse at this point but: Hire a lawyer, have divorce papers drawn up, and have her served as soon as possible. If this is a workplace affair, have her served at work. Get your finances in…
/r/askMRP27/07/16 02:29 PM
1

Ok it is a cultural thing. Patience, comfort, and remove responsibility for their actions, i.e. make it your fault she spread her legs. Back in the day, Catholic school girls were the best fucks, once their inhibitions were lowered. The social programming was a bitch to overcome, but was it ever worth it. 'Warning, if you adhere to the premise, "leave them better than you found them," then moving on requires delicate handling. All girls like sex, some just don;t know it yet.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:30 AM
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Depends on the state, example; NY has a 'no-fault' divorce they recently passed into law. However, there is still 'at-fault' divorces that include infidelity. Best talk to a lawyer to understand what a divorce would look like to you financially, legally.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:19 AM
1

I'm learning is it sucks to be a man. The proper frame is; being a man can be a lonely business.
/r/askMRP26/07/16 12:00 AM
1

At 20, she is a virgin for a reason. Figure out why and you are half way there.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:25 PM
1

she's broke No money, but invited you to pay for dinner? I was texting her a bit before the date Texting is for logistics. went on a few dates with her She's hot, but a bitch, if you aren;t fucking her, what exactly are you getting from her other than a hard time? Lose her number.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:21 PM
2

can't seem to stop the put downs and manipulations from occurring all of the time. This is not shit testing, it is being a Grade A Bitch.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:13 PM
3

Perhaps there are medical pieces at play beyond my control You cannot MAP medical. 60 second compliance sex before it hurts too much for her Rule out medical issues first.
/r/askMRP21/07/16 02:58 PM
1

Receiving gifts is one thing (materialista) going on a date is another. A chick with a high interest level (attraction) in you would not go on a date with another guy. 6 months is not that long for a relationship, but long enough to start to understand if this chick is actual ltr material. Time to downgrade.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:32 PM
3

If you want a mind fuck, take a discrete mathematics class.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 06:45 PM
3

Lose her number.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:21 PM
1

Cliche: "When you don;t know where you are going any road will get you there." Life is a balance between the shit you have to do and the shit you want to do. going after attractive but boring women Aim higher.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:15 PM
2

Escalate to the point that she has to 'put up or shut up.'
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:11 PM
3

Don't confuse regret with remorse. Check out the Chump Lady - Real vs. Imitation Remorse. However, 2 weeks into the marriage and she is going to fuck her co-worker? Bet that she was /has been fucking this guy a lot longer than you know. Get a lawyer, get out of this sham marriage, get moving towards a better, happier life.
/r/askMRP19/07/16 02:59 AM
2

how to prevent her from cheating while she's away? You can't. All you can do is let her know what your boundaries are and the consequences for crossing them. She will decide what is best for her, just as, you decide what is best for you.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:30 AM
1

Time for road trip.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:06 AM
1

Leaving moral considerations aside, If its a one night stand and she is dtf, there are no "practical" problems.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:54 PM
2

Here is an effective way name calling can be used: "Are you my sweet baby?" Whispered into ear after dropping a hot load in her pussy and she is grasping for air from getting royally fucked. Every time you call them 'my sweet baby' (use whatever term of endearment you want,) their mind will drift right back to that special moment in time.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:07 PM
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At the time I took it as, any guy would have to have a sense of humor to put up with these chicks' bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:05 AM
4

Re-posted from an earlier thread. Back in the day, I was taking a health class at a local community college. The topics of relationships was on the agenda. The question put forth to the class, "What traits and qualities are most important to you in a long term partner?" The top answer from the guys, Loving and Caring. The top answer from the girls, Sense of Humor. Most common remark from the girls on the top answer from the boys, "So you're a mommy's boy."
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:03 PM
3

We hadn't fucked in weeks Because you have been initiating and she is turning you down or because of covert contracting?
/r/askMRP11/07/16 05:13 PM
1

Sexual harassment in the workplace has become a hot button of serious consequences. If an employee goes to a manager with a complaint, he is obligated to respond and deal. Imho, it goes beyond rp/bp because you are talking about your livelihood not some dating scenario. Best course of action; sincere apology, keep all further interactions polite and professional.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:56 PM
2

she's at that horny ovulation time, yet she denied me = loss of attraction. In other words, she's looking for a better sperm donator.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 11:50 AM
1

