If an average man asks 100 women out on a date, how many of those women would say "yes" (and mean it)?

ohhhheyyyythrowawy · 2022-01-05T23:02:50+00:00

Probably 0-5 because I’m assuming the man is just walking up to random women and asking. There needs to be some sort of established connection there already. If you already know a girl, you get along well, flirt sometimes, she seems interested, then you ask and your chances go way up. Guys who try this “ask first” thing always end up disappointed and think women just hate them no matter how much they try. But a woman doesn’t want to go on a date with a random dude, she wants to go on a date with someone she’s already interested in.

daddysgotanew · 2022-01-06T01:30:00+00:00

Agree to a date? 10 or less

Actually show up on the date? 3-4

End up having sex or a relationship? 0-1

Pnakotico31 · 2022-01-06T00:20:28+00:00

Cold approach? 0. 1 maybe if he’s very lucky.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-01-05T22:40:11+00:00

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Feisty-Saturn · 2022-01-05T21:17:00+00:00

januaryphilosopher · 2022-01-05T22:38:13+00:00

If he actually knows them and they're also average, at least ten, probably more. For standard cold approaches (presumably hot women), maybe one if he's lucky.

IcarusKiki · 2022-01-06T00:09:25+00:00

depends on context. Women are extremely context dependent. Is it randomly on the bus? Probably none bc its sexual spam unless you are asking out wayy below your league bc the woman isnt probably in the mood to get chatted up on her morning commute to work. But after a chat at a bar? A lot higher chance of getting somewhere

hailsaitama · 2022-01-06T00:28:08+00:00

Depends on the country. In the US? 0-5 I’d guess. This may also be because they want a free meal from you 🤣

NarniaFox · 2022-01-06T05:30:23+00:00

Just yesterday u/ChibsFilipTelfordd and I were discussing who an average man is. So it's a 5'8 195lbs man making 35k. And I think that quite few women would agree to date him.

death_by_1000_cats · 2022-01-05T22:30:06+00:00

It depends. If he's just approaching random women on the street and asking for a date, it's very likely 0% will say yes.

Not really sure how to answer this because it depends on a lot of factors both within and outside of his control.

warramite · 2022-01-06T11:16:22+00:00

Maybe 2 of them would agree.. I have a 0% success rate with cold approaches

gimpgirl555 · 2022-01-05T22:35:41+00:00

If an average man asks 100 women out on a date, how many of those women would say "yes" (and mean it)?

Probably 0. Maybe 1 or 2, at best. Asking women out comes across as desperate.

What could he do to improve his chances?

Nothing. Women don't go for average men until they really need them. You have realistically wait until around 30 to get interest, and even then it's still the women's market.

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TomorrowsWar · 2022-01-05T21:32:10+00:00

An average number of women would intentionally go out with an average guy. To improve his odds from average, he would need to be above average in some way or ask an above average amount of people out.

For every 100 matches I get, I’d say I go on maybe 5 dates. So 5-10% but who knows. I’m not really average

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-01-05T21:35:40+00:00

What do you mean by "really mean it"?

Vtridolla · 2022-01-05T21:49:19+00:00

I’d say 5-7. Like days of the week.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-01-05T21:50:10+00:00

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throwawaylessons103 · 2022-01-05T21:53:38+00:00

Probably around 4-5 if he's cold approaching and not building enough rapport.

He could improve that # to around 15-20 if he works on his style and conversation skills.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-01-06T00:46:26+00:00

I'm not sure I'd want to date a guy who asked 99 other women out before getting to me. I find so many of these questions strange. Is your purpose to get just any date, or to find someone you actually are into?

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-01-06T03:19:09+00:00

I mean if it was me, then zero.

sittingstillisfun · 2022-01-06T05:43:00+00:00

Suspicious-Watch9681 · 2022-01-06T06:37:29+00:00

Maybe 1

FancyCocktailOlive · 2022-01-06T08:05:53+00:00

Hell no.

High IQ men only for me, I don’t care HOW hot he is, he will resent my intelligence if he isn’t as smart as me. I only date men whose intellects exceed mine. As a woman, having a relationship with a man, especially a marriage, means being able to trust he has good judgment. Men always end up having the final say because of misogyny and patriarchal structures within heterosexual relationships so the ONLY kind of man I could fall for has to be able to best me in a debate as well as demonstrate superior problem-solving and math skills. I won’t find that in a man whose IQ is below 135. I know 135 is not THAT high, it’s still higher than most, but at least I’m not demanding 140+, I think it’s realistic anyway.

They also have to be sexy, be great with seduction and body language, especially with eye contact.

RabbitNRaccoon · 2022-01-05T21:47:56+00:00

If it's a cold approach:

Most would say no.

Most should say no.

Who the fuck are you that I need to agree to go on a date with you without knowing a considerable amount about you?

People go straight to dating. And I find that weird. In the past, you had whole communities of upstanding people to vouch for you and your character because they knew you your whole life.

But in the modern world, those references don't exist as much. They are looser. So, you have to do your own research on the front end first.

If I dont know you well enough already, I will not go on a date with you. Even if you seem normal. Even if you're technically attractive.

I would never ask a man to waste his time on me just because I existed and I liked him.

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livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-01-05T21:47:55+00:00

10 or so as long as he’s asking average woman as well

Just-Seaworthiness39 · 2022-01-05T21:38:11+00:00

Shycel · 2022-01-05T21:44:46+00:00

10 women at least

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-01-06T00:24:33+00:00

nikki1810 · 2022-01-06T20:49:33+00:00

Depends where he asks. If its a pub, then probably like 80, if your just walking up to any woman on the street, probably not bc they're sober and got places to be.

fdslied2U · 2022-01-07T04:32:03+00:00

On average? Zero

Title	If an average man asks 100 women out on a date, how many of those women would say "yes" (and mean it)?
Author	Antonija_Blagorodna
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Comments	145
Date	January 5, 2022 8:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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