some say men are having less sex than ever some say the same others say way more than ever so whose right?

OhDestinyAltMine · 2022-10-20T22:51:17+00:00

Some men are having less sex, a few men are having insanely more sex. Many men having the same depressingly low amount of sex as human history has always offered. Women are having more sex with the men who have more sex, so women think men are sex drenched playboys asserting their privileges… bc those are the guys they are having sex with. And my sources are just thought, not bothering with research for someone with your spelling or warning that you’ll disregard sources.

Btw i am also okay with all of the above btw. Just calling it like i see it.

matt_woj83 · 2022-10-20T22:41:26+00:00

Some people make lots of money, some people make ok money, some people are unemployed.

It all depends who you ask…..

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-10-20T23:49:47+00:00

I think what happened was a “rich got richer, poor got poorer” scenario. If you were average (or are average) you are probably going to be in the average range 4-8 people. It’s just: the dry spells/not dating times are longer now and it got harder to meet new people (hello: covid). But of course, if you were really hot/or really charming/good looking/super social. Things got a lot easier OLD is more convenient, planing events and setting up pop up events is easy, building a social network that transitions to real world makes people seeking fun and exciting find you.

But if you were on the lower end/the struggling end. It got harder. not only does OLD not work for you: it shows you a bunch of people that are doing just fine at it. Video games and social media allowed you to stay shut in instead of forcing yourself to go out cause you were bored. People out and about are in their phones so unless there’s something that might connect you the chances of them noticing you in public are harder.

So, just from what I can tell. The ones who struggle have it harder. But the really successful are doing great. And posting it to Social media where the struggling dudes go “I’m missing out!” And the average are doing pretty much the same and not being noticed by either, as usual.

blockboii190 · 2022-10-21T05:18:36+00:00

There’s a sort of “sexual inequality” among men, although not as steep as some red pill men think. Some men get a lot more sex than others, and the difference is more pronounce among men.

Regarding sources, they’re very hard to come by. I’d argue it hasn’t really be researched because the hypothesis is somewhat in line with incel doctrine. Here’s some tinder data, it’s unreliable but it’s the most I can find in the subject (hopefully medium is credible)

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

Anonon_990 · 2022-10-21T00:45:32+00:00

Young men are having less sex now than 50 years ago and the decline in the amount of men having sex has been steeper than the decline of the amount of women having sex.

Source: https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/f98ed501-d075-4b3a-abca-7e46bd8904cf

The General Social Survey, which interviews thousands of people and has been conducted since 1972, revealed that 23% of adults said they hadn’t had sex in the past year - doubling in the past 10 years - and that “a much larger than expected” number of them were men.

The survey shows that the share of men under 30 who said they hadn’t had sex in the past year has tripled since 2008 to 28% - much higher than the 8% increase among women in the same age range.

SnooConfections1896 · 2022-10-21T00:15:49+00:00

We gave up because everyone is crazy

2022-10-21T11:36:21+00:00

Everyone is having less sex, because we socialise less in general nowadays. Men are just more upset about this development than women.

SeliciousSedicious · 2022-10-21T01:10:54+00:00

Statistics supports the ‘less men having sex than ever before’ camp. So on a purely factual basis, that.

at--at-- · 2022-10-21T03:40:42+00:00

Majority of men having a lot of bad luck with sex and dating is not a new phenomenon.

monkymonkk · 2022-10-20T23:13:45+00:00

It’s entitled and creepy when men imply that women are basically responsible for the feelings and behaviors of sexless men.

I’ve seen dudes on here say that women are the reason we will have more mass shootings and tragedies—because women won’t sleep with these loser sexless men lmaooooooo

CradlingBrokenGlass · 2022-10-21T11:39:49+00:00

False premises. No one is saying women need to give up pity sex. Most lower tier men just want acknowledgement that the top 10% of men and the top 50% of women have a far easier time getting sexual attention.

Such_Substance_320 · 2022-10-21T00:13:52+00:00

Just ask the married guys. Best contraception known to man is a wedding ring

Sufficient_Garbage_1 · 2022-10-21T00:37:44+00:00

If you think about the men that lived in the closet and didn't have sex with their wife more than minimum, compared to now, the stigma towards gay men and sex has lowered. It might have increased mens sex life?

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-10-21T02:08:47+00:00

Men will say they’ve “only” had sex with 20 people and count that as practically being a virgin. And other men really are virgins.

AshookaNaga · 2022-10-20T23:04:00+00:00

Why does it matter? Shouldn’t sex be solely the issue of the individual?

Who cares what a billion of other people are doing if only your experience matters? This isn’t even “the majority of men are burning down cities”.

Men not having sex, despite what many men say, isn’t particularly important.

How would your life change if suddenly more men were having sex than in history? Is any part of your personal life going to be different?