Because infidelity posts in r/relationships will give the op one option, divorce. At least here he will get some direction to properly fix himself while he goes through the divorce.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 03:24 AM
3

“A woman’s test in life is a material. A man’s test in life is a woman. Men have nice cars--not because they like nice cars, but because they know women like nice cars.” – Dave Chappelle Expensive cars attract expensive girlfriends.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:11 PM
2

At first it was gratitude but it didn't take long to turn into entitlement. Isn't there a rule about "what have you done for me lately?" Meaning anything you do for your SO has a limited (nanoseconds) period of positive effect?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:02 PM
1

she thought I'd "be opposed to it and we'd get in a big fight and break up," so my agreement to it kind of shocked her. And this is where things nose-dived. You made the "commitment," so she no longer has to "worry" about keeping you around, you instantly become less of a challenge and attractive. she hasn't broke up with me yet You are on the hook, until something better comes along. I'm dreading the text saying she wants a break. Why wait, get out now.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 04:17 PM
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She's having an EA with some dude from the internet Until this stops, you are history. She still expects me to be there for her, financially and emotionally, Look up The Healing Heart - The 180; read, understand, internalize, and implement. Today my plan is to stay away all day You need a better plan, like hire a lawyer to start the separation/divorce process. This will get her off her ass and commit to you or getting the fuck out of the marriage. Either way is better than sitting on the fence w…
/r/askMRP02/07/16 07:21 PM
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women love drama Women love emotions, it is what drives them. Drama induces emotions. The more intense the drama, the more intense the emotions, the more intense the emotions, the deeper the love. Also known as chick crack. Their logic is different, while still effective. Chick logic. Debatable how effective it is in dealing with reality. Although, it is as effective as the effected allow it. http://www.girlschase.com/content/chick-logic-explained-why-she-doesn-t-think-you-do
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:18 PM
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she started getting off with some other guy Sign of no respect and lack of integrity. Ignore her and start gaming other chicks at the club. If you find one to go home with, great. Before you leave, let your "date" know you are leaving and she is on her own. If you can do this with a chick on your arm, even better. Delete her number.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 12:25 PM
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They generate their own happiness My dad used to tell me, "It's all what you make it."
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 11:40 PM
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yeah
/r/askMRP25/09/15 02:52 PM
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I love her for her, but it is never enough. And it never will be. This shit test, along with the recoiling from touch, is due to fundamental lack of attraction. If you haven't already, read the Course Prerequisites on marriedredpill: The Married Man Sex Life Primer No More Mr Nice Guy Learn, understand, and implement Covert Contracts and Outcome Independence.
/r/askMRP25/09/15 12:18 PM
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With my girl, I throw stuff like that around all the time but she know's I'm just teasing her You can get away with this IF your girl has good (high) self esteem. If your girl has low self esteem, as the OP's ex girl probably does, he gets the response he gets.
/r/askMRP16/09/15 02:44 PM
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Back in the day, I was taking a health class at a local community college. The topics of relationships was on the agenda. The question put forth to the class, "What traits and qualities are most important to you in a long term partner?" The top answer from the guys, Loving and Caring. The top answer from the girls, Sense of Humor. Most common remark from the girls on the top answer from the boys, "So you're a mommy's boy."
/r/askMRP16/09/15 02:33 PM
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had two months of awesome honeymoon-phase sex, Guess the honeymoon didn't last long. EDIT this is typical of freaks, check out "Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man." END EDIT Constantly interrupts, talks over me, raises her voice to a shriek when angered, uses broken record and fogging techniques when I'm trying to make a point or assert myself. She has zero respect for you. Our fights have gotten worse and worse, and yet we still want to make it work. Why? I don't want to put up w…
/r/askMRP15/09/15 07:06 PM
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The beauty of red pill theory/practice in having this knowledge/understanding/practice (self-improvement) before/during you're married/marriage is; if you divorce, your situation is more like shifting gears to a different living arraignment (owning your shit) and you can avoid all the Phases you and other unaware guys go through and enjoy all your lessens learned that much faster.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:22 PM
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they are not operating from a Red Pill masculine primary frame. Just to clarify (thick headed, not argumentative,) what difference does it make? Also, my first introduction to RP theory was The Married Man Sex Life website.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:48 PM
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Take a look at The Art of the Apology on the Wild Man Project website.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:26 PM
