Queens, queens, queens…. Buckle up for story time. Against my better judgment, I paid the $39 for Match because a friend of a friend told me they know two couples who met on Match and recently got engaged. So I felt inspired. I match with this guy, let’s call him Z. Graduate degree, great job with a well known company in our area. His profile says he’s 5’8 (more on that later). We text briefly and he asks me to dinner Sunday night. Now ladies, I am petite. I’m 5’2. The night we went out I wore wedges which made me 5’5 at best. When I tell you I was eye level with him that was no exaggeration. Now I don’t mind a short guy. Just don’t LIE. Not to mention that his hands were smaller than mine. We had plans to get dinner- there was a wait so we go to a bar next door. Throughout the course of the night he puts himself that not only does he go to strip clubs “with the boys”, he also regularly watches porn. I calmly questioned why if he was in a committed relationship he would need to do either of those things, to which he says “it’s normal”. Okay. So we go on with the conversation but I make a mental note of his comments. He walks me to my car and we do a hug, same hug I would give a cousin- zero attraction. Two days later he texts me to ask if I want to go out again. I respond “I’m not interested in a second date but I wish you well”. Within 8 minutes I get 4 text messages. “I thought we vibed- can I ask why?” And “????” And “don’t even have the balls to explain why. Go figure”. I should have blocked him after the date. Insecure, porn sick scrote. Will be blocking him and deleting match. Literally every interaction I have with men is disappointing.