Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvm

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-08-19T17:42:24+00:00

Its the age gap for me.🤢🤢🤢🤢

Sensitive-Sun-3591 · 2021-08-19T18:20:03+00:00

My (18f) boyfriend (34m) 🚩🚩🚩

MissouriBlue · 2021-08-19T18:09:23+00:00

I see Love Bombing and Age Gap. And Image Illusion, by presenting them as married in public.

Narcissist.

Run. Block. Delete.

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2021-08-19T19:12:42+00:00

I am so glad I found FDS when I was 17. Jesus Christ.

Delicious-Scholar · 2021-08-19T17:57:02+00:00

I couldn’t finish after the first sentence…”me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months…” you mean after you turned 18?!

AnonymousRooster · 2021-08-19T18:23:19+00:00

Omg that age gap!!! My boyfriend is the same age as him and keeps accidentally calling people in their young 20s at work "kids" because that age gap!!!

shockingupdate · 2021-08-19T17:47:39+00:00

Honestly, these age gaps always prove to me that LVM date whomever they can get instead of someone they actually like. In your thirties, what common ground are you finding with a teenager? Or does the attraction begin and end at how close to legal she is 🤔

I’m glad she’s getting at least some good advice in the comments, although “dump him” would be better

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-08-19T19:02:17+00:00

But M’Lady, you should HURRY and marry him ASAP because the older he gets, the more young women will want him! And once you hit 20, you’ll be washed up! /s

Jandi18 · 2021-08-19T19:30:32+00:00

This is gross! Men in their 30’s won’t even hang out with 18 year old boys because they claim they are childish. So why date an 18 year old girl? Oh wait they are using these barely aged teenagers for their body! It’s so fucking disgusting.

This man is love bombing her to trap her because none of his aged mates want him. He will get her pregnant and marry her quickly and use her for free child care. I hope this poor girl wakes up.

dancedancedance7 · 2021-08-19T19:04:36+00:00

I couldn't see 18yo as viable dating candidates past my hs/college years... they're actual children. You can't have something in common with a person half your age.

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-08-19T19:17:31+00:00

So I take it her birthday was in April 🤢

icydiceydevil · 2021-08-19T18:35:34+00:00

instant gap gag reflex 🤢

girl there's a reason why his behavior is confusing you.. trust your instincts

modernmedusaa · 2021-08-19T19:43:18+00:00

Pedophile, where are the parents???

Hot_coffee_and_Rain · 2021-08-19T17:35:23+00:00

He’s almost twice her age… what a freak. I don’t know how older men can actually be interested in someone so much more younger than them..weird.

starfighter07 · 2021-08-19T18:22:36+00:00

Wtf girl wake up, live your life, don't settle for old scrotes like that !!!!!!

NotYourCirce · 2021-08-19T21:30:13+00:00

Anyone else bothered by couples who celebrate monthly anniversaries? They’re supposed to be celebrated yearly. Seems insidious to me, like forcing attachment

ExistentialJelly · 2021-08-20T01:58:06+00:00

I was 13 when my sister said, "If older guys flirt with you, don't get flattered or think you're mature. Ask what the hell is so wrong with them women their age won't touch them and they have to creep on young girls."

It really stuck with me. Thank you big sis!!!

mrose1491 · 2021-08-19T22:32:29+00:00

What the hell is up with these age gap posts? Seriously I just commented on one where OP is 20 and her bf is 35. God men like this are disgusting

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-08-19T18:39:24+00:00

Did you reach out to her?

notroyaltyyet · 2021-08-19T22:53:06+00:00

As soon as I saw the marriage bit I thought, he's got kids and he needs someone to look after them.... lo and behold a couple paragraphs later - he has 2 kids. It's the only reason men push for marriage as soon as they meet someone, god forbid they're left alone with their own children once a month after the divorce.

Candissimo215 · 2021-08-19T19:05:07+00:00

He honestly might be a sex trafficker and pimp her out to his friends that shit is so suspicious to me esp bc he’s 30+ and a little too eager to trap her. Gives me trafficking vibes

pinkcorolla · 2021-08-20T05:54:16+00:00

I’m literally so thankful that I found FDS when I was 19 years old and in a relationship with a 26 year old groomer. It truly opened my eyes and I began acknowledging the red flags and noping the fuck out of there.

emmgdac · 2021-08-20T02:09:40+00:00

I mean is she surprised? Hes fucking 34 years old, even ignoring the fact that this is absolutely manipulation and grooming just for a second- at 34 many couples are already married in a house with children. That's a big reason why dating older people is complicated. But in this specific situation it's the closest thing to rape the law allows because "shes an adult now".

lolmemberberries · 2021-08-20T01:55:25+00:00

She's eighteen! She just entered her adult life and has a world of discovery ahead of her. She needs to run in the opposite direction of this predator.

sweetpsychosiss · 2021-08-20T11:16:19+00:00

Man wants to tie down the young one before she gets away, eek, he certainly sounds like a love bombing narcissist. So many red flags in this post.

nymira-1 · 2021-08-20T03:48:56+00:00

It’s getting depressing in here lately good god

Novemberinthechair · 2021-08-19T21:43:07+00:00

I can't....

swaylyn · 2021-08-20T03:52:26+00:00

Poor girl in the post is soo young I hope she gets away from this predator swiftly & safety

I knew a guy who was 31 and talking to a 23yo saying how he really liked her and felt they had a LOT in common.

Whew I was DISTURBED but NOT surprised

Same dude who LOVEs to reminisce about his college days or his high school athletic years.

I imagine what they had in common was immaturity. However he was also interested in a woman his own age because she had a “good job” but the fact that she didn’t seem interested in compromising and wanted things her way OR she has her own home and wasn’t trying to have him over “troubled him” and had him dying the 23yo more.

Dude is 33 now… nice liar so he can get a woman… keeping her is another story. But I predict he’ll either baby trap someone or continue to gravitate towards uncomfortable young women… depending on what his bros are doing and will praise him for

Ok_Passenger_5717 · 2021-08-20T05:41:31+00:00

The age gap, ew! Also, how can she not realise he is looking for a free maid/nanny/cook?

AnniaT · 2021-08-20T08:57:25+00:00

Lovebombing to get her to be bangmaid and mommy his children plus try to hurt the ex wife. These pedos with ex wives and children know exactly what they're doing.

MythicalDisneyBitch · 2021-08-20T10:55:40+00:00

Oh honey, if only I'd seen this screenshot 5 years ago 😂

My 4yo daughter is the love of my life & my best friend but this girl is literally me five years ago with my daughters father.

FirePreferred_theOG · 2021-08-20T14:39:44+00:00

i'm not saving anybody from anything anymore. i'll be a loving guide, voice of reason, and tough love but that's it. if you want to dig yourself into a hell hole i'm no longer going in after you because i've finally learned that they'll pull me down there with them and not help me out when i lift them up out of it. i choose me.

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Title	Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvm
Author	Karolin99_Ger
Upvotes	1148
Comments	76
Date	August 19, 2021 5:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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