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Watching girls masturbate is boring as fuck. They look absolutely retarded. Unless you are in bed with them, with cock in her mouth or at the ready to jump in or both.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:03 PM
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We used to say, you never truly know a chick until you strip her down and throw her in the shower.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:59 PM
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Apologies, wasn;t implying anything, just suggestions if you had any suspecions.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 05:56 PM
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I tried initiating how I used to but that doesn't work. And it won;t until her attraction level increases. When you are mapping, sex come last.
/r/askMRP09/09/15 05:53 PM
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if your view of her is changing. This is the most likely source of the test, which could be considered more a comfort test than a shit test.
/r/askMRP09/09/15 05:46 PM
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My wife has no concept of time or how long things take to do. The worst was when I am doing some project around the house, she says she has to go do whatever, so I stop, clean up and take over watching the kids. An hour later and she hasn't left yet. I learned (real fast) not to stop what I am doing until I actually see her pulling out of the driveway. Unless you suspect she is doing more than shopping or whatever she is telling she is doing, then deal with it. You can verify her 'shopping/erran…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 05:37 PM
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"I never think about it". Translation: "I have NO attraction to you. We have discussed this and I've asked if it's anything I can do/change and she insists its not me. Two things; talking hurts more than helps and she is lying. How do I save my marriage The Married Man Sex Life No More Mr Nice Guy The Sex God Method plus whatever else is required reading on the side bar
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 12:10 PM
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"Yes sir, no sir." "I do not consent to a search." "Am I free to leave." "I want to speak with an attorney." http://www.browarddefender.org/page3.html http://www.nea.org/assets/docs/9668968d393e39bbe7_z4m6bnbv8.pdf http://www.lycaeum.org/~sputnik/War/whatcops.html
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:05 PM
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I agree with this. It really depends on the chick, as the spectrum of (behavior, goals, desires, attributes, morals, integrity, loyalty, manners, etc.) whatever your measurable qualities are in a chick is spread evenly across college and non-college educated chicks. In other words, for a successful LTR, it doesn't really matter if a chick has a college degree or not.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:33 PM
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My first introduction to redpill theory was on the married man sex life website. I bought the Primer and reading through it, found that basically it is "game" theory modified and applied to married life. Way before this I was a member of mASF which kind of fell apart and most of the guys there formed puazone with a dude known as blackdragon put up the knowledge and money to get it started. It was on mASF that I first learned about ladder theory and the website linked on this post was the best il…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 12:32 PM
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You keep projecting. What's this projecting shit, I am stating my honest opinion. some win/lose chart It is a truth table based on two outcomes and the type of person that drives the outcome. It doesn't matter what your opinion is, opinions don't change definitions. And that is your opinion. alpha al·pha [al-fuh] adjective 8. a. (of an animal) having the highest rank in a dominance hierarchy: the alpha female of an elephant pack. b. being the most dominant, powerful, or assertive person in a par…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:44 PM
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It's the group leader, nothing more nothing less. Disagree, one can have alpha qualities without being "the leader." EDIT: On the flip side, one can be a leader without having any alpha qualities. I really don't give a fuck what a pack of wolves do in the wild. putting words in my mouth. Apologies, did not intend to put words in your mouth. Just attempting to expand the conversation. You're doing nothing but projecting your own morals on the concept of alpha. Everyone has an opinion, I expressed…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:08 PM
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I am describing what being alpha means to me. If I understand correctly, you are saying that an alpha is neither good, evil, lawful, chaotic, but true neutral? it's harder to work on the side of light Agreed, it seems ever increasingly difficult to achieve the win-win. However an alpha should always strive for the best outcome where everyone wins. A leader can manifest dark or light sides of leadership By your observation that destruction is easier than creation, a dark leader is not alpha, sinc…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:57 PM
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My two cents: An alpha knows what his passions in life are An alpha has a mission in life An alpha has a code he abides by An alpha is always looking for the win-win situation An alpha is easy going An alpha is always improving himself: socially, intellectually, physically, financially An alpha is a take charge guy, when the situation requires it An alpha cares about his fellow man/woman and is always willing to lend a hand when he can (goes under the win-win category) An alpha does not let othe…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:46 PM
