A guy brought up porn half a minute after matching

HexyHag · 2022-02-01T14:43:16+00:00

He wanted to be sure from the start that he's talking to a cool girl 😐

aneverconfusedbeing · 2022-02-01T14:36:37+00:00

Once I matched with a man and he immediately told me which pornstar he thought I resembled. She didn’t even look like me at all.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-02-01T13:58:05+00:00

I mean, I’m not even surprised🤷🏼‍♀️ Gross.

nolongerhume · 2022-02-01T15:45:30+00:00

I remember a time when I was younger when the guy who would openly talk about porn was regarded as a weirdo and inappropriate. No one wanted to be that guy, even if they did watch porn themselves, because all the other girls thought he was a freak. I hate how normalized it has become.

shelballama · 2022-02-01T16:08:14+00:00

Honestly at least this was the fastest weed-out you could have gotten, he wasted almost 0 of your time.

It's weird that it's a personality trait or a point of pride for them, now. That's not something you opened with 40 years ago, or even 10 years ago

AceTabby00 · 2022-02-01T14:40:40+00:00

It's so incredibly frustrating how normalized porn has become.

Like, you're the weirdo if you're against it.

What??

katiekat0214 · 2022-02-01T14:27:08+00:00

Congrats, the trash just took itself out. Unmatch, delete, forget, get on with your day scrote-free.

Zitrone77 · 2022-02-01T16:36:01+00:00

So he essentially told you that he jerks off when he’s anxious. Forget the porn part. Who the fuck does that within 30 seconds of meeting someone?

Caedere01 · 2022-02-01T13:53:01+00:00

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Kimpractical · 2022-02-01T15:45:30+00:00

Ew he’s gross and I’m glad he showed you who he was right away. But don’t ever tell them that you get anxious, or have any sort of past trauma. They will use those things against you if they can, that is how they spot out potential victims for their abuse. A high value women is always stoic and composed, even if you don’t always feel that way, they have to think that you do

DieMadwithScrotacity · 2022-02-01T14:16:50+00:00

He was clearly expecting you to be like "omg me too! What are your favourite videos?" 🙄 At least he told on himself in the 2nd message!

DaisyDooDrops · 2022-02-01T17:35:50+00:00

I matched with someone on OLD a few months ago and asked what his favorite movie was, as he mentioned movies in his bio. His FIRST response to this was to send me a pornhub LINK. These men have no shame.

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-02-01T21:22:03+00:00

These pigs don't see it as depraved. He probably sees it as a really smooth line to use on women and I'd bet he says the same thing to hundreds of other women. It's not really a neg even - he compliments you om something that appears sincere then in the next sentence segues into sex talk.

dr_mcstuffins · 2022-02-01T15:50:39+00:00

Men learn violence against women from porn more than anywhere else, even their fathers. 80% of porn is violent.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-02-01T16:23:57+00:00

And did you block him?

janeaustenfan99 · 2022-02-01T18:27:01+00:00

That was on purpose to weed out women looking for more than sex

GeorgiaPeach_94 · 2022-02-01T16:14:36+00:00

I also wouldn't reveal any vulnerable information such as anxiety when talking to a stranger. It's like blood in a water to predators who might think you're an easy prey to manipulate that has willingly volunteered her weak spot.

PinkestMango · 2022-02-01T15:46:29+00:00

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jijitsu-princess · 2022-02-02T14:14:59+00:00

I had a dude tell me I have the same body type he searches for on porn websites.

smart-tart23 · 2022-02-01T17:25:56+00:00

Isn’t that the worst part - it’s not even surprising…

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Title	A guy brought up porn half a minute after matching
Author	Caedere01
Upvotes	1227
Comments	62
Date	February 1, 2022 1:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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