And for you pillers that lean right (pretty much all) isn’t the dream that people are not having that horrible evil sex and women all remain chaste virgins?

spinky_bum9451 · 2022-10-20T23:05:15+00:00

FEMA sex camps

Puzzleheaded-Sort812 · 2022-10-21T00:35:48+00:00

who's not whose as in who is

catniagara · 2022-10-21T01:55:50+00:00

Men are having more casual sex and are the most unfeeling and uncaring they have ever been. Kinda gross not gonna lie.

Men are taking off on their family responsibilities more than ever.

Can we even call these men at this point?

More like self centred irresponsible, angry children.

And it’s cite your sources. As in citation.

Women are intelligently choosing to remain single in a North American society that hasn’t seen a grown ass male in at least 30 years. Good idea. We don’t need another generation of this.

Anonon_990 · 2022-10-20T22:50:29+00:00

some people seem to being implying woman need to give up sex to make men happy

You have zero idea how thirsty women actually are.

To be fair, Reddit skews young.

Separate-Driver-9149 · 2022-10-21T00:42:55+00:00

Alpha slays beta pays.

These are the basics that a guy needs to have in order to be successful in the current dating market A guy who earns a high income. A guy who is able to take care of himself. A guy who has the ability to hold a conversation. A guy who looks good but if he doesn't have looks he should always be on top of his game.

Many guys are lost because of various reasons. So yes if a guy doesn't have this and still getting laid congrats to that Chad or Tyrone or Ray-Ray or maybe a pookie so these days they get most of the action with minimum effort because he has the ability to attract women.

Jared35 · 2022-10-21T00:40:07+00:00

You can put me on the not had any category. And my source is irl experience.

Worldly_Piano9526 · 2022-10-21T11:36:05+00:00

some people seem to being implying woman need to give up sex to make men happy and that is super creepy

I imagine that does sound creepy to someone who could have a gangbang going tonight if she wanted to but most men do not have that luxury.

The definition of rape was changed to exclude "forced to penetrate" and demonize men while women are almost equally likely to rape when you include "forced to penetrate" as part of the definition.

All we are asking is that next time the gender who, for decades, has been metooing and demonizing us for the same shit that they have been doing, with the same frequency, while hiding it, in spite of being able to get railed by 10 dudes on any given night, gets an idea to hold one of us down and fuck him; how about choosing the 40 year old incel about to "an hero" instead of a random 10 year old kid or Chad Thundercock.

Personally, the fact that you guys have so much privilege already and just keep demanding more and more control over our minds and bodies while shaming men for wanting a little bit of sympathy and maybe the occasional pity fuck is what I find "creepy". A very hearty "fuck you" to any sex privileged woman, sitting on her cock throne, thinking desperate men just trying to get laid is "creepy".

beleidigtewurst · 2022-10-21T19:58:40+00:00

WTF does "some say" even mean?

There are studies and sex is indeed in decline and on MANY levels.

The reason is beyond obvious: men want it more, women wanted it less, rampant gynocentrism => f*ck men. So, for starters, couples have less sex.

Then there are figures about "people of age A, that have never had sex" => that figure is also on the rise.

fayaz_mogra8 · 2022-10-23T09:45:39+00:00

The fact you don’t know that women in society and feminism and dating apps have meant women are super picky and men respect them even less is just therefore confusing.

Enough statistics out there. I’m sure you can Google it. Majority of men that is. Older guys like me are more successful because of income, a bit of status, looks but a normal guy no chance.

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ElectricBugs · 2022-10-21T03:08:38+00:00

So if you are single you will be likely to have less sex than attached men. So if you are long term attached you are less likely to have as much sex as newly attached men or men who are in and out of relationships. Men who are newly attached are more likely to be having the most sex. Based on the inferences of readin about sex lives of all men.

The reality is that 2-3 times a year when single as a man might actually be good statistically. But I am not sure if there have been enough studies on it to find that out.

IhaveLostCount · 2022-10-21T09:49:26+00:00

I can’t cite the research exactly but I’ve heard the same general concept be asserted by multiple people from different political backgrounds who regularly speak about this. Apparently the breakdown is more or less,
-bottom 50-60% of sex-having men have a slightly to significantly less total amount of sex partners than in the past.
Middle 30-40% of “male sex havers” are around the same amount of partners as before.
Top 1-2% is having 20-30% more partners since 2008.
And that the amount of men reporting no sex and being virgins has gone up, so that means the above numbers represent an even smaller total amount of human males than they read as percentages of who has sex.
Terribly sorry I can’t actually cite it so I don’t blame you for not fully believing it, I don’t even know if it’s accurate or had good methods of collecting the data, but as far as actual statistical breakdowns go that’s what I’ve heard. Sure beats the eternal and not very thorough talks about 80/20 and the 25 different ways of interpreting it. That always came off as too general and thus easy to just dismiss outright.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2022-10-21T11:32:24+00:00

as marriage declines, sex declines there was never a time the average man was havkng loads of casual sex.j

Difficult_Yak3793 · 2022-10-22T04:58:35+00:00

Top tier men have all the sex The rest 70% are strugglin Straight forward answer

Title	some say men are having less sex than ever some say the same others say way more than ever so whose right?
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