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For what its worth, here is a response to one of my posts that originally made reference to Alpha Beta male behavior. No redpill references at all. (Note: I do not consider Alpha-Beta terms to be the sole propriety of Redpill theory as the terms have been familiar to me many years before I heard of "redpill.") Anyways... from Azure_phantom via /r/relationships/ sent 4 days ago show parent You know, I'd almost feel sorry for you delusional sad sacks if you weren't so fucking crazy. I'm sorry you …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:40 PM
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HR is the fucking cancer of any company. Our company got rid of the HR department in lieu of a phone tree/call center that is infinitely useless for any real information pertaining to our benefits. But then again, the company got rid of most of our benefits, so I guess its a moot point.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:49 PM
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Repealing Glass–Steagall This was the last string untied that led to the most recent financial unraveling. There is more to come. Fuck Ayn Rand.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:09 AM
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Politicians make the laws that effect how business operates. In the 80's when the "Reagan Revolution" was in full swing with "trickle down" economics and reduced government oversight and regulations, the corporations got what they wanted. Quote from Ron Raygun, "We will get the government off the backs of the people." Translation, "We are going to let big business do whatever they want." The single most damaging "monetary policy" enacted in that time was reduction of the Capital Gains Tax. 1981,…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:55 PM
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youtube.com/watch?v=70eU840lc38
/r/seduction18/06/14 01:31 PM
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Film makers: Stanley Kubrick, Sam Peckinpah, Orson Wells, Woody Allen, Martin Scorsese, Alfred Hitchcock. Actors: Cary Grant, Clint Eastwood, Sean Connery, Humphrey Bogart Movies: Go to the AFI and look at their Top Ten Lists. Can't go wrong with any of them. Authors: Kurt Vonnegut, Ken Kesey, Tom Wolf, Edgar Allen Poe, Richard Brautigan, Carlos Castaneda. TV: The Wire, The Sopranos, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Battlestar Galactica, The Twilight Zone, The X Files, The Prisoner, Max Headroom. …
/r/seduction18/06/14 01:23 PM
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first feminized generation did a terrible job preparing us for the future. Hold on there pal. I am on the tale end of the boomer gen and the only thing my parents provided me was a semi stable environment, i.e roof over my head, food on the table, and a kick in the ass to get a job. As far as any "preparation" for a fast paced, ever changing world that would kick you in the teeth when ever you fucked up, forgetaboutit. I got no material advice for either parent, or teacher on how to navigate the…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 12:17 PM
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Entirely different context. I was referring to chicks in exclusive/committed/monogamous relationships, as the majority are. You are an exception (always exceptions to the general rules) and if you can make it work, good on you.
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:20 PM
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Does you bf know and accept this behavior from you? I know I wouldn't.
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:14 PM
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This is correct. Never ask/imply about boyfriends. It is on the chick to bring up any boyfriend she may have. It is a good way to gauge how invested she is in her current boyfriend. Brings him up right away, fully invested. Doesn't bring him up at all, not very invested.
/r/seduction11/06/14 03:02 PM
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Reminds me of a pua's, called manic high, concept of Rocks and Gold. Let me tell you about rocks and gold. I often tell this story to chicks when they try to give me bullshit about 'being friends' and wanting to go out to dinners et.al. before agreeing to be my GF/put out sex. It says alot about how guys (and ladies) think, and why they have so much trouble to understand each other. It should answer your question about what guys think.. Men and women both appreciate things that are valuable. Dia…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:55 AM
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MMSLP is an excellent resource for keeping attraction (i.e. being the man your chick wants to stay with/fuck/have an affair with.)
/r/seduction09/06/14 03:31 PM
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Suggest reading: "The System" by Doc Love. Available for viewing on Scribd.com. The Doc also has a weekly column on Askmen.com. "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. Available as a PDF on 7chan.org. "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. Available as a PDF on smilyanov.net "The Married Man Sex Life Primer" by Athol Kay.
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:35 PM
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So, what's the difference between this guy and the others? Well, this guy has a medical degree from Harvard and comes from a very wealthy family. Ding, ding, ding, we.have.a.winner!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 02:37 PM
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I always thought that a chick will put a guy on a pedestal because it then validates/increases their status with the ability to "land" a quality guy. Even if it is all in her mind.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:45 AM
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Using the phone as a means to setup a meet is a Doc Love edict. You want person to person interaction so you can judge her body language, have eye contact, and get physical. This is the only way you can get to know these chicks, develop any kind of attraction, and gauge if these chicks are worth any long term commitment. Besides texting so damn much does not present the chick with enough challenge. In other words, you are ALWAYS available and that is NEVER a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:32 AM
