Grown ass 30+ year old men taking highschool/college girls way too seriously

lansburysoda · 2021-11-14T19:15:41+00:00

Lots of young women see how these “red pill” men talk about women 25+ and they’ve decided that they want nothing to do with those men. Source: I am that younger woman

thewetdog_ · 2021-11-14T18:02:45+00:00

Their target audience who buys their content is probably loser insecure young men vulnerable to manipulation and hate indoctrination. Well-adjusted normal, healthy 30soemthing men aren’t the customers of these guys.

Defiant_Marsupial123 · 2021-11-14T18:30:08+00:00

Men do not see themselves as the age they are.

I know homeless men who try to get with younger women, and openly talk about not being willing to date women their own age.

Part of it is not wanting an older female body to touch and look at, but there's there's a psychological aspect to it as well. Men like this DO NOT SEE THEMSELVES as the age they are. Men even dream about being in their prime - I know 35 year old men who are 20 still in their dreams.

Women don't do this. We are aware of ourselves and the physical plane in a way that men are not. Many grown men think they are still precious little boys. That's why they all write manifestos about their lives. They think they're kids who are all vying for attention from the mom in the room.

If they dated their own age, then they'd have to face the fact that they're old. So they'll suck the ever-living soul out of a younger woman to avoid the inevitable.

Pity them.

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-14T18:59:41+00:00

I’m “butthurt” over college boys…but for different reasons…usually because of frats and stupid stuff. Nothing is worse than a cringy 50 year old dude criticizing a near child.

butteryrum · 2021-11-14T19:20:24+00:00

These men are hoping to shame these girls into lowering their standards is what it sounds like to me.

this is made very clear when 50-year-old men have very sexually explicit conversations with 14-year-old girls.

Those men are basically just pedophiles but they like em a litttttttttle tiny bit older.

When the old men who abuse young women can't do it anymore because young women no longer find their 40+ self attractive because girls are 20 and can get a hot ass 25 year old....you know, those old men get really bitter about it.

UnapologeticWife · 2021-11-14T18:39:25+00:00

They really think they can groom these young women into accepting low standards. Or as they see it ‘set them straight’ about men thus making them accessible to them. 🤷‍♂️ Just more predatory behavior.

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-11-14T18:29:03+00:00

30-40 years ago a 35 year old guy, maybe especially one with trad patriachal values, might see a teen girl as daughter-aged and be glad she had prohibitively high standards. I'm not even saying this was a great thing since trad dads saw daughters as property and didn't want any man coming near them. But it's better than today's elderly bachelors critiquing teen girl behavior through the lens of dating material.

pukubr · 2021-11-14T18:19:18+00:00

These men have literally nothing going on in their lives that they're still hung up over teenage strangers who will never have sex with them. Actually can we make that a saying? Just comment under the manosphere videos, "she's never gonna have sex with you anyway, why do you care?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

frostedgemstone · 2021-11-14T18:21:54+00:00

It’s sooo weird. Like calm down grandpa, I promise she wasn’t even thinking of men your age when she made those videos

asocialsocialite · 2021-11-14T18:56:02+00:00

It easy - they know that they're the ones that young women won't pick, and because those young twenty-somethings have a lot of men in their age group that are much better for them, they hate that those young women have that choice.

I mean, all things considered, who is going to go for the balding, drooling man with the beer belly, lack of hygiene, and erectile dysfunction - especially when they don't make nearly the amount of money that they claim to young women that they do?

Young women having low standards benefits no one but predators.

cutiebranch · 2021-11-14T21:20:36+00:00

Yeah a 35 year old woman getting annoyed at the way worse shit 18 yo boys get up to is labeled a Karen and usually threatened with death.

europoor24 · 2021-11-14T19:10:24+00:00

it's threatening because these young girls might be out of their reach.

gollywollypod · 2021-11-14T23:08:07+00:00

Pathetic men will do everything except work on themselves lol. They would rather waste time harassing girls online than take a good look at themselves and realize their immature behavior is one of the many reasons why no sane women of any age would date them.

christmasforoutlaws · 2021-11-14T17:55:27+00:00

So many men don't mature past their teen years so I suppose through their eyes it's like interacting with their peers.

mandoa_sky · 2021-11-15T00:17:40+00:00

i'm finding men in general tend to be really bad at listening / respecting boundaries.

so many keep pushing for "sexy talk" even after you've mentioned that you don't like it.

Hummusforever · 2021-11-14T17:56:04+00:00

I feel like these kinds of men have previously had so much luck with naive young women. The idea that they're learning to have value for their self worth and are wise to the plays of men is probably really threatening to them.

