One of the Red Pill maxims beyond the claim of "she can't love you" (which I made a thread about the other day) is the idea that you can't be vulnerable with a woman. They say and preach to not dump your problems onto a woman. If she says wants something, like a purse as a gift, and you don't have the cash you don't admit you have the cash and will have to save for it. Instead you tell her something like,"earn it". They argue that when you're vulnerable with a woman and show her you have a problem that they will leave you or be turned off.

Frankly, I found this argument sensible because it was my experience. When I reached out to female friends about my struggles they'd leave me on read and stop replying or say,"I can't deal with this and promise they'll get back to me." It confirmed to me that men should always be strong and keep our emotions to ourselves. My experience is that women say they want men to express ourselves but when we are vulnerable with women it's treated with disgust. My conclusion was that women make the men they complain about. No man ever told me I was a pussy for having emotions. It was the way women reacted to me not being masculine 24/7.

Now I know better and know there are some women that aren't absolutely repulsed by men that display a shred of humanity but I'm still slightly red pilled and old habits die hard.

Ladies, what are your thoughts on this and how can men do better and learn to trust you after multiple bad experiences expressing themselves?