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"sex defenses" = Anti-Slut Defense. Chicks like sex, they just don't want to be viewed by their peers and social networks as "sluts." Societal pressure on chicks who like sex (a lot) is tough on them, so they invent (hamster) all these meaningless defenses to alleviate their own guilt for enjoying sex. mytwocents.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:54 PM
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Dear Penthouse Forum,
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:35 AM
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Agreed, anytime I mention MMSLP or AK, I get furiously downvoted by the r/relationship blue meanies.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:18 PM
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In typical r/relationships response, the only advice that would help this beta schlub is downvoted. ** [-] sting129 0 Points 20:03:44, 28 April google Athol Kay and "Married Man Sex Life Primer"**
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:15 PM
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"the fact that I know that he's always there for me." This is her key phrase, meaning "he is my bitch." Your mate can look forward to a married life of reduced sex, screaming kids, and a nagging, cheating wife. Please give your mate The Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:55 PM
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I remember swimming in the gulf of mexico in march. The water was 40 degF and getting out was an instant rush of vitality, inspiration, and had that "I don't give a fuck about anything," because I just survived freezing my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 06:15 PM
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*comment reply UPDATE: How can I [30m] deal with the worst kind of jealousy with my girlfriend [25f]? :( from Afronaut0 via /r/relationships/ sent 1 day ago show parent* Mention those books on reddit, and you get downvoted, even though all the advice that is upvoted in this thread can be found in those books. The above was a response I received after massive downvoting for suggesting the OP read the following; "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover "The System" by Doc Love (he also has a column…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 11:28 PM
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http://marriedmansexlife.com/?s=dealing+with+duty+sex Generally, refusing sex is viewed a a dlv. In my experience, it is true.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:28 PM
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Here are the signs: She wants to do things for you and becomes happy when she satisfies you (by coooking, cleaning, spending money, sex, assisting your studies/work/business etc.) A good indicator and definitely a way to increase her "investment" in you. Small changes, and small negative or critical comments from you makes her very anxious about the state of the relationship, and doubting and self-blaming. Not sure how I feel about this and not sure it will increase attraction over the long haul…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:14 PM
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women all tend to be roughly identical in bed. IME, women are not the same in bed. Yeah they all have tits, pussy, and ass, but they vary as much as anything else about them. Its your job to unlock that inner slut.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:01 PM
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this girl informed me concurrently that 'she was not "this kind of girl"' and that she had 'made a mistake having sex with some guy during spring break on a one night stand'. She continued on that she would leave if I wanted her too.... She was putting the decision to fuck on you. I believe that if you would have kept cool, let her stay in your bed, you would have fucked her. Look up anti slut defense.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 01:31 PM
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She told me she couldn't believe I would betray her like that. Fucking amazing. I was only able to get over it by switching from love to hate. If it works for you , then good. Do what you have to to keep upright and moving forward. However, in most of my experience, Love and hate are two sides of the same coin - you still care. Once you stop caring then you are truly free. my memory of her also retroactively changed for the worse This is were you question everything about her and mentally wrestl…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:25 PM
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It is referred to as "affair fog" that the cheater gets from the dopamine addiction of strange cock. This fog clouds the mind, creates a fantasy world where the wife and her affair partner are forever in love in the land of everything is right, causes history to be rewritten where the husband was never the one, and eventually the husband (once he starts to get a clue) is viewed as the bad guy for interfering with her dopamine injections. It is insidious and as tough to deal with as any physical …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:25 PM
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It's all about who is giving the attention.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 02:26 PM
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I remember way back in kindergarten, the classroom had a large set of wooden building blocks. Us guys would use the longer pieces as rifles and run around the room at play time "shooting" each other among other sundry behavior. FWIW, it was one of the more memorable activities I have of my introduction to public school.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:19 PM
2