Guys that date younger women want to be looked up to - they might run the risk of having to actually work on themselves if young girls these days are wise to their strategies.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-11-14T19:56:14+00:00

In a perhaps overly reductive but nonetheless cut-to-the-heart-of-it take, the answer for me is 2 things: Power, and Delusion.

katiekat0214 · 2021-11-14T18:02:09+00:00

Recent TikTok queen goddess said it the best: you don't have to grow as a human being if you're dating a 19 year old!

mashibeans · 2021-11-15T03:15:13+00:00

"How dare this child young enough to be my own, whom I'd totally flirt with if I could get away with it, even attempt to lightly poke my fragile male ego??!?"

That's all I hear, them going ballistic over their fragile male ego.

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-11-14T18:36:25+00:00

They're mad cause they know if they were to meet any of these young pretty girls IRL the girls would reject them instantly but in their own minds they're huge alpha masculine dudes whom every woman desires 🙄

throwtrappedinthis · 2021-11-14T18:02:59+00:00

Omgggg yesss. I had a marriage covenant (religious ceremony, not legal) with a guy that was almost 30 when I was 19 🤮 I was young and dumb and somehow realized the generation gap before he did! I think some guys just lack self awareness that they're not fresh out of college anymore but think they are because they still have the same friends from that time.

I guess eventually they realize they're the creepy old guy when they find out how big the generational gap is

NitzMitzTrix · 2021-11-15T01:47:27+00:00

Because they're LV and they know it.

Also, these girls sound like queens in the making.

OvarianSynthesizer · 2021-11-15T06:47:51+00:00

It predates TikTok.

When I was in my early 20s I dated a LVM in his mid 30s. He left me for a woman who had just turned 19.

Colour_riot · 2021-11-15T15:31:08+00:00

there are plenty of ugly ass men obsessively following teenage girls who are complete strangers (idk why they allow this but I guess validation?), negging them on anything they can see in the photos/ videos, out of some playground bully fantasy that she will miraculously want to sleep with them.

srsly scrote lurkers, even if you manage to lower her self esteem, she's still not going to sleep with someone as pathetic as you, it'll be an asshole but an asshole her age.

Careful-Visit-6775 · 2021-11-15T00:20:14+00:00

Studies show that there is strong correlation between exposure to explicit images and damage to parts of the brain that control higher level thinking like impulse control, analytical skills, emotional regulation etc. These are things that make humans different and more evolved compared to animals and child humans.

So while high speed internet porn is new these pornographic images are not new. Generations of men have been receiving significant damage to the frontal lobe for decades. In the last 1-2 decades it got worse.

This is why men are immature, they literally have been regressing to primitive animal/child like states due to severe frontal lobe damage. Neurologists know, and are not surprised given the last decades research on this. Spread the word. Make sure all women know and understand.

WhyComeToAStickyEnd · 2021-11-15T16:35:15+00:00

Because the delusional and misogynistic older (for me, 30+ are already older) NVM and LVMs are attracted to younger women whom they expect to be less wise, which is why they even watch them film/ rant their reactions in the first place. And then they felt being called out too. They take it seriously, and PERSONALLY. For them, it's like KNOWING MORE about how THEY HAVE NO CHANCES with the younger women. Or how their expectations did not come true.

Another thing is that throughout history, men are more entitled to just say whatever they want. So they do not fear retaliation as much as how women always have to be extra cautious of not getting ourselves be stuck in a situation involving angry men. Those girls posting their strikes aren't wise too because from my personal experiences, there ARE really some men who enjoy women being in distress and then intentionally approach them to cause more distress. It's like they're showcasing what is most hurtful for them to the scrotes online.

However, I'm just relieved that more younger women do not even bother about such men. The problems that younger men have been causing are enough for us to deal with already.

youcanloveyoutoo · 2021-11-15T00:44:27+00:00

How older men treat videos from younger women is going to be very telling about how they are as a person. Believe that.

supportivepistachio · 2021-11-15T04:07:28+00:00

They don't want naive women raising their standards. Fortunately, I am already noticing a change in gen z on Tiktok (I'm a millenial). Tons of comments to feminist material supporting other women and shitting on shitty men.

queeninprogress · 2021-11-17T09:01:24+00:00

Godddd I watched red pill/manosphere videos when I was about 17 and it fucked with my head so much. Glad I did watch it though because it made me realise how much these dudes legitimately hated us and ended up with me finding rsdical feminism <3

Title	Grown ass 30+ year old men taking highschool/college girls way too seriously
Author	nikkirosex3
Upvotes	932
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Date	November 14, 2021 5:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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