Nag, nag, nag!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 02:51 PM
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I think you did the right thing. Bonnie was setting up Barry to be her provider/support beta guy while she fucked whatever lover alpha guy came along. It would only get worse if they had married. Edit, Bonnie is pissed at you for fucking up her potential meal ticket.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:08 PM
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This is my take. Marissa is looking for the beta provider type who would be willing to wait for her to make the decision to have sex. In other words if she can't control him, she won't have him. My rule based on experience: If a chick is not interested in having sex with me, she is definitely not interested in a relationship with me.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 08:34 PM
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When you are setting up a date, you should have the date, time, and place already in mind. This way you demonstrate confidence and control, i.e. you know what you want and what you are doing to get it or as you put it "tight game." If the date and/or time is a conflict with her, she should give a counter offer for date/time. If the date you have in mind is flexible, then you can except her counter. If the date is a specific event that the date/time is not negotiable, then tell her sorry she can'…
/r/seduction09/12/13 02:57 PM
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A man with confidence only has to say a simple, "Thank you." Then change the subject.
/r/seduction09/12/13 02:47 PM
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Agreed on the format and some of the stuff is dated, but his take on dealing with chicks is solid.
/r/seduction06/12/13 01:55 AM
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My opinion is that you only call a chick for the expressed purpose of setting up a meet/date. Short and sweet. Leave the game playing for live one on one interaction. Text game = not my thing.
/r/seduction05/12/13 05:08 PM
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cutting off deadweight Right attitude, wrong approach. by cutting them off and making it obvious it's over, Just stop contacting them. If there is any interest, they will notice and ping you. Maybe my assessment of the situation isn't correct, Doesn't matter what your assessment is, they flaked, chicks with interest don't. I don't like leaving a loose end and thinking about a girl for weeks The closure is all on your end. In your mind you've ended it, but the door always remains open. In the mea…
/r/seduction05/12/13 05:01 PM
1

I have always understood that if a chick looks down, she is attracted. If she looks away, in another direction, then she is not attracted.
/r/seduction11/05/13 01:11 PM
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the eyes are the window to your soul
/r/seduction11/05/13 01:08 PM
1

IMHO, none. In order to find a girlfriend, you need to pick up chicks. The more chicks you pick up, the better you become at screening chicks for the one(s) you find suitable for you and what you want out of a girlfriend.
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:20 PM
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you just don't give a fuck about sex. My opinion is you give a fuck about sex, (motivation) you just don't give a fuck if you have sex with any particular chick (outcome independent.) There is a subtle difference.
/r/seduction30/11/12 10:24 PM
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I know this is going to be deemed unhelpful, but I can't help but think this is an example of "owning my situation." One time my SO was being particularly insecure and needy. She was planning on visiting relatives out of state for a few days, leaving me with the kids. She asked what are you going to do while I'm gone? The tone had a somewhat accusatory hint to it, that I would be up to no good while she was away. My nonchalant reply was, "Well, I figure I would load up the kids in the station wa…
/r/seduction09/08/12 05:37 PM
1

Maybe I should have added to say with a devilish smile. Intent is to be playful, give a compliment, indicate an interest, and solicit relationship status. Giving off crazy (wild) vibes is not necessarily a bad thing. IME, chicks dig crazy (wild) vibes. Unless you mean crazy = psycho.
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:25 PM
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Never ask. Why? Because you should not care. Why? Because it is on the chick to let you know if she has a bf. You will tell how vested (interest level, commitment, loyalty, integrity) she is by how long it takes to mention her bf. Loyal chicks will tell you straight up and soon whether they have a bf. If you really care whether she has a bf or not (based on you don't want to deal with attached chicks) then straight up ask, "So why would your bf let such an awesome girl like you out on her own?"
/r/seduction06/08/12 02:28 PM
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Art gallery, antique shop, pet shop. You are "looking for something" and invite her to come alone.
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:54 PM
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Unfortunately in America, you are an extension of your car. I knew a guy who drove a beater car for various reasons; no car payments, cheap on gas, dependable, and mostly he never really cared and viewed it as just transportation. He went on a date with some chick and when they got to the restaurant and pulled into a space near the front door. She wanted him to park in the back lot. She made some lame excuse why, can't remember. But it was clear she was embarrassed to be seen getting out of his …
/r/seduction26/07/12 01:18 PM
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The sign of a high esteem person is to say thanks (or thank you) to compliments. Then change the subject. Its that simple.
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:58 PM
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The Australians call it a 'walkabout.' In the sixties and seventies, it was called 'hitchhiking across America.'
/r/seduction25/07/12 01:44 PM
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The real takeaway I meant to emphasize here is the perceived advantage of being in a relationship (i.e. the not giving a shit frame) and how that can be translated to game. This is a major key to success with chicks. Outcome independence and abundance mentality are attributes that drive supreme confidence which chicks pick up on quickly. Chicks ASD shields are lowered opening the door to fun interactions the way they are supposed to be.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:17 PM
1

Never be afraid of pussy. In fact, your attitude should be that you OWN that pussy. It is yours to finger, fuck, and eat.
/r/seduction21/06/12 10:25 PM
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You have a limiting belief that you can't get with girls who you think are in a better state than you. Get rid of that. I have known guys who are downright deadbeats (no job, education, direction, looks, whatever) yet snag some of the hottest chicks around. Get your shit together by: Find something you are passionate about, Chase it. Have a direction, ie mission. (doesn't have to a long term, life defining goal, just something that will make you a better person. Follow it. Meet as many chicks as…
/r/seduction21/06/12 10:01 PM
2

Correct, it defuses their anti-slut defense (ASD.)
/r/seduction19/06/12 03:14 PM
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IMHO and IMExperience, if I don;t show some interest in the chick I am dealing with, then she will lose interest. The point of 'don't let her know you want her' I think only extends to 'don't let her know that the only reason you are showing any interest is that you only want to fuck her.' Of course you want to fuck her, but you have to show that you could care less if you fuck her or not. It is part of the "outcome independence" mindset. She wants to know that you see her as more than a fuck. O…
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:00 PM
1

This is the correct approach and a good way to screen her attraction/interest level.
/r/seduction12/06/12 01:42 PM
1

Chicks bond through sharing of intimate details/stories. Guys bond through shared experiences.
/r/seduction12/06/12 12:17 PM
1

Pandora's Box system by Vin DiCarlo is a pretty interesting concept wrt relationships and understanding chicks behaviors and agendas. (they all have em) It helped me understand (and deal with) my chicks behaviors and motivations.
/r/seduction12/06/12 12:15 PM
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This is correct. Opening up to a chick, which is her intent to get you to do, spells absolute disaster for attraction.
/r/seduction12/06/12 12:12 PM
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Mistyped, meant 6 months.
/r/seduction11/06/12 02:15 PM
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This will sound absolutely ridiculous, but read aloud Mother Goose Nursery Rhymes. I read these to my 18 mo. daughter every day for 6 months. Not only did I improve my speaking ability, my daughters enunciation once she started speaking, was remarkable. Fixed.
/r/seduction11/06/12 11:18 AM
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There is a ton of material out there all at varying prices and rates of success and not always matched up. A lot of it is repetitive. For my money DeAngelo is one of the best and a lot of guys I know who used his material (mind set) were successful with it. Doc Love comes off as kind of dated, but his philosophy is pretty close to dead on if you are looking for short term success and long term relationships. It is a great resource for screening chicks out. The other books are fascinating reads o…
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:26 PM
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Read "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida, "The System" by Doc Love and almost anything by David DeAngelo such as "Double Your Dating." Other good reads are "Sperm Wars" by Robin Baker and "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley.
/r/seduction05/06/12 03:44 PM
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Chicks will not consider you for a long term romantic/physical relationship until they are willing to fuck you. IME, the sooner you get to that point the better.
/r/seduction05/06/12 03:41